This is true but it is easier said than done.................
Friday, September 25, 2020
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Yes oooo
ReplyDeleteOnly the best is good enough for me....
Truly, but who do u want to leave your children with?
DeleteShe can say that now that her kids are all grown. Person wey dey live for abroad go no say e no easy to take care of kids plus juggling work etc.
DeleteMay God bless all mother's.
Love yourself
ReplyDeletebelieve in yourself
Give YOURSELF a treat
value YOURSELF
Self, self, self, self
SELFISH!
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Why not include also "marry yourself?"
You were too dumb to read everything she wrote bah?! So what if she marries herself? Omoni Oboli has grown children and a happy marriage.
Delete@Saphire
DeleteDid anyone say she has no "happy marriage?"
Self, self, self is the textbook definition of selfishness.
Madam read everything she wrote. Sometimes we mothers and wives forget to take care of ourselves. She is saying while you are taking care of everybody, don't forget yourself. Once in a while take out time like Stella does and go out and treat yourself, let your husband and children cook for you once a while, save up a bit of money and buy yourself something that makes you happy. It's that too difficult to understand? Don't forget that you can't love or give to another properly until you have loved and given yourself enough. In giving, take also. It makes life beautiful.
Delete@Saphire
DeleteYou are still chanting "self, self, selfish"
Shouldn't the husband of a woman who is "happily married"
do these things (cook, buy gifts and so on) without being reminded of them?
You see how you are failing in your advocacy for selfishness?
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Oh! Somebody help me. I give up on you.
DeleteGive up o. This one cannot be saved. Plus she’s obvs battling something at the moment.
DeleteMany women are already doing this, some don't work at all while others work genuinely hard.
ReplyDeleteThe twist is, not all women can afford the luxuries of life. Not all women can afford to give themselves a treat anytime they want or like.
Not all women have pay masters
Some women have chosen not to turn their clitoris into clitocurrency.
Lmao @ clitoris to clitocurrency 😂😂
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Deletelol@ clitocurrency. my own is
Deleteif you have money,give yourself
comfort,#yolo# but if you dont have
no need to kill yourself, or
disturb yourself since you can't
afford to go to spa etc.
So a woman can only be successful enough to give herself nice things if she has "pay masters" and sell their bodies? Ms.A did you really write this?
DeleteWomen should make themselves happy.
ReplyDeleteVery true word but how possible is it for most African women that tend to do all the house chores plus the full care of children? She tends to forget that not all men may be as cooperative as her husband to help with the upkeep of the house. These days it's different because the women become full-time maids caring for kids full-time and working at the same time to make ends meet. The men on the other hand watch while the women serve their food both breakfast, lunch and dinner, wash dishes,tend to the children, clean the house etc. So now tell me how possible is it for a typical African woman that has no assistance from her husband to now take time out to go on vacations, pamper herself etc? This is near impossible please. I believe other women can attest to this fact......@@@moi moi😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😑
ReplyDeleteYour family won't go into extinction because you took 3hours to get a massage at an affordable spa once every 2months or took a leisurely walk down a beach, drink coconut water and watch the waves.
DeleteEasy said than done Sapphire, work wey you go still come back home meet. I do go for massage from time to time but I make sure I do all my chores but the thing is you still come back home to work nah.
DeleteSo I usually prefer when we are away on holiday cos I know I won't be cooking or doing dishes for an entire week. I enjoy swimming, so I go into the pool once a week for at least an hour, it's my form of relaxation, no phones or anyone disturbing mey very sacred time.
True, I see so many mothers around worn out and I wonder if they will ever know enjoyment is. Mothers,inasmuch as things are hard, learn to relax and take things easy, we only live once.
ReplyDeleteMy own is I have been treating myself with a wrap of Shawama these days .... And the treat be dey give me joy
ReplyDeleteLol Enjoy the fat that is about to surface
Delete@Shea don off me.🤣 Ok madam, enough of the shawarma, find something else that is not food that makes you happy and indulge in.
DeleteWho wouldn't want such? When bills are dealing with you, you have no choice than to work harder.
ReplyDeleteAll she is saying is whether rich or poor no matter what you make treat yourself once in a while to your own pocket. Problem no dey finish.
ReplyDeleteI want that, but better soup na money kill am.
ReplyDeleteThere's no big deal in what she's trying to make us understand. Me I never go for spa before in my life o😁, so you mustn't go to spa or vacation in obodo oyinbo first before you can achieve a good relaxing atmosphere. There are other affordable ways to achieve that, you can even make it a family affair by going on beach outings, hanging out with friends, lone time with hubby, anyhow your hand reach, but sha, take some time out to rest.
ReplyDeleteExercise 😘
ReplyDeleteI absolutely understand what she is trying to say.
ReplyDeleteWhile you are taking care of everyone, take care of yourself, take a break, rest and look after yourself.
Taking out time to rest doesn't necessarily mean a vacation abroad, you could go to the gym, you could even go to the hospital to have a medical check up, take a stroll out, go for a massage, take a nap, just do what works for you and look after yourself.
You don't have to go to the spa or on vacation to enjoy or indulge yourself. It could be taking maltina and meatpie, buying that dress or bag , watching that movie, treating yourself at an eatery , having that manicure and pedicure, doing that hairstyle you have been admiring on others etc. All you have to do is cut your coat according to your size. I believe that's what she's trying to say. Really as a wife and mother we make a lot of sacrifices and having a good time according to your level is not bad but please note,do it wisely.
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