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Sunday, September 06, 2020

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE

SHATTERED HEART


Good day to you Stella and other bvs


I’m at the lowest point in my life right now and as much as I try not to think about,I cannot stop.


I am 27 and right now but I started dating my ex some time last year and when I found out he had issues being faithful,I called it quits towards the end of last year.But I started noticing that around the time of my period I was having tiny bumps that turn to blisters and then become painful,then I thought it was my pad giving me issues so I changed it a couple of times.


After I left my ex I went for an std test but there was nothing,so when this started I didn’t really think much about it as I wasn’t even in any s#xual relationship after then.

Fast forward to two months ago,I had another episode and then I decided to go to the hospital to get it checked,only for me to be told it’s herpes,Stella I died.


 I was advised to do hpv and hiv tests which later came out negative but my heart is still shattered knowing I’m going to live with it for the rest of my life.


I know I’m going to be bashed for having unprotected s#x or s#x before marriage but he had hiv tests done and I never thought of herpes. 

The thought that no man will ever want to marry me or date me knowing this condition depresses me.I feel like my whole world has crumbled,I cry myself to bed these days.Is there anyone who has this condition and has advice to give me?




*So the idiot is going around with HIV free test but distributing herpes?OMG!
My dear,your life has not ended because you have herpes........
Chei i dont know what to say about living with Herpes,so let me let those who have experienced it first hand advice you....

Take heart my dear!

68 comments:

  1. Sorry, is all I can say.

    The thought of having sex is so scary these days...you might just end up with one yamayama or lucky to end up scot free.

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  2. Poster never give up because God is still on the throne. Hold onto him and all will be well.

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  3. I have experienced it over 10 years ago and I use to get flare ups after I had it treated but now the Egyptians I saw I see them no more for over 5 years now.

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    1. What did you do? Help the poster.

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    2. I have been celibate for 7 years that helped

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    3. Plz contact stella so this Poster can get in touch with you.

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  4. ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
    Poster, Jesus Christ heals and heals wholly - spirit, soul and body.
    First confess Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour, ask him to come into your heart, be your Lord and Saviour.

    Romans 10 vs8-10
    8But what does it say? “The word is near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart,”d that is, the word of faith we are proclaiming: 9that if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. 10For with your heart you believe and are justified, and with your mouth you confess and are saved.

    1 Pet 2v24

    "He himself bore our sins" in his body on the cross, so that we might die to sins and live for righteousness; "by his wounds you have been healed."

    Live for Christ from this day onwards.

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  5. Nothing beats sexual purity and abstinence,take it to JESUS,though it won't disappear overnight o,you need total repentance and rededication of your life to God to get freed from it,sorry

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  6. Its well with you..There is nothing God can't do..Draw close to God and He will do likewise.. It pays to be celibate before marriage if you can.. Sex no be food neither is it money..

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  7. A lot of these men are walking bags of STDs. Ladies if you cant hold body plz always insist on Condom. EVERYTIME! Very important o.

    Poster sorry. Dry your tears. It's not the end of the world. Ask your doctor more questions and how you can manage it. It is well with you.

    Ladies lastly do not forget this Posters ex is somewhere now, with another unsuspecting girl still distributing this herpes. Keep you eyes opened o and be safe

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    1. @Bini: Your last paragraph should be echoed everywhere ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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    2. Condom cannot prevent herpes.

      Abstinence is very possible with the help of the Holy Spirit.
      Even people who aren’t christians are going that route now, with some success.
      The devil will push one of his children to come and yimu this comment now or outrightly disparage it.
      I don talk my own.

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    3. Condom does not prevent herpes and warts.
      Ladies if you can hold body please do.
      To avoid stories like this and blocked tubes.

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    4. Condoms cannot protect you from herpes, hepatitis,etc.
      Do you have any idea how many sexual disease that can be transmitted from kissing & cuninglingus?
      Abstinence is key!!
      Chizzy j

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    5. Condom doesn't do sh*t. Celibacy and abstinence is the solution.

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    6. Abstinence is key for single people.
      For those married, please ensure you're faithful to your spouse and vice versa.
      If your spouse is unfaithful and you're still in the marriage, I feel sorry for you o. Unfaithfulness can result in death, not just DV.

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  8. ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ณ This is sad and i can imagine what you are going through.I pray that God makes a way for you IJN

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  9. Sweetie it's not true. Dry your tears, you've passed the first step of change which is acceptance. You've accepted your faults and learnt from your mistakes (though costly) but it doesn't mean no man will ever want you.
    Just remain open about it. HIV patients get married everyday sometimes to negative partners(not hearsay), even AS marry each other(though not advisable).
    Bottom line is it may be difficult at first but someone will definitely come for you if it's destined to be.
    Destiny is tricky, remember this.

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  10. I will not bash any of you here.
    You already has enough in your plates that you put there by yourself.
    There is no need to stay "shattered."
    Yes, you made mistakes but Jesus arms
    are still spread to receive you, save
    you and work a better life out for you. The condition is to love him.

    When I say what God said, flee sexual immorality, flee fornication... it is for your own good. God did not make those laws to spite us.
    We do not do favor to God when we keep our lives chaste.
    When we give our lives to Jesus and begin to
    obey his teachings, we do not do him
    any favor. We do our lives the favors
    and save ourselves from a lot of sorrows.
    It is lovely to think about this life
    -how "no man will want to marry me and so on" but do we for once think about
    eternity (how our such lifestyle will not get us to heaven, the abode of God?)

    I am the one that get the bashing, thorough bashing here whenever I mention "flee forni..." I don't get
    to complete the sentence most times
    before the bees unleash.
    Please get that bible app on your phone
    and read the words of Jesus in the New Testament. There is still hope for you.
    ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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    1. "You already *have* enough *on* your plates... " @ANG

      ANG your words have become more gracious. Love conquers all! Keep it up. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’ž

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    2. ANG I forgot to add that you made a very important point. ๐Ÿ‘@ "It is lovely to think about this life
      -how "no man will want to marry me and so on" but do we for once think about
      eternity (how our such lifestyle will not get us to heaven, the abode of God?)".

      LET'S THINK OF ETERNITY FIRST BEFORE WE ACT!

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    3. @16:48
      Ironically, the people I "bash" are those that chant "Jesus, Jesus"
      and commit atrocities. Those are the Pharisees and Sadducee.
      This lady did not tell us her spiritual identity. But even if she was
      a Christian, she is being chastised already by what she is passing through
      . For the way of a transgressor is hard; Prov. 13:15
      All she needs to to is to return to her Savior.
      ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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    4. people bash you here because you are judgemental. you are not the o nly one who tells people to flee fornication

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  11. Poster pls dnt beat urself up,na love u love u no kill person.And u knw love can hurt you in so many ways disappoint u and love can make you even cry.

    Many atimes love sef dey wound u, ( body,mind soul ). Just live d remaining part of ur life in God u will see him do d unimaginable for u.

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  12. Someone please answer. Poster said she slept with the ex last year. Does it mean it takes almost a year for the herpes to show in a woman's body.

    Poster please calm down. There is nothing without solution. Its not the end of life.

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  13. The problem with premarital sex is that , it is like a chain reaction. If both of you break up, you move to other partners and it spreads.

    Get to the hospital and treat yourself or better put, have them manage it. Be sincere and abstain from premarital sex henceforth.
    When you get into another relationship,
    tell the person the truth, which this
    guy probably did not tell you.
    In Christ, the person that will love you will
    do so. You know why? In spite of our inconsistencies and being infected with sin -the greatest disease, he loved us.

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    1. Your first paragraph is true. It is a unending circle for those involved. Now the guy is somewhere spreading it. Nawa

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  14. Have we noticed how many people have come up with STD chronicles?
    Please keep having sex. Do not stop
    fornication. Just keep on and on.
    ๐Ÿงน๐Ÿงน๐Ÿงน๐Ÿงน๐Ÿงน๐Ÿงน๐Ÿงน

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  15. Stella, there is no need calling the man an "idiot"
    We can't barb his head in absentia.
    Tell the girls, the ones who come here, to abstain
    from opening legs for these men. They aren't loyal.
    ๐Ÿ‘จ‍๐Ÿฆฒ๐Ÿ‘จ‍๐Ÿฆฒ๐Ÿ‘จ‍๐Ÿฆฒ๐Ÿ‘จ‍๐Ÿฆฒ๐Ÿ‘จ‍๐Ÿฆฒ๐Ÿ‘จ‍๐Ÿฆฒ

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    1. The guy is not aware or cares about whatever Stella or a BV calls him. He has moved on since last year.

      Let's thank God that the herpes is not a contagious killer like covid-19

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    2. @Nero
      It is a "contagious punisher"
      It can drain someone for her entire
      life. But I know that Jesus can heal
      any disease.

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  16. People that are blaming her for fornicating should please note that being married does not stop you from catching sexually transmitted disease .
    If you are lucky & you end up with the kind of a "husband" like my dad with wandering dick that brought every sexually transmitted disease home,from syphilis, gonorrhea, std, hepatitis, e remain small thing for him to bring hiv home.
    But, God decided to give my mum "peace of mind" by giving him erectile dysfunction. His thing stopped standing & he doesn't follow women up and down again๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜.
    Kai, the amount of money that he spent on medical bills is enough to build a one storey building in Lagos๐Ÿ˜ƒ, still gat love for him though.
    Dear poster, I am sorry that this happened to you, nobody deserves this kind of emotional hurt.
    What happened has happened, you can choose to re-write the narrative by taking care of yourself & working on being a better version of yourself.
    I have a friend that has 4 children & she is Hiv positive, please don't write yourself off that it is over for you.
    Xoxo.

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    1. If she catches it In marriage even though she doesn't fornicate as a single girl it only means one person between the both of them is still fornicating ba?

      That is why everyone is always advised to flee fornication irrespective of their gender.

      One of those girls got it from somewhere and gave it to your dad and your dad will also have given all those std to a lot of girls who were fornicating with a married man whoile the same girls would have given their boyfriends who would also give their side chicks and the list goes on. Sexual immortality at the end of the day is still the problem. Sexual purity before and after marriage is key biko.

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    2. Am going anonymous.i was married,I was very faithful to the core and my husband brought it to me from abroad.i was shattered and even when they did all test for me they said nothing was seen.The idiot said it was my imagination.i have blisters even all over my body when it comes.Guess what?The idiot still left me.My story...sometimes I wonder how people that sleep around dont catch anything but me that kept myself despite all.my own initial infection was soo bad that I l got pregnant and lost it and I developed ashermansyndrome.i wanted to die but tot of my family that loves me.its been seven years now but I have stopped crying.its still hard for me.i love babies but can't carry them anymore.cant really hug my cute nephew and nieces but they dont know why.Am still thanking God for life because only him knows.

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  17. This your post is making me feel really bad. When people brandish pre-marital sex like the new wokeness it creeps me out. I wonder why they are trying to fool others knowing full well what they go through after every sexual encounter. It's more like a case of a man entrapped in a pit not wanting to go down alone but would rather drag others with him to have a taste of his woes. The anxiety, restlessness, regular popping of hormonal pills, fear and after effect of heartbreaks,( let's be honest most heartbreaks hurts, even more, when you remember the guy has slept with you. I remember the time one of the ladies I mentor came to me crying that her boyfriends of three hear dumped her, the word she spoke stuck to me and I haven't forgotten ever since. She said " There isn't any sex position we haven't done" He has seen all of me and I have aborted thrice for him". That was what made it even harder for her to move on while the guy was with a new arm candy two weeks later.
    I am not writing all of these to make you feel and but to make you and others towing that line see it isn't worth it. No matter how you pretend to be tough-sentimental and emotionless chanting"sex is a need just like food" you are human after all. One way or the other you will feel the brunt of that act. There are other disadvantages to this I won't want to touch upon but you all already know. All that I mentioned up there are just the physical consequences what about the spiritual one's which most people like to pretend doesn't exist? This is not just about premarital-sex alone so don't judge yourself too hardly even someone being faithfully married to an adulterous partner isn't safe either. ( that won't is our portion, in Jesus name, Amen.) The truth is, Everyone just needs to be faithful and face their partner squarely. Give their lives solely to Christ and stop flaunting sin. God telling us to avoid sin is simply for our own benefit.

    First, take a deep breath and try not to be too hard on yourself. It has happened already so the next step is for you to please not waste time and visit the clinic. Do not be scared that no one will want you. People with HIV are getting married and finding love. Yours will come but make sure you are open and honest with whoever comes next. If you have recurrent outbreaks then you can get suppressive therapy with time. You will be fine ❤

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    1. Three years*
      Not to make you feel bad*
      (That won't be our portion in Jesus name, Amen)*
      Sorry for the typos.

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    2. Nice one Sabella, you would make a good mother someday..
      Unlike those ones that are making the situation worst with their acidic words & judgements.
      They would probably be those kind of parents that their kids would rather confide in their friends when they are in trouble because they know that their parents have A+ in escalating a bad situation with their judge Judy lifestyle.
      Awon strict parents, please note that strict parents creates "sneaky kids".
      Chizzy j.

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    3. God bless You, Sabella. i love reading your comments. Premaritalsex is never worth the stress it carries. Even People doing it they know but act defensive. i just hope this will be a turning point for the poster to turn to Christ.

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  18. This is why I have been asking my boyfriend that we need to go for a medical test before any kissing happens because I really do not have money for medical treatments. Some guys sleep with anything and everything, can't shout mehn.

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    1. You better be careful even after the test and you see he is okay what if he backslide and he mistakenlyy goes to kiss a lady who is asymptomatic and use the same mouth on you to give or*l. Abeg oo May God no shame us.

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  19. This has been added to the list of compulsory tests to be done.

    Be consoled poster and take it to God in prayer.

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  20. Man! Having uncommitted Sex is so risky these days and this is because everyone is ready to have sex with everyone at the drop of a hat.
    I’m sorry you’re going through this, but all hope is not lost.
    1. You can get medical therapy such that you won’t have frequent flare ups. You need to find a doctor for this. If you don’t get flare up then you reduce the chances of infecting your sexual partners.
    2. I don’t see it standing in the way of you getting married. Just be open with whoever won’t end to go long term with. I didn’t say it should be the first thing you tell him oh!

    Dear ladies and gentlemen, For your own protection, it’s best to abstain from sex till you’re in a committed relationship at least. Best if you request full STD screen from your partner HIV, Syphillis, herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia (add HPV if you will but lots of people have hpv anyway)

    For those who cannot hold body, request full std screen and use condoms. Unfortunately condoms do not 100% protect against stuff like herpes

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  21. Poster please stop beating your self,get to the hospital and let your Doctor educate you on how to manage it and also give your life to the one and only person that has the spare pass of everyone's body.

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  22. Poster, go to God in prayer, ask for mercy...get into a relationship with anyone ready, don't engage in premarital sex anymore, so as to curtail the spread of the illness. When you get married, make sure to opt for CS so as not to transmit any infection to your children... But don't tell anyone that you have Herpes

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  23. Poster doh, its quite sad you were in a supposedly exclusive relationship and had sex not unusual, I dont know what all these judginas are saying but God loves us inspite of our shortcoming. It is well, just think of the way forward, I had a herpes scare once when i made out with a guy and the next day i had a sore in my mouth i spent 10,000 in a private hospital just for consultation another 10,000 on test and found out it was nothing. It was a wakeup call for me to not trust any guy until I have studied him well enough and my instincts give me the go ahead.

    Poster you may cry and ask why me God? There are many who have done worse and have not had to deal with this. But the truth is that life no balance.

    But you need to pick yourself up and move, do your research, find out what you can do to reduce outbreaks both medical and natural remedies then personal care as well. Its just extra work but you have to embrace the fact that this is your knew reality and do all you can to make things better. Crying and feeling depressed will weaken your immune system and strengthen the virus which could trigger more frequent outbreaks.

    If you have a good job in Nigeria fine, if not start considering relocating outside where the condition can be better managed.

    Depending on how expressive you are, you can even start a blog to detail your journey with the herpes and how you manage it. you will be suprised how many people will find the information useful. better still you can join a community online with people who have this virus, you will learn more on how to cope with it.

    I believe in miracles but i also believe in making up your mind to survive, so that if the miracle does not come in the way you want it, you will not be shattered. See this as a blessing not as a life sentence. Fall in love with yourself again, it is not easy but take it one step at a time, when you relapse pick yourself up again. You will see how you will be so contented that you would not even need the validation of a man. The right person sometimes comes along when we least expect but nobody wants a broken person, no one wants extra baggage. When you love yourself enough he will love you for everything that you are.

    Be strong darling. Hugs.

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  24. It's really painful that you had to learn the hard way, and this is one of my point of fear, before indulging in this new age "wokeness"

    God can turn any story around because, He does the impossible.

    Get medical advice and above all, turn to God ,and seek His kingdom and His righteousness, in spirit and in truth, all the other things shall be added unto you. That is His promise.
    He will help you.

    Peace✌

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  25. The thing is that you do not even need to have sex to become infected with herpes, it is one of the std that can be transmitted with just skin to skin contact.

    Take it off your mind and just take your medication, eat healthy and exercise. Some ppl only ever get an outbreak once, others go even decades between outbreaks. Maintain good mental health as stress free as possible. Stress is often a trigger for an outbreak.

    Please confront him and demand he pay for your tests and medications. There is no reason he should get off Scott free.

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    1. Please guys stop spreading wrong information. Skin to skin contact does not mean just hand shake.

      Yes it can be gotten by skin to skin contact like

      touching.....when the
      person with a cold sore touch their sore and use the same hand to touch your genital.

      Oral sex...the person use the mouth of cold sore to give you oral.

      Kissing..the person use the most of cold sore to kiss your mouth. Even without showing the symptoms you may have it that when you give a blow*** the man would carry the herpes too from the one in your mouth to his privatee region. That is why most do not even know they have it and that is how it is passed from one person to another.

      So it is gotten from sexual activity. That it is why you shouldn't allow people kiss your baby with the same mouth they use to do..... *coughs*

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  26. She didn't get it because she was fornicating. If she had waited till wedding day, the herpes would have been waiting for her still. The reward for sexual purity is not necessarily worldly gains. There are many women who married as virgins and contracted STDs and have died. Your sexual purity award is waiting for you in heaven.
    Poster many people are living with it thank you think. Continue to date but don't hide it. When it is time, let your partner know in a calm manner. Don't pull any desperado moves. Your soul mate may have same thing with you sef.

    Now, please we need a sensitisation post on Herpes o. How do you know someone has it abeg? If you're inspecting the d**k, what should you look out for? What tests are required? I just realized that many of us due to shyness like doing the do in the dark. Please bring it out and inspect well. May God help us.

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    1. Please stop embarrassing yourself. She already said that was how she got it stop speaking for her. If she hadn't fornicated like you put it she wouldn't have had it.

      What do you mean the herpes will be waiting for her? Like the herpes will jump at her from no where ba?. without her having premarital sex. biko shhhh.

      There are always hearsays and fake stories about virgins who got married and died of stds but which one have you ever witnessed personally let us pretend you witnessed it then maybe if their men had not fornicated they would not have had it ba?. so you finally admitting it is gotten through fornication, sex or whatever ba? so nne why speaking from the both sides of your mouth.

      There are two types of herpes the cold sore which is nothing to worry about and babies can get it from kissing by adult with cold sore and the other one is the genital herpes 2 which is gotten through sex and she has it through sex after she slept with her guy she saw the signs so please stop trying to make her think fornication is cool. Cold sore is herpes 1 but not genital herpes and you get both in different ways. Genital herpes is only gotten through sex and that is what she has. If you have cold sore and give oral sex the person go hear am and have the genital herpes but if you have cold sore and kiss someone the person will only have cold sore too and not general herpes since your mouth didn't go down there.

      Nne Why are you doing the do in the dark? due to shyness? btw if you can have premarital sex have it with your chest. Why feel guilty shy and embarrassed it are you a hypocrite?...
      Leave The poster alone she is trying to turn a new leaf don't encourage her to continue In sin. Sin alone and let her be. Continue having premarital sex you hear?

      It is good to know sexual purity is not wordlt gain after all worldy gain do not last and it's temporary so poster may God guide you to do the right thing.

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    2. 21:57๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘
      Your last paragraph is apt. If sexual purity and living a holy life is mainly worldly gain, then what is the point in sexual purity and trying to live a holy since worldly gain is merely vanity?
      Thank you and God bless you.๐Ÿ™

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    3. Mumu anon 21:57. If she had waited till her wedding night to have sex with same guy or any other person, she still has a risk of getting it. For how long will you stay away from sex? When you get married won't you have sex? Will the man be healed from herpes when they get married? Do you understand my point now or you need special education aids? Celibacy will indeed save you from a lot of std headaches, but it cannot save you from being infected by a husband who did not remain celibate as you the female.
      And yes, there are many women who due to body insecurity issues prefer to have sex in the dark. Even married women. Yes, many women who married as virgins get STDs and die from it, deal with it. It is sad and should not be allowed to happen, but it happens.
      So the question now is what should women look out for? Before you get married what tests should you do? When a woman notices her husband's organ has a strange discoloration what should she do? Don't come and release your frustration here, please I am not responsible for your life. I am seeking practical solutions for women.

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    4. Ajepako unclassified, she still got It from someone who did not have sexual purity right? So sexual immorality is still the problem here no matter how you try to twist it.

      swallow the little pride you have left and stop stylishly preaching against sexual purity by shading celibate and abstinent people and throwing mocking comments like their sexual purity award is waiting for them in heaven you are making a mockery of yourself instead. The same way their AWARD is WAITING in heaven the same way your premarital sex consequences is waiting for you here on earth, So deal with that too. Your type are always quick to create a story about abstinent and celibate men and women while ignoring the truth that for every celibate/abstinent men and women who go through one or two things in their lives there are thousands more non-virgin non-celibate/abstinent men and women going through many consequences from premarital sex before and after marriage than you can imagine and that's the point so stop jumping all over the place.

      Singles and EVEN Married women TOO love having sex in the dark due to insecurity issues? Which means you were advising both SINGLE and married ladies to bring it out and check IT well, right? Encouraging sexual immorality again amongst the unmarried SINGLES and you keep wondering why a celibate man or woman may end up with someone who has herpes at the end of the day and talking about how It is a sad situation. Such hypocrisy.
      Adding married women to the mix of your message while advising the singles in fornication doesn't cover up what you were advocating for. Bye Felicia.

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    5. But Ajebo, saying fornication isn't the cause of her predicament is not entirely right at present. Who is to say if she had stay chaste she won't end up with a good man. If you believe she could have ended up with a man without godly morals and still contract Stds in marriage from him, then you should also believe there is also a higher possibility for her to end up with one who has a high godly standard. Yes, you are right to an extent that there are some virgins who ended up with bad men but there are also many with a really good man in good marriages. Not all virgins are crying, sad or dead like most are bragging it to be. True, there are always two sides to a coin but your emphasis was on the negative outcome only. Why is it like that? Why must a bad or pessimistic ending be used as an example to be drawed upon just to discount her present state. Why can't she have a positive ending? If she had closed her legs till marriage, she might never have had it at all because we don't know the kind of husband God has for her. If you believe she could have gotten a man who isn't sexually chaste then you should also believe she could also have gotten a morally upright man. Many did and it turned out well for them so why should we think hers could be different just to prove a point?

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  27. How do you know it is herps if you are HPV negative...
    Are you sure you don't have follulities, have you tried antibiotics?

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    1. Contact dermatitis or genital warts se. But she said she did a test which confirmed it is herpes

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    2. Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV) and Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) are two completely different viruses. She tested positive for herpes

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  28. Try washing affected area with little salt and warm water. Pray and decree upon the water before using, you'll be healed in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen

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  29. Hello poster I was in your shoes few years back, I noticed anytime my period was about to start u get an out break. Was advice by a pharmacist to try jobelyn supplement and have a clean diet which includes veggies and fruits, this worked to stop outbreaks and even when I was pregnant till I gave birth no outbreaks. Note I remained celibate till I met my husband and I use antiviral pills before we engage in sex. The Lord is your strength.

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    1. Please can you recommend the antiviral pills you took?
      Thank you.

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  30. I believe they should put you on a regimen of antiviral drugs...not antibiotics o! It's common to have herpetic lesions appear during menstruation, or stress. Remember those mouth sores you develop when you have malaria? It herpes too. Millions of people have it, there're two types: one that affects the genitals, and the other that affects the mouth and other parts of the body. It goes into latency( inactive) but can be brought up by stress, exercise, menses, immunocompromised states.

    Please free your mind from worrying about marriage. Eat alot of fruit and leafy green vegetables. Exercise often, stay away from tight clothing. Perhaps use a tampon or menstrual cup for your menses. Please get vaccinated for HPV after your pap smear results leaves you in the clear. Drink more water and change your underwear frequently. Visit a gynaecologist once more so this illness can be sorted out. Herpes is more common than you think and it's not the end of the world.

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    1. Please contact Stella and do a special narrative to educate blog visitors on herpes. This is one disease that I don't understand. I heard that it even leads to cancer. And sometimes you may not even see any signs of it. Is there a blood test that can be done to diagnose it? The worst I heard is that condoms cannot do much to stop the spread. If you have herpes and get pregnant does it mean your baby will have this disease permanently too?

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  31. Use stc30... it does wonders... you will thank me later

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  32. Poster, I am so sorry for what you are currently going through. Follow your doctor's advice, take your meds and eat healthy. Everything will be okay.

    On a more serious note, premarital sex doesn't pay. I wish I knew this in my younger years. Its not worth the stress of monitoring your period like a hawk, swallowing emergency pills and putting yourself at the risk of STDs. Its getting to six months without sex for me and I have rest of mind. God help me, I am staying celibate for a very long time to come.

    You will be fine poster. Hugs.

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    1. Thank You for telling her the truth. Your reward is here on earth and heaven above.
      The opposites of all the unnecessary stressors are many of the rewards.

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