This Post is for confessing some bad things we need to get off our chest.... It is normally full of comments so shocking that you will be left with no choice but to think the commenters are lying...
What do you want to get off your chest? Its been a while oh!
Remember that all confessions are made as Anonymous ooooh...
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I die here today 🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
I am a married woman with two sugar daddies.
ReplyDeleteHubby is broke, his salary is barely enough and these two sugar daddies have been very supportive.
Hubby thinks I work from home as a content and ghost writer, not knowing I am jobless and my sugar daddies pay me every month.
One is in Nigeria while the other lives with his family in the US. He comes home twice in a year.
They are both aware that I am married with 2 kids and they don't mind.
The one in the US buys stuffs for my kids anytime he is coming to Nigeria.
The truth is, I don't feel guilty. I pray God forgives me.
Interesting much
DeleteThere is a reason you ain’t guilty, your man is probably a cheater too. If I have the opportunity to cheat on who I call my husband, I will not have any atom of guilt. He has so cheated on my that I’m beginning to feel something is wrong with me. Can’t wait to leave this country for him.
DeleteAmen 😱
DeleteYou for find single sugar boys na or divorcées/ widowers, I don’t like that you’re sleeping with married men.
DeleteFan Emmanuel
I can’t even blame you. As I am now I wish my mind can even carry to get one. Atleast you are doing it to help your hubby with bills and take care of your children unlike the husbands that do it for fun and even spending family resources on the side chicks
DeleteGod forgive me, if I see any man that will be helping financially I will so date him. Yes and married with kids.
DeleteFan, sugar boys you say..., the way they will be billing her henn...I got one cos of reasons similar to these, the way the guy was billing me. He said I should be crediting his account every month for his services. I will pay for hotel, give upkeep, still pay him every month. Nobody told me before I Japa . Abeg, please stay with your Sugar Daddies.
DeleteWho am I to judge you. But sha you get mind ooo. Please in whatever you do,don't use their money to cook for your hubby, use the money to flex alone. Its your sweat
DeleteNa who be the master? Men should take the back seat jor.
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😅😅
DeleteIt's no longer a funny thing. So women are now the master.
Lol @
Delete"Hubby thinks I work from home as a content and ghost writer, "
Nne pls cheat on. What a man can do....
DeleteJust don't get caught.
If my hubby was a cheat or a useless man, I would have cheated on him too cos I do fantasize being with another man for a change but the poor man is nothing but good to me, na only poor he poor.
Madame, ask Almighty God not just to forgive u but to help u stop that thing u are doing. It is wrong. Period!
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣 na only poor your husband poor. You still have conscience. Some women cheat on their good poor husbands because of money
DeleteAnd her husband will be bragging about how smart his wife is, how industrious she is, supporting him by working from home to take care of the kids. He would encourage some other young girls to go into the industry.
DeleteI don’t blame you jare. Just ensure that you tell NO ONE.
hubby is broke and lazy and of course as you dey bring he will not do much to bring bread home....truth be told God cannot forgive an unrepentant heart so stop deceiving yourself.
DeleteBeen in a relationship for 3 years now, I don't find my girlfriend attractive anymore. As a matter of fact, we stop having sex like 6months ago, she thinks am cheating but truth is, am addicted to Porn and I masturbate a whole lot.
ReplyDeleteThis is why I hate long-term relationships,many of those don't work out,I pray she finds someone serious
DeleteYou can be free. Porn is life destructive
DeleteI feel so sad for you. This is what porn does to relationships and marriages. May God deliver you.
DeleteWhy not open up to her, she might be of help. Remember you can't live right that forever.
DeleteAda my dear be of help how?? To rub the Amu during the masturbation???
DeleteHahahahhahahahahaa....Anon 16.22 leave me you hear
DeleteFree the innocent girl so she can find love elsewhere.
DeletePlease give her signals that you have lost interest in her.
DeleteIs there no way you both can rekindle the love? Or you have seen other girls wey sabi package well your eyes don dey chook. Tell her to change her dress style for good if that's the case . I have seen guys I know gossip about a girl they left because she doesn't dress like a chick... Those girls you are admiring outside because of how they package themselves do you know who is bankrolling them? Naso una go leave good girl because of simple dressing. There is nothing wrong if you buy good outfits for her and you will be surprised how her appearance will improve.
The only fantasy I have now is to cheat on my husband. I really need tips on how to get side cock. Atleast if person wey marry me no gree share reach me let me stretch leg go outside
ReplyDeleteWe are in the same boat.
DeleteWe plenty for the boat. Tho in my own case na me no gree am touch me. He has so cheated that I am not at all attracted to him again.
DeleteWhy not walk out of the marriage so you can have your freedom.
DeleteI will not walk out kankan, he must raise his 3kids, I’m not bothered by him. He is satisfying himself sexually else where and I will do same. He doesn’t have two heads, he is enjoying himself married man living single, why can’t I? Keep ur advice to your self pls.
DeleteNo vex oh... Kwantinu
DeleteAny day my own husband starts misbehaving, he will regret it. let him just keep being a good boy like that. I hate it when a man thinks he can do anyhow and go scot-free because he is a man. I will show you what a scorned woman can do to a man.
DeleteI am not judging you all, but why not divorce and continue with the sugar daddy because you are already living like a single woman
DeleteI'm working with a fake certificate and earning over 200k. Went back to school and got a real degree but can't slot it into my workplace. I pray God keeps protecting me.
ReplyDeleteStart looking for a job in another company with your real certificate. If your current company finds out, you may be blacklisted and tell any future employer that contacts them for reference check.
DeleteKindly resign and look for another job. I just feel like you should confess your sin and make restitution but who am I to tell you what to do?
DeleteSearch for another job with the original one you just got and resign honourably. My cousin was caught and was almost sent to jail. Kicked out like a thief after several years
DeleteThis olumba olumba always reasoning like a di.khead. You keep job for sm for ground wey you dey tell an male she resign??? kposhi kposhi...mtsheew
DeleteOlumba 😅😂 #dead
DeleteIncest turns me on, infact that's the only category of porn that turns me on. Whenever i am having sex with my boyfriend, I'll have to create an incest picture or scenario in my head before i reach orgasm.
ReplyDeleteI am beginning to feel it's not normal.
I am a female btw
It is not normal
DeleteDo deliverance prayers
My dear, I used to be like you...incest turned me on. I couldn't reach orgasm if I didn't think about incest but by praying and fasting God removed this abomination from my mind. It wasn't easy, I kept falling back whenever I was horny until I said enough is enough. I stopped masturbating . Rededicted my life to Christ and it has been 2 years and 7 months since I last masturbated.
DeleteAfter I stopped I realized that things got better for me, new financial doors opened, met awesome people, started my own business after getting my diploma, met a handsome guy who respected my wish to remain virgin until we got married and we are getting married next summer.
But I also did a lot of therapy. I didn't tell my therapist that I was turned by incest because I was embarrassed but with the help of my therapist I opened up about many traumas I had as a kid and later as a teenager and young lady.
This made me realize that it was my childhood trauma that some how manifested in this perverted thoughts.
My dear, you can be free from it, get a therapist that you trust and above all pray, lean on to God, He will surely take away this evil sin from your mind. May God be with you.
I'm a female too by the way..
You mean sex scenarios with your dad or blood brother can turn you on? 😨 No naa, I'm begging you, don't see it as normal.
DeleteWhat!!! Begin to bind and cast oh, before you will incest your son in future as we read in that chronicle.
DeleteI have f##ed two of my cousins and my aunties hus in d past and i feel ashamed,the thing is i have a very high libido so i masturbate too when im horny i hope dere are no consequences.
DeleteMine is not incest,but u always play sex scenario in my mind when having sex,like a husband fucking the maid or the wives younger sis, note I don't really create face for these people I just imagine a random guy fucking someone not his wife, thats the only way I can have orgasm,please is it bad?
DeleteWhatttttttttt
DeleteThese ideas came to your head because of the porn . If you hadn't seen that category of porn you wouldn't have imagined yourself in the act
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DeleteThe devil is really working so hard. What your conscience says is bad is bad. Desist from it at once and save yourself from trauma.
DeleteIt's been 15yrs now being a side dish to my married neighbor. I'm married too so no eyebrows raised. It's just amazing sex, hubby has his own side dish too, another married woman, infact after talking, begging, for him to stop, I decided let go and have fun. He can swear by the gods that I have never strayed, he checks my phone too, married boyfriend knows the rules, no texting or odd calls. Before he calls, he flashes, if I don't call back it means coast is not clear, therefore no calling, and vice versa.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy yourself and play safe dear, we only live once.
DeleteNa wah ooo
DeleteNo time to check time. Hehehehehe
DeleteEnjoy dear. Just don’t get caught!!
DeleteGer her, her trophy
DeleteSome of you here are just pathetic, instead of you to make your own anonymous comments you are busy giving unsolicited advise up and down the comments, if you don’t have anything to say then enjoy reading comments now…what’s all this Aunty adugbo advise y’all giving up n down especially this oversabi @olomo olomo. Let me not type the ins.ult on my mind to you so that Stella will post this.
Delete23:11, so the person trying to reset brains here is the one that's pathetic to u? Lol! To think that some of u join in on the 'unique prayers' posts. U expect those prayers answered with such lack of remorse? Get real.
DeleteDating my manager. Our trysts are often in the office, collect hot xxx at the close of business, go home, bathe and wait for hubby to service me or sleep. Life's good, atleast I'm praised for being a hard-working wife and mom. Lagos is sweet abeg.
ReplyDeleteI'm suspecting one madam and one guy in my office, I have been working on weekends on the past 3 weeks and I run into them all the time, I know they're straffing but I'm minding the business that pays me.
DeleteEnjoy yourself jareeee...
DeleteWho is a saint? But women sha?
DeleteAlomo bitters are you okay?
DeleteWhy spamming the post with your holier than thou comments? Your fellow African men cheat like there is no tomorrow, allow their wives to pay them back in peace. Disappear from this post osiso before I pour you hot water😠
Olomo take ya time before them pour hot water for ya body
DeleteVery non.se*nse person. Olomo bitters or whatever, let the post serve it’s purpose. It’s confession post, allow people be.
Deletenow run along with your holier than thou attitude.
Olumba olumba na you dem dey call 'Alomo'???🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMy only 10yo child is for my boyfriend. My husband is 68, I'm 40, he met me quite young, he can't keep it hard and long any longer and I'm in my prime, and I need it hard and fast, he gave himself thumbs up for knocking me up, blissfully unaware that he ain't the father. At least he gets to feel like a father.
ReplyDeleteWho told you he is not aware? You will be shocked in the nearest future
DeleteI’m tired of my marriage. My husband is not a bad person but we just don’t connect anymore. I’m just saving money now and keeping away, though I don’t even know how to go about divorce or know if divorce would make me happy but I just feel a sense of security knowing I have some funds saved up.
ReplyDeleteI’m just so tired and sad here. And constantly feel like waking up and running away without looking back. I’m pregnant and have no regrets having kids with him because he’s a good father so far.
My hearts keeps yearning for something different. Just had to get this off my chest.
Don’t have any friends atm, and have no one to share my thoughts with either. Constantly sad and down and coping with always trying to numb my feelings but for how long.
Ask him to do something fun
DeleteTravel and rediscover yourselves again
Communication. Tell him you feel disconnected from him and that you'd like more connection. Consciously try to work and improve your marriage. Do things that are fun together, it might seem forced at first but it'll get better. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Pray for guidance too. Pray together as a couple.
DeleteYou are in a bored phase, you crave excitement, your hubby should notice this and try to spice things up, it may also be as a result of your hormones at the moment. Just take things easy.
DeleteDear singles, if you are a spontaneous person please go for someone who excites you. Marriage is a long time to remain bored
Push up (original)
I don't get how someone that was once in love just fall out of love for no reason.
DeleteWhat are your insatiable needs? I guess your hubby is not financially buoyant therefore you have started envying your mates who got married to rich dudes. Or did you just discover that you are not physically attracted to him ?
Maybe you should separate from him, not divorce, to allow you time to discover yourself and see if you can get over it and continue your marriage.
DeleteOlomo bitters, so that you can take her place? They will still drag you by your clitoris on this blog. Let me see you do this rubbish on any confession post again. Jumping from comment to comment, namsense
Delete😁😁😁😁😁🤣
DeleteOlomo is actually a guy, a student in Cyprus (abi e don graduate?)
I've been married for 15 years and now I'm tired. My husband & I have drifted apart. We only talk about the children and mundane things. I'm saving up. I want to leave. I'm been considering dating other men but I'm scared.
ReplyDeleteBut after 15 years with new variables like children, increase financial burden, et al...what exactly were you expecting? Things will change again when the kids grow up and leave even if it's for school.
DeleteWell, I may be wrong sha. But I know my parents had this phase, and now that we are all grown up and out of the house all they do is laugh, play and travel. Right back where they started before kids.
I got married 3 years ago. We don't have kids yet by choice and our marriage is so good - Laughter, travel and love. Deep down we both know when kids and the associated expenses and emotional investment come, a lot will change and that's okay too. Just life and phases.
Again, I may be wrong. Please, just be sure before you do anything major that cannot be undone.
I had 3some for the first time in my life with a married man recently.I felt disgusted but later loosened up to them(him and the other girl).It felt so good coupled with the mouth watering pay.I don't feel guilty and I'm willing to do it over and over again,but I also want to stop because I have a bf and I don't ever want to hurt him.I'm on the fence.
ReplyDeleteI don't know why I've never said No to bad ideas,infact I love bad.
Dear anonymous, threesome is on my bucket list and can't wait to engage in it with trusted peeps. I don't mind if we link up.
DeleteI love bad. I can't wait to try 3some too. You are doing well.
DeleteAnonymous you are enjoying what's on my bucket list. I can't wait to do it with trusted peeps. Wish there was a way to link up
DeleteBad lovers
DeleteHope you did HIV tests before engaging in it
DeletePeople REPENT. U are going down a dark tunnel. Na like so devil dey sugarcoat.
DeletePray una no go dey love bad, enter ritualist den.
Delete'Word's enough for the wise.
This post is lacking the "night flavour"
ReplyDelete🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶
My mum made me leave my boyfriend years ago. He's married now but has agreed to give me a child since I can't seem to settle down and age is no longer on my side. Am not going to marry him,I just want to have someone to call me mother
ReplyDeleteI feel for yiu. Pls go ahead. Every woman deserves a child
DeleteAnon 15:10, find a single man to pregnant u nah, do u want to cause ur fellow woman pain kai, pity the innocent woman nah
DeleteOvoko! Church agbasala
DeleteBiko go ahead and have a child for him.
DeleteNawa oo
ReplyDeleteMarried women dey cheat oo
Omo na me still dey dull
Fan Emmanuel
Lol
DeleteIf them play everybody tape, world go just end.
DeleteI just hope if I start cheating on my husband, people will not call me a bad woman...I am just tired of looking for job...make dis man help me tell his ogas to help me with work( he is a builder), he no gree saying he will prefer me doing business, bring money for business...no money
ReplyDeleteDespite d fact I DNT work, d little money I see, I do contribution in 3places, one of d contribution is monthly which I collect every month to get whatever we need at home while d others are yearly for foodstuffs...d foodstuffs own is my only consolation for dis year at least I will have two bags of rice and some other things inclusive.
Yesterday was d saddest day of my life, while trying to make yam sauce for my son to take to school, my gas finished and I had no Kobo with me, called my husband to send money, he said he had no money at all with him...my son had to stay back yesterday, even till night we couldn't get money to fill dat gas not until dis morning I was able to get 2k from a friend, I had to fill 2kg..
Na yesterday I know say it's good to have ur own money as a woman, my son was starving and I couldn't help...I know he doesn't have but find me work or money for business, so I can at least be helping him to relief him some expenses...I no see anything..God knows I dey try my best sha
Hian, madam don’t tell me this happened, pls start looking for something fast fast
DeleteIf he doesn't get a job for you you can search for a job yourself
DeleteMy sist asked her husband to search for job since he has the connections but he refused, he said he doesn't want her to work so that other men won't trespass. Since he refused to help her, she decided to do it herself even when she was heavily pregnant o. She submitted her CVs to different places. Even federal government Jobs were not left out
Kindly go out and source for jobs. Search online too
DeletePlease look for a little job elsewhere and stop looking up to ur husband for connection to get a job. Look for a job even if it’s teaching,receptionist,cleaner,front desk clerk,cook at an eatery,or start a small side hustle. This money you are saving yearly collect it at the end of the year enter trade fair or any big market around you and find what is cheap there that U can sell in ur area to make little profit. Stop waiting for ur husband to connect you, try and hustle for yourself.Imagine not eating al day cos you can’t afford to fill gas. Even business is not easy but encourage yourself,either you look for a small job to do,or start a small scale business. Don’t worry God will bless your efforts.
DeleteAre your hands crippled what is eith the incessant he should find me work like a spoilt brat'. Even if you are not educated there are jobs you can get with your SSCE .
DeleteSo why are you waiting for a man to fetch a job for you, are you mentally incapable of doing so yourself?
Hunger never wire you and you've never seen the personal need for self respect.
Otherwise it wouldn't be November 2022 that you suddenly discover that it is necessary for every woman to have their own money and not be dependant on others, like some rocket scientish theory has just been discovered by you.
I’m female but addicted to gay porn. Pls house help me, I want to stop😥😥
ReplyDeleteWhat’s wrong with that? I’m female and I love watching gay porn. Wish I could watch 2 guys in real life.
DeleteYou're not alone on this. Gay and shemale porn turns me on
DeleteDon't listen to that anon 16:27 .
DeleteSomebody came to find a way out because she is not comfortable doing it and the best advice you can give is that there is nothing bad in it.
That you find pleasure in them doesn't make then right. You should mind what you feed your mind with. Those things can never be healthy to the mind no matter how interesting it may seem to you. Even bible talk am so who are we to refute it? That aside.
Since you have interest in gay porn and you are already falling in love with their style I hope you won't feel bad is you are blessed with a kid or kids that turned out to be gay in future? This life is full of mystery.
Those things are bad if your are a Christian but if you are not a Christian please do what you feel you are OK with, na you sabi.
What do you feed your eyes and mind with?
Matthew 6:22-23
“The eye is the lamp of the body. So, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light, but if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light in you is darkness, how great is the darkness!
Psalm 119:37
Turn my eyes from looking at worthless things; and give me life in your ways.
1 Peter 5:8-9
Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world.
Proverbs 4:23
Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.
Job 31:1
“I have made a covenant with my eyes; how then could I gaze at a virgin?
Galatians 5:24
And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.
Lol hello my fellow group members.. I also get turned on by them and I’m a female too
DeletePut it in prayer. Sincere prayer. Ask God to kill the desire in u and help u stop as u can't do it on ur own.
DeleteMy husband broke my heart and made marriage disgusting for me.Though I am planning to leave him, I have 4children with him,the fact is I now hate men with passion I see them as the same
ReplyDeleteI am in my early 30, people who know what I I have been through do advice me to divorce him and give another marriage a trial but hell no,my children are now my priority
How will u cope alone with the 4 children?
DeleteDon’t mind her anon. He’s a bad man yet you birthed 4 kids with him
DeleteMaybe she already had the kids before the man misbehaved. Men will stain your white. If you cannot stay under the same roof with him anymore, you can separate from him
DeleteHad an affair with a family friend, due to husband no chalant attitude and love was no longer there then, The affair was fun, sex was crazy but I was always feeling guilty. I had to stop when the mind no let me rest. Now husband and l are back in love and I regret ever cheating on him
ReplyDeleteConfess ur sins to God, he will take the guilty feelings away.
DeleteYou did what you always wanted to do. Dont put the blame on your husband.
DeleteAsk God to forgive you and move on with your life,don’t go back to it anymore,and never try to confess to your husband,close your mouth and face front. For all we know ur husband must have been cheating too while you both had issues,As long as there is peace now,focus on ur marriage and face front.
DeleteVahleree, you were making sense till you said "For all we know, your husband must have been cheating too while you both had issues"
DeleteWhat's this modern trend of turning things around and blaming the male gender, even when he is not in the wrong. I don't get it all. The Poster never said her husband cheated, but you've stayed in that your house and concluded that her husband was cheating on her when they were estranged.
What's with this modern man hating abeg?
Na better gbola dey hungry me. I need a sugar daddy with cash.
ReplyDeleteMust all Una secret be sex related haba.... Mine is I have like 10million saved but live like a salary earner. Shared 3 girls this year and they broke up cos they thought I was a simple salary earner. I work hard like they want to sack me soon but change jobs every 6months. With 2 months of no work beige the new one. How? The cash is not yahoo, it's house sales , and PMS sales in quantum. And just 28. Once I hit 20m in 6months na USA ...
ReplyDeleteAs in eh , meaningless secrets.
DeleteNothing tangible. Sex sex sex, as if their whole world revolves around penis. So tiring to read abeg.
You're doing well
DeleteI read somewhere that bad men can steal ones glory through sex. I am single and in my late 40s by the way and haven't had sex since 2014. I just fear men and also heartbreaks
ReplyDeleteToo many people don't know that, Havingd sex is a spiritual thing, becos a seed is being transferred to you as a woman, and that seed is from God, meaning that anything either good or bad can happen during sexual acts
DeleteWhat can you say about stagnant virgin? Who stole their own glory? Abeg fuck if u wan fuck,just be careful
DeleteWear condom ,the seed go hang for there
DeleteRefrain from extramarital sex if u have fear of God.
DeleteHahaha @ 20:17 you are funny. Condom is man made, A seed of God is not made to be splitting on the ground. If you know the meaning of sex you wouldn't think of sleeping with different people..
DeleteAnon 16:26...what are you bringing to the table pls?
ReplyDeleteI will be bringing care and attention.
DeleteNawaoo
DeleteHow can you be dating a married man who doesn't want to be dolling out cash? If you can't spend Money stay with your wife. Not dropping20k, 10k for what?? Extra martial affairs is expensive,if you can't afford it ,stay faithful
ReplyDeleteYour choice to make. Collect the money or leave an
DeleteMy childhood friend helped me get a job in the company where her husband work. I was working directly under him and we both became close to the extend I discuss everything about myself, help and him too discuss things with me.
ReplyDeleteI didn't know he was catching feelings for me so one time we traveled for a function and after the function we went to club. From clubbing we got drunk and ended up in the same room, bed and before you know it we both got together and it happened.
After that night I was ashamed of myself and we apologized to each other but work has to continue. He started demanding for more sex which I have to give in cos I was afraid of losing my job. After a some months he was transferred to another state and that became my break through.
Since they left my state to their new location nothing of sex has ever happened. He called one time that his flight will be so so in my state but me switched off my phone cos I don't want anything. He cannot make me to lose my job cos I have boss who are higher than him. I regret it till date but I cannot tell my friend about this cos this will destroy her.
I wish this whole ish will be wiped off my head but happy it stopped already. She has been angry that I don't want to come and visit her didn't know shame has not let me to come and see her. I know all has ended but the shame is still in my head.
Reason why I don’t have friends
Delete19:19 I though you were going to say reason I dont have a husband lposho kposhi 🚶♀️
DeleteSee life? Person help you, you repaid her with evil. This is why I don’t trust all these childhood friends who are always in trouble. They are not good people and always get stuck in their own mess
Deleteher husband too is a hegoat and has his blame...thank God you have repented from it so dont ever try it again. just be ready to bear the consequences of whenever she hears...when the bible emphasises of fleeing appearances of evil this is it...stop hanging around places or people that can make you commit sin...why go on an outing with someone's husband? learn to set boundaries going forward.
DeleteHmmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteCan I even type sef..
It is well
One of my friend in Abuja. We had issues recently. Her husband has a baby mama. Recently I snooped on my husband phone and saw that the man has impregnated another lady, though he didn’t tell my husband but another of their friend told my husband and that one said my husband should not talk, that the guy said my husband will stop being friend with him. That one now told my husband. I’m pained. Although this man takes care of the house but his recently broke and this lady has been the one taking care of the home. Men Will stain your white. I’m tempted to show her the message cos I screenshot ig and sent it to my phone.
ReplyDeleteAlot of you should know by now that your destinies and glory have been tampered with. The reason why some of your husband's,wives and kids ain't seeing headways Is because of few minutes of pleasure. If only you know what you as a person represent spiritually in this world there are decisions you should not take physically. I am not a Christian by the way
ReplyDeleteI realised that my feeling for my ex whom we couldn't get married because of intertribal differences I tried to cut off communication with him for almost a decade but we started talking like 3yrs ago though we are both married but our feelings are still very strong for each other. I don't feel any love for my husband coupled with the fact that he is totally not my kind of man. I wonder how I even accepted him and feel like he just took advantage of my condition then knowing that I could only marry from my tribe. I did not heal from the heart break and accepted him. Infact I am currently having extramarital affair with him and wish we could get married. My heart beats only for him
ReplyDeleteMadam face front, stay in one place and leave the other. If you want to be with your husband please be with him, if you do not love your husband again just divorce him so that you can be with who you love.
DeleteHave it at the back of your mind that when you divorce your husband and your bf reject you or refuse to marry you, then your eyes will open.
Stay with your husband, end whatever you are having with your ex.
Ypu can be having fun with him and still maintain your marriage.
DeleteHmnn. This life no balance at all
DeleteDon't listen to advisers that can lead u to writing 'Chronicles'. Madame, flee from temptation before it's late.
DeleteThat's why God will continue to punish you. Useless human being. He took advantage of you? He kidnapped and married you abi? Go and fork your ex na. Your eye go clear. A generation of useless harlots posing as married women. God will disgrace you all
DeleteWhere do I start from? I am married,with kids.sex is so boring he can't last more than 5 mins while I on d Oda hand am a sex addict.my libido is like that of a horse.i can ride all night .I have bin faithful and it's killing mi inside,I cry every Oda day bcos am sexstarved.i hate it wen he comes for me bcos it's a waste of time.dis has bin my life for 14years.now I met a man who doesn't care about my being married. I don't know what to do.am desperately in nid of good sex.
ReplyDeleteCommunication. Let him know how you feel about his sex life. Tell him plainly that you wish he improves. If the boring sex life is as a result of health challenge you can help him find solution to it
DeleteIf you cheat and get caught, the shame will be on you. Lave the marriage and go after what you want but remember that the grass is not always greener on the other side.
DeleteStart dropping small small sex enhancer drugs in his food any day you want to enjoy a good ride from him. Don't cheat on him since he is faithful and good.
DeleteU're crying because of sex? Bwahahahaha!
DeletePls don't drop anything in ur husband's food without his knowledge. Some ppl don't have the heart for sex enhancers. It can overwhelm them; moreso when u don't know what else he may have taken earlier in the day. Discuss these things openly with him and consult a doctor if he is willing to go that route.
DeleteIs it only the laddies that cheat? Why are the men here not confessing?
ReplyDeleteConfess to what? Their own cheating is a normal thing in Africa, nothing special to confess about.
DeleteNa normal thing for them nah, they believe it's strange to confess to cheating
DeleteConfess what? Nigerian men? Confess the air they breathe?
DeleteConfess to what they dont even hide?
DeleteMy own advice is that married women who are cheating or plan to cheat, pls don't get caught, do it discreetly and don't do it with fuckboys who may keep records of your conversation or videos or audio recordings and blackmail you later. Do it with mature men, preferably those that are okay financially and don't need to extort money from you.
ReplyDeleteYou all know that in this part of the world, women are judged differently for commiting the same sin that men commit, so don't get caught. If you get caught, even your own family that knows how your husband has been cheating on you and even impregnated another woman, that your sweet mum and brother will disown you. I don talk my own.
God will eventually punish you.
DeleteThe way women cheat nooow.. the worst is they cheat with married men and they don't care what their wives are facing.. continue but remember that your dish will be served very soon
ReplyDeleteAnother woman is also cheating with their married husband too😏
DeleteIf the married man is not interested in it. It will not be possible for the other sleep with him.
DeleteThe married men that are also cheating with these married women do not care what the husbands of these women are facing. So both the men and women are to blame. Both genders are now chronic cheats, men started it.
DeleteGoing through these posts, one can now see how ppl easily complicate their lives. It's never just worth it.
ReplyDeleteAll of you should repent from your sins. Hell fire is real!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat's the enssence of getting married, if you know you can't be faithful to your spouse?
ReplyDeleteWhen you as a woman sleeps with different men and gets pregnant, what then happens to your child.......
I'm not judging anybody, but going by the comments made so far..., Some men may not be the biological father of their child.
I want to believe that first sentence is addressed to men as well.
DeleteYes! Both men and women.
DeleteJesus Christ of Nazareth 😲😲😲stella these are your bvs oh
ReplyDeleteThis post always make me to suspect my wife.
ReplyDeleteBros calm down jor. No go find fault for where fault no dey.
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