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Thursday, April 08, 2021

Actress Uche Ogbodo Rants About Marriage, Abortion And Domestic Violence + Advices Older Ladies To Become Singles Mothers

Nollywood actress Uche Ogbodo has advised single ladies to quit having abortions and starting having kids, when marriage isn't forthcoming...She tells them to have a one night stand!

Please read to the end and try not to be shocked and lets discuss the points she raised.












According to the video she posted on Instagam...


''Hello guys, let's discuss the topic single and pregnant at 30 and above..
I am above thirty and I have my choices to make, there are so many women like me in Africa but unfortunately they don't have the kind of mind and heart that I have, they can't do what I do because of society.


I am 34 years old. I'm real I don't hide my age. I already have a kid ,this is going to be my second child and I have a boyfriend who loves me, I'm happy.


The thing is I never planned for this but it happened, and I am not a candidate of abortion. I don't support abortion because I'm Catholic. From where I come from abortion is an abomination, so I grew up with that mentality. 
 I didn't abort my first child who is six years old, when I was twenty seven despite all I went through with the guy I was with then.. I still had her.. now I'm 34 and you mothaf**kers want me to abort this child?.


So many women within my age group are dying to get married, praying, doing rituals and going to all sort of places to have a man because they can't have a baby out of wedlock, they will be crucified by the society and disowned by their families.


When you get to 30, 35, 40 and you are still waiting for a husband, why don't you have your child, who will take care of you at old age? I see women at 35 committing abortions, are you mentally sick? wake up,is it because of what people will say?.. I am not criticizing anybody. I think our culture and traditions did this to us. the enclosure and restrictions are too much.


please when you get to 40 and no husband is coming ,please have your child don't think of what the society will say. A man who wants to marry you will marry you, regardless of being a single mom or not


Men respect single women with kids more because they feel you are matured and grounded. They listen when you talk. African men don't respect women like that..

I heard something today, about a 40 year old woman who went to the hospital to freeze her eggs because she is waiting for marriage. Do you know how painful it is to extract your eggs or freeze it. please just have one night stand and have your baby. Everyone mustn't get married.


There are some girls of my age who used to be beautiful, I saw one yesterday and I had to go back to her page to confirm that she was the one. The irony of it is that she is even married but looking old and ugly. Please stop killing your children especially when you are of age,  if Marriage comes, fine but if it doesn't come, raise your kids


Single motherhood is hard, I'm a single parent and I know how hard it is. but the devil thought he could bring me down but I punched his face. Grace! you need to hold on to something in this life never walk alone. You need to hold on to God, forget others pretending to love you.

 Be prayerful, it is the holy Spirit that will direct you where to go. This life is tough, I don't go to juju house, it's only God I know , he directs me, I'm always cracking my brain ........


I'm not saying Marriage isn't good. it is good when you do the right thing, marry the right man, marry your friend. Let me say the truth, I wish to get Married but I'm not desperate, I won't kill myself as it hasn't come. I want to have a partner, a husband with my kids , live in a mansion ,drive beautiful cars, travel round the world.. that's the kind of life I want.

I am a woman who should be under a man. but I'm still here, it hasn't happened doesn't mean it won't happen. I'm 34, my time isn't over.. I'm going to be hotter than before after the baby. I'm doing to have my man, get married but if it doesn't come, that's fine.


Women in domestic Violent Marriage, how do you cope? a man punches you, blood dropping out of your nose and eyes and you will still remain there, do you want to read your own obituary ? life is expensive. I don't know about life after this one or reincarnation. I believe in this one I'm living.


I have phobia for men who will raise their hand on me.. the minute you try it I'm gone. it's over. When you treat me like a princess that is what I like. I have sharp mouth but I don't have strength, if fight comes I will run away. Women collecting punches, you have strength, I didn't say you should leave your house but if it is not working it isn't working.


That was how I helped a girl whose husband beats her mercilessly, I squatted her in my house for two days, when her husband came to pick her because she informed him she was at my place he threatened to burn down my house and seal it, and nobody will talk. The man beats her with a pistol.....


Lady please don't go and die for love, I don't know what is love, love is f**k after two to three years you guys will be tired of f**king if there is no friendship I'm not sure the Marriage will still survive. Please calm down, life is small small. Women don't beat your husband also.


Marriage is understanding that's why you need to marry your friend. Nobody should beat anybody. let's do better. so all of us won't stand on the street. You people said being single and having kids is a sin.. it's an abomination but committing abortions is not a sin?. Please do what works for you. Nobody should send me to offend God and kill God's baby, I can still get married. my man hasn't dumped me, we are still together. nobody knows the future. Please let's calm down''.

79 comments:

  1. stop encoraging people to jion your badwagon, encorege people to do it the right way, we do not have 7 billion people on earth today because people were baby mamas, encourage family life and let people stick together

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    2. Before I even address the matter, dear Uche, you are not 34 abeg just cut that crap.

      Back to the discussion, yes I agree to some extent but calling someone ugly now cus you stumbled on her page is bad, do you know what that woman may have suffered medically. It may not even have anything to with her marriage. What if she has a terminal illness.

      Also stop projecting your ideas on others, I also believe people should have kids when they get to a certain age, but let people do what they want to do, if they chose too wait so be it.

      What works for you may not work for others. In everything just do you.

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    3. You have children to love, care for, Train and appreciate not solely for them to take care of you in old age... that is a very selfish reason to have children, that means it’s all about you and you only.
      When you care, love, train and be happy with your children, they almost automatically care for you not just in old age but always because you have a good relationship with them.
      It comes naturally not you demanding it.
      This woman is all over the place though. I hope you can find the peace of God in your life

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    4. the most a child will stay with you is 25 years they will start up thier own lives and the lonelyness you are running from you will sstill jam it and become a bitter mother inlwa fighting to stay with your children at old age, being married and having a life long partner is the key

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    5. What I find money is when they scream abortion is a sin! Abortion is a sin!!!

      Ehn but the foki foku you are doing is not sin ba? That one is wisdom abi? Buahahahahahahaha.

      When the head is 3 times the sizes of the content, this is what you get.

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    6. If u follow Nigerian culture u will lose out MENTALLY!

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    7. I agree to an extent sha.but don't encourage giving birth out off wedlock and one night stand biko

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    8. Hmm.
      Those Twitter and Instagram rats, hope they're happy now?
      They've been keeping vigil on her page for weeks.

      Uche's mental health is obviously unchecked.
      If her relations love her,they should go get her.

      A Catholic doesn't want to abort babies but preaches fornication, without a condom, pushing for one night stands?

      She basically tabled the 5Ws and 1H of her life and how she got pregnant this time around.

      It is well nne!

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  2. Should we call this one pregnancy hormones?

    Madam do what you want and don't try dragging innocent people into it because you don't want to be the only person in that situation, you want to be a single mother? Please go ahead but don't discourage people who still believe in love and marriage.
    Good, enjoyable marriages filled with love, respect and imperfections still exists.

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  3. Nice epistle. True words, no bearing about the bush. I hope we will pick one or two or things from all she said. Some people will come and disgrace their ancestors by attacking her for being realistic.

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    1. Except the 1 9t stand , everything she said na TRUE

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    2. True how? Having a child for the sole purpose of looking after you in old age is very selfish thinking. Have you thought of how that child may be affected psychologically in a single parent home? It is such children that are living 'gang life' in the western world now and that is what we are steadily cultivating our own society to become soon. An ideal family structure is needed for every child's development mentally and emotionally. Where it is not possible, do not force the hand of God please. Widows and divorcees are allowed and we will continue to encourage them because they did not create the situation wilfully. But saying to have one night stand or have unprotected sex to make a baby to take care of you is a totally warped reasoning!!!!!

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    3. Exactly, except the one night stand, I agree with having kids, once a lady is between 35 and 40 years. I have 2 aunties who are over 60 years, one is married and one isn't and none had kids, they kept waiting until it was too late, there is IVF, surrogacy and adoption as a last resort. If you insist on boxing yourself into the mentality of "must wait till marriage comes" none of those people talking will take care of you in your old age.

      I received all sorts of advice when I was single to "try and marry" as if there is market where they collect husband but I refused to go and collect my own, I already planned to have kids and would have had kids with one of my exes or my current husband if marriage didn't come. I don't believe in pity party, take the cards that life deals you and make the best out of it.

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    4. this children will still leave you at old age and you will still be single and die alone, using children as lonelyness sheild is selfish

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    5. this children will still leave you at old age and you will still be single and die alone, using children as lonelyness sheild is selfish

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    6. @ Queen Roster why are you jumping up and down.pls leave Uche alone with her opinion. She's all about having the love of her kids at old age not financial help, she's already a hard working babe.

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  4. Uche just know people are different. Each mallam to his kettle, there's option for adoption but you fail to mention that too.

    All is well.

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  5. Aunty go and born in peace and keep quiet.

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  6. You don't support abortion because you are catholic, really?
    do catholics fornicate?
    "i have a boyfriend that loves me," really? why doesn't he marry you?
    He loves the fornication he is getting from you, call a spade by its name.
    You are just frustrated and espousing immorality which will never be a norm.
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    1. Loooud it anon 10:14.

      She chooses to be Catholic when it becomes convenient for her.

      Oh i thought she was denying and shading sdk up and down on top this her preggy?

      Bikoo uche face front and your pregnancy.

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  7. The rant of a frustrated, "chopped and dumped" lady.
    You forgot to tell us that you thought the daddy of your baby
    was abroad. Most of you Nolly ladies have set abominable and vain
    standards for yourselves and you want to rope young ladies into it?
    I pity the gullible lots that follow you down the path of iniquity.

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    1. πŸ”¨πŸ”¨πŸ”¨πŸ”¨πŸ”¨πŸ”¨πŸ”¨πŸ”¨πŸ”¨πŸ”¨πŸ”¨

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    2. Lies Lies and more lies from this anonymous person, so you have nothing nice to say just vomiting trash. Go and get a life for you need one. Uche is pregnant, positive and happy...why does this affect you so much.
      Ask your spirit this question and i wish you peace.

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  8. All these advices should stop already, people shouldn't be pressured to do what they don't want to or consider morally wrong.If that's your decision, don't drag others with you.

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  9. 🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺
    This lady needs those baskets and more, to cover her
    face of shame.
    Patience is a virtue. Wait for your husband who will find
    the good character in you.

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    1. πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚ plenty basket you got there.

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  10. Uche is not 34, she's 39

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    1. She is not 39, she is probably 49

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    2. Oh, I thought she is 99. She is still very young then. Age-o-meters.

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    3. Uche is 34, she was my junior in FGGC Lejja. She doesn't actually hide her age, what's with this age dragging all the time? Are you her parents?

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  11. Which one is she's married but ugly and old? I sense jealousy here.

    Love is not fuck uche. You're just incoherent in your rant. I guess it's cos of pregnancy hormones.

    Good luck to you, your babies and your boyfriend that loves you.

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  12. First Uche stop hammering on 34 because you are not 34 maybe 43.
    Secondly Uche the father of your first child MARRIED you and I have a witness. Stop the constant denial and face your pregnancy hanty

    Hope you’re not pregnant for a married man sha maka na anya adiro gi nma cha

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    1. She must be pregnant for a married man.

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    2. Fan,I know uche reach house..she is 34 going to 35 this year...

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    3. I am the queen and the boss that's a white lie. Uche is not even 37, you don't know her reach anywhere. Leave that official age nonsense. If Uche is 35 then my elder sister is 31.

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    4. Uche is 34. She grew up in 9th mile. If you grew up in UDI, Ngwo etc, you will definitely know her. She was quite popular that side when she first started acting.

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    5. Uche is 34 years please.....I went to school with Uche abs her elder sister. What's with her age all the time? That your aunt was in same department with her does that mean they are age mates, your aunt may have had delays getting admission into the higher institution. Arsenalfirstlady we don't know your sister, so we can't tell her age.

      I know Uche very very well and she's 34 years.

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  13. Well, if husband no come, get a married man to impregnate u.

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    1. She said get a one night stand.Lmao.All these slay queens no go kill person.

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    2. And become a rival to another woman, torturing her for your selfishness. Una go say na pikin you want but will commit the madam with all the jazz such girls do!

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  14. What an adviceπŸ€”πŸ€”. Everyone are not the same, what works for you might not works for others. My opinion.

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  15. What a shame. No shame at all. Shameless uche. Looking for partners in crime to follow you do what you have done.

    See her worwor mouth. No fear of God to encourage you to do the right thing.

    Catholic indeed. So na fuck fuck you be. Church goer na you be. Make I go church make them no ask if she dey go church

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  16. Did this pregnancy make her wiser. True words, but no two persons are the same. Just do what makes you comfortable and don't force your ideas on others. I know they are ladies that even at 45 can never have a baby outside wedlock. It's all about different believes, so Nne save delivery.

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  17. WOW. so fornication isn't a sin...lol. talk about God/Holyspirit and then lace it with fornication...nice one.

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    1. @unknown, that her assertion for me was a no no. you can fornicate as a devout catholic , but don't abort it when u get pregnant, cos its an abomination. damn!!! Is it King James version or New living translation? I am weak.

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  18. Didn't she say she had been celibate for 2 years the other time. What is wrong with these Godforsaken celebrities. Na we say make you no marry? I've not been online for sometimes, what's her story abeg?

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  19. Catholic = universal.
    Even the Roman catholic churches preach against fornication. It is through fornication/adultery that Baby Mama emerges without it no Baby Mama/papa.
    Uche you see eh, God has designed everything for us and they are BEAUTIFUL. Just that we run faster than our shadows and wrong decisions without seeking God's face are leading us astray.
    Abortion is sin likewise fornication/adultery. If you close your legs like mermaids, I guess baby mama/papa will reduce.
    Ask God to forgive you to deliver successfully which I'm praying for you.

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  20. Having children because of old age is all shades of selfish. You should have children because you want to and can take care of them.

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  21. Baby Malu Over8 April 2021 at 11:08

    Let's reason it, she's kinda right to an extent. I don't see why a lady that's financially sufficient and of very ripe age will keep a long wait for a man to marry her when the marriage isn't forthcoming. My maternal aunt also indulged in this long wait for a husband for years till she married at 50 and she's yet to have a child up till now. She kinda regrets her action. For me, assuming I was single at 40 and no serious man is coming for my hand in marriage, I'll get pregnant by a responsible man with good behavioral traits and have a child or two nurture and train them. Then if a good man comes along the line and marriage happens, it will be icing on the cake for me and I'll be fulfilled.

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    1. You can go to the factory/ workshop to create this your man. stop distorting scenarios to soothe your cravings abeg.

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    2. Baby Malu Over8 April 2021 at 13:13

      Such good traits do exist in a man and can be achieved. Bia Mark Morgan I ain't distorting any scenario for any cravings whatsoever of mine, you mustn't comment under my post, it was just a piece of my mind..Selah

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  22. Anakogheri.
    Bikoo uche face front.
    You choose your 'truth'
    Allow others to make theirs.

    All these epistles to justify your belle / pregnancy?
    I attribute it to hormones and guilty conscience.

    Catholic indeed!

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  23. The only point she has here is, stop abortion.
    Every other thing she said after that?
    πŸ’©πŸ’©πŸ’©πŸ’©πŸ’©πŸ’©πŸ’©πŸ’©πŸ’©

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    1. Hahahaha anon@11:21 no kill me with laughter ooo🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  24. So,it is the holy spirit that direct you to fornicate and be pregnant abi,carry your pregnancy in peace and stop looking for people to join you in becoming babymamas.

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  25. The moment we realize that no two persons are the same so are our destinies and paths in life the better for us all. You see this life make legit money and live the life of your choice.
    What works for bimbo might not work for ngozi. Know this and know peace.

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  26. When you have commited fornication already na abortion come dey hard you? You are Catholic indeed. What kind of Catholicism is that. Does the Catholic Church endorse birthing children out of wedlock and fornication? You would have made sense if you remove being Catholic as your reason abeg. Catholic doing one Night stand abi. Igbaliala

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  27. Ihunanyachukwu8 April 2021 at 12:20

    Catho gini. Igbaliala

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  28. Na she sabi..whatever works for her

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  29. Women! Chai!SMH
    Always trying to justify trash always and thereby go deeper into more trash..

    Why don't we start with the reasons men are no longer interested in getting married to most of you again, is it still not all these nonsense attitude and misbehavior that cause your first predicament..

    I pity anyone who doesn't have a mind of his own and taking advice from all this dumb Internet advisers.. after she talk say she be celibate, she carry belle and still come out to be talking trash.. no shame anymore nah

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  30. Good advice for financially independent women. Pls don't follow such if you are from a poor background, raising a child alone without a man is not going to be easy especially in Nigeria without child benefits.

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    1. “Child benefits” here are for low income folks. Those that earn below a certain threshold. I know a lot of naijas think everybody here got or gets checks for their kids. Read up on Google. Many pray to not be so poor or low income as to qualify for these hand outs. I’m glad it exists and gets to those who need them but folks don’t like having 4/5/6 kids here o. It’s expensive.

      I know it’s a contrast to Nigeria where it’s the politicians and the rich that are welfare kings and queens, living in government houses, diving government cars etc. it’s up to the citizenry to stop the nonsense! US senators rent or buy their homes with their money. Only the president, VP, Governors & in some states Lieutenant Governors (deputy Governors) live in government houses and get taxpayer funded security.

      Nigeria is upside down. The poor need welfare but the rich get welfare and keep folks in poverty. Child care is expensive here oh, unless you want your child to live in the ghetto and not go to good s hooks which are by zip codes.

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  31. Mind the kind advice you take ooo.
    People should take this short life easy and see what tomorrow brings.
    Don't rust it and hurt yourself.

    Imagine having s*xual inter course with any yeye man because you want a child.

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  32. Confused creature. A lot of these women in entertainment tend to sound pretty dense. Madame, u alone led urself to fornication, okay? Leave God out of it. As concerning ur advice, so what's to say that the child u propose a woman should have out of wedlock to assist her old age, will survive her? U can't play God, okay? Just seek His face. Obey His will and it will be well with u as He promised. Child or no child. Shallom.

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  33. My own is to work hard and have tangible investment for old age.
    Enjoy life to the fullest.
    Pray for good health while waiting to see what tomorrow brings.

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  34. This Auntie too MUMU ooo! You want to be gbenshing up and down and justifying it! Abeg shift make we see better people! Aging fast like my grandmother in the village shioor!

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  35. I hate this kind of rubbish talk stop telling women to go and give birth because time is against them not everybody is capable of being a mother some will be shouting they are proud single mothers when they meet a man who sweeps them off their feet with their sweet tongue some of them abandon their kids with their parents and marry off they won't care if their kids are living or dying some of them may go with their kids but will turn blind eyes when their so called husband abuses their child because their so called aim in this world is a man I read a story this morning on Facebook and I wept about a single mother of two girls that married and her Huband was sleeping with her kids when those girls told their mother what her husband was doing to them with evidence the mother destroyed the evidence and accused those two girls of trying to destroy her home and bundled them back to the village to stay with their grandparents the younger one committed suicide and died and the other one has not recovered till date.
    I hate the idea of telling people to become mothers just because of menopause a person should be prepared both mentally and otherwise before giving birth to a child most especially if your baby daddy is not supportive to prevent transfer of aggression to your kids. Child bearing should be all about sacrifice, ability to nurture, forgive and raise good kids not what you do for selfish reasons please.

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  36. She is right to some extent. If marriage no gree come, just have one or two out of wedlock and continue ur life.

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    1. Then harass the man later after initially saying you just needed a sperm donor. The wife will not rest after a while. I am an advocate of equal consent and equal responsibility for pregnancy circumstances. You should t deceive a man into pregnating you only to turn around and say he isn’t taking care of you and the child you alone decided to birth. Look at Baby Z from Susu & Banky among others conceived in love, wanted beloved. A child is too previous to use as a trap or to terminate in abortion. It’s called selfishness. Having a kid for a man will not make him love you. It may make him hate you if he feels trapped.

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  37. Rubbish talk.

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  38. Mental illness is real. She needs help

    I also notice she loves putting snakes around her neck

    But then again most Nigerians love snakes something ill never understand.

    No wonder the devils African Headquarters is in Nigeria

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  39. Thank you. They want to wear fashionable things but do not realize these are covenant products. The devil is becoming more brazen in these end times! Serpentine jewelry, God go I’d. Even if it is 100 carat

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  40. How can a 35 yr old lady commit an abortion

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