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Hi Stella! Please treat as urgent.


I am a single lady in my late 30s. I dated this guy four years ago during my service year and it was all rosy till the later part of my service year when he started acting funny.


 I took in and he denied it point blank telling me to abort it that he's not ready to be a father soon and he has a lot to do ahead of him and I can't tie him down with pregnancy. 


I was hurt because I loved him deeply. I was heartbroken cos I gave him my all including my virginity. 

At first I thought it was a joke. He stopped talking to me and avoided me that period. when I saw that he was really serious, I had to abort it and blocked all ties with him.

 I almost died in the process. I bled for days and was in pain all through. Because of the pain I was passing through that period, I cursed him with the blood of the aborted baby in my hands and tears in my eyes, I held the blood in my hands and laid a heavy curse on him.

 The following day, I was bleeding again, i put some blood in a black nylon and cursed him again after which I tied the nylon and threw it in a bush.


Fast forward to four years later, we met at an event in Benin, we reconnected and got talking. He begged for my forgiveness and told me he's ready to settle down now. He said a lot of things, he told me how he misses me and how he has longed for us to be together. 


He has been begging me for months. I have forgiven him Now I am beginning to have feelings for him again. He was my first love and the feeling is still strong.


 I've not been in a serious relationship with any guy since I left him. I've decided to give him a second chance. He wants me to meet his patents next week. He has really changed and doing well for himself. I am ready to accept him back. But what about the curse I laid on him? How do I break it? Please I need serious advise






*Haaaa!!!!!!
I don't know how you can curse him or if the curse will take effect but OMG you used blood to curse him!!! Please dont marry him until you can undo what you did please!!!

65 comments:

  1. I am "gobsmacked"..Try to undo what you did for starters,ma'am

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    1. Poster, you're really going back to someone that abandoned you in your lowest???. Women sha.

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    2. I have a relation, similar story, cursed the man, later got back with the man, but mehn the curse (s) came to pass. My own is this, women especially, just be taking easy with this curse things, especially a bitter woman. It changes the trajectory of the "offenders" life in a very bad way, and sometimes affects the woman that placed the curse. Men be very very careful with women, their spiritual composition is not the same as ours, that's the truth.

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    3. So true, the spiritual composition of women is different from men. Please Women, when annoyed please calm down even in great pain, this bitter world is due to women's bitterness and curses for their husbands, children, relations, siblings, colleagues, etc. Please we all should change and instead bless those that curse or hurt us. Easy to do no but pls try abeg, curses don do. Tie blood and throw to the bush, there are spirits around ooo and they hear and execute. Now you have to join him, which fasting will remove the curse you placed on yourself??? Marrying him makes you both one, start fasting now oooo, Go to that bush whether it has turned to house or not and pray ooo. Ask God for forgiveness. This one pass me, you no fear say something can happen to your blood or someone else use it against you??? Haba, wetin ears no go hear for this our world. Jesus pls come soon and by mercy remember us in thy Kingdom.

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    4. I wonder why she wants to go back to the man that abandoned her.

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    5. Anon 4:30, I honestly thought that was why she was writing. So that we can dissuade her from ending up with him. But alas, another emotional driven woman. Smh. Most times, it's not even your curse that will come to pass. People like that are horrible people. Their lives are a mess. And most times, they have been cursed by several people that are renewing the curse every day.

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    6. Because he is doing well for himself. 16:30

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  2. "he has really changed and doing well for himself",
    U want to go back to your vomit!
    Why don't you seek God first

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    1. If he was not doing well financially, would you go back to him?
      If you can see the effect of your curse in the near future, would you still stay with him?

      Take care of yourself and stop now.

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    2. Can you imagine, marry him and you will surfer with him for life, to curse someone with your blood madam its a very strong course, becareful.

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  3. Marry him and reap the effects of your own curse, that is if the cures would work.

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    1. Now listen let me tell you how curses of this nature work; Naturally, when curse anyone, 50% of the curse stays with you, 10% is scattered among every ear that heard (reasons you should stay away from bitter and negative people), only 40% chases after the person. If the said person is in positive energy, not returning your anger or hate and only giving you back good, wishing you well and sending you love and light, guess what? The 40% returns to you plus the existing 50% you had abinitio and if there was no one around listening to share the 10%, omo! The entire 100% curse is on your head.

      Now, to counter it, only positive can cancel out negative. You are already cursed for sure and he may not even have received any fraction of that curse if he was not hating and wishing you bad at that time. This is probably the reason things has been the way they have been with you ever since while he is doing well.

      To help yourself, you have to go on a blessing spree. I mean bless every anyone insight and anyone that crosses your mind. Go out of your way to be generous, speaking good into the life of everybody you come in contact with. Take it upon yourself to pray for others including this guy in question. That is your only hope of reversing the negative energy you cast upon yourself. Take time to forgive all who ever wronged you and pray for them, wishing them the very best.

      THAT IS ALL YOU NEED! LOVE!!

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    2. This kind man will abandon her in a heartbeat if she even TTC for as little as 2 years. He will rub that abortion in her face forever

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  4. There's nothing God cannot do and judging from your write-up, honestly the Almighty is your only help and hope now, please go to him, ask for forgiveness and his help. If you have a genuine spiritual mentor or someone you look up to, confined in that person and ask for his/her advice.
    Also, I think you might need to confess to your man and ask for his forgiveness. Omo, it won't be easy so tighten your seatbelt babe.

    Good luck 🀞.

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    1. Sandra you spoke well but I think the man need to ask for forgiveness and you in return forgive from your heart and release that man. As per marriage... I don't have anything to say

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  5. WahalaeuxπŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ₯΄

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  6. Please go to God I'm prayer, for forgiveness and mercy. Seek the face of God in revoking the curse. Pronounce blessings upon him. Remember the words you used the day you cursed him and counter them all. May God help you .

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  7. My dear you need to reverse that curse and pray for him from the depth of your heart ,you need to also ask for forgiveness of sin.it is well.

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  8. I agree with Stella but pls people should not be quick to judge, its hurting but nothing is permanent

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  9. I agree with Stella but pls people should not be quick to judge, its hurting but nothing is permanent

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  10. He is doing well now, you forget the curse and all. power of money. Same mouth you use in doing it, use it to remove the curse.

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  11. Why do you think that suddenly, your curses won't hold anymore; because you
    want to benefit from him?
    So you are going with woken eyes into a cursed matrimony.
    YOu both are cursed; look at it;

    Proverbs 6:16-17 God hates HANDS that shed innocent blood

    Please note the plural "hands." You both joined hands to shed blood of innocent bab(ies)
    The only way to break that curse is to mourn for the babies.
    2 Cor. 7:10 "Godly sorrow brings about repentance and leaves no regrets"
    So, you both should give your lives to Christ and mourn for these babies and
    you will find forgiveness and favor with God.

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  12. Its payback if marry him. All that curse you placed, you will partake.

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  13. All these curses are not necessary. close your legs no matter how sweet a man talks.
    Once you get pregnant, you are on your own. Obey God and do not commit fornication. It is not a hard task.
    It makes common sense.
    Now, how do you atone for your curses? If you met him a pauper, will you have "still have strong feelings for him"
    Did he force you to give your virginity? You threw your pearls to a pig and he trampled it underfoot and
    turned and rend you and your baby.
    Now, you would have been a happy mom.
    Now, you have the guilt of innocent blood in your hands.
    Turn to Jesus and you will have forgiveness and leave this selfish man alone.πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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  14. Poster I am sorry about what happened to you...But I hope you know you too were involved in making that baby and the decision was in your hands to keep that baby as well instead of aborting so the blood of that baby is in your own hands, so don't isolate yourself out of this...

    However from your story, you have to break that curse entirely and left for me, You should forgive him but going back to him is it not going to awaken the pain and hurt again...If you truly loved him then, cursing him would not have been the first thing in your mind...

    You have to recall all the curses if not, you will share in it..Good luck on the best decision to take...

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  15. If you hadn't met this man in that function, will he be disturbing you now and will you have had rekindled feelings?
    Don't you see an opportunist who will dumb you again like thrash at any available opportunity?
    And if you do not conceive, he will label you an murderer.
    Get running girl. And do not just run away, run into Jesus. Run, run, run.

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  16. Simple solution
    Use the blood of Jesus to bless him. But you have to be in Jesus yourself to be able to do that.

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  17. Hmmm...I'm speechless. Please seek counsel from a higher spiritual authority before you go ahead with any plans with him? Did you tell him you cursed him? Hmmm

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  18. Kai that your curse dikwa very risky and serious. You started it, you will end it.

    Talk to Almighty God about it. Go to the Altar of God Almighty and confess all the curses. He will break it for you.

    But if you are not strong, see a good pastor or your pastor to give you spiritual guidance. It is well

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    1. Life!!! very funny ooooo. when they say small world, na real small world, what goes around, comes around abi how dem dey talk am. This is how another woman would have married this man and be suffering not knowing what is causing the suffering. God help us all!!!

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  20. please don't make the same mistake twice. I pray that you will meet someone better

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  21. Person wey thief and share am with person wey get the thing wey dey dem thief, na two of them go share the curse.

    Whatever you do,DO NOT MARRY THAT MAN,because he might be doing well now,but you will share in the curse later.
    Thoroughly ask for forgiveness for him and seek to break the curse before anything, please.

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  22. You can renounce what you said about him. Reverse everything you have said. Above all I want to believe you have given your life TO Jesus. If not please do. Then you can do that. If you have a pastor pls go and ask for guidance. But I know it just takes for you to reverse every nagative thing you said.

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  23. What are you cursing poster? You carried yourself to remove the baby, that was your sole choice.

    You also had the option to keep the baby even though the father rejected it.

    I don't think your curses will have any impact on him as you're even more guilty that him in this matter!

    Instead, you should learn the lesson of taking responsibility for your actions, because tomorrow you'll blame him for another matter you also have a share in.

    Lastly, stop placing curses on people, it's like playing God.

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    1. πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ people don't like to take responsibility for their actions, they would rather blame someone else.

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  24. Aunty, please get a dedicated man of God to lead you through the 'uncursing process' after duly giving your life to Christ. That is why we should be very careful what we do in our period of anger. Back to you having feeling for that guy. I am afraid oooo. Are you sure after the introduction and him having you as usual he will not run?

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  25. Nne see curse...you're wicked oo

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  26. You're considering going back to him because you're approaching 40s and no man on sight?
    So you're willing to go back to your vomit now because he told you he's ready and doing well for himself?
    You've suddenly forgotten all the pains he caused you which made you to curse him with that young blood?

    Poster respect yourself and let that man go. Find a way you can undo all those curses and pray to God to settle you.

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  27. I am sorry to say this....You are as wicked as the guy has himself. A man neglected you when you were pregnant because he is not ready to settle down and all you could do is abort the baby. Sincerely you are wicked for aborting that innocent child..when you knew you won't keep any baby rejected by any man, why did you open your leg?

    You cursed him and you think it won't come to past? You didn't only cursed him but you use your blood and then threw it away... See me laughing, don't you think you will suffer for this after getting married to him because am sure he is not aware.

    Please, go back to God for forgiveness before anything because the curse will come back to hunt you if care is not taken. Make peace with God and give way for his spirit to live in you then you can know your next step.

    Or tell him what you did and see what his reaction would be.

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  28. Sorry for your experience but like I always say,never make decisions when you are emotional.It was your decision to abort the baby whether the guy accepted or rejected the pregnancy.You better pray and reverse the curse because if it is potent,it will affect you too.

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  29. That means your curse didn't work

    That being said you are a wicked being, virginity or not. How can u curse someone u once loved??? Did you curse yourself for aborting the baby??? Bcos logically, u did the abortion not him!!!

    I wish u goodluck in whatever u decide. Both of you deserve each other...

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  30. Cursed him with blood?!!😳😳

    Wasn't there a way you could have kept the baby??

    This matter tie gele ooo

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  31. I don't understand people telling poster not to marry the man she cursed. Who do you guys want to go and fall a victim? Another innocent woman? At least when the curses starts manifesting she will know exactly why and them both can seek for solution instead of another innocent person.

    Poster please save another woman and marry that man oo, we women has suffered enough untop wetin no concern us. Marry the man you cursed and save another soul bikozienu nwanyi oma

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    1. Fan, this matter no funny but u made me laugh. Poster what u did was wicked, I pray you can undo it. Seek help, seek God and undo that curse, cos if u marry that man without doing it, u will pack what u spilled.

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  32. Why are you going back to that kind of person?

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  33. For me, I don't think that the curse will have any effect on him because both of you sinned and you even went ahead to abort the foetus. So, if you really want to marry him both of you should sincerely beg for God' s forgiveness and have faith that God has forgiven you. Then move on....,for all have sinned

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  34. Hmm ladies let's learn to take responsibilities for our Actions, if you don't want Pregnancy pls use Protection or better abstain but pls stop blaming guys all the time.
    How can you CURSE SOMEONE'S CHILD WITH THE BLOOD OF A CHILD...??? That is very WRONG on all sides and now Karma is serving you the same meal you cook awhile ago because you choose you play "God".
    Biko enjoy your boyfriend and ask God for divine forgivness but always remember that patience is a virtue.

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  35. You aborted your pregnancy, it was your choice not that of the guy. Your curses are on you not him. You had the option of keeping the pregnancy. It was your choice to have sex without condom, you could have insisted the guy used a condom , you allowed temporary pleasure to mess you up. The morning after pills is generally available across the nation , you ought to have taken the pills but you didn't. You should have been angry with yourself for your failings. It appears the intention was to pin the young man down with pregnancy and you went 'gaga' when your plan failed .

    My people believe curses do not work for those who are not witches and wizards. Curses are just words motivated by anger, they are meaningless. Except you are a witch/wizard who takes such curses to your coven to work on it. There are a few people who are naturally gifted, whatever they say happens.

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  36. Another question to ask yourself poster is that if you didn't jam each other in Benin, has he been making attempts to find you either to seek forgiveness or to get back together? Why do you really want to get back together with such a selfish person?

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    1. Very good question.
      Both kuku fit each other.
      My own is, 4 years ago you were in your 30s.
      How were still able to serve?

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  37. Na wa o.
    How is it so easy for some humans to lay a curse on someone , like you even used blood hmmmmmm na wa o.
    Una get mind o.
    Me I have been heartbroken 3 times and I didn't curse anybody. I have been with deceitful men I didn't curse them, I just let them go in my mind and leave them to God, I just tell my God to provide for me.
    Now you have cursed and see what is happening.
    I don't even know what to say. Better don't marry him yet, go and do fasting and prayer, seek the face of God before going forward with this guy

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  38. Nigerians and their holier than thou attitude. All of you saying yen yen yen that she aborted the baby na still the same people that insult baby mamas upandan. See as them they form judge and jury meanwhile,na them back bite and slander pass . Nobody should invalidate her feelings because none of you were in her position. If she cursed him out of hurt, why did he hurt her in the first place? Do you know what it is to sin, then hope you marry your sin partner only for him to give you belle, deny am and jakpa just like that? Ahhhh !!!! The guy na devil. Mchewwwww... Poster my only advice is that you should marry him shikena. You are 30 going on 40 my dear no time ooo. It's better to answer Mrs because na all these same people wey say make you no marry am go insult you say you be old mama with no husband. Forgive him, marry him and bless him. No mind them ooo after all no be only you wey don abort even married women do am pass. No think am.

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  39. What was the curse exactly cos if you ran into him 4years later and still see him as a spec to marry, that means the curse no work naa. Both of you are guilty and in dire need of God's mercy and he will definitely forgive you both if you ask and repent. If you both are ready to start over, then goodluck, I see nothing wrong in it.

    And for us singles, please let us note that the consequences of fornication are much more dire for women than men. A man can run if pregnancy occurs, and all the 'love' will fall from your eye. The law to flee fornication is God's kindness to us, to protect us from shame, sin, possible murder and desperate or poor decisions. You can't be smarter than your maker, it's for your own good. Celibacy is difficult, but possible.

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  40. Poster you get mind. How can you go back to someone that left you, does it mean he is the only guy in this world? Undo your curse before it will comes back to you.

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  41. He has not changed. Need proof? Tell him that you can’t ever have children because of the abortion. He will disappear from your life in less than 60 days

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  42. A man that made you commit abortion and you cursed because of the hurt and pain he caused you is the same guy you want to give another chance?!?!? A guy that disappeared shortly after, didn’t look after your well-being, didn’t give a damn about you is the same person you want back? Are you listening to yourself? Because you’re in your late 30’s?? Maa’m pick up your self esteem on the floor!!!! And go out if you’re too much of an indoor person. You folks hardly socialize so you can catch better man. Please close that chapter and move on.

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  43. How you can go back is what i do not get. Women love yourselves. Is being single a curse or a death sentence. Focus on other parts of your life you can control.

    Please stop cursing. These curses might haunt this guy.When you are a in relationship,learn to stop at a point where you can pick up your live with minimial ease. If you decide to give your all,then you should let go without cursing. There is power in tongue and life in blood.

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  44. do not marry that guy...he might not have changed...test him and tell him your womb got damaged from the abortion because he left you and that you cursed him...then see japa things...lol...pls take your time and look very well.

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