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Thursday, February 18, 2021

EX Beauty Queen Helen Ajayi's Co Wife Pours Encomium On Their Late Husband Dr Ajayi + Says She Was Waiting For Him To Return Home

There is Drama currently ongoing between the two wives of Dr Tosin Ajayi who was the MD of first foundation Medical Centre...

His first wife Mrs Oluyemisi Adenike Ajayi who was involved with the second wife, former beauty queen Helen Ajayi at his funeral a week ago over dust to dust rites, wrote a tribute to him indicating their love never ceased despite his marrying a second wife and says she was waiting for hi to return home.....

 







  her tribute:

“Dr. Joseph Ademola Olutosin Ajayi, you were so many things and different things to so many people. But to me, you were my first love, my only love, my friend, my only husband and the father to all my 5 children.

I still can’t believe you are gone and keep wondering why you did not say goodbye to the children and I.

The children called several times to check up on you during the lockdown, but quite unusually, you neither picked up nor returned their calls. They informed me and I also called you and you did not pick up as well not knowing that you had been hospitalized. If I had known, I could have prayed and called on the Great Physician to step in. I would have used my nursing experience to look after you.

But I did not know until the sad news of your passing came to me on 27th April 2020, the day after you left this sinful world.

I still remember vividly and with nostalgia how we met at Island Maternity Lagos, during your Housemanship and my midwifery course. It was on my birthday, 1st March in the year 1973. You heard that a nurse in the hospital was celebrating her birthday and you were curious to find out who shared the same birthday with you. I remember how you jumped into the ward where I was being celebrated by my colleagues and you shouted: “Happy Birthday to us”. And we have been friends since then. We fell in love, went everywhere together and were seen everywhere together. You were very jovial, very smart, very intelligent and very caring.



You were my first love, my only love and the only man I ever knew.

I still hold dear our humble beginnings.

There are so many sweet memories to hold on to: our wedding day in July 1974, our trips together to Kano for your National Youth Service Program, the birth of our five children (Oluwatomi, Olumide, Omolade, Oluwamayowa and Abisola), how you fondly played with them and gave them pet names, memories of our romantic vacations abroad and celebrations of your successes as your career progressed remain fresh. Our excitement when we started the First Foundation Hospital and later, its medical equipment arm, is indelible. How can I ever forget all the times we wined and dined and just had plain fun as a family and the great friendship we had. How much you loved to hear me fondly call you “My T.” I cherished our partnership as husband and wife. I remember how we were able to build our house; how I took up the financial expenses for the home and the children’s school which freed your income for the building project.

We were living together with our five children happily until one day when you informed me you needed to stay away from home for “security reasons”. Your explanation sounded reasonable to me and I consented, and you were still visiting home almost on a daily basis. I usually try to go along with your wishes to avoid what could affect the children adversely.

Thank you for all your hard work for the family. You worked so hard to provide for the children. Our welfare was always your priority.

You were particularly focused in ensuring the children have the best, always saying that the children must be more successful and have greater achievements than us.

You were such a dedicated Doctor. You had your whole heart in it. You took the calling and responsibility very seriously. I remember how you would continue, late into the night, talking about your day at the hospital and the improvements you wanted to make. My sleepiness, notwithstanding, you would persist in your reflections on the hospital, your patients and your vision for the future. You were totally consumed by your love for medicine and your patients. And I couldn’t help but love you more for it even though it meant you spent very long hours outside the home.

Despite your double royal roots (Ajantari Ruling House of Odo Ilaye Igangan & Osungbohun Gbaadu Ruling House of Iroko Omo Igangan), you always demonstrated immense humility in all your ways, and always made yourself accessible to all and sundry.

Thank you for your decades of love and friendship. I am grateful for all the years we worked together and how you continued to check up .on me. I appreciate all your financial and other gifts over the years. I am thankful for your presence as well as your financial contributions towards the funeral ceremonies of my late father in 1999 and my late mother in 2015. I am grateful that you were always thanking me for looking after the children and seeing to their welfare even when you were not around. Thank you for always being proud of me and the children.


Despite everything, I never lost faith in our love. I consistently prayed for you. I also prayed and waited for your return and hoped that you would return home someday. But God knows best. I continued living in the first house we built since 1980 and you never asked me to leave the house.

I am profoundly grateful to God for all He enabled you to achieve, the wonderful children and the beautiful grandchildren He blessed us with and for being my first love.

Sun re o, Tosin mi, My T, till we meet again on the Resurrection Day. Amen.

Your wife, your love,
Oluwayemisi

123 comments:

  1. Read, to the end. Such an interesting tribute. May his soul rest in peace.

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    1. Yea...this is so touching but some men seems to have short memories that after going through tick and thin with them, they will abandon the woman

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    2. House officer and nursing student these days na mainly hit n run.
      I hope it was different in their days

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    3. I like that she wrote this! It shows they have a story and a history, it made the other wife an intruder, no story, no history. Take heart madam, he derailed, but good you forgave him.

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    4. Hit and run and they had 5 children together? Was that comment made to show the sillyness in you Anonymous 13:39 😏πŸ₯΄?

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    5. Emotionally laden piece. She went down the memory lane....

      Wished the man returned home before his demise...

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    6. Anon 15:01 surely you’re not that dim. Read again.

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    7. Me looking at these women pouring encomium abi wetin Una dey call am? untop man wey no gree divorce one or marry the other. They are busy fighting for a man that does not deserve it 😏😏πŸ₯΄.
      Nonsense, yeye dey smell. We women need to stop belittling ourselves.
      Hian 🍾πŸ₯‚πŸ·πŸ₯ƒ

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  2. See! She made it clear to all and sundry that she is his legitimate wife..abandoned and left in the shadows, yeah but still legally married.

    Weird flex for a dead man. πŸ₯΄πŸ₯΄

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    1. This is what I call true love. RIP to him.

      My uncle worked with him in the early 2000s and told me many things, some children still dey outside mehnnn, how he do establish his gfs




      *Larry was here*

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    2. Small thing I for born for Dr Ajai all my days of knowing him, he hardly acknowledged her, whatever it was they hard ,he refused to recognize,it was also Helen Helen Helen.
      Anyways never suffer with a man, I don see plenty,my mama inclusive.me na choo and go I dey.
      RIP Dr, just barely 3yrs he got Recognized with a massive award. Rest on sir....

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    3. My idea of love is so messed up. What if Helen did something to this man to make him stick to her? I saw it happen before my very eyes and I was told there was nothing that could be done about it. I had to let it go and since I look at people "so in love" with side eyes always.

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    4. Anon 19:18 you know what’s up!

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  3. ThIs woman has come to possess her possessions. No be by we are so in love.
    The action he takes to protect you when he is no longer there is what matters!
    Why didn't he divorce this woman properly and marry Helen to protect her, if he loved her so much??

    Helen played herself mehn!

    Women if you are in Helen's kind of relationship. Did traditional marriage with you while he did court marriage with his ex wife and has not signed the divorce papers, Better wake up from your dreamland and insist he does what is right!
    If you want,keep telling yourself you are the one he loves, his village people know you as the wife and you born kids for him.
    Sorry will be your name when shit hits the fan!!

    The man died intestate.(meaning he didn't write a will)
    I come in peace biko!

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    1. Some women will never receive sense, see how the man played them both. Someone abandoned you and your 5 children for years but ure here praising his dead ass, is it for will, property or what 😏πŸ₯΄?
      Helen, big shame you didn't play your game well 🀷🏾‍♀️. Where has this woman been all these while, you kept mute until he died and now writing epistle on social media.
      May God help th settle it but women let's receive sense.

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    2. How do you know he didn’t have a will?

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    3. Anonymous 11:54, get your facts right! Dr. Ajayi never abandoned his first wife and her children; she left him for 12years before he decided to go and marry Ms. Helen traditionally.

      His only mistake, was not legally divorcing the first wife.


      He waited for years for her to come to her senses

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    4. I wonder how a man will abandon you for many decades always public with another woman then you say you were praying all this while. for a return ..women they struggle for Africa sha o ...the man is never being called out but eulogised.

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    5. Mrs A.E, some things are left unsaid and I won't come here to say private things but all il say is that women should receive sense.
      I know the family very well, so I know my facts.
      Everything, punishment, pain, endurance always all poured in women. The man ate is cake and still had so much, see how women are being played 😏.

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    6. Selfish and wicked man, no one has blamed him and see how the silly women are pouring praises on him and fighting each other.
      Go get bottle of wine and get drunk
      Rubbish

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    7. But Dr has other baby Mama's all over nah! What's this? Stella get ready for many claims o

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  4. I read it all, I was so touched...reminds me of myself and hubby, however not sure if he strays i will be waiting sha.
    accept my condolences Ma'am.

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  5. He never married the beauty queen traditionally or "churchically" or did he? I dont envy polygamous homes mbok #mantra. Hahahahahaha

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    1. Nope. No traditional, court or church wedding for Helen. I don't know why she was dragging shovel to pour sand first at the graveside. Quarelling with the pastor for announcing his first family before her. Unnecessary fight over pouring sand in a grave...

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    2. Na wa for the Helen. I thought she was a classy woman like Agbani or Genevieve.
      How many years did she stay with the man if the first wife moved out twelve years before he married Helen.
      How did Helen do a change of name without legal marriage documents?

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    3. At the end of the day they are not all classy. Faux classy.

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  6. Madam beauty queen come and write your own. Write your love story with your husband, we want to read it too.this love story is valid and this is what a beauty queen put asunder.always reaping where they did not sow?

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  7. True love!
    It is well ma. May the Almighty God continue to be with you and the children in Jesus name. Amen

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  8. Love, indeed. But he still fell into the arms of another woman. Okay ooo. We have heard.
    If the roles were reversed, would the man be writing like this? Just asking for a friend.

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    1. You people are easily swayed by mere written words.

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    2. good question

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    3. Forget the long epistle, the first wife is playing her card well..

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    4. All na for property. Gbabeyi na money matter

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  9. Some men get sense sha! This man just used everybody catch cruise.

    He came to this life to enjoy and enjoy he did till his last days.

    Imagine making a whole five children with one woman, left at that critical stressful time when children needs care most....checked into Sheraton Hotel, stayed there for a whole 10 years chopping the life of his head probably with different women until he met a beauty queen in the person of Helen prest whom he decided to have a kind of permanent cruise arrangements with while still sending money to the first wife to take care of the children and that's why he did not divorce her.

    It wasn't easy for first wife to move on because she was saddled with the responsibility of raising five young kids all by herself (Where will she move on to with five young children?)

    Both women are victims of a selfish man.
    First wife..he did not divorce. Second wife..he did not marry fully.
    See how he left without tidying up his mess...still using them to catch cruise even in death.
    May all parties involve find peace and rest.

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    1. You said it all, both women are victims to be honest.
      Those shouting why didnt she move on, try moving on with FIVE young children and try seeing how many men will marry u not with 1,2, but FIVE KIDS. It aint easy,even taking care of dem is work.
      Her story is sad.

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    2. The first wife is still The wife. Helen did 'wa joko' hope I got it right.

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  10. Chai. She’s battle ready. She mentioned that they built the hospital so Helen, I don’t think you can claim that one or their house. All these women that go in where a man has built with his wife looking to reap. Just make sure he builds in your name because, anything acquired by him and his first wife, the children will fight you To pieces.

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    1. But he met Helen 10 years after he left his first wife. This woman is just looking for properties. Helen too was foolish. What was she looking for with a man that didn’t have divorce papers?

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    2. WHAT WAS SHE LOOKING FOR WITHA MAN SEPERATED FROM HIS LEGAL WIFE

      WOMEN STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN
      DIVORCED OR SEPERATED

      LOOK FOR YOUR OWNNNNNN

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    3. Helen was indeed foolish, an enlightened woman for that matter. Na wah.
      I can imagine what Sade Okoya must have made Okoya sign atm πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£.
      She would have sorted her generation out 🀷🏾‍♀️

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    4. Safe them na Muslim her case different o

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  11. If a man of means abandoned home to live in a hotel for 10 years, everyone should ordinarily know that he considered the wife at home a devil that he didn't want to continue to associate with.

    Then he chose to marry a second wife who gave him joy, love and peace of mind for the second stanza of his life.

    That was his prerogative; that was absolutely within his rights.

    Helen Prest's marriage to Dr. Ajayi has been in the news for over 2 decades, why did the ex wife keep mute and didn't raise a dust throughout those decades?

    Could it be she knew exactly the wrongs she had done to the life of that man and knew that the man would go public with details of what he went through in her hands?

    Would that be the reason she waited until the man died?

    No one should apportion any blame to late Dr. Ajayi. He set his home and his life right while alive; it was his trouble-maker of a wife who chose to have his memory disrespected and maligned.

    That ex wife is an ex wife from hell. She set the man's children up to mess up their father's interment.

    May every man not have her type as wife in Jesus name.

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    1. He was not married to Helen. Was still on good terms with his wife and 5 children.

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    2. A man living home does not make the woman a devil.

      Some will wrong the wife so much and run away.

      He is an educated man, so why didn't he marry Helen? Why didn't he divorce the first wife.

      That man ate his cake again and again.

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    3. WOW so you are saying that the woman was so devilish that he stayed with her and had 5 children with her(im sure he knew of birth control). Then he now ran off leaving his 5 defenceless children to live with the devil that cannot be lived with!, whilst he decamped to the sheraton hotel. He now met and "married" another woman without divorcing his first wife.

      What a great man he is !. Funny how they always try to twist things to be the womans fault.

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    4. You are a goat. Hear me loud and clear. Do you know how mentally challenging it is for a young woman to have five kids, close in age? The man is a selfish person, who left the noise for cosy in a hotel. To live free. While the woman was saddled with responsibility before a vain woman came in. I hope Helen gets nothing, if in life you could not get marriage, why get property? Many mistresses de pass 40 years sef.

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  12. Yen yen yen. Madam first wife we can read between the lines. Time to share property and the first (and original) gate have found a beautiful way to fireback at Helen. Helen was the side chick that their late father left them for. Helen, enjoy your battle. Hope our late uncle made special provision for you and your girls because their eyes are red on your matter. Lol

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    1. Excuse me?! What's wrong with her coming to fight for what she built with him? Even if her N1 is not in any of the projects what about her non-financial contributions? May someone unjustifiedly reap the fruits of your labour while you stand back and watch!!! IJN!

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  13. This yeye wey dey smell na very big one...hahahahahaha...this woman is a drama queen. She is telling us how she made it easy for him to leave home... yinmu.

    Helen, you will be fine.

    The man is who I blame...why did he leave home? No matter how she tries to paint it, he left her, forsook her, turned his back on her, embraced another and publicised the new love interest...Madam first wife stop making a fool of yourself.

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    1. Why d matter pain you like this? Are u a sidechic waiting for a man yo leave his wife for you? See, he didn't divorcd her n didn't marry his so called new love properly, so who lost?

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    2. The fool is the one who was dragging shovel to pour sand first at the graveside. The one who claimed her 'love' was 68 and didn't know the man was actually 75

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    3. Eh eh, did he deceive her that he was 7 years younger? What a shocker! Wonder what other lies he must have told her, especially about his 1st wife n him, he he he.

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  14. I pray for no wife to experience this sort of abandonement especially when they started with d man...painful stuff.
    However shes not sayn the full story,what sort of arrangement is a husband moving out for "security reasons". He was said to have lived in Sheraton for 10yrs before even meeting Helen.
    There is more to dis her story.

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    1. If you can recall, Dele Giwa died in the deceased hospital then.
      His problems then started with the former president, Ibrahim Babangida, who then sent the army to plant hard drugs in his office.

      Dr Ajayi, was subsequently banned from practising medicine but he delved into another arm of medicine where he made billions from.

      Dr Ajayi was the landlord of landlords on Opebi Road, all the way to Agidingbi in Ikeja...

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    2. Y'all just believe whatever you want to believe...

      Dr. Ajayi never abandoned this woman!
      He waited for almost 12years for her head to calm down, but she was still high on whatsoever she was high on; Dr. Decided to seek love and peace in the arms of Ms. Helen. He paid her bride price.

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    3. Continue writing nonsense all over this post Mrs A. I know the family very well and all ure dumping on here is just refuse πŸ₯΄

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    4. Mrs A why do you keep saying that. Are you saying she left him after 5 kids? Or did she kick him out of their home(tell me where that happens in nigeria). If SHE left him, how did he end up in shearaton? Make it make sense

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    5. He never paid her bride price. Stop lying.

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    6. But she couldn't have taken his name if he didn't marry her somehow? How can a side chic adopt her lover's name just like that? They must have under gone some form of formalities. Can Helen stoop that low? I know she didn't marry early but I refuse to believe she was that desperate.

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    7. She was very desperate and broke after her first marriage. She met a wealthy man and had a baby for him. Probably felt that was okay. Plus he wasn’t willing to divorce his wife. He knew what he was doing.

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  15. May God take control of their situation. And may the departed rest in peace.

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  16. This is both heart warming and sad at the same time.

    Men sha. Always out to embarrass you πŸ™„
    Seemed like he had a wonderful relationship with his first wife but longer throat and greed made him get a second one.

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  17. For a man who left to marry another woman who he remained with till death for 25 years?!!!!! Seriously!!!

    Abeg women we need to do better o. Haba!!! I like the whites eh!!! No white woman would be waiting for one man. She would have divorced him and moved on with another man.

    Chai!!!! Nigerian women have suffered.

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    1. I love the western marital law mehn...if he does anyhow, divorce and collect more than half sef. No waiting for one man to 'come back hone one day'

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  18. A woman hustled with you but when you made it, you dumped her and her kids for a beauty queen.

    And men of today are lamenting that girls are not loyal. How would they be loyal when some of them watched their mothers sacrifice like this only for their fathers to disappoint them?

    Men will do what?...

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  19. Some men will continue to shame the women who stood by then during the days of humble beginnings

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  20. Omo!!!!

    First love usually dey very hard to forget.

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  21. Who cut this onions this early momo? Abeg getat!!

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    1. What is so onions inducing about this tribute now? The travails of a longsuffering wife!!! I actually like ladies of this generation in this regard, this is very unlikely to happen as first wife would have remarried since and had a good life, her kids are still entitled to inherit his wealth.

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  22. Hmmmmm very interesting. Why did he move out of your house for the last 35 years of his life and moved in with Helen Prest? So many questions. See how he made them leave his body in the mortuary for almost a year while dragging in court. See the drama at your burial between your wives and children. Why didn't u put ur affairs in order. Why live with Helen for 25 years without marrying her. Why all these drama for a learned man? Men please stop complicating issues wen u r still alive

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    1. Exactly Sue, the man caused this wahala.

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    2. I don't believe he didn't marry Helen else on what basis was she dragging in court? As side chic? That cannot be. She cannot be granted anything in that capacity. Note that customary marriage under the law is as valid as court marriage. The law recognizes both.

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    3. In court documents she described herself as a partner of 25 years. She didn’t do any sort of marriage with him.

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  23. Hmmm, so what really happened?

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  24. Na wa. All this for a man who left you after 5 kids. Nigerian women never seize to amaze me.

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  25. If he did not divorce her then she has ALL rights of first wife. Wahala for men with plenty wives

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  26. All those wives waiting for their unfaithful husbands to come home, come and read this. Don't waste your life abeg.

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  27. I think helens generations are here vomiting bile up there . Children of adultery wicked and vile like their ilk

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  28. A similar thing happened to my family my aunt married someone husband till he died. You see you women breaking someone’s home with any means ehh una karma boils forever. If I say what happened to her and her kids ehhn you homebreakers will think twice

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  29. A similar thing happened to my family my aunt married someone husband till he died. You see you women breaking someone’s home with any means ehh una karma boils forever. If I say what happened to her and her kids ehhn you homebreakers will think twice

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    1. What happened to her and her kids? The first waived who were abandoned, what crime were they paying for? What are the men's karma? Abi na only women karma dey hammer?

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  30. According to reports from his children, he was never married to Helen. So what is the truth naw?

    Stella, help us investigate.

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  32. Helen have a duty to inform the children and wife that he was sick and admitted. Not to ignore their calls and not informing them especially knowing fully well that you can not bury him alone without the family he had before you came into the picture.

    It was obvious Helen didn't allow them access to him when he was sick and now she is crying 'mrs saint'

    In Igbo land, if you should hide it like that from the family, the kindred will show you pepper not even the first wife

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  33. This woman don ready to fight.
    But again there is no illegitimate child in Nigeria so Helen's children won't be left hanging. If Helen was daft enough to let the man not properly divorce his first wife and then not able to get any property in her name, then she better get ready to fight for her own kids too.
    I pray for both parties to find a settling ground and they be alright at last.
    Its such a pity.
    This life I am learning not to be judgemental. We were not in the marriage between both wives, if somebody is in a relationship that doesn't suit them anymore nothing should stop them from leaving, but when you are about all these do it right, the fact you divorced doesn't mean you ain't gonna take care of your kids, your responsibilities. Be up and doing with them all.
    This is battle sha.

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    1. @ But again there is no illegitimate child in Nigeria so Helen's children won't be left hanging

      False. Please study the law.

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    2. The concubine, Helen, was not smart enough. Its only her last kid that she can fight for a share of inheritance. Her 1st 2 kids belong to another man, her legally wedded divorced husband, Jimmy Davies, and Dr. Ajayi did not legally adopt them. Neither did their father's parental rights get terminated, so she cannot come and fight for inheritance for those 2 in another man's house.

      Las Las, all the 6 children of the man should get a share of their father's inheritance. However, I see this Helen as being very greedy and wanting to take all the lion share. She sounds controlling. She needs to be put squarely in her place. Dr. Ajayi had a son, ba? So madam concubine, shift!!!!


      If this man really loved this Helen so much as some people are saying,
      he would not only have done ALL in his power to secure and protect her, his daughter by her, and his step-daughters as well, their futures. He could have finalized his divorce, especially as all his kids from his 1st wife are all grown (so no excuse, maybe he still loved that woman and they were actually still actively an item, lol don't trust men!), then he could have married Helen legally, then adopted her other 2 kids. Lastly, he could have written a will, providing for her and her kids in the will. That shows his love.... The man no do any of this.......Helen, he was playing away match with you......it was a long away match but still a ground ball away match.... now you are upandan fighting and struggling. This people go dey litigate for a while....what I don't like, is that because she be lawyer, she appears to be manipuating the system and judges.....sending judges "sweet messages" WTH.

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    3. Gbam @ I see this Helen as being very greedy and wanting to take all the lion share. She sounds controlling

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  34. i totally feel for this woman, men are so blind honestly

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  35. All I can say is Polygamy is not it abeg. What a mess.

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  36. Never knew Helen was a second wife, duno why show biz involves snatching other people's husbands. Beauty queens and d drama that follows. A first wife will always be a legitimate wife unless divorce is enforced by the court, whether the man lived with a second woman for 100yrs. Helen sorry o

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    1. He never married her so she wasn’t a second wife.

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  37. That man was educated to the core and if he never divorced the first wife that means there is love there and he still cared. Even men that leaves their first wife and properly divorce, they find a way to continue the communication. Marrying a man with kids is a sketchy thing. You are just adding cruise to the man. The man will cruise with you until he is tired. He will cruise from east to west then north to south.

    Marrying a man with five kids
    Just advise the man to go home and take care of his family as he should. How can you as a woman be happy that a man will abandon his home and five kids? That's an extremely wicked man. Some dumb woman will blame the wife, she must have done something. Don't be dumb and silly. Tell that married man to go home to his wife. If you eventually marry him, know that he will never stop communicating with his first family. If you want lock him up somewhere, eventually he will.

    Whether he has been separated or not for years. Whether he has been divorced. Men don't really leave. If they marry you as second wife, the first few years will be sweet then they are back communicating with the first wife. Same woman they called a demon. Because they have realised that the second wife is not different and the problem is him.

    And Helen is a lawyer too
    I am sure she tried her best but he refused to marry her legally.
    That man used you Helen. He did. He actually did.

    First wife na first wife
    Whether they lived together or not at the time of his death.

    May his soul rest in peace.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. If he never divorced the first wife that means there is love there and he still cared.

      This is a lie, please. Let's stop deceiving ourselves.

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    2. By the way
      The mistresses are not yet out.

      Those ones are hiding.

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    3. Living apart from a woman for 35yrs,almost 4 decades isnt love dear.
      Im sure he had so many chances to return back,she never re-married,she was still living in the former house they shared.
      The man was just a selfish man abeg.

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    4. He might have been having a relationship with his first wife all these years, you never know??

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    5. How is he going to rest in peace with all the problems trailing his soul?

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    6. How will she remarry after 5 kids.

      Couldn't she have given that man like 3 kids and stay with two?

      That man really enjoyed his life. Maybe he has love for her but was not in love with her.

      KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    7. chop knuckle.

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    9. It can only be xoxo! Always spitting facts.
      However i disagree with giving the man some of their kids tho. This greedy helen might have succeeded in manipulating them against their mom.

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  38. Yeye dey smell
    Polygamous family wahala dey too much

    Polygamous married is not for the fainted hesrts

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  39. Battles like this call for serious spiritual back up. I won't take sides, because I don't know what really led to him marrying a second wife. I know a woman that has entered serious night vigil prayers because of her husband's family that started asking questions about her late husband's properties immediately after his death just last month o. No second wife or concubine drama. The drama is coming from his family members that used to abuse her when her husband was alive. They accused her of doing love portion for the man... She said that because of the way they treated her when her husband was alive, they don't have the boldness to ask for the keys to his house and cars. She said that the only thing they can do is to fight her spiritually as they can't win a legal battle against her. That's why she started serious prayers o.

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  40. Very well seconded!!!!

    I've always spoken against ladies clinching themselves to married men. I'll never get the sense in that.

    By the way, the man too no try, he played both women, only God knows how many more concubines he has

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  41. Men are polygamous in nature, single ladies should shine their eyes.

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    1. Not true. I have only gbenshed with my wife for 13 years of our marriage. BTW I am rich and handsome. Please don’t generalize.

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  42. This woman is battle ready, all this to pepper Helen. A man left you for years for decades, he refused to attend his daughters wedding.he alone knows something about the DNA test

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    1. Helen, welcome o.

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    2. Mscheew! Dna test and he refused to divorce her and move on.
      My fren goan sit down!

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  43. So long as he validly married the first wife in accordance with the Marriage Act and never divorced her, she is the one recognized, at law, as his wife and protected thereby. EVEN if he wedded Helen traditionally thereafter, that is bigamy which shd ordinarily attract sanction. If he never married Helen, then Helen has no leg to stand on in the matter. Her only claim in the circumstance, would be through any children she may have had for him. If it is proven that they are actually his children, then they are entitled to a share of his estate because by virtue of the Nigerian constitution, no child is considered illegitimate.

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