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Wednesday, August 11, 2021

Woman Accused Of Dumping Husband Of 12 Years To Marry Her Pastor Tearfully Talks About The Abuse She Suffered

A woman named Tina (formerly married to one Bright Ben) who was accused of dumping her husband for her pastor has broken her silence on the trending controversy.

 




The man had taken to Facebook, to make the allegations; adding that the pastor had also taken over his kids.

Ben had accused Tina of leaving him to marry the General Overseer of World Bank Assembly, Pastor Moses Adeeyo and refuted claims by his former mother-in-law that he did not pay her dowry; insisting that he paid in full.

Tina went live on Facebook some days back and tearfully told her side of the story.
She accused her ex-husband of stopping her from going to work and putting a stop to her music career.


‘‘I followed him borrowing money for his sake. The debts of the money I borrowed, I am still paying including the children’s school fees that have heaped up. The money I borrowed, it is this pastor that is helping me now to foot those bills. I am still paying the debts.

‘‘Feeding was a problem in the house. Ask Bright if he has given me upkeep in 11 years that I married him. Even if it is N5000. But I don’t complain. He didn’t stop there. He said I should not go to work. Even during the pandemic, he made me stay at home. He accused me of sleeping around and having affairs. He told me that the only way he can give me total support in my music career is that I must take an oath that no man will sleep with me. I took the oath against my faith because of Bright.

‘‘I told my family that this marriage is over. I am no longer interested. This is the fourth time I have run and come back. My family checked and saw that he did not pay the bride price. They wanted to refund him his dowry but he did not pay,’’ she said.

from 1st news...

97 comments:

  1. Thanks jewelu for the update...
    Now who do we truly believe ? For the nan to be the first to jump to fb and start crying fake cry, i knew there was more to the drama . Thats why it's good to hear both sides b4 jumping to conclusion. Going with my guts... I think that man is nothing but a narcissist. !!!

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    1. Yes, for sure he is, he's pained the 'wife' was able to move on sharpally, e pain am

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    2. Few points . He did not pay bride price and dowry. How did u manage to do Traditional and white wedding?

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    3. But she didn't address the part that says that the "pasitor" is a married man.

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    4. The man should move on,the woman should face her new husband and ministry,they will alright.

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    5. Hmmm. I don't support staying in abusive relationships or marriage but this woman story is not adding up.
      1. She left her husband on the 28th of November 2020 and is already married to their pastor within 8 months.
      2. Pastor was introduced to her by her husband who brought them from redeemed church to word bank church.
      3. Pastor is also undergoing divorce with his first wife and mother of his 2 children. Matter is still in court and divorce is yet to be finalized.
      4. Both pastor and madam left their partners to be together.
      5. Madam did both traditional and white wedding with first husband. According to her, her family checked the ledger to repay her bride price in April 2021 but discovered that he paid for everything on the list and settle the elders in the village but did not pay bride price.
      If the story about bride price is true, she should have gone to court to divorce her husband and then she will be free to marry oga pastor.
      6. Right now, madam is married to 2 husbands.
      7. I don't understand how a woman that passed through all what she claimed in her video could recover from the trauma, fall in love with their married pastor and marry him in less than 8 months.
      I'm not saying her husband is perfect as I was not in the marriage with them, but what this woman and the pastor did are terribly wrong. Both are still legally married to their spouses and are just committing adultery.
      Why can they not wait to properly divorce their spouses before getting married? From her video, I felt those tears are fake and meant to manipulate people into sympathizing with her.
      You have been with your first husband for 11 years with 2 beautiful children, he is worse than the devil but you never divorced him all these years until you met this generous pastor that is helping you repay your debts.
      I pray all the parties involved get healing because I do not believe they are all saying the truth.

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    6. This is nothing new. Men that called themselves distracting themselves...

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    7. Unique... Thanks for asking the right questions.
      This story is quite unsettling. It sent shivers down my spine, seriously.

      I'm trying to wrap my fingers around his performing the traditional marriage rites without paying the bride price. Ife nkea dikwa egwu.

      There's a missing link. Both parties are hiding some real facts.
      #shudders

      BTW she looks familiar,does she act some good Asaba Nollywood films as the Igwe's wife or something (stereo type cast) or close to?
      I know this face someplace.

      Xhlrted P.

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    1. Eh?

      ๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    2. Nda Esther ishi nini,pls read again.

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    3. Laughing out Loud.
      Because the trending post these days is 'this' killed 'that'. What made this one to quickly typed RIP without reading.

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    4. Anon 22:17 please read to comprehend before you comment. To all the English teachers that failed to teach their students comprehension, please do better.

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    5. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ I just choked on my crackers
      Damn this is crazy
      Rip how??????

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    6. This one is on Google free mode. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ What is RIP

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    7. @ anon:0:22
      you are the Olodo here.
      What RIP has to do with the post?
      Do you know what comprehension means?

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  3. Hmmmm, this story get as a book. Well, all I can say is that she should have completely finished with the man.in whatever way , but how since he didnt pay bride price, the man should show his marriage certificateand trade wedding pictures since he said he did both and the woman has said he did not. If not he should allow the woman to move on with her life,you didnt marry her and on top of that you are maltreating her

    In another kote.madam, since he doesnt hive u.money and didnt allow you to work, how were you getting money to feed the family as you claimed and even loan money to him.

    I dont.know where to stand and judge matter.
    But it's like the pastor rushed too much to marry her, they would have ironed everything out before he steps in.

    Wetin I sabi sef

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    1. He posted both their traditional and white wedding pictures. The woman and her mother never denied that he did the traditional and white wedding. They only said he did not pay her bride price. That he said he will see them later but never made the payment.
      I have been following the story. This is not the full story. Her mother have spoken, the pastor's son who is also a pastor has said his mother is still legally married to his father and even shared beautiful and happy family photos of their family.
      This situation is really messy and a true man of God should not be involved in something like this.

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  4. So it's true, yes the man abuses and neglects you, at least that's want you want us to believe but are all these reason enough to move into the house of another man with your ex husband's children and even get married to him? What about the pastor's wife? Couldn't you have at least ran to your family house with your children? Madam i put it to you that you are guilty of all your ex husband accused you of.

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    1. Hol'up a sec. The man abuses and neglects her, it isn't enough reason for her to leave?
      The man did not do the right thing in the eyes of God or traditionally and you put it to her that she is guilty of...?
      Wetin musa no go see for gate.
      Did you read where it was said the pastor was married?
      She should run to her family house with her children and do what? 4 times she left, did you read that?
      Comment with sense darling. Much love.

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    2. Chisom, her side of stirybis nit complete..
      She story has no meaning at all..
      The story kit adding up

      I am outta the post.

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    3. See you! you too wants to form team, 'let's go under Chisom's comment and advertise how unfortunate we are'? Do you think i'm surprised that you supported your fellow promiscuous woman? Naaaa i'm not. She goat! So when you get married and your husband treats you wrong, you leave his house and jump into entanglement with his friend/pastor? So the akwuna in you will leave an abusive marriage without divorcing or doing a proper dissolving of the marriage before moving in with your husband's friend/pastor with his two children? You are a pathetic dirty imbecile and a big time disgrace to womanhood, i'm disgusted at how shameless and proud you are about it. You dare ask someone to comment with sense when you're clearly the loud imbecile here? What agreement and right is she on to have the audacity to move in with another man with the ex husband's two children? Fool!

      Next time you want to surport your partner in crime, do it within your own space and not under my own comment.

      And no, BV Chisom is not your darling and please, go and love your sorry self first before thinking of loving another. Agadi ewuu!

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    4. The Pastor is Married with children o. The woman never talk Wetin make am go scatter another woman marriage.

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    5. I hate a situation whereby when things go wrong,you frame up stories to paint the other bad and wouldn't mention the good times.
      Does it mean the man's bad behaviour na 'follow come' and nothing triggered it? If he was that bad why did she agree to marry him?

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    6. This woman is just greedy,she saw a bigger fish and left..case closed.

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    7. Lady Diana, you are obviously not following this story. Stella did not post the whole story.
      The man paid for everything on the list, paid umunna and umuada (don't know if I spelt them correctly), settled all traditional expenses but did not settle her parents. That when it came to their turn, he said he will see them later (according to the lady's mother account). According to the lady, when her family called for meeting this April, they checked the ledger and discovered he did not pay bride price (I did not know there is ledger for bride price oh).
      The pastor is married with 2 children, currently undergoing divorce with his wife.
      It seems they both decided to leave their spouses and be together and are not even patient to properly divorce their spouses before getting married. This woman just left her husband no the 28 of November 2020 and she is already married to their pastor who is helping her pay her debts. Abeg all these ones na story.

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    8. Chisom thank you. For me, she getting married is not my problem but why the pastor your husband took you to. Pastor is also useless he goat no sentiment at all even if she told the pastor she doesn't want her husband anymore no shame from the pastor to say haa this is my members wife no go area. To add Pastor is a married man yet to divorce his wife. This pastor behaved so canal that he made mockery of Christianity.

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  5. I heard of pandemic. That means she was still with her ex husband during last year lockdown. When did she start dating the pastor that they are already married? What happens to divorcing the man legally before getting married to the pastor.
    The husband might be a dead beat husband and father but this her story did not go well with me.

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    1. What I read the son said was that his mother and father or pastor are not yet divorced, so this woman is the SECOND wife. What came to my mind is that do pastors now marry two wives? Na wa ooo. Messed up case.

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  6. My own is, hope she didnt leave her husband to snatch another woman's hubby cos na wetin dey reign be that.was the pastor never married???

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    1. The pastor was and is fully married, this woman snatched another man husband.
      The pastor's son too don talk him own, say him mama is still married to his father. In another news the Mom is the first wife while she (new wife) is the second wife

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    2. Shokolokobamgboshe o. Story don get K leg. Both the wife snatched, the husband and pastor have no shame.
      What a load of messy and crappy story.

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    3. Very messy story indeed!
      The pastor snatched his member's wife. Female member snatched the pastor from his wife. They are both snatchers. Shameless people. They don't even imagine how this will affect their children.

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  7. there's no moral justification for what this lady did.if your marriage is hell for you,seek a divorce and stay on you own.its only water baptism by immersion and death that can separate a spouse from each other.for those that don't know this,you're welcome.peace.

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  8. He's a terrible husband and father as you claim and deserves to be divorced, I don't have a problem with that just like I said yesterday when I read your husband's side of story.
    My only problem is the choice of man you decamped to, your pastor of all men?? Pastor of the same church both you and ex attended?? Shame no catch you?
    Since you've decided to tell your story, please tell us, was the pastor single when you started dating him? People are saying you are his second wife. Na true or lie?

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  9. Akuko
    So your people forgot to collect bride price?
    And you jumped to marry the "pastor" who is "helping you to offset the debts,
    as payment or what?" She is not even denying it o?
    What a story. Aru kwu odu! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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    1. For real! She is not innocent, both her and the ashewo pastor are same

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    2. They are all thesame. How can you be married and don't know if dowry was paid or not?

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    3. The husband and his wife have their fair share of guilt in this

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    4. see how they are abusing marriage ordained by God.
      Foundation really matters in marriage.
      The pastor na 'guy man'

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    5. Aru kwu odu.
      Abomination that has a tail.
      Kwakwakwakwakwakwakwa

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  10. Social media has become the new court of law.

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    1. Not really since they can't send anybody to jail.

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  11. I just knew there was more to this story, the mother of the bride also came out to speak concerning this issue stating the reason why the bride price was not returned to the man before the daughter went ahead to remarry cos he did not pay bride price but did all the necessary stuffs on the list, and I believe her.
    The man was an abuser and is not happy that his victim is having the last laugh, to hell with him and his wailing ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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    1. So, for her to be happy and have the last laugh she have to snatched another woman husband

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    2. See how you just believe everything she said, she just gave a dog a bad name before killing it, which woman will leave husbands house without claiming one abuse or the other..... imagine her saying she no longer love him, world people will finish her

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    3. Well you people usually say "do whatever makes you happy". This is the result, messed up things. I am an advocate of do the right thing not just do whatever makes you happy.

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    4. People just jump into conclusion and say things without thinking logically. Tufiakwu!

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    5. If the woman is happy why is crying in her video. This is a shameful act stop supporting rubbish. A whole pastor your husband introduced you to. If you see the way the man was praising his pastor on Facebook you will know they are close. His wife now left him went and be sucking pastor mouth and posted on social media. Shameful act

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  12. Abeg enjoy your new marriage......

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    1. Enjoy another woman's husband? .don't wish this even to your enemy . The pastor is married with 2 grown up children. He's a grand father.i know them so well. I feel for the pastor wife

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    2. And you think there is what to enjoy when the first wife and the children are already drawing battle line.
      She may not find it easy if they do not settle amicably.

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  13. Her reply get as I be. If the pastor is now helping you to pay the debt meaning you married him because of his money and may be you are sleeping with him while married. What goes around comes around.

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  14. U left an abusive marriage and less than a year u are married again.
    Won't u heal?
    Won't u take ur time?

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    1. She obviously got married to who would take care of her and her children financially. If the man didn't pay her brideprice and there's no legal documentation of their marriage, then she's actually not his wife.

      How about the pastor's son who claimed his father is still married to his mother. This alliance just dey somehow.

      I'm even

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    2. Some women cannot hold body, they can't stay to far from a dick and they don't want to be accused of fornication so they jump on any standing cane. But if this pastor is married, what do we call this one?

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    3. Very hasty. Maybe the condition for clearing her debts was marriage.

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    4. When you don't have common sense and conscience, you will keep using mistake to correct mistake.

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  15. Which one be my family checked and saw he didn't pay the bride-price๐Ÿ™„ na who wan collect the bride price before if not them.

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  16. "Your family checked and found out he didn't pay your bride price". Them dey forget to pay bride price? Even though the husband get him own for hand, something isn't right with your story.

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  17. I knew there was more to the story and believe we don't even know the truth yet.

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  18. Everyone is abusing the lady. She is not innocent. What about the so called man of God, who left his wife and started sleeping with his church member? It is an abuse of trust. She might be an idiot or just being gullible and vulnerable, but the pastor?
    Where is CAN or PFN when you need them.

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    1. E fit be say as she was crying and relating her story during counseling, pastor begin dey eye am. And for most men nothing goes for nothing. So my dear beautiful aunty if I will clear your debts and care for you and your children you must marry me. Aunty come gree. This is only a likely scenario I no dey there ooo.

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  19. Madame, na greed dey worry u. Just say that u and ur family saw money and jumped ship. Period.

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  20. So the only man to land with is your pastor,maybe he saw how promiscuous you are that's what drove him to be wary of you.
    For every action there is a reaction,how can a pastor who prays for you both turn around to be your lover,what did the Bible be tell that you and your husband man pastor
    Don't convert another's wife.
    Ok,so if the pastor comes visiting ,your husband will be there and you people will be sharing love.
    Madam go and sit down.
    You are a betrayer and a bad woman.
    You did not leave to see how you can heal and grow,your own pastor while still married.it well o

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  21. Whether your husband abused you or not, isnt my concern. My concern is you marrying a man who is still married to his wife. As at last year, the man celebrated his wife's birthday at Polo club PH. Then you came into the picture and demanded he gets rid of her, he filed for divorce, the adult children are pressing for him to settle their mother seeing that she did not offend him in any way, matter is still in court, you could not wait for the divorce to be finalized before marrying a fellow woman's husband. The woman and her children are in pains.

    Tina, your marriage in the eyes of the law is void because there is still an existing marriage.

    Tina, your marriage in the eyes of God is an abomination as you have seperated what God joined together.

    Tina, you cannot build your happiness on the foundation of another woman's tears, it will not end well for you. You will not end well. It's unfortunate that your mother cannot tell you the truth as it is bcos Daddy GO is spraying cash and settling your family debts.

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    1. That is my problem with some of these women who claim to be in a bad marriage. They will go to extreme lengths to ruin another woman's marriage as long as they find happiness, they don't care who they hurt in the process.

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    2. Thank you Anon. I saw through her fake tears immediately. Both of them sharply left their spouses and are married within a year. This shows something has been going on between them while they where still with their spouses. I pray God console the spouses that were dumped by these ones and give them the grace to move on from this betrayal.
      I like the fact that the pastor's first wife kept mute through out the scandal. I pray she keeps her cool and let God fight her battles. Both this woman and the pastor deserve each other.

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    3. So the only way this story will be complete is if the husband marries the pastor's wife..
      1-1 goaless draw

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    4. Hmmmm, this is another dimension! If this man actually celebrated his wife's birthday only last year and he is married to another man now, it means this woman started sleeping with the pastor shortly after her husband introduced her to the pastor.Between August last year and now divorce is ongoing between him and his wife, then this new wife "waka" for the matter! This is JAZZ working! where is that lady from again?

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  22. Ur family CHECKED and found out he didn't pay bride price...na wa oh,so u were married for eleven years and na now ur family de check if Dem pay bride price....una well wone oh๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฝ‍♀️๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฝ‍♀️๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿฝ‍♀️

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  23. There's more to this story, too many loopholes, I saw a post from the pastor's son that his mom has not been settled or divorced, that the case is still in court and pastor rushed to marry members wife, again your family wanted to refund his dowry but checked and found out he didn't pay ", so them been no sure before, I am not about to judge madam but what you did is morally wrong, you were accused and yes you just confirmed his accusations of you being a cheat, that pastor is evil and by the time it will clear off in your eyes, you will regret this whole move

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  24. The story get k leg ๐Ÿฆต

    You don't even know if your bride price was paid or not.

    Incomplete story.

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  25. Is doing me as if d lady was jazzed ... pastor wanted a fine fair wife n boom this one enter him net... just my 2 cent thooo, cos all d stories Don’t just add up.... thank u

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  26. This matter tie gele.... But Hanty, I no gbadun this your story, too many loop holes abeg

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  27. Too many loopholes in this story, for eleven years you didn't know your bride price was not paid..odiegwe o

    I'm not judging you, but marrying your pastor while he's sill legally married,is so morally wrong and shows the kind of person you are.

    I hope you don't regret Las las

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  28. From what I read,I think she separated from the husband because of maltreatment. The husband was hoping she would come back for reconciliation ,only to woke up to wedding news and he 'choked'.
    Since he didn't pay dowry the families involved will not take the issue serious. Hope another woman will not come out and accuse the lady for 'snatching'.
    Which tradition accepts items without dowry? Just asking

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    1. I am of Yoruba descent and they do not pay dowry or collect bride price in most parts of Yorubaland

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  29. Now that I've read two sides of this story, this is what I think. Both stories have huge holes in them. They are both not telling the real truth. I'm therefore on nobody's side, till further developments are revealed. Court!

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  30. All their stories don't add up.

    All of them are seem guilty of one atrocity or the other.

    Jesus fix this!

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  31. Anything una like make una do.
    Las las everybody go dey alright

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  32. You left someone who was mistreating you for your married pastor? A church where both of you worship? By the way, which faith are you talking about? The same one that permits you to marry your married olojukokoro pastor!!! Clap for yourself.

    I have no issues with you walking out of a bad marriage but moving on to your married pastor is utterly shameful.

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  33. I knew from the onset that this woman would come out to say the husband was abusive and all to defend her actions. That has always been the storyline I was right!
    I can say this woman was actually seeing the pastor while still married to the husband and the husband knew this, consequently there was a lot of nagging, friction and misunderstanding within their home.
    Please my advice to all is this, please when you find out your spouse is cheating and you can't stand it, especially when the cheating partner is unrepentant, please let him/her go before the situation turns you to a nagging and frustrated partner. It is not easy though but at the end it will save a lot.
    I've seen some great husbands turning into something bad when they suspect/find out their wives are having affairs or cheating. Same for some wonderful wives, turning wild.

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  34. This is the order of the day here in port harcourt, matured women destroying another woman’s home because of dick. A man comes and tells you all sort of lies about his wife and you console him by sleeping with him and telling him to leave his wife for you, old shameless men and women everywhere. Their story is not straight. Look at the mans face, you couldn’t heal from abuse and neglect, before jumping to marry another demon who is equally maltreating his wife. He will show you shege, your time is coming soon. Rivers men/ikwere men are the worst set of men any lady can marry, no offense tho, but if you live here in PH you will be disgusted by what this people do, and they all claim to be pastors.. madam nimi Francis that man you are cooking for and fornicating with, has a family oo. We Dey look u, your doom and shame is coming soon, except God is not on His throne. WOMEN, their fellow woman’s nightmare. Constantly breaking homes and sleeping around. Even siblings quarrel and fight not to talk of two people from separate backgrounds. Una no Dey tire... must everything be about sex sex. That’s why this country is like this, shameless men and women everywhere and still calling God with their filthy lifestyles. God have mercy..
    Mr bright move on, you that treated the woman as trash, where you expecting her not to find solace somewhere else. Stupid man. Madam Tina, if your hand is in another woman’s pain, you will get your own back. He who come to equity must come with clean hands. Ndi uchu. God have mercy on us all.

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    1. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸฝYou told them all......

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  35. This woman is terrible, I'm sorry, but I don't necessarily believe in her abuse story. Seems like she had issues with her husband because she was promiscuous and he retaliated by denying her the care she hoped for. She started sleeping with the pastor because he gave her money, church funds. Now she has shamelessly become a second wife to a married pastor. The husband should have divorced her once he found out that she was promiscuous.

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  36. Adulterer and adulteress.

    The adulterous woman is after money.

    As divorced person , you must not get into any intimate relationship with any man or woman except you choose to remarry your spouse.

    If your marriage is unbearable and you opt out, please remain single.



    No true pastor would marry a divorcee.

    FAKE PASTOR❗

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  37. World Bank Assembly!!!! Nobody is saying anything about the name of the church

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