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Thursday, September 16, 2021

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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THE DREAM



Hello Stella and fellow blog visitors. Please I would really appreciate it if you guys can help me figure this out.

My boyfriend and I started off as friends then few days to Easter 2020, he called me to know my plans for the Easter. I told him I didn't have any plans. He noticed that I wasn't sounding good on the phone so he asked why and I told him I always spend festive period with my family but I can't spend it with them this year because they didn't give me break at work. 



He took me out that day and we also spent the Easter weekend together because he didn't want me to feel lonely. Then on Easter Monday he knelt down and asked me to be his girlfriend. He is such a good and kind man, neat, listens to me, takes notice of when my mood has changed, he follows me to clean church, says my Catholic rosary and legion prayers even though he's not a Catholic. Dating him has been very smooth and easy. And he's not just kind to me alone, he helps others. Like the first time he came to visit me and noticed that my compound gate was having issues, he fixed it immediately. 


Since that day, my neighours usually ask him for help and he is always willing to help them. Whenever he goes back home, my neighbours will be missing him and telling me that I have a very kind man that's always willing to help. And he has refused to give any of them his number, instead he will tell them to reach him through me. 



If I ask him why he always helps he will say life is easy and nothing spoils in his care or when he's around. That brings me to the only small issue I have with him, he doesn't drink or smoke but he likes sugary things alot and he told me he has never used condom and nothing will happen to him because nothing spoils in his care. We are in a no sex relationship but he agreed to go for test with me when we started dating(none of my exes have agreed to this).


 He strongly believes nothing will happen to him and he doesn't take things too serious. He has never told me how much he earns and he always deletes his alert, but I don't mind because he is not stingy. When I was having salary issues and I ask him for money, he will send to me. If he doesn't have at that time he will say so, and tell me to be patient that he's expecting something on so so day and when that day comes he usually sends the money. 


Now we have started discussing marriage. He has told me he would like us to get married soon. Normally before now, I always ask God to send him away if he is not the one for me. We might have small quarrel but he won't allow it to last more than one day. He's always the first to call or come and see me and apologize. Now that things are getting serious, I decided to do fasting and midnight prayers. On the first day of the prayers, I dreamt and saw him with another woman in his car, they were both naked.



 I woke up and told him about it and he replied "But baby you know I'm not cheating on you now so how can I even cheat on you when we are married". And to the best of my knowledge, he is not cheating on me. His phone does not have any password. I have checked every every...even emails. He even advised me to do consecration to God and told me how to do it, so I can get a clearer message. On the second day of the prayers, I dreamt and saw him giving me food with big chicken and turkey though I didn't eat the food in my dream. On the last day of the midnight prayer I begged God to please show me clearly what He is trying to tell me. 



Then I had another dream where I went to visit him in his house in the morning and he was with another woman, they spent the night together. I can't deal with a cheating man because when I was in JSS, I lost an aunty to HIV that she got from her cheating husband. Her husband never told her he had the disease.



I don't know what to do Stella, I am so worried about this because I don't want to lose a good man and I also don't want to ignore these dreams if they are actually signs from God. My boyfriend has noticed that I'm worried, he has been begging me to tell him what the problem is, but I can't keep telling him the same dreams again and again. What would you advise me to do? 

Thank you Stella.






*That dream is from the pit of hell sent to confuse you...... I dont know what else to say... God gave you eyes and a brain to see if something is OK for you didnt he? You have spent time with this man so why cant you make up your mind without involving dreams? Siddon there make husband waka pass you hear?...

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  1. Na real wa oh! I think it be nice you forget about the dreams and do the needful

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    1. do the fasting one more time and dis time stay away from him and be very careful....find his ex girlfriend and ask them questions...find any of his former friends that they have quarrel and they are not talking....stylishly ask them questions...send any of your relation to go to his former neighborhood and ask questions....go to his former working place and ask questions...i know why....if you cant do it...send a very smart and intelligent person to do it for you....the guy may have a lady in his life...

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    2. "We are in a no sex relationship"---hmmmmm "he told me he has never used condom"-hmmmmm ("I dreamt and saw him giving me food with big chicken and turkey--dis means he will take care of you)

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    3. ask any of your smart brother to do the finding for you..i wish you are my sister, dis is a easy thing to do.......tell any of your relation that you trust, to do it for you......
      Anonymous16 September 2021 at 15:39..follow dis anons guide line

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    4. I think you dream is coming from the fact that you are putting so much pressure on your self to get a message.

      The best message God gives us a sense of peace, do you have peace when you are with him.

      About his issue with protection please go for test and if everything is fine then marry him, also bring up all the things you do not like about him, and let's see if he can work on them (sugar intake), same goes for you.

      Don't just discuss wedding, but discuss the kind of marriage you want.

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    5. Pls most times listen to your dreams, they are God's way of speaking to us. How do your dream normally go, some dreamers' dream are clear, happens as they dream it. Some opposite of what they dream, some dreams comes out of our fears and too much thoughts. You are already bias by what happened to your aunt and in your subconscious it is there, hunting u still. The other thing is that he may have a spirit wife, which he doesnt know, If I were you, I will start praying against anything that will be an obstacle on our way or would want to manifest and cause unhappiness in your marriage. Whether spiritual or psychical, pray against it. Note: you can pray prayer points from other good men of God even if they do not come from your denomination. The dream repeating itself is an assurance of something hidden which may not be physical. Also pray against any woman that has made hidden covenant with him unknowingly to him. Wow matter many for life na only God dey help person.

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    6. For once Stella I disagree with you. Poster no one is that perfect even jayz that has someone like Beyonce. That dream is true. It happened to me before I got married. I doubted but later it manifested in the physical. And he even said he doesn't use condoms. I guess uve Neva dated a player before. They are so smooth and perfect. How do u expect someone who is not God fearing to be perfect? You are only special becos he hasn't chopped the cookie. If u doubt me, try give it to him and see how heartbroken u'll soon be. BE WISE

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    7. You are very naive o, talmabout his phone doesn't have password. Buahahahahahahaha.
      It doesn't need password na,when it has the one in the boot to do the needful.

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  2. Ok, so if you finally marry this man, just know that humans are not perfect. If you trust him like you trust Christ, hmmm, some breakfast can make you choke. But trust your instincts sha since you are in a no sex relationship.

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    1. In my own case, I kept dreaming he was cheating but I over trusted this guy. The dreams kept reoccurring in different forms so I had to snoop and found out he's a chronic womanizer. He does not drink or smoke too and was almost perfect. I ended the relationship despite several pleas from him, his friends and my family. I could not deal abeg, I knew God was trying to warn me, moreover, his level of cheating was bad. There were not even 1 or 2 women oh!
      I'm married now, my husband is not perfect but God has been faithful.
      I'm not saying your fiance is cheating oh, I had that dream up to 5 times before I snooped and discovered massive cheating. You have snooped and found nothing. To be on the safer side, get someone to investigate him and if there is nothing on him then know that the devil is trying to ruin your life.
      Please don't just end a beautiful relationship on a dream alone. The devil is very crafty and can manipulate our dreams too.

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    2. Have you gone for the test?. Start from there. At this point, I think you both should live together for a while

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    3. You are a Catholic. Do more with faith and confidence in what you have seen and trust God. Dreams are of no use. It's just manifesting and feeding your fears which is the opposite of faith.

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    4. some breakfast can choke😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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    5. 16:54

      Poster ignore the advice about living together
      Sin blocks clarity

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    6. Don't live with a man that has not paid your bride price o.
      See advice o😠

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    7. Don't live with him o. Ignore such advice

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  3. My goodness. You have an almost perfect relationship and you want to destroy it yourself. See. If you want to be sure why not get an undercover person to investigate this guy. You obviously are not used to "healthy" relationships so this is like a movie to you. I cannot deal with your type. Please forgive me.

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    1. Seriously. Imagine practically looking for small issues to destroy the whole thing. This one is real self-sabotage. Dreams are usually as a result of your subconscious mind, and it's obvious that your mind is working overtime to prove to you that he is too good to be true. Goodluck!

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    2. Smh... just don't let me talk @ anon and ms lyn

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    3. DO NOT IGNORE YOUR DREAMS ESP SINCE YOU ASKED GOD TO TALK TO YOU AND SHOW YOU SIGN.
      Send someone to do investigations for you. Not a girl oooo

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  4. No dream is from the pit of hell if you are the type that God speaks to through dream. But i do not know how you hear from God.
    If God speaks to you through dream do not ever, i repeat, do not ever ignore his warning. Do not get carried away by physical things your eyes can see.
    Your boyfriend might be cheating on you since it is a no sex relationship because i think that is what the first and second dream is trying to tell you. The second dream is how he treats you and will always treat you. He will take good care of you but he might be currently cheating and the end might not be good. Since he is Someone that engages in sex but do not believe in condoms. Be careful.
    God sees what the natural eyes cannot.

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    1. He may impregnate another woman and marry her since he does not use condoms. Very careless attitude

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    2. God sees what the natural eyes cannot. 👌👌

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  5. God speaks one way, and another but a person does not perceive it; in a dream, in a vision of the night, when deep sleep falls on people... he speaks to warn them and keep their souls from falling into the pit.
    I have quoted from Job 33:14-18

    You were fasting and praying to God and not the devil, so why should the devils be the ones to reveal to you.
    Joseph told Pharaoh that why the Lord revealed his dream twice was because the matter was FIRMLY determined in his heart.
    May I also commend you for staying chaste. I believe that is the reason God decided to open your eyes.
    The little confusion I had reading you is "what does this guy do with CONDOMS...?" seeing that you are sexually inactive with him?
    God's Grace to you as you avoid this guy in obedience to God.

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    1. God bless poster,the Bible is my guide. Once you are born again,filled with the Holy Spirit....then dreams are definitely one avenue amongst others( the knowing of the Spirit,visions,inner voice,the Scripture) that God will speak to you through. Let God be true and all men be liars...so says the Scripture.Joseph,was warned in the dream about Herod's plan to killed Jesus,he was told to halt his plan of discharging Mary quietly when he discovered her pregnancy,Paul the Apostle was told about his journey to Macedonia....That's the New Testament,let's not even go to the Old...where is it most predominant. Even in Joel 2:28,the Scripture made it known that in the last days,which we are in,God will pour out His Spirit on all flesh causing them to dream dreams and see visions. If you don't have PEACE,don't embark. It's called general, conscience,some call it sixth sense,some call it intuition. The Igbos call it " uche aka-gi"

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  6. Job 33:14

    For God speaks again and again,
    though people do not recognize it.
    15 He speaks in dreams, in visions of the night,
    when deep sleep falls on people
    as they lie in their beds.
    16 He whispers in their ears
    and terrifies them with warnings.
    17 He makes them turn from doing wrong;
    he keeps them from pride.
    18 He protects them from the grave,
    from crossing over the river of death.

    3 dreams are not a coincidence. Be watchful.

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  7. Do your novena AGAIN and this time, don’t be in a hurry to interpret. See it to the end, sit back and watch how things unfold. Stop rushing off to seek interpretations thereby disrupting the flow of revelations.

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  8. Hmm, God has spoken but it is not what you want to hear. It is the problem of humans.
    I am happy that you have a God seeking culture and not a "pastor-seeking folly"
    But wait o. The bobo does not use "condoms," is it to blow balloon?
    😮😮😮😮😮🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 Or maybe I did not understand?

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    1. God bless u for this comment. She wants to believe he really loves her and she's his Beyonce but baby girl sorry to burst your bubble u aren't. He's just trying to chop your cookie.

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  9. Marry him and forget the dreams,when something good is about to happen the devil is not far.

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  10. Do this same fasting and prayer and ask God to send who he wants to marry you. As for this man, he is not the one.

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    1. Lol how will God send it ? In the mail or delivered to her door .

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    2. Silly joke @ 6.12

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  11. you get plenty wahala. maybe you should investigate his family. does he have close friends? just do general findings and trust God that all is well.

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  12. That's what happens when you overthink things;it becomes a figment of your very imagination,and if you still continue it will become your reality because all your energy is so focused on it..That is how the devil works;he feeds on your very weakness and gives you blury vision..

    I dont smoke,drink neither do I womanize..its just basic principles and there are so many men like that too and it doesnt need Blowing of trumpet or award..

    Are you so used to Negativity that when something or someone good comes your way,you start having doubts and questions??

    Some people have understood life even before it happens and choose to always focus on the bright side of life which is what your man is doing;there must not be an ulterior motive to every good deed..

    Stay Blessed and dont lose your diamond while chasing stones..

    @MARTINS

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    1. Thank you..
      Poster come here and read.

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    2. My dear! Imagine people up talking about warnings. What warnings? So every dream you have must mean something? You can't even wait to see the actual red flag in physical before you get yourself worked up. Dreams are a figment of your thoughts. Yes it can be a medium for message from God, but it's not even as frequently as people make it seem. Not every bad dream mean anything. Either you leave him and face your dreaming or you move forward and build your life with him. It's not that hard really.

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    3. Best comment @martins. @poster, dey there dey do cherewere and allow a good man pass you by

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    4. Mz lynn, not EVERY dream is a figment of a person's thoughts. Maybe for you it is, but for a number of people (as you can see from the comments above), dreams can be significant.

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  13. Joseph the dreamer. Check also for malaria

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    1. The same way Joseph also checked, right?

      Poster do not ignore your dreams.

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    2. because you are not in her shoe...dont joke with everything please..

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    3. 15.31 👌

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  14. Stella Wetin you talk?..
    I laugh...I am in the same as you, my sister. I pray whenever I'm in a relationship.

    In my past relationship, I dreamt my ex was married to someone else thrice. I would wake up crying but anyone I told the dreams to would tell me to ignore. I ignored until he broke up with me, telling me he wasn't ready to be in a serious relationship.

    Two months later, he travelled to the U.K and got married.He was in a serious relationship, while we were dating.. Funny enough, even when I try to keep these dreams to myself, it would happen clearly, hence I take my dreams seriously and thread carefully.

    Poster, I would advise you thread carefully. Do not have sex with him. Carry on with the relationship and do not stop praying. If he is indeed married, it would come to pass.

    HEED your dreams. I would bet on it, that he is either married, in a serious relationship or still contemplating about you.

    CLOSE your legs, pray, be watchful but continue with the relationship.

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    1. This 🙌. Poster don't ignore your dreams, you never had them randomly when you slept and thought 💭 of him. This has happened thrice and from your write-up, you've not harboured negative feelings in the recess part of your mind against him 💜, so it's not a figment of your imagination.
      It's God that reveals who men really are, forget outward appearance before you cry 'mmakwara' extend the prayers to 7 nights and don't reveal whatever revelations you get to him.
      Also check the other times you've dreamed about people or things, did it manifest as you dreamt or was it just a mere dream?

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    2. Sozaya16 September 2021 at 15:34..good advise..you deserves a kiss from martins...we move


      Then I had another dream where I went to visit him in his house in the morning and he was with another woman, they spent the night together.....not all that glitter are gold..be very very careful...

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    3. Poster take this!!!
      Continue to seek God's face, those dreams keep coming for a reason.
      Move the introduction to family members by 3-6 months, watch and pray. And importantly, continue to maintain that no sex relationship.

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    4. Mz lynn, was this alao a figment of imagination? @ Sozaya's comment.

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    5. Abeg don't extend any fasting. God has spoken . Take it or leave it.

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  15. What I think since he's active sexually don't you think he's getting it elsewhere.. more reason he's not forcing it on you.. do your secret findings and pray..

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  16. Poster go back to God to speak to you I the best way you can understand cos hom alone understands your dream.

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  17. I agree with Stella, that dream is from the pit of hell. Use your initiative, if you're always at peace when you're with him, know hesh the one. And with all what you mentioned here, I don't think you should let him go.
    Another way to know him if through the kind of friends he keeps. Check out the way he relates with his family members, are they in peace?

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    1. Trust in the Lord with all your heart and LEAN NOT ON YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING.
      Proverbs 3:5-6

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    2. @Poster, I didn't want to comment but let me tell you something...
      I had such dream in 4 diff ways about a guy that wanted to marry me then.. I even saw myself wearing a wedding dress in a dream, was so troubled and I left him.

      Thank God you received dreams from God, there are so many ladies that will pray/fast and no sign/s. Continue praying till you see it clearly. Investigate more abt him and don't give up. Close your legs like mermaid.

      May be the dream is just to let you know whether if you can stand a cheating partner and heart break. Seek God more.

      God is the total content we need in this life.

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  18. Poster pls investigate this man in real life. If you can afford it, pay a private investigator to do it. He may be married or has another lady he is dating secretly. Forget phone searching o. It was on this blog that we read how a married man kept a secret phone with sim card which he uses to communicate with multiple side chicks and when he is home he hides it in his car boot. We read it here. His main phone was clean. So shine your eyes, God is showing you the signs.

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    1. True @Courage, I remember this secret phone story. I just pity some women that will say their men are faithful because nothing bad is in their phones

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  19. When God speaks to some of you, you will ignore focusing and get carried away by the physical things then later in future come and write a chronicle of how he was Godfearing gentle blah blah and you did not see the signs meanwhile God told you many times to run but you no gree.

    The guy hand is not pure. Forget the show of kindness, generosity etc. He is seriously fornicating and that is why he is okay with not touching you except he was the one that brought up the no sex rule. But if you were the one that brought it up and he had to comply then you should not trust it completely. The dream is probably telling you their is another woman in his life. If he was good enough for you, You will not have that kind of dream where he was naked with another woman instead God will show you something else that will give you peace. So you think God will folds his hands and be watching while the devil confuses you? What business or connection do you have with the devil that he will have the power to show you negative things? He is probably a cheat. Do your findings.

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    1. This is a sensible comment.

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    2. The guy dey bang steady without condom outside. Do u know how many lines he has. Maybe the one you know is the new line. 😆😆😆😆😆

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  20. Poster,sometimes our dream are our imagination. But I won't tell you to neglect this dream. When I was dating my boyfriend now ex I had a dream where he got a lady pregnant and when I found out he told how he never loved me but loved the girl.Although then I had worries of the fact he might be cheating,when I told him about the dream,he told me nothing like that will happen,that is my imagination plus my worries. Well I neglected the dream. Well,like 8months after or so,My dream came to reality. And this reality came immediately I asked God to take over d relationship cos I was planning to settle down with him then. Maybe u need to keep praying and free ur mindmind. And let God take over.

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  21. Poster don't ever ignore your dreams.

    That was how I dreamt dat I saw a lady's pant in my fiance's house, lady's pant ke? It was a no sex relationship n bro na spirikoko.

    Later found out he was cheating on me, na me be the main babe wey family know while d other babe was his sex partner, I dumped his yeye ass. Dey begged tire, even cried sef, I no gree

    We are both married to different people.

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  22. The problem is you feel he is too good to be true or you don't want a drama-free relationship. I think those dreams come because you're expecting something like that, abeg free your mind

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  23. God speaks to us through dreams. Don't ignore the dream. I would advise you keep praying to God to reveal whatever that is hidden to you. May God direct your path.Amen

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  24. My dear, repeat the prayers again and don't tell him about it. If the the dreams repeat again,then you do your background checking.

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  25. Poster you should even be worried about the fact that he doesn't use condom, taking life non challantly, it is not only diseases that this can cause, what if he impregnates another woman outside?

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    1. Very disturbing something that she should worry about. A man doesn't like condoms and you are even still considering him. After marriage now, he will be impregnating women upandan and tell you it was a mistake. Maybe he has even impregnate someone sef, this one that you are dreaming different dreams seeing him with women

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  26. God may be trying to tell you something here. Do not ignore it. Maybe go and another round of fasting and prayer but this time, ask God for a physical revelation and not something that comes in form of a dream

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    1. Eka Joy, your advice is always with depth and substance. Your head dey there jare 👍

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  27. Baba Nla Nonsense... Marry him joor

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    1. Go and join them together na. Nonsense

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  28. That dream is a big sign from God, I ignored mine and I am suffering heavily for. My mom appeared to me ,chasing me with a stick that I shouldn't marry my husband. I didn't heed to it, now poverty want to finish me. Nothing works for us. My husband is a good man but he makes bad decisions

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    1. In my own case..it was my dad I saw telling passerby that I was single meanwhile I was married...I didn't tell hubby till date abt the dream..I just bevely relocated wen poverty wan finish me..I told him i am searching for greaner pasture..I no fit shout abeg

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  29. Stella, how can you say the dream is from the pit of hell? That's God showing her the other side of the man. Its not everything we see with our natural eyes. Poster, please don't ignore that dream. I was in a similar situation so I know what I am saying.

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  30. Your village people sent that dream.

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  31. Your subconscious feels what you're having with him is too good to be true, that's why you're having those dreams.

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    1. Well they say if it’s too good to be true…..complete the sentence. Don’t get me wrong, poster described a good man but no one is perfect. That might be his weakness when it comes to sex. Poster don’t ignore and please update us so others can learn.

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  32. You need to Pray more, what You are seeing is more spiritual than physical. Most people don't belief in spirit wife/husband but it is real and some can be very dangerous.

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  33. Hello Poster,
    I think you are constantly thinking about it and that’s why you are having those dreams. Free your mind about it, you may not necessarily have to fast, but during the day for just 5-10mins pray and ask God to talk to you and he will. If you constantly think about it and you become worried, you may dream about it.
    Are you in a hurry to marry? If no sit and pray. God is not one who is confused. Also speak to maybe someone you are sure that is holy filled about it and get their view about it.

    My advice…. Sit and pray God will reveal something to you.
    All the best.

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  34. Hello Poster,
    I think you are constantly thinking about it and that’s why you are having those dreams. Free your mind about it, you may not necessarily have to fast, but during the day for just 5-10mins pray and ask God to talk to you and he will. If you constantly think about it and you become worried, you may dream about it.
    Are you in a hurry to marry? If no sit and pray. God is not one who is confused. Also speak to maybe someone you are sure that is holy filled about it and get their view about it.

    My advice…. Sit and pray God will reveal something to you.
    All the best.

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  35. Hello poster some dreams are your negative emotions or thoughts the devils programs to your dream. The devil uses our fears against us if we let him.
    When I was dating my husband I dreamt he left me but today we are married and I am glad I didn't take that dream to heart. Becos when dating my husband how he treated me, his family and mine was what I always prayed for. So how can that person leave me when God granted me my heart desire.
    Poster the devil doesn't know your FUTURE only God knows don't let him to miss lead you. You have a good man and he is definitely not perfect becos he is Human.
    Table your fears to God he will definitely lead you to the right path.

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    1. Maybe your own dreams always turns out to be the opposite. Don't use your own to judge hers, you are both two different individuals

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  36. My dear, the dreams are not figment of your imagination. The dreams mean the guy will take care of you but he will cheat. It is now up to you to decide if that is good enough for you.
    A Friend wanted us to take our friendship to the next level, I told him to give me time to pray about it. When I prayed, I dreamt and saw another woman standing with him. The second time, I dreamt and he came to tell me someone is pregnant for him after we got married. Normally, I will not tell the guy about what I saw, but because he is my friend, I sat him down and told him what I saw. He confirmed that my dream is true. He has been told severally that he will have kids from more than one woman. He told me he prayed against it already, but I just ended the idea of a relationship immediately.
    When my mum wanted to marry my dad,she went to pray and she was told he will marry more than one woman. My dad promised her it will never happen. Infact, I Know a Friend of his that he stopped talking to because he married a second wife. Guess what? My dad got a baby mama after 35 years of marriage.
    The bottom line is, never ignore your dreams. Don't break up with him, just pray to God to take control of the relationship and he should reveal hidden things to you in the physical world.

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    1. After 35 years of marriage..wow. That's the thing with some dreams, they may take a long time but will surely come to pass.

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  37. Hi poster, I think the man has a spirit wife. Ask the man if he has a woman that sleeps with him in his dreams. The spiritual controls the physical ok? I think both of you need to pray and ask God to separate the two of them cause he might be getting his satisfaction whenever he has the dream. Two of you especially him should pray and ask God to destroy the relationship permanently because if you marry him that spirit will be causing problems for you. He is a good man and I think you should marry him but deal with the spirit wife first.

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  38. Please do not take the dreams you had as a joke or figment of your imagination, God is giving you a message. You can go into another three days fast accompanied with your desired prayer point and ask God to make the revelation clearer and easy for you to understand. God is a loving father, if you put your absolute trust in him.He will not fail you.

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  39. Have you ever dreamt and it came to pass? If yes , do not ignore the dreams you had about him. I will advise that you continue fasting and praying about him , and do not let him know about it.

    Go on with your relationship with him . Don't even let him know that anything is bothering you. If the dream repeats itself again , my sister do not ignore unless you are comfortable marrying a cheating man.

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  40. Poster based in my own experiences o
    I will advice you listen to the voice of God.tke things slow and steady at a given time everything will manifest.
    But try to be optimistic!!

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  41. I was in a relationship and I had a dream that the supposed boyfriend had a lady in his house, in the dream I asked him who the lady was and the reply was, "it's you I want, I do not love her".
    My friends said maybe I should over thinking things.
    Mind you I pray th pray poit of God scatter th relationship if it ain't ordained by you, I was not fasting about it though.

    I asked God for clarity and a few days later I dreamt he was getting married...I saw him in his parents house getting married.

    3 months later he did get married.

    If your dreams happen as seen, then take it seriously.

    I once dreamt I as in an accident and died...I prayed about it and the very day after, at the same spot in the dream, I had the accident...luckily I am here to recount it.

    Some of us to dream all the time but whatever makes us dream and remember it, it most likely is a warning.

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  42. The guy is free spirited, nice, and caring. But his carefree attitude is risky.

    Do not marry the guy if cheating is a deal breaker for you. If he is not cheating at the moment, he might do so in the future. Temptations will definitely come somehow and seing him with a woman naked might be a pointer to the future.

    The guy is cool, though.

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    1. Too too risky. Imagine her neighbors asking for his number. Why are they asking for his number? Awon users oshi. Poster this should be another thing to worry about. If he’s too carefree like this, are you going to be able to handle it when he’s so carefree around women. You need to also watch how he act around women in general to give you a better perspective on him because when all the euphoric feelings don wear down and reality sets in, will you. E able to handle it? I don’t like overly friendly guys abeg. They fit fall for women easily o hmmm. My two cent. Sha pray well well.

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  43. I was in same shoes with you years back b4 I got married, I was engaged to an extremely nice but jealous guy, I had a dream that we were having our engagement but he wasn't present, I cried till I woke up. I had another scary dream, I didn't make a rash decision, the started misbehaving and that was it. He begged me but I never went back. If God speaks to u thru dreams then you need to give the rel time. Things will unfold once u are not having sex with him.

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  44. The best way to know someone is through their friends. What type of friends does he keep? Also forget the fact that you have his phone password because that is not a proof that he is not cheating.

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  45. I’d rather have a very good man that cheats than a very evil broke one that cheats. Good luck finding a good man that doesn’t cheat.

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    1. You must be a man and a chronic cheat too.
      No woman wishes for a cheating man whether rich or poor. And no, a good man does not cheat, how can you even join good and cheat together? Is cheating a good thing?
      You better repent before they mix menstrual blood or rat poison in your food for you.

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    2. If you are a lady, then your self esteem is zero. Just imagine!
      A 'very good' man that cheats? Some of you ladies were raised in very disturbing homes. You will read a chronicle where a wife will describe her horseband who beats her as a good man, amazing father.
      Like there are no very rich and caring men who don't cheat? See what you are wishing yourself. Mtcheeeew

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  46. Hyperbole 😁

    Lori iro

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  47. Stop telling him about your dreams. Watch his actions. Don’t break up with him immediately but continue to watch him and investigate if you have to. Some women are ok with cheating men as long as they’re getting financial support and most women are not. So if cheating is your deal breaker, then don’t date a man who cheats.

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  48. The only thing you should do is TRUST GOD.

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  49. I don't know what to tell you because I'm in almost the same tight spot as you are.

    I also had scary dreams and I'll advice you to do as I am still doing. PRAY. May God grant us wisdom and direction. Amen.

    Let me read and learn

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  50. Him not using condom is a red flag

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