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Thursday, December 10, 2020

Relationships Should Be 50/50

 Do you agree with this?



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    1. I totally agree with this 100%,i sort some bills when he isn't around and collect it back in double folds.

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    2. There is no problem if a man want a 50 to 50 relationship. That means house chores should also be 50 to 50.

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    4. Women carry the burden of childbirth so it can never be 50/50. A man can never come close. 50/50 is a scam. Men should provide the majority of the resources but they still won't come close to the role women play hence they need to add pampering to their duties. But black men don't understand.

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  2. Can even be more than this ratio on either end,you should know each other's capability and COMPLEMENT yourselves!

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  3. Relationship will thrive better when people stop measuring who did what and when just so they reciprocate.

    Besides, I do not think relationships can ever be 50/50. One person's actions may outshine the other in one aspect while the other will meet up in another aspect. However, in all, one person will always do more than the other, it's a given.

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    1. Sabella, but 50/50 is exactly what you have just said, but in another way. You and the poster is saying the same thing but in different ways. Las, las everything is reciprocated and not one sided, like our 'part time' actresses always advice us to totally depend on men for bills.

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    2. Lagos Mainland Girl10 December 2020 at 14:52

      I believe in giving your 100%
      Giving it your all to make it work

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  4. 50/50 yen ti poju, u might end up like dt chronicle poster of yesterday. If u giv men tom tom dey wud ask fr d whole shop. Lets work with 80/20 biko.

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    1. If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative... always know when to close the account.
      The Chronicle poster from yesterday only got her eyes open after her account was running -0

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    2. Each should expect the exact proportion of respect he/She invests in the relationship then. No one is mumu.

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  5. I believe it shouldn't be 50/50, but 100/100. Love/giving should not be conditional.

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  6. If she cant pull same weight he does, what'd you expect her to do? Sell her mothers wrappers & trinkets to match up? NO! Her loyalty love and respect is enough till she can afford to reciprocate... as long as she didnt twist his arm backward to give her a treat.

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    1. Exactly why people should go for those who can reciprocate.....not everytime i can't give because i don't
      have
      and the love and respect is both ways so...not a point

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    2. Gbam @ 14.03. Just as we always say a broke man should have no business with erection, so should a broke lady stay off relationship and not dream of marriage till she has her acts together. Relationships/marriage is not a poverty alleviation programme.

      Women and double standards are like 5 and 6.

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    3. So if shes giving me mind blowing sex coupled with her humility & honesty, I shouldnt go for her cus she dsnt have money?.... but ofcourse love & respect goes both ways.

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  7. supporting each other is everything in a relationship. But not necessarily 50/50. It shouldn't be forgotten that man is suppose to take care of the woman, so nothing wrong with treating her like a queen. Nature says so

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  8. Dem carry belle 9months come suffer for labour pain born una pikin, stop work for some months to nurse am, add the sleepless nights and all the discomfort that comes with it.
    All these small small tips in relationship for women no reach wetin dem they suffer. 2yrs in marriage. One child, women they try abeg. It will be wickedness expecting my wife to contribute 50/50 abeg. My 2 cents.

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    1. Them force you to marry carry belle.. If you know u don't want to carry belle and stop work then don't get married aunty.. Be single I repeat nobody would kill you...

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  9. As long as he's willing to share ALL house chores in the same 50:50 ratio( in a marriage ni o, not co-habiting), why not?

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  10. I have no objection to this, if the partners are both liberally understanding. Love is all about reciprocity, like a family friend would insist.
    This way it lowers the risk of having to see your partner as the one whose duty it is to treat you well. And makes more marital decision more respectful. With what we see today, partnership is the way to go. No one owes you your happiness, and if it's not working you can easily break up the contractual agreement that binds the marriage. Joint efforts, joint decisions and joint everything because you both contributed to the actualisation of the project. It might not be exactly a 50/50 thing, more like a 60/40 (medium) or a 65/35 minimum, where the one with the higher income takes the higher stakes and not necessarily gender base. Both sexes deserves their peace and happiness in a relationship.

    I ran away from dependency, because it infringes on an individuals right and limits their privileges. It might not be apparent but it will always be there and manifests when push comes to shoving.

    I remember a lady friend asking her then boyfriend; "You said I should bring something to the table, what if I am the table?"

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    1. Oge, lemmi help you. I agree with you but the 50/50 means his best and her best. Non should with hold.
      Nice comment by the way.

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  11. My type of relationship. You either accept or we are just exchanging sex for gifts and money

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  12. Reasonable sense here.

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  13. Never. I know a lot of women that do 100% to 0%.

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  14. I don't agree Biko, a successful Relationship shouldn't be measured on a 50-50basis, because we can do equal things for each other?? Are all fingers equal??? What happens to selfless acts??? I hate all this rules/ talks about how a relationship should be/ not be...... everyone should do what works for them.

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    1. Exactly. It is not competition, both parties should do according to their capacity. Give and take is key, be selfless, be kind, be generous but it is not competition and I disagree with the 50% analysis.

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  15. Not possible.
    80 percent of homes in Nigeria are already being run by women. Men are useless.

    If you read the 10k/ 50k post yesterday, you'd see how we insisted that our money is our money, hers is for the family. And still we would throw tantrum if we are asked to do house chores cos Men not slave, any woman that wants a man to add his financial contribution to the home is a shameless woman and not a Real woman, A real woman provides for the home, it's in the bible, ours is to just fuck suffer labor pain and born and theirs is to til the soil. They should go and farm and provide for us as god commanded

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    1. Ah ah, Dante! Long time no see. Was looking for you in yesterday’s chronicle. Take care.

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    2. Lol anon,you wont see him there nau. Its on posts like this that he thrives

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    3. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  16. Are we still talking about all this 50/50 shits?!

    A woman is a help meet to her man.

    If everyone were willing to do their duties in the home, we won't have issues.

    Why be with a man that can't feed me and our kids

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    1. This mindset is wrong... not completely wrong though, but wrong.

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  17. Let me throw a question for you ladies to answer in solemn moment-

    1. when was the last time you bought a guy, your guy, or your husband a gift.. now I'm not even saying a tangible gift oh, just a useless gift as usual, when was the last time you bought the useless gift, or spend money above 1k on him without demanding back.

    2. when was the last time he bought you that a gift and spent over 2k urgently on you?

    Person weh no fit spend 1k of her money on a man without becoming a bitch the next day, acting irrational until the guy decides to give her back double of the amount she spent would now agree for 50/50 sharing..
    I pray..

    PS; please, don't go and buy gift for him now because of guilty conscience and take his Peace and manliness away oh.. You'll buy small thing now and start announcing to the would how you are the one sustaining him and keeping him alive..

    May God continue to help we good men✊

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    1. Lagos Mainland Girl10 December 2020 at 14:50

      When i used to have an ex,i used to give him gifts
      Someone that was kind enough to be paying me salary before a job came,what is a gift that i wont be able to give?
      Lots of ladies are not stingy especially when they love a guy

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  18. Lol too much relationships dos and don'ts.
    When a man/woman loves you for real, even the angels would be jealous; Whether you take even 70% of the responsibilities as yours or not.
    just pray you don't end up with an inconsiderate person. Cause at the end of the day, when the chips are down, an inconsiderate person won't even reason how much you have brought or not.
    For me tho 50/50 dsnt exist. Thats a fallacy .

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  19. My own idea of 50/50 is:

    He buys the car, I pay for the fuel.
    He buys the house, I buy the welcome mat.
    He buys the movie ticket, I buy my outfit.
    He pays for the meal and I pay the tip.
    😏


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    1. Snaker my kinda BITCHπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°. Most of them singing 50/50 fucks outside and brings to coins to d table. BullCRA!!!!
      My principal my law my ideology.MY STYLE, dude if u can't deal, take a walk

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  20. Hubby took us out for a family dinner and forgot his card. I gave him mine to pay and of course he had to promise he will pay me back. I will collect my money cos that dinner was his idea and not in my budget...we spent over 50k oh....love my hubby but this case my money has to be paid back..lol

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  21. Please, stop this nonsense. God who created relationships defined it. It can NEVER be 50/50. Women give over 1000% more, please. Emotional support, 9 months inconvenience, LABOUR PAIN, sacrifice everything to raise children etc and a man expects 50/50? Please, if you can't be a man, BOUNCE!!! Being a man is far different from having a DICK and inserting it into a woman, mbok.

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  22. Please, stop this nonsense. God who created relationships defined it. It can NEVER be 50/50. Women give over 1000% more, please. Emotional support, 9 months inconvenience, LABOUR PAIN, sacrifice everything to raise children etc and a man expects 50/50? Please, if you can't be a man, BOUNCE!!! Being a man is far different from having a DICK and inserting it into a woman, mbok.

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