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THE BEGINNING OF THE END
My fiancée came around to support me with prayer and fasting. I have ulcer, I couldn't fast. So she did the fasting for me.
My fiancée came around to support me with prayer and fasting. I have ulcer, I couldn't fast. So she did the fasting for me.
We have met both parents.
Now to what bothers me the most, when she was sleeping, I decided to do a background check on her by checking her phone. I discovered that she is still in talks with 3 of her ex boyfriends. And she still collects money from them.
Then I noticed she gives random guys her phone number on facebook. I'm so confused now, what does she want from me when she's still doing all the above.
Why did she fast on my behalf when she's not ready for commitment or is she just confused? Well, I gave (paid) her 20k so she won't feel used when I free her. Because yes, it is the beginning of our end!
This your chronicle really pissed me off....LOOK AT YOU!!!
This your chronicle really pissed me off....LOOK AT YOU!!!
So she is only worth 20k? shockingly unbelievable that you paid her off with that amount.....
Why are you doing checks on her after engaging her? didnt you do that during the courtship? why did you snoop on her phone? why not confront her with your findings instead of dumping her without closure? You didnt see anything excet that she is in contact with her exes and asking for money? Please let her know why you want to end it with her so that she can defend herself...
As for you, I hope you come to equity with clean hands?
Mtcheewwww. Person wey no get something do before. Why did you not have a talk with her?
ReplyDeleteMscheew! Aye mi te mi,bami
DeletePoster, you don't deserve her and she is smart to keep a thriving friend zone.
DeletePlease free her.
why not check her phone when in early stage in the relationship,
Deleteis she still in school?, is she the one taking care of herself?, who is paying her house rent,
my brother, try and discuss with her, so she can explain to you.. she may be doing it out of ignorant......both of you are not ready for each other..
20k. I hope this is not Ray. Is dat u???
DeleteNa God save that girl from your hand.You re weird poster
DeleteLMAOOOO poverty chronicles @ 20k is it at 100 naira per gbensh abi what??? LMAOOOO.
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteThe most funniest Chronicle chaiiiiiii
Can u imagine, 20k nawaoooh
I can see why ur babe dey collect money from her exes
Did I just type this? This one na stingy Koko and the girl needs money
DeleteExactly my thought, 20k lasan for pay off. Very funny somebody. Thank God for her life, at least she escaped future hunger and unnecessary ejo wewe( stories).
DeleteOla is that you???
DeleteThis sdk ehn sometimes make u dey talk sense yes the guy fuck up to pay her off with 20k,what about if the girl still go dey fuck dose guys?
ReplyDeleteHe needs to investigate properly and let her know if he decides to end it, not say he is paying her off with 20k, that's really derogatory.
DeleteWhat if she doesn't fuck them?,you just be talking anyhow. As far as I know,she is still very much single untill married.So keeping other friends is needed especially dating someone like this poster. Can you imagine letting her off even without a confrontation, so what if the girl has discarded the friendship she has with others over this unserious guy and poster uses another useless reason to leave the girl,what would be her fate.
DeletePls its very important to keep old friends and casual friends cos of selfish people like this poster.If you check well now,this guy is as guilty as the person he is accusing.
Don't mind the idiot. So because I'm dating you nobody else can give me money???
DeleteSee how he is calling 20k as if it is 200 million naira.
I'm sure this guy has never given her up to 500 naira for anything. Suffer head dating. God just spared this girl a lifetime of pain and misery.
Your vocal cords collapsed to ask her what is going on with those men but it was loud and strong to ask her to come and fast for you.
Weakling.
Poster is just looking for his to dump the girl. You said you gave her 20k so she wont feel used when you free her.
DeleteThen in the comment section you said it is for fasting.
Which one?
Arrange your lies very well so that dem go make sense small.
Why not talk to her about it, it's not a big deal since there's no sex involved between her and her ex
ReplyDeletePlease don't do that to her. Confront her with your evidence and see her reply first. Don't bury before her death o!
ReplyDeletePlease don't do that to her. Confront her with your evidence and see her reply first. Don't bury before her death o!
ReplyDeleteYes I asked her about it, she said she's not in talks with her exes. When I showed her proof, she kept quiet. Then the 20k I gave is for the fasting. And do I even have to pay her? Must it be all about money...values have left us
ReplyDeleteAbeg getat. Y’all dish twice as much as you can take. You couldn’t communicate with her even though she came to fast for you. Selfish. Paid her off. Mtchew.
DeleteHope the next person will be a saint o
DeleteSo people pay for fasting.
DeleteHold on...what problems do you have that you have to pay 20k to a soon to be ex to fast for you?
Now that it is beginning of the end, will the fasting still work like this?
It's either this poster doesn't have sense or I'm too dull to comprehend him.
DeletePay money to fast!!! I jus don't understand everything
Did she ask u to pay for the fasting?
DeleteIf no, why do u feel the need to pay for it?
Your mentality is warped! Not in anyway supporting what she did, but she'll be dodging a bullet if you both eventually break up.
You pay for fasting? 😳
DeleteIt’s clear why she’s still in touch with her exes. You are an aradite!
DeleteSir, don't mind these people. Me, I can fast very well. Lemme be your fasting Contractor moving forward.
DeleteHope you didn't gbensh her while she was fasting for you sha
DeleteI’m just gonna pretend I didn’t see the fasting for you bit..🙄
ReplyDeleteI don’t subscribe to being in touch with your exes so for me, that’s a red flag 🚩. Seems like she’s a chronic panhandler and that’s a major turnoff so let her know how you feel about the whole thing and break things off without bad blood.
After you ve done all that, shove that 20k up yo ass and stop embarrassing yourself. Ew!
So she was sleeping with you and fasting for you? I am more confused than you are with this your chronicles
ReplyDeleteYou did not tell us what the "fasting" was for. But let me advice you from a medical perspective. Someone who has
gastric ulcer can fast; eating just fruits. It is called fruit fast. Eating fruits and vegetables will even result more
in healing of ulcers than exacerbating them. Especially due too more intake of vitamin c.
You do not have the good of this your fiancee at heart and you are filled with so much hate and insecurity.
May Jesus have mercy upon your life. 🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢🐢
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DeleteAnon 15.33
DeleteDo you have or experience serious ulcer before
Because if you do
You will not give that advice
Ask people who have chronic ulcer to tell you what they go through if they skip food
@16:42
DeleteSome people vegetarians have "Chronic ulcer;" don't they?
Fruit/veggie fast means eating fruits/veggie when you are hungry.
I am an ulcer survivor myself and have some medical background.
Vit C is terrible for ulcer sha that’s why doctors advice to skip citrus in any form as long as it goes to your stomach. The acid can burn through stomach walls if consumed in large amounts. I have no medical background but ulcer dealt with me earlier in the year as I had been binging on fruits and supplements as a result of COVID
DeleteThank you anon 16:42. Nor be only fruits 😏.
DeleteStir clear from that fruit fast o, especially citrus fruits that are acidic and will strip your stomach lining. An ulcer patient can fast but not for long. Fasting must not be till 6pm. Nor go do pass yourself
@22:49
DeleteYou should have at least typed it in in google and seen that vitamin c actually helps in healing of both stomach ulcer and controls bleeding in stomach cancers. Vitamin C is used by the body in collagen synthesis. Collagen helps in rebuilding damaged tissues.
What makes unripe citrus fruits bitter and unsafe in ulcers is CITRIC ACID. When I wrote above that "I have a medical background"
At least you should have believed my words. I was once clinically diagnosed with stomach ulcer but I no longer have it.
@22:49
DeleteYou should have at least typed it in in google and seen that vitamin c actually helps in healing of both stomach ulcer and controls bleeding in stomach cancers. Vitamin C is used by the body in collagen synthesis. Collagen helps in rebuilding damaged tissues.
What makes unripe citrus fruits bitter and unsafe in ulcers is CITRIC ACID. When I wrote above that "I have a medical background"
At least you should have believed my words. I was once clinically diagnosed with stomach ulcer but I no longer have it. Note please that my healing was from Jesus. Though I fasted during it all. But what I have shared here are medical facts, you can crosscheck.
Vitamin C is Ascorbic ACID. NOT GOOD FOR ULCERS
DeleteFasting and fornicating?
ReplyDeleteWhat a mess. 🤮🤮🤮🤮
I just taya
DeleteSo you are paying her for fasting for you? And now una type they condemn MOG. Do you think God will answer you as you don't have forgiveness? See ya mouth
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you ask her point blank questions; "are there still interactions with your exes? I was going through your phone
ReplyDeleteand saw that you are collecting monies from your exes; don't you think that is not safe...will you like me to still discuss
with my ex-girlfriends?"
And please if this is how you give, then what will crash your marriage is selfishness.
A lesson for greedy girls that will eat with both hands?
Poster talk to her first and know what she has to say before doing anything. You don't have to pay or dash her 20k she did it out of love for you. Or are we paying for fasting for someone on our behalf's
ReplyDeleteWell, having jumped into the gutter to degrade yourself by snooping on her, the ideal would have been to confront her and give her the opportunity to defend herself. But in life there are no ideal situations, we deal with issues according to the level of our intellect and our emotional stability. You didn't say she cheated on you, that she's dating you shouldn't stop her from having friends. I guess she lied about having contact with her exes. You must however know that not all of us become enemies with our exes at the end of relationships. You made an impulsive decision to end the relationship, you are likely going to regret this. It is always very wrong to make decisions when you are angry.I advice that you reach out to her and allow her defend herself
ReplyDeleteHe dropped a comment above about granting her fair hearing. She did lie that she's not in communication with them until he showed evidence..
DeleteI'm actually against snooping, but since a lot of female on this blog support snooping on their man's phone, then I'll overlook that 'wrong' on his part..
This ex thing is very dangerous, but who am I to judge.. I'd be a hypocrite if I try to claim all saintly, however we all know it's wrong, especially the collecting cash from them part.. may God continue to help us..
But you see that dropping numbers for random peeps, that a hoe move, the right answer to give when a random person ask for your digit when you're in a relationship is to tell the person I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP.. anything other that that is a fuck boi/ hoe move..
Inasmuch as the guys write up wasn't that kind, but if it was a lady that wrote this would we all have the same responses?
DeleteI don't have an issue when exes still keep contact, as long as boundaries are well defined. But in most cases, just a few ladies stick to boundaries because guys have ways they trick ladies to be exploited.
But I find it disrespectful to snoop on your partner's phone, if the trust is no longer in existence, take precautions and make smart adjustment. I like my space and privacy, it doesn't mean I am doing any unfaithful. It's just part of respect.
Why do people check other people's phone secretly or without their permission? I just don't get it. If you dont trust a person, there is no point getting involved in the first place. After sleeping with her, you are now looking for justification for distrust.
ReplyDeleteDid he say he slept with her? Most of you can't tolerate your boyfriends chatting with their exes , let alone collecting money from them.
DeleteIf he didn't snoop, he would not have known she is for the streets!
DeleteWell, if the roles were reversed, she would be advised to dump you, so guy do the honorable thing and leave her, her Mr. Right may be on Facebook.
ReplyDeleteAmong the few that keep it real here.. slutty chic too..
DeleteBig ups ✌️
Babe is not convinced she has reached her busstop. That's why she is one leg in, one leg out.
Delete20k $ or Naira? Smh broke okuko like you
ReplyDeleteBeginning and the end indeed. Imagine paying someone off with 20k. Oga well-done
ReplyDeleteI won't waste time to talk much: You are a fcuk boy who happened to meet your type a fcuk girl Q.E.D save your crocodile tears...
ReplyDeleteLol..
DeletePhoenix, why is he a fuck boi?
Please educate me without bringing the part of him snooping, I'm among the few that speak against snooping here but 90percent females here support it on their man, so I'll exonerate him on that one.. what else make him a fuck boi, cos the 20k he's giving her even makes him an understanding nice guy
the guy is so nice, she’s from the street , take back your 20k bro she don’t deserve it, she hoe
DeleteNa dem!!!
ReplyDeleteSee no be every Ex must be our enemies. Some people stopped talking or being friends with their Ex because what they encountered during the course of the relationship.
As for the fasting, exceptions are made to some people with ill-health
So you see a girl that go as far as fasting for you as someone that doesn't want your interest at heart or interested in the relationship?
I hope you're not still in talking terms with any of your Exs???
👌👌👌 no be every Ex must be our enemies.
DeleteI still have my Ex boyfriend contact, every time my Ex change his telephone number, he will text and call me with the new number. When I wanted to go for my youth service and there's no money to buy my service, he was the one that sent money to me and once in a while he also send money to me during my youth service.
Mtcheeew. This one is not serious at all.
ReplyDelete20K as pay off??????? SMH
ReplyDeleteOga you no get case
Why is she fasting for you in the first place??why don't you discuss with her before paying her off???toor Mr faster and Miss fastee,olorun a Sanu yin o
ReplyDeleteThe pro-snooping women Bvs are awol today.
ReplyDeleteWhy would a woman whose eyes are on marriage still be begging for money from 3 of her Exs and dropping telephone numbers randomly as alleged. Is the latter not an act of prospecting. Why hang on and fast for a man who cannot satisfy her?
Paying for fasting is practiced by some people. African christainity is largely syncretic.
Poster did not say they were s3x partners. As we judge that he acted hastily by not hearing her side, can we judge that they are s3x partners without any such statement in the post.
Poster has, however, clarified that he asked her about his snooping result and she had no answer.
N20k paid for fasting. Too small or too big? If it was the usual gift for visiting or boyfriend gift, is it too small?
N20k is some private teachers' gross monthly salary. So a male teacher who earns N20K should perish all thoughts of being in a romantic relationship as that amount of money is not worthy as a gift to a female friend?
If we see N20k as too small a gift. Are we different from the Poster who sees man/woman romantic relationship and fasting as transactional?
And Lady Stella may just have be doing give-away to mostly rich people as some of today's comments deprecating N20k may have shown.
Lol..
DeleteNo mind them🙂🙂..
Let me tell you a story, one of 'my friend'experience (straight face at perx 🤨)
So back then in school, there was this chic that he was 'cordial' with, not in a relationship perse, but had the ingredients of one, if you know what I mean.. and you know how most females develop emotions when sex is involved, even though they might pretend like it's just FWB stuff, that was the case with this chic.. it happened that after some 'round of prayers' babo
A was just resting on the bed with his eyes closed, baby girl was sitting by the reading table, she looked at baba on the bed, with his eyes closed, she thought Baba was asleep, then she tiptoed over to the bed, and picked Baba's phone that was lying close to the pillow his head was, Baba just squint him eyes dey look am as she dey act drama, she tiptoed back to the reading table and started scrolling through Baba's phone.. Boom! She saw what she thought she was looking for.. tears started rolling down.. she can't attack Baba that he's cheating on her since they're not actually in a relationship.. after crying for a while, she came to the bed, dropped the phone back and 'wake' Baba that she's going home, Baba pretended to wake up and acted shocked to see her crying..
Baba: Abigail why are you crying, what happened?
Abigail: (with hot tears gushing out screamed) I'm going home ..
Baba: did someone died?
Abigail: leave me alone, I'm leaving..
Baba: ok, clean your tears first, so people won't think I hit you or raped you when you go out.. *she cleaned the tears*. Now get the fuck out of my house..
Na so she rush out dey she'd tears go busstop..
Let me digests a little, the text this babe saw was actually a "happy new month" message sent to a secondary school class mate who just reconnected and ended the text with 'miss you'.. now na the "miss you" cause this whole problem..
She later called in the night, talking about how she don't snoop on people phone but she's glad she did cos now she won't waste her time with 'my friend' again.. my friend lambasted her, told her how she was wrong with her hasty conclusion and then hang up the call after telling her she's crazy to have gone through his phone without his consent.. na so she being call back dey beg and send apology text..
Few days later, she came for the "make up", after the usual 'prayers' na so Baba grab her phone say today me sef go read your chats.. come see fight and struggle, but Baba no gree.. na so babe use him legs lock her legs, come buckle her both hands inside him elbow.. na so confession start..
Abigail: please don't read my chats I'll explain everything..
Baba: no we'll read it together..
The first 2 chats that was opened revealed that this girl was in a relationship with this 2 guys, one was even waiting for her in a hotel room, telling her of the things he bought while coming over so they'll have a'good time'.. you can imagine.. she was now saying she's just 'chopping' their money, that they're yahoo boys and they have never seen her pant Lol..
You see those babes that are always snooping ehn, na them dey cheat pass.. it's just like how a thief always sees everyone around him like a thief too
Lolzzzzz....the only time I snoop is wen I want to check acct balance or bank statement no time..lol
Delete🤣 Dante.
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DeleteDump her cheating ass!
ReplyDeleteIf she ended the relationship, would she have paid him off?
ReplyDeleteWhat if poster doesn't have more than he gave?
What you should have done is to have a heart to heart talk with her and hear her own side before coming to this conclusion with your assumptions.
ReplyDeleteVery annoying chronicle, please free the girl because she doesn't deserve your type, you are pathetic, the girl is wise, she knows the type of a person that you are that is why she is smart enough to not put all her eggs in one basket.
ReplyDeleteSDK women live life by a different code from the man. Intact everything is the man's fault. He cheats: his fault. She cheats or possibly cheats and he decides to leave: his fault. She snoops, she's smart. He snoops: he's senseless
ReplyDeleteMan, just concentrate on your ulcer. If it is stress induced then see you adding more stress to it.
ReplyDeleteThat girl is not alright one bit!!! Collecting money from 3 different exes and lying about it? Also, what's with the random dropping of numbers on fb.
ReplyDeleteShe is still on the look for someone else (probably a richer guy).
I'm not against the poster breaking up with her, I am only triggered by the manner in which he did that.
Poster lay it out in clear terms to her, let there be no ambiguity.
Nawa ooh, someone future husband.
ReplyDeleteIt’s like it’s only Dante and a few guys that have sense on this blog.
ReplyDeleteWhat the girl did or is doing is wrong ? You are engaged to be married and collecting money from exes and what not.
Pay off is a wrong term but what’s the issue with 20k??? Everyone forming woke and rich lol.
Please poster fasting should not be paid for. It sounds absurd. Why should your fiancé take money to fast and pray towards your wedding.
She’s a no, no, no.
Your immaturity is alarming
ReplyDeleteYour immaturity is alarming
ReplyDeleteWow.. reading most comment just made me realize why we are where we are today..
ReplyDeleteGuys, always read understand before commenting.
Don't just read Maaami's red pen feedback and follow.. she cannot be right all the time..
Bros, leave that babe sharp sharp
she belongs to the street or simply just fuck and be friends no commitment
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