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Saturday, April 17, 2021

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    1. Gbam 🎯 18:07

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    2. Get it. Men don't wannaatry side chicks... It's just for the sex styles and some other little things the wife can't give cos she is one human being. She can't do it all at the same. Side chicks lightdn the load of the wife.

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  2. Nothing spectacular, tbh.
    It just the excitement.
    Don't get it twisted, we don't enjoy them more than the wives -if not, she'd be the one at home- na just cruise.

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    1. Why can't you cruise with your wife then?

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  3. No side chick compares to madam. Even if na second wife I no fit love am pass.

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    1. If you love am you for no see side chick in the first place.

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  4. I’m even afraid of getting married sef, this my fiancΓ© shows signs of cheating

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  5. My understanding is because it's stolen, done in secret. Then, see finish

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    1. Exactly!! The excitement that comes with it.

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  6. My hommies just recruited me on this side chick thing, first hookup is by next week thursday, as madam think say she carry golden p***y na, for her mind, she dey purnish me with s*x, for now reason. 24th of this month will make it 90days I do am last, as a married man o.
    Never cheated once. Na this kind sturbon head make her do CS when we had our first child.
    You see this life ehn, who get head nor get cap, and who get cap nor get head, this life nor balance.
    Aside her, I've never had it with anyone else before, I was a virgin till we got married, but as e be, I don lose am completely.
    Told her parents many times, they keep begging, but as e be, to beg no fit do am o.
    Stella, biko don't post if I nor dey anon o, abeggg

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    1. Why is your wife punishing you by starving you of sex?where you guys already married when you were pregnant with your first child?

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    2. Your wife is wrong to deny you sex
      But do everything you can to justify adultery, you can't justify it.
      God won't be on your side if you go on with adultery.
      He said he will punish adulterers. Be patient and talk with your wife.
      Let her know that she is pushing you to destruction and that you might have
      to exit if she continues. Be plain with her. 🀷‍♀️🀷‍♀️🀷‍♀️

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    3. Don't start it. You would live to regret it.

      It's better you resolve matters with your wife than go outside.

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    4. What do you mean by "na wetin make her do CS" do you think pushing whole human being is easy?
      I had a lot of anxiety and so I went for an elective CS, that anxiety could have led to high blood pressure.

      Don't ever compare your wife to other women outside when it comes to pregnancy abeg.

      Sorry for your predicament, and I wish you can have a heart to heart talk with her.

      Most women will do anything even counselling when there's an issue in their marriage, how about you try everything possible to keep your home.

      Please do not use your hand to invite the devil, it may seem fun but what if you were inviting a witch in?

      Imagine if reverse was the case, sheybe we would call her an ashawo.

      I think you threaten her or compare her a lot that's why she punishing you (even though she's going about it the wrong way)
      When you were toasting her you communicated...try communicating again.

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    5. You dey even count, kuku allow am make e reach 100days. God doesn't like adultery, carry your cross o, na the 'for better for worse' bethis

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    6. @push up, you've said it all. What of women that are denied sex for years, those that wait for only Dec when hubby comes home from abroad nko.. those that married in absentia or still waiting for years for oga to come home...

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    7. I am the anon up there.
      @pushup you have no idea of what's going on. Lemme brief you. Wiffy used the girl code 'I've only had sex twice' on me, to be frank, I wasn't really bothered, I just wanted a wife, even virgins won't be virgins after wedding.
      I clean, sweep, cook, do laundry, and return home 4:30pm after work. I take her to work and fetch her after work. Even till yesterday. I don't watch football, don't have a club, don't drink outside, no social outing of any sort.
      So tell me, what else am I not doing right.
      Sexually, I dey try, 1st round is like 8-10minutes, 2nd round is enough. At a time, I felt maybe she has crazy thoughts in her mind she's not telling, I decided to eat her cookies, something I never thought I would do.
      Doc said lack of adequate sex led to the CS.

      @SluttyChic
      We were married before I touched her.

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    8. I am really sorry about everything
      She told you she's been with two people what if its actually true.
      This is why I am not happy with some men posting some kind of things on this blog, they have started influencing your judgement (now you sound like you don't believe she's been with two people)

      I wish I could talk to your wife.
      I think she's going through a phase and isn't communicating properly, I went through a time when sex was a chore to me. It may not have anything to do with you. it's all mental and shes not handling it well.

      Forget those that will tell you not to stress yourself, please stress yourself it is your home, you should keep it. Inviting another person in and giving you guys a chance to drift further apart isn't the best decision.

      Please listen to me, you can try counselling cus she may not even understand it herself. My mind keeps telling me to encourage you. You've started something good, why ruin it?

      Be a different man, I am proud of you, please hold on a little while

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    9. Oga anonymous, abeg try other avenue to resolve this matter. I understand how frustrating dis can be. I tell u, bro, d only reason I have not an wouldn't cheat on my wife is Jesus. Na beg I dey beg you.

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    10. I’m sorry about that anon. You’ve been patient and I applaud you. Give her some time I’m sure she’ll come around.

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    11. "Be a different man"
      I hope you will listen to 'push up'
      May God see you through

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    12. Lack of sex led to CS sounds shady to me. By the way, CS is not bad and it doesn’t make a woman less of a woman if she’s had one. Your wife probably doesn’t like sex or doesn’t like it with you.

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  7. Not entirely correct. Men don't enjoy side chicks more than they enjoy their wives. But if reasons must be adduced, then I'd say it is for a number of factors.

    It is cliche to say that the best way to get a woman to stop doing what attracted you to her is to put a ring on her finger. A number of women stop putting in effort as soon as the security of marriage comes. Some women just stop putting in effort to keep looking attractive to their husbands.
    One key ingredient is also peace of mind and respect. If another woman gives your husband more respect and peace of mind than you do, madam watch it!
    Men look for a friend in a wife. A friend who brings out the inner boychild in him. One he can freely unload his fears to without feeling judged.
    Most times, the side chick is willing to go the extra mile to appeal to his fantasies and desires. She holds no part of herself back. She supplies him with all the sex he craves for.
    The side chick simply allows him to be him. She lets him be the man.

    That said, there is no justification to keep a side chick outside. But truth be said, side chicks are a major reason why a good number of marriages are still going on seemingly strong.

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    1. Lol at side kick giving peace.

      Have you met that side kick on her hormonal jigbijigbi days?

      I bet she cooks up excuses to avoid you on such days.

      The day you meet the other her, you will fly home and appreciate the Angel God blessed you with.

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    2. ..... and it's a wrap.

      Even after saying all these, the stupid ones would still come and insult you, the same insult and bad attitude weh dey pursue their oga commot from house go find peace outside.. not saying we don't have some men with ojukokoro, but why don't you just tidy up on your side and see if he'll mess up before jumping to conclusions..

      A word is enough...

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    3. Dear dog almighty
      Some women do all this and their men still cheat on them with side chics who will even insult them.

      My neighbor (a yoruba woman) was so respectful to her hubby, hardly goes out, always neat, soft spoken but that man outrightly disrespects her and cheats like no man's business.

      A cheat is a cheat ...there should be no reason
      If women don't find thier husband's sexy they try to make them try healthy meals

      If you don't find your wife sexy help her get her sexy back, it's not easy.

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    4. Dog almighty na real almighty for women matter him and his twin Dante. Na serious truth e talk up thereπŸ‘

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  8. Nothing serious o,na long throat things. Side chick will go all out for u,as in lick every lickible and give u all the styles in the world but wifey go feel say na her get u so no need trying hard to impress u..the other day I was doing the do with my madam,wen I just raise her leg up in the air,she shouted "ha abeg no break my leg o,see as u dey carry my leg up like say I be ashi".but side chick go twist the leg anyway u want am.

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    1. True words.
      My wife been dey burst my medulla with her cat that year.
      After marriage, whether I offend ni, baby girl just reduce speed.
      We been dey wipe like 7 to 9 times a week (on average oh) but now, it seems she wants me to beg her for it.
      I just tire bro..
      If not for Hellen wey dey give me joy, I may have gone bunkers in this marriage.
      My wife is a wonderful person, I love her die, but she seems to have discarded one of the attributes that drew me to her.
      But there's no problem; Hellen is deputising just fine in that regard.
      So we dey all right.

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    2. Side Chick can do anything for u cos she wants u to believe that she's better than your wife.
      Marry her and see that's not the real deal

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    3. 7 to 9 times a week? Oga you no dey go work? I am very sure you are not resident in Lagos if not traffic go reduce am to once in 2 weeks

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    4. Women and pretense some women need to learn from this post

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  9. Even the men dont know what they want. they will tell you its in their DNA to cheat, meanwhile their counterparts in advanced countries are using the energy to advance their countries.& when they carry the side chics with their bad spirit, they transfer it to their homes making the poor wives to start running around seeking for solution to wade away the evil spirit brought by the promiscuous husband. greedy lots!!!

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    1. Your counterparts in advanced countries are less liability.. less entitlement mentality, they bring something to the table, not thinking sex is all the reward and support a man needs.. sex weh most of una sef no sabi.. na to lie like log of wood una knowπŸ˜’

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    2. @DANTE, you are a man! I respect you.

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    3. Dante 22:38 πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

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  10. Not married yet. Have friends who are married and they ALL have side chics, i spoke against it till i got tired, one day i asked , why do you guys keep all these babes when you have fine wives at home? Baba tell me wait till you get married , then you will understand. Well, i just feel its an adventure thing for them and not being content.

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    1. Your friends ain’t shit.

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    2. Birds of thesame feather...

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    3. ...flock together

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    4. Please it's not easy for married women to give all the styles whenever you want it.

      You want 10times in a week
      My dear most of them work, come home take care of kids, do assignment, cook or supervise cooks, still do alot of mental work, then she should give you sex 10times in a week.

      Bra, it's not just easy, please put yourself in these women's shoes... remember the man that says his wife goes to bed at 11 and wakes up at 4am... please where is her energy? Is she a machine?
      An understanding husband and real man gets this and sees how he can help...help your wives and see if she won't give you all you asked for.

      Most of you actually think you are doing women a favor yes you may give her a divorce but is that how you'd keep changing wives? you also will be unhappy.

      If you were a women, you'd break.

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    5. Push Up πŸ’―✔️πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ!

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    6. Push up always pushing up women. I see.

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  11. Those are men that Satan robbed of the truth.
    Proverbs 6:32 But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself.

    It is either you destroy yourself or Give yourself to Jesus.
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    1. Side chicks are old school. Men don't do that anymore. They run package and lock up. Sometimes not even bothering to collect her number. Any man who still keeps side chicks is a learner.

      Except a man is an idiot, he won't want to jeopardize his home.

      Ladies,let me tell you a secret. The best way to know your man just took a lick outside is when he is being exceptionally nice to you. Sometimes, it takes a side chick for a man to realize how well he loves his wife. No man will pick a side chick above his wife. But the side chick lightens the wife's burden.
      Na side chick dey make some marriages work these days o! Take am or leave am.

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    2. @Dog
      And you chose to spew this apostacy under a comment that contains God's Word?

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    3. Dog ezenwanyi keep telling them the bitter truth

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  12. I'm a female,married, working, lonely. Sad though but my husband provides for me adequately and cheats seriously
    I'm a Christian and have sustained my faith for the past 12 years. Recently the thought of cheating floods my mind, I masturbated this morning and I will get a dildo on monday. I will go to Lesuka for a drink and gradually ease myself into the dating/side cock game. I'm done over thinking. I've never cheated but I'm ready to try.

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    1. Tor
      Who am I to judge you.

      Dear men, before you call her names, remember she's working for her own money too
      She's prayed and done everything for 12years, what else?

      Why do women have to get the Sharp end of the knife? Why must a woman ride and die until the end...what happened to love, what happened to friendship?
      It's really not fair

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    2. Helen's Man friend come and see what your cheating will cause.

      No one has monopoly of cheating.Instead of you to sit your wife down and speak lovingly to your wife about her behavior you are looking for Helen.

      Worst is women don't look back when they start with their own.

      Shebi una still dey talk say una still love una wife even though say una dey cheat,but una opposite gender dey fling their own love away when they start with the cheating(most times though).

      And women stop denying your husbands' sex,it's not for anything o because who wan s
      Cheat go cheat,it's just so you are not blamed for the result.

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    3. Read Push Up comment here to a fellow lady, and then read her other response above she made in reply to men comments...
      Talking from both sides of her mouth.. I pity any man that takes advice about relationships from a lady.. it would end in tears

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    4. Dante
      I am not speaking from both sides
      I am telling you all to be understanding
      Stop doing what you are doing and see if you won't have peace, except the man is married to a demon

      I am in no way telling her to go ahead but I am replying how you men do, cus you believe any man that earns a living and provides for his home doesn't need to do anything extra, he must have everything he wants since he is the provider (double standards)

      This is actually the first and last I will be addressing you, cus you always never reply politely, it must be filled with insults or judgements.

      You have a funny ideology, who am I to change it.
      Keep looking at all women as ashawo, cheats, desperate, ...na for your pocket.

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    5. @DANTE, I said it up there before that you are a man. I will say it again, you are a man! The ladies on this blog despise you, but if only they listen to you they will really understand what goes on in a man's mind. When I read your comments, for the most part, they reflect a lot of men's thoughts.

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    6. Dante 23:04 πŸ˜…πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…

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    7. Anon is threatening to cheat on her husband and you say who are you to judge her. But the other anon ☝🏿 there said same thing and you begged him not to.
      Beg this one too na. The hypocrisy on this blog is alarming.

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    8. PH babe abeg no try am, hold on to you faith

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    9. Please don't ruin your faith because of a man
      Please hold on dear... God would surly intervene
      Take it up in prayer

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  13. A lot of Wives stop doing things they did to get the mans attention in the first place.They feel hes not going anywhere so they don’t have to do anything to keep him but these side chicks?they treat you like a boyfriend they are trying to get married to.

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    1. That's not what they feel...most are just tired...they do a whole fucking lot

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  14. M advice to women is that they continue to treat their husbands with the same care,love attention they did when he was just their boyfriend.They need to continue to act like they have something to prove and a lot of sensible men won’t cheat.A lot of men don’t cheat because of sex,most do because of attitude,peace and attention.I used to have a side chick because my wife just stopped trying on a lot of issues even after I talked to her for more two years.she changed when she found out I had a side chick and I told her why,I have not cheated and won’t with how she has been lately.

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    1. And you wake up everyday and recite the rhymes you used in toasting her for her right? Wear your best clothes and be of your best behaviour like you did while toasting her right?

      Selfish gender!

      Women are to carry y'all like bag of cement on their heads for the rest of their lives ABI?

      Yeye dey smell

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    2. So, the punishment for bad attitude,lack of peace and attention for a wife is now side chicks! What is the punishment for the husbands found guilty of the same offenses? Na wah o

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    3. The question is why men cheat.when they ask why women cheat,talk about this ur opinion.

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    4. I believe all these are just excuses. Most men cheat because they know they will get away with it. If the punishment for adultery was death by hanging, would most men still engage in it? Even if the wives still commit these same offenses?

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    5. Anonymous 20:02, thank you very much. You see the women on this blog won't allow men freely comment. The men are giving their reasons whether these reasons are legitimate or illegitimate that's not the question.

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    6. The punishment for drug trafficking in Asia is death but people still carry it so leave that thing.Women become nonchalant about a lot of things as soon as there is a level of commitment from the man in the relationship, especially marriage.Let’s be honest with each other.

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  15. Almost all the comments are from anonymous. Lol

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    1. Are you minding Dante?

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    2. Just negodu! Some have πŸ†” oh! 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    3. Lol... the fear of their wives being blog visitors nah

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    4. And from same person. Very annoying thing.

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    5. 19.35..
      E be like say your brain box don shut down..

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    6. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣 19:35. You're smart.

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  16. Side chicks belike chicken wey motor jam for road finally e go run leave am as e see am finish with no one to question am.. u hear me so? ZoneB things.. tell am to go front "na joro Jara joro oo... No break no jam no quench..lol .. chai ..shey I never koba maself like dis.. I no get o....na Stella ask I answer o

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  17. Side hoes are Wheel Barrows.

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  18. Side chicks shows more respect, stolen waters are sweet says the book of proverb. Marry that same side chick, same thing. The grass is not greener but appears to be greener on the other side. Wives give that man little respect even if he doesn't deserve it, it boost our ego!

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    1. Listics, Stella saved you yesterday but I just read your comment again & I'm triggered because its what my egotistical ex said too.
      Why should you be given undeserved respect without earning it? Just because you have a 3rd leg? Some of you, the sex is not even great and if we take sex out of the equation, we have a pot belly, 50-50 bill sharing, mess making, attention seeking manchild.
      Real men don't ask to be given respect to soothe their ego, they earn it by their actions.

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  19. As a married man, I can tell you the reason is because most wΓ­ves start rationing their Pussy and weaponising it in marriage.

    There are many married me who are not getting Pussy from their wives at home for various reasons known to the woman.

    For men....sex is love. For women...love is security, money, value that a man has in the eyes of the outside world.

    Therefore...most women once they get this...don't bother giving sex anymore.

    And the men who cant bear it....turn to side chicks. The others just join soapy association of married men.

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  20. I see a number of ladies under anonymous making comments on this thread. Yes nothing justifies cheating. But when you push your partner to the wall what do you expect?
    Do you know how fucking absolutely mind degradingly frustrating it is for you to be with a wife for two years and she has never bothered to initiate lovemaking? Yet this was a woman who could not get enough of you when you guys were dating! She was asking for it and making moves just about all the time. Now you are married and it is like the fucking gate got slammed in your face. Haba! It is a turn off really. Men don't want to fuck wives for the sake of it. We like to see a certain bit of initiative on her part.

    Most of you anonymous aunties here talking, which one of you has a sexy outfit you wear just to get your man crazy? Which one of you crazy talks your husband's during his day and gets him all riled up that he can't just wait to get home to fuck you? Which one of you can fuck your man more than the side chick? He speaks in tongues when she is displaying her talents on him. He barely even grunts when he is cumming after fucking you.

    Abeg make una no provoke me this evening. Don't use excuse that you are trying to keep the home running and the kids. Some of us still contribute and get pitiful nothing in return. We have talked and tired. Yet we still don't keep side chicks.

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    1. Instead of arguing with Dante, can you Ladies please learn?
      The question is why do men prefer side chicks?
      Dante is absolutely spot on

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    2. Listics learn what exactly? Wives not slaves abeg

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    3. Thanks for this tips Dogmighty, you just reminded of somethings now.

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    4. This is so me o,my husband has complained and he is tired.ah!! I will change o

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  21. I dont think they have any geniue reason. Na testing testing dey worry them.

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  22. I am a man, married, and do not have a side chick though I am not a saint. Maybe it is because I saw barefaced the limits of polygamy - that having one woman more does not necessarily improve a man's life, but certainly brings an additional burden. Or maybe it is because I do not have the energy.

    Yes, some men truly have the sexual desire/energy which one woman cannot satisfy so long as the men have decided not to control or re-channel the energy/desire.

    So Anon 18.23, you are partly right. some men re-channel their sexual desire. But the truth is there are men who do so in Nigeria, and there cheating men in ALL tribes and tongues and social/professional status under the sun - No "advanced country" exception in this matter.

    And may I just throw this in: Please, ladies beware of any open (acknowledged) or anonymous statement that men have the DNA to cheat. That statement is usually made by men to brainwash women to expect and accept the cheating behaviour, or by women who are professional (open or closet) side chicks whether married or not, or by women who have been brain washed by men and women to accept that behaviour. Apologies for any offence caused. Exceptionally, there are women who marry for a specific purpose. So long as they get their desire or are being satisfied, they do not care whether or not their husbands cheat. Such women usually cover up with the alibi that men have the cheating DNA.

    No man has the DNA to keep side chicks or cheat.

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    1. God bless you
      As long as I am concerned
      These are just excuses

      I know they asked y'all why you have side chics
      But please listen to this female version, most women do not decide to change after marriage but wahala oti kpoju
      From work, kids, parents, family, it's too much
      Please understand with your wives, maybe you haven't understood it, thats why I am taking time to explain

      If women decide to cheat cus all the commas y'all have would you like it?

      Most women reduce sex after kids cus it's psychological, they hardly feel the urge, so having sex becomes like a chore or rape to them.
      Secondly, the issue of family planning, a man's own is to release if she has a career she has to consider this. Most of the methods for family planning either fails, makes you sexually unattractive or even mess with your hormones, you start hearing of issues of PCOS e.t.c

      We can't keep giving birth like our mothers, not in this government.


      A real and understanding man will discuss these fears with their wife
      If you like keep listening to single men o
      Marriage was never built to be easy but you can make it enjoyable, with understanding, respect and kindness. Always put yourself in your spouse's shoes and see how it fits.

      There are no perfect people, we all learn everyday.

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  23. Do side chicks still en vogue???
    A man that has good wife at home ,do they keep side chicks???
    Ladies they keep as side chicks do they know their worths to be called a side chick??

    Las las na long throat dey cause all these.

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  24. Let me pointedly state this. There is no justification for keeping side chicks. It doesn't matter what the wife has done or has not done. I still like to think that marriage vows mean something.
    No reasonable man keeps another woman outside. That is why some of us do take the time and bother to try and correct our wives and show them areas in which we believe they need to work on. So that the issue of side chick will not arise in the first place.

    However, there is only so much a man can do. While I don't support the men who keep side chicks outside, I don't condemn them either.

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  25. Some men are just delusional. You expect a woman to treat you same after 3 kids with no help, thats not possible.

    Thats how my husband was complaining that if he knew marriage will change me like this he wouldnt have gotten married...why cos of SEX O. I'm always tired. 3 kids under 5 yrs with no help, most times i take panadol before i can sleep cos of headaches. I hardly sleep in the afternoon cos the kids are hyper and dont sleep too, i cook, clean, wash, bath them twice everyday, feed them. The most tasking is going to the market, i hate it, but what can i do.

    On his part he is not domesticated so i dont borther him, i do everything but he provides for the home. He can do anything so we dont lack and he is generous when he has. But he dont understand that the last thing on my mind after the dats work is SEX. I need help but theres no means for now so i dont have a choice than to manage till we are bouyant enough to afford one and oga too have to bear with me.

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    1. You are a strong woman. 3 kids with no help us no joke. Oga should try and understand.
      He wants all of you? He should get you a help.

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    2. Tor
      What I was just explaining up there.
      I know they will compare you to their mothers.
      But they should ask their mothers if they were truly happy.

      Women have to work to be the helpmates they were created to be, but how do you do that when everything frustrates you, a hubby that is supposed to be understanding now decides to follow a woman outside.

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    3. Complaining of work abi bathing children, feeding them sweeping, hmmmm there are people out there doing same thing as maid in nigeria and still go home and fuvk their husbands. Sex eases stress, relieves some form of headaches associated with stress not migraine o, so madam if you've worked abroad and have like 2 or 3 jobs then what you just wrote up there ain't nothing! Basically your mindset is all that matters take care of your kids well add fun to it listen to music while at it play especially when cleaning the house sext text your man arrange your self , collect one round and sleep well when you wake up you'll feel alright. Na you dey so yourself dey complain when others go through much pain and stress but do it with happiness and joy com use sex cure themselves with their loved one.

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  26. Until we the male species can successfully tame our eyes, which is actually the window to our thoughts, then any other excuse is just scratching the surface.

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  27. Meanwhile, bitter truth... Some married women are side chicks of some married guys.

    Furthermore, Some female BVs here are full time side chicks.
    Stella abeg no spoil some people source of livelihood with this of kind question.

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    1. Which one be this wey you wan bring comot? E no follow oga.

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  28. Maybe its see finish, have heard some married ladies & men say overtime they begin yo see eachother as bro & sis, & they need to work extra hard to plug in & regain the initial sparks.
    Me as a single female I think the responsibility, stress of taking care of the home front takes it toll on women.

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  29. We embrace the faulty Caucasian stereotype of monogamy which never works. Hence the high divorce rate in western societies and gradually happening in Africa. Man is, by nature, polyanorous

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    1. It's a pity y'all don't know women are more polygamous in nature than men.

      They tune off that part of them. If a woman let's lose for real, 100 men as concubines is too small for her. Threesome too na dem get am.

      I pity y'all

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    2. You think we don't like different dicks abi?

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    3. Actually we know women actually let loose. After all all those side chicks that men have are women too.

      Women generally cheat more than men. Many women on this blog have hundreds of body count.

      But women will never take responsibilities for their actions. They will always blame men for it.

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  30. I got into this same discussion with two men last week and I now know better.
    The man blamed his wife for making him ever have a side chick as madam always deny him sex and few other excuses below:
    1. She only make love when she is in the mood and her mood could be twice or thrice in a month and he was left with no option than to do side chicks.
    2. He can't tumble his wife during sex like u will do a side chick, it's either she complains of one pain in her leg or u knew clearly that she just want missionary with legs spread and no movement or best bet a doggy if futune smiles on the man.
    3. Wives can't really fvck well except when they are starved for a long time. Wifey won't ride u wel. Many married women can't even remember when last they climbed their husband in a reverse cowgirl style.
    4. Wife is a property for pampering as there are other days to do more sex in the future. But side chicks are not a secured relationship, so u always bangs as if it will be ur last with her.
    5. Side chicks have sex more comfortably than wives/mother's. Any woman who still svcks and rides well after 5years in marriage is the real MVP.
    6. A wife can give an excuse of being tired, since morning headache, stressed out from the market, baby has been crying since morning, my hand aches, my eyes are turning me, etc and these mere talks kills sexual moods for the man as he can't make love to a weak, tired or sick woman even tho he is in the mood.

    To stop here, side chicks do fvck to impress the man and inspires more payments, but most wifey can't even svck, fvck or ride to save their lives for free.

    Well, I'm just 4years in marriage, won't ever cheat on my lovely wife forever, but hey, sex is not how I use to have it with her or my exes.

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    1. Anon well said. My zaddy gave me shocking pounds after riding him like a horse. He kept saying thank you like a puppy πŸ˜‚

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  31. Dante is actually making some sense ladies you know....deep inside our head we know.

    He is telling us why men prefer side chicks to their wives...

    As long as you are not married to a sex addict or a monster , please let us do right by our husbands, let us put same effort we put in the relationship before it blossom into marriage.

    And men, understand that house chores do weigh a woman down in marriage.
    Sometimes all we need is your understanding and soothing words .... And yes some help around the house .

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  32. After twelve years of marriage and being cheated on, i cam say from deep down in my heart, that i am no longer bothered about his cheating. I gave him the power to. Hurt me by loving him. I just took my love and power back. No more hurting. Go fuck the whole of lekki.. I dont care. He no longer makes me happy, angry or sad.. I feel nothing. In fact, i often wish one of these days, he'll call and say he wont be coming back home. Any side chick that wants can come and collect. As for me, peace that passeth all understanding has filled my heart.

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    1. Women don't want to get that it is not by cooking, sex and bedmatics or being beautiful or the best housekeeper. If a man is a cheat he will cheat regardless. All the above are only used as excuses by cheats.

      Of course the male gender always support themselves unlike the other gender. See them up there contradicting themselves saying "me I won't cheat on my wife but I will not condemn those who do". Mtchew
      If you support what is wrong you are also part of what is wrong. Stop deceiving yourselves. If you think like that, it is only a matter of time before you do your own. Cheating is not in any man's DNA. It is just that they are socially conditioned to believe it is their right. So most believe they should take advantage of that. But if you don't conform to worldly beliefs you can be different.

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  33. Some the of the married women were whores before they got married soon after they got married they start acting like saints in my bed !! Like wtf don’t you know he married you for the whoring sexy antics in bed ?! You now can’t lift your legs wehdone o.

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    1. He married her for sex bah? Now added housechores, children and financial responsibilities that were not there before but wants her to act the same still? Bomb dey your head.

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    2. Lol even men who cannot do the do and have no lovemaking skills are complaining. Forget skills sef some generally don't know how to treat a woman, but are expecting a miracles in bed. Mtcheeeeew

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  34. Some women stop bathing and washing their pumpum after marriage and birthing kids like why such evil

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    1. Not to mind those smelling men with their dirty sweat drenched clothes and stinky bodies not bathing after work but wanting to gbensh. Some no dey brush sef not to talk of using deodorant. 🀦🏾‍♂️

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  35. How many times do you change your boxers?

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  36. Men with side chics have no conscience, no fear of God whatsoever and they are extremely selfish.
    As for the ladies that comfortably make themselves side chic, they have no dignity, no shame and no self esteem. I mean you are a side piece, a thief, eating in hiding. The man can't even display you. It's pathetic.

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  37. Wifey is fat with potbelly and christian mother hand. Side-chick is firm with flat tummy. Who no like better thing?

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