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HOW TO GET RID OF A MARRIED MAN TOASTING
Please I need your advice Bvs. I'm a 23 year old single lady.
I was just confused when hubby asked when are we going to gbensh the other side( anal) this is three years of our marriage.
Please I need your advice Bvs. I'm a 23 year old single lady.
I have this friend of mine,i have known him since I was a teenager(i was still in secondary school) when I met in "church". He saw my surname and requested to see me.
So I saw him after the program and he asked if I was related to his wife. We answer the same name, same village, but different clan. So He calls me his younger sister. He has always encouraged me to do well in school, now I'm working on my project, he calls all the time to ask how it's going BUT I noticed lately he'll be dropping this I love you, I miss you,i can't wait to have you to myself line.
We fought about this sometime ago. I've made it clear I CAN'T and WON'T have anything to do with a married man. I don't accept anything from him He calls and drop some lines I'm not comfortable with,I constantly tell him I'm not comfortable with his conversation and tell him to avoid me.
If I talk he'll say I'm too shy, I'm being too serious . Truth is, I'm not comfortable with it. He doesn't pick my calls, he says I'm a student, he's the worker he should do the calling. He always comes with this talk to elder brother. If I ask him what he wants from me, he says me. I've told him he can't and won't have me, and he'll just laugh.
How do I politely tell him to disappear? I may be over thinking but I don't care. Please help me out
*I hope he is not the one sponsoring you in School or paying any of your bills?It is for stuff like this that birth crimes of passion...BLOCK his number and stop acting as if you dont know how to get rid of him.....block everything concerning him before you end up in his bed.
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NARRATIVE TWO
*I hope he is not the one sponsoring you in School or paying any of your bills?It is for stuff like this that birth crimes of passion...BLOCK his number and stop acting as if you dont know how to get rid of him.....block everything concerning him before you end up in his bed.
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NARRATIVE TWO
FROM BEHIND
I was just confused when hubby asked when are we going to gbensh the other side( anal) this is three years of our marriage.
Randomly when we got married we got talking I said anybody that wants anal will buy dildo for me to do the person too.my butthole is sacred I love doggy; he was giving me doggy and also touched the Rim of my anal later stopped, only for me to hear that he is not into men.
My problem with him is women, I asked him so you like anal all these yrs you never told me, he said some of the women in the past love it .so as big as this gbola is you want to put it here, I just jejely collect my sweet head in peace , so as I dey like this man that can leave you if anything happen that I will now give my sacred butthole to tear.
Pls Stella and Bvs I have learnt a lot from here , I will never ever make that Kind of sacrifice in the name of marriage. Bvs talk to me pls go anonymous and say something to me is it worth the sacrifice? people that enjoy it how do you do it? how will I collect my own enjoyment as I no get d##k.so many questions on my mind....
Butt hole gbenshing is a no go area for me abeg.
Poster 1 block him n stop calling him. Or tell him to pay 5m into your account, if he can't let him bounce.
ReplyDeletePoster two... you know, men who live gbenshing shut holes are closer gay, they may deny it but that's the truth. How can you forego the main Road n love nkoro way?
Poster 1, don't ask him to pay no damn 5 million, that's actually a chicken change to some people. Just block him, fullstop!!
DeleteBB..
Delete@point 2.
That's not true.. please check the definition of gay again.. so long as it's between people of different genders, there's nothing gay about it. You would surprise you to know some of our forefathers also engaged in it with their wives..
If she doesn't want to, fine.,. It's not meant for everyone, even some guys that ask for it don't know the right way to go about it and end up messing things up.. so what do we call girls that request for it? Or you think some girls don't ask for it? A friend of mine way back, it was his girl that kept asking him to, that she experiene deep orgasm from it, but my gee didn't want to try.
Let's not spread a wrong misconception. A gay won't even be turned on by any part of a female..
By your assertion, so you'll say Christian Grey of 50 shares is gay bah.. nah.. some people just go extreme with their love making.. some are more adventurous than others..
Bless
Dante CG is a character in a movie naa. Ok lemme call them bisexuals rather, but they keep denying it and defending themselves.
DeleteIf a girl asks for it n you plunge into her shithole, it means u can dive into anybody's own no matter d gender coz our ikebe passage is the same,its just softness n d bouncy effect that differs.
No hon'.. they are not bisexual..
DeleteI'm talking of confirm homophobic guys.. Lol.. Anyway, let me leave it at that..
BTW, ikebe isn't the same, a guy can lap a fellow guy and not get hard but that wouldn't be the same with him lapping a girl. If we're to go with your school of thoughts, that means all guys that grind on a girl's ass while dancing are gay.. Nah mammi
How is the butt hole of a female different from a male? It is like saying the nose of a female is different from the nose of a male. If you as a man can do a female butt hole you can definitely do a male butt hole.
Delete20.50..
DeleteHow is the lips of a male different from a female? It is like saying the nose of a male is different from the nose of a female. If you as a woman can kiss a male lips you can definitely kiss female lips.
This is how ridiculous you sound. Male is male, female is female. They're not and can never be the same
Dante you are the ridiculous one. I have always pegged you as a closet gay for 2 reasons. One, you protest too much against gays. Two, you love to drag with women. Come out of the closet already. Stella post, because you always post whatever rubbish he is willing to type. Another thing you always feel others are dumb, but you are actually the dumbest of them all.
Delete@Posternumber1,stop acting like a toddler and get a grip.
ReplyDelete@Posternumber2,your husband is probably bisexual and what more can i say? Absolutely nothing!
Poster 2 Its all about what someone can take or not. I have met a few friends who says they love it even more than virginal sex. One told me tha Quran says annal sex is so sweet that it is forbidden. It's about personal choice and there is no right and wrong about it. If it husband is asking for it and you can't, tell him so. Your marriage can't be threatened because of annal sex abi? Even homosexuals, it's not all of them that engage in annal sex. Most of them get their satisfaction from oral sex and heavy petting.
DeletePoster I Of course you know how to tell a man off. If he refuses to listen to you, threaten to tell your pastor or his wife. Kini big deal.
Sapphire this is a wrong information about Islam's view on anal sex. This kind of sex is ABSOLUTELY haraam(forbidden) even if husband and wife agree to do it. It is described in the Qur'an as the sin of Lot's people which as Christians you should know the story of Lot and his people. It is forbidden in Islam please.
DeleteThanks for the info 18:24
DeleteYes. Annal sex is haram. Read what I wrote again. That is so sweet that it is FORBIDDEN. That's how my lady-ustaz friend told me.
DeleteShe is wrong by saying it is so sweet. It is forbidden. That's all.
DeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteYou are still young so I can understand your confusion. Send his wife an anonymous text using bulk SMS. Tell her everything. Give him the last and final warning. Block him everywhere blockable. Even if you see him on the road, don't greet him. I have a feeling he wants to go diabolical. That's why he laughs anytime you reject him. Pray too. It may be the devil wants to use him to smear and ruin your future.
Poster 2
There is no marriage in heaven. Everything marriage ends here on earth. Point blank: don't try such. It isn't a sacrifice but madness and death.
Poster 1, please don't take this advice to contact his wife o. The average Nigerian woman will blame you even when you're not interested in her husband
DeleteWhich one is you call and he doesn't pick bla bla? Whatchu calling him for since you want to get rid of him? Geddifok
ReplyDeletePoster 2, Don't do it. Tell your husband to continue fucking his gay partner and leave your butt alone
I mean.. 🤷🏻♀️
DeleteShooter oooooooo, d
DeleteAsk her oooo
DeleteYou probably misunderstood. This calling was a long time ago. Just how you would want to call a friend who has been checking up on you for years now.
DeleteI thought I should bring that in for a bigger picture.
And thank you darling for your wisdom
Poster1 you Know what to do you're just enjoying the attention he's giving you.
ReplyDeletePoster2 if that place start to leak na only you go suffer the repercussion, and what if after pleasing him then the marriage come scatter later(God Forbid) how do you intend to move on with a leaky pumpum.
Thank u gift dont mind her.
DeleteI'm sorry you don't get it. The calls got too frequently now and that's why I'm asking because it doesn't sit down with me.
DeleteThank you
It doesn't sit well with, don't worry it will soon sit well with you, then he will sleep with you, get you pregnant and abandon you then your eyes will clear.
DeleteWhat are you waiting for to block his line everywhere? Continue till you get what you are looking for.
I think that calling she is saying is in the light "she can't even call to warn him to stay off"that he only does the calling to say his gibberish, Nne see what you will do,just block him everywhere and have your peace back!
DeleteMy dear this thing is easy.
DeleteDON'T PICK HIS CALLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
STOP GIVING HIM ATTENTION BY PICKING HIS CALLS!!!
that's all💞
Poster 1 - How more polite can you get cos from your chronicle, you have been polite enough. Now, it’s time to cut the bullshit.
ReplyDeleteUnless you want something from this man, I don’t know why you haven’t cut him off or is the chase a thrill for you? Stop entertaining him.
Poster 2 - If you don’t want anal, be firm when you communicate it with your husband. Don’t be giving compromising statements like you want to use a dildo on him cos he might just accept.
But for the record, I don’t condemn couples that engage in it as long as both of em like it.
She's definitely enjoying the attention. Poster stop playing naive and stop bothering us with your irrelevant matter abeg. Imagine the question she's asking? Hiss!
DeletePoster 1 do as Stella said and if after that, he finds another way of contacting you, report him to his wife. Stupid married men looking for whose star to dim. Ask yourself, why the devil is using him, now that you are about completing school.
ReplyDeleteNo 2
ReplyDeleteJust buy/subscribe to adult diaper companies before you begin that butt hole thrash. And when you start leaking poop, the man will quickly offload you and marry another "fresh butt hole" chikito. 🐤🐤🐤🐤🐤🐔🐔🐔🐔🐔
What an interesting read from the two posters.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 that man is an ashewo kobo kobo man. Shameless idiot. Block everything about him. Be firm and stop laughing at his jokes. He is a useless man. Christian my foot.
Poster 2. Tell your horseband, you will use cumcumber (strong one) put in his butthole, if he shout, slap him. Yeye man. He is getting it outside. Adulterous man. Better tell him to be using condom on you before he gift you expensive disease
No 1;
ReplyDeleteYou are just enjoying the attention. Okay, keep enjoying a married man attention. Hmm Acid dey smell o. Both from him, for chopping him down and not delivering, and from the wife for "your daring to dare"
Seek the peace in Christ and leave that impostor/hypocrite. BLOCK HIM, DELETE HIM from your phone and from your heart😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝
I no know book o. 😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝
If I were, I wouldn't be asking would I? But thank you for your advice
Delete1st chronicle block that man and stop pretending before his wive devours you and your family.
ReplyDelete2nd, don’t do it. If he uses his big gbola to cause problem for you, he will abandon you when you start smelling. It does not worth the sacrifice. Any woman getting married should be prepared for anything. Snoop, snoop. Marriage is not everything. A cheat will cheat irrespective of your sacrifice. Put yourself first.
Truly as you said 15:25 a cheat will cheat regardless of your sacrifice.
DeletePoster one Stella has said it all. Ask yourself why you are still entertaining him.
All these pipu wey de find anal dem no de fear shit????
DeleteThis Q has been a constant probe in my mind. I wish those who engage actively in it would give me a satisfying answer.
Poster 1: Why are you making attempts to call him? Please end all conversations with him. Does he send you money or you demand money from him? Please stop it and block him everywhere. And face your studies and make platonic friends.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: By now you should know your dealbreaker. Anal sex has a lot of disadvantages which one can suffer in old age. Your vagina was designed to explore all carnal pleasure of the world. Why involve in anus which is for defecation only. Aint you guys gonna smell . I am even irritated typing this. Do you want to start wearing adults pampers
I don't accept anything from him. Nothing at all.
DeleteThe calling was before, not in the recent times. I thought I should bring that in for a bigger picture
Thank you
Poster 2. Please don't do it no matter the pressure. It's unnatural and not Godly. Quite disqusting and hope he not tending towards gayism
ReplyDeleteTwo years ago I had a tear in my anus caused by passing strong stool,was in tears for two whole months cos anytime I pass stool it rubs on it and reopen s, doctor called it anal fissure, the only solution was surgery.
ReplyDeleteGod had mercy on me and healed me a week to the surgery.
I will rather pack my bag and leave my marriage than engage in anal sex cos the pain I went through was out of this world
Gbam. Because at the end of the day, you lose. When you start having problems, that selfish man will shift his pleasure onto the next... marriage ijihji, ike gi ijighi. Double loss.
DeleteDuring anal sex fluid leaks into your vagina which will cause severe infections. My dear pls say no no no
ReplyDeleteEwwwww
DeleteThe level of ignorance about anal in this blog is stunning. Yes, just like every other kink or fetish, anal is not for everyone. It also takes a certain level of preparation and both parties have to want it.
ReplyDeleteIn the course of my dating years, I have had a number of female partners who requested it and absolutely loved it. The orgasms they had from it was mind blowing. Not that they couldn't experience vaginal orgasms as well. But in their own words, anal orgasm was a more full body experience.
There are rules to anal. Not everyone is even capable of knowing, understanding or even following them.
Like the English say, don't knock it until you try it. Don't try it until you are prepared for it.
The same revulsion some men have to giving their women head is the same revulsion some have to anal. No issue with that. You don't like anal. You don't need to use unprovable lies and supposed truisms to justify your decision.
You for explained give us the ignorant ones. You just exposed our ignorance and left us dry.
DeleteWith the plenty knowledge you have on the topic, how come you mentioned the pleasures derived but forgot to mention the implication of it not only for women even for gay men that engage in it?
DeleteWhen you mention pros also mention cos so your reader can make the choice for themselves.
Anon 17:49, he has nothing to explain, he's just deceiving and convincing himself. I must act woke by force kind of person.
DeleteThe problem is that deep down the bv is not interested in the act. Those women who you are talking about were interested and asked for it. You did not coerce or pester them, they requested it, big difference.
DeleteThere are numerous women who are interested in anal, the poster is not one of them. She is doing this to try to make her spouse happy and save her marriage, that is not a good enough reason, especially in light of her spouse being over endowed.
He knew where she stood on the matter before marriage and should have sought out a woman who shared his taste. I hate deception. If you know that you can't live without something then let your partner know before marriage so they can leave in peace. Now you going to nag and nag to get what you want and wear her down. But I know a few cases where relationships and even marriages that broke up over this very anal issue. You have to stand up for yourself in this world. Next she succumbs to anal, he will be asking for threesomes then swinging, strangulation, who knows what he will spring on her next. And I am farrrrrr from being a prude, but I always support free will in the bedroom. So I refuse to give her tips because she doesn't want it and should stand firmly in her truth.
...@readers...
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to ask you all this silly question. If one engage in anal sex, and your partner cums inside your butt, can it lead to pregnancy? Just asking for a friend.
Poster 2 Snoop on your hubby he is bisexual. Don't trust any male friend you find with him and don't leave young boys around him he is a pervert.
ReplyDeletePoster 2: SOME RULES FOR ANAL
ReplyDelete1. YOU have to give your express consent to it. No one should pressure you into it. Never
2. Lubrication! Lubrication and more lubrication! Even if you think you've applied enough lube, add more..
3. Never ever go from anal to vaginal. If you must experience vaginal sex and anal, do vaginal first.
4. Always have a safe word for anal. Just like any other fetish you are trying for the first time or any other time, you may have a change of mind later. Your safeword is your denial of consent. If your partner insists on continuing, that is rape!
5. If anal must be done, then it should be after a good bowel movement. It can be a tad messy but preparation helps.
6. Get sex toys. Anal plug, benwa balls, anal bead etc etc
Delete7. Shower and be very clean.. eating the ass from the pussy might occur first..
8. It's not advisable to do with with guys with extra large dicks.. average normal size.. yes
9. Don't engage in it always
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Una try ooo
DeletePoster 2, avoid anal by all means, no marriage is worth ur health cos when the complications arises, na only u go suffer am...
ReplyDeletePoster 1; you're a student and acting all ignorant as if you don't know that the man wants to devour you.. abeg chop and clean while at it don't do oshofree, demand for big big money before he gbenshes.. ehen!
ReplyDeletePoster: anal sex is very sweet and has no consequence, the after effect will keep you realing in extasy for days.. submit your bithole to your hubby, he owns your body, don't allow Umu highway collect him from you oh, d thing sweet die, you won't even fancy fagina gbensh again...
Poster 1 please I beg you in the name of God, STAY AWAY FROM THAT EVIL AGENT OF THE DEVIL. This is how a married man approached in church when I was a teen. I didn't know his real intentions and was 15 years living with extended family that maltreated me. He was also a youth teacher. I trusted him until he started hinting at us being together and I immediately told him I didn't feel comfortable with it. My mistake caused by naivety was that I thought I could still be his friend. You see I saw him as an elder brother almost like a father figure. I just forgot about the incident. Until his wife came from Nigeria and I thought he would definetly not bring up the discussion again not that I was even thinking about that anymore. Anyways he asked me to meet him that he wanted to talk to me. I agreed. He came to pick me, parked somewhere and started telling me that he wanted a relationship with me, if I never read p*rn magazines ( we were in 2006 so those magazines were still around), if I never feel the need to have sex, that he will give me money etc. that he really liked me etc I was so speechless and nervous. I didn't say much just made it clear that I was not interested. I don't know why but he didn't try to rape me or anything. I don't know what stopped him. The day after he went to church with a message he sent himself and started telling those in position that I was going after him and begging him to be with me and sleep with me. I tried to defend myself but to no avail. Those people I lived with were only happy to see me disgraced. I was humiliated, called names etc. If I tell you the things I went through because of that evil man, you will curse his entire generation. Just because he didn't get what he wanted from me he destroyed my reputation and my life. And I was just a teen ooo. Please stay away from that man. Some men are evil can go to any extent when they are rejected. If one day I have strength I will send in a chronicle so that parents can use it to warn their teenage daughters about these wolves in sheep's clothing.
ReplyDeleteOh dear. Thank you for sharing
DeleteIt so sad that these wolves hide in church. Some even have high positions and claim to know God and be righteous. They involve themselves in every church activity, carry big Bibles, are married with kids, but resort to what anon narrated, deceiving and using young girls and vulnerable women. God sees all. He will judge.
DeletePlease tell me something awful happened to him at the end
DeletePosted 2: DON'T DO IT. ANAL SEX IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU
ReplyDeletePoster 2 your heart is already telling you not to do it. Don't do it.
DeletePoster 1, why are you still in contact with the man? Is he sponsoring you? Because I don't understand why you would be calling a married man that obviously wants more from you when you're allegedly not interested.
ReplyDeleteIf he's sponsoring you, why? Are your parents not alive? Don't you have older siblings that can help you? You better meet them and ask for their help financially. Tell them this married man is trying to take advantage of you. If you come from a good family, they are more likely to protect you from such a man.
Poster 1 is obvious you like the attention you're getting else putting him in his place is no big deal. Poster 2, Hmm! That will be a rough play, don't get carried away love, game wey go cut go cut.
ReplyDeletePoster 1 block him stop indulging him.
ReplyDeletePoster 2 ,no do....o, keep your anal hole safe
Say no with capital letters to what you are not comfortable with. It’s as simple as that.
ReplyDeleteI’m a man and anything anal irritates me.
Once my EX asked if it was anal I was about to give her during doggy style, nah so my prick fall yakata immediately.
Poster listen Your Ass(Anal) is for (poo)shit while your Virgina is for sex. Any man wey no like am make him rest.
No, ma'am not at all. I should and I will. Thank you
ReplyDeleteThis is why I hate secrets around things like these. But I get it, ppl fear being judged so they keep quiet then want to unfold something on you that you never signed up for.
ReplyDeleteHonestly, nobody should be forced or pestered into doing anything that they do not want. I am not going to get into all that you should do, because your heart is not into it, you are only forcing for the sake of keeping marriage alive. One day you may end up hating him and yourself for not sticking to your beliefs. So if anal is going to cost you your marriage you will not be the first. Of all the possible sex acts this is the one where you need to really be interested in it for it to work and you don't end up damaged. You could easily hurt your body if things are not done right. Furthermore, what if you start it and that is all he wants all the time, are you able to live with a stretched anus and the possibility of losing stool control in your older years? Pregnancy can cause incontinence even after the first child, can you handle the possibility of not having any control at both ends? Please think long about this. He is not going to lose anything by penetrating you, it is you who have everything to lose.
Abi nau, enjoying others butt hole but leaving his own. Some men sha..........
DeletePlease note: Poster 1 explained why she called. But she has not answered whether she is collecting money from her admirer.
ReplyDeleteAdvice given to her are not likely to work until that question is answered
No, I'm not collecting anything from him. Not a thing. Not money, not gift, not birthday gift, not recharge card, nothing at all.
Delete@Poster 1. I remember how one married man was disturbing me. He said that the wife just put to bed. I jokingly ask if the baby is sucking very well. He said, his wife does not breastfeed all the children they hard. Then, I ask if it is a family tradition or if she has serious medical issues. He said not all. I told him that we will go to hospital to do HIV test together. That was how he stopped pestering me.
ReplyDelete@poster 2. Don't start what you cannot finish.
Poster 2 please dont make that kind of sacrifice that you will live to regret..Do you know the health challenges that comes with that?
ReplyDeleteDo you want to star wearing diaper because you anus cannot hold your poo again?please dont give him that for the sake of your life.let him go and get it where he use to.infact he is a wicked man and dosent love you simply.