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Hello Stella,
Please post before i lose my mind.
I met my boyfriend in July, we were friends for 3 months before we started dating in October, we agreed to wait for at least 2 months before we start having s*x.
We had s*x for the first time in December, i must say it was worth the wait but one thing i noticed after the first and second round was my boyfriend didn't ejaculate. I asked him why later, he said he held it back when he felt it coming. I didn't ask anymore questions.
We've had it 3 more times since our first time and he has never c*m plus he lasts so so long in bed which is one thing i ain't comfortable with. For me if the right spots are stimulated, i can c*m in 10 minutes, and the moment i c*m i get dry. It's always a torture having to knack and knack and knack with a dry thing. I always have a "tear" down there every time we do it.
We recently had a conversation about it, he didn't have much to say. He just tried to assure me it's not a problem and i shouldn't bother myself worrying about it. I don't know if i should be worried because i have never experienced this kind of thing before.
If you noticed this already and with your complaint then its a problem. Why does he not come? is it a health condition? It is also sounding like he takes stimulants as well... dont even think about marrying him until you understand what you are in..
Please if you are commenting in this Chronicle to advice her, dont use Lewd s#x words. Thank you
I feel he uses stimulants.
ReplyDeleteAnd this one he is smashing you without mercy, hope he marries you oooo. Cos if he doesn't, I don't know how down there will look like after years of this relationship. Then, what do you think your hubby in future will say?
My dear, think deep and think future ooo. Meanwhile you have to let him know you don't like loooooong knacking. Maybe that will help.
Again, a lot of nacking doesn't widen the down there. What does is infection, childbirth and weight loss. Thank you.
DeleteHope he marries her?😯
DeleteHell no!!
This is really really strange biko
The pu**y will not look anyhow. All this olden days fabu that they tell girls to scare them.
DeleteThat means all the married women that they drill almost everyday, e don finish for us na.
Nawa O
DeleteHe's taking stuff i guess
Anon and Fidel, did you read where she said she has tear whenever they do the knacking? If these tear continues, what happens after 2 years? How will that place look like? Educate me pls
DeleteI'm sure it is more of bruises not tears. And yes, Fidel is right, e no dey wide anything. Something that widens up to 10cm for a child's head to pass through and then Contracts back is what pe*** of what size will widen.
DeleteTrue. Too much knacking does not widen the p#ssy. You lot should stop with this fabus.
DeleteSpeaking from experience.
Poster, pls run from that man. He obviously has problem with his d*ck and uses drugs to get it up, that is why he does it for long and the thing refuses to com. It is not natural. Pls don't let desperation push you into a life of regrets. He is telling you not to worry. How will he impregnate you if he doesn't com?
Go to hospital please
ReplyDeletePoster, hope you get to see this. There is nothing wrong with your guy because I once met someone like this, he has no cum after release but he was a Baby Daddy - his son was his striking image.
DeleteAlso, it took him long to cum too, and even 1st round that should be quick. I start complaining being tired once he enters and he learnt to cum fast, so how was he lasting long? He said he holds cum from his waist (whatever that means) and he doesn't want to be accused of being a 1 minute man.
You can try this and research on the cum.
If the marriage potential better start saving for fertility test, observe him in using other sex acts..
ReplyDeletePoster I don't think it's a problem. He might not want to ejaculate inside of you to avoid pregnancy.
ReplyDeleteI've also done same in time past when making out. I deliberately refuse to c*m as a preventive measure against pregnancy.
The other part is that I take longer time making love just like him; though it also makes my partner sexually satisfied because I spend more time.
Your partner is not enjoying it, just like this lady is complain up there but guys never learn! Stop the long pounding, she is only pretending to you one day she will confess wen una fight or through heart to heart conversation
Delete@ Super V, many times your partner will not relax to enjoy the long pounding because of the guilt of pre marital sex.
DeleteEven if she does, she has it at the back of her mind, that you ain't her hubby yet.
And not preventing pregnancy with that tactic is zero and very wack
DeleteEven your precum can impregnate a woman
Anon16:17 she does certainly enjoy it. Why? Because I spend enough time so she can attain an orgasm or even multiple orgasm.
DeleteYou are nice superV. Many men don't care about a woman's orgasms.
DeleteSuper v, taking too much time to pound does not equal enjoyment. If your partner meets a man who does it better tomorrow, she will dump you
DeleteAunty go date 40 secs man na!
DeleteHmmm this is suspended
ReplyDeleteEven if he uses enhancement meds, he'd cum and still maintain his erection. I'm not a guy to know why he doesn't cum, coz his tank isn't empty naa. Except he ain't feeling the pu**y... You could use aprodisiac to keep it bomb... if it's slippery like okra soup, he'd cum sharp sharp, except his village people have built houses in his Ballz.
ReplyDeleteAwww BB,you made me remember,that moniker,money makes you bla bla😛😛😛
DeleteBB trams can sustain his dick for the whole day and he won’t cum until it wears out. If she can catch him on aware when that thing wears out she’d see that his problem isn’t even that he doesn’t cum but that he cums too early… hence the reason for the trams so as to boost his ego because I’m sure he’d be using his drug aided sexual stamina to brag to her.
DeleteYour bf uses tramadol or some other sex enhancement Pill. I did same during my uni days I'm 💯 sure that's the cause of this. Tell him to be honest with you.
ReplyDeleteLol… that’s how TM works but he surely would deny it if she asks him. Plus TM isn’t a drug one must take an hour or two before the nacks, it can even be taken 12hrs before hand and still prevent the man from cumming so poster don’t think ‘but I don’t see him taking anything’.
DeleteHe knows what he’s doing that’s why he isn’t bothered on the possibility of it being a health issue because he knows it isn’t. Its likely that he naturally cums early so he uses TM which most times prevents a man from even cumming at all. And it can become quite addictive as a drug and also it would prevent him from tackling his premature ejaculation the right way which is his main reason for taking the drug. Because he’d lose trust in his natural stamina which would also create anxiety which is also one of the causes of premature ejaculation. So such enhancements on the long run does more harm than good to them.
Lol... Most likely. I think he's real problem is actually PE. Don't wanna spit more before it would seem like I'm ousting my fellow man. Lol
DeleteAnd hey, you'd not catch him taking it so don't think of it.
Heavenly race no even consign this poster..Fornicating and proud to ask for advice..
ReplyDeleteAnyways a man lasting that long can mean either of these three..
a) He isn't feeling your kpekus..perhaps your vagina isn't getting wet enough for him;like odighì agba mmiri to give the tip of his gbola that sensation to climax..
He isn't getting the right spots too,so change position like spooning,cowgirl,reverse cowgirl,missionary etc..
b) He is using stimulants
C) He pulls out a bit emotionally when almost about to climax, that sends back the sperm and gives him more time;then he continues with the thrusting all over..
@MARTINS
Nwoke Martins,jisike 👐,poster,here is the summary.
DeleteMe I think it's a o. Because how is he feeling the pu*"y and not cumming? Guys that last long sef, once your puna is 🔥🔥, they will definitely cum. A whole 3x, and he hasn't cum once. Abeg abeg
Delete@ Martins, i dont understand your first sentence, this blog is for strictly adults with human feelings and needs. Nobody should judge anybody and no one holy pass God. @ POSTER, your guy might not be taking any stimulants and frankly, i am exactly like that. I dont cum for hours and its cos i trained my body to satisfy my partner before me, in the process, i get exhuasted and fagged out. i might not cum for days and i am not using any drugs, my GF is always wet and takes it. thanks
DeleteMartins wetin happen,first time reading a comment from you like this.E be like you know every every.weldone
DeleteHe uses drugs… if he remains hard for that long and doesn’t cum then know he uses something because it is against the Male anatomy for blood to remain in their organ so as to keep it hard for that long… that is unhealthy for the heart.
ReplyDeleteOmo if gbenshing pass 10min me i get bored. I’d rather we cum in 10 to 15min and then go again and experience more pleasure rather than digging for crude oil.😅
ReplyDeleteLol@digging for crude oil 😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteI don't know why men feel that they have to stay 1hr just to impress a woman, sebi you wan kee person pikin ni?
ReplyDeleteunless both partners re using stimulants(awon kayanmata,aphrodisiacs and co), normal gbensh should not exceed 30mins or 40mins(involving microphone and plate licking) except you are acting p*rn.
eeew... iranu, abachaaa🍉🍉🍆🍆😛😛😛🙈🙈
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Tell him to stop taking secs enhancement drugs or herbs. He will mess up his system with that stuff at his age. Ejaculations helps to protect men agqinst prostate cancer, he should be ejaculating and not holding back.
ReplyDeleteHe’s not using drugs
ReplyDeletePeople train their bodies to hold back cause of women that need longer time. Just happens you need less. He’ll relax soon and get “there” faster
If you’re still unsure, you can ask for a drug test
Lol... Dey play dey go.
Deleteposter there is a problem her if oga last more than you. I feel the do is both parties that should enjoy it and same energy. If oga is lasting so much that you get dry, i think you both should have a deep discussion about it.
ReplyDeleteRemember is not easy to discuss health issues with people except you have win their trust. Try talking to him to find out reason he last so much longer than expected. If oga does not cum please he has a health issue cos gbenshing with someone you want or have been dreaming of will make you cum fast some cases.
Please take it easy with him to find out what is holding the cum, is never easy to share health challenges with anyone. Abi you both are planning marriage soon cos that part is where he cannot hide anything.
I think he may have some medical issues. Probe further oh to avoid stories that touch.
ReplyDeleteIt's either a medical condition or he's on some....
ReplyDeleteWhich ever case it is, I'd advice you find out the truth before Committing yourself.
He's very much experienced in bedmatic duties.the guy is a professional.
ReplyDeleteThere are some men that ejaculate at all, it's a medical condition. Check it out on Google.
ReplyDeleteAll the best dear
ReplyDeleteCan i shock you poster? It might sound distressing to you. I want to believe your guy doesn't find you attractive enough. You are not his spec.
ReplyDeleteI was in this kind of situation when i was dating the daughter to a popular actress who died fairly recently. Both are late now. To most men out there, she could pass off as attractive. Physically she was. But several times we made love, i had to fake cumming and yes Im a dude. I had to fake it just to stop lovemaking when i knew she was tired. It was months later in the relationship that i came and that was only after i visualized the naked body of my ex. The thing here is my girl then wasnt my spec. I didn't like slim ladies. I prefer them thick. Sex is very much mental for most men.
Secondly, your man may be a chronic masturbator and he uses too much pressure on his penis. If that's the case, he will struggle making love to any woman as no vagina can be as tight as a strong firm grip a hand gives.
You will need to really ask him some deep questions and get him to open up. Yes some of us can train ourselves to hold cum for a while. But certainly not for too long.
I can hold for 2 to 3 hours. But still cum when i want to. Except ofcourse i am not attracted to the lady which then begs the question, why are we together?
Hmmmm
DeleteExtreme abnormality, except he ejaculate b4 or no sperm at all, last last, the chemistry is not there. High sex and average sex
ReplyDeleteHe has a medical condition, sis. Be worried and press for test if you're looking at something long term with him. He may not be using any enhancement drugs and is very well attracted to you but, he just can't ejaculate.
ReplyDeleteI've been in a similar situation in a three year relationship.
The problem is, the typical guy won't accept he has a problem. In the three years dating, I can count the number of time he ejaculated on my left hand and plenty fingers go remain.
He'll say he too dey feel you but, no be the whole truth.
He's married today and six years down the line, no show. He's presently undergoing treatment. I hope it works out well for him
Poster I don't even know what to advice.
ReplyDeleteI used to date one man that takes time to cum. He smokes mariguana before s**. We must do it like 2-3rounds before he will cum. And he was so energetic, while me once the pounding pass 10mins I don lose interest I dey let am do the remaining pounding for extra 20-30mins just to satisfy him cos that's only how he can cum.
Omo when he said he will marry me, in my mind I dey fear say how I wan take manage this long pounding?
He sha met my parents, but one thing led to another and we broke up. Oh boy the relief was huge! Even if I was hurting.
I now went to meet one bad ass that worshiped the kpekus ,omo I was missing all these while.
MEN LISTEN, 90% OF WOMEN DONT LIKE LONG POUNDING., u can lick the plate for long we don't mind.
It's really nothing to be worried about. This happens to me too and the honest truth is that I masturbate a lot but when I stay off for a few days... I cum so easily. Just encourage him to stop or reduce masturbating and probably stop taking stimulants.
DeleteHe may not be s3xually attracted to you. If a man finds you really attractive and loves you, he will ejaculate. So the act is a chore he tolerates and endures.
ReplyDeleteStella say make we no talk plenty.
ReplyDeletePossible reasons -
Retarded ejaculation
Performance enhancing drugs
Personal capacity.
But consider more the red flag of incompatibility as regards the act and you both inability to communicate your choices and preferences about it
Aside, has he passed the main tests for marriage? It goes beyond the ability to sweet knack for 10minutes o.
The truth is he masturbates a lot and is used to it. They will have penetrative sex but will never cum but the moment, they use their hands; they explode.
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ReplyDeleteSee eh in a relationship it's better partners tell them the truth , you can stylishly gain his trust by telling him baby I really love us, tell him how you feel , don't judge him so he can open up to you ask him don't you find me attractive, or do you masturbate sometimes ,so I can suck it for you to get the feeling, or you tell him baby pls hope you re not using sex enhancemney drugs ,it's not good for your health, believe me he will open up to you ,
ReplyDeleteWhat is in this life that partners will be hiding themselves putting the other person in guesses and assumptions, hold his hands ,look him in the eyes and watch his body reactions .
Detect his body language know when he lies, he will open up believe me
Sex that is suppose to be sweet and enjoyed you go come dey frustrate person ask him polite questions he will open
Suck up gini 😳😅😂🤣
DeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis's fasting period
ReplyDeleteHad an experience like this before. When I finally talked to the guy, he confessed that he masturbates a lot and has gotten used to cumin with his hand. One of my friend's is currently married to someone in this situation. It has gotten so bad that he now masturbates Infront of her, then sleeps off. Crazy things are happening
ReplyDeletePoster hope you read this? Pls leave that guy
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