My ideal relationship is one that doesn't rob me of my peace of mind. I can't face everyday stress and face relationship wahala, I no fit. Aye o pe meji....
A relationship where both partners have mutual respect and understanding for each other, they are committed to their vows, genuine love ❤️❤️π, encourages each other and above all have the same belief, that's my ideal relationship
A relationship where both partners have mutual respect and understanding for each other, they are committed to their vows, genuine love ❤️❤️π, encourages each other and above all have the same belief, that's my ideal relationship
I just want an honest man. The one I'm with now has started lying. Not even for cheating's sake but to impress me unnecessarily. Now he's complaining I've changed. I HATE LIES. No, I don't lie to him.
My ideal relationship is my marriage before my husband cheated...after the cheating...i havent been the same again....he is trying so hard to get things to be the way they used to but its just not possible...anymore...sad.
Sorry.. some people don't understand how much damaged lies does.. once I catch you in a lie, I begin to doubt everything you have ever told me. It's a deal breaker. Trust is one of the foundation of a good relationship, with lies, there'll be no trust. The relationship is null and void.
For me, treat me the way I treat you., or expect to be treated how you treat me if after sometimes you refuse to follow my lead..
I start with what I don't want. Flaws I can manage cos we are all flawed, but these red flags, I run. My list.. 1.Physical or emotional abuse 2.Anger or hot temper 3.Womanizer/uncontrollable lust 4.Wickedness/joylessness/frustrated soul 5.Laziness () 6.Disregards or disrespects me or others 7.Alcoholism, smoking or drugs 8.Bad communication (doesn't call) 9.Mouth or body odor 10.Liar/lies/dishonesty
Funny enough I don't have a list for my ideal man. I Just want balance: you love me, I love you, and we have respect/regard for family, for God and for neighbor. Just have sense.
Thanks Dante! I don't get why men fear to be vulnerable to women they claim to love. He just dey avoid see finish ni I know. But for me, any form of deception, lies, misrepresentation, manipulation, mind games, half truths, withholding of information, white lies, outright lies, errors of omission etc makes me lose trust in you. I've told him severally, I have no problems dating a bad man as long as he owns it. I personally tell him things as they are even when not convenient or seemingly profitless or potentially destructive. But I was hoping to build his trust. And I've proved this sometimes in the past by forgiving him where he owned up. He actually held me to my words and I fell through. What else does he want? Unfortunately, he doesn't know that I know he lies. He believes he's so smart about it and his lies are foolproof. Cos that's the condition I gave him. If you must lie, make sure I can't discover. These are just some useless lies he lies that makes me question his overall sincerity. He's a very good man in order aspects. He doesn't cheat. He tries to satisfy me by taking to my corrections. It's the beginning of the end for me. It hurts, but there's no other way around it for me. I'm trying to accept him the way he is because of the other good qualities about him. But what if I'm in for a shocker in the long run?! I doubt if I'll ever recover from it. I'll be so done with men. Maybe this is why humans are beginning to have relationships with objects for stability and predictability, Lol!
Forgive him. Most men cheat. Even pastors. Encourage him to be more open with you. Don't judge him. Try not to. That way, he'll be more conscientious about cheating again. Take precautions though. If you must use condoms till he proves himself again, do.
Hmmmmm.,I can't type what is on my mind but if everyone can stay true to who they really are and their choices are respected.,that would be a great start for an ideal relationship..
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π€¨ is there anything like an ideal relationship?
I've come to understand that there are no rule books/ manuals for relationships.
A peaceful relationship where Christ is at the centre of all your plans.
A relationship where both parties understand and listen to themselves.
To vote and be voted forππΎ♀️ππΎ♀️ππΎ♀️
One that is respectful, giving and of course loving.
Relationship with Christ. That is my idealππππππππ
A Godly relationship whr we obey Christ, go down on our knees in unity and win battles. Where genuine love abounds.
My ideal relationship is one that doesn't rob me of my peace of mind. I can't face everyday stress and face relationship wahala, I no fit. Aye o pe meji....
They one where "common sense" exists all round and also devoid of Religiocentrism...
@MARTINS
A relationship where both partners have mutual respect and understanding for each other, they are committed to their vows, genuine love ❤️❤️π, encourages each other and above all have the same belief, that's my ideal relationship
A relationship where both partners have mutual respect and understanding for each other, they are committed to their vows, genuine love ❤️❤️π, encourages each other and above all have the same belief, that's my ideal relationship
Understanding with peace of mind
One with mutual respect,a lot of forgiveness,understanding,tolerance and money.
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I just want an honest man. The one I'm with now has started lying. Not even for cheating's sake but to impress me unnecessarily. Now he's complaining I've changed. I HATE LIES. No, I don't lie to him.
My ideal relationship is my marriage before my husband cheated...after the cheating...i havent been the same again....he is trying so hard to get things to be the way they used to but its just not possible...anymore...sad.
An ideal relationship should exhibit the fruits of the spirit. I just realized 3days ago one important trait you should have is kindness.
What?π
Ride or die kinda relationship
Sorry.. some people don't understand how much damaged lies does.. once I catch you in a lie, I begin to doubt everything you have ever told me. It's a deal breaker. Trust is one of the foundation of a good relationship, with lies, there'll be no trust. The relationship is null and void.
For me, treat me the way I treat you., or expect to be treated how you treat me if after sometimes you refuse to follow my lead..
A relationship with mutual respect. Just don't stress me. Provide for the family, don't get me regret loving you
One smirnoff for you baby!
Thisπ
I start with what I don't want. Flaws I can manage cos we are all flawed, but these red flags, I run. My list..
1.Physical or emotional abuse
2.Anger or hot temper
3.Womanizer/uncontrollable lust
4.Wickedness/joylessness/frustrated soul
5.Laziness ()
6.Disregards or disrespects me or others
7.Alcoholism, smoking or drugs
8.Bad communication (doesn't call)
9.Mouth or body odor
10.Liar/lies/dishonesty
Funny enough I don't have a list for my ideal man. I Just want balance: you love me, I love you, and we have respect/regard for family, for God and for neighbor. Just have sense.
A godly relationship in the true sense of the word. I value my peace and a relationship with mutual respect.
Thanks Dante! I don't get why men fear to be vulnerable to women they claim to love. He just dey avoid see finish ni I know. But for me, any form of deception, lies, misrepresentation, manipulation, mind games, half truths, withholding of information, white lies, outright lies, errors of omission etc makes me lose trust in you. I've told him severally, I have no problems dating a bad man as long as he owns it. I personally tell him things as they are even when not convenient or seemingly profitless or potentially destructive. But I was hoping to build his trust. And I've proved this sometimes in the past by forgiving him where he owned up. He actually held me to my words and I fell through. What else does he want? Unfortunately, he doesn't know that I know he lies. He believes he's so smart about it and his lies are foolproof. Cos that's the condition I gave him. If you must lie, make sure I can't discover. These are just some useless lies he lies that makes me question his overall sincerity. He's a very good man in order aspects. He doesn't cheat. He tries to satisfy me by taking to my corrections. It's the beginning of the end for me. It hurts, but there's no other way around it for me. I'm trying to accept him the way he is because of the other good qualities about him. But what if I'm in for a shocker in the long run?! I doubt if I'll ever recover from it. I'll be so done with men. Maybe this is why humans are beginning to have relationships with objects for stability and predictability, Lol!
Forgive him. Most men cheat. Even pastors. Encourage him to be more open with you. Don't judge him. Try not to. That way, he'll be more conscientious about cheating again. Take precautions though. If you must use condoms till he proves himself again, do.
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My Ideal relationship is one which has
*Friendship
*Trust
*Affection
*Teamwork
*Honesty
*Playfulness
*Unconditional love
**She must have transport money always
*Advantage: She can come anytime
*Disadvantage: She can come anytime.
This right here.
So apt π
@Sandra
The Bible is.
Ephesians 5:2-33"Marriage is a profound mystery speaking of Christ and the church..."
Gbam!
My story at the moment, I just want to quit but
Hmmmmm.,I can't type what is on my mind but if everyone can stay true to who they really are and their choices are respected.,that would be a great start for an ideal relationship..
Love ,respect,fidelity,true friendship,communication and trust
Rightly said.
Love, respect and true friendship and always say the truth.
True friendship and happiness for me
We are the same whatsapp group
Simple
While trying to please one another
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