Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Actor Alexx Ekubo's EX Fancy Acholonu Finally Reveals Why She Broke Up With Him + Says He Asked Her To Sleep With Other Men

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Friday, January 06, 2023

Actor Alexx Ekubo's EX Fancy Acholonu Finally Reveals Why She Broke Up With Him + Says He Asked Her To Sleep With Other Men

This is a Stella Dimoko Korkus Blog Exclusive.

Actor Alexx Ekubo's EX Fiancee Fancy Acholonu has finally opened up to Stella Dimoko Korkus on why she ended her 5 year relationship with him...
The details are shocking and will blow you away.


 



STELLA - Fancy I am Back to ask you more questions....In the last interview, you didnt want to tell why but I will ask you again, why did you break up with Alexx?



FANCY - Stella, I had several reasons why I broke up with him. Alexx is extremely narcissistic. The charming personality he shows to everyone was not who he was to me. Behind those smiles of our happy photos he was always lying, cheating, and gaslighting me. The day after we got engaged, it became worse. He then became more controlling, and verbally abusive. We argued so much and it was close to becoming physical, I was scared of his rage. I told my sister and documented for record sake in case anything happened. I can’t begin to give details of everything that went wrong for me to call it off. But one major red flag that made me devastated was that he told me he won’t sleep with me but I should go and sleep with other men. Imagine telling that to your fiancΓ©e that has kept herself for you for 5 years. At that moment I realized he didn’t truly love me. It started going down hill from there. Emotional abuse.


STELLA - Why did you make the Break up public? why not privately?

FANCY - I didn’t plan to announce I was the one that ended the engagement, I was under a lot of stress. I wish I used different choice of words. It was not my intent to hurt him or spark up controversy. I did ask him to make an amicable statement with me but he ignored me. When he doesn’t get his way, he gives me the silent treatment. Our wedding plans was so public, he was the one that chose the wedding date and announced it publicly so I felt i had to say something because everyone was buying tickets and preparing for the wedding. If Alexx was mature enough to speak to me when things were falling apart instead of focusing on looking perfect on social media, my public statement would have been avoided. But I would have still ended things with him, but done it privately.


STELLA-   There is a voice note of Alexx’ family member saying you lied and told her that you slept with Alexx in January but you told me that it was 5 years and no intimacy... Can you explain this please? You need to speak up, speak up and clear this drama.

FANCY - Stella i did not lie, i have nothing to gain by saying Alexx and I were not intimate for the 5 years we were in a relationship. While I was loyal he constantly cheated. He met me when I was inexperienced so I didn’t mind being celibate I just didn’t think it’ll take 5 years and that the person that insisted on it would be the one cheating. 


STELLA - So this Intimacy the lady talked about when did it happen?

FANCY - We broke up in August 2021 and I blocked him. In January 2022 his aunt contacted me and asked if I could see him before I leave Nigeria. I agreed and unblocked him and he begged to see me for closure, I was hesitant but agreed.

When we met and Alexx confessed a lot of things to me and apologized for everything. Things got emotional so he attempted to be intimate with me for the first time. I was in shock, because he said his religion and journey had stopped him for these 5 years. But love was still there so we proceeded anyway. Before I could even land back in LA the next day he told me he told all his friends and family we had s#x. It seems like the part he left out to them was that it was the first time we tried. It was strange to me how important it was for him to tell everyone around him. He even encouraged me to share with my friends and family. I believe he was proud of himself, but embarrassed at the same time that he never slept with me before. He wouldn’t know how to explain that to his people. The big question for me was, if “religion” is what kept him from doing it in the first place? When everyone is assuming I left because he’s g#y (which I never said) Why is he trying to be intimate now? It was Manipulation. He kept asking me how it was and i had to lie that it was great... I will not go into the embarrassing details of 
what happened
When I reconnected with his family, I still kept this and more from them to protect him like I always do. But seeing as they’re trying to say I’m lying and defending him, I don’t even blame them because Alexx has been lying to them, he lied to me, and he lies to himself.

STELLA - You said something about him cheating and not being able to perform; how in heavens name did you know this?

FANCY - I caught him cheating on me with a curvy foreign women that even offered to pay him money for him to sleep with her. They spent the weekend in a hotel, and she was so angry he couldn’t perform with her so she found out about me on Instagram, and sent me screenshots of their chat exchange in which she called him names and questioned his s#xuality. He apologized to me, and said at least he didn’t cheat technically because he was “celibate” with her. I was even disappointed he didn’t sleep with her to be honest. It would have at least validated some things for me. I should have left him then, but instead I forgave him and kept the relationship going because of love and Codependency.

STELLA -  Alexx‘s family member in that voicenote which has gone viral made claims that Alexx was taking care of you in America : She said he paid your rent in Los Angeles and feeds you with $500 a month? And that your dad Is an Uber driver. Is that true?


FANCY - While modeling, I was a teacher for over 10 years until the school closed during the pandemic. Now I’m the top marketing director of a major company with my own personal businesses while I do modeling on the side. I’m generating over six figures a year with no support from anyone; so I’m doing very well for myself. My late mom would have been so proud of me. My dad owned the most successful transportation business in Nigeria back in the day, he brought his whole family to America where we were all born and raised living very comfortably in Los Angeles.

He’s in his late sixties now; healthy and strong so if he does Uber as a side hustle in the same transportation industry he knows. I don’t see how honest work is something to be laughed at by Alexx’s family. It says a lot about them, trying to discredit me as I choose not to share family secrets about Alexx that’ is a bit messy. As for the $500 a month from Alexx? For 12 months out of 5 years altogether he provided that to me, I didn’t even need it. I just wanted to finally feel provided for by him. I used the money to invest in stocks and teach him to grow our future family finances. Alexx was so impressed by the way I handle finances. The average rent in my neighborhood is $5000 a month. I’ve never needed a man to support me financially because I’m a 
career driven women. It would feel amazing to have a man support me one day, and i can’t wait for that, because I’ll grow the money for both of us. As they say, whatever you give a good woman she’s going to multiply it.

STELLA - Do you have proof of all these? like if you are challenged to bring forth evidence, do you have anything?

FANCY -I have proof of everything. That is why I’m speaking up with confidence. I wouldn’t speak without receipts, that would be careless. But I don’t think receipts are needed to be revealed unless there’s a defamation situation and defense is needed to be presented. I also know my family and friends are very upset with what Alex has put me through. They’re also disappointed in me and I understand: This is emotional abuse so they are sympathetic. they feel the need to share and encourage me to speak up and defend myself. I’m not used to talking too much and that’s why people think I’m talking a lot now. It’s because it’s the first time I’m finally using my voice, I’ve never been truly heard.


STELLA -Why did you even reconsider reconciling if he was so bad to you?

FANCY - Stella, that’s a question many people want to know and I have asked myself that too. With therapy and guidance I now realize It was just a trauma bond, with all of the control he had over me, the silencing my voice, and withholding affection, it made me long for the pot of gold at the end of the tunnel with him but at the end of the day it was just a mirage, nothing was real. Everything was fake. We had history together and, I wasn’t strong enough to let go, he wanted me back badly too but this whole thing was toxic. I’m very grateful to God that I’m free and I can now be myself again.

STELLA - Did he break up with you after you made the second apology post? and why did you make that apology post in the first place? why?

FANCY -No, we were never back together so he didn’t break up with me. I did it to help him, my empathy is so high when someone is hurting ; even if they hurt me I want to fix it. He knows this about me and took advantage. I left him again because we agreed to do the post. We wrote it together and verified with his family. We were working on this for months. It was taking long because I was hesitant and didn’t want to do it. He kept trying to convince me that it would be the only way we can come out to the public and or even be seen as friends publicly. If we were going to reconcile, I believed privately would have been the best, especially because I already made a public apology last August and we were finally becoming friends again.

I was not begging, it was mutual on both sides. I admit to reaching out more to him because his ego was bruised by me so I felt the need to comfort him. On a Friday he expressed he was feeling sick, so i decided to surprise him in Lagos. 
We went to the hospital and i nursed him, we hung out and worked on this apology statement together. I kept trying to convince him that if I go public it might make things worse but he yelled, he begged, he pressured, and reassured me it’ll be fine and I trusted him instead of trusting myself ,now we’re in this public mess.

This apology post was a revenge plot by Alexx and I was too naive to see it. Alexx and his family know I’m a nice girl and he tried to take advantage of me because he thought I would never speak up and stand up for myself. This has been a devastating situation for me.

He went as far as telling me to leave the comments on and not put my location as Nigeria, he knew exactly what he was doing at that moment. His revenge plan was about to happen and I couldn’t see it. why? Cus in these moments he was telling how much he loved me and how he needed this apology post so we can move forward but deep down, he wanted me to feel the pain of being trolled and bullied. He wanted revenge on me for leaving him publicly. It was an ego fix. Once i clicked the share button, the scales fell off my eyes on what he was up to.... 
He changed in an instant. God spoke to me in that moment and asked me to test him by calling on him to see if he would protect me publicly from the brutal trolling i was receiving for throwing myself under the bus for him. Alexx said ''no, welcome to the club Fancy''. He said ''you should feel the pain I went through when you left me''. I asked again please are you going to at least acknowledge the post and he asked me what i wanted him to say and I kept quiet…

As I took the heat and trolls, which was something I’m not used too or felt I deserved, he started posting about his grandmas funeral, she passed away early April 2022, God rest her soul and was buried about 2 weeks before my post. Instead of Acknowledging me, he decided to post her burial and pretend he had no clue what’ was going on with me.

It reminded me of my August apology statement when I apologized the first time, the next day he conveniently posted the new apartment he moved into to make me look irrelevant and desperate for his accomplishments. It surprises me that I know the realities of his life and he continuously disrespected me because I’m a calm person.
I finally started to see the signs and patterns. As he was begging me behind close doors to reconcile because he felt he was getting old and wanted kids. He wanted me to appear publicly as a desperate person who wanted him back. It was all a game.

That was the answer I needed. I ended things with him again, and told him goodbye. He called me several times in fear as I caught him in something he knows about but I ignored him, I blocked him and I am not looking back.

He later on commented on my post which I didn’t even see until it hit the blogs. 
It was a comment as if he didn’t write up the apology himself, he even chose the picture for me to post with that apology. That moment for me, the trauma bond was broken. Control was gone and I finally saw Alexx for who he really was. He is Evil, vindictive, revengeful and bored-line sociopathic. Of course we had good moments, it wasn’t all bad and He might not be like that to everyone but for me this was my experience and reality.

I want everyone to please note that I never in my life publicly called Alexx g#y. I would never out someone if they were; it’s not my place. My statement was everyone should find their happiness and live in their truth, i did not say his truth. That short and bold statement covered everything the lie that my relationship with him was the whole time. With my story you can decide whatever you want to believe about him or me.

My receipts are allowing me to speak and no longer be meek. I'm not trying to tarnish his image, I’m only speaking my truth because he wanted this public apology to trend and hurt me without telling the world the full story behind the scenes. What he did was cruel. I feel he owes me a series of apologies now but i doubt I’ll get that but unlike him I won’t pressure. This year it’s about loving myself, repairing my self esteem, being strong and moving forward.

 STELLA - WOW...
Thank you for granting me another Interview. Any last words? Would you reply again if Alexx puts anything out there again?

FANCY - Thank you too
I will not respond again, this has been draining for me and and i feel I’ve said enough, I am free and I can finally heal and move on.

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    1. Thank you fancy
      The fact that Alex has refused to say anything doesn’t make him innocent, that’s what people always say “oh he isn’t talking, he is so mature”
      What if he isn’t talking cus if he speaks they will provide the receipts.
      And to those asking why she went back like they’ve never been in a relationship where they weren’t treated right and still went back, even some of so called celebs are cheated on, shamed and manipulated and still go back… that’s what trauma does to you, some being have been beaten blue black and still gone back.

      What you people should be asking yourselves is why it was so important for his family and aunty to know he was intimate with her, I have brothers, it’s weird if they came to tell me of their sexual escapades… like why?

      I am so happy she spoke up, cus she’s normally seen as a cool chic doesn’t mean she’s stupid or should be overridden.
      Keeping shut sometimes isn’t the best way, speak up!!!


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    2. She is so eloquent.

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    3. But many people loved him making jokes of other people and insulting them online. He was being praised for being mouthed and savage.

      I always knew it will be hell around him with the way he blabbers.

      As for Fancy; you seem quite childish and also codedly vindictive too!

      Oh well ndi igbo si na adiro acho ogu mma!

      It is well with both of you!

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    4. Such an innocent girl.

      Alex manipulated too much!

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    5. You lied that the sex was great to make him happy abi?
      Hope you used CD? Most of these our guys are walking around with loads of diseases cos they don't wear CD

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    6. Look I think Fancy is telling the truth. Why? Cus if u notice, she said she felt less than a woman because she is skinny and Alexx would cheat with curvier women. Remember how people used to troll her for being yansh less and bony? Why do I think Alexx may have been one of those people trolling her so as to put her in her place. Alexx strikes me as a very coded bully, throwing stones then hiding their hands. He hides it by pretending to be this jovial jokester but I know his type. Let me tell u guys something, Alex was intimidated by this girl’s success and wanted to cut her down to size. Yes!

      Forget something about Igbo men but many Nigerian men don’t want to see their women outshine them in terms of finances. Yet they don’t have what it takes to work hard to surpass a woman’s success. Many black women are far smarter than black men and more accomplished. Instead the men would want to bring the lady down to his level and even under his feet to feed his ego. This is why a girl like Fancy had no business with a street guy like Alexx. Yes! Forget the fine boy, Alexx na hustler. I support Fancy in this because I’ve experienced different versions of Nigerian men trying to humble me and other women to quench their inadequacy.

      I actually am a confident person and make a point to speak words of affirmation to myself because I used to struggle with esteem for so long. Thing is people with low self esteem don’t understand it. One Igbo man toasting me heard this and actually said to my face that I need to be cut down to size. So yeah I know how these psychopaths operate. One minute they do all the lovey lovey next minute they are tearing u down TRYING but failing to make you feel worthless. I say trying Cus no one with low self esteem can make me feel bad. Anyway When that didn’t work, he tried to sleep with my friend hoping that would ruin me. It did quite the opposite.Unlucky for him she showed me the dms. I thanked her n never spoke a word to him after that because I actually felt sorry for him as he seemed so pathetic and childish, stooping so low . Even his messages to my friend gave me the ick. He hoped it would get my attention but just like Fancy said the scales fell from my eyes and he looked to me like the most demonic entity ever. I had to pay him dust for my health because I feel people like that can kill or harm you just to cause you pain and end their own misery.

      Even Alexx is capable of doing anything to ensure his image is pristine. For this Fancys sake she better not try to go back because it may be deadly next time. Yes! At this point I fear for Fancy because a guy in the closet whose family is also in denial calling in random radio stations and shouting all over the place to protect his secret is a very dangerous person. Such can kill to protect his image. ESP with what Fancy has told us. There’s a lady that walked in on 2 men having sex and decided to put them online, as per story time. They offer her. So pls fancy I beg. Let this matter rest finally. Thank you for all the scoop but your life is more important than gist o.

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    7. Because of wetin my eye don see in the hands of naija men, Me I believe her o. Master pretenders. Smoke and mirrors. Don’t be surprised if he brings out another woman to spite fancy n pretend like he doesn’t pay her any mind. U see that thing she put up there about him posting things online and ignoring her apology to make her look dumb and desperate. That one na my ex 101. Always posting things to get reactions from me then pretending to be unaware. It’s called throwing stones then hiding your hands. Alexx thought he was smart by getting a young naive girl he can use for kpali but God had other plans . These kind of people stay far away from them, don’t even add them on social media Cus any interaction they can twist it to lie to people that you still want them so bad. Posting his grandmas burial was a way to play into peoples emotions n make fancy look like a bad person kicking Alexx down when he has just lost his mom. Fear men like Alexx. Quiet but pulling strings behind the scenes. Evil

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    8. Actually fancy’s story has been consistent all thru. If u notice she said the 5 years they were dating they didn’t have sex. She never mentioned anything about after the engagement. Which is when they had sex for the 1st time which coincides here. Babe is smart low-key but u guys keep coming for her. It is Alexx sister’s claims that had comma. Imagine coming online to say that there is no gay in your family. Hello? Na by genetics? Are u their penis to know who they straff or not. Sounding like a village woman. Also she outed herself saying Alexx informed her he had sex with fancy n fancy herself is now telling us he announced it to the family. N no one picked up o now strange that sounded. First of all the inappropriateness of it all and how uncomfortable fancy felt. Second why is your sexual Doings with your own fiancΓ© a family discussion? Red flags . Thing is Alex family may not know he is gay. That’s why all the time his sister said she kept telling Alexx to debunk the rumours and speak up, he couldn’t. Because he knew there was truth to it

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    9. On the contrary Anon. 11:20. They might know or notice somethings but they are just living in strong denial.

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    10. If what Fancy said about Alex is true about erectile dysfunction and all, Alex better connect to NSPPD 7am Fire prayers cos What God cannot do, does not exist. There's absolutely no shame in that.

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    11. Alex should better to connect to NSPPD to get healing for ED. Fancy has been consistent and she's smart and cool. This has forced her to talk much.

      Alexx you missed a woman..ntorr

      If you like tell your friends to troll her, na you sabi. Manipulative guy with baby face, thank God Fancy you broke up with him.

      She said the truth.

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    12. My fellow nsppd people. I salute una all the way from America. How the hell you work shame someone who is HONESTLY working. Doing Uber na crime ? Do you know in Los Angeles it’s about $30 an hr they make ? Do you know how much rent is in LA ? I live there and it’s damn crazy. Fancy, I wish we can meet up for a hug. God is your strength. His family knows about him but celebrity status na em don want protect.

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    13. Wow....I'm very wowed. Indeed all that glitters is not gold. My sister I'm so happy for ur new freedom,this life is once oo,men never finish for this world. One day I pray u find the right man for u. Ur kind is indeed rare. Honestly if it was me I wouldn't take all these from him.May God bless u Fancy

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  2. She should go and sit down d whole thing is stale now

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    1. She was approached for an interview not the other way around. You didn’t have to read it if the entire thing bores you so much.

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    2. Why did you click the post if it's stale? Run along abeg.

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    3. 08:40, then why did you open it? Next time, skip the postπŸ™„

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  3. I am gobsmacked πŸ₯ΊπŸ˜³πŸ€”

    Stella,please can you get to interview Alex too if he will agree,he needs to defend himself too cos this is too much allegations to be quiet on.

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    1. Defend what? There's nothing to defend. Like Mr robust reply, he's guilty. Period.

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    2. Castle oooooo πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚

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    3. As long as Alexx feels his silence will make him look like a saint to Nigerians he won’t say anything. Also with the way this fancy is talking she has receipts so he dare not talk else can of worms go open

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    4. Odunayo my love, happy new year.

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    5. Stella don't interview him o, unless you want him to commit lying sin o. Leave him with his chopping life gang.

      If interviews, Fancy might be pressured to release receipts. Alex change/repent for good.

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    6. Castle leave my leg abeg🀣🀣🀣

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  4. Osetiego

    Aunty Ifeoma come and read this oneπŸ€­πŸ€”

    Vawulence
    Vawulence
    Vawulence

    This January 2023 go sweet and make sense for Vawulence


    Brb

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  5. Too long an epistle mbok.
    Na me una wan give project work this year ni?
    I read half and sure will finish the rest later.
    Alex isn't all that after all.
    His silence is deafening plus killing and we need to hear his own part of the story too.
    Theirs was an union that wouldn't have lasted and thank goodness that it ended right on time.
    No tiny little bit of love.
    It sounds like an arrangee kinda thing.

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    1. Sebi someone was calling celebrity marriage a blessing yesterday.

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    2. For real, thank God the wedding didn't happen.

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  6. Tiring, e don do biko.we don't need all these details, you sounded incoherent BTW

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    1. Incoherent? Maybe you lack comprehension.

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    2. Go and shut her mouth na.
      Next time, skip her post

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    3. She can only explain it to you, but she cannot understand it for you.

      Don't blame her, blame your empty brain. πŸ₯΄

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    4. You don't know the meaning of incoherent, stop misusing the word. this girl is an eloquent queen

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    5. Don't open her post. Not by force

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  7. Chimooooo
    πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†
    So he announced to his family and friends that he slept with (after 5yrs) in order to prove to them that he was not g*y?

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    1. The guy is something else. Who calls his/her family and friends to tell them he or she slept with his or her partner? He wanted to prove a point. His nonsense sister was defending him yesterday, see una life outside.

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    2. He must have drank himself to stupor to be able to achieve that.

      Nwanne Okwa highness melu ya odi possible.

      That must have been a really torture for him.

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    3. The sister abi aunty made fool of herself and their family. Shame

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    4. Apple of God you are funny 🀣🀣

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  8. Alex works as a gigolo? He takes sex enhancement drugs to be able to penetrate women? I feel so sorry for Fancy. Infact I am very angry with Alex and his family for trying to put down Fancy and her family by talking about her father doing UBer. What is wrong with that?

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    1. Exactly, what is wrong being an Uber driver? That is what some of these low lives do. Talking down on someone with a legit means of survival whereas they have not one penny to their name....raising shoulder in poverty πŸ™„

      Sluttychic.

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    2. Imagine the rubbish talk. Which job do Alex parents do?

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    3. That part was included because she insinuated she was the one sponsoring the wedding. Do I have to point this out ni?

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    4. I know some guys who do that as side hustle and there's nothing wrong with that! lt is better to do a legit job like UBER DRIVER THAN A GIGOLO!

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    5. Joy, so if she insinuated that she was sponsoring the wedding, can't a Uber driver in the US have enough money to sponsor his daughter's wedding?

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    6. You people should stop disturbing yourselves. Can't y'all see that the guy's name is Alex too, same name with Eka's daughter.

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    7. In this Nigeria so,my cousin dose uber as side hustle, and that is what pays his children's school fees. He dose 2wks on 2wks off,offshore, but still dose uber during his time off. Nothing wrong in legit business.

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    8. Eka, what does her father's job have to do with she sponsoring wedding. Her job should have been the 1 in reference not her dad. She didn't say her dad is/was the sponsor.

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    9. Don't mind silly cretins.
      They will hail those who have no traceable source of income.
      Those who are working legitimate jobs are looked down on. Mtsheeeeeeeeew.

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    10. He took lots of things to be able to do that. Hence the announcements.

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    11. This girl is not from a poor family in the first place, she comes from a royal family that's very well to do. how do you guys think sef? what's bad in driving as uber driver?
      Obasanjo is a farmer, does that makes him poor? no.
      na those little things wey una dey look like suffer naim dey bring money pass sef. una never know what'supπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

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    12. Na really raising shoulder untop of poverty @slutty chic stomach will be rumbling like blender, they will be forming rubbish.

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  9. It is this post that I will use and entertain myself today 😎

    Let me go and come back 🚢🚢🚢

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. You will go and come back. When food is ready but you can't finish everything so you cover the rest for later🀣🀣🀣

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  10. See image abi brand Alex was trying to protect, January 2023 don see am finish.

    Fancy it's ok, I know you're hurting but enough already!

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    1. It is aseju baba ase te that got him. Instead of just leaving it at the apology she did in August, he had to make her grovel very well again. Now everything don scatter. That's why it's good not to do too much in this life.

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  11. Did the apology post together and verified with his family? Wow!!
    A man asked you to freely sleep with other men and you wanted back with
    I know some women let their guards down when the dick is good but this, I can’t understand. Dick, you nor see. love you nor get 🀷🏿‍♀️PATHETIC!!

    Sluttychic.


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    1. I tire ooπŸ˜‚
      Dick she dinno see! She managed to see it now, it was wack. And she went back? God abegπŸ˜ͺ

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    2. I think she was naive and inexperienced. You know when you love someone too much and you tell yourself even if there are issues, I will be there all the way and we will weather the storm.

      They were both not on the same page.

      Alex, be like Uti for crying out loud. If you are gay, it is not the end of the world but don't deceive or torture any woman and drag them into what they didn't bargain for.
      Must you get married? Abeg rest, see what your quest for revenge landed you, you should have acknowledged the apology in peace, doesn't mean you must get back together, see how it all backfired? Fake life, fake relationship, fake celebrity.

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  12. Who else saw the funny memes that internet children are using Alex to do?
    πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£
    Lmao

    I will come back and read comments.

    Stella weldone o. If you see how this drama has further advertised you ehen! The Lord will strengthen you iyami

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    1. @Suave😁😁😁😁
      @d Lord will strengthen iya mi got me rolling on d floor
      😁😁😁😁
      Dat iya mi word is used when the gist don enter body well well😁😁😁

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    2. Chai! Alex don see shege banzai this January.

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    3. I'm telling you

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  13. Please read and learn

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    1. This is the only take out point here. Read and learn. My neighbor that do host gay parties and recruit new university guys in Uniben is on this table. Our landlord had to give him quit notice because of the incessant parties and damage to his properties whenever they fight for who will have the cleanest guy. He told me specifically that he can't sleep with a woman that women's vagina are too loose that he prefers anal sex because it's tight. Guess what, he is now married to a woman who is not aware of his lifestyle.

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  14. Fancy dear, this your story is somehow and I am beginning to believe you're not being sincere. You should have just told Stella that you guys got intimate once in the five years of dating. Why are you just saying this just because his sister said something about it? Come correct please

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    1. They made it seem like she lied about not being intimate for the 5yrs, so she has to come out and tell them that the January 2022 thing was the first time after 5yrs.
      She has every right to clarify that angle.

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    2. Ennie etc,

      Read to understand.

      Summary....he couldn't finish. Seems he couldn't really start.
      She opted to not discuss that part with Stella.

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    3. The sxx was wack! 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣
      But she still wanted to manage him like that

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    4. They were no longer in a relationship when the wack sex happened.

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  15. Why the need to proof that you are not gay? So Alex is a male ashawo, like people pay him to fuck them?

    Keep letting this yeyebrities to pressure you with their rubbish vanity.

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    1. Eya. I used to see blog comments saying this about him o. I thought maybe it’s just talk. Cus they say things about every celeb. Ashe those commenters know the gist for real. And there is some truth. What a shame

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  16. Chai!!!, women dey sufar ooo, all these trauma just to answer Mrs. Alex the joke is on you, you wanted to shame the girl but your can of worms was finally opened

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    1. Like do you get??? He was so vindictive because she left him. Instead of letting things go, he wanted to show her shege and embarrass her because she's always been quiet and naive. Now see how she has dragged him entirely! I'm so happy though because he had every intention of ruining this girl's life with deceit & lies. God has saved her and has exposed the wicked fool

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  17. Wow! Wow!

    😲😲😲

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  18. He is not gay. He simply has problems getting it up and he ain't in love with the girl. He wanted her for papers. Too much use of performance drugs caused all these celibacy shit. Alex doesn't look like who can knack for 30mins.

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    1. Did you mean 30seconds?
      It is not normal for someone to knack for 30mins, at all!
      After the first few minutes, no enjoyment again.

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    2. l am a guy and don't have problem getting it up but l don't shag for 30mins! 30mins is a lot for me! After 15-19mins, l nutt! so your analysis doesn't add up! The Alex guy is not straight!

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    3. He can't get it up, and when he does, he can't keep it up.

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    4. I trust his former clients to go anon and tell us the truth about his third leg 🀣🀣

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    5. Castle stopeeet🀣🀣🀣

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    6. Castle eehhh 🀣🀣🀣

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    7. Una too funny jareπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    8. πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜Ή Castle took me out

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    9. I don't know how many times I will have to say it here, Alex is a Queen! A buttom guy, he receives

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  19. Eweleke 😳😳😳 this drama isn't ending soon !

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    1. The image he is trying to protect is now shattered.

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  20. The reason why porn has no subtitles is because, it's not everything you'd explain or tell people. That guy is not gay, e get why.

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    2. He probably has erectile dysfunction

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    3. What is he using his penis to do, that it is dysfunctioning?

      E say his journey and his religion prevent him from having sex.... ride on Pastor Alex. 🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

      Nigerian man show you colours in musical form, buahahahaha

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  21. This drama is getting hotter. It has now degenerated into insulting relatives. What has her father's profession got to do with the intredemondium going on with these two?

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    1. Exco, this your grammar no dey inside dictionary o🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    2. That his sister is classless o. U need to hear the audio.

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    3. Exco: with the intre what??? Lmaooo

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  22. So how come you never mentioned before now that you guys made out in January? You said he never had sex with you, are you not contradicting yourself? You said he did not pick your calls for 3days after you posted the apology but now you’re saying he picked and told you to feel the pain he went through which one should we now believe?

    So you can talk this much but when people were dragging Alex because of your “live the truth”, you could have simply cleared the air since you did not catch him sleeping with a man,but you kept quiet and enjoyed everything, now people are dragging you, you expect Alex to say something, are you not manipulative? You sound so vindictive

    Fan Emmanuel

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    1. If you read to understand
      She said they got back to being friends, that’s not their 5 year relationship.
      They broke up so she was talking about the 5years relationship prior

      Some of you because of the love you have for a celeb you let it blind you, God knows I loved Alex but something’s are just too glaring to be swept under the carpet.

      She dint need to clear any air cus she was hurting… she also went further to make an apology all by herself in august so I don’t get what you are saying.
      She may not be as innocent and naive as we think but at least she has her receipts.

      Let me just ask you, does your Mae siblings discuss their sexapades with you?


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    2. Fan thank you for this post. I wonder how people are not seeing through her contradictory statements. I believe there is more to this than meets the eye.

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    3. YEP!
      Her story is not adding up. She's trying to make people believe he's gay without voicing it out and also shooting herself. If he didn't have sex with you for 5 years but CHEATS according to you, that means he loves women and the problem is you...maybe he's not in love with you and is in love with something you have. $500 a month for 12 months from a guy in Nigerian is not moimoi. Babe, he tried. Na all of dey this America and know the cost of things.
      Also, I will love to know where you live as a single girl in LA and pay $5000 FOR RENT!
      Alex, work on yourself and be a real man and face your problems head on! Making fun of her dad's honest life, that's petty and stupidity of the highest level. They have some growing to do on that part.

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    4. Fan go and read again. 5 years passed o, that January sex na sex?

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  23. I read everything

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  24. Aunty Ifeoma didn’t lie about one thing sha, they did have sex in January. Who’s now to say they also didn’t have sex before?

    I am still smelling revenge in all of these. Alex, come and talk. I am trying so hard to avoid a one sided judgement

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    1. She said they dint have sex in their own 5years relationship
      What you should ask yourself is was this recent sex part of their 5years relationship?
      That relationship was over, this was doing during reconciliation na

      Nawa for una


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    2. You all didn't read the part where she stopped short of talking about what "didn't transpire" In the alleged Jan sex?

      You all don't seem to be wondering why a grown ass man has to advertise to family and friends that he "did it" though he "couldn't really do it"?

      We are something In this part of the world.

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    3. Eka, it is glaring that you are supporting Alex, probably because he is your daughter's namesake

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    4. The only vindictive person in this is Alex. God knows I was a a fan and loved him but this... mehn, it's dirty. He's evil.

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    5. Hian! Joke of the century. I will support someone because he is my daughter’s namesake? Na wa oh!!! I have seen firsthand what vindictive people can be and how far they can go to enact a revenge when they are broken. Abi no be women dey accuse men of rape just because things didn’t work out as planned.

      If 99% of the blog like, let them be supporting Fancy, as long as I have my reservations about this, I will maintain my stand!

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    6. But Eka why are you so bent that Fancy is the vindictive one and not Alex? What Alex did to Fancy with that public apology was that not vindictive? And you expected Fancy to be silent on that because? You on this blog defend yourself on every little thing and Fancy has EVERY right to defend herself especially after what he did and his family are trying to do.

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  25. He didn't love this girl at all. His sexuality is straight, I feel he is E-dysfunctional, he cannot do tatatatatatatatatata without meds. So he has nothing to explain to anyone. Let fancy do all the talking if she wishes. Keep your lips sealed Alex, you owe no one any explanation. Assumptions are welcome.

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    1. If it was dysfunction why dint he speak to his gf of 5years ? Why
      Don’t we preach being open on this blog, why did he tell her to go ahead and get sex elsewhere, why did he form celibacy? He doesn’t owe us an explanation but he sure owed his gf and wife to be


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    2. Push up dear, I think you're wasting your time clarifying this. They love who they choose to love and hate who they hate. They won't budge even when the truth is glaring.

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    3. It is very difficult for some people to be objective when it comes to certain issues because of their sentiments. Something is staring you in the eye, but you chose to look aside and point to something else instead than face the bullseye headon. In Nigeria it is about fame, popularity, looks, wealth, gender, tribe and public displays. If you are my blood brother and what you are doing is wrong I cannot support you. This has sorta made me the black sheep but I don't care. How will this country ever be free with this backward mentality? Too bad.

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    4. You guys should remember that chronicle about that brother that told the sis no sex before marriage and the sister got the shock of her life.
      Alexx is a bv too and wanna use that style.
      Alexx should go and sort himself out. The image don scatter.

      Make God help them. Fancy needs a better guy.

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  26. Fancy, be grateful to God and move on with your life. Life goes on.

    Alex should try and at least clear his name if she's lying.

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  27. Alex was really mean and horrible to fancy. He never loved her.

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    1. Alex was mean to this lady with no remorse. Tell tale signs of narcissists. To their friends, they are the best people, but to their spouses, they are demons hungry for control. Withholding affection as a means of control.
      Like she said. That was her experience with him. His siblings and friends can differ , but it makes no difference. He’s just a typical village man. Controlling to a fault even when You bring nothing to the table.
      At this point, I’ll love to know what kind of marriage his parents had that mounded this guy. Cos he’s manipulative as f .
      I am too, and I downplay it as best as I can. Yes, a dysfunctional home mounded me. I know my demons and I fight them daily and I’m winning.
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      Anyway , narcissists are born out of excessive admiration or criticism from their parents. Looking at him, I’ll bet on excess admiration from his parents.

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  28. I took my time to read everything, but l will comment later when l come back from work.......


    Licious babe

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  29. She should get at peace with herself and allow this rest.
    I believe everything the aunt said because Fancy indirectly confirmed them here. All these are medicine after death for me. That chat that was leaked spoke alot. She was the one breaking the relationship and still the one that needs the relationship and refused to let go. Shit happens. To your tent oh Isreal.
    Thank God this girl has taken out mind off that animal that is blackmailing Empress.

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    1. If you haven't been with a narcissist i swear you will not believe all what she said. My ex will withhold affection not respond to chat after how many days, oh God a lot and a lot, i got fed up broke and after some time i will come back to apologise after i start missing him and we will continue again some times he will be the one to reach out after some month to beg and love bombarding me again once i give in he goes back to factory reset. I loved him wholehearted but exactly what fancy experienced is what i went through too the difference is my ex is not gay infact is the opposite he loves women and cheat like no tomorrow and he's not a celebrity i swear you won't understand if you haven't been there before. They choose their victim o quiet, not expose, introverted ladies and they will mess you up my ex reduced my self esteem. I just left the relationship few weeks ago after we planned to see and he stood me up without having the tendency to let me know.

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  30. Omo!! This whole thing is messed up. Alex is messed up, Fancy is deeply hurt.
    Aside the gay rumours, I'm sorry but I'm laughing is Alex a V*rgin?

    So, they actually had s*x in January last year just that it was bad s*x and that didn't count as being intimate. Hmmm.
    What I think about Alex is that he does sugar mommies stuff and sleeps with older women for cash. Like the situation Fancy stated there. The guy is hustling the way his female colleagues are hustling to keep up with their lifestyle. He met an inexperienced young girl and played her while living his best life. His character flaws are really bad too. What they had wasn't love at all. It's just sad it took all these to happen for them to realise it.

    I pray Alex comes out of this sane. The guy has been hustling for long. His union with Fancy was suppose to be another big jump to lunch him to the next phase both personally and career wise but it's looking like this is gonna be his biggest downfall. If it doesn't break him then nothing else will again.
    Fancy, I pray you find the man that will love you right. A strong woman needs a strong man. I loved the part you talked about your dad and his side job. Whoever is laughing at that is not okay at all.
    I wish ona well.

    Stella you've done well. If only Alex can talk too. There are different sides to every story. Fancy' side, Alex' side and the truth.

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    1. Break who?
      Ikwawawawawawa.
      You don't know the heart of a hustler.
      The only thing that can break them is going back to the trenches.
      NOTHING else matters.
      And ANYONE can be used.
      That's their cardinal motto.
      See you see next victim.

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  31. When I tell Nigerian men so so so is gay, they say “how can- he has slept with so many women”. Sleeping with so many women and publicizing it - is a red flag for secret gays, they target beautiful/ popular women but if you ask those women what their experience was, I can assure you/ either there was no sex or the sex was bad ie no satisfaction. secret gays love to use marriage as the carrot they dangle infront of the donkey because they can’t use sex and won’t use money. Alex had to fly to America because those women sorry to say are desperate to marry and marry men that are Nigerian like their fathers. Alex na gigolo no be today- he can take viagra if it was back in the day when women spent well for sex not today. Fancy be careful, that reconciliation Alex did- he must have taken naked pictures of you without you knowing to post as revenge, that’s how he and his secret gay crew are.

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    1. Seriously?
      Secret nude pics of her?
      Why am I surprised, they may have done a video sef, na today?

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  32. Dear Fancy, you have spoken your truth and we have heard you loud and clear. If they come with another allegation, feel free to counter it with all your might, all is fair in love and war. This is war. Do not let them make you feel less of yourself. You are one beauty and your own man will find and cherish you. Never let Alex come in close contact with you again. Don't be friends with him or his family. Stay away from everything Alex Ekubo. The trolls will eventually get tired, if they don't ignore the hell out of them. Remember, you are loved by those of us who truly understand. Infact, count your blessings girl, you dodged a bullet. Congratulations 🎊

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    1. The best comment here!! πŸ‘πŸ½

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    2. She dodged hell.

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    3. πŸ‘✅

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    4. She dodged a missile!! Fancy I hope you know what God has done for you.

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  33. I wish all parties goodluck in their future endeavors. I’m tired of their issues jare.

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  34. I absolutely believe Fancy. In fact I went through the exact same scenario with my fiancΓ© (soon to be ex) without the gay drama.

    People throw about the word "narcissistic" around but this right here is what someone with that personality looks like. Extremely selfish, sociopathic, user, gaslight, manipulation and abusive (especially emotionally which is worse as there is no physical evidence).

    You would never understand the level of manipulation and gaslighting someone goes through. And for 5 years that can destroy someone's self esteem. You would be looking for handouts from the person in form on validation and connection that you would be willing to collect crap. Meanwhile when the scales fall off and you are healing you would be wondering how you were so resilient and lasted that long. They only respond to shame and will do anything to protect their image.

    I can tell Fancy is empathic in nature which is a narcissists target. People that will naturally try to see the good in them despite the very many red flags. And I totally relate with helping him through the pain she put him through because she broke up with him. In my case, when I finally opened up and called family meeting on his head, he felt resounding shame and was spiralling into "depression" because "his family and a few friends" found out some of his true nature. Only me started to see how to help others see him in a better light meanwhile I had not even started healing from the pain he had caused. Chai. You are basically a piece in their puzzle and exist to unit their narrative. I pray no one experiences a true narcissst because you could go mental from the experience.

    I am glad you have found your voice Fancy. It will take time and work to get over the effects of the gaslighting on your person and self esteem. You would feel terrible over "wasted time, years and emotions" and you will disbelieve constantly how it was all "fake" and you never saw it. But you will come out well. Dont loose your inner happiness because thats what the devil uses these sort of people to such out of you. Pray pray and pray. I'm getting better each day and I know you would too. Hugs xx Kanyi

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    1. 5 years!
      5 years wasted.
      I can smell bs from 50 kilometres away, no be me you go try this rubbish with. One shingbai no go drop.

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    2. If only i saw your post before i commented on someone post up there. You have first hand experience with a real narcissist you perfectly described them. I felt like i was going crazy Oh God thank you for saving though i am healing gradually and it's not easy but pls do not let me go back to him cos i know after few months he will come to beg again.

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    3. My dear I'm 9.54am. If I talk my story eh. It was after my experience that I started understanding what narcissism was all about. I had never experienced such a demonic personality. I say demonic because everything in his personality represented the opposite of the fruits of the Spirit and the evil was so intentional. I was waking up some nights over thinking about different things I had gone through that I felt like I was slowly going insane.

      Thank God for prayers and my mum. Being trauma bonded is not ordinary oh. Its a physical manifestation of what a stronghold from the devil is. I went into serious prayers. That guy drained me emotionally, physically, spiritually and financially.

      I feel like one day I will share my experience. Not to shame but to make more people aware of narcissist because it is real! And not to be mistaken for someone who is just selfish. He preys on young girls on social media and I can imagine what he would do if he marries someone so naive with a softer spirit. I can bet I will read their story online.

      I will never go back o. Even if it feels like getting over a cocaine addiction. My family won't when hear it. I thank God everyday for removing me from the bond. God will help many women suffering this and thinking it is "how Nigerian men are"

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  35. This girl sounds intelligent and wise.
    It's unfortunate she 'fell' for a wrong person.. she's not perfect, she had some selfish reasons also for wanting to be with Alex, but she's human plus her blame is just like 30 percent here.. she wasn't her spec's spec but being in a relationship with a 'celeb' no make am see front,. There are a lot of them, they'll leave real Gees, and go be with "women activist" men that lie and deceive them, them go come see shege for the relationship Lol..

    Lies, deceit, fake life, pretence, wokeness, head games etc etc are something I can't cope with in anyone..

    This wokeness of a thing is just full blown stupidity and madness,. Telling her to sleep with other men after a fvking five years wait,. WDF mahn.. nigga you gay QED..

    He was gonna be pimping her to billionaires for cash,. There are some of them in the entertainment industry, married gay men pimping their wives for cash..

    Baba take Viagra, come nack kpekus come dey announce am to friends and family πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚,. Ok, but I don't believe there was ZERO intimacy all through the 5 years tho,. Once in awhile, him go do take sex enhancements to fit perform woefully πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚..

    And so what's bad with Uber driving,. Lot of people use it as a side hustle, it's a honest legitimate work, even pays so well if you are serious and plan well,. Even if it's someone's main hustle, what's bad in it? Is it not better than the nonsense ashawo life you wanted for her and the nonsense fraud, ritual and drug most of you do in the entertainment industry.. Nonsense.. it's how they shame legitimate works and glorify immorality and illegalities for me.. very terrible and shameful mindset..

    PS: At this point, Alex silent has been taken to mean ADMITTANCE to me,. The above is my stance until he makes a rebuttal,.. pending that.. NIGGA YOU GAY AF.. OWN YOUR TRUTH ✌️

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    1. You see that fake lifestyle and “wokeness” it’s actually done more harm to people. Telling of manner of lies and faking it just to show people you are all of that 🀷🏿‍♀️
      Renting cars, houses and passing it off as your own to what end? That you are rich? Lmao. Abeg I don’t joke with my peace of mind.

      Sluttychic.

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜Ή @NIGGA YOU GAY AF
      OSHE @JUDGEJUDY OF OUR TIME
      Own what truth in which country?
      A homophobic Nigeria?
      Funny much!

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ for were Dante admit him fellow man dey wrong??
      I can see the truth in the whole thing sha. Alex is a very manipulative person and his stans are falling into his manipulative control too. Shior

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    4. Lol..

      @Aproko.. I stand for the truth always, just that when e concern woman most of Una go dey vex cos them no dey like correction and accountability,. Na that time dem go come dey call me woman hater,. Thinking they can manipulate or bully me to stop saying things as it is when it concerns them..

      Unserious fellows lol..

      PS: my comment for now is based on the 'evidences' we have before us,. If tomorrow Alex comes with more weighter rebuttal, our verdict may change.. we judge with 'evidences' and not assumptions,. If he decides to keep silent, then judgment would still be entered at the end of the trial.. he's a adult who's expected to enter defence If he has any,. Refusal to do so won't make him innocent.. so he Gay, fake, manipuative etc etc for now✌️

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    5. Milkshakes own your truth, I won't judge you

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    6. Dante - for the first time, I agree wholeheartedly with you. Your analysis is totally on point.

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    7. He felt he met a nauve babe that loved him so much. He wanted to be pimping her to billionaires like his bestie Ik gorimapa while he straff bony arses. Stupid mdf gay.

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    8. I sure will @SG
      The last time i checked,this post is centered on Alex Ekubo and not me
      I can't help you any further

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    9. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Boss Dante the simp slayer actually admitted his gender messed up.

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    10. I read that ‘nigga you gay’ in Riley’s voice (the boondocks) πŸ˜‚

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  36. πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™† wonders will never end.

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  37. Fancy better drop receipts. I don’t trust people who tell half truths. She could have added the information of the sex after break up instead she is confirming now she was fact checked. Stella ask her for the screenshot of the woman who paid Alex for weekend sex.

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  38. Fancy please, this should be your last public statement about this, you have said your piece, granted you were immature and that home grown igbo man, wanted to destroy your psyche, emotionally abusive, narcissistic, ego-driven, confused-about his sexuality gigolo,...you escaped a life-time of abuse! Time to put your head down, block everyone and anyone that wishes to drag you back to this. Get Off the social media for a while and take time out to heal from this mess!

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  39. Reading this whole epistle doesn’t indicate that Alex is gay. It seems like Alex was not attracted to her sexually. He told her to sleep with other men, yeah but what was the context? Were dey arguing about the lack of intimacy or how distance affects intimacy in their relationship and out of frustration for whatever the reason why he wasn’t sleeping with her he might of said, “okay Fancy you can sleep with other men”. I’m not saying if he said it in anger, it makes it ok.

    Their relationship had major trust issues that’s why Fancy acts irrational and based on a lot of assumptions. She should have walked away long time ago and when she found out he was trying to sleep with a different woman for money. I also don’t like how she undermines receiving $500 from him for a whole year and act like it’s nothing. Even $100 it’s a lot of money for someone living in America. And why didn’t they take profits from the investment she did with the monthly $500 to execute their wedding?

    And he might have told his family and friends he slept with her because that was the biggest issue in their relationship. Like how far? Una finally do am? And him making a joke out of it.

    The aggression and narcissism is a trait of most Nigerian men. E no means he is not a charming guy. There is time for joke and anger. Anyways, the relationship sounded like a lot of work and draining for both parties involved. It’s good it ended. Fancy don turn to Tonto!lol Men will definitely stain your white! No, more interviews Ms. Fancy because nothing you said factually indicates that he is gay or bisexual. Stop with putting out assumptions out there, destroying his person and career. You choose to walk away for the uncountable time. And for the five years you guys were together, you didn’t ask him if he was gay bisexual instead of all the insinuations.

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    1. Oga madam rest your assumptions/insinuations.

      Let's allow them heal in peace.

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  40. He asked his intended wife to sleep with other men??
    ..wasn't good in bed and also had a terrible attitude towards her.Now tell me,which girl wouldn't rage?
    Alex please,go run some tests and treat yourself,there's always a repercussion for every wrong thing we do.Nobody hates him,we're just angry he used and deceived poor Fancy,who infact won the game afterall🀣

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  41. One of my new year resolution is not to read long epistles that won't add value to my life

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£.....l learnt something from this write-up, thou l haven't made my comment.

      Licious babe

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    2. I can assure you there is far more value in that 'long epistle ' that this short snort that you have written.

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  42. She sounded truthful though, I felt pity for her.

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  43. Enough of this bashing of Alex and Fancy. I just hope that you, yes you, have learned YET AGAIN that social media relationships are not real. Young ones, marriages are not built on 'we look great together', 'picture perfection', best pyjamas photos, the 'chemistry' you see and so on. Behind what you see on social media may be a smelly can of worms... forget about seeking more gossip on this matter and reflect on the lessons learned. Which is..Be content with your life..

    Also, seek wisdom. The bible says to leave vengeance for God. Both of them in being vindictive, have hurt each other and their families quite deeply. It's like being ok with losing an eye as long as your enemy is blind. But see, you lost an eye, you are bleeding... the public will consume the gossip and vawulence but you may never heal.. revenge will not heal you...only God can. May he grant you both peace.

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    1. Contentment πŸ™‡πŸ™‡πŸ™‡

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  44. Thanks @ anon 9:54, you are so right about narcissist people in relationship! Nancy thank your God and move on! What is $500 in America, even the most yeye part of LA is expensive. I was in a Narcissist relationship for almost 15 years, but it was fire πŸ”₯ for fire! I gave the idiot for fire πŸ”₯ for fire πŸ”₯! Is only him that used his legs to run away! Nancy is a super empath like me, we go Dey help people, when we never help ourselves finish. What did I know when I was 30, nothing . I am in my mid 40s and is now, I discovered myself. So Nancy , if you are reading this, I don’t think you should respond anymore. Alex and his family are users , so move on. There is dignity in labor, what does Alex’s parents do? When people want to live above their means , they will do anything. Whoever does not believe her story, and is a woman πŸ‘© in a relationship, may God not let you see evil in that relationship. This is a good lesson for her at 30. Thank God the marriage did not happen, let everybody go their way. Super empaths always deal with narcissistic people squarely. That’s the final ace!!! Well done Fancy!!! God bless you both, and heal you guys to live sin free lives. Shalom

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    1. So the babe even reach 30? ???
      Okokobioko.
      Dey reason like tata.
      5 years.
      Too naive.
      I hope she now knows how to spit narcissistic, psychotic, bull shitting Nigerian men because e be like strong body odour for my own nose.
      So easy to detect.

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  45. I believe he has some issues down there and instead of admitting to your intending bride you covered up with being celibate. The joke is on you Alex. You obviously crave social media acceptance instead of living your truth, now you have all the attention you seek. Enjoy!

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  46. Fancy you will be alright. Alex you will be fine too.

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  47. Dante thanks for your sincere comments.

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  48. I no believe all these stories. Person wey just write FAALexx now now. Either both of dem are sick in the head or something. Secondly, Which one is I caught him cheating with curvy women, but you are still saying you knew when the woman reached out to you on Instagram, finding out and caught in the act are different things. He is cheating on you but can't sleep with you... Absurd stories.

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    1. You lack basic comprehension.
      No one can help you.

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    2. We can't help you. You should have stayed in those English classes when they taught about COMPREHENSION.

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  49. I think Alex really wants to marry you but he really didn't address or put an end to certain things. I know 500 dollars is nothing o some but it is something. He really loved and loves you. I don't know about his sexuality.

    Some men don't fuck who they want to marry. They can fuck everything in skirt but won't try that with the women they want to marry. Why? Because they devalue the women they fuck. Some men are not good in bed, they don't even make any effort towards improving. If you see them bragging like this, you will be shocked. Basic sex , they don't know even with their random cheating.

    So Alex didn't buy a house. There is nothing wrong with it too.

    What is wrong in being an Uber driver?

    I really dislike it when sisters won't mind their business. Always pokenosing in relationships. Relationship between two people, who will likely reconcile.

    Look at how Alex made it seem like she is desperate but whereas they have been secretly back together since January.

    I don't think Alex is narcissistic. The real narcissistic men are Churchill, Paul Okoye, Daniel Adenemokan or something. Those ones will give you the silent treatment while flaunting a new woman who will be singing their praises.

    I wish both of you healing.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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    1. Alex doesn't have a new woman to flaunt naw. He flaunts achievements.

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    2. His circle of friends and what they do contributed a lot indirectly.

      #myThought

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  50. It's either Alex is gay or he has a problem with he's third leg. Either way 5years is long time enough to walk away if she isn't comfortable with the conditions. It shows she had a special interest because of hes celebrity status or otherwise. Both had issues. From this interview she is emasculating him. He also should sorosoke!!

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  51. Fancy how could you have slept with him after breaking up with him, agree to visit him and even do an apology again with his consent???! You’re so naive and the manipulative Alex really took advantage of you! All I see is him trying so hard to prove to the world that he is not gay after that your insinuation in the public breakup with him when he is actually one! I hope you have learnt your lessons and are wiser now!! Please forget him and MOVE ON!!!

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  52. Wow. May God help, heal and guide them. Fancy Wisdom demands you go into closet prayers, forgive him, go mute and pray fervently. Take spiritual cover in the Lord a lot has happened and you need to pray fervently and consistently. Do not let a day go by without praying psalm 91 over your life. Alex, it is well. Trust God to heal and direct you, forgive, move forward and take strength and refuge in the Lord'. Shalom.

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  53. Is it not clear that almost everything she narrated are LIES? PURE LIES.


    She even agreed that he paid her $5k monthly and yet he couldn't sponsor their on wedding?
    Fancy is just a woman scorned, hence she decided to leverage on a rumour to ''destroy'' him.

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    1. What are you talking about? Were you present in their relationship the whole time?
      Where did you read $5k? Put this on πŸ‘“ and read again.

      Sluttychic.

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  54. While his family shouldn't have made that Uber driver statement, $500 is not inconsequential abeg. There is no Nigerian who will not appreciate $500 tax free money monthly. Yes it won't be enough for rent in LA, but it was enough to buy stocks abi? It yielded profit baah? If you even send it to loved ones in Nigeria, they will more than appreciate cos that's almost 400,000 naira. For someone earning in naira to give that much, them try. Besides, it is tough to even get such free cash from your fellow Nigerian abroad, even relatives - if you see $100 one time giving you thank God. If you date Nigerian American guys you won't see shishi not even free $10. Nope, you will split dinner bills sef. Ask Nigerian American babes how far...

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  55. What a louse that dude is. I cannot stand anyone who loves mind games and think of ways to manipulate and use ppl. No wonder they cannot reach the heights they crave cause if they reached it they would walk and spit on ppl. Sick mindset.

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  56. Alex the narcissist. You need to seek Jesus!

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  57. Fancy u are a strong woman and am rooting for you

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  58. Don't throw stones if you live in a glass house. Alex in his quest for revenge has brought more shame on himself. I hope his advisers are happy now.

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  59. Hmmmm after 6 years I'm back to this blog cos of Alex and Fancy.... Wow kidjo is still here even Eka? 😳

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  60. This woman’s family should advise her to stay away from Nigeria for now so there is no “hit & run” or accident… she is a πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ who was naive in my opinion. Many of them here have no idea how Nigerian culture is as they just come occasionally but we parents prefer them to marry Nigerian. It could be the reason she seemed to overlook all the flags, per her own account. Until the other party counters it. She should also be mentally prepared that he may have taken her n*de pictures during the pre-planned “announced” session of intimacy and could use it against her. Anyone who knows her should ask her to stay in the US for now. $500 is a lot especially in Nigeria, and since he earns in Naira but if she lives on her own in LA she probably spends $4 to $10k per month depending on if it’s a one or two bedroom apartment and if it’s in downtown LA. She did not sound like she was about the money though.

    As to Uber driving, there is dignity in labor and nobody except immigrant communities with the backward mindset looks down on any legit hard labor here. I respect the dad even more if he is doing that in retirementπŸ‘πŸΎ

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  61. You have set with your girlfriend abi fiancΓ©e and announce it to your family members and also ask her to share the great news as per testimony time abi πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘that definitely means something is wrong somewhere.Maybe the sex is wack.
    I don’t blame Alex,fancy gave him too much liberty to toy with her this bad.

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  62. Celebrity relationship is as useless like rotten eggs. These actors are rubbish. Let’s me honest.

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  63. Everyone in that industry knows Alex is gay and many other actors who are even married. So let them keep deceiving themselves. All they do in that industry is drugs, women, addictions and homosexuality.

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