Tuesday In House News.....

 Tuesday smells so good i wanna lick it....

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IN HOUSE MEMO.

Yipppeeeeee someone has sent in Wedding night brouhaha, will post over the weekend after I edit it.

How the go dey go? I read all the suggestions for stew Yesterday and I decided not to make the stew but wait until i can figure out al the names of items mentioned......... Make i dey taste the chicken dey go...LMAO!

Please send in your chronicles, wedding night brouhaha and all the other columns..

My darling PA will mention them in the comment section.

Dr Freaks Journal will be reduced to once a week from next week... I will post only on Saturdays. If you have a column that you think you wanna run, if it can aid your business fine, send it in, if its just for fun, fine, send it in.

Enjoy the rest of your day.

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NEW COLUMN ALERT

NAZIRITE'S INK


My husband and I are young couple with a daughter.. Considering that my husband is into ministry, i am obligated to follow him to his job location no matter where he his transferred. That year, he was transferred.



Protocol demands that a new apartment would have been ready when we get there. On getting to the town he was transferred, we were taken to the apartment they had ready, upon arrival, we knew immediately that the house is cursed and we are going to experience tough times. So many things weren't right, starting from were the landlady's shop is the entrance to our flat and the fact that we didn't have access to the water pump or even the compound's well.


It wasn't long we moved in that we began to taste bitter experiences, The landlady and landlord victimized us so much we had to park out after a year.


It all started the day I asked the landlady why we didn't have water running in our apartment despite the fact that there was light to pump and she had water in hers..


The victimization got so bad my husband and I had to call on God for help. The couple would wake up in the middle of the night and curse us, they would make snide comments and say that, if God was so good to us, we would have our own house, they would mock and say we would never have a house. My husband and I would greet them, they would ignore, my little 3 year old would greet and the landlady would curse..


Don't get me wrong, I had in me to be nasty too if I wanted, I can be tough, but i was handicapped by our positions in the environment as God's servant, it wouldn't speak well if we were caught fighting, cursing or even keep grudges, where then is the fruit of the spirit if we fail? More so, we were strangers in the land. My husband would say, "As God's children, people can fight you, but you cannot fight".. This went on for about 3 months, at this point, the rent was about to expire.


On a faithful Saturday, my husband received a call from his superior, he was asked to come with me, his wife. Immediately after that call, my husband began to panick, we suspected something has happened, but we didn't know what it is.. I told him to be calm, that if we have been faithful on this job like we have, It is God's duty to secure the job.


So we set out, on getting to the office headquarters, turns out the landlady went to report us, she concocted all manner of lies against us.. We couldn't help but marveled when we were told.. By the time we told our own side of the story, my husband's boss was shocked,
He immediately summoned the Accountant and asked that money be released to us to move out of the apartment with immediate effect. We left the headquarters joyfully that day.


Apparently, she went to report hoping that my husband would be fired, but the Lord proved himself.. Miraculously, the following Monday, we moved out of the apartment.


Before we moved, there were some happenings that shocked me. A particular period, I was fasting, the landlady's would mock me in her dialect whenever am passing that I was thin and looking hungry, she didn't know I was fasting during that period, she would make jest and mock that my family was broke, her husband would insult my husband and call him unprintable names, on another occasion, because she sells provision, and we stopped buying from her when the insult became unbearable, she would boast to everyone that cares to listen that whatever we buy from her can never buy the tire of her car, Hmmmm.. What a ridicule to God's anointed family! Yes! The ministry pays very little but we are not beggars, we are like the birds of the sky, we have no big source of income but heaven feeds us and responds to our cry.


During the time we were living there, one day during one of there insults spree, my husband was so pained he fastened his face to the ceiling and said "Father, this people are insulting you not me, they thrashed you not my family, fight for yourself, prove yourself beyond reasonable double that you called me" . He would encourage me to never quarrel but salute them and move on.


Two months after we moved out, she and her husband had a major fight it was so bad she had to park out, we heard the husband literally chased her out with cutlass with her wearing only pant in the dead of the night.. What a mighty Judge we serve!


Someone who threatened that she would throw another out has been expelled from hers, someone that bragged that the cup of beans we buy from her cannot buy her tire, cannot even drive the car again because it became an abandoned property after she was pursued.


It didn't come as a shock, because God promised to deal with them, they disrespected His crown.. I left out some details of some of the horrible victimization, intimidation and bullying that we went through, because that's not the testimony, the testimony is in our victory, the victory that God won.


Two months after her husband sent her out, that day I was coming from my daughter school, I suddenly saw her in front of the her house, probably she and her husband has settled their differences, I don't know. The instant she saw me, she began shouting my name and greeting from a distance, Lol, this is the woman that while were still living in her apartment, I would greet her, she would never answer, my husband would greet, she wouldn't reply or reply shabbily. Today, she's looking for every possible means to be friendly with my family. I just laughed and greeted her too.


Many months after, till tomorrow, her shop is still locked. I had a dream were some kids were throwing items out of it.


God said, "I'll fight for you and you will hold your peace".. Truly, vengeance belongs to God. Rom 12:19..

Moral of the story: Allow God fight your battle.

WOW!!!...... Thank you for this beautiful piece!

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BV HAS A SICK MUM


Hi Stella. Good afternoon. 

You're doing a great job. I really need advice. My Mom is a very strong hardworking woman who made sure to take care of her family. She was diagnosed of diabetics 7 years ago. It got so bad that she had to stop her very lucrative business. 2 years ago, she started suffering from ulcer and HBP too. 

Stella it has really been difficult especially as my Dad lost his job no thanks to bad economy.

Recently she fell sick again and we took her to the hospital only to find out that she has kidney problems. She's has been in a private hospital because government hospitals are on strike. Her health has gone from bad to worse. Her left eye is now blind. The doctors said it's because of the diabetics. We've spent a whole lot of money. She was discharged on Friday because we couldn't keep up with the payment.


Stella please how else can I help my mother who has done so much for me. When I call her on phone I end up crying with her. Both me and my younger brothers have spent every penny on her yet there's no much improvement. What else can I do for this woman who has done so much for me and my brothers?




#Why are you not with her? Spend as much time as you can with her physically and not crying on the phone... Go to your mum please!...Dunno what else to say!

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WEY THEM????

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