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  1. Good afternoon BVs, I have very low self esteem and I don't want my daughter (children) to be like me, pls I need tips on raising a child to have a very high self esteem, thank you.

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    1. You need to raise yourself first.
      You cannot pour from an empty cup. Children are constantly imitating their parents.
      Whatever they see you do, they will do. If they see you cowering like a door mat, allowing your husband and everyone else around treat you shabbiliy that is what she will imitate.
      So chin up, start acting walking confident.
      People slouch like slaves, dragging their feet and its so irritating. Read books to boost your confidence, look at women you admire and imitate positive areas you want to replicate in your life.
      Watch movies, listen to podcasts etc etc.
      To make things faster, you can utilise a Confidence Coach.
      I'm happy you understand how important having high esteem is. People lose so many opportunities in life not because of lack of skills but because of lack of confidence.
      Please believe you can become anything you want to be, no matter your age.
      Wish I could offer more advice but my fingers are almost frozen.
      Praying for you.

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    2. Stop trying to impress people on social media. Speak the truth at all times. Don't try to belong. Do the right thing always and teach your kids the same. A clear conscience fears no accusation. In summation, you must be Godly. It doesn't matter what everyone else is doing. Now that is where the problem lies. If you don't want to be a good person full of love to people around you, you can never be happy and you'll always suffer low self esteem.

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  2. What could be the cause of pelvic pain after delivery and possible cure.. scan n xray read everything being ok but I still feel the pain

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    1. Please I noticed I'm now having irregular menstruation, adding weight and I don't see ovulation again but I still see my menstruation. I read it's hormonal imbalance.

      Please how much is the test and how's it done? I want to go for it

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    2. It will go by itself.

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    3. Pls get a second doctors opinion

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    4. Truth is, the pain may never go away. Your hip bones separated during childbirth. E no easy.

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  3. Is there a natural way to detox? If yes, kindly share.

    Is there a natural way for one with a sensitive skin to exfoliate the skin? If yes, pray tell.
    Thanks.

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    1. Drink hot water every morning between 4 and 6 am. Start your day with hot or warm water to detox.

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    2. Warm lemon water and garlic ist thing in the morning or a glass of water with a spoon of apple cider vinegar. Google other ways of detoxing with fruit and vegetable juices and smoothies. All the best

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  4. Pls recommend a good cornflakes, Kelloggs is not what it used to be and infinity is too strong

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    1. Please dont use the local Kellogs ,thsts complete chaff/cardboard.
      Fruit &Fiber is nice

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    2. Please, what's the best swallow to substitutes carbohydrate? Someone mentioned oats meal but I don't know how to prepare it. I only know of plantains meals. Please kindly help a sister, please.🙏🏼

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    3. I love Nasco..i feel it beats all other brands

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    4. Hi Apple of God's eyes, I prepare my oat swallow same way with semo,set the pot with the quantity of water on your gas/stove, allow to boil,then Pour blended powdered oat into the pot,and start stirring with turning spoon.Stir till it starts to form and solidifies into swallow,serve and eat with any soup of your choice.

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    5. Oat swallow is easy to prepare. Blend the oat flakes, bring your water to boil and add some of the powder and turn like your normal poundo. Once its well mixed, add some hot water, cover and allow to cook for five minutes, turn mixture again and your oatmeal is ready. Note that you shouldn't make your mixture too thick as oat swallow gains solidity as it cools.


      Option two is to bring your water to boil, make a paste using the oat flour and add to the boiling water. Stir until it becomes thick/solid.

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    6. I love Nasco too anon. I moved back to Nigeria from the UK and was surprised by how much better the Nigerian cornflakes is.

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  5. If you update iPhone 6 to ios12.5.5 will the camera quality be updated too?

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  6. I started having blackish discharge four days to My period, should I be worried?

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    1. Blackish discharge?does it smell bad? WOW... women are really not having it easy.. please see a doctor to ascertain if its normal...

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    2. Dear BVs pls what do you think of the saving app, pig** v***? I just downloaded it to start saving, do you think it’s legit?
      Do you advise me to start using it?

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    3. Anon asking about piggy v**t, yes it is. I have been using for 6 yrs now.. They also have great saving options with interest

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    4. Google it. There are many articles on black discharge

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    5. I've been using piggyvest for about 2yrs now and it's a really nice saving app.

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    6. Thank you very much annon and Fidel that answered me on piggyvest. Nagode.

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  7. If my money does not finish, my husband will not rest. Each time he notice I have been paid. He will bring up issues that will finish the money. He knows my salary. We are TTC. What can I do.

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    1. These are the serpent husbands that we fast and pray against. Tell him you recieved a salary cut. If you are earning 100k, tell him you are now earning 55k.
      That 45k, save it in an account for rainy day. Do not touch that money and make sure there is no ATM attached to the account. Remaining 55 remove 15. Save that aside for yourself after all you worked for your money are you not supposed to chop out of it?
      The last 40, use it for the family, since your husband will not let you drink water drop cop untop of your own salary.
      Hope he brings something to the table apart from penis?
      Otherwise you are only married to yourself with a job description.

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    2. Start a fixed deposit. When they pay you, leave only a minimal amount of money in your account. Please start saving seriously. You don't have a child yet, he can dump you anytime.

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    3. If you like don't start saving your money without him knowing,why will he notice you have been paid, please receive sense, and start telling him your company slashed your pay, then save the rest.



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    4. Hide or open another account and save some there, tell him it's for your savings anytime he asks, men are like that

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    5. Have a plan for the money before it comes. As long as he’s not forcing it from your hand, you are simply buying peace or life by giving it to him

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    6. Anon that one na real serpent husband o..

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  8. Please I have not seen or heard from my husband going to a month now,he left me here at the asylum center…He doesn’t even pick my calls,he doesn’t read my WhatsApp messages….I have hospital appointment tomorrow and they need his details,I don’t know his ID card…What do I do?

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    1. Go to the people in charge of the asylum and tell them about it. You have a higher chance for asylum as a single mother. Don't lie to them.

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    2. Please I need contact of someone who is very good with writing SOPs for canada study permit. Not someone that will do copy and paste. Kindly recommend fam

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    3. Anon for SOP don't know if stella will post. I know someone

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    4. You are meant to write your statement of purpose, not get someone to write for you. Nigerians, we really need to do away with such things.

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  9. My son has a very rough skin. His skin is always full of rashes and when it's rashes free, it's not smooth or nice. He scratches the skin so much that it peels especially whenever he gets bitten by mosquito. He has so many dark spots on his skin too. What can I use?

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    1. Instead of testing testing your sons skin till he looks like a mongrel, take him to dermatologist. I mean basic common sense should have told you that. I can only imagine how that innocent boy is suffering especially during the heat.

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    2. Try Aveeno baby, shower gel and lotion

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    3. 14:39 you have bad mouth, haba

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    4. 15:39 But at least not completely empty of any advice to give. Thank you.

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    5. Your son has allergies. You should never let a mosquito or an ant bit him. Mosquito repellents, trousers , long sleeves and mosquito nets should be your best friends. You can use steroid cream . But only sparingly. Give him portion syrup to to calm the itching down

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    6. Anon, you can reply others without being nasty. Being kind costs nothing.

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    7. Anon, you can reply others without being nasty. Being kind costs nothing.

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    8. Please be sure that the cream you're using on him is not a bleaching cream and soap too. Those things give too much wahala.

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  10. Does Wellman fertility drug work for low sperm count issues?

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    1. It works but the man have to make lifestyle changes. No alcohol, sugar and should rest and exercise.

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  11. Please has anyone used green African flight to abuja or lagos from any part of the country? I heard they are cheap

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    1. Yes, I have, they are cheap but their plane is kind of small. And not fast compared to previous airlines I have used in the past. If you have over 7kg of luggage be rest assured you will pay extra for it. It

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    2. Thanks annony, but what do you mean they are not fast? Does it take them up to 2hrs to get to lagos from ph?

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    3. Sebi it is so that you will get from point A to point Z. Even if they take 5 hours, just sleep. When the plane finish crawling in the sky and land you wake yo.u. Simple.

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  12. What causes high platelets which makes blood to clot in sickle cell patient. Depends on aspirin and have done several test with no result in LASUTH. Pls, what natural remedy can be used ?

    Thanks

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    1. LASUTH is not the only hospital in the country. Go for a 2nd ,3rd or 4th opinion from MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS. Before someone advices you to soak salt in ajumbsise.

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    2. Thank you 15:14
      Doctor said doctor said but y’all only go to one. Why? I’m perfectly healthy and I’ve seen 3 in last years. They are just humans. One can’t know everything

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    3. Anon, I hope you realise it's not the 3 different doctors you've seen that makes you "perfectly healthy".

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    4. No the comment means I see different doctors. They are not keeping me healthy. My health is due to God, genetics and a relatively healthy lifestyle. I just don’t really fall sick but I still do regular check ups and not with the same doctor all the time

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    5. Research fetal hemoglobin and watch/follow thatigbomaiden on YouTube/Instagram and ask her questions. She seems to be thriving with the above supplement. Personally I would take advice from a healthy survivor over a doctor.

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  13. What causes high platelets which makes blood to clot in sickle cell patient. Depends on aspirin and have done several test with no result in LASUTH. Pls, what natural remedy can be used ?

    Thanks

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  14. Please i will like to know what my chances of going to service are. I graduated last 2yrs at the age of 28, am 30 now

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    1. You can go even if you are 80, abi no be naija we dey again. Although why you want to go is beyond me. Is suffering to your liking?

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    2. When doing your Nysc registration go to the dashboard and change your date of birth. It's that simple you have nothing to worry about

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    3. NYSC only needs the year you graduated, if your results had been out since that age 28, you will go for service but if your results just come out at age 30, you will be given exemption certificate

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    4. 20:43 Exactly! Which is why you should sincerely zip it.

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    5. 14.40/23.18 hopefully, next time, you will think twice before typing. You are the same one referring to a child as a mongrel. Stop being mean, it's not that hard!

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    6. 1:14 Zip it. Jobless oversabi donatus.

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    7. Just take a good look inwardly and ask yourself why you have to be caustic almost all the time. May you find peace.

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  15. Please between beta woman, wellwoman, biotin chewables and perfectil which one is better for a fresher and younger looking skin. Martins if you can see this please reply me

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    1. Martins kwaa? Ona ele ogwu??



      Martins have suffered for una hand Sha.






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    2. what has martins got to do with this question? i guess cos you always see people reference martins uin their question you then decided to follow suit.

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    3. You go wait make martins come back from Villa ooo, make e come answer you,
      Me I don't have an answer

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    4. Well woman, I guess. I have used it and the result was quite good. Note that you have to do a detox before you go on any of these supplements. Also, you have to watch what you eat, how you eat, sleep well, stay hydrated, use a good sunscreen, take lots of fruits and vegetables and exercise. The funny thing is that if you leave out the supplements from your routine and do all of these things, you would have a beautiful skin.

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    5. Ah for! Sapio, then kuku leave the supplements na.

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  16. Please who knows any nice cream for fair kids??abeg not those ones that causes greenvain

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    1. Vaseline is all my fair self used growing up

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    2. Try get Sebamed baby cream you will love it.

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    3. What happened to Vaseline, pears, boots, Johnson ?. Be looking for nice cream until you damage your childrens skin beyond repair before they’re even 18. If any of the lotions I listed there is darkening your kids , so what? Person wey fair don fair. Nothing like this cream dey make me dark. That phrase simply means you were on a bleaching mode before but stopped.

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    4. Just so you know, some people have green veins naturally. I am one of them. I have been that way since childhood. I don't use bleaching products. Use products without bleaching agents. Let the kids be who they are naturally.

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  17. Please house help meooo. I have this lovely neighbor. But recently I notice that she has spots all over her face , down to her shoulder. When I enquire: She told me its usually come out any time she's in her monthly flow. But will disappear afterwards.
    I don' t know if there's any advice I can get cause the last time I checked, the spots were still on her even after the monthly flow.
    I feel bad for this cause she's a very lovely lady and hard working too. Am just worried about that, Help us in any way you can please.

    Thanks and Thank you Stella for this post.

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    1. Madam you are kind and thoughtful but please face front.
      You are not a dermatologist, esthetican etc. Don't go and recommend what will turn her to a masquerade.
      The best you can do is advice her to visit a qualified dermatologist.

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    2. Tell her to go for blood test o,and fast

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    3. Oversabi neighbour, mind your business.
      It’s her face and her body and if it bothers her she will do something about it or ask for your help.

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  18. I want to go into event planning please who can recommend a good event planner I can learn with here in Lagos for a very moderate cost. On the Island to be precise

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  19. I was looking for that comment on Qui + lotion that Martins made ( not sure that is the spelling) I just discovered there are 6 variants so which one is it.
    And it costs 20k yeah? Thats the price I'm seeing her o.
    I'm actually just wondering what the hype is though is it that nice?

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    1. So your question is whether it's nice right?
      Yes, they said it's nice.

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    2. QEI+. Nice product and the prices vary. I used Oriental and the soap, it’s really nice on my skin.

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    3. Qei lotion

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    4. That cream will damage your skin in the long run

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    5. Thank you Fidel, SluttyvChic, 18:20 and 18:44

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  20. What can i use to wash my hair apart frm shampoo,mine is finished n dnt want to wash in d salon to save cost as am broke.thanx.

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    1. Use bath soap. Not bleaching soap o and make sure you prepoo before and condition after. You can condition eith oil.

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    2. You can make a sulphate-free shampoo using dudu osun soap. Grate dudu osun soap, add some water. 500ml for one bar of dudu osun soap will do. Allow it melt, add about 10 MLs olive oil/coconut oil or kernel oil and mint leaves (dry preferably. Keep this overnight. Drain the next day and put to use.

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    3. Thanx all.

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  21. How can I download WhatsApp and zoom on my laptop please?

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    1. Let's assume your laptop runs on windows 10, search for zoom apk or WhatsApp apk for windows 10. Download the and then install.

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  22. Hi Martins, you talked about Eva gold Soap, and how it a nice soap, I'm fair and having breakouts, I want to try the eva soap, how do I know the cotonou made you talked about? , abi how do i spot the original one? , I want to buy it today. Thanks

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    1. Jennifer lopez secret transparent soap is good for both dark and fair skin, cos of the price I divide it into, use one part first before the other.

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    2. Eva soap will not treat bad skin. Get a face wash, toner, vit c, niacinamide, sunscreen, etc

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  23. Good day blogfam
    Please l need an advice on business l can be doing from the home with 3ok..
    Make hunger no kill person for here.

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    1. Find an IT class. Sign up on fiverr online

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  24. Please how much is the smallest gas cylinder? The portable gas cylinder that students use in hostels.

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  25. My EDD is early June, we are still in April and I am twice as heavy, I can't even walk far again, can't sleep well again, isn't it too early. Lord please help me o

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    1. Relax your mind
      God is in control, don't allow fear to come in
      You will be fine ☺️☺️

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    2. April is almost over

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  26. Please don’t see my comment and pass. I menstruate every month. But I don’t think I ovulate. I saw the cervical mucus 4months ago.. My partner says he’s been depositing into me but how come no pregnancy that I should consult a medical personnel. Pls what could be the issue?

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    1. He could be shooting blanks. This pressure sef is another thing. It could be nothing tho. See a doctor if you must but I think they usually wait 1yr or so before these consultations.

      It's not all cervical mucus that's ovulation btw.

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    2. First, get an ovulation prediction kit, track your basal body temperature and get a fertility friendly lubricant. Most importantly, relax your mind.

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    3. Lol you ovulate for sure. But 4 months is not long enough to be declared as having problems with fertility. You are usually told to try for at least a year. However if you want to, you can do see a doctor and both of you get tested to know if or what treatment you need

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  27. Please I want to do drop box for my parents at US embassy Nigeria. Can someone tell me the procedure? Thanks

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    1. Make sure you create an email for them first.
      Go to www.dropbox.com and sign up
      Create an account on dropbox.com.
      Type your name and email address (your email address is the username for your Dropbox account).
      Type a unique password.
      Click the box to agree to the Dropbox terms.
      Click Create an account.

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  28. Please who knows if they still request for covid 19 tests from other countries at the Nigerian airport?

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    1. Just checking the embassy website and your airline too

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  29. Is there any international hospital in Lagos where one can go for medical, waiting for Canadian immigration to ask me for medical.

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    1. They tell you where to go do just wait

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  30. Whenever I get pregnant and it reaches 3months the baby dies in the womb. Scan will always detect no heart beat, baby dies in the womb and I will have miscarriage. Please, what could be the cause. In less than one year now I have had two miscarriages.

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    1. Check Rhesus factor

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    2. Anti phospholipid syndrome.”, rhesus incompatibility, infections, etc

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    3. Check RH factor as someone mentioned but two times is not whenever. I thought I’d see like 3 or more

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    4. Please check your prolactin as well

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  31. Check your rhesus factor and your husband's...it's most likely incompatible..you might need rhogam injection..

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  32. Please how can l know when I dey ovulate after my period. My period last for 6 to 7 days, l don't know when l am ovulating. I got married November last year, everybody is asking me how far.

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    1. install those period app from playstore.

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    2. Best is to buy an ovulation kit. Check online. It is quite precise. Also you can look online for an ovulation date calculator that you can use for free

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    3. 18:44, download flo app from play store and sign in. Input your last period date,it will show you your ovulation time.

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    4. @18:44, you start counting from when you started your period. For example if your period started on the first of April,you count from that day. Please try and trace your period from the month of January to April to know your circle,this is to know if you have 26 or 28 days circle. If your circle is 28 days then it means you ovulate on the 14th day from when you started your period.

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  33. Please who knows where I can change the wrong name on my NIN and where can I do it in portharcourt and cost pls🙏

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    1. Ask for NIMC office in your locality. They will do it there for a fee

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  34. What can i use to clear pimples on my chest

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  35. How long does one menstruate after D and C. I had it middle of last month but yet to see my period

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