Stella's Singles Mingles Success Story...

Ao nice!!!

''This world is a small place.........

it happens that the guy I'm getting married to, his mom knew my mom's elder sister. 

They once attended the same church parish, back then in Lagos. So as S&M is next Sunday, Stella let me share my success story with you. 

I wrote down five guys number and added them to my WhatsApp. I must confess, I have never believed the success stories my sister impressed on me to drag me into looking in. I cut off contact with 3, after one week such was how available they were. Maintained contact with 2. 

One actually swayed my interest from the word go. I took good interest in him, my sister that dragged me here had told me to be open, enthusiastic, believe but not have any expectations.

 Back to my gist, our chats grew and I actually got to like him. When I was in the country for holiday, out of curiosity I asked we hangout, we did trice before I went back. 

To him, I was based in Abuja. I had told him I came for an exam and a meeting in Lagos. I hardly come across a guy effortlessly easy going, intelligent with a damn feel good personality.

 On meeting him, he was what he appeared to be. We actually had a very lengthy discussions on each of the three times and what, he is my kind of guy. But he told me he was seeing someone from the S&M, so he can't commit to another dating by the side.

 Honestly, I was disappointed but glad he was as honest as he had been with our conversations. We remained in contact, since we agreed to keep the friendship. I was glad I did. Because it was the best decision. We reconnected back early this year. And it has been nothing but joy and grace.

 He proposed in October, I connected him to my sister a week later, who introduced him to my parents. And he did same, I have spoken to his parents and siblings - didn't even know he has one in the US as well. And from reports by my family, I've been told, his family is very liberal, accommodating and very respectful. A nice family to be married into, and a very great man.


So on last Monday, I spoke to his brother that's based in the US for the first time. And it was a friendly chitchat introducing myself, he was surprised I wasn't based in Nigeria, because no one told I wasn't. 

We got along fine. I later spoke to my fiance, communicated my parents resolve that we have our small and short traditional on their anniversary in February, after the registry come January ending. Then threw the bombshell that I wasn't actually based in Nigeria. And he had gone mute since then until today.

 He called as he seldom does, because I don't like calls. And said just alright. 

Asked some questions. My dad had called me yesterday that his people have accepted our proposed date and that they will be exchanging village visits during the coming holidays. I'm so excited for the progressive work of God in this chance encounter.

 Thank you Ikechi for being very simple and not difficult. Above all extremely respectful and supportive. I still cannot wholly admit that S&M stories are true. 

Maybe I'm just among the lucky few. Maybe until it dawns on me that I am truly married. Never in my wildest dream did I see myself marrying from Imo state, I have always made my Anambra my only choice. But most of our men our too igboish (sic). And no one should say I am desperate, I am not. I merely took a gamble at an opportunity, like we ladies do in our daily works and got a win.

 I pray this luck robs off on more people in the upcoming singles and mingle, in Jesus name. I love you Ikechi, you know I do everyday. May God give us the grace to live our marriage in peace, so our efforts will not be in vain. Amen. 

Please do forgive the disjointed story, I actually started it last week hoping to post it by weekend but did not have the conclusion I prayed for and his go ahead to do this until this morning. I'm grateful to you and to everyone.



WOW Congratulations in advance..Please send photos when the wedding holds so that i can see!!!

Stellas Singles mingles started spontaneously after God inspired me to go ahead and just do it,so i give God all the glory for its success.I cannot count those married from this platform cos its been over 50 or more and i have lost count.

We pray for more love and more success stories.

Thank you Lord