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Friday, May 28, 2021

Mrs Dee's Corner - Do You Know Your Spouse/Partner?

Knowledge is power.....








I recently watched a video clip on the internet where the MC of a wedding  blindfolded the groom and made him identify and kiss his bride by feeling her palm. I watched with apprehension because I couldn't imagine the disaster that would ensue if he kissed the wrong woman.


It got me thinking and asking myself if I could recognize my hubby by mere touch in the midst of other men when blindfolded and my answer was a 'no'. I can't even try it.



This brings up the question of how well some of us know our spouses...




 It may not be an extreme case of being blindfolded, but as ridiculous and unbelievable as it sounds, some couples have not taken their time and interest to find about out their partners' best food, hobby, drink, fruit, sport, colour and even their likes and dislikes, peculiar habits and things they can/cannot tolerate in the home.


I still remember a show that used to air on TV about couples knowing themselves well enough and the couple who came first received exciting gifts and packages.

A lack of knowledge about the aforementioned can cause friction and disagreements in the home and only a deliberate attempt to know these details and use them adequately can help with a peaceful and happy relationship.

Growing up, my dad was a football fanatic and he never joked with the time for football matches and my mum was on her own (OYO) if she needed his help at that time. She knew this and didn't bother to nag or throw a tantrum. My dad on the other hand knew my mum preferred wrappers to skirts and gowns and he got her wrappers and didn't try to force her to wear skirts during outings and special occasions.


When I just got married, I noticed that each time I dished our food, hubby would get an extra plate for drinking garri alongside the main meal and I found it weird initially. Over time, I have become accustomed to it and I sometimes tease him when he doesn't ask for garri to drink.


We have learned to respect each other's choices instead of trying to coax and guilt trip, although some of our preferences, likes and dislikes have evolved during the course of being together and I sometimes wonder why something I couldn't tolerate a few years ago has now become something I enjoy doing.

 I guess it comes with the territory.

I am sure this topic will get a lot of you with spouses and partners thinking...

25 comments:

  1. It sure did get me thinking! There are lots of hubby's habits I am yet to accept and i doubt if i would accept it. Same goes for him. But for peace to reign, i sometimes keep quiet and let him have his way. Same cannot be said for him as he feels the need to change everything he doesn't like about me.

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    1. I think both of you should seat down and have a talk, marriage is about compromise but if it's a bad habit,then change is really needed.

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  2. If that groom was able to identify and kiss the bride by just touching, he has been doing the kissing and touching and more in secret!
    Character identification is very important; and that pitiably is the one that is missing in many homes.
    I also see it in the chronicles I read here.
    A lot of ladies succumb to the temptation of knowing their spouses' "perceived wealth," sexual prowess and size of his penis rather than knowing his character strength and flaws.
    Quickly she gets married and quickly she realizes that she lives with a stranger.
    Think ladies, be watchful, prayerful and godly before you ask for a godly man.
    πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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    1. E no go better for person wen do you this kain thing. Small question "do you know your partner"? You don para enter 'perceived wealth' and size of penis πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      Na you holy pass...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. Haaa! anon e never reach like this na🀣🀣🀣

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    3. It's elixir's comment for me

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  3. It actually got me thinking if I really know my husband. To an extent I do. If blindfolded,I might not be able to identify him but he will do if he is blindfolded because I have a birth mark on my neck.

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  4. Good piece! I am a very observant person.and details..down to the tiniest,have a way of sticking to my brain. I can confidently say I know hubby's mannerisms,likes and things of interest. He unfortunately,can't say same for me.he still struggles to remember my birth date and I find it annoying,let alone as little details of our courtship days etc. As for recognizing him if blindfolded,I would cos I have a sharp sense of smell and can distinguish things and persons with it.

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  5. I think I know my husband πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. His love for banana eh, I don't argue with him when it comes to that. Also a news freak, football fan and political analysis. Anytime he's watching any of these, I just mind my business 😁😁. It's good to know and understand your spouse to minimize quarells✌️

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  6. Well if I am blindfolded and asked to fish out my husband from a group of men, believe me I canπŸ˜‚

    I know the man so well, he is like an open book, I know when he is up to something, when he is lyingπŸ˜ƒ(fortunately he is a bad liar), I understand every facial expression.

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  7. Honestly, I would have never played that blindfold at my wedding because I really dunno that I would be able to recognise him or he me.

    As per knowing your husband, I think I know my husband to a very large extent and he also knows me but u can never fully know someone. You just learn more as u go.

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  8. After dating for some years I am just discovering some new things about him. never knew he was addicted to Porn

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    1. So many of them are addicted to that rubbish. Women too are addicted to it. The only difference is that a woman will never rub it in your face. She knows how to control her eyes and thoughts till she's absolutely alone. But a porn addict man will lie next to you, cuddling you and heartlessly be viewing that rubbish on his phone at thesame time.

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  9. I dont even need to touch my wife when blindfolded before I know its her;her nice fragrance will make me know it's her already once she is around..

    Also her nails once I touch it will give her out cos it's too neat and smooth;next is her hand,once i touch it my body go begin vibrate because only hers can get me in that frequencyπŸ˜‰

    For her likes;I know them all and know what triggers her too,cos she is very emotionally intelligent so I was quite observant while we were dating and courting..

    If she be exam;I no fit get carry overπŸ˜€πŸ˜€

    @MARTINS

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    1. Good husband πŸ’–πŸ‘

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    2. Na man you be Martins, God bless your home πŸ™πŸ‘

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  10. Nice one Mrs Dee πŸ‘, I'm saving this piece.
    Your topics are always refreshing.

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    1. Thank you so much First Lady Blessing πŸ™πŸ™

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  11. It would have really been a disaster if the groom had kissed a wrong person. That up there was a risky game to be played on ones wedding day.

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  12. I can identify my husband if I am blindfolded, his fingers are somehow short and fat, though he is tall and I always tease him with that. I won't fail even with blindfold, I believe he will identify me as well.

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  13. I know my husband to an extent...though I just discovered something new after 8years. I love studying people...its a habit for me. He has suffered in answering questions for my hands 🀣.
    Can just wake up and ask one strange question and he has to answer. He's a man of few words that's the main issue

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  14. If I'm blindfolded I can recognize my husband by fragrance and facial features.

    My husband will recognize me in splint seconds.

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  15. Forget that one. My aunty and uncle were on one of those shows and won. Everyone was congratulating their love. Meanwhile my uncle used to pound my aunty regularly till she is rushed to the hospital. It’s not by knowing all habits I beg.

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