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Monday, July 05, 2021

MONDAY Spontaneous POST

 #monday #newday #positivevibesonly #ekaro #ndewo #namaste #itiswhatitis #positivevibeschangeseverything #dontusesomeoneelsetovalidateyourself #beselfconfident #beselfmotivated #beselfinspiring #haveselflove #doyoualways





Good Morning oh,

Summer Holiday Officially begins today here and its a yaaaay from me!

When is summer starting where you are?

What are you doing this Morning? Please dont leave home without your smile and good vibes....


 On Sundays in house gist someone made a comment dragging me for repeating the topic and made a mini rant.....Please respect yourself here oh, if you see a repeated topic, must you comment? next time close it go somewhere else....The post you complained about, didn't it get comments? Some of you like to go under anonymous to try to deflate someone's ego....If you try it with me you are wasting your fuel, I am a very strong minded person and i don't let what people do or say get to me, your silent bullying refuels me... So this is thank you!


If you are reading this Blog and almost giving up due to what life has sent you or due to hw people treat you, please come in here every day make i cut soap for you!....The more you fall or fail, is the more you should be determined to get up and continue.. Have an attitude of someone who never gives up....


Tough times dont last....


Have a positive day and spread it on...

Kisses

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157 comments:

  1. It's another Live Healing Online Service with Pastor Chris this weekend. Connect from wherever you are, get healed of whatever ailment. Register for it for free, pray and start thanking God for your miracle.

    Vested With All Power!!
    Revelation 12:7-8.

    Excerpts!!

    "Oftentimes, when there's chaos, anarchy and turmoil in a society, many don't realize that the devil is behind such things"

    "From his place in the atmospheric realms, Satan runs families, cities, kingdoms and nations, determine a lot of things that happen in them. He's only restrained - his efforts, operations and manoeuvres are only thwarted by the prayers of the saints of God"

    "When we pray, God's mercy is released and angels are dispatched upon our request and according to His will"

    Prayer!!

    I speak in the authority of Jesus, and declare that God's will, plans and purposes for the Church, and the nations of the world are established; His righteousness rules in men's hearts and in the nations, because all souls and every nation belong to Jesus Christ! God's Kingdom is established in the earth, and in the hearts of men, as it in heaven, in Jesus' Name. Amen.

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  2. Gooooooooooooooooodmorning๐Ÿ˜Š❤️๐Ÿฅฐ❤️๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹❤️๐Ÿฅฐ❤️๐Ÿ’‹fam!
    It’s like my friends want to do me surprise surprise cos this one nobody is asking me anything...
    Let me wait till tomorrow first๐Ÿšถ‍♀️๐Ÿšถ‍♀️

    It’s my birthday tomorrow yo!๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป
    Biko ask for my address or account deets๐Ÿ˜ซ

    Beautiful day fam❤️

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  3. BEING READY

    ‘It did not fall, for it was founded on the rock.’
    Matthew 7:25 NKJV

    Sometimes In marriage you can’t avoid problems and crises, but you can prepare for their arrival. Most of the stress points in our families are common, and therefore predictable. Christian psychologist Doctor James Dobson writes: ‘One of my good friends spent a considerable amount of time with his wife, preparing for the moment when their grown kids would move out of the house. They talked often about the empty nest, and discussed ways their friends had coped with it. They read books about that phase of life, and applied what they had heard to themselves. As a result, their transition to the empty nest was smooth. Into every marriage, a little snow will fall. Blizzards will blow, and storms will howl. But an effort to anticipate these times will help you and your mate stand up under the weight of the winter storm.’ Here are three ways in which you can be ready:
    1) Sharing goals beyond parenting to which you’re both committed.
    2) Sharing feelings and needs, and having them validated.
    3) Sharing in prayer together each day. Did you know that 90 per cent of all Christian couples don’t pray together? Be sure and make it your goal to be part of the 10 per cent who do.
    Word For Today

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  4. This beautiful day; the Lord shall prosper you, you will be favoured on all your activities, the power of the Lord will support you in progress.
    Grace of His presence will take care of your life and family.
    You will end the week in praise in Jesus name.
    Love you.

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  5. Yes....its a POSITIVE Monday for me.
    Good morning beautiful people.
    UP AND THANKFUL

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  6. Thank God for a new day and week. May all our plans come to fruition. Amen

    Have a blessed day everyone. ๐Ÿ’•

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    1. AMEN๐Ÿ™ Goodmorning Cynthia

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    2. Good morning radiant D ๐Ÿ’•

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    3. 2 weeks ago, I mentioned how to prepare meals on a budget and preserve your pepper in glass containers; this week i would be teaching you alternatives to tomatoes when it gets pricey.

      Blend your pepper (rodo, tatashe, ginger)
      Get your cucumber and scrap off the green part, leaving only the whitish part.blend into a smooth paste and add little beetroot powder for colour, then pour into the already blended pepper.

      Or

      Boil garden eggs and remove the outer skin, blend into a smooth paste and add little beetroot powder for colour.

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  7. But it got you to the extent you made a post about it. Means it get you wella. @stella

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    1. It seems you don't know Stella. Nothing petty like this gets her. She just wanted to point out how childish the person( or YOU) are. Breathe!!! You don't have to transfer aggression on this blog. Create your own blog then see how easy it is. Yeye dey smell.

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  8. Dear Men, if you are cheating on your wife and she knows very well, yet she's not bothered about it... You are to be pitied. What awaits in future is a great doom. You see thoses children she's staying behind for they will become adults and you will understand berra. Loneliness at old age kills faster than can imagine. After reading yesterday's article I am convinced that alot of married men(based on your spokesman's view) don't understand the sweetness of being joined with your Wife ALONE. That thing you are looking for outside will bring you so much sorrow esp when you hurt a Good woman. Your not cheating on your wife is not for her own good it is YOURS.

    ....Ignorance is not bliss in this case at all. If your partner breaks a CONVENANT you have with him/her without your consent you deserve to know

    He that has an Ear, let him hear.

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    1. ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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    2. Dear women, if you are cheating on your husband and heknows very well, yet he’s not bothered about it... You are to be pitied. What awaits you in future is a great doom. You see those children he’s staying behind for they will become adults and you will understand berra. Loneliness at old age kills faster than can imagine. After reading yesterday's article I am convinced that alot of married women(based on your spokeswoman view) don't understand the sweetness of being joined with your HUSBAND ALONE. That thing you are looking for outside will bring you so much sorrow esp when you hurt a Good man. Your not cheating on your husband is not for his own good it is YOURS.

      ....Ignorance is not bliss in this case at all. If your partner breaks a COVENANT you have with him without your consent you deserve to know

      She that has an Ear, let her hear.

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    3. Thank you so much.๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ
      Make I buy sharmawa for???๐Ÿ˜

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    4. Abeg keep your shawarma before you come back to announce how you gifted someone 20k shawarma.

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    5. Anon 9:38. Keep failing with your jealousy and hatred.
      I'm always soaring higher and higher.I've learnt how to grow a thick skin. toxic people like you, can never be successful in life.
      You better drop this your attitude before you gat drown with it.

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    6. Anon. 9:01 you made me laugh ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฃ. Thanks for the female version. It's all out of love

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    7. Well said my darling. Have an amazing week๐Ÿ˜˜

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    8. @ Engraced that anonymous 9:01 do well. If not , na so you will perpetuate a stereotype as if cheating is exclusive to a gender, we move

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  9. My Morning Rant is Sister inlaws.
    My Sister inlaw is Supposedly A Pastor Mrs.
    I thot she has my Back until recently that i had issues with my Husband and Pastor Mrs Counsel was Zero.
    Choiiiii i Shame/ shock. Now i have decided to Kip to my Lane.
    If ir wasnt her brother that called her,wouod i have heard such Pathetic Counsel?????
    My Guilty Pleasure is Reading,Let me continue with it.

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    1. My dear keep it to yourself next time, that was how i reported my hubby to his elder sister and she turned everything on me and told me not to involve her next time bcos we didn't involve her wen we are starting.

      Since then all i do is to drink water and mind my business (marriage)

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    2. That’s women for you o women supporting women

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    3. The earlier married women realize that their in-laws are not really on their side, the better for them. No matter how nice they may seem, when push comes to shove, they will choose their own.

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  10. Lol@you are wasting your fuel๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

    Yes oh. Tough time don't last but tough people do✌️✌️✌️

    Good morning

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  11. New week, new day, new blessings.

    Lord I have come to say thank you for all you have done for myself, my friends and family. The devil came too late yesterday, if not for you oh lord I would have been mourning at the moment but you came along and prove to the devil that he is not you.

    Father receive my thanksgiving for saving my friend from bike accident that almost took her life. She is in bad shape but God is faithful and I know he will perfect her healing ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™
    Fruitful week everyone ๐Ÿ™

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    1. Your friends are always involved in an accident.

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    2. Wishing your friend speedy recovery ๐Ÿ™❤️
      Anon 08:36 please be nice to her

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    3. It is well with your friend.

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    4. Thank God for saving your friend. Wishing her speedy recovery.

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    5. Quick recovery to your friend

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    6. May God perfect her healing ๐Ÿ™

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    7. You are really a friend in deed not in need. God bless u.
      Wishing your friend quick recovery.

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    8. St Elsewhere Phoenix5 July 2021 at 09:26

      Quick recovery to your friend Amen

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    9. Quick recovery to your friend in Jesus Name.Amen.

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    10. I pray that she recuperates soonest

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    11. Motor bike issues no here. Thank God for saving your friend. She will recover in Jesus name. Amen.

      Lovelace

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    12. May God perfect her healing in Jesus name...Amen

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  12. Me wondering if my first comment went through ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

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  13. I started growing my hair again, the hair is responding well but my challenge has always been my front hair. I guess I took after my papa with his Barrhead ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ™ˆ my elder sister I also suffering from same thing the reason she went on low cut, please house I there any remedy to this challenge of chop chop front hair with long hair ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ˜„☺ who is wearing the same shoe with me please tell me what to do.

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    1. Barr what???? Kai

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    2. Anon it's bald head.
      There's no remedy. Since your father has it, it's in your genetics. For some, its age. Rock it in peace.
      If you have money to spend, try online remedies.

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    3. And you still didn’t correct it 8:35 ๐Ÿ˜’

      *bald head

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    4. Na gel i take dey respect my own. I no fit fight nature. Just rock your hair Anon.

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    5. You can make use of onion and guava leaves, my mum used it for her receding hairline,her hair is back to life. Cut onions into two and rub it around your hairline. Boil guava leaves for 20 mins, use it to rinse out the onion from your hair.then apply cantu on the hairline.

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    6. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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    7. Blend Indian hemp into your hair oil and apply to the edges every morning n evening, lightly. Be consistent.

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  14. Good morning blogfam.

    Stella, thank you for the soul lifting and confidence boosting message up there. Life and people have dealt me a very big blow and I almost gave in to them but NO MORE!

    I WILL RISE UP AND BEGIN TO FIGHT AGAIN, UNTIL I WIN!

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    1. By this time next year,I pray God gives you a major miracle that sounds like a lie and will make people to come rejoice with you in Jesus name,amen

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    2. It well with you dear. Stay strong

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    3. Sweetheart, I pray God surprises and give you a big miracle that looks like a lie๐Ÿค—

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    4. You are already a winner dear.
      E-hugzzz dear

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  15. Good morning all, I usually don't make SP in the mornings due to tight schedule but I tried my very best to be here today. I will be explaining a few things about Canada immigration from time to time (if ever I can make it here on time)
    This information is for those who want to leave the country and have the money but don't know the first step.
    If you also can access the money from friends and relations then you can proceed.
    Everyday we hear bad news about this country. But we can't sit-down doing nothing especially if we are so fed up with the way things work here. If you don't mind temperatures of up to -40 degrees and paying a lot of taxes but still having basic amenities provides for you with peace of mind, then my dear Canada is for you. All of these information was done by my own research from the government of Canada website and naira***d ( you will have to spend time doing your own research as well)

    For study visa, you will need at least 10m as proof of funds sitting in your account or a sponsors account for six months before applying for visa.
    But you research for schools first, apply to them with your transcripts (2.2 and below would have to go for a Post graduate diploma while 2.1 and above can apply for a masters direct)
    Get admission, then pay acceptance fee, before applying for visa. You would also need to write the IELTS academic and score at least L7,R7,S7,W7.
    School fees is about 4m to be paid in two installments. It's best to look for a 2year program so you can apply for a 3year post graduate work permit which will give you enough time to apply for permanent residence after school. Which is the ultimate goal of going through study visa.

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    1. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ Much appreciated

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    2. Thanks for this

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  16. Someone was murdered in the area fews days back leaving behind his young wife and four little kids. Lord Jesus pls help is in this country, how did it get this bad. A colleague of mine in the children department doesn't stay in an area for more than a year, reason being that her father is a chief and these guys go as low as collecting 5k to kill, why?. God abeg o

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    1. Abeg I no need negative stories this morning. Try to be positive

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    2. 08:37, I'm sorry if my post didn't go down with you. I just had to rant cos it's getting out of hand. A family is in deep sorrow right here. Next time you read a negative post like you like this, reject it and put up a positive energy inugo? Sending you plenty love and God's blessings

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    3. Omg,may God comfort his family.

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    4. St Elsewhere Phoenix5 July 2021 at 09:23

      May his soul rest in peace. Ehugs to you and the family

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    5. So sad. Such a painful one.
      Its well with our country

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    6. 8.37 ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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    7. Lord have mercy and comfort the family. Hope you are well my darling, be safe please and have a great week.๐Ÿ˜˜

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    8. Ijeoma always sharing negative stories. Why can't you share positive story for once?

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  17. Most useless network on earth. ๐Ÿ˜’ to make call problem, zoom call wahala, and somebody will just using jumbo straw to my data in their office.


    I'm just praying that Biggie Cola or Gala or Dudu Osun will just buy this network and do whatever they want by it.
    Network that someone sitting next to you dials your number and it says 'not available' is that one network? Wobbish.๐Ÿ˜ก

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    1. Mosquito coil should buy them over Hahahahaha..... e no go pass Glo

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  18. Good morning everyone.Martins or anyone please help.
    I recently got Redmi Note 8 pro from a friend but I noticed something odd about the phone:Whenever I am making a call with someone and I start call recording,it shouts-THIS CALL IS NOW BEEN RECORDED to the hearing of the person at the other end.

    Please help me,what do I do?This is becoming embarrassing๐Ÿคฆ.I do a business that requires I record some calls sometimes and that keeps getting in the way.

    Please help me

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    1. Lol @ ' it shouts' I can imagine.

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    2. lol thats embarrassing

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    3. ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿ˜ฒ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ Am trying to picture the whole scenario. Martins pls help before the phone "shouts" the one wey nobody send am shout

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    4. That is the way it's programmed. Because recording a conversation without the next party knowing you are recording is infringement *oyibo*


      What I'm trying to say is that if you want to record, the other party should be aware that you are recording.

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    5. That's a good phone. Imagine someone recording you without your knowledge...good phone.lol.

      I love Xiaomi phones, but gotta get off android and get on Apple soon. I cannot believe I am going to support deep capitalism, but too much shit happening these days with security out here.

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  19. Lest I forget migration through study has no age limit so it's a better option for those who have the money and are above 37 years as express entry (another way of migration) favors the young.
    That is about all I know for study visa as its not a route I really fancy (so expensive)
    I will be dropping the Express entry route tomorrow SP (very detailed) as I have researched it all and repeat it in my dreams.
    I will take my time to write it out today and paste it early tomorrow. Migration takes a while, at least six months to a year with God's favour added so if the funds are not a problem you can start now.
    Naira is losing value everyday.

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    1. Hi Stella, I can't see my first comment where I explained about the study route. Maybe it's network and will be posted later.

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    2. Study route also favours younger people with little gap year. You didn't state that getting admission doesn't guarantee getting a visa

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    3. Amarachi with C5 July 2021 at 10:23

      My sister is interested in going to Canada. Her score is 3.43, and her husband is an Airforce Officer. Thanks for sharing.

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    4. Hi Bianca ..thanks for this post..I have a question..Does the study route favour families

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  20. Good morning everyone. May we all have a productive and prosperous week. Favour shall locate us all in Jesus name.

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  21. Good morning beautiful people of sdkville.

    May God his week bring laughter to us.

    Have a beautiful day y'all.

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  22. Up and grateful. God you are so good to me * dancing

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  23. Good morning beautiful people
    Have a great week ahead everyone ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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  24. Where are my Love Islanders?
    When they dumped Shannon Singh just few days in, I lost interest. I love Kaz tho.

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    1. Is this supposed to be a good morning?

      Maka I furo ebe stela so anyi ututu oma up there?

      Be like Stella

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    2. Meeeeeeeee I am watching

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  25. A poster yesterday morning called out female bv’s about Saturdays chronicle. True to type, SDK came to refute the allegation and true to type, food don land, “they” all followed suit denying the allegation. What baffled me was, a husband came to report his wife to her online in-laws. Instead of the in- laws to say until we hear from our sister, or some kind words of encouragement and patience,“they” online in-laws bashed him with the go-ahead of their leader.like they used to say, a bad wife is manageable, but a bad in-laws, you are done for. Reminds me of my school teacher who was accused of cursing her students. She said all of us reporting her to the proprietor are unfortunate nonsense and buhari . Which brings me to that time when bv’s used to own it to their chest about having sidecocks. A case in point is the Ikorodu angry bird abi na ikorodu kim kardashian make I call am, but now abroadian, used to encourage ladies to have a sidecock, e get why then, but now, grace found her, that from the dusty streets of Ikorodu to the serene streets of the abroad, can’t even remember when last she shouted up nepa or ran after a marwa going to ishawo, even called the man nonsense and buhari. Quite enough, Kanye was Kim’s sidecock, after putting poor Humphries through hell, ditched him for Kanye, the rest is history. Our Ikorodu Kim k actually learnt from the best, but I know her husband will not be happy if her husband knows he was actually a plan b or she will be happy if her husband has a side chic. Another one encourages nacking pigeon on her husband head to reset it. Most people get tattoos of stars who don’t know them. If you participate in the frequently asked questions, it follows conclusively that we do take away some things from this blog, so whether we accept it or not, reading this blog has an impact either overtly or covertly on our lives. I leave you online in- laws with my teacher’s answer, exactly in her own words

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    1. Anon 8:57, when it comes to (some) bvs saying or "supporting" Stella's conclusion on a matter, you are so very right. Same way, if Stella says she has a gift of maybe "seeing visions" for example, almost all bvs would remember they also see visions. (Stella, no vex. I mean no harm)
      Secondly, I truly felt for that man. I am not supporting the fact the man generalized but,one thing I know, just like you said, is, this blog has an impact on lives. People learn a lot on here, good and bad.

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    2. Amarachi with C5 July 2021 at 10:29

      Ihe Nkaa o rice!

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    3. You and that Oga greatest mistake are PDP and APC: Children of the same parents.So you didn't see where he was advised to send in chronicle so his wife will have her right of reply.Na you sabi,keep working yourself up because of someone's happiness;you will choke

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    4. @ Spongebob Squarepants Hihi captain. Even if he send in his chronicle, won’t you still bash him, abeg shift, women supporting women

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    5. Is it eka you are referring to?! ๐Ÿ˜‚

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    6. All of you hating on Eka are just miserable people...Why can't you say what she said without involving her new status and her husband?
      Sometimes I see it that a lot of people here are so poor that they detest people with a privileged background, just because Eka is abroad you dragged her like this,tufiakwa unu!
      For Eka, listen to me,no let this people pursue you like they did The General's wife, Chikito etc!Stay here and be in their faces,I used to check you when you were on Tee Jay's neck and even when you yarn okpata but I can't hate anyone neither will I drag you when you are not in the wrong!
      As for the writer,that man of yesterday was so petty and vindictive and uncouth in his delivery,so he got the same energy he gave!
      A mature man is one who is supposed to be a husband,so he shouldn't because of his personal family issues come to a blog and discredit everyone!
      For the records,Iam a married woman of 18years so I can authoritatively tell you that that's not how a responsible married man should behave in a public setting!
      Stella, this is the longest talk I have written on your blog, please post it o

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    7. 15.05 Maybe you should also tell eka to stop referring to other people's husbands as idiots. If she respects herself, she will be respected. Abroad is not heaven.

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  26. Good morning my lovely family.

    It's a new week branded with grace,love, favor and unmerited success for us all.

    Enjoy ur day and stay positive.

    Long live Sdk
    Long live beeves
    God bless Nigeria

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  27. Good morning lovelies, all go out with positive vibes, great day ahead.

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  28. Good morning beautiful souls. May today be blessings filled day for us all. You all should have a great day ahead ๐Ÿ˜˜.

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  29. St Elsewhere Phoenix5 July 2021 at 09:20

    Good morning everyone. Have a great day and week. Jeweluchi may God strengthen you, keep being you. It's not easy churning out contents. If nobody talks about you then you are a nobody. When they go low,we go high.

    Positive vibes only E go be guys. My body dey do me one kind this morning. Peace ✌✌✌✌

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  30. Good morning peeps! How is it possible for a man to be married to a woman for 19years and yet he doesn't trust her. He prefers to believe an outsider more than the wife, search her wardrobe whenever she's not home etc. Does this call for worries?

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    1. Were you there with the couple from the start? When she must have done things not to earn his trust, abeg leave Oga alone, no be una say make everybody live his life as he pleases?

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    2. Anon 10.20 This is my personal experience. I can't relate with any offence of infidelity on my part though the trust issue has been on since our courtship years.

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    3. Anon 10:47 Then do everything in your power to earn his trust. Trust is earned not demanded for

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    4. Anon 10:47 The anon 10:20 did not accuse you of infidelity, and if anything like you said, it’s your personal experience, so you need to change what you were doing before that did make him earn your trust. Try discover yourself more, do a self appraisal or get a trusted friend to appraise you, then you pinpoint where you need to improve on yourself. Wish you all the best

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    5. Thanks, I appreciate your response Anon 11.31 n 11.34

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    6. Quite likely he was raised around men who told him never to trust women. After 19 years if he does not trust you then he is set in his ways and only he can change on his own free will. I don't know how much you can do or if it is even worth it to wear out yourself trying to earn his trust. The best thing to do is to live a life that is clean, speak the truth always and keep clean hands, that way you will always be faultless, because ppl like him look ppl over with a fine tooth comb searching for flaws and reasons to solidify his beliefs.

      It is up to him to recognize his own flaws and resolve them. You cannot take it up on your head to convince him of your trustworthiness. That sounds like a battle that may never end and you may never win. If he is good in all other ways, then take solace in the fact that nobody is perfect and that is his imperfection.

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    7. Nne some men are so insecure but that is a kind of sickness that needs therapy but because we are not used to it,he won't know he has a problem.. just overlook him,unless he comes asking you unnecessary questions,if he does,warn him sternly and walk away,if he is the violent one,walk so fast and go into a room and lock it,then if you are doing anything that suggests that please refrain!
      My hubby wasn't a jealous type initially but due to my job exposes me to a lot of rich and influential folks,he became a little bit insecure, when I saw it was turning a problem,I told him I will quit the job,then I stopped telling him some stories that happened in the cause of my job!

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  31. A lovely morning, please mrs korkus cut soap for me ooo lol
    I love your vibes.may God bless this new week fro us

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  32. Good morning.
    Faithful God is your name.

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  33. "The more you fall or fail, is the more you should be determined to get up and continue.. Have an attitude of someone who never gives up...."
    The above quote is everything! Indeed tough times never last but tough people do.

    Good morning Stella and BVs. Have a blessed week ahead.

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  34. Good morning everyone ๐Ÿ˜Š. I hope you are fine.

    Everything good will come to me. Amen

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  35. Good morning all.....
    Thanks Jeweluchiozi for those words this morning. I'm boosted. !!!
    Yea .. its a beautiful Monday. Enjoy your day with plenty positive vibes.

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  36. Good morning my beautiful blog fam.

    Up and grateful..na God do am for me o.

    Wishing us all a beautiful and fruitful Monday.

    E go surely be ✌️.

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  37. May a blessed filled week descend on all BVs.

    This week and for as long as it takes I am committed to working on my flaws and my spiritual hurdles. I didn't know how freeing verbally acknowledging them starts the healing process. I am too old to take any filth with me back to God. May God keep me until the finish line.

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