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DATING A TIME WASTER
He blames me for every issue we had. I have seen him enter a brothel before with another woman. When I asked he told me the dumbest lie that they went to see someone. We were discussing marriage but I woke up one day and told myself to move on.
Lack of communication and cheating is a deal breaker for me. Did I forget to say he lies like a baby and stingy?. One of those days he went absent without leave on me without any communication, I sent him a text that I reconnected with my ex and feel we should move on with our sperate lives.
He rushed to my house, Knelt down and apologized for every offence. Asked for a second chance as he could not live without me blablabla. I loved him so much. We continued.
Three months later, he went back to his former life. No communication. Full of excuses and lies etc. I invited a cousin to my house. I made sure he saw the guy. Told him the guy is my new boyfriend. He became furious. Stormed out of the house.
We laughed so hard when he left. I am tired.
He is back again professing love up and down.
It's been three years bros. I am 30+. You are above 40+ , Get out of my way oga. Holy spirit please help me to move on permanently. You don't want to eat food and you don't want to hear that another person wants to eat that food. E no fit work. Don't come and waste my time.
*This one is definitely a time waster, one day you will wake up to see his wedding invitation or he will hold you on until he frustrates you permanently... Dont let him back in for your own good oh....
You see that prayer in your last paragraph,my sister keep praying it ooo until u move on permanently cos bros is just a time waster but 30± never old just that this guy no follow at all. God will bless you with what is yours
ReplyDeleteNo woman above 25 should keep dating a guy who wouldn't give you a ring at least after a maximum of 1 year relationship. After the age of 30, engagement should come LATEST 6 MONTHS into the relationship. Men know if they want to marry you within a month to a maximum of 3 months of meeting you. Shine your eyes o, babes!!!
Delete15:40 don drop quote! See mandates 😆. No wonder divorce is on the rise!
DeleteDo not go back to him for any reason o. He can profess his love from now till eternity but no just answer am
ReplyDeleteHis love is frustration promax
DeletePlease drive him away oh
DeleteThis thing called love. It can make a sane person act insane.
ReplyDeleteHe does not love you. He comes crying because he saw another man. He is manipulating you emotionally. Stand your ground and let him go. It is not a disease to be alone till the right person comes
If I were you, even if he brings a ring and kneel to propose, I will decline. My darling, if you marry this one, you go see shege.
ReplyDeleteI know your age worries you, but your best is out there. Don't settle for this early HBP that may lead to mental breakdowns and many more.
You have come this far, wait to get it right .
A bad partner can be likened to cancer ooo. Be warned.
This poster eeehn , permit Me o , I had a good 😊 laugh towards the end of your write up.
ReplyDeletePlease don’t give him space he is total a time waster, that is if he is still a single guy.
Mummy Anthony-Clever
My sister, keep moving....in Pinky's voice. Don't even let anything/anyone stop you. The guy is not worth your time.
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing here to advise you, just move on for your own sake
ReplyDeleteHe’s mad and stingy what are you still doing with him? Me that left my marriage with kids due to stinginess you think I’m a fool.
ReplyDeleteHe’s mad and stingy what are you still doing with him? Me that left my marriage with kids due to stinginess you think I’m a fool
ReplyDeleteYes you are
DeleteYou haven’t even moved past all this. From what you wrote up there, you clearly are considering giving it another chance. A guy that’s all that won’t even be bold to want to come back. Block him everywhere and if he comes to your house, do not let him in.
ReplyDeleteSluttychic.
Obviously, your boyfriend is a scum!
ReplyDeleteAunty your ex boyfriend is your village people in human form
DeleteRun
Cut off
Block
Ignore him
Move on
This is what "accountability and taking responsibility for your life, actions and decisions" mean. Which kain play is "he is back again professing love up and down"?
ReplyDeleteDon't you know how to block someone everywhere? It's too early in year 2023 AD to be whining us your blogfam abeg. When you are ready to let your 'goodbye' sink into his skull, you know what to do. Take that advice that says "Don't drink poison just because you are thirsty" seriously.
A man is manipulative, not caring, not responsible, ghosts you, not ready to marry you and the negative list goes on and on and you have not created clear boundaries since 3 years? This guy is not even showing characteristics of a manageable boyfriend not to talk of say husband wey daughter of Zion suppose consider for marriage. Just dey play inugo. Until you drive away the demons occupying space around you, the angel of light go just dey observe from gate jeje.
Amebonawork🤦
DeleteThis poster that's making you stress yourself so, will settle with this guy. This pen when you pick from the basket of love... Drop am back abeg🤦
So on point!
DeletePoster, e no easy ooo
But you've got to put in your best effort to fight off whatever it is that draws you to this time-waster.
Tell yourself what you want, the kind of man you want and pray to God about it and move on from this phase..
Poster move quickly! It's long over due
ReplyDeleteMy sister move on with ur life, don't take him back he is a time waster.
ReplyDeleteSo many 40+ men are so unserious ,I tot older men had sense.
ReplyDeleteGod pls give me my soul mate.
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Many of them are jokes
DeleteStale, dry irritating jokes, they think that they are still young enough to behave like fools and get away with it
You are the cause of your problem. You already know he is a time-waster. Why associate with him? Don't entertain such men in your life in 2023 pls. To make matters worse you are 30 +. Any time his love comes to your mind, visit the nearest cemetery close to you and paste his pictures there with the caption Gone so soon.
ReplyDeleteSister be delivered in Jesus name. Amen!
ReplyDeletePoster continue to have sense this time around you hear, anytime the urge to go back to him comes biko fire your prayers... I say what? Fire holy ghost fire 10times o. imagine a 40+ uncle playing with your time like this,,
ReplyDeleteBe wise!!
Shut the door and don't let him in.
ReplyDeleteI used to think older Men are nicer and more mature. Yimu! Yimuerr!! Yimuest!!! You see these quarter to 40 or half past 40 men, the most dangerous, story full their mouth. My ex abandoned me, my fiance cheated, i am waiting to be financially buoyant etc the list goes on. Avoid men like that ooo i was in that category before i gave myself brain. You can meet a young man in early 30s or late twenties that have sense more than these Uncle gwegs that don't want to settle down and always gaslight people. You obviously aren't ready yet to leave that scum of a bf, keep asking questions. When you are ready to dump him for good, you know what to do. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteWhy are these 40 and above men like this. The way they treat and gaslight someone you will be thinking that you are the one with problem. I thought that with age comes maturity but no this is not the case for most of them. I am presently experiencing something like this with a man this age
ReplyDeleteIt is not being 40 that made the men bad, it is their bad attitude that has kept many of them single in their 40s...
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DeleteGbam
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CORRECT 💯
You did well,we need more women like you that will see the red flag and back out immediately.
ReplyDeleteGood thing you made up your mind to zero him,he is indeed a time waster....man of that age who still can't reason and talk marriage is doomed and will need help to deliver him
ReplyDeleteNo be juju be that 😳😳😳 you no want chop food, you no 2ant another person make e chop the food🤔🤔🤔 na correct witchcraft that guy be.
ReplyDeleteThank God you have sense and you have decided to have some sense to move on. Even if he comes crying on his knees with all his family members please face front and free you.
Remember you are not supposed to show him who you are currently dating or what you are up to. Just do what makes you happy.
As if I'm the one that wrote this. My dear run ooooo. I made a mistake and married one and I'm regretting it big time now....marriege of two years don scatter.
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