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Friday, April 09, 2021

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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NARRATIVE ONE
PREGNANT AGAIN TOO QUICK.




Hello I need advice,
I Gave birth in November and period started on February 9th. Had 1st s#x (with careful withdrawal) after delivery on March 7th and period refused to come on 9th. Test strips showed positive and my little baby is just 4months old. 

Who has seen a case of age difference in siblings and how healthy is such a child?
 


Your kids will be OK, it is just your body that will be stressed cos it didnt rest... Try to rest your body after you birth the second one
Congrats.
If you were ever on this Table, please give advice from your experience.







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NARRATIVE TWO
HIV POSITIVE GIRLFRIEND


I am confused..

What should I do in this case I saw HIV drug I my gf's hand bag?. She hid it inside her bag using one of her dress to wrap it... She comes to my house to spend nights some times cos of the nature of her work. 

So one day she went out and I was looking for something but something caught my attention in her bag and I thought it was a perfume and wanted to see the name of the perfume. Boom I saw the container and noticed the name has been stretched off. Then I checked the content and Google said the drug is for HIV patients. I haven't spoken to her about it. What should I do .




*Have you been sleeping with her without protection? If Yes, then you have a right to confront her and see if you also need to start taking the drugs.
You also need to go for a test before you confront her so that you can do it calmly or otherwise.
She has no right to hide her status from you.

58 comments:

  1. It is well with you all posters 1 & 2.

    Wonderful weather.

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    1. Poster 1, my friend took in just 2months after giving birth. You won't even notice it now. Just that the 1st baby will be robbed of some certain things.

      Develop thick skin in church or in a crowded place.
      Next time be careful in my Doctor's voice.

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    2. Poster 2, that person doesn't deserve your love abeg. Haba why hide something as deadly as that?

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    3. Poster 1 nothing to it,mine was 6months after the 1st i took in. They look more or less like twins. Poster 2 ask her,and go for test.

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    4. Poster 1, yes I have seen three months difference, mine was 7months which turned out to be a blessing. People think they are twins.
      Congratulations on your next baby.


      Poster2 please confront her and also get tested, it's not a death sentence. That's why you are advised to use condom if you can't abstain.

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  2. @Posternumber1,learn to give space mbok and what's up with some of you?
    @Posternumber2,Confront her headlong and see what she's on about

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    1. Is that an advice to poster number 1? The did has been done already. I don't know why we Nigerians can't refrain from making someone feel bad before giving advise.

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    2. Ehnehn
      What's wrong with a married woman getting pregnant for her hubby?
      You are silly and stupid
      Is she coming to ask you for money for diapers or cerelac?

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    3. Must you sound anrgy @poster 1 "advice"

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  3. Go get tested ASAP. Why are people like this? She should have told you her status.
    That’s the end of such a relationship for me.

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  4. Poster with HIV gf....wahala be like wetin again?

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  5. Poster one;
    The age difference between my second and third kids is just a year plus.
    They are both teens and straight "A"
    pupils.
    Congrats.
    Thank God who blessed you with fertility.
    Plan well next time.
    😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁

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    1. I doesn't have any effect on the children, just that the woman's body is being stressed more than it should, just do your family planning after the second one, nothing dey happen, na husband house you dey. Poster 2, go for test first.

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    2. The age gap between my friend and her elder sister is 11months, so poster chin up and get all the help you can if you re a working class.
      After this delivery go for family planning, withdrawal de fail.

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  6. Poster 2
    Flee fornication.
    Flee youthful lust
    Pursue righteousness.
    That's the lesson here.

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  7. 🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺🧺
    Poster two needs those.
    Instead of paying a girl's bride price,
    you keep her in your house and be pounding away? What is she doing in your house passing the nights?

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  8. Poster 1, it happened to me my baby stopped breast feeding as people said the milk had gone sour in a month. I eventually lost the pregnancy as my body could not take it but it was really bad for my first kid as I was always in and out of the hospital...no time for him. Always get iud after having a baby.

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    1. Why do you educated ladies listen to "what people say,"
      instead of what your doctors tell you?
      πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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    2. Poster pls don't stop breastfeeding ur baby,nothing will happen to the baby.
      My aunt gave birth and got preggy again the next month,as in her baby was a month wen she took in.i had to come stay with her and help out.her hubby is a doc.she was advised to continue breastfeeding until six months.
      Just relax and pls u need help from ur hubby (na now u need am pass no be only to dey gbensh) and relative.Pls eat well and God will see u thru

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    3. There’s no such thing as breastmilk going sour in a baby’s mouth. Some baby just don’t like breastfeeding after a while. Bottle feeding is easier for them.

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  9. Poster 1, u'll be fine, just take care of urself. I have cousins that are 10 months apart, urs will even be a ur apart. Relax, it's nothing new

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  10. One of the former governor's daughters, Adamma, gave birth in January and had another in December. She gave birth twice in a year. She has four kids now.

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  11. I have a friend with a 9month age difference with her sister. Both are healthy
    I'm also older than my brother with 1yr. He's really taller but we're both healthy.
    Speak with your gnae and he/she will send you for a general check up after which you'll know what next to do.
    Outcomes differs and is dependent on will and general health

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  12. Poster 1.

    My sister was on this table some 17 years ago and shes the happiest now. Both siblings are best of friends. They relate perfectly and support each other all the way in everything. Congratulations.

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  13. Your kids will be 13 months apart. My brother and I are in our 40s and we are 15 months apart and I know lots of siblings from when I was a kid who were 11 to 16 months apart. It’s no big deal. Don’t stress about the situation and you ll be fine. Don’t listen to people who make you feel bad. It is what it is. Hugs πŸ€—

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  14. Poster 1, nothing do you! Congratulations too... I had my first 2 children a year and 3 weeks apart. Even my body did not react negativity. Receive strength and Divine grace in Jesus name amen

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  15. And by the way they are adults now and parents. They grew up healthy too

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  16. Toto never heal u Don dey pumping yeah.

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    1. 6 weeks is enough for Toto to heal. Mtshew

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    2. πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚

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    3. πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚

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  17. Poster 1,just eat well and continue to breast feed your baby,the lord is your strength.

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  18. When my baby was 4 months, i haven't resumed sex sef.....you will be fine poster 1, awon aba oko ku.

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    1. Chai. Kpele. Hubby and I count down to 6 weeks to tear ourselves apart. It's usually explosive after the 6 week long abstainance.

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    2. 17.32 you dont even need to wait for 6weeks. Once you feel your tohtoh has healed, you re good to go.

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  19. Poster 2, you really need to confront her, this is what you should have done before running here to ask your question. Get hold of the drug container and be firm while confronting her, and pray your Google search is wrong. Kindly drop feedback, sorry.

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  20. If your gf is positive and then hide it from you then she is MEAN,you need to confront her.
    Congrats poster 1, enjoy the journey

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  21. It's terribly wrong of her to hide her status from you but dammit please searching people's stuff without their permission is rude and uncouth. No excuses please, having manners is a type of sexy on it's own

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    1. Well it saved him from marrying a goddamn liar!! Poster go for a test ASAP. I’m sure you’ve been banging her nonstop...rawπŸ™„

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    2. And oh that’s the end of the relationship I’m sure @poster 2

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  22. My neighbour's first child is 3 months old when she got pregnant with her second. Sge don born 5 children as we speak😁😁😁😁

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  23. Poster 1, my sis was in your shoes some years back. Had her first in April 2005 and second in May 2006.
    Just talk to your doctor. If continuing with breastfeeding makes your baby sick, then you have stop especially if you normally have stressful first trimester. Start feeding your baby pap and other cereal with age appropriate milk.
    Do take care, it's not easy but you will be fine. Also if you reside in the same area with your mum and she is free, she can help by taking your baby away from you for now, at least until you complete your first trimester.

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  24. I have niece that are 11 months apart.

    They are doing fine.

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  25. She's wrong for hiding it, but since she's in drugs,chances if you contacting it from her is very low. HIV is really rampant these days, please stay safe out there

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  26. I'm not understanding anyone here. Why must she tell a guy she's HIV positive before dating?
    Can you all tell any man or woman you want to date that you have HIV if you were in such shoes? Talk truth o.
    Thing is you can only tell the guy you are not interested in relationship and even at that the guys won't let you be.
    Let's assume that I'm positive then I'll start telling any man that comes to date me that I'm positive. Who does that?
    From there news spread and what next? Stigmatization!
    That's why it's advised to use condom but you hear guys chanting, I don't like condom. Like condom was invented for animals.

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    1. I hope you know it's a crime to knowingly infect someone.
      She was supposed to disclose her status the moment they decide to become sexually involved

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  27. Poster 1 you will be fine. I breastfed my first born till the day I fell into labour for the second one. Stressful? Very but you and your babies will be fine.

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  28. Stella pls i have a question based in this post because am in similar situation but is when my baby was 6 months.
    How can one prevent pregnancy because my husband doesn't like condoms we bought married as virgin. So he hasn't used it before or even know what its like or how to. And because we want another child after the second he thinks contraceptives has side effect. And the iud women use alot says it affects them. So whats the safest and best way not to get pregnant aleast for 2 years.

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  29. Hian ehh una doh ndi chronicle poster. Una go dey alright

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  30. Sweetheart poster 1 , no big deal at all,I got pregnant when my baby was 4months old , , they will only be 14months apart . They are both 15 and 14rys old now

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  31. Not to post disinformation, but poster 2, your chances of being infected are minuscle. She is on her drugs so you are safe. She should have told you though.
    I was in a similar situation. Dated this lady for 5 years until I found out in the same circumstances you did that she was positive.

    However we continued without condom(what was I thinking!). Anyways, I made sure she religiously took her drugs and constantly kept monthly healthchecks on my self.

    I'm still very much negative though. I can't afford that level of recklessness anymore.

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  32. I got pregnant when my first baby was 3 months and I knew what I was doing I gave birth to the second one the day we were celebrating my first baby's birthday the age different is a year 5 days and thank God I took that dicission I was TTC for almost 6years but today God has done me well. Just get enough hand to help you in my case my mom was with me for 2 years and I had 3 girls helping me in my house too.you will be fine.

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  33. I gave birth to my two children,within a year.Their gap is actually 11 mths.They are big madams now.Enjoy your pregnancy jare.

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  34. Poster 1 more grace to you. My first is 15 months and I'm still scared of having any child so close in age. While others that delivered around the same time as me have welcomed babies or heavily pregnant. I pray for the grace and strength to do it. You need all the help you can get

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  35. Poster 1 please relax. It is the Lords doing and it will be marvellous for you. My children are 15 months apart and they are now 9 and 10 years old. It will not be easy but it will be worth it. People often mistake them for twins. I'm done with child bearing and also glad I had them back to back. God planned it that way. Pls get some support, it can be draining and after the baby arrives arrange for family planning. God be with you.

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