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Sunday, December 04, 2022

Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Advices Ladies On The Difference Between 'Attention' And 'Intention' From Men

 


 

18 comments:

  1. Pastor K you know that I love your messages, your teaching even your wife's teaching. Most time when you keep declining their offer they will keep disturbing you, but when you eat their money small and they didn't see your break light they will control shift.

    I agree with your message but please help me tell those brothers that when she say no I don't want to have lunch with you, I don't need a gift from you please tell them.

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    1. I don't know why I'm not a "Fan" of this man and his messages.

      I find alot of what he says to be more secular and psychological advice than to be God's word

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  2. I can never accept anything from a man I know I won't date. Especially, if he is asking me out. I live my life, with so much carefulness. But in all, only God helps not by being careful

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  3. With this level of unemployment and hunger, women have turned dating into unemployment and poverty alleviation Programme.

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    1. Easy on women please anonymous πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. Shamefully so

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  4. Say No ke I will keep accepting and accepting. I didn't put a gun to their head to force them to give me the gifts.
    They gave me willingly so why should I turn it down.

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  6. Like I haven't said this a million times here and they'll come giving me all the insults they can think off as they feel I'm knocking their hustle.

    Please collect from every man, don't say no, COLLECT EVERYTHING, and come and cry here when he ask for sex in return..

    This is just common sense, the same way many girls feel you owe them some certain commitment when they give you sex is the same way many men think you owe them sex too when they give you money..

    If you like argue against this from now till next year, it doesn't change anything..

    Only few people are like me that spells out things in details to avoid misunderstandings of expectations from sign language and insinuations.. and the irony of it is that these few people are the most hated because people like to live in deceit..

    E.G:

    People would prefer to invite you to their home under the guise of cooking for you and the babe would pretend to sleep off or see a movie into the night and act shocked that it's too late to leave, then they'll pretend to mistakenly loose control and fvck when their bodies touch eachother on the bed at night, and then start telling themselves it's a mistake in the morning, LOL.. Pretence and deceit..

    But when people like us just go straight out and state why we want the invite them to begin vex for your guts: "what do you take me for? You have no respect for women, you think all women are prostitutes"

    Ol'Boy! πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ€¦

    To each is own

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  7. Everyone has an opinion on man an won matter, pastors focus on spiritual matter biko. Nigerians too like sex and marriage discussion, there are much more important things happening in this life pls.

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    1. We need Martin Luther King Jrs in Nigeria. It’s facing an existential crisis but it’s sex & relationship matter to distract people from the poverty, insecurity and lack of modern infrastructure headlines on a daily basis.

      Nigeria has 70million people living in abject poverty, is a top 20 insecure country on earth, one of the least safe countries on earth etc but we focus on relationship between man & woman? Elijah, Isaiah, Moses, Hosea, Amos, etc and Our savior Jesus always spoke out against injustice! Where are the Elijah’s of God? Sex/relationship talk no dey tire una? Many folks will not marry but everybody needs security, clean water, good roads, jobs, electricity etc. even in an average church many are not married. Where are the civil rights minded ministers and pastors? Without the black American church, it is debatable whether Eleke crescent or its Abuja counterpart will be there or will give half the visas they give. We need voices that will cry out against injustice in the land, the MLKs, the Rev Jackson’s etc! I’m not raining on the nice pastor’s parade, I’m just hoping he gives lends a voice to the voiceless 70million Nigerians with food insecurity.

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  8. I remember this beautiful girl that came to my school in my final year. Every guy was on her case. Until a prominent black axe cultist took her out and bought her gifts. She took all but said No to him going out with her.

    That's when trouble started...this guy said no wahala, return every thing I bought for you or else. She bought the things back but he said NO...that particular one I gave you. Of cos she couldn't and that was how this guy raped her every night for 3months. She will scream and cry but when her neighbors who were male try to save her, his boys will beat them up with cutlass.

    After that, the girl became a pariah cos the guy said as long as she is still in that school, she will date nobody. I graduated and left but I heard the guy was killed by a rival cult group after he tried it with a sister of another rival cult.

    I used this story as a lesson for myself and for my little cousins and others as well.
    Make sure you earn to be able to afford most things in life, know the difference between cheap and expensive. Know your worth always so when men are trying to get your ATTENTION with stuff you can afford, you can easily say no.

    AMETHYST

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  9. True talk. I wish I heard this message before I got into the university. Thank you.

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  10. I remember one that happened to a friend of mine... After collecting his money she still said no, guy man asked her to pay back, at first she thought it was a joke but when he became serious she had no choice than to pay him back which he collected it and gave her space... When you tell some girls something they'll never hear until they have an encounter... Thank God he didn't hurt her and today it's something we both laugh bout😊

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