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53 comments:

  1. No, not at all.....if it was there won't be divorces or separation.

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  2. For some.

    We all have our priorities and what makes us happy.

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    1. I don't want to believe that anybody will see marriage as a requirement for happiness because, to find happiness in marriage itself, you have to bring your own happiness, else, your won't even see happiness in the marriage itself.
      What am I saying sef

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    2. Simply Tonia, blv me, there are some of us that come from toxic parents, so yes, marriage gave us happiness, peace, an escape from toxicity and above all, a chance to start a peaceful life and not be everything our parents were.

      And Yes! There are plenty people like me.

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  3. It is not but could be if married to the right person.Happiness to an extent depends on an individual.

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  4. I don't think or believe it's a requirement for happiness because, there's no guarantee one will be happy in marriage.
    You may give it your all, tolerate and endure all only for your partner to come with all soughts and manners of baggage unexpectedly.
    Marriage is a lot, too many rollercoaster. Just sit back, relax and enjoy the ride COURAGEOUSLY. ❤️

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  5. It depends on the person involved.

    As for me, my happiness is not solely dependent on anyone.

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  6. Not at all else so many divorces won't be happening on the daily.

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  7. Absolutely not a requirement. living my happiest moment as a manchelor presently. It all depends on what one things or feels towards it

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  8. No but no one wants to be all alone. Companionship is everything. Loneliness is a terrible thing. Companionship mustn't be with the opposite sex, it could be with a dear friend, children, brother or sister...or even with a contact-based companion as some old bachelor billionaires do. E.g. Playboy Huge Heffernan.(I hope that is the spelling).

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    1. Just to point out, loneliness is different from being alone. One is a physical state and the other is psychological. One can be married yet lonely. (Princess Diana spoke about being married to a prince and surrounded by so many people yet was very lonely.) One can be alone i.e., living alone and not lonely cos they are completely occupied or fulfilled in whatever has their interest.

      ps: But to anyone who is a child of God, even when alone, pls know that you are never alone.

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    2. 18:33 👌👌 couldn't have said it better.

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    3. Pls leave that Princess Diana kind of loneliness, she was wayward & cheating, heart broken Prince Charles got tired of brooding & his siblings encouraged him 2 get back wit Camilla.
      Diana & James Hewitt the Calvary Officer had d steaming roller coaster end in a red haired Prince Harry. While the British family tried all sorts 2 clear the embarrassment,it never left them, he grew into his real dad's replica.
      Now Meghan Markle's two kids are back with full red hairs.
      Who in the Windsor family has red hair? Harry is a Windsor? You wish!!!
      Diana wanted to torchlight outside & she ended in some of the Torchlighting tragically.
      God rest her soul, what you do is remove her name from being lonely. She wasn't,na kpekus de scratch am.


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  9. Not necessarily but one thing you can't beat is knowing that another human being loves you in every way and wants to do right by you.

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  10. In some scenario I think it is. But sincerely nothing beats marrying right and be happy. What to know more from BVs too. Cos I discussed this with my friend's and everyone with different opinions about it.

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    1. My Shooter. Sweet damsel. The finest woman alive after my mum.

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    2. Stella come and see oo another wedding loading.

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    3. What’s going on here??
      Caesar!!!
      Over to you Shooter.
      And, you better not say no.

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    4. You make me blush my king! 😚🥰🥰♥️♥️

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    5. Omo this lomance ( in my Igbo people's voice) is steaming hot. Ceasar+Shoota, odikwa very behuge 🥴🥴🥴

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  12. For those who cannot find happiness within theirselves but for me nope.

    If you are not happy as single you are single as a married person.

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  13. No,we have singles who are more happier than the married ones.

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  14. Happiness is a journey, not a destination. No one is 100% happy every single time. And Happiness depends on circumstances. Marrying well can increase your happiness. But it is too much of a burden to place on another living flawed human being, to make you happy. What if they fail? That's why Jesus says, "Come to me all ye who labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest. Take my yoke and learn from me for I am gentle and humble in spirit and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden light."

    Joy on the other hand does not depend on circumstances. You can be in the worst situation and still be full of joy. Cos it doesn't depend on human beings or circumstances but on the living God.

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  15. It is for those who doesn't love themselves enough and aren't happy within themselves. A happy Person needs not to be married to be "happy". A sad person will also be sad in marriage.

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  16. At all at all. I am in one but never been happy from morning till night. Na lack of money still dey hold me down aswear

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  17. I don't think so. Your happiness lies in your hands.Getting married & hoping your spouse will make you happy is just wishful thinking.

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  18. It is definitely not a requirement but I won’t deny that for some, marriage has also been a source of happiness

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  19. marriage na stress abeg

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  20. It is not a requirement. But I know getting married to the right person brings happiness.

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  21. Nothing external can make a person happy for a long term if the happiness is not inside. Externally influenced happiness is short-lived. That's why people get married, seem happy and after a few months/years, all the hype wears away

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  22. To some it is, especially when the source of happiness is from their significant other. That's why u see a lot of let down, coz that human will disappoint u one day, it's just a matter of time. Only Jesus wont disappoint.

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  23. Different strokes for different folks,but to me marriage is not a requirement to happiness. So many people are married and miserable.

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  24. True happiness comes from God alone. If you don't have him in your life, you cannot be truly happy even if you have a relatively peaceful family and money. You'll still feel like something is missing

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  25. Not at all. Considering if u marry the wrong partner it can lead to more u happiness self!!

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