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Friday, December 11, 2020



Have a fantastic Weekend and see you inside here on Monday.....


Fine day to you Stells. Please do help me celebrate as I add a new age today.
Today is not for complaints but for thanksgiving despite how strong I am now.

God has been continually faithful even in my unfaithfulness. I do not take His many blessings in my life for granted.

All I ask on my new age is for God to break me and refire me again,fill the emptiness inside as I am slowly losing steam if that's possible. I've lived enough for self.
BVs please do say this word of prayer for me. Thanks.
Happy birthday to meπŸ₯³

Happy Birthday Babe geh,you have lovely cat eyes......
May your Birthday only bring you good news and plenty blessings...
Please cook plenty Atama soup.......


The recipient fo the 120k giveaway is Benin based BV Yemi........She will be using this money to expand her cake and chinchin business and begin distribution to supermarkets....I have seen samples and I am excited for her.
She will get the money after Christmas and New year to avoid stories that pinch the blokos.

If you ping me to say thank you,I will choose someone else can greet good morning or afternoon but dont bring up this money issue.

Unto the next....

I cried today around 10am
ask me why..........

There is a BV that came into my inbox asking for as much as 5k so that they can have food to eat this Christmas.she explained that her hubby didnt have a job and had tried everything but could not get a job.

I replied with Hmmmmmmm...

Some days later i remembered and asked for her account details and then i sent her N10k.....her response shocked me but that is not why i cried....Since that day she has been mailing me with very emotional words still thanking me for this peanut money.....I hate Thank yous cos it makes me teary....

This is what she sent today that brought out water from my eyes...

Hmmmmm........If you feel moved to bless her,please contact me for her account deets.!



Good day Stella,

Please i want to give away data to 4 lucky bvs - 3 MTN and 1 etisalat users. Today is xperience 2020 so I don't want them to miss out of it.

Just choose any 4 BVs i am ok with it. i have paid waju tv for the data. Pls keep me anonymous. I love you.

*I love you too Madam,Thank you very much indeed!

The Recipients are......

1. BV: Martinsaboy
2. BV: Cynthia Iyede
3. BV: Cute
4. BV :Osundi::...
I have sent their numbers to Waju Data....
Waju you can send them their data now oh.



A month to our wedding, my fiance became very sick, so sick that nothing stayed in his stomach, he vomited at will, he weed and pooed on his body, I had to move in with him, it was too much on me, at some point he went dumb, we were going in and out of hospitals, on people's recommendation....

 I prayed and prayed , I kept begging him to allow me tell the pastor to call off the wedding, he refused, he would wave his hands, shake his head even though migraine was tearing up the head, he was losing strength, at some point he was pooing bloody stool, at one time I went 3 days without food or water, that was a week to our planned wedding, his suit had become oversize, he couldn't stand, then two days before the wedding, I had a dream...

In that dream, I saw his Step-Mom, she was with his wedding suit, I asked her where she was taking it to, she said "Can't you see that he has lost so much weight?, I want to go and shape it", I said ''Ahhhh Mama thank you but let me take it from here, let me go and shape it, i am his wife to be, I know his size more'' she refused, we started fighting in that dream, we fought till I collected the suit from her...

 I woke up, that morning and he talked and requested for food, I was so happy, he was still lying down, couldn't stand up, on the wedding Eve, the planned bachelor's Eve was cancelled because groom no de stand, since he had refused to cancel the wedding till he's not fit, I decided to go on too, it got to a point that I told my Mom that I wanted to call off the relationship because if this man dies now, I will become a young widow...

 my Mom shunned me, and urged me to keep faith and hold onto God, on the night of the wedding Eve, we got a call that his Step-Mom was down with stroke, that same night, I was fast asleep in the room I was sharing with Treasure when I heard him call me, I thought I was dreaming, I opened my eyes and he was standing beside me, Ahhhh what happened, I jumped up and hugged him, he said he didn't know what happened and he became whole again..

 I was so happy, though he was looking too trimmed but my Joy knew no bound..... 
On my next episode I will jist you guys about the wedding and reception....



If federal government pays 3 month salary into a salary account of a someone who died in active service, ( the person died in July, July, August and September salary was paid and stopped after these)

Does federal government ask for the money to be returned or does the money not belong to the deceased family ?

Is there any Nigerian law that states that the bank to which this money was paid now owns the money or has exclusive right to return this money to the government without involving the deceased family?
Please any experienced lawyer in the house or someone who has gone through this process should comment. I will be reading the comments. 

I think the money is to be returned to the government since that might be termed paying a ''ghost worker''



Speaking about the marriage institution, I do so carefully and with every intent not to irk the married ones who might have a diverse opinion from my point of view.

In this part of Africa, getting to a certain age as a man or woman puts one into some parental pressure about getting married. This is often done by parents citing the need of having their grand kids before joining their ancestors. 

No doubt, procreation is a divine mandate from the creator but companionship should be of utmost importance in marriage. This is so true, for companionship sustains the home when both partners are done with child bearing.

Before the injunction of procreation -"Go into the world and multiply," there was a reasoning of "Let's make him(man) a helper." In essence, the need for companionship comes first in marriage.

When companionship is being valued or seen as a major reason for the bonding of two total strangers into becoming one, there will be needless worries and pressure thrown on the woman when trying to conceive, rather both partners will walk it through in patience and understanding knowing that child(ren) aren't the only reason they got united in the first place. 

More also, after child bearing, the same companionship will ease the later part of their lives from loneliness as they grow old together.

Still on companionship, partners shares goals together, builds together, contributes in the decision making of the home, occasionally hangs out together, proud of each other publicly and above all, supports each other. When there's no companionship, partners lives in secrecy. When there's no companionship, a man sees a woman as a sex object for child production and when the child takes little time to come, he abandon the woman for a mistress and seek for divorce.

Finally, until we understand that, there is more to marriage than just raising offspring that will take after us and prolonging the family lineage, we will keep facing the challenge that comes with it and may never get it right.



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  1. Replies
    1. Salary is paid to a deceased govt worker for 3months after his death. It's official. And to help the family cope. The next of kin should get a letter of adminstration and have access to the account.

    2. The only reason government paid that money was because they were not notified that the worker is dead, they stop salary payment the month a civil servant dies...
      My late grandpa kept getting his pension for 14 months after he died, when my aunt's and uncle's notified the ministry he worked in, federal government stopped payment and took back all the money they paid into his account after his death.
      The thing pain them no be small

  2. It's IHN Friday πŸ’ƒ

    Call me πŸ€™

    1. Welcome IHN.. Its FridaaaaaayπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

      Oooooh! I'm an event planner🚢🚢🚢🚢

  3. Pls what Christmas gift can I give my well to do partner. I am not rich oo. Something affordable

    1. Buy him something nice and affordable like perfume or a shirt. It’s the thought that counts abeg. Well to do people also appreciate gifts

    2. Shirts, good perf if you have d money or palm/Pam slippers good one o like N25k or less.

  4. Return which money? If the death was reported n they still paid in d salary, withdraw it n close the account.

  5. Happy birthday Marvel. May God go over and beyond to bring marvellous blessings, miracles and joy your way.
    Belated birthday to Sexy Hips. Wishing you the best in this new year.

    Melody leee!!! God really came through for you.

  6. Happy birthday BV Marvel. May God bless your new age.

  7. Good afternoon bvs
    Happy birthday to you Marvel.

    Congratulations to the recipient.

    Sign out meme......πŸ‘Œ

  8. Happy birthday Marvel, I wish you many more of fruitful years ahead.

    Good afternoon y'all

  9. Happy birthday to you beautiful Marvel, may this new age bring you glad tidings and everything perfect πŸ€—πŸŽ‚πŸ₯‚πŸ’–πŸ˜˜

    Okay, why is it always stepmothers and mother in-laws or sister in-laws attacking their loved ones?! Melody, I'm just thinking out loud!

    A grateful and thankful heart will always get more blessing. God bless you Stella for always coming to aid of your BVs, you will never lack.

    BV Yemi, I pray you succeed and prosper in your business.
    God bless you all

  10. Life is full of temptation. One has to be strong and full of faith in God in other to overcome. Melody God dey interested in your case na e make you dey where you dey presently.
    Stella e be like say you no dey believe all these kind witch craft stories, see eh they are as real as real can be.
    Ihn wey make sense na e person dey read with joy...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    Happy baiday face of in house news

  11. Happy birthday Marvel. How did the bank know the person is dead?
    Congratulations to BV Yemi

    1. Happy birthday Marvel.

      Melody, God brought you into that man's life for reasons. Thank God for your life.

  12. Loaded IHN.

    Happy birthday to you @Marvel, may every of your heart desires be fulfilled, the new year shall be an amazing one. Enjoy your day.

    Enemy of progress @step mom-in-law to be. Thank God for victory.

    Well written piece @Teejay.

    Thank you Stella for being a blessing to this generation.

    Enjoy the rest of the day my people.

  13. Good afternoon to you all .
    God bless Everyone
    Marvel age gracefully may your new age brings you abundant blessing happy birthday to youπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

  14. I am not liking this cold weather at all.

    1. Can I send you some hot sun??

    2. Pele πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

    3. It is good for anniversary cuddling and sleeping together. Enjoy it dear.

    4. Hehehehehe. Just continue with the cuddling. You go soon born.

    5. Blacky, is there a cold sun?

  15. Good afternoon.

    Happy birthday Marvel,congrats to Eka Joy and to everyone looking up to God for blessingsπŸ’πŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ’–πŸ’ž❤.

    1. Happy birthday Marvel. Be blessed beyond your imaginations.

      Melody of life this na big testimony. Evil enemies repent or die in sin.

  16. Good afternoon everyone, happy birthday to you bv marvel God bless you and have fun. You look beautiful though
    God bless the giver on this blog, congratulations to Martinsaboy,Cynthia Iyede

  17. Thank you so so much for the data BV, I've just received it. God bless you greatly. I'm grateful.

    Thank you Stella for choosing me. I am so grateful, God bless you so much Mami.

  18. Happy birthday pretty Marvel❤❤.
    Congratulations Sister Melody God is faithful.

  19. Thanks BV.
    Thanks Stella.
    Data has been sent to the above mentioned Bv's.

    For MTN, dial *461*4# to check your data balance

    For 9mobile, dial *228# for data balance.

    Thank you.

    1. Yes o received with thanks..God bless u dear and bless the giver.

    2. I got it. Thanks. God bless you.

      God bless the giver and Stella.

  20. Happy birthday BV Marvel

    Thanks to the BV that gifted datas

    Hello IHN

  21. Wow wow wow!!! Pls bvs permit me to be an ambulance ooπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ
    Ma'am Stella I'm so so grateful for choosing me for the data giveaway and may God bless the anonymous bv,I pray Almighty God replenish in million folds and Grant u all ur heart desires.

    Bv Marvel looking so beautiful,see me smiling while looking at ur picture.. happy birthday once again and may God answers all ur secret prayers.

    Let me go back and read,I just rush to comment when I saw my name up thereπŸ˜‚

    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Feel free to be "ambulancing" jare. Congrats dearπŸ€—πŸ€—

    2. Thanks my lovely people.

      I just saw that Maverick city are coming to Experience πŸ˜€.I will bless you πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

  22. Good afternoon everyone! A blessed weekend ahead.

  23. happiest birthday BV Marvel. More graceful years in good health. MELODYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!! i can't wait for the next episode. Thank God for His grace upon your life, Your life story is worth sharing

  24. Oh my goodness! Oh my goodness ! I am so emotional right now, I am crying tears of joy! Oh my God!
    Stella babe I am so so very grateful, I am very grateful, thank you so so much oh, I am grateful, God bless you and all the blog angels, God's face will shine on you amen. I am truly grateful.

    Blog Family please help me say a big thank you to Stella! Thank you so so much.
    I feel like I am dreaming, thank you! I am grateful!

    1. Congrats dearπŸ€—πŸ€—. May God keep on expanding your business.

    2. Congratulations Yemi God bless the work of your hands.

    3. Congratulations girl. God bless your business.


    4. Congratulations Yemi. God bless you Stella for allowing God to use you to bless other people you will not lack...Melody me I am just happy for you dear..Anonymous giver God bless you oh Congrats Martins, Osundi, Cynthia and Cute...

      Wow beautiful Marvel happy birthday to you darling long life and prosperity..Chai Nne you fine biko...Kisses everyone

    5. Congratulations to you. More blessings to you....

    6. Congratulations dear. May God multiply it in your hands.
      God bless you Stella for allowing God use you always to make people smile.

    7. Congratulations.
      Stella is an angel indeed.

    8. Congratulations. God bless you Stella

    9. God bless You Stella for the good work you are doing. πŸ™πŸ»

  25. What a mail, if you have never been there then you won't understand.

    Thank you to the givers.

  26. Poster of the deceased, that money belongs to the late person..the federal govt pays till the establishment sends a formal notice to ippis or federal govt. They purposely left the few months to help the family.Some even pity the family and won't write to fed govt for a year sef.That August was the last when the govt got the notice.
    No allow bank to chop you pls.

    1. I agree with this reasoning.

  27. Happy birthday Marvel.
    May your joy be full in all ramifications.

  28. God bless you BV for the Data,5gb is way too much and I really do appreciate...

    Thanks Madam Stellz for choosing me,just got it now and knew it will come from only this wonderful Blog..

    Wishing everyone a blessed day...


  29. Marvel enjoy your day ooo.
    Congrats to the Data recipients. Melody can't wait for the next episode..
    Stella thank you for being there. God gat your back.


  30. HBD Madvel
    God bless you
    Congrats Yemi. That business expansion will be a huge sucess
    Still another hot day here..

  31. Wow Melody,is like God connected u to this man to save him from untimely death.Thank God victory was urs.congrats on ur wedding.

    Oga teejay πŸ‘.more ink to ur pen.

    Ma'am Stella thank u so much.i got the data.Anon bv God bless u real good.i sincerely appreciate.

    Hello candilicious's ur day going.

    Enjoy the rest of ur day dear bvs..e go surely be ✌️

    1. Osundi dearie, I'm ok, just that I'm πŸ₯΅. This sun no be am at all. Hope you're good, and congrats once again.πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

    2. Congrats dear, and congrats to Martins Cynthia and CuteπŸ₯°πŸ’ƒπŸ½πŸ’ƒπŸ½

  32. Happy birthday Marvel. God bless you always. Amen.

  33. Happy birthday Marvel. may your new year be crowned with goodness....

  34. Happy birthday BV Marvel

    God bless the Blog Angel for the data πŸ™. Congratulations to the beneficiariesπŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ€—

    Congratulations Bv Yemi, May your business expand and grow beyond your imagination. God bless you Stella for your kind heart always πŸ™

  35. Attention seeker,it seems you not getting enough attention from your husband

  36. Melody that fasting 3 days without food or water was what gave you victory. That fasting is very powerful...72days dry fasting. Thank God for you Melody.

  37. It's hoooooot in Abuja. πŸ₯΅πŸ₯΅. Hope y'all are being good (and safe). Marvel darling, happy birthday once again. 😘😘😘😘😘😘. You're one pretty babe. Congrats once again to Yem, and all the data recipients. May God bless the givers. Amen. Stella God bless you, for making that poster smile. πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—. Mbok, let me go and look for 🍦🍦🍦. Be good my darlings. Muuuuuuaaaah.

    1. Candy, l thought you are in Lagos, have you relocated to Abuja?

  38. International Criminal Court says it won't take action against the UK despite finding evidence British troops committed war crimes in Iraq but PDP SoroSoke in their foolishness want to submit their own leaders for prosecution without evidence. You are working for the enemies.

    Peter OBI and Afegbai have gone to seek court injunctions so they won’t appear before the various judicial panels on #EndSarsNow and you are quiet, when we say your protest was procured against Buhari and Tinubu and that you are Useful Idiots,you get angry. Look at yourself now.



  39. God is faithful to them that trust in him. Merry Christmas in Advance to you and yours.

    1. Compliments of the season πŸŽ„πŸŒ²πŸŽ…πŸ€Ά⛪🧬🦌

  40. Good afternoon.

    Happy birthday Marvel,I pray for God's blessings upon your life.

    Congratulation Yemi, I pray that your business will prosper.

    Melody, i'm happy that good things are coming into life and husband's healing.

  41. Happy birthday to you Bv Marvel, may lines fall into pleasant places for you.

  42. Happy birthday to you marvel.All your expectations shall be activated sooner than expected.Age graciously,cheers, more brandy for u🍾🍾🍾.

    God bless the giver of the data and congratulations to the receivers.

    Congratulations yemi,more wins for you in your business.

    Stella may God continue to replenish your pocket you are such an angel.

  43. Happy birthday BV Marvel,God bless the givers! Congratulations to Bv Osundi,Bv Yemi, Martins,Cynthia, you guys deserve it, Good afternoon dear Stella am so happy you gifted that person that sent you a mail 4 5k. How I wish my own younger can show gratitude like that. When a receiver shows real GRATITUDE you will know! When I give my own brother money no thank you from him. He feels like I owe him so I should be giving him just like that. I don't condone such rubbish I just left him and face front! I hat ungrateful people! Have a lovely day everyone πŸ₯°πŸ’•πŸ’‹

  44. Each time l go to market to buy things for myself. I end up buying for others and forget myself. I can spend any amount on people but hardly spend on myself. I have tried to stop this habit but can't. Just came back from market now. Bought 8 cloths and 3 school bags. Only one out of the 8 cloths is mine. Others are for my siblings and their children. Praise God l even bought one cloth for myself. 2 school bags are for my sisters children and the remaining one is for a church members child. This is how it has been. My phone is old instead of buying a new one for myself and giving this to my younger brother who lost the phone l bought for him last year. I went and bought a new phone for him and forgot myself. Someone once told me my weakest point is that l care too much. Haaa. What kind of person am l. 38. Not married ooo. No child oo. l can't take care of myself. What a life. Has anybody been in this shoe before?. What can l do
    Am l okey?

    1. I am just seeing this comment! I pray you still come back for your response.

      You are okay! I am like you. We are empaths and there is nothing much we can really do about who we are.

      It sometimes gets annoying when the people we do for don't reciprocate too. But we don't do it for them. We do it because it is who we are.

      Here is what I do now. When I want to go and spend like that, I force myself to write my own needs down before leaving the house.

      When I reach market, I force myself to go and buy mine first before the other people's own.

      I still goof sometimes. But since I started being very conscious and intentional about it, I started remembering my own self.

      Sometimes it also comes from too much environmental and religious upbringing. Be selfless, love your neighbour, be your brothers keeper bla bla bla. Some of us, our brains took those lessons extremely serious and keep portraying it in our adult life.

      Bottom line, be extremely conscious about it. It won't be easy, but try! Whatever you want to do, ask yourself if you have done for yourself. It sounds a bit selfish, but our own selflessness is on the extreme. Only a little selfishness will draw a balance for us. So we don't go sulking after doing good for others.


  45. Happy Birthday Marvel dear...may God rekindle His fire in your heart and perfect all that concerns you.πŸ₯°πŸ’ƒπŸ½

    Congrats Yemi...God bless and prosper your businessπŸ₯°πŸ₯°

  46. Happy birthday Marvel.God bless u.
    Good afternoon everyone.

  47. Happy birthday bv marvel God bless ur new age.
    Congrats BV yemi...

  48. happy birthday marvel,@melody am suspecting that step-mum already...

  49. Awwww Marvel is a fine babe😍πŸ₯°πŸ˜πŸ₯°πŸ˜πŸ₯°πŸ˜ God bless you,
    God keep you,
    God surprise you with that earnest secret prayer of yours, soonest, Amen.

    Melody, what a story!!!
    It's well.

    God bless that generous BV that gifted data to some BVs, dalu!

    Ooooooh dear, what a heartfelt appreciation, kaα»‹!
    God bless you Stella, thank you.
    God bless that BV and may your story and that of your family change for the better, soonest.
    God is able!

    Awwww, CEO Yemi, Congratulations congratulations, testimony and favour shall be your lot, Amen.
    Thank you very much the BV that made this happen, you are favoured beyond measures, dalu!

    1. Thanks Exceptional mom.πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

  50. Melody, you have grace. So elated for you. God bless your union...

    Please, what happened to the evil step mother?

  51. Hmmnnn Melody, I love victorious dreams like that.

  52. Thank God for today.. i am actually at my uncle funeral..Rip sir James Osako.

    1. Rest in peace to ur uncle and may God comfort those he left behind.

    2. So sorry for the loss of your uncle

  53. HBD to u marvel
    Wao melody may God continue to uphold your home
    May bless the giver
    Stells how far

  54. Thanks Melody for the lessons in this story of yours.
    Most ladies think that getting married is getting into enjoyment only.
    There are times to fight the evil one who hates marriage and any godly venture.
    Eve and Adam did not have the weapons to fight him, but God had provided that
    weapon through Christ's sacrifice. If you did not go on that three days fast,
    your marriage plans would have scattered.

    1. Thank God for Jesus. πŸ™πŸ½

  55. Thaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnk God Its Fridayyyyy.
    Beautiful weekend everyone.

    Happy birthday ones more to you Marvel.

  56. Happy birthday BV Marvel
    Happy Friday blogfam.

  57. Happy birthday Marvel, you're beautiful

  58. Stella you have a good heart .God bless you.
    Happy birthday Bv Marvel

  59. Hello Marvel

    I am happy for you but did you guys do pre-hiv screening prior to the marriage.

    Did your fiance do HIV or STD screening? Not because of you but because of him.


    1. Marvel or melody na so una go dey pin another person gist for another person madam ITK. It's me that know pass.

    2. XOXO mystery I think you are mistaking me for Melody

  60. Happy birthday Marvel πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‚πŸŽ‰,more prosperous years ahead.
    Wow wow wow, Melody!God doesn't make mistakes, there's a reason for coming into that man's life,am glad you both overcame every obstacles,one with God is majority, waiting to read your reception story.
    Gratitude open doors for more blessings.
    Congratulations to Bv Yemi and other giveaway receipents,God bless you all and the givers too, God bless SDK abundantly amen

  61. @BV's Sparkle, Dietitian Nezz, blackberry,pritypao everyone that commented on my question about federal government salary paid to a deceased account, I say a big thank you.


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