FRIDAY In House News...

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IN HOUSE MEMO

How is every wan doing?

I just had a conversation on WhatsApp with someone who teaches primary school pupils and oh my God, please NO!!!

IT IS NOT BY FORCE TO BE A TEACHER OOOOOOH, later when they are sacked, they will be protesting .

How can someone boldly tell me that a boy is she and a girl is he and then gave examples? or was she joking? I am not perfect but at least i am not a teacher, haba!

Today i want to bless someone with my small giving........ BV Alexa, I like your name, send me a mail......... I will bless someone again from this post or Saturday spontaneous post...

Those of you arguing over that organic harvest stuff, please take it easy and let us wait to hear from them when they come out, I am trying not to have an opinion because i have seen people go the extra mile for the love they have for their kids......Not saying its right but that how the love is.....

Enjoy your day, let me go and look for what to eat this lovely Friday..... See you in the night amebo post....

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PINKYS CORNER

Wahala no dey finish 

There is a lady around my area who is very close to me(call her Debby). She is a  hairdresser but has no shop yet. She was 28years old two months ago.


She got disvirgined by a married man last month(don't ask me how I got to know cuz it's another story line). This man is around 58+, when they met, she told me and I advised her never to engage in dating married men and also, she should consider the fact that, she is a virgin and for her to have kept herself that long, she shouldn't give it to a married man but wait for her own man.


I never knew all I said was not even taken by her, so, when she was disflowered, she came to my POS stand and told me how it happened because she took me as her street brother.


Fast forward to yesterday, I saw her friend and asked her about this Debby because it's been two weeks I set my eyes on her. She said, Debby is presently in police station and I asked her why? what happened? when?. And she gisted me what happened.


She asked me if I know the man Debby was dating, I said yes, then she said the man died on Debby's laps . She said, Debby and the man went somewhere to get phone charger (note: the man bought Debby a phone on 11th of may). They both went to get a charger for the man's phone, when they got there, they both sat on a bench at the sellers shop. They got the charger and paid, the seller went outside to get their change for them when the man said he is tired and wants to relax a bit and he laid his head on Debby's laps.


The seller came back with their change and Debby was trying to wake the man up but baba had kicked the bucket. They tried to wake him up but all to no avail, they rushed him to a nearby hospital but baba was dead on arrival.

They called the wife and some family members and immediately Debby was arrested . Debby's friend said the mum came all the way from Ekiti because of this issue and the man's family has demanded for autopsy before they will decide on what to do.

You need to see this lady, she is so pretty but it's a pity. I pray God helps her mum to get through the stress. I am sure she has learnt in a very hard way now.


People are dying anyhow and we all need to be careful.

He was probably excited that when they leave the shop, they would head up to where they would enjoy and the excitement probably killed him, imagine put his head on her laps...

May his soul rest in peace....

 

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FROM THURSDAY SPONTANEOUS POST

Stellz I greet u and all bvs This issue of being dirty is my present predicament. My mother has frustrated/keeps frustrating my effort to keep the house in order. One time I came home (i school in another sate)the whole house was a disaster. Everywhere was a mess, stella u need to see what I'm saying.

 I eventually found workers to come and clean the house because I couldn't do it alone at that point. (It was not a day's job even with extra hands). Would u believe when I came back everything was back to how it was, I couldn't cry. I hate living like this. 

Everyone is minding their business, my father hardly comes around because of this, and I'm the only one left at home with her. This issue is really affecting my relationship with her because I'm trying to start fruit parfait business but I'm hesitant, before some one will see big cockroach or rat poop in their stuff. It wasn't this bad growing up, I really don't know what happened.

 I try not to emulate her habits and always avoid going back home. Pls what do I do I'm confused and tired. Pls don't post if I'm not anon. Thanks




She may have some form of illness that is making her not recognize the dirt, she may be depressed... it is definitely not normal.. Instead of your father to look for a solution, he is staying away, naija men for you.

Please just be patient and keep cleaning, I aw a documentary of someone who became like this over time and she went through therapy before she healed.

Dont abandon her like the others did please.

I miss my mum sometimes...its been 22 years.

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