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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
URGENT ADVICE NEEDED
I need advice.
My mum single handedly raised me and my brothers( we are 3 boys). My dad didn't care if we are hungry or not. He prefers to carry pr#stitutes, hang out, drink and chop life.
Mum decided to walk away from the marriage and hustled hard to take care of us. She never remarried.
Now that we are all successful, she has fallen in love with a widower with 3 kids. All his kids are in Canada. The problem now is that my Dad is down with an ailment and needs someone to take care of him. He is in a very sorry state. My mum has refused to take him back cos she is carried away with this widower.
They are always playing love love like teenagers. Do I confront this man to leave my mum alone so she can forgive my dad and take care of him?. I also have his children on Instagram and I am thinking of contacting them to warn their dad to leave my mum alone.
My brothers are saying I should leave my mum to enjoy her life but no one is talking about my dad. He is seriously sick. What do I do?
WHAT!!!!!
You are very wicked child!
Leave your mum alone to enjoy, leave her alone!
Is he your slave? your mate? this woman toiled to raise you and now that she is relaxing you want to send her back to hell? Evil child you are!
Why dont you go and take care of your father? or is he not your father?
If you destroy your mums happiness, you will never forgive yourself..
I don tell you!
Wow, Stella vex for this one
ReplyDeleteTo the poster why not hire a nurse or nanny for your dad,your mum sacrificed alot for you guys,please allow her to enjoy her life please...
Poster are you okay at all? I guess you inherited self-centeredness from your selfish father. Leave your mother to take good care of herself now and go do what you need to do to care for your father. Imagine the nonsense you wrote. So she's only good for suffering?
DeletePoster. You are a very wicked human being (forgive my language). You are mean, inconsiderate and very selfish.
DeleteSo as successful as you and your brothers are, you cannot hire two nurses to take care of your beloved Father?
Haba! Your mum has suffered. She walked out of her failed marriage with three boys and dedicated her life to the three of you and you cannot allow her to bask in her newly found romance and lover?
She should go back to the man who squandered his youth with women and alcohol.
Omo, you must be 20 years. I no wan believe say you don pass 20 years because you sound so somehow.
Get a flat for your dad next to your house. Hire two maids to take care of your dad and have your siblings send in money every month for his maintenance.
Allow your mother to enjoy her life!!!!
Also, Nigerian men are really enjoying. They live mean, reckless lives. Enjoy women, m,oney and alcohol and then enjoy the perks of their wives being their personal nurses in pld age. Must be niceeeeee
I also hope i never give birth to a child who reasons like you. Im sorry to say but you sound so...annoying and self centered.
DeleteSo if your mama don die, wetin una for do?
Oya, do am.
You even had the wisdom and energy to go and find the lovers children on Instagram.
Go and find your dads side chicks na. Mr Instagram investigator.
Stella no vex reach me .
DeletePoster, you sad your father was prostituting why not remind your so called father to call one of them that enjoyed with him to com a care for him now
If there any other word worse than wicked that is what it would have been better to you.
What you are wishing your mum If someone wishes you that will you like it
Dear poster
DeleteKindly leave your mother alone
Women were not created to suffer alone
She deserves happiness
She did not seek attention from other men after her husband broke her heart, she chose to raise her kids alone and now you all are settled God has blessed her with the happiness she deserved all her youth and you want to be the thorn in her flesh.
Please let her enjoy her old age, she deserves it.
She behaves like a teenager cus she dint have all that, do not hold it against her.
If you really do care about your dad, employ a nurse to take care of your dad and give him all the best you think he should have, or better still go home and stay with him.
If you like when you get married, treat your wife like trash and expect her to be there for you.
Also do not dm any of that man’s children.
Push up (original)
Why are Nigerian Men so selfish like dis......Husband will be selfish; now son is now selfish again and does not want a woman dat has sacrificed so much for her kids to enjoy her remaining days again.
DeleteYou're such an ingrate, selfish like your father and a wicked child. That's all I have to say.
DeletePoster, I don't blame you atall. You have the mouth to dictate and control your mom bcos she didn't abandon you people abi? Even sacrificed her youth for you ungrateful and entitled child. Go and kneel down and beg that woman. And I sincerely hope that you don't turn out to be like your dad.
DeleteI don’t comment usually, but I had to for you.
DeleteYou are incredibly wicked and self centred.
Do you think your mum is a slave.
She has suffered all through her life, taking care of everyone but herself.
Now that it’s her turn for enjoyment, you want her to suffer.
You are truly wicked.
If you are concerned about your Dad, take care of him by yourself.
Don’t be unfortunate.
I wanted to type that you are very stupid but I know Stella may not post it if I do. Your foolishness knows no bound and I feel sorry for your mum for having invested her youth and resources on such an ungrateful child. Go and take care of your father since you love him so much. Wicked child.
Delete@Bed and Roses
DeleteNigerian men are perceived selfish because women and wives who benefit from men and Husbands are not quick to speak forth as pained women and wives do.
All the wives whose marriages turned their lives and the lives of their families for best beyond what they ever saw in 4 generations before don't usually come out to speak about it. Further, the husbands rarely come out to talk about the bad coins they are paid with.
Despite care for her terminally ill father till his death, training of her brother, nephews and nieces, building of their family compound, plus several buildings for her and her children, my father's last wife abandoned him to the care of his nieces in his last days. After her nephews and nieces had put my family in the sights of deadly criminals.
Everybody eventually reaped as sown.
I like as Stella take vex, such an ungrateful, entitled child!!
DeleteIt shows the kind of husband you will be to your wife, and the kind of person you generally are, an enemy of progress.
Stella nailed it! So did beevees. No need to add but just to say poster na real wa for you.
DeleteAh this poster is wicked and evil. God pls save my children from this type as a spouse. What??? This type looks at their mother as a slave. Suwah!! As for mama, pls enjoy ur love I beg. U deserve it.
DeleteAre you stupid or something?
ReplyDeleteGet as many carers and nurses as you can to take care of your father and leave your mother alone.
Your father has "enjoyed" in the past ,let your mum enjoy now also after she has suffered or do you hate your mum that you don't want to see her happy in life?
Poster you are turning out to be exactly like your dad, heartless!!!
DeleteYour mother should abandon her life and happiness because your dad who left her in her prime is now down with an ailment and needs a help to take care of him?
Your brain must be paining you o, no I won't mince words.
If you too like your papa like that, why not let him move in with you so you can take care of him, as per good samaria and son wey you be.
Nonsense!!!!!
You all are successful. Your other siblings are not in agreement with you on this.
DeleteYou love your father too much.
Relocate your father to your apartment to be taking care of him yourself after all he's your father.
You're very ungrateful, wicked, envious and can poison people. You smell of evil from afar.
Poster, go and take care of your sick father and leave your mum alone to live her life. That is God paying him for what he did to your mum and siblings
ReplyDeleteGbam
DeleteFather may I not raise up ungrateful children like this poster, amen.
DeleteAMEN
DeleteYour father didn’t do well abandoning you all for your mum. Now he is sick and needs proper care. Where are those prostitutes? Your mum maybe would have had a change of heart but she’s in love 🙄 like you said.
ReplyDeleteWhat I would do? I would take it upon myself to look after my dad and possibly get help elsewhere with the help of your other siblings.
Try talking to her so she can forgive him. Do not talk to that man’s kids please, leave them out of out.
Sluttychic.
You are wicked and heartless and may I not have your type as a child. What happened to getting a nurse for your sick father? Your mother focused on you guys and she doesn't deserve to be happy? I suspect your father s genes are strong in your body.wicked child
ReplyDeleteU are just as evil as ur heartless father,u are ur father's son,he should get those prostitutes to care for him or better just die in peace..or u get a nurse for him since u love and care for him so much..very self-centered human.
DeleteThe poster actually suffers trauma
DeleteHe is probably the last son
He hasn’t had his parents together and always hoped for the day they will get back together and he is actually seeing this as a perfect opportunity.
He is so selfish that he cannot see beyond his own desires that he doesn’t even care about his mothers feelings
Now to people who advice women to remove their emotions from their cheating husbands and pour it on their kids, this is a great lesson that those kids may grow up and not reciprocate that love, some may even say you shouldn’t come visiting, some may move abroad… what happens to your broken hearts?
This is why I tell you women that you all deserve love and affection, cus when your kids get married their partners may see you as clingy… by then you don’t know how to detach emotionally.
Please seek your own happiness o, some kids no send your papa
Women deserve love too
Push up (original)
Poster be Lucifer himself....
DeleteTruly, you are a WICKED CHILD!!!!Goan take care of him and leave your mother out of it. Wicked Soul
ReplyDeleteTruly, you are a WICKED CHILD!!!!Goan take care of him and leave your mother out of it. Wicked Soul
ReplyDeleteI agree that you’re a very wicked child , conceited and selfish hopefully you don’t have your father’s traits
ReplyDeleteHire a carer for him as you are in Canada or bring him over so you can take care of him yourself. Your mum is extraordinary, most women in her shoes plant hatred in the hearts of their children against their father but she didn't, she simply did her best for her children and is focused on enjoying her life now. Don't be a killjoy to her.
ReplyDeleteBro are you insane? You think your mom came to this life to suffer? You and your brother's should employ a nanny to care for your dad. Wth. I feel like slapping you right now. You don't love your mom. You enjoy seeing her suffer.
ReplyDeleteGet your dad a help, why hating on your mom peace of mind, abi you want to send her to early grave? She can forgive but let her enjoy herself too.
ReplyDeleteChild, if you make that woman miserable a second time in her life, you will never know peace. Say amen. You didnt talk of the man taking responsibility of his actions. Where are all his prostitutes now?
ReplyDeleteThis is the consequence of his actions, let him bear it. It is good u are seeing it now so that you will know that if you take that path, you will end up like him, cos you sound like amongst your brothers you took after him.
BTW, he is also ur father, abi did anyone forbid you from putting ur life on hold to cater for him, why must it be her?
Pls apply for medical visa for your dad and have him shipped over to you so you can take good care of him, he would benefit more from Canadian top notch healthcare since you are so forgiving and concerned about him. After all your parents are divorced but he remains your father.
ReplyDeleteLeave your mom alone before you bring curses upon yourself!!! she deserves happiness and love too.
Some Nigeria woman have suffered so much pain.
DeletePoster you can hire people to take care of your father since money is not the problem or is your mum a nurse or a hospital ?
You are a very foolish child, selfish and wicked. Omo, make I no just talk wetin dey my mind. Why not leave what you are doing, and take care of you irresponsible father yourself since you love him so much. So you don't want your mum to experience happiness and love after so many years of depriving herself to cater for you guys.
ReplyDeleteYou are a very inconsiderate and self child.
You are a wicked son, go and take care of your father by urself if you still care about him..Don't be a joy killer...Can you even hear yourself?...Your father that abandoned you guys to live a wayward life, he should go and meet those people he spent his money on to come and take care of him na. Your mum put her life on hold for you and your siblings,now that she has found happiness you want to ruin it..Mind yourself and give yourself brain
ReplyDeleteyou're most be a wicked child for wanting to deny your mum another chance at love. Channel the skill you have at finding the man's children on Instagram to finding your dad's ex-lovers to come take care of him, and if his health is of so much concern to you, find a caregiver for him.
ReplyDeleteWhat's stopping you for caring for him since you're so much concerned
That's why I don't advocate for parents living for just their kids because some children turns out to be selfish and entitled.
Felicity
Madt o.
DeleteHahahaha
DeleteEx lovers keh. Poster this one you’re sounding like this, I hope you dint tow your dads lane
Poster u are a very wicked person, why don't you go and take care of father since you adore him so much.
ReplyDeletePls kindly leave Ur mum alone, she is an adult and therefore can take decision. U are just annoying abeg
Please allow your mum to enjoy her life, maybe you and your brothers should hire a nanny to look after your dad, also visit him more often till he gets better.
ReplyDeletePoster,are you alright in the head? You want your mother to take care of a dead beat and useless husband and father, just because of your stupid self righteousness. Since you are now successful, use your money and hire a nurse and housekeeper for him. You want to enslave your mum to a stupid man and make her miserable at her old age. Don't make me swear for you. This chronicle has really vexed me. I am taking it very personal 🤬🤬😡
ReplyDeleteFarabale my dear,am sure d poster has a slight case of untreated malaria.poster ps take ur medication and drink plenty juiice so u slip well and leave ur mum alone.ok?
DeletePoster you are a very wicked person. She for leave you to suffer with that deadbeat of a father. So after suffering to raise you guys, you still want her to continue suffering till she die. I reject it for her, use your energy and search for one of those prostitutes he choose over you guys to come and take care of him. Ask him for their names and search for them on Instagram or visit their brothels.
DeleteSometimes the kind of chronicles I read here makes me wonder if some of you think those who take their time to give advice are some kind of a joke.
ReplyDeleteWho is raising these entitled disrespectful brats? No parent -children boundary.
How dare you think you have a right in your mother's personal life! Like how dare you! Spoilt brat!!!
That was how the Actress patient ozokwor children felt they could interfere in her private life and dictate to her not to marry. Some male children even commented that they will never let their mom remarry. Like who are you by the way? I was so filled with rage on that post that I decided not to comment only to come here and read this gibberish.
Is it an African thing or silliness embedded in this patriarchal society that has eaten deep into the brains of some of these males sons or they were badly raised?
You are very stupid to think you can decide your mother's personal life for her or make decisions for her. You are very stupid to think you matter so much in the grand scheme of things. Mannerless children.
Please call her and insult the man, go ahead and disgrace yourself and watch how your mum will shamelessly disown your behind. She has lived her life for you, deprived herself of sex(while your dad was having his fill, derived herself of companionship, love, emotional care and male attention) sacrificed a lot for you and wasted her prime youth pouring into you and your siblings to become who you are today and now you are grown the remaining years she has left to focus on herself you want to steal it from her? because as a mother, you still expect her happiness not to matter and give up her life up for you till she vapourises into nothingness.
As the goody two shoes that you are, you cannot employ a helper to care for your dad? Or take him to the hospital for better care or is your mom a nurse? Just admit you are envious of your mom's happiness because, in your little brain, you feel she must belong to your dad forever.
Please mothers in the house who have sacrificed so much for their kids. Listen attentively, some of the children are entitledsickeninglyr when they start to act like your happiness does not matter, please disown them.
You deserve love
You deserve to have sweet nothings whispered into your ears
You deserve a mind-blowing orgasm
You deserve late-night walks in the garden with your new man
You deserve romance
You deserve cuddles and soft sloppy kisses
You deserve HAPPINESS with your new found love.
Go out there and get it. Don't let these wicked children stop you.
P.S. This is coming from someone who is on the hunt for a widower for her mother. Yes, I am on the lookout so my beautiful mother can remarry and be happy. She has a newfound lot for us and we all have our own families now. So I want the same for her.
P.S. This is coming from someone who is on the hunt for a widower for her mother. Yes, I am on the lookout so my beautiful mother can remarry and be happy. * She has suffered a lot for us her children and we all have our own families now. So I want the same for her*.
DeleteSorry for the typos I was too angry to proofread
I love you anonymous
DeleteGod bless you, you nailed it aptly.
DeleteInstead of the poster channeling all his energy and strength into looking for the women that the dad enjoyed life with, he's here monitoring mum and her boyfriend.
15:44 Where is your mother based and is she open to relocation?
Delete👍
DeleteNa wa oo see sharp sharp response anon your mama go find love for
DeleteThis blog o . I hope you contact stella so things can start🙏 Me too I dey find divorcee or widower o. I wish us luck.
Perfectly said!
Delete18:29 She is based in Lagos and about that, I will have to ask her.
DeleteThank you for this beautiful comment. Few years after my parent got seperated, I was wishing my mum would find someone reasonable and remarry. We aren't meant to do life alone. I value companionship a lot.
DeleteImagine wanting to deny the woman something so beautiful after all she's done and been through?
Who cut onions? God bless you for this @ anonymous
DeleteLa creme
Your head is not correct! What's wrong with you going to take care of your own father or inviting one of those prostitute to take care of him? Idiot..anuofia !
ReplyDeleteStella don vex 😁
ReplyDelete.Very good advice. Oga u and your brothers should get a care giver for your dad. Your mom no come this life to suffer.
Dear poster, your mom deserves every happiness; please don't be a killer of joy, get help for your dad okay?
DeletePoster, na human being you sef be, go look your papa. In your words, you are all successful, put him in YOUR house, hire help, or better still, resign from your successful job to look after him.
ReplyDeleteBut your see your mother, she has earned her right to be happy, leave her if you don't want to incur thunder on top your wicked head.
F**k you poster. Go take care of your dad or you no be person?
ReplyDeletePoster, I am not even sorry to say this but u are mad! You are very very mad!
ReplyDeleteI've come back to say, may God not let us born idiots as children!
ReplyDeleteAmen. May my children never turn out like this poster in terms of thinking or mindset. Jesus, abeg.
DeleteSuch little brain in action. I pity you poster. You never ready. If na me be your mama, I go disown you.Ndi ara ndi ara
Go to hell ekwensu odi ogologo
ReplyDeleteSimple.
ReplyDeleteDo what you can to care for your father.
Or
Convince your brothers to join hands with you to care for your father.
Don't aggro with any of your brothers who refuse to join in.
Leave your mother out of this matter.
Leave the man and his family out of this matter.
Expect more insulting comments.
But read all to learn the important words in them.
As a man, I understand where you are looking at. But sometimes there are battles better left unfought.
Mr. Mann
There's nothing there to understand. He's plain mad, stupid, wicked, and near evil.
DeleteYou're not really a good person. You hate your mum with passion. You loved it when she was lonely and sad. But why?
ReplyDeleteNo other name for you but wickedness ,who do you think you are if you love your father like that go and take care of him employ a nurse or better still marry and bring him to your house and take care of him,this is the very reason some women regretting training male child .If your mother will forgive your dad let it come from her otherwise face front ,Mr caretaker
ReplyDeleteGod bless you Stella for this red pen. May i not have this kind of child as this poster a child who prefers to see his mother suffering. Tueh
ReplyDeleteWhy must your mother be the one to take care of your irresponsible Dad? If you so much care about him then employ someone to take care of him.
ReplyDeleteI have never used this phrase before...but for this chronicle, I shall.
ReplyDeleteTHUNDER FIRE YOUR BUM!!!!!
He is in a sorry state??? And so??!!
You are an able-bodied man...what is stopping you from going to take care of your dad?
You're in better shape than your mum - you can do the heavy lifting, and other physical tasks required.
Mr Compassionate, go and pay for a caretaker to look after your dad! What is the point of your so-called success?? Mtchewwww
a typical Nigerian man, please carry ur cross by urself and leave the poor woman alone to enjoy her life.
ReplyDeleteVery self-centered and insensitive creatures
DeleteIt is not a case of gender.
DeleteTrue life story:
She left her child lesser than age 7 in her marriage and walked away. Life did not go as expected. She did not have another child or husband at old age. She had to turn back to the child she left. It was a respected family friend who reconciliated mother and child.
Men are bad. But on the typical Nigerian wedding day, you see brides dancing with a trailer of hailing dancing friends.
Let's be focusing on the issues instead of abusing all men for our poor choice of men.
Change your circle of men. If they are family, pray. What God cannot do does not exists.
Like you said, your mum and dad are not together again. Therefore your mother has no responsibility taking care of him, abeg that woman don suffer to bring you kids up and she successfully did a brillant work. Abeg leave that woman let her enjoy life as she missed that taking care of you while your dad was busy chopping his life. After all he is your dad, he is also your responsibility.
ReplyDeleteHere is a suggestion, call your siblings and talk about your dad's health. Discuss who he stays with or you get a nurse or nanny to care for him and you pay the person.
You are an evil child period! He is your father, since u care so much come back from Canada and play nanny.
ReplyDeleteGo and start living with him or bring him to your place to start taking care of him.
ReplyDeleteDear Poster, I bet if check on your Mum now, you find her dancing to Timaya Song" Dis life i can't killl myself ooooo, allow to flex oooooo.......
ReplyDeleteThe widower's children are the ones living in canada and not the poster. What did the Bible talk about forgiveness? If she can forgive him and go back good, but if she decides to continue her love love, still good for her, but the poster shouldn't force his mother.
ReplyDeleteLee, don’t even annoy me with your goodytwoshoes comments…if she can go back what? You can take up the job since you want to form good girl. Instead of you to reprimand the poster for being mean and envious of his mum happiness. Abeg o
DeleteWhy must she go back to a marriage she walked away from years ago due to abandonment? She be suffer head? Let those women he abandoned her for, come and take care of him! She can forgive and remain stress free. Becaus if the reverse is the case, this man won't bat an eyelid.
DeleteAgain, I say that Nigerian men are enjoyment ministers oh.
DeleteWhat has forgiveness got to do with this?
So someone that left the marriage years ago should go back to it because of forgiveness. lolll.
Una dey ment sha.
If na women do olosho from her husband house and her husband leave am. Then she later fall sick, una go get mind mention to the man to go back and be with his wife?
Answer oh.
I just dey vex. true
Make una leave dat side of women not wanting to come back or not coming back for personal reasons.
DeleteWomen who left their husbands have been known to - Ask to come back and or Fight as the
sole inheritors of the man/husband's wealth under
the Marriage Act (court marriage). Even after decades of separation. Examples abound. But no need to call well known cases.
That said, Poster has no reason to decide what her mother should do with her life now.
Poster should go sort his Dad's case. He has the right to forgive his Dad just as he doesn't have the right to dictate his mother should do the same.
Mr. Mann
This one will marry now, and expect his wife to Sha not be happy & just tend after him no matter what he dishes out, you didn't mention the part where as a son/child you sat your father down and told him to be kind to your mother. Your mother has found healing to her soul, let go of bitterness, trying to be human again with feelings and emotions, you still want to draw her back, if I use back of my hand to slap your face ehen...... you will be dizzy
ReplyDeleteHonestly, I pity his wife sha. I really do
DeleteI honestly feel sorry for the woman that will end or has ended up with him. He is so unreasonable, controlling and very childish.
DeletePlease leave your Mum out of this and look for nanny to take of your dad.
ReplyDeletePoster E no go better for you!!!! Are you serious??? Where are your father’s prostitute to care for him?? That’s his damn karma!!! If you meddle with you mom’s affair, you will never find a good woman in your life and you better don’t repeat your father’s mistakes!!! Evil child!
ReplyDeleteI’m so proud of everyone today
ReplyDeleteMay I not born a wicked and inconsiderate child in Jesus name. May my children not meet or associate with a wicked person like you poster in Jesus name. Infact, may I never come across a joy killer like you in Jesus name. Kai, so you don’t know you have your fathers wicked traits because if not you won’t use your precious time to devise evil thoughts and ways to harm your mother or short live her happiness. You even want to message the man’s children abroad. Ah, your head is not correct o.
ReplyDeleteYou better go and care for your father after all you are now successful and can afford to nurse him. Greedy child, you want to be gallivanting around and want to refuse your mum to do same. You reek of jealousy and envy, you didn’t think your mum will ever be happy again, see the way you described her relationship in your narrative. You need to give your life to Christ, so God can eliminate every form of wickedness in your heart.
P.S don’t be like your father, because not everyone is like your mum. You fit meet person wey fit end you if your fuck up.
You know say this poster dey craze, may God forbid rubbish. The audacity self you no get respect rara oloriburuku
ReplyDeleteI don’t believe this. Please hire a cater for him abeg. Your mum is not his nurse or caregiver. Abeg no make me vex this early Saturday morning abeg. What rubbish!
ReplyDeleteYou are a wicked son. This trend of sick men going back to old wives is more prevalent nowadays. God has given you mother well deserved peace and you want to ruin it, God will punish you if you try it. Be very careful.
ReplyDeleteIf you are so worried about this man then go and take care of him yourself, if your mum had remarried would you have been waiting for her to take care of him? I’m surprised you’re not loyal to your mum… what a shame! You’re wicked!
Karen
She should go and take care of your father as per his slave abi? May God forgive you. Are you not his son? What is wrong with you caring for him. Honestly eh, if you disturb that woman, you will not know peace. God forbid pikin like you. Common sense is very far from you. I wish I can get my hands on you am so upset right now ! Tueh!!! Dem swearr for you? Other sons will support their mom and wish her happiness. I pity the woman that ends up with you cause you are clearly your father's child. Go and ask God for forgiveness. As for your dad, hire a carer for him. You know what to do but you are too stingy to spend a Kobo.
ReplyDeleteShe should go and take care of your father as per his slave abi? May God forgive you. Are you not his son? What is wrong with you caring for him. Honestly eh, if you disturb that woman, you will not know peace. God forbid pikin like you. Common sense is very far from you. I wish I can get my hands on you am so upset right now ! Tueh!!! Dem swearr for you? Other sons will support their mom and wish her happiness. I pity the woman that ends up with you cause you are clearly your father's child. Go and ask God for forgiveness. As for your dad, hire a carer for him. You know what to do but you are too stingy to spend a Kobo.
ReplyDeleteI’m gobsmacked. Utterly shocked. Guy you need to go for therapy. Your fathers doings has damaged your psyche. I’m serious. Please go to therapy and unburden everything you saw and learnt from your dad.
ReplyDeletePoster, LEAVE YOUR MOTHER ALONE. YES, I AM SHOUTING.
ReplyDeleteIs your mother suffer head? Why didn't you talk to your Dad to change his ways all these years? You are utterly selfish and self centered. Pls leave her alone. Your father is been served his dues.
You take of your father pls and let her be.
She is a human being and you said she was responsible for taking care of you and your siblings. Has she not done enough?
Poster pls let your mum be. The least you can do is to get an help or nanny to care for your Father. Pls let her enjoy her happiness as you said she suffered a lot for you and your brothers
ReplyDeleteThe boy na Voldemort intern. Very wicked and self centered imp.
DeleteNa big witch you be. Tufiakwa
ReplyDeleteDaddy isnonu,son alainirori.like father like son.Una fit unasef so na u fit take care of am well well.
ReplyDeletePlease be happy for your mom. Thankfully you are old enough and aware of how things turned out between them.
ReplyDeleteI want to believe your mom has already forgiven him. Thank God things turned out well for you and your brothers.
Kindly hire a nurse to take care of your father.
Ije umu nwoke.
Poster since you love your daddy somuch, why don’t you sacrifice yourself to take care of him. After all you are his beloved child na and it’s not only mothers that take care of sick fathers
ReplyDeleteUseless pikin, shame no dey catch you to type this kind chronicles.
🤣🤣🤣... See as everyone dey boil.
ReplyDeleteAs I forewarned him.
DeleteMr. Mann
After reading this chronicle a second time and seeing the poster's choice of words in addressing his mom's new found love, I now know what his main problem is; dude is pained and feels his mom is too old to be in a love affair not bcos he cares about his dad. Poster, if you don't want curses and strife to follow you, leave that woman alone! You are selfish, entitled and still have a lot of growing up to do. Carry your self righteous self and get out of that woman's life. Truly, you don't deserve a mother like that.
ReplyDeleteYou are so so RIGHT 16:42!!!!!!!
DeleteI feel like hugging you cos what you said is NOTHING but the TRUTH!
End time child!!!!
If you are all successful as you stated why don't you all pool your funds and hire a caregiver for your father?
ReplyDeleteYour mother deserves whatever joy she can get at this stage of her life. She has struggled and toiled already, let her redt. Let her get some pampering. What concern is it of yours if she and this man wants to act like googly eyed teenagers. Joy, happiness, love and lust are not only for the young. She is a warm blooded woman like any other. You are overstepping your boundaries as a son and it is not out of love. You resent her joy, even though you know she deserves it, you still resent it. You likely have had long hoped for dreams that your parents would be together again and you could be one big happy family. Your mother's love interest threatens those dreams from ever coming through. You see your father's situation as the perfect situation to heal the family. Did you ever think on the public humiliation, shame, gossip and endless tears your mother endured when your father rejected you all? Did you ever think what it took out of her to raise three boys single handedly in a country without women's rights or social support? You never saw the toll it took on her from the inside to push through daily so you can now come and want to plan another public humiliation for her. Don't you dear dream of disrupting her life. Your father's seeds he sowed in his youth has come to harvest, he does not deserve any of your attention, he should be lucky you all even give a shit. Go hire a caregiver and let your mother be!
I agree with Stella ,u are evil... now that your mum is supposed to rest and enjoy herself you want her to go and be a nanny to someone that abandoned her and the kids,is not as if is she brainwashed you into believing your dad was not there for you but you saw everything growing up, abeg call his prostitutes to come take care of him or you go do it yourself
ReplyDeleteClarification: it’s the widowers kids who are in Canada not this spoilt brat .
ReplyDeleteApart from the fact that you’re a very very wicked and heartless person, you’re also STUPID and USELESS human being. Very very useless human being!
Was your mother tied to your father’s umbilical cord ? Look at what you’re mother went through to get you here and look at how entitled you sound to her .
That’s why to have a son can be a curse sometimes because at the end of the day their deep sense of patriarchy comes through and want to make stupid decisions for even their mother too.
You’re a truly a child of your father : a very stupid one like him .
I hope you read all the comments and it gives you endless migraine, idiot !
Since you want to be Joan of arc so bad , go take of your father yourself. You don’t even have sense one bit , threatening the peace and happiness of your mother by planning to contact the man’s kids to leave your mother alone .
Is your mother your child ? What the freaking audacity! The flying heck of a cockroach! I’m so upset! Idiot
Lady MorgiannE
I personally don't want to have sons.
Delete2 daughters and I'm fine.
And any time I read the comments of the so called entities that identify as members on this blog, I am so happy with my decision.
Stella no mind the stupid poster. Since you love your dad why don't you go and take care of him. Foolish child. Stella post make the foolish pikin see am
ReplyDeleteAjo nwa. From the stories people are sharing about how they sacrifice for their kids and all at the end they payed them back with hate.
ReplyDeleteOmooo I must reason my own happiness and welfare before any kid. Me first in everything. I no fit suffer for them put them first in everything and time for me to enjoy reach they will be behaving like witch.
Time for mothers to start building their happiness and life away from this kids because at the end of the day they must always display their selfishness.
This poster is one of the reasons I pray to God not to give me male children. God forbid. May we not labour to be rewarded with such selfish and entitled children.
ReplyDeleteAlso pray to God to enable you generate the sperm you need for the gender of children you desire. Hope you will not marry another woman's male offspring.
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Delete16:52
DeleteWetin happon?
If you are a woman. Hope you are not praying to be married to the male offspring another woman prayed for and got.
Hope you also pray to conceive the female children without any act involving a man or male fluids.
Stella, please post.
Son, get a carer for your dad. Stop acting like someone that is mentally derailed. I see why your dad didn't train you, he saw foolishness in you. Oniranu!
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DeleteWicked child. I am sure you are a male. Even after all he did, you feel because he is a man she should throw her life away to take of him because a woman's life will always be second to a man's.
ReplyDeleteEntrenched misogyny, women are only good for suffer
DeleteIt is obvious you never saw wrong in what your father did.
ReplyDeleteYou had a good life on the back of the sacrifices of your mother.
If you had suffered and never made it to where you are today, I am sure you won't even think of this.
It is possible to forgive someone and still move on.
If you really care for your father get a caregiver for him.
Leave your mother alone she has done more than enough.
Let me also tell you that even the strongest of love has its limit. (Before you turn your mother's love sour).
Are you you crazy?!!!!!!🥺
ReplyDeleteLeave your mom alone!
Allow her to enjoy her life . She has sacrificed alot for you guys
Don't disrupt her happiness.
Let the olosho that has been frolicking with your come and take care of him!!!!
Poster you are evil!
ReplyDeleteLook at your mother carefully, did they write SLAVE on her forehead?
You don't love your mother, I pity your wife to be, I can only see you ending up like your father.
If you know what is good for you better go get your father a miad/proffessional caregiver/nurse, you and your siblings pull funds together and take care of your father.
Let your mother enjoy her 2nd chance at having a good life, your father failed her and you can't deprive her of joy and peace in her current age.
Get out of here joor, selfish male
This is an Angry inducing Chronicle... Every body is angry 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteYes nah
DeleteYou are a very very wicked.you are looking for advice.Is there anything that stops from taking care of your father by urself since you don’t want him suffer or are you crippled.You can take care of your dad by urself.Wicked animal 🦒 in human form
ReplyDeleteApparently the apple doesn't fall so far from the tree. Only you used your mouth to say your mum suffered for you guys. Oga shebi you cannot take care of your father or that's just the sole responsibility of your mother or your mother was created to suffer.
ReplyDeleteYou are a very wicked child. This is your mother's life not yours. If you dare threaten the man she loves, she'll never forgive you.
You sound like a successful man. You can hire a nurse to care for your dad. At this point, your mum is not obligated to do anything for your dad, rather, you are because you are his blood. Your mum and dad are divorced so she has no legal obligation to him. It is her choice to care for him if she so pleased. Please let her be.
Rather than threaten the man she loves, why not have a talk with her and your other siblings. Please let your mum be. Don't be a demon
Just imagine the audacity. The same woman that he maltreated. If she had died in his house, who will take care of him. Since you and your siblings are successful, get him a home nurse, house girl, take him to a nursing home or even a get him a house close to you if need be. She owes him NOTHING. After all the wickedness in life, it is in old age, they remember the wife of their youth they maltreated. He is your blood, deal with it!!
ReplyDeleteSadist vibes. They hate to see someone else happy. Your mums happiness is irking you. Even your potential half siblings your stalkingon social media don’t know you hate their happines
ReplyDeleteTo the men cheating, this is the way it ends. With pain and regret. Big regret.
ReplyDeleteNot always so.
DeleteAny man who does not plan for his old age outside of his wife and children face the challenge Poster's father is facing.
Those who cheated and planned are having their cakes after eating it. Some even marry younger women.
That doesn't mean I support cheating husbands.
20:14 yes he should plan for a life outside his wife and children after living a reckless dirty life.
DeleteBecause he will die old, sick and alone.
I was really angry reading this chronicle, infact I don't want to believe this is for real.
ReplyDeleteGod knows that I'd disown any child that is this useless, heartless and against my happiness and joy like this. So, you'd rather your mom suffers for a man that abandoned her to raise 3 kids singlehandedly? Do you know what that means? Even men do not try this shit. But a woman would do it only for her child to grow up to be someone like you.
ReplyDeleteKai! I'm too angry to continue. May God forgive you for being a wicked son to a poor single mom.
Hmmmmm!
ReplyDeleteMajority of men are naturally jealous and possessive .
Poster, allow the old lady sorry, the young lady to flex with her new catch jor!
Anik
You are not okay. Abeg shift. Go and take care of your father if you care so much!
ReplyDeleteWow really!! You are trying to force your mother to do something she does not want to do! To go back to a man who did not love her. And now she has found love, something that your father did not give her, you by yourself, want to take it away from her???
ReplyDeleteFind a carer who will take care your father and pay the person to do so. LEAVE YOUR MOTHER ALONE!!! And be very careful! Karma is real in your family! Do not bring curse upon yourself.
If your mother was willing to do so, it is a different matter. She does not want to. She alone knows what she suffered to bring up 3 children, all by herself.
Please do not try it. Leave her alone!!!!!
With the look of things, poster you will be worst than your father. SMH!
ReplyDeleteTypically Nigerian man mentality. Their mother should remain with their heartless fathers or remain alone. God forbid she finds happiness with another man. Meanwhile, they'll look for another woman for their father when their mothers have not yet been buried. Wickedness!!
ReplyDeleteVery dirty mentality. Always looking for ways to dehumanise women with their empty heads and razz baboon looks. Pffft.
DeleteDr poster receive this hot slap from me with love. How dare you? So, you don't like the fact that your mum is happy again after single handedly raising 3 boys without her husband. Hmm!
ReplyDeleteIn summary, you're sick in the head.
Wucked shild
ReplyDeleteThese are the type of demonic children I curse with every breathe in my soul. Ekwensu.com.
ReplyDeleteA woman suspended her life to ensure that each of het children are successful.
Now that she has an opportunity to take some happiness for herself in this life, you say no, she should become a nanny for a man who never cared whether she lived or died.
If you care do much about your deadbeat father, are your own hands paralyzed?
Go an take care of him na or call his sidechick and the prostitutes to be wiping his buttocks and changing diaper.
E no hard.
May it never ever be well with you in this life.
Mtcheew
ReplyDeleteHonestly, I for no open this chronicle if to say I say na so e go end
What nonsense is this one talking about?
I just dey para for here way I dey. Shebi na your mama good to suffer as per suffer head way she be?
If the reverse was the case world people for call her *hore
Abeg you in the name of anything you hold dear, allow your mama enjoy her new found lover. She deserve love and to be loved. Ah ah!
*Sipping my juice in annoyance*
Me my self I vex for this poster,don't even try contacting the man's kids,if you feel sorry for your dad,go and take care of him yourself, were was he when she was all alone?..now that God has put smile on her face,you want to stop her joy,in short you are very very wicked......... Josaria
ReplyDeleteShey you are of age? Since you love your dad so much, you could go take care of him. Not just are you wicked, you're ungrateful for all she has sacrificed to give you and your brothers a life worthy to brag about.
ReplyDeleteIf you don’t want me to commot cloth sepe for you at 12 midnight you better leave that women alone and go and take care of your father yourself.
ReplyDeleteWicked child!
Poster you are a F__L.
ReplyDeleteWhat an ungrateful child you are.
Instead of you to be thinking about how to make your mother happier, you are there asking us how to turn her into a slave.
I have no words for you.
Are you the first child? because if not I expected your brothers should have given you resounding slaps when you mentioned it to them ab initio.
ReplyDeleteI have commented multiple times on this post because I am livid….so you and your dad are in talks and you or was him that suggested your mum come take care of him. I expected that the Agbada you will wear for thanksgiving in church should be overflowing because your mum found happiness after sacrificing all for you and your brothers…God looked upon her and made her found a peaceful place. Mr man, don’t yield yourself to the devil because all the devil does is to kill and destroy.
Once again, pray against every form of your dad’s evil traits breeding in you. Find a carer for your dad and let your mum live in peace because person wey say make him mama no sleep himself no go sleep. Peace be unto you as you put this matter to rest today and forever.
This is how God will continue to be punishing all these wicked fathers and husbands that think world revolve only around them, they will be lonely and miserable in their old age with nobody to care for them.(Amen)
ReplyDeleteSo your Mum came to this life to suffer ba ???
ReplyDeleteReceive Common sense in Jesus Name !!!
It's time to tell your dad to bring home one of his concubines to take care of him or you hire a care giver.
Allow the woman enjoy her life plsss.
The comment on this post ehhn poster don’t come back to read o you fit kpai 🤣🤣
ReplyDelete🤣 your funny abeg! Very annoying!
DeleteYou are not only wicked but evil father may I not have a child the reason this way Amen
ReplyDeleteI think you just feel your mum doesn't deserve to be loved. See you saying she's behaving like a teenager in love, and so?
ReplyDeleteGuy, you fall hand abeg. Your dad is reaping what he sowed. Hope you will do better when you get married.
I hope the irresponsible men out there are taking note.
Stella vex and I follow her vex!!!! what? YOU ARE A WICKED CHILD, you must just be like your father. Your mother is finally resting and reaping the rewards of her labor over you 3 and you want to repay her by sending her back to HELL. No African woman willingly leaves a marriage do you know the shame and pain, the wasted effort. Worse off picking up bills singlehandedly you can never say I am tired because if you tire all crumbles, yet you didnt make your children alone . Take it from a woman thats been cheated on! There is such a toll even emotionally that you sometimes may think youre running mad! if you care about your dad YOU GO AND TAKE CARE OF HIM! he too is reaping the fruits of his labor!!! I can see you are just like your dad learn from him before you end up where he is
ReplyDeleteThe only thing that I can figure out from your write up is that you need an MRI urgently because your brain is frying up. You are a faulty intel, both you and your dad deserve each other. Wicked stoned hearted ezi. Tueh
ReplyDeletePoster please get your dad all the adequate care you guys can afford to give.
ReplyDeleteThis boy is very mean and cruel..how can you have the mind to tell ur mum to go and Take care of ur dad.oga take time ooo if you truly love ur dad u can bring him to ur base and take care of him urself..leave ur mum to enjoy her life now abeg..long hisssss
ReplyDeleteEvil child. Walk a mile in your mum's shoes, you won't even think of taking care of your father. Since when did your mom become a nurse? If it's easy why don't you take care of him yourself? I'm so irritated right now
ReplyDeleteVery stupid child
ReplyDeleteYou are the true son of your father.. Heartless and wicked. Na this kind pikin person dey hold womb pray make e no born that kind pikin. Very selfish human being.
ReplyDeleteYou be human being so? You sound like a demon. Na wa!! Which kine winch person be this?
ReplyDeleteAunty Stella you say he will never forgive himself?? Lie!! He will not even think twice about it. This one is as wicked as his father. Probably even sat down and concocted this evil plan with his wicked father. Like father like son. Wicked evil people.!
ReplyDeleteOver 100 comments all just de insult you. Like father like son. I wish your mom left only you with your dad so that you will see better shege. I wish your mom a beautiful home.
ReplyDeleteNo matter how many times you read this chronicle, you go vex everytime. Very mean black hearted child. Tufia.
ReplyDeleteHonestly!! I have read it like 5 times and each time, am livid. Imagine the audacity, very mannerless and ungrateful brat
DeleteYou have a special place in hell. How can you even think such towards a mother who sacrificed a lot for you and your siblings. You can be your father's carer but I guess you have a poor mentality that it's a woman's job. He has laid his bed, let him lie in it. I am so angry reading this as a mother of 2 boys. You better leave your mother to enjoy true companionship and love. She is not too old to be treated right and cared for.
ReplyDeleteYou're a very wicked person. Do you hate your mum this much? Chai...what a heartless son you are. Thank God your brothers do not think like you, it would have been a loss for the poor woman. God forbid bad thing. Go and take care of your father, leave the woman the heck alone
ReplyDeleteHe's not the only one, he's typical igbo man,trust me the guy and his dad is igbo,the tribe that see women as real suffer head and had no remorse about that ,they even brain wash their women into believing that they don't need man as far as they have kids after leaving husband house as per divorce or widowhood but their men will marry wives ooo till they tire, My Elder bros want to try that nonsense with my mom, after our dad abandoned us for over 20 years he got sick my bros wan push am to my mom in a house i build with my money,i change am for him, he took him and kept in his house, my brother took my dad to series of hospital but he has never bought 1 card of moderatic for my hypertensive mom for close to 15yrs, when he died the umunna colides with ndi nwuye di to sanction my mom for not taking care of a useless husband, well i team up with my mom's siblings to send them message that we the children and mom won't come because my dad has not come to bring her back officially after 22 years of separation, the collected some money from us cos we didn't care for him especially me, i gave them 13k after so much begging from my friends that excort me to village, well i fulfilled my promise i made to him, that he won't eat my money alive only in death, so befitting burial he got, infact everyone was shouting with the type of burial i gave him, my bros support small and leave most of th expenses for me simply because i refused to give him a dime till he die, i remember the day he ask me to do xmas for him i ignore him totally,
ReplyDeleteSo this is typical igbo man character, they're so mean and wicked to their women, take away money they have absolutely nothing to offer, though many of them are responsible for family but can fuck anything on skits
Wahala wahala no pass like this
DeleteYour elder brother needs a complete mindset overhaul
So he wanted your mum who left since to go back and start taking care of the man. The man that literally abandoned you guys
Lol
He he no get hand. Sorry na wife suppose be slave. Lol
Thank you for standing up for your mother
God bless you
Wo, God will bless you abundantly for this TRUTH you have said.
DeleteVery dirty misogynistic set of men with extremely primitive mindset.
I'd rather die single than marry from that tribe.
No be small war i stood my ground o, cos my mama suffered to raise 5kids alone
DeletePoster,you are a WICKED WICKED child.Asi gbakwa gi.so u don't ever want ur mom happy? Evil child.see who my fellow woman toiled to raise.i am a divorcee,raising my kids alone!! because I married a man like your father.so if tomorrow after training these kids I find a good man,I wil be expected to go and take care of my sick ex.Dont let me curse you.leave your mom to be happy.Go and take care of your father.live with him and employ a nurse to take care of him
ReplyDeleteHmm, this life. Poster, you already have more than enough insults up there. Please allow your mum to be. If you care so much for your dad, then take it upon yourself.to care for him personally or hire someone else to do so. Your request to.your mum is very selfish and inconsiderate. Put yourself in her shoes, would you do same for a spouse who treat you the way your father treated her.
ReplyDeleteLucifer pro max.
ReplyDeleteE better make person no born than to born this kind thing.
You wife and female children go don see shegebanza.
@ Poster, it mustn't be your mum taking care of your dad, if you love him so much take care of him now that he needs it
ReplyDeleteWicked boy, selfish boy, your father is sick and what is stopping you from going to take care of him. When he had money to take care of your mum he was using it to follow some girls. Now that he is sick he is looking for who to come and pack shit.
ReplyDeleteYour father should call those girls he was chopping life with then and ask them to come pack his poo. Bitter son allow your mum yo enjoy love especially the man doesn't have baggage as all his children are already grown and in abroad. Your mother is not going to pack poo or suffer again cos of marriage.
Since you love your father so much I will advice you marry a wife for him and leave your mom who already found love. I'd I am that man's children and I see your message to warm my dad to leave your mom I will so insult you cos you are selfish, heartless, bitter leaf somborri.