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Thursday, October 08, 2020

Couch Conversation - Things That Kill A Relationship



What things do you thing/know are the fastest thing(s) to kill a relationship?There is a list to choose from after the cut.....
If you ask me,I would that lack of understanding and doubts kill a relationship faster than one thinks.....







63 comments:

  1. 10. Assumption;it kills in a funny and tiniest way

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    1. Number minus one
      Inadequate finances

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    2. Reminding one of past mistakes is a killer, it's d reason.. I left my ex, he just couldn't shut up, meanwhile.i forgave his indiscretions. He is married now. Calling and telling me he misses me. If I send ogun to him now ,
      Money he won't drop.
      Don't know why he can't be happy in his marriage.πŸ¦‹

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  2. Everything there depends on your temperament.

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  3. LIES....just found out that the guy I have been seeing for the last 5 months who has been preaching marriage since day 1 is actually married (6 years and counting) but childless and is just looking for a baby making machine (he should have just said so). Also he lives on the next street but he kept insisting that he lives in the next LGA, 2o minutes away. To think that I didn't like him initially as I felt that he was too uneducated and underexposed for me and now I have developed an attachment to him. I'm just praying to God to give me the strength to not look back as I walk away. He got to me because I am lonely.

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    1. The strength you need to walk away is right inside of you. What exactly hasn't made you already walk away? lonliness???

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    2. Pls don't play second fiddle, keep walking and keep your head up, love will find you, trust me.

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    3. Haaa! "lives on the next street" and you dated him for 5months without finding out. Hmmm. This your love is really "blind".
      Dont go and cause another woman pain because of your loneliness. Walkwawy and dont look back. Your own is will locate you soon.
      E-hugsπŸ’ž

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    4. if you have dated for 5 months, where then have you both been meeting ?

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  4. All of the above mentioned!.


    Though, misunderstanding is the least cos it can be sorted out.


    BITCHandSLUT.com

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  5. None of the above kills faster than "Poverty"...and its not on the list above

    Even "Good Morning" from them suddenly becomes irritating..

    Na una teach me on this Blog ooo😊😊

    @MARTINS

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    1. Nwanne ejim gi ugwo ofu ekpem mmanya.

      Ubiam ajoka.
      Owu ite bu ajΓ²Γ² ife.

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    2. Most times, it is greed that is misconstrued as poverty.
      Most girls do not want to live an average life, working and
      earning. They want the celebrity (fake) lifestyles and they
      term anything the perceive to be below that as poverty. Sad
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    3. Biko, Chike, I bu onye Omambala? Asusu gi dika nke ndi be anyi.

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    4. Yes anon

      some people are really contented.

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    5. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜€πŸ˜€@Chike Nwanne m;Ogbenye wΓΊ uchΓΉ

      Ka m ga gba mbΓ³ Nwanne..ΓΉdo!!

      @MARTINS

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    6. πŸ™†πŸΎ‍♀️πŸ™†πŸΎ‍♀️πŸ™†πŸΎ‍♀️. Are you serious!!! A bu m onye Awkuzu too. Ifite Awkuzu to be precise. Chai! Nwanne di na mba!

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    7. Hibiscus, Awkuzu k'ome, eh nna ekenem gi

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    8. Martins and Habiscus should get married already!!!πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

      Oga akpotu na Awkuzu na December oooo

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    9. Anon 13:35 your problem is that you have a lack mindset rather than abundance mindset. I can't stand people like you, trying to bring others down to your level of thinking because u don't have the guts or the drive to go for what you want and demand what you want in life. Nothing wrong with being ambitious darling. if you're comfortable where you are don't get mad if you see others levelling up n don't try to bring them down rather be humble study them n try to attain the same thing. or don't you like enjoyment too?? this "if u no suffer pass me, u no dey live life" type of mentality is what is killing nigerians. It's not a cute behaviour at all. Working n earning tirelessly is not for every woman. you that came to this life to work tirelessly allow the women that came to be taken care of to be. ugh . people like you wish you were in their shoes so what r we saying

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    10. @18:37
      I do not wish that I am greedy like most of you are.
      Greed is what you call "ambition." The Scriptures call it
      "selfish ambition," and greed as works of the flesh and
      stated point blank that those who live like this will not
      inherit the Kingdom of God. Gal. 5:21.
      So you will "be taken care of" whereas other ladies will marry
      your brothers to work and take care of them, isn't it? Don't you
      see that marrying to escape poverty is a vain and selfish mindset?
      Most times, a lot of you jump into blood money and you become just
      sacrificial lambs.
      😘😘😘😘😘

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  6. As a woman giving too much and being too nice (aka a doormat) over validating a man, not having your own thing going, always being around him, not giving him space to breathe.

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  7. All of the above PLUS Lack of communication.


    *ayaoba*

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  8. No. 11 lies!!! From lies, you lose trust, and if trust is no more, respect flies out of the window. When respect is gone, love dies.

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    1. Assume every man is lying and receive peace today. omo the day I discovered half of what my 2 yrs rship b/f told me was lies n cover up, it took me long to get my composure back o. anyway lies is part of human nature, n i think women should not be so trusting of guys n also avoid telling him soo much about you too. so that incase u catch him in lies n have to leave, he has nothing to hold against you or spread about you to smear your name. so sad we have to enter relationships with a defensive mindset but that is what heartbreak will do

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  9. Greed and Infidelity (in marriage);
    Greed;
    Most Nigerian girls see marriage as a means out of poverty.
    They don't want to work hard in a marriage and build with their
    husbands. They don't care. They are married and looking at social
    media to imitate the fake and vain lifestyles of celebrities.
    Social media helps to breed greed in ladies of vain character.
    Infidelity;
    particularly for men who are trapped by desperate ladies.
    These ladies do not want to know if he is married or not.
    They can go to any medium to get him. Like the story we read
    yesterday, they can flog the "horse(band)" into submission to them,
    so they think.
    And the worst of it is that both couple neglect God. They may have
    prayed to know his will before marriage. But after, they go into
    eating and drinking and sleeping. No more prayers, no more bible studies.
    Jesus becomes a stranger to them. And you know that when people sleep, the
    evil ones will go and sow thorns and it begins to hurt them.
    So eschew, Greed and infidelity. Embrace Jesus in your relationship (marriage)
    and you will have a joyous journey. 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

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    1. I have been feeling pains since yesterday and I'm scared one lady is flogging me somewhere like that yesterday post..
      Please i need prayers oh😊

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    2. @Dante
      Why not make Jesus your Lord (if you haven't), follow his teachings and
      see that you will be immune to these kinds of attacks?

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    3. And all men are saints abi?

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    4. See how you stylishly excused men when it comes to infidelity while heaping the blame on women. So it's only men trapped by "desperate" women that cheat abi. Your can't help it but show your bias towards men in every single post. Anon 13.13 Change....Change, the whole truth will set you free.

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  10. None of the above can end my relationship but;
    Violence,emotional abuse and Inconsistencies can...

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    1. I think I agree with you Veteran cos all of those up there can still be managed if there is communication.

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  11. Lack of communication and dishonesty

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  12. Lack of communicatiom should be up there. Dishonesty. Cheating (that kills it for me)

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    1. Gbam @lack of communication. Cheating is a major deal breaker

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    2. Cheating is a MAJOR deal breaker. You cheat, I'm out.

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  13. doubts and reminding past mistakes

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  14. A learning post. Let me jejely relax and learn from experienced BV's

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  15. Ego cos I think that leads to all the rest!!

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  16. For me its number 10 not listed though "communication"

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  17. All of the above plus lack of communication with trust issues. Lack of trust is a deal breaker for me!

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  18. Most people mistake love for lust , greed and etc!
    For me I pick EGO from the above list my reasons are
    -EGO brings pride and over exaggerated sense of worth and that is not needed when in a healthy relationship..ego gives you this false mindset...which leads to lack of communication, cheating, greed, etc..humility is key in all we do but most of us ignore it...when you humble you don't care..you bring yourself to make things work...you don't see the other as nothing..you see the other as a representation of you ..you see the next person as there to compliment you ...For me ego kills relationship...little things that matters for you to sustain your relationship you can't because somehow you just feel you bigger than it and all..love in itself is humility personified..you can't love without being humble to the core and letting go of ego and pride..and to be honest as a guy that's where we guys fail it at..most and majority of ladies want to love genuinely and nutrients relationship even without you being a billionaire ..ladies love humility a lot but we men have been conditioned to think other wise and that's killing us fast and tr ladies are beginning yo adapt and learning her to go along with us ...EGO kills relationship..we can all do better..I tend to focus on men here because we men are the gate keeper when it comes to relationship...EGO for me kills relationship..

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  19. Everything on that list above kills relationship.

    We are all different individuals, and what is a deal breaker for me may not be for another person.

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  20. DISDAIN!. The most poisonous emotion in relationships. It makes the other person doubt themselves and then opens the door to other issues like lies, cheating and lack of communication. Check this, once one person has it at the back of their mind that their partner is beneath them, its over. It is the relationship equivalent of a poison dart frog.

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  21. No 2,3, 9.

    And most of all, nitpicking. Its not the same as fault finding. I think there is a little difference. And unforgiveness. That's like keeping a record of wrongs.

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  22. All of the above. But poverty should be added to the list.

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  23. Anything can destroy love

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  24. Communication should be numberg one, once is lacking I am done.

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  25. Wow....see my village people everywhere.
    Awkuzu ibelibuogada.

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  26. Lies is not listed here, a lot of relationship is built on lies.

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  27. Lack of trust and selfishness

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