STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CHEATER FEELING BAD
I am really really feeling bad.
I cheated on my Girlfriend of 4 years. We are planning on getting married when she returns to Nigeria as she's been schooling abroad.
The last time I saw her was December last year and for the first time I had s#x with another woman and I have never felt this empty my entire life. Sadly it was raw s#x and my head has been so full as I'm thinking of possible outcomes, from s#xually transmitted diseases to having a child out of wedlock.
Outside of all this I feel empty and wasted really, I've made a promise to myself I would never in my entire life cheat again, its so stressful and not worth it for me.
Please what do I do?
The girl in question took post pill after the act but I'm concerned about other things and don't really know what to do. This is the first time I've ever done this. We've both been celibate since we started dating.
I feel really bad sincerely.
*Well at it is now,what is left for you to do nah to wash blokos siddon dey wait for the outcome of your act.....You know you should go tests right?Or you wanna wait for the gonocacus or other STD to send you whatsapp message?
Na you sabi
ReplyDeleteYeye dey smell and you sound bemused
DeleteGo to the 🏥 and do the necessary test. For the raw adventure, wait for 1 month to get the verdict.
DeleteAkamu cold pap na im you be 😂😂
DeleteOga pele ooo🤣🤣
DeleteWhy you come dey shalaye?
DeleteHmmm dont wait ooo, ho to a teaching hospital, so they can place you immediately on anti retroviral medicine, in case you have been exposed to HIV. I do it's not up to a week this happened, hurry before it is too late. I think every other infection can be managed. I dont know about heroes sha but ask them for preventive measures when u get there.
DeleteStop before you collect more than you can chew
This herpes no dey fear Una?
Deletewell, for all you know, she may/ may not also be collecting preeq too. it's the mind of possibilities regarding to compromise that hold the bond(s) of long-distant relationships together. meanwhile, just answer this simple question:...how would you feel if you get to find out that she did the same thing you did?how would she feel if she finds out (one way or the other) what you did?the answers settle it!G!
DeleteEiyah. Feeling remorseful is a good thing. Men like you are rare. I pray your test results favour you. Go and sin no more.
ReplyDeletePlease don’t applaud stupidity. Men are you are rare koh didirin you should be given award, as konji hold you reach that you could not wear a condom. Now coming for a lame ass confession. Gerrarahere pls.
DeleteWell, u dunno how many ya girl is collecting over there.
ReplyDeleteThe feeling of guilt will pass, relax.
That's another angle 🤣
DeleteThis life no balance sha...
It pays to do the right thing. Pls dont join the bandwagon of cheaters. You are not and shouldn't be
ReplyDeleteHihihihihehehehehehe, Stella's response got me laughing o. Wetin I want talk again sef? Follow her advice, above all, forgive yourself and ask God for forgiveness. You will be fine. Go and sin no more...
ReplyDeleteNice to know that you and your girlfriend have been celibate since
ReplyDeleteyou began dating.
Free yourself of guilt and confess to
her and above all, ask God for forgiveness and tell Jesus to
come into your life.
That's the beginning of a new life.
This is what we've been preaching here
against sexual immorality, it is now worth it. I endure every attack to get
that message across. And most times,
I'm accused of preaching only one message.
Please, any sex with a person you are not married to (bride price paid), even if it is a girlfriend or boyfriend,
is fornication and that puts you at
variance with God whose temple you
are desecrating.
Repent and stop the sin and hurt not your soul, here and in eternity.
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Confess fire
DeletePoster don't mind this person oooo
Don't confess anything
Am a woman
Many of us can not handle true confess oooo😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲
Don't try it
Ur remorseful feeling is OK dear
Go and sin no more
Go for test oooo
Good lucky to u
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Oh ANG! Why can't you always be like this?
DeleteGiving hope and loving. Just like Christ.
@15:55
DeleteI wish you exactly what you wish another woman;
that perhaps your boyfriend/fiance cheats and not
confess and end up infecting you or transferring spirits
into you.
"Good fortune"
I like your advice! But does he have to confess to the girlfriend?
Delete@Light
DeleteIf your boyfriend or fiance commits fornication (not a wish please)😘,
will you like him to keep it a secret?
Kindly inform us.
Most times, humans look at the "imaginary outcomes of a confession,"
instead of the peace and eternal peace it brings. 😘😘😘😘
No need to confess bro,you are not already married to her.
DeleteJust take other advice ANG gave except the confessing part.Also go for tests ok.
So did you chase the new girl, did you tell the new girl that you ve a girlfriend.
ReplyDeleteVery important question
DeleteLol of course he chased the new girl & gave her hope that they are in a relationship..
DeleteThe girl would be thinking that she is in a relationship & not knowing that she is nothing but a booty call to him😁..
Chizzy J.
remember to also confess to your babe so that she can also shag and wash tohtoh if necessary and everybody can restart on a clean slate biko!
ReplyDeleteBV Sylvia
Your remorse is something that is rare among most men, please run tests to ensure you are free from STIs and Ds.
ReplyDeletePlease tell your fiáncee what you have done so that it won't come back to bite you in the butt.
Transparency and trust are key in any relationship worth its salt.
You that is claiming cheated hope the girl you cheated with is aware that you only cheated with her? Hope someone’s emotion is not being taken for granted?
ReplyDeleteIf the only problem that will come out of it is “cheated”,just clean your mouth and pretend nothing happened. You never can tell what your babe is doing abroad
You that is claiming cheated hope the girl you cheated with is aware that you only cheated with her? Hope someone’s emotion is not being taken for granted?
ReplyDeleteIf the only problem that will come out of it is “cheated”,just clean your mouth and pretend nothing happened. You never can tell what your babe is doing abroad
Fan, stop putting such thoughts in his mind abeg. It's the man that is confessing what he did. Don't try to justify it with an assumption you have no proof of.
DeleteGosh! With all these diseases flying around, una go still dey nack raw. Go and get tested for STDs oo. Very important!
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteGo and sin no more
Having sex out of marriage is fornication. Simple. Your conscience is tender that us good. But you feel empty. Because you have been emptied spiritually. You should run to God and ask Him for mercy and forgiveness. 1John 1:9, says if we say we have no sin we lie and do not the truth but if we confess our sins He is faithful and just to forgive and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
ReplyDeleteIt is also on this blog that we have read that some people do these things for different reasons and you may never know. She may have seen your star spiritually you don't know.
People need to be careful the days we live in are evil. You can't afford to be careless.
Why did thou do it at the first place?
ReplyDeleteBiko go and run test ooo....
The Lord help you.
Don't worry dear, just go for test in a good hospital or lab, and next time do use a condom,Sex is not worth taking any risk. I pray your are free from any stds, Ask God for forgiveness and above all forgive yourself. Best of luck.
ReplyDeleteStella enh u truly no well as per WhatsApp message 🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteleemao, this one is new in the business of agbere. no worry just go do test and abeg leave your innocent girlfriend oo. no touch the girl until after 3 months and you are sure you no carry anything from the other cheerful giver.
ReplyDeleteHmm you have a healthy conscience..Please go and do tests to be sure that you no carry..I just hope that lady is not pregnant or even come back at you..I am not happy that you had to start your marriage on this premise...Please don't have anything to do with that woman again..Block her everywhere abeg and follow the teachings of your belief/religion and don't hurt yourself and your darling fiancee..All the best
ReplyDeleteYou have conscience. It's good that you remember always to stay away from temptation because you won't have peace of mind after cheating.
ReplyDeleteForgive yourself and move on.
Poster are you guilty because you cheated on your girl or because you cheated and might get caught because you cheated raw?
ReplyDeleteI'm a huge advocate of what's gonna be gonna be. Please tell your girl, if she's yours obviously she'll be upset but she'd forgive you eventually.
Don't let her discoveries this on her own. She'll hate you
Don't tell ur girlfriend oooooo
DeleteDo ur test
Relax u will be fine
Too much talk talk dey small things ooooo
Close ur mouth oooo
Hmmmmmmm
Am warning u in two places now with anonymous post
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Sadly, na your type the other woman go come get belle. The baddos in the cheating business seem to get away with it.
ReplyDeleteJoking o. It's good you felt remorse. Never do it again. Also, come clean with your babe about what you did so it doesn't come and bite you in the asa
Haahaahaahaa, trust me with time, u will cheat like no man's business. This ur guilt na normal till u kack for bad bad tins.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, go talk to a doctor,he wil prescribe some preventive measures.
Cheers.
It's good that you feel really bad but you know what? You shouldn't just be afraid of your girl friend, you should be afraid of the holy Spirit. If you are born again, ask your self what your relationship with God was like before the act. That's how you feel when the holy Spirit leaves you!!! You should be worried about how to reconnect with God. You see fornication is not just an act it involves transfer of spirits, evil spirits, demons!!! If you don't go to God in true repentance and ask for forgiveness and reject and ask God to purge you of the demons you contracted before and after the act, you will still do it again!!! So ask God for forgiveness, but be trully repentant, ask the holy Spirit to uproot the spirit of lust from your heart bcoz that was how the act started and every negative thought that pushes you to disobey God is caused by a demon or is a doorway to demonic infestation so that was how you started. A demon probably told you through your thoughts that body no be firewood, and you bought the idea and eventually did the do, then ask the holy Spirit to uproot every other demon you exchanged in the act. Then rebuke the thought to fornicate every time it comes!!! And always remember to uproot the spirit behind the thought from your heart in Jesus name. Then go for a lab test!!! Wishing you the best. We are not just living, we are in a battle field. God's grace as you fight and win.
ReplyDeleteAmen!
DeleteStella your comment bad gan, so hilarious 🤣 😆
ReplyDeleteThis one must be mumu.ordinary one woman.u are a disgrace to manhood.i don sleep with a Allen ashawos without condom and nothing catch me.
ReplyDeleteKpomo men everywhere! You banged a lady so what? You saw your girlfriend last in December, who told you she is not having sex over there? You guys are not married yet so she's obviously banging other guys very well. Mumu continue feeling empty... Ode!
ReplyDeleteWhen the hedge is broken, the serpent will bite! Go on bended knees and as God for forgiveness. Repent and flee fornication! sexual immorality is a bondage.
ReplyDeleteFor you to be feeling this way shows that you didn't like your action, ask God for forgiveness of sin after which you go and run some test to be sure you are free then go and sin no more.
ReplyDeleteOga calm down. You cheated, you didn't kill anybody
ReplyDeletePlease go for medical test. Kindly zip up hence forth.
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