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Sunday, April 04, 2021

Boredom Eliminating Post..





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    1. Because men are now lazy and women don't take shit no more

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    2. To most, the grass is greener on the other side

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    3. Marrying for the wrong reasons , not realising that love is not enough for a marriage to work ,and generally not accepting the rubbish that their parents did

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    4. THE PURPOSE OF THE MARRIAGE HAVE BEEN ACHIEVED.
      REMEBER PEOPLE MARRY FOR DIFFERENT REASONS, NO BI EVERYBODY GBADUN FOREVER AND EVER

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    5. Greed and selfishness

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    6. GBAMMEST @ anon 19.05

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    7. Women changed. Men are slow in coming to terms with it.

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    8. Not accepting you are wrong

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    9. Because nobody(both men and women) reads the bible anymore instead people prefer to go on social media and imitate things that are fake,listening to people that cannot even try what they preach outside with their own husband or wife o. Read your bible(both men and women) follow the way of the lord and see how beautiful your home will be. Husband love your wife, wife submit to your husband simple

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    10. Selfishness and disobedience to GOD

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    11. I think because people have become lovers of themselves alone not minding the feeling of their spouses before taking an action

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  2. They dont possess fruits of the spirit

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    1. ✔️that's right Phoenix.

      Plus:
      1.They don't pray.
      (They rely on "men of God" or is it 'men of god'?).
      Lazy to prayers, always chanting "pastor tinyem n'ekpere", pastor put me in prayers. Like they are salt you put in prayers. The days of Possessing your Possession are over. They live on social media.


      2. They are not CONSIDERATE at all.
      It's a disaster already happening.
      Me, myself and my kids "only".
      #ravagingpandemic
      Hiss.

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    2. @ Phoenix, you're absolutely right...

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  3. People are not ready to sacrifice and compromise like men and women of yesteryears

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  4. Women are done with enduring bullshit in their marriages all in the name of remaining a “Mrs”.

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    1. 🎯

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    2. Exactly what I was coming to type. Women are done condoning and tolerating bullshit. Less women have time for the war room advice now. Life is too short to live it in misery.

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    3. The men lack family values and are not ready to nurture anybody's daughter to enjoy a marriage with him.

      They can't smell 10 years wedding anniversary,if there's even a wedding.

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    4. Gbam, gbammer, gbammest

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  5. Motivational speakers have spoilt things for everyone.

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    1. 🀣🀣

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    2. Availability of ready toto all around.

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  6. The partners are not willing to look past each other's flaws and weaknesses. They want the 'perfect spouse' 🀷‍♀️

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    1. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘ Bless you....

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    2. They want what they can't offer

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  7. They feel they know God but deny his powers

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  8. Impatience
    Selfishness
    Trying to be woke
    Spirit of the last days

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    1. darajah, as long as you keep trying to bring people down on this blog, you stay down in life. Have you not wondered why your life is so ratchet

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  9. Social media...

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  10. Marrying for the wrong reasons....e.g
    Incompatibility.
    Wanting to pepper certain people...family and friends. You want to prove to them you are better than them.
    Some men think they did you a favor marrying you.
    Laziness and dirtiness on the woman’s part. Some ladies do not know to maintain their homes.
    Some men not being able to provide, they’d rather gamble away their time and money.
    Some women do not know how to treat and respect their husbands. Maybe cos they earn more than their husbands, they think they are the head of the home and that wrong. A man heads the home.
    They are the ones with this backward mentality of feminism etc 🚢

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  11. Growth
    Realization
    Awareness

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  12. Selfishness!!

    Me,me,me,me!!!! No one wants to reach a compromise but rather it's either about them or nothing..

    @MARTINS

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  13. No love... I think people nowadays go into relationships without genuine love for the other person...if there is genuine love, relationships will thrive

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  14. Porn addicted men
    Greedy women
    Feminism
    Social media and fake lives
    "Abroad" mentality
    And the next one may surprise you...
    Prostitution! (ask me to explain)πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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    1. Who come get time to dey ask uπŸ™„

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    2. Please explain dear anon.

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    3. I know about Porn... so many Nigerian men are addicted.
      And Prostitution... well, so many Nigerian ladies cannot stick to one Preeq.. they've gotten so used to having multiple partners, they can't stick to one. Even when these sexual encounters have no favours attached to them. Tueh!

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    4. @SluttyChikito
      Greedy married ladies.
      Kpom kwem

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  15. If only people will understand that marriage won't be rosy all through after the honey moon.

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    1. Why go into marriage with that mentality? Roses have thorns but people don't dwell on that. They focus on its beauty! TeeJay u are my bro and I definitely love u, don't think I don't like u dear, nonetheless, I speak my mind and will rather not comment than go anon just to please anyone. Paint a beautiful picture of marriage in ur mind, that's d first step dear!

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    2. Pwety/ugly you leave this man alone. Such a petty troll.

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    3. Anon 19:51 allow people learn in peace. Even me sef is still from here everyday. Everything is not hate or troll. Na wa!

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    4. Its been 5 years of bliss for me,pls change that mindset.

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    5. But pwetie you didn't make sense at all, just being a troll πŸ₯΄. I don't see anything wrong in what Teejay said and besides he is entitled to his opinion πŸ₯΄πŸ€·πŸΎ‍♀️.

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    6. When I say marriage won't be rosy doesn't mean one is pessimistic about it, but of a truth, we all know problems and challenges will definitely come in marriage. It all depend on how both partner goes about it. When you think of the best in marriage, you also be prepared for challenges.

      Ms tee, I'm happy your marriage is so blissful but will you say there hasn't been issues all these years?

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    7. Anon 20:30, dey there and be looking for heads to jam. My head is not available. Continue being anon forever! Ntorrrrrrr!

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    8. Anon 20:30 dey there and be looking for heads to jam, my head is not available. ntorrrrr!!!

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  16. Selfishness
    Greediness
    Impatience
    Laziness
    Everyone wants to be the Head
    Lack of money((Everyone wants money)

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  17. Iz that gender oh
    Yes! The one that ate forbidden apple in the garden of Eden. Ehen, that one that also betrayed, denied and nailed Jesus to the cross. They are the problem. Teejay, Chike, ceaser and the other extremely
    aggressive one... just waka pass this comment you hear?πŸ™„πŸ™„

    Bv Purely Organic

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    1. You are dumb. Did you have to mention those guys? Marry the one you will sit on his head, ode.

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    2. Are you serious? Marriage constitutes of man and woman and one party has to be blamed??

      So the gender that ate the fruit first nko.Gender that requested for the head a John? That cut Samson's hair?

      This gender war needs to stop. And this is really affecting things. Any small thing,this gender this, that gender that...

      Woo, don't forget that gender is why we are celebrating today. So happy Easter to you

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    3. 19:07 You must be brain dead
      If you'd passed your message without calling names would you have grown shorter? Twerp!

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    4. Hydrogen... be calming down okay?
      I was being playful...
      I don't do the gender blame game thingy.
      Talking about John the Baptist, which gender cut the head off?��

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    5. Small thing na to vex vex. No humour at all. Na to dey fight gender war dey hungry some of una. Smh. Fighting the gender war will not help you. There are more important pursuits.

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  18. Alot of Women have refused to be women. They want to be the woman and man at the same time while refusing to bear the male responsibilities. Very selfish tendency. There's no male species that will allow their female override them. Last last na still them go suffer after divorce. Check out the ones that ran out of marriage, they still hide to fuck another woman's husband! So shameful. You abandon what you had just to end up fucking another woman's man- in hiding. The few women that are loyal are having a ball in their marriage. The razz girls here should emulate XP. See how happy she perpetually is. Very loyal to her hubby and marriage. Have you ever seen where she said cheap stuff like "men are scum"? Una go continue to dey get heartbreaks till una learn from the few reasonable ones here.

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    1. In summary:selfishness.
      Which I agree.People no longer care for and about their partner anymore. It's now about what I gain.

      If we our motto can be you before me, things will be easier.

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    2. Thanks Caesar. I feel honored.

      Truth is bvs like Chike will understand perfectly how my home is run because he's also from Anambra State. You report to many people, failure to do so you run into problems.

      There are certain things a woman shouldn't skip in her life;
      Prayers. Prayers. Prayers.
      Guard, bridle your tongue and listen to your parents, your marriage will sail through.

      Now measure this, parents have been married for 57 years though they were in different continents for 3 years before the union took off fully.
      I got 5 married elder sisters who are working professionals breathing down my neck, "you must get it right" then should I say they are all close to my hubby again? I got no choice than to fall in line.

      Broken marriages 1st starts from a "bad mother in-law", check well before you marry. Both ways and then if 2 people are hot tempered, nobody should approve the marriage. It's a 30-70% survival rate. Bound to crash.

      The ones whose husbands wash their pants and scrub their bathroom walls should come abuse me. My hubby is not in that WhatsApp group.

      Almost 10 years on this blog, and my decisions and submissions remain the same. Google any of my comments on marriage,I don't delete.
      My friends here and outside don't get separated or divorced, they know how I "bridge gaps for them".

      Finally, Caesar work on your temperament,if possible reach out to Mr Lanre Olusola on social media,he will fix whatever issues you rolling on.
      Do not raise your hand on a woman. Caesar. Don't!

      #udo

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    3. Many loyal women are suffering in the their relationships and marriages so your generalisation is a fallacy.

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    4. Stories that tickles the bum bum

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    5. Anon 21:03 Her generalization is not a fallacy. Those points she highlighted works for her. You know why? Because those ahead of her and her parents told her it works for them, and she affirmed it positively that it must work for her. Life itself is not a bed of roses ditto marriage, so what’s the problem with you that you can’t stand that these points worked for her. Life is what you make it, if you want your marriage to work, yes it will work for you because this person you are with, you know why you want to be with them, their flaws, strengths and all,so don’t come here and project whatever you are going through on her

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  19. Cos most don't build the institution on Christ! Any marriage which it's foundation is not built on Christ the solid rock will surely not stand the test of time!

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    1. ✔️
      Thanks Paris. So right.
      I'll add Build the marriage on their faith because not everyone is a Christian. Some are Muslims.

      A couple or family that prays together,stays together.
      Even if it's standing in the middle of your living room every morning to say a 5 mins praise/ worship songs then little prayer. Just do it and take off.
      It's got a binding spiritual growth in a marriage.
      Ladies will call you old school. Ignore them.

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    2. True talk sha
      But even the ones wey dey lead us to christ wey suppose be christ like, them go still dey test water outside.
      Lass lass na God go help us because we don't have praying couples anymore.

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    3. Paris Savannah, you got THE ANSWER! πŸ‘Œ

      Men and women submit to Christ so you can submit in love to one another in marriage.

      Churches teach the godly values and intensify pre-marriage and singles seminars to build up godly men and women.

      Nigeria needs godly families to build a godly society.

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  20. They now view marriage different from what the creator made it to be.

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  21. Too many fuck boys pretending to be a man,most men are not responsible.

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    1. Too many women marrying who is ready, love will come later.

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  22. Lack of d fear of God n sacrifice

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  23. I no gree, I no gree hahahaha

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    1. This 'I no gree don' break soooo many marriage. Too much prude and ego from both sides. No one wants to step down for d other.

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  24. Foundations are too faulty. A house built on sand cannot stand. Look for example at today's Chronicle. Someone is getting married in a few days but has a live in side chick and other girlfriends. How is that marriage going to work out?

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  25. Lack of tolerance. Everything has changed. Women can now walk out of marriages coz the husband messed up. It wasn't so in the past, you live and die for your husband but now everything has changed.

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    1. SpanishL, it should be the other way.
      "HUSBANDS , LOVE YOUR WIVES , JUST AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND GAVE HIMSELF UP FOR HER ." Ephesians 5:25

      Men you should lead by example so your wives will follow and your children too.

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  26. A majority of responses in this thread shows that the posters can't have well grounded and functional marriages.

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    1. I don't understand what u mean?

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    2. Don't go and work on your marriage. The comments you read here is 100% women's mind; even that one wiping your ass forming submission. All na pretence! Even our mothers, PRETENCE! They just didn't have a voice!

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  27. Intolerance
    Looks over character
    Wealth and gbola size over a good man
    Lack of communication.
    Inlaws interference.

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  28. Financial Pressure

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  29. Ihunanyachukwu4 April 2021 at 20:18

    Selfishness. Selfishness. Selfishness

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  30. if it looks like she is giving you more than what you are giving her, she sees you as inferior and loses attraction. Women are subconsciously keeping a ledger of everything you have done for them and everything they have done for you. If what they have done for you exceeds what you have done for them, they lose attraction. So a man got to always be a step ahead in giving, it could be anything, love, affection, money, pen*s, time, everything or else they look for a reason to back out of the relationship and find a way to blame you in the end, women are never wrong

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    1. 21:15 that's because it is the place of men to provide and women to support.

      Women are not built to take on that role. They can only do it for so long before the burden breaks them, even the good ones.

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  31. Fellow women selfishness in deliberately breaking their fellow women’s marriage. They know you are married, and the Bible says man’s weak and can’t reject sex, and they deliberately use that sex to lure you away from her fellow woman saying they can’t be single and this one is enjoying what should be a whole meal for all of us, using all sorts of things, juju, kayan mata, sex, seducing, dressing provocately knowing fully well say no be something dey dangle for under, you go soon fall abi I no be woman, no be blood dey flow for your veins and if you reject their advances, wahala don start be that, they always go out of their way to target married men because na married men dey get money pass single men

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    1. Please, the Bible DID NOT SAY.... "They know you are married, and the Bible says man’s weak and can’t reject sex."

      God will judge the sexually immoral - men or women!

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  32. Lack of tolerance,patience,compromise,submission and forgiveness.Learn to understand who you are married to.It's not competition or staying woke or in Orubebe's voice "I wont take it".Marriage isn't a walk in the park,it takes a lot of work and commitment,but if you get in with the mindset of if it doesn't work out,I'm done,trust me there are a thousand and one reasons for you to leave.Prayer is key,there is nothing you put in God's hands that will go bad,make God the head of your home.

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  33. Misplaced priorities in choosing spouse from either gendar.

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  34. Nudity everywhere, you can’t even concentrate on anything again

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  35. Na money o, the root of all evils

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  36. No woman get married for it to fail. The girl child is groom for marriage but the male is not. Education has changed a lot of things. Its not easy managing a modern woman with our Africa male mentality.

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  37. Infidelity,domestic violence and abuse, not been matured before getting married, marrying a gold digger,formulating before marriage, lack of proper upbringing of both male and female by their parents, not marrying the will of God for you, verbal abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, marrying a narcissist and a mentally ill person, marrying a lazy, disloyal,wicked,dishonest,evil, incompatible and unsupportive spouse.

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