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Saturday, April 03, 2021

SPONTANEOUS Saturday Post...

 #morningvibes #saturday #jollofrice #namaste #ekarolaroyi #nagode #ndewo #gutenmorgen #moinmoin #ogheneagbradagbururu #itiswhatitis #theevilthatyoudonowlivesafteryou #itisoktobetoxicbutstayindoors #ignoremodeactivated #whatGodcannotdodoesnotexist





Good Morning people...

Was Friday night OK? Did you go to bed with a clear conscience? Did you wake up light hearted or with worries? My dear, worry no dey finish so don't let it bother you too much...

For every step you take in life, there is a new set of worries loading, isn't that awesome?

I see that in Nigeria every one is acting like COVID 19 no longer exists and no longer taking precautions... There is a third wave spreading in Europe and because the borders into Nigeria are all open, it is possible that the new wave gets there.... That is why you should continue with the COVID 19 mask wearing and safe distance thingy... Nah advice i give una no be fight!


Caesar I am still in shock over your mindset that it is OK to physically abuse a woman who is rude, I cant deal with that mindset and then some people supported you? Domestic violence of any kind is any kind of relationship is a deal breaker for me. One day i will talk about why this is so.

For now, please Caesar i no want you as Boo again cos i get sharp mouth and i fit cuss you when we see then you go wan beat me.... I am officially dis- booing you.

My new Blog boo will be Isaacbaba... LOL


Have a beautiful Saturday.


E go be!  ✌✌✌✌

127 comments:

  1. Be Conditioned To Your Divine Nature!!
    1 Corinthians 3:3.

    "If you’re born again, even though outwardly you may look like your next-door neighbour who isn’t born again, a real transformation took place in your spirit" 

    "But because many don’t know this, they say, We’re all humans. No, we’re not"

    "Become conscious of your divine nature and practise the divine life"

    Confession!!

    Through meditation on the Word, I’ve become conditioned to my divine nature. I have “Kingdom sight,” and Kingdom perception. I think, talk, and live as an associate of the God-kind. Glory to God.

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  2. I slept like a log last night. I was so tired from my trip. I remover my clothes and Blackberry did a good job massaging me.
    It's a brand new day. Say no to DV. Caeser, I hope you have ears 🀭

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  3. My night was cool 😎

    Up and thankful πŸ™ πŸ™Œ
    Thank God for the gift of life πŸ™ πŸ™Œ and sound mind ..

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    1. My Friday was cool,spent it with my mum in her house. Hubby was in charge of the home and children. I'm just grateful for life and my new found peace. Then thanking God for hubby's new set of friend,who are putting him in the right direction. No more wahala from his sisters that want to rule my home. He has blocked all of them,told them to face their own families. Sisters that are at war with all the wives God forbid biko.

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  4. Good morning to y'all on here and happy weekend to you too? Hope y'all are enjoying the holidays? Have y'all heard that Bridgerton star actor,Rene-Jean Page who stars as the duke of hastings won't be returning back for the season 2 of the netflix series? How do you feel about this development? I personally think the ratings sure will reduce drastically cos most people are not gonna be watching it again..πŸ‘€

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    1. No question mark after too** but fullstop instead

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    2. Wrong move oh! With the way girls dey hala for the guy

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    3. Good morning dear Eloquent, in short eeh to say am surprised is an understatement. I am not watching again ooo,that actor Rege-Jean page brought his A class acting on screen, he and his co-actress is the reason I watched the series anyway bye Bridgeton. Ratings will surely drop because everyone was hoping to see him again in season 2. Stella let me be your blog boo na! Domestic violence in all forms should be shunned in our society! Me personally I can't stand a woman beater shioor! No matter what beating or slapping does not augur well in any marriage. Happy weekend to everyone here! Make I go find movies watch for Netflix. Kisses to everyone πŸ’‹πŸ’•

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    4. Not happy about it o, bye to Bridgerton, will rewatch old episodes he featured in

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    5. Me I'm not watching again cos you know, what's there to watch?

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    6. He's not that fantastic an actor, Nkiru. He's handsome and his sex scenes were hot but believe me, Hollywood has lots better than him. He's not the first actor to be dropped and replaced, happens all the time. The show must go on.

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    7. UNA LEAVE ALL NIGERIAN ACTORS;LEAVE AFRICAN ACTORS NA HOLLYWOOD UNA ENTER? Na wah,all these fine fine actors guys like dem plenty for shopping district abroad........
      make una leave fine oyibo men alone ooooooh

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    8. πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜ƒ @Stellascomment and of course,we appreciate our super good Nigerian actors that don't churn out mediocre movies too

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    9. I was expecting it sha
      The book series revolved around each sibling so no surprise there. Will just miss his fine face

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  5. Thank you Jesus for the great gift of a new day!! Thank you Jesus for my brother, you say the heart of a king is in your heart and you stir it whichever way you desire, lord stir his heart towards you, bring him back to you, and help us to worry less. Amen!!!! Have a blessed day good people of Sdk

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    1. Good morning beautiful people
      Candilious candy our prayers are with you and your family πŸ™πŸ™
      Happy weekend to you all 😘😘😘

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    2. May God grant your heart desires

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    3. Amen... He will touch his heart...

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  6. Good one Stella, say no to domestic violence of any kind.

    Good morning fam, hope your night was good? Enjoy your weekend and remember to stay safe.

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  7. Beautiful Saturday morning. God is in control of things. Supporting violent men is a no and caeser standing by to watch his friend beat his wife was a very nasty behaviour. Let's all have a splendid day

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  8. Hahaha.... Stella is too early to crack me up. But for real it's so appalling to beat a woman no matter the provocation. A woman once slapped in public years back and people laughed and wanted me to retaliate. They insulted me and say all manners of things to push me into reacting but I kept my cool.

    The next day, this woman came to my place with her friend, knelt down and begged me to forgive and forget what she did to me.

    Okay let's look at it this way, what if your in-law is the man in the picture hitting your sister that way, how would you feel? Would you have kept mute or do nothing?

    Ceaser, sometimes I am tempted to ask you if you will ever get married.

    Good morning guys.

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    1. MY DEAR NO MIND AM.....
      Teejay so woman don slap u before for public and you no talk? So continue with the gist... As she slap you wetin cos am? As she come with her friends to beg you wetin happen after?you gbensh am?...asking for a FREN..lol

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    2. Lol..
      Bro, let's tell these girls the truth, yes you did restrain but that doesn't mean a lady should be encouraged to be slapping men cos not all men have that control and if you won't blame a lady who doesn't have control on of her tongue then you don't have the right to blame a guy who doesn't have control of his fist.. they both belong to the same whatsapp group.

      Hope you know you would have slapped that girl and beat a hell out of her if she had provoked you to an extreme right? Or if you were in a very bad mood that day and she came with her witchy and slapped you..

      I used to use that your line of not hitting no matter what until I witness evil with my own eyes, this wife was insulting her husband, calling him unprintable names, the man decides he wants to leave the house, she locked the doors and hid the key.. we were all outside begging her to open the door she no gree.. she tore the man shirt and started hitting and scratching him.. hmmmm.... Teejay calm down abeg..
      Let just pray not to meet devil..

      Still I don't support domestic violence tho, verbal and physical assault both falls under this

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    3. Hahahaha..... Stella I no gbensh ooh but we became friends afterward.

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    4. Stella, I no gbensh ooh but I no lie that slap was a dirty one. To make matter worse, the people around started laughing and making fun of me. I nearly shed tears ooh but I held on and sat quietly without saying a word.

      Dante, can you hit your sister or mom if they provoke you to the extreme? When you answer this, then I will know what next to respond to you.

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    5. Lol..
      Like I said yesterday, I can't hit no lady for verbal assault cos me sef get bad mouth.. by the time I'm done with you, na you go dey cry.
      But that won't be the same with physical assault, as I have the right to defend myself.

      Please Tee, I don't involve my family especially my parents in public discuss, especially in this manner. They don't deserve such disrespect ..
      but just to answer your question, I'll use my sis for example, my sis cannot be stupid to hit me.. she cannot be stupid to act in such manner cos you see all these stuff I say online here, I give her the same advice too privately.. now let's say she hit me, then she'll definitely learn her lesson not to hit a man no matter what..

      So what's your response?

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    6. On the contrary, since you brought mom into the picture, I'll ask you a question and I want you to answer honestly,
      What would be your reaction if you meet a young girl raining insults your mom and everyone is cautioning her to stop but she went on and on.. we are talking of deep insults here like old witch, ugly thing etc..

      Answer honestly..

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    7. So sorry Dante, never mean any disrespect to your family but an innocent question. Yes we all have the right to self defence but then the question is, hitting a woman who rudely responded to you after bashing your car, to you was that a self defence from the man? I totally frown at women excesses and rudely behaviour but come on! It's an assault to even beat your own child let alone someone's daughter.

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    8. Domestic violence of any sort is wrong.

      A man shouldn't hit a woman no matter how provoked she gets him(after all, men provoke women always, how many women hits them out of anger?)

      But, that doesn't mean a woman would raise her hand to hit a guy first.

      Except on grounds of returning favour (by this I mean, if you slap me as a man, I return the favour).

      Everyone should just keep their hands by them sides.

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    9. Lol.. Tee
      Flogging my own child when he is still under my roof and isn't adult yet, can never be an assault., na training.

      Spare the rod and spoil the child.. yes, I know the rod here can also be interpreted figuratively, but it definitely wasn't what the Bible meant by rod...
      Bros, I'm old skool.. my mama no spare the rod on me, I was a stubborn child.. na only Cain I dey listen to.

      No offense taken my gee

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    10. I am a woman and I totally support Dante's point of view on this. We have to use the same standard in judging all in matters of domestic violence or physical abuse. Women let us also learn the extent we can push our partners with our toxic tongue. Some men are wired to respond physically under any form of attack just like some women are also quick to respond physically even to their fellow women. That is just how their temperament are and you and I cannot change it. When you meet such people it is now left for you to apply wisdom and not push them to the extreme that will elicit a physical reaction. If you must run your mouth for such a man you better stay far far away and be running your mouth or run away after that (lol). bottomline: do not provoke and then cry foul ..let us all respect each other. I personally abhor domestic violence but it is not usually a black and white with every situation.

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    11. Dante, to your question. No, I was won't beat the lady but rather pacify my mom to go inside. Guess what I will do.... I will invite my sister to handle it. Then it will be woman to woman.

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  9. Stella you wan deboo Ceaser like this. If i hear πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰


    Good morning everyone hope you had a restful night. Where is Mummy A, Mummy boys, White Enchantress, Tbabe, Sonia, Kim Nana, Miss Ess, The Mystery Woman and other BVs missing in action.

    Salma thank God your hubby is responding to treatment. I had a bad dream last night i was accused of something that was not purely a mistake and it involved the police. Well i have rejected and prayed against it.

    Have a beautiful weekend guys. Off to do the laundry and prepare for my classesπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

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    1. Sometimes dream show you the future...you have prayed alright but you need to still be careful and watch out for signs you saw in the dream..u were shown it all in the dream....do not pray against the smell of shit and forget to observe the color.....lol

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    2. Please pray about more and be very cautious...

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    3. Thank you Stella i ll do just as suggested. Golibe thank you

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  10. So NAF is still claiming that Boko Haram didn't shoot down the jet. That Boko cannot shoot down such an airplane. They are still maintaining that the source of the crash is unknown. Whatever makes them sleep well Sha but they should know we all ain't daft in this country.

    We slept well Stella dearie. We all are awake and watching NTA as there's power. Waiting for hubby to come back with the akara he went to buy, after eating, I will commence cleaning.

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    1. They won't admit because it's a big blow to them so they will be denial...

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    2. It's an open secret now.

      They can deny as they like, we know the truth.

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  11. Good morning everyone.
    Please who knows where I could download foreign movies. I use Hdmp4mania, but they don't have some of the movies I need.
    Any suggestions please? Thank

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  12. So sad to hear about Bv Bliss demise. May her soul rest in the Lord. Comfort to his family. πŸ™


    God, help your children.

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  13. My Friday was so cool. I slept so well too, though late, catching up on old posts. I love it here! πŸ₯°

    Good morning lovelies. Enjoy your weekend. πŸ’•

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  14. Good morning good people

    Bv Bliss, may God comfort your family.

    Salma, it's well with your husband, quick recovery I wish him.

    Enjoy your weekend beautiful people.

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  15. My night was blissful. All thanks to Almighty God.

    Hmmmmm... It's Ok to beat a woman who's rude??? πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™† Wonderment....

    Please, domestic violence is total No no matter the offense. There are so many ways to deal with someone without raising a finger...

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  16. Good morning beautiful people, Bv Salma, thank God for your hubby. Affliction shall not rise a second time, its well with your household

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  17. Good morning Stellakoko and everyone..

    Salma,how is husband doing?? The healing power of God is upon him...

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    1. Thank you golibe. His much bette
      Amen to your prayers

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  18. Dear Parent,

    It is the end of term and children's academic reports are already being handed out.

    Gentle reminders:

    - Your child's result is not a reflection of your child's worth. They're infinitely more than that ink on paper. Your child must remained loved, good grades or not. Your unconditional love must never be in question.
    - If your child has a less than excellent result, be reassured, your child is not dumb. Their teachers just haven't figured out the best way to teach them or the child's pace isn't as expected. With patience, the right approach and the right amount of work, they will improve.
    - It's your child's academic performance report not a proof of your parenting skills or ability. Don't doubt or second guess yourself.

    Happy Easter Holidays.

    Copied

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  19. Today is my birthday
    Please say a prayer for me
    Good morning bv
    #happybirthdaytome

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    1. Happy birthday to you.

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    2. Happy birthday to you mummy pp

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    3. Happy birthday Mummy PP. Blessings!!

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    4. Happy birthday mummy pp,God bless ur new age and grant all ur heart desires.

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    5. Happy birthday to you. More immense blessings to you...

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    6. Happy birthday madam. God bless you.

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    7. Happy birthday to you. More grace upon you I pray πŸ™.

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    8. Happy birthday Mummy po.
      God bless ur new age. Amen

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    9. Wishing you a wonderful birthday todayπŸŽ‰πŸŽŠ,may God suprise you with what you didn't even ask for

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    10. Happy birthday mummy pp, God bless your new age

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    11. πŸŒ€πŸŒ€ we got mummy yo pp yeah you know meπŸŒ€πŸŒ€ happy birthday long life and prosperity amen

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    12. Happy birthday Mummy pp,God bless your new age.

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    13. Happy birthday πŸŽ‚ πŸ₯‚ 🍾 πŸ₯³ πŸŽ‰ 🎈 🎁 🎊 Mummy PP.

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  20. Good morning everyone.
    Up and grateful to God
    Thanks my FAM blog for all your prayers and support towards my husband and I. His really progressing although still on oxygen. I'm still very grateful.
    May Almighty God reward us all.
    Amen.
    I was shocked when I saw an anonymous comment for me.pls ooh remove such hatred from your heart and become a better person for you to succeed in life.may God forgive u . I have also forgiving you

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    1. Thank God for him. He will recover speedily by God's grace.

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    2. It is well with ur hubby,God is in control.

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    3. We return all the glory to God Almighty. I pray for quick recovery. Good morning beautiful soul.

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    4. May God's healing power make your husband completely whole in Jesus name.

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    5. Amen yo all your prayers
      Thank you so much.
      So much luv

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    6. I take God beg u . leave me alone. Na wetin now shuuu. I say I no like u na by force. Forgiven for the truth.
      I SAY CARRY UR CROSSS NA BAD THING.Inukwa.

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    7. Thank God for your husband. God's healing hands is upon him.

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    8. May God Almighty speedily perfect your husband's healing.You and your family will shed tears of joy and not sorrow over your husband,It is well with you Salma.

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  21. Good morning madam Stella and dear blog visitors.
    It's a lovely Saturday, Saturdays are for weddings but min, na house chores full am πŸ˜₯.
    Don't know why I haven't attended a single wedding since I came to this town πŸ™†πŸ™†, I am patiently waiting for any bv to announce their wedding in my locality, I must gate crash it oo πŸ€ͺ
    E-hugs everyone 😘 😘

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  22. Thank God for the gift of a new year. It's my birthday today...Yay!!!!!

    Good morning my people.

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    1. Happy Birthday darling....may God light continually shine upon all your ways in Jesus name....Amen. Have a fab day boo...Much love.πŸ₯°πŸ˜˜

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    2. Happy birthday to you sunshine

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    3. Happy birthday Sunshine bv,πŸŽ‰πŸŽŠkeep shinning and winning in all areas of your life,enjoy your day.

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    4. Happy birthday sweetheart, beautiful years ahead

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    5. πŸŒ€πŸŒ€ My lovely sunshine, my pretty sunshineπŸŒ€πŸŒ€πŸŒ€ happy birthday to you. As your moniker implies, may you continue shining all over your life and endeavours. Have fun dear

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    6. Happy birthday dear πŸŽ‚ πŸ₯‚ 🍾 πŸ’“ πŸ’›
      God bless your new age πŸ™

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  23. Good morning everyone, it's a beautiful Saturday morning, up and thankful....
    Feeling so lazy this morning and I have a lot to do. God abeg give me strength

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  24. Our God answers prayer,I'm still in awe of him. Please never give up on God and yourself,I'm a living witness,my testimony is still rolling in and will share with you when it's ripe.

    I took scent leaves (efirin), the thing purge me for almost a day but after everything I feel so light and good. It as lots of nutrients...

    Happy Easter to you all.....

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  25. Lol..
    Them girls be on a mission to making brothers lose their endorsement for being real..

    Ceaser passed a message which of course ladies would always blow out of proportion cos they want to continue doing their nonsense without repercussions.

    Let me give you an example-
    NO one has the right to come into your apartment to steal even if you leave your door wide open right? But wise people know that it's better to keep your door locked cos you'll also suffer the consequences of the stealing if you do otherwise, does that mean you're supporting or you're a theif apologist? No..
    Same way girls are advice to dress decently and they scream "my body is my body is can wear whatever I want".. if eventually they're molested, who suffers the consequences? Them right?

    Now in these 2 illustrations above, it doesn't mean that if you lock your door a thief might not break in, or if you dress decently you might not be molested, but we cannot deny the fact that it reduces the possibility of such happenings. Someone that want to steal might have a change of mind when he meets the door locked. A man with low self control won't think of molestation when you're covered properly..

    Now this is what ceaser is saying, not every guy has self control, it's easy to shout "if I insult you insult me back".. but what happens when the guy loses it and hit you.. no be you go get injury for body? So is it not also important to preach about ladies not insulting a man no matter what just like we preach of men not hitting a lady no matter what?

    Abeg let's be real here, ladies push this privilege too far, you see them even justify how a 'real man' should walk away when a lady slap him.. I pity una..

    Abeg make una hold una boo endorsement, we don give am title as PATRON for REAL MEN ASSOCIATION WORLD WIDE✌

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    1. A load of crap.
      Men are not quick to respond with their fists when ‘fellow men’ provoke them. They are also not quick to respond with their fists when their ‘female bosses’ provoke them at work. However, so long as you have that woman you regard as property at home, hitting becomes justifiable, again a load of crap.
      People take decisions they feel they can get away with, in the right context no one tells them to have that self control.
      Domestic violence is wrong coming from either party. In our world women have always been at the receiving end, even for things as mundane as having too much salt in food. But the major reason is men feeling they can’t and shouldn’t be challenged by a woman. Every little question represents ‘talking back’.
      In the scenario yesterday, you can’t tell me there was no better way of handling that issue than slapping her. There are a thousand and one ways of telling her to caution her tongue, but no, the man had to prove his manhood by hitting her. He just had to put up a show to save face before his fellow chauvinist.
      What do you call being real? Is it being set in archaic ways? What happened to understanding that there are much better ways of resolving issues than resorting to violence?
      That’s why a woman should never let anyone take her earning power from her, cos I could see from the story the emphasis on ‘he bought her the car’. Another responded with ‘she will never own another car and not allowed to buy for herself’ a load of crap. The rich (or financially better-off) chauvinists are the very worst!

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    2. Lol..
      Let me take the issue you raised one by one..

      1. Who told you men don't respond with fist to settle issues.. the same men that use gun to chase themselves and kill each other in university just to settle scores.. omo spare me with that bullshit abeg.. you guys just come to say things you heard someone else say without thinking critically about it..

      2. They don't respond with fist on their female boss, same way you ladies don't respond with insults on your male bosses when provoked..

      However, so long as you have that man you regard as husband at home, insults becomes justifiable.

      3. "Domestic violence is wrong coming from either party. In our world women have always been at the receiving end",- WRONG. I POSTED A FACT YESTERDAY THAT MEN MAKE 40 PERCENT VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. THIS DOES NOT MAKE WOMEN 60 PERCENT, CHILDREN ARE MORE VICTIMS THAT WOMEN. YOU WOMEN JUST LIKE TO SHOUT, MAKE NOISE AND PLAY VICTIMS.. IT's EVEN WORSE HERE IN NIGERIA COS A MAN SPEAKING OUT WOULD MAKE HIM A LAUGHING STOCK.

      4. In the scenario yesterday, you can’t tell me there was no better way of handling that issue than slapping her. There are a thousand and one ways of telling her to caution her tongue, but no, the man had to prove his manhood by hitting her. He just had to put up a show to save face before his fellow chauvinist.
      SHE INSULTED HIM IN THE PRESENCE OF HIS FRIEND, SHE DIDN'T MIND THAT SHE WAS MAKING A FOOL OFF HIM. BUT YOU EXPECT HIM TO TREAT HER FUCK UP IN PRIVATE AFTER DISGRASING HIM IN PUBLIC BAH.. BE SAYING NONSENSE.. WHY DON'T YOU FOCUS ON THE SAME THING I FOCUSED ON WHICH IS THE ROOT CAUSE, IF SHE DIDN'T INSULT HIM, WOULD ANY OF THIS HAD HAPPEN, NOW YOU'RE SAYING HE HIT HER FOR EGO TRIP.. LIKE HE JUST CAME HOME AND STARTED HITTING HER FOR NOTHING.

      5. "What do you call being real? Is it being set in archaic ways? What happened to understanding".. REAL IS RELATIVE, WHAT'S REALLY TO ME MIGHT NOT BE REAL TO YOU.. YOU'RE TALKING OF THE MAN UNDERSTAND HER, UNDERSTAND WHAT IN PARTICULAR, HER INSULT AND RUDENESS? IS SHE UNDERSTANDING? WHY DON'T SHE UNDERSTANDS NOT TO INSULT HIM ESPECIALLY IN THE PRESENCE OF AN OUTSIDER

      6. "That’s why a woman should never let anyone take her earning power from her"
      I'M WITH YOU ON THIS, DON'T I SAY IT EVERYTIME BUT THE LAZY AND GREEDY GIRLS WOULD COME AND INSULT ME.. NO MAN WOULD RESPECT YOU IF HE DOES EVERYTHING FOR YOU AND YOU DON'T AND ANY VALUE TO HIS LIFE OR BRING SOMETHING TANGIBLE TO THE TABLE.

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    3. You didn’t respond to this:
      People take decisions they feel they can get away with, in the right context no one tells them to have that self control.
      I will respond to you as well:
      1) you can’t compare cult issues to domestic issues, in male, female relationships and ordinary human interactions, there will always be misunderstandings, violence is not a response. If it was a guy that hit and damaged his car on the road, he will not QUICKLY resort to his fist.
      2) touchΓ©, but we are talking violence here, physical violence! So I repeat my earlier comment stands.
      3) again let’s not leave the issue - physical violence. I may have used the umbrella term ‘domestic violence’ but in the context of my entire write-up and the post of yesterday, we are talking against ‘physical violence’. Don’t take it out of context. You can’t tell men men suffer physical violence more than women, in our clime? That’s incorrect! No one, absolutely no one said she was right to run her mouth, the response and stamp of approval on the response is the issue.
      4 I can’t just focus on the root cause, because there will always be an issue in marriage/relationships. Someone will offend the other. When that happens, how do you respond?
      You just reiterated my earlier conclusion, that the beating was to the onlooker’s benefit.
      5. Yes she should understand not to insult her husband inside or outside but you are deflecting, the question remains is violence the way to say this?
      You are an apologist for women beaters no matter how you try to mask it. To use the same scenario you painted in your first post - if someone kills his/her spouse, he/she is charged with murder, doesn’t mean all beating will lead to murder, but avoiding physical altercations will greatly reduce that possibility.
      You men will never understand until you see the consequences of your actions, then ‘had I known’ will come last. One of my relatives is accused of disfiguring (big disfiguration) his unborn daughter while in the womb, cos he beat his wife while she was heavily pregnant. Now he has to live with this, everyday! Local and foreign docs have looked into the case, still no solution! He has to look and see what his stupidity caused! There is the argument that ‘oh she may have already been disfigured before the beating’ but who is listening? Who can say for sure? Who is asking what caused the wahala? He just has to deal with the beating - why did you beat her? And before you say the wife may have been a liability financially, not at all, not at all.
      This Ceaser is the same person that encourages men to leave this ‘zoo’ Is this how the men in his model country act? If his narrative happened in the USA or UK for instance, he would have rushed to stop his friend from that action, cos there could be grave consequences! I repeat, people do what they can get away with.
      Accept that beating is not a solution, then everything comes easy. You can then open your mind up to better ways of dealing with issues. Same way parents are now having a reorientation that beating is not the best way of raising a child.

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    4. Now you're just arguing for argument sake. Read my first comment again and learn from the wisdom there.
      It's for your own good.

      Blessings

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    5. There is no wisdom there. Beating is not an option, period.
      My own good? I hold my side wella.

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  26. Painless death method please BVs.
    I don't want to feel any pain, I want it smooth.
    Been praying and begging through this open heaven for God to end my life and my lineage, I don't want this circle of life to continue.
    The life is meaningless and worthless.
    Will really appreciate.

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    1. Please dont take ur life!when i wanted to end it all,when i thought life was meaningless n worthless,u know what???God sent me an angel in human form,makes me realise "life is beautiful".BE POSITIVE

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    2. Please there’s more to life
      You are strong
      You are loved
      Jehovah loves you
      Keep holding on my dear
      Am praying for you

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    3. Hang in there dear, don't take that life because you can't create itπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™.

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    4. πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€ There's hope. Please don't take your life...

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    5. So you wanna kill yourself?..........INTERESTING!

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    6. You are loved
      You are stronger than you think
      No situation is completely hopeless
      Hold on for when the night is darkest,dawn is about to break.
      I'm praying for you,it's not over yet.

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    7. Be strong and courageous, you'll conquer whatever you're facing. Don't let the devil deceive you, suicide should never be an option, not the solution.... Kisses

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    8. I beg you,do not think of taking your life .Whatever you are going through, someone somewhere has gone through it and came out victorious. I beg you once again,do not take your life .You are loved.

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    9. If you take your life you will see the worst on the other side. You have no right to take it, except the one who gave it to you.

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  27. Good morning beautiful people. Ma'am Stella wan kill me with laugh this morning, I can only imagine dis-booing Caesar 🀣🀣🀣. Happy weekend everyone.

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  28. @Classy Diana....so sorry about your mum dearie. May God grant her eternal rest and continue to strengthen your family πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™
    @ Salma...how is your hubby doing today? Sending prayers up for him...it will end in praise dearie.πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™
    @ Candy...I pray your sister does so much better. She is in my prayers darl. It will end in praiseπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™
    @Choco boo...may the good Lord continually strengthen your family. πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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    1. Tanx dear essa.
      His much better today than yesterday.

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  29. Good morning people.
    May the resurrection of Christ awaken everything dead in our lives in our lives.πŸ’‹πŸ’–

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  30. Domestic violence is a criminal offense. Caesar take note.

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  31. See the way you're just up and about trying to prove a stupid point. Just go back, start from the beginning of the comment section and see your epistles. What does that mean to you? Even the person wey get main comment sef dey think about em life. But look at you, just look at you. Get busy.

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