Hello Stella,
I wrote you last year October about an issue I was facing. The link of the chronicles is HERE
I got so many advise from lovely bvs. Well, I gave him an ultimatum, moved out of his house too. He came back pleading and promising that he had cut all ties with her. So I took him back again.
Our relationship was even more sweeter than ever. We were planning to settle down this year . Until 2months back, we went on a vacation far away only for him to start telling me that his people kicked against him marrying from my side, (he's from IMO and I'm from delta).
This revelation took me by surprise. But I told him fine that I wouldn't want to face in laws hatred & even though it will hurt, let's give each other space. . he said no that we have to fight he suggested I got pregnant so they would have no option. That i should not give up on us and trust him to work things out with his people...we continued.
One day, my boyfriend's mechanic called me to come pick up his car that he had fixed it and he was calling him and his numbers switched off. (the mechanic was traveling for his father's burial and he won't be around for a long time). I got to the workshop. Called boyfriend but his, lines were off.
I was a bit worried so I took the keys (luckily he had settled the mechanic) and drove to his place. Getting there, I packed the car and headed to his apartment only to find him on bed with that so called ex girlfriend.
She greeted me, I greeted her back. Then I dropped the keys on the bed stand. The girl started crying that so he had been lying to her that we were no longer dating. She now announced her pregnancy to him, he was shocked.
She now opened up to me all the lies he told. I was like oga talk now, defend yourself. He didn't say anything. The lady and I left his apartment.
Well, I just went through Facebook today and found tags and photos of him flying up and down , he apparently did traditional wedding with a girl from his village. I don't know how to feel at this point. Mixed feelings.
Well I'm not pregnant. I said let me update my second family on the latest.
Thanks Stella and Thanks bvs.
*Hmm serial boyfriend. You really dodged a bullet. May you find what is yours in Jesus name.
Thank God for you. You see all these idiot men, they will start blaming innocent wives when things goes bad with them.
ReplyDeleteShebi na so Aaron called his ex wife nwa nmirri
Hmmm, when some guys have money they feel enjoyment is to be playing Kalukalu with their lives by involving themselves with different women, giving women belle upandan.
DeletePoster you dodged a bullet. What is a relationship or marriage with a person you can't trust?
Oga oo. Thank God you had sense.
ReplyDeleteI am here thanking God on her behalf
DeleteHe will still cheat hopelessly on the new wife. God save you.
ReplyDeleteSis, thank your God oh! You just dodged a rocket propelled grenade
ReplyDeleteAmen to your prayer Stella. My dear your own will come at the right time.
ReplyDeleteThey lie a lot. All taking of exes back is an unworthy gamble. The thing that made y'all break up previously, will usually surface again.
ReplyDeleteGood thing your eyes have finally cleared! After all the advice that last time, you still forgave and went back.. I hope you've finally moved one for good.
ReplyDelete🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteThis poster you no do well, was it the girlfriend he got married to or he just carried the two of you 2.5 handicap?
ReplyDeleteBe nice anon!😂😂. Over 3.5 sef. Community gbola just dey use fine babes catch cruise without condom on top promise of marriage after pregnancy. Him "wife" go hear whiiiin! Wetin "I WILL marry you" go cause for this Nigeria ehn! Federal government no go fit solve am.
DeleteGlad to have you back dear blog sister. I totally love that you didn't disgrace us further by throwing punches when you found his ex at his place✔. This new working brain shall be permanent in Jesus' name. Visit a lab ASAP
'cause this arusi somebody must be a mobile STD/STI distributor.
Ladies, any man that asks you to get pregnant first before marriage issa scam😠. Drop him like it's hot!
🤣🤣🤣 @ Amebonawork and 16:06.
DeleteIf they like let them keep opening leg senselessly.
Delete🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 You'll be fine poster. Take it one day at a time.
ReplyDeletePoster please thank God you didnt marry this kind of man....this particular disappointment is Gods protection. You deserve better.
ReplyDeleteThank God u did not enter one chance, umunwoke meeee gi ifeeeeeh.
ReplyDeleteOnce u notice a cheating man, don't marry him hoping he will change. Same applies to ladies. Cheating is like a drug addiction it's hard to stop, rolling on the ground and releasing two gallons of water from the eyes will not stop any wakawaka man or woman from changing. Peace of mind is the best, forget caring and all that, a caring spouse is not a cheating spouse bcoz ur heart and dignity is the most expensive part to care about.
Preach sis!👌
DeleteHmm when i read the part he said you should get pregnant first so you guys can fight for your relationship, my heart leaped cos i know it wasnt a good decision, well thank GOD you dodged a bullet...he was such a serial boyfriend he was playing the both of you, he didnt have plans to marry the ex girlfriend as well, i wonder what he plans to gain? My dear just take heart and move on, pray for direction from the holy spirit at all times, i will advise you renew your relationship with GOD and keep GODLY relationships to avoid all these sex before marriage drama. Shalom
ReplyDeleteHe is such an unrepentant cheat. So after the other girl is pregnant he has another one he did traditional with? Using his money catching women, using them and leaving broken hearts everywhere. See why your spirit was never content in his home, is like you knew energetically that something was not right. What a life. And wanted to bind you up in that mess with pregnant. Mtschhhw
ReplyDeleteI have an uncle just like that, he was a successful businessman and so all the women young and old flocked to him, and he received them all, if he has slept with less than 100 women I would be shocked. Now, in his 60s he has no one to call his own, see him living basic now, nobody looking
at him now.
Thanks for the update.
Nne I'm happy for u,I've been here getting angry on a matter that is nt my business,,my neighbor is pregnant wt d 5th child, n d husband stays in an other state,just came back some weeks back to spend time wt them,though she didn't tell d hubby abt her pregnancy until he came visiting,she came this afternoon n ws telling me d man is giving her issue,since he came back they barely eat,he sleeps out every day in d hotel,which he pays 5k. As its stands now,she has nt seen d husband since Friday,that f baby in her womb is another boy after 4boys..why on earth did u get pregnant again,,I became more angrier when she said d man has always been like this,she ws like, wetin I go do naa,I don born.I became stiff
ReplyDeleteNa wa oo bet why you use f for the innocent baby ? Na the mama you go blame not the child
DeleteHmmmm...this is a huge huge lesson. When we summon courage & walk away from a relationship filled with issues, family & friends are quick to call us crazy but it makes no sense living in heartbreak. God really loves you, to have exposed him before you..mehn your mama prayers dey work.
ReplyDeleteGod help us single ladies with brains.
Yeye dey smell!
ReplyDeleteMen are scum!
"Get pregnant for him" means you've been sleeping with him; right?
ReplyDeleteWell, you would have been an emergency baby mama or abort a baby that
is totally innocent. God spared you of both. What do you do at this point?
Check yourself for STI/STDS
Give your life to your creator; the one who died for you.
From him will come all good and perfect gift including your own husband.
Well said.
DeletePlease be true to yourself don't start any relationship when you know your parents are against inter tribal marriage .
ReplyDeleteNobody is against anything. The guy is a scam.
DeleteAll these guys that always tell their women to get preggy first are the unserious ones. Had it been you got preggy, you would've fallen into Reno's list. Thank God and close legs like a mermaid.
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