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One of my parents is a baby daddy (the student is 10). He invited me for lunch two Sundays ago, and l agreed.
One of my parents is a baby daddy (the student is 10). He invited me for lunch two Sundays ago, and l agreed.
The meeting was in his house, afterwards, we had time together to talk and other little things we did. One thing lead to another, we kissed and s#xed as l understand the atmosphere was tensed
Before leaving, I asked what he is thinking of me? He told me "we're still getting to know each other" Though we still talk as we use to...And l like him a lot... Was I too forward with the question? What do l do?
He set you up to bang you, otherwise why did he invite you home? Please you didn't do anything bad, even though you asked that question too fast...Be careful before you become his next baby mama
Hmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteBe careful please
Conflict of interest; are there no professional code of ethics for teachers? If this guy dumps you now, as he most likely will, his child becomes your victim.
DeleteHmmmm, I think you did everything bad ooo. Still I can't judge you.
DeleteSerious conflict of interest, poster I just dey pity you., be like say you no too like your work.
DeleteI hope you were in your safe period? Else you become the second baby mama.
DeleteWhen that one expire, he will call you with another story to have sex again.
DeleteIf he calls you, give excuse.
Poster were ire gi guo eze gi onu to avoid the story that touch
ReplyDeleteNo you dont like him, you just feel because the two of you had sex you should be a thing. dont set yourself up for disappointment. That man knew what he was doing with inviting you to his home for lunch.. and you unfortunately fell or it. Move on, stop thinking about him.. shit happens
ReplyDeleteShe also knew what she was getting into before going to his house for sex . You know that teachers are broke so...
DeleteHian
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😁😁😃😃😃😃🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteHonestly the yeye story reach to laugh. How old is this poster? 14?
DeletePoster, obviously, that guy is not into you. He will toy with your heart, use you and run. Becareful of him. Watch and observe from distance before falling in his trap again.
ReplyDelete😂🤣😹
ReplyDeleteWhat sort of chronicle is this?
Is this play or what?
Mellow down and 👋 don't be desperate
My dear, he has been fantasizing about you for awhile and just released the s.extual tension.
ReplyDeleteI will advice you remove your mind and face front to avoid stories that touch.
And stop giving green lights up and down so you will not become a s.extual stress reliever.
If he wants something serious, he knows what to do.
In one beevee's voice, do not become someone's cum bucket.
DeleteLol @ anon 19:12
DeleteHmmm, well done ma'am
ReplyDeleteHe has just chopped you clean mouth.
ReplyDeleteIf you orgasmed, count it all joy and face your life. If you didnt, count it as a loss and continue as a distant friend. But if you did all that expecting him to give you a date for marriage introduction, sis you went and caught a feelings for a hook up. Dont worry, almost everyone falls mugu in one way or another.
Some polgamy inclined men are intentional at wooing a lady for marriage than the baby dada that eat cake and still want to have it.
He said he is getting to know you, so please let him chase you while you do like a mermaid from now on. MAKE SURE YOU DONT GIVE DESPERADO VIBES.
😂 Count it all joy..........🤣 Nor vex poster but I really am not sure what you are expecting from this ya post.
DeleteStella there nothing like set up here. He invited her home for lunch, she likes him a lot, so agreed, one thing led to another, they knacked. Very normal and consensual, the guy did nothing wrong. He didn't ask her to be his GF, they are still getting to know each other, they knacked on the first date. If he doesn't wanna date her, no big deal, Poster is not a child.
ReplyDeleteNo wonder women are mostly the victims of rape and ritual killings. When you are getting to know someone you meet them for the lunch date or whatever in a neutral place, not HIS house. Later they would shout rape. This is 2023 please, we should have sense. I wonder who trained the girls of these days that go on a first date to the house of a man they barely know. What if that guy has mental issues? What if he had it well planned for her to be gang raped? What if he had anger issues and suddenly turned to a monster if she declined to his advances? So many what ifs!!! For God sakes first date?? His house?? If u continue like this poster, u r not being security conscious and i am afraid for you.
DeleteWow no self control whatsoever….
ReplyDeleteWhat do you even teach your children? Kai
ReplyDeleteI don't understand the Chronicle "one of your parent is a baby daddy"
ReplyDelete🤣 I read the introduction like five times before I understood the point of it. She is a teacher and the parent of one of her students is whom she is referring to. I wonder what she is teaching the students
DeleteExactly is it that she had sex with one of her parents or what? I don't understand the poster
DeleteJust be very careful not to become baby mama no 2, wait o do you mean you don't have a boyfriend before?
ReplyDeleteEven if he had good intentions, you think he will take you serious like this?
ReplyDeleteYou must be very desperate!
ReplyDeleteWhy didn’t you stop at the kissing, we know the flesh is weak, but going all the way to sex on a first date? Not just a random guy but your student’s parent? Very very bad!
ReplyDeleteEXTREMELY BAD!!!
DeleteFor the purpose of this parade, this one too is a random guy na, apart from his kid that is in her class what other thing does she know about him?
DeleteHow will you do you look at that child? You don’t feel guilty? Wow!
ReplyDeletePoster understand that because because a man seems single it doesn't mean he is eligible
DeleteYes you were forward. Haven’t you heard of Steven Harvey 90day rule. Pls don’t indulge anymore until you are sure who he is and please. Stay in control of your emotions
ReplyDeleteZendaya
So the guy knows you like him obviously from the way you look at when he visit your school. So he decided to have s*x with you
ReplyDeleteYou've said it all.
DeleteShe didn't even try to do shakara and let the guy woo her. He didn't even go through the "gifting teacher gifts" phase. Why wouldn't he think you also sleep with other students daddies? Anyway, don't feel too bad, some people knack on the first day and still end up in a relationship or even husband and wife. Keep your legs closed and limit the chats.
Delete@20:55
DeleteA chronicle can't always contain all details. Clearly, they interacted to the level of knowing they were interested in each before the invitation and its acceptance. So you want her to say he gave her Tfare to his place or that she had collected gifts from him?
@01:16 "Giving teacher gifts" is a standard competition among parents of some private schools in Lagos throughout the school year. 20:55 was probably referring to the poster not waiting for the end of the school year to get together with the parent after he had put in work through out the school year to get her attention.
DeleteYou go enjoy Knack, still dey ask us questions. I don't have answer to give you, my own don't go to a man's house, you guys can meet in a restaurant or eatery. Be wise
ReplyDeleteExactly! When a man invites you to his house instead of taking you out for a date properly just abort the mission and only accept if you are horny and badly want sex too. How can you go to a man's house whom you are not even in a relationship with? A man you are still getting to know each other.
DeleteYou’re not fit to be a teacher. No single remorse, this is the height of shameless!
ReplyDeleteGet a job at a pub, gentle men’s club
That way you can follow clients home after work!
Lol why should she feel remorse
DeleteThe remorse made her send this chronicle.
DeleteYou didn’t define the relationship before banging him and you’re here now asking questions.
ReplyDeletePrepare to be shocked by the fact that you’re not the first or the only one (I mean teacher of his kid he’s banged ).
Obviously for him to invite you over to his house for lunch then it means conversations had gone on which you had shown interest.
You were not too forward, you should have defined the relationship before doing anything.
Also learn to close your legs ok ? Learn to have more self control.
Anything you see or experience now take am like that .(which might not be good )
Lady MorgiannE
Poster please be careful..Some of us have made mistakes so we won't start doing holy holy....My dad always tell me even if you want to have a boyfriend, if you stay in Surulere let him be at VI...Please be careful and be professional in your dealings.
DeleteI don't understand the story o!
ReplyDeleteSomeone please read and explain it better for me.
Very unprofessional of you. Don’t go and victimize the poor kid in class when the situation-ship goes south
ReplyDeleteFor real!!! Either she starts to victimize the child or plays favorites with the child to the detriment of other students.
DeletePoster, you sound like you have a lot to learn. Every step you took in this story is wrong, not just morally. You don’t just have a sexual relationship with the parent of your pupil at the drop of a hat. There is something called ‘professionalism’ in case you don’t know. E no even hard for the guy, you just open leg. How many other students’ parents will you do it with before you find the one? What risks are you putting yourself and your students at by entangling yourself in such a web? Have you asked yourself?
After e don straf finish 'e say what are we?🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteThe 2 both of you are homo sapiens ma who have finished copulating on the earthly plane.
They are nothing but pencils in the hand of the creator 😊
DeleteAnd Ckay is singing.....
Delete🎶
She tell mе watawi
I tell her we arе what we are
I tell her baby no reason am too far
She tell me watawi
She wetter than water b
She whisper things inside my ear
Me tell her things wey she wanna hear oh
My own is that you should not start forming step parent to the student.🙄
ReplyDeleteOr start transferring aggression onto the child, elsa na God go punish her.
DeleteAnd the papa wey put him pikin for that position nkor? Nobody wan reason that one.
DeleteThe earlier women realize that s.x means NOTHING to some men the better for us. The fact that a man slept with you does not mean he loves you or wants something serious with you. Ladies stand on the road and get customers daily. Imagine if all those men find them attractive or want intimate relationship.
ReplyDeleteYou were too forward. That thing you hard with him does not mean anything to him.
Nothing to some people you mean?
DeleteIt means nothing to the women who stand by the streets. It means nothing to the men who patronize them. Just a transaction.
But sometimes, though rare, good (even good marriage) comes out for a man and the woman involved in such transaction.
Yeah I wish she delayed...I agree with your 1st 2 sentences...
DeleteJust dey play
ReplyDeleteEven if he had any prior feelings or plans for you, doubt if he’d still pursue them, there’s really both to pursue anymore. Sex on a first date. The cheapness.
ReplyDeleteIt depends on the man. Most men know a 5 years delay na shakara unless of course something is wrong. Some men wait that long, chop and still clean mouth.
DeleteMan wey love you love you abegi, I slept with the love of my life the first day we hanged out at his place, I was the one that even initiated it, but still this man loves me to pieces. You form hard to get oo, you give am free oo.. what’s yours is yours, the thing is poster.. I feel this guy isn’t into you, just don’t communicate with him anymore, lock up, he’ll be the one to hover around you once he sees you don’t have his time.
Delete17:12, u had sex the first time you hung around with your bf in his house, the op also did thesame, and ur own bf loves u to bits, but u have concluded that this one isn’t into her, pls how did u conclude that? Abi ur own is different ni?
DeleteNext time resist the urge to give this kind of uncompleted testimony, wait till he marries you, that is when u earn the right to come out and say u had sex with him on the first date and he still married you. For now, u n her are the same.
Always remember, u r not married, until u r married.
And who told you I am not married to him eh? Is my testimony choking you? Do you think I’m like you all that state you are married before you complete a miserable sentence? You want it to be so bad that I am not married to the love of my life, oh you think because I f…ed the first day I don’t deserve to be wifed? Eyah sorry.. I am well wifed and the love of my life loves me to stupor..
Delete.. After we f…ed, I never asked the love of my life ‘what are we’, I am too confident for that kinda question, he was the one all over me, for the poster to ask that question means she had doubts, maybe body language and all, reason I suggested she should give him space, if he wants her he knows what to do. Abeg shift jor..
19:22 it’s cause she asked him and he didn’t claim her
Delete21:06 love you babes! Jealous people everywhere wishing so bad he didn't marry you cos you banged on the first date. The joke is on you miserable hatersssss, I bet your judgmental ass is still single at your old age rubbish
DeleteYour question is good
ReplyDeleteIf you want something serious and he doesn’t then move on unless you just want him for sex. That’s fine too
Later now this poster will come and be disturbing everybody that her husband is a cheat, what do men really want? Remember he is a baby daddy already, for a first date, fear no even catch him, he invited you to his house, you agreed to go, he hadn’t even asked to date you or be serious with you, you just opened leg and had sex with him.
ReplyDeleteYou want to know what he thinks of u? He thinks women are sex objects with no self worth that can be called, used and changed like tampoons at will. Good luck.
He invited you over to his house on the first date? Obviously to create that atmosphere that will lead to quick sex with you. A man inviting you home on the first date? That should have shown you that he had little interest in you but only wants your body fast. If he wanted something serious he would not invite you to his house first but try to get to know the real you in a one-on-one setting outside his house to see if he likes to enough before allowing you to step feet into his home.
ReplyDeleteIt was not a date but Netflix and chill. He invited you over and wanted sex and you fell into his trap and gave yourself to him cheap. I will be wary of a man who sleeps with his child's teacher considering the impact that would have on his child if the situation ship goes south. I pray you don't feel spite and become vindictive and take it out on the poor child.
Those type of men in the last sentence don't reason or think
DeletePoster please be careful next time.
ReplyDeleteDon't act desperate and don't go to his house again.
Poster, I believe you enjoyed the sex right and this is how you wanted it to play out....You could have waited for him to establish his intentions..However, the deed has been done....
ReplyDeleteThe truth is he may take you serious or he will not...He maybe just wanted to sleep with you for the fun and unto the next one...Even if you will have sex, a bit of delay would have helped...All the best but don't catch feelings yet so you won't feel disappointed.
Stella thank you! He just wanted to bang her! Simple! A sensible man will take his time to know her first before bringing her into his space.
ReplyDeleteThe first time you people are meeting the best he could do was invite you home because he knows such an atmosphere creates false intimacy and less boundary and you fell for it, poster.
Your second paragraph is apt.
DeleteTeacher wey no get discipline.
DeleteIgnore that man and stop being loose.
Teacher without boundaries nawa. Poster give your life to Christ and stop seeking worldly pleasure.
ReplyDeleteTo me I feel you should be careful, don't be too forward, so that you don't feel used.
ReplyDeleteYou should have asked him that question before doing the do with him, let me just tell you hope you are not feeling like a wife after the do with him.
ReplyDeleteHe is just catching cruise with you and so not think he is into you.
Sex should not be had outside of marriage, so you did very bad. You obviously have no respect for yourself as a woman, sleeping with a man on the first date. Ask God to forgive you and don't repeat the action again. You gave off "loose woman" vibes and from the little I know about men, it's just a few percentage that will respect you after such act.
ReplyDeleteNow you've had sex, your judgement about him will be clouded if he decides to go into a relationship with you. Simply because you"like him alot". Keep your body from sex till you get married. That's the instruction from God no matter what the whole world is saying. You don't know more than God that gave the law.
Hmmm...Teacher !
ReplyDeleteYou forgot to tell us your age.
Whatever the age, devide the common sense by half.
DeleteSweetheart are you writing in from Ilorin then our guy whose name starts with 'P' only spells trouble...So in one verb, RUN!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmm poster for your to ask him that question it means you were already admiring him and kinda wanted him to be more to you before this whole sex happened.
ReplyDeleteMy advice is face front. Zip up! And move on to better things.
But if you cannot close the cookie jar, you can minus feelings/serious-relationship from this whole setup enjoy the sex while it last.
Poster I don’t know if they’ve paid you yet but if they have, do me a favor, take out some cash to get a book “sex in the forbidden zone” by Peter Ritter. Thank me later
ReplyDeleteI think I need to read this book too, though I'm not the poster.
DeleteWon ti do e.. NEXT!... LOL
ReplyDeletePoster you got what you wanted. You invited an infested fire wood now you're asking question. You gave that man green light and he understood your body language and gave it to you wanted so free the man. He doesn't need you
ReplyDeleteDey play
ReplyDeleteJust dey play
But on a lighter note,Sweetheart You should have asked this question before “the do”..
IMO, I think he’s not really into you..
Don’t fall too cheaply again..
Bv Yosola
What are we?
ReplyDeleteWhat do you think of me???
These are questions I can never ask any man. Pls ghost him if you can
Dem no dey shit where dem dey chop.
ReplyDeleteHow many parents will you open leg for?
Don't use your bare hands to destroy your reputation.
You don't know that men's mouth are runny like children's noses?
Is okay.
Abeg my boss married his coworker 30 years now
DeleteThe Poster is in her late 20s. She's been washing lots of porns. She developed mutual interest in the man already; and the man has discovered that. See, he's not ready for you (for marriage) but will be willing to have the 2nd phase. Please, make up your mind. You're ripe for marriage already. I pray God to give you the grace to focus on your tomorrow. A baby daddy? What happened to the baby Mama? Be careful dear. Think right, think smart.
ReplyDeleteKSB Truth.
...First off, "come to my house" is a low/no effort move employed to get quick 'mekwe' by some guys, there's no plan to impress you or consider what you think because the plan is not to be in it for the long haul. When it is coming from a random guy, it is a one night stand situation ..."what are we?" Is the last thing on his mind..there are exceptions though.
ReplyDeleteSecondly, after the sex, he'd probably be thinking that you get down with random guys, easily and often. It is possible that you are not usually an easy lay, but you let your guards down for this man because you like him. He unfortunately, may never believe this. If it was easy for him to hit it, then every bloke on the block is hitting it.
3. Of course you already know you acted unprofessionally.
4. You can still come out of this with some dignity, the deed has been done, act like a player. If you had hit the sheets and moved on, you'd have left him wondering if he was good in the act, a lot of guys worry about after performance. This would have given you an edge of mystery, which he might have wanted to pursue.
5. Kindly practice self control next time..at least don't do this within your professional circle. These parents meet and gossip!!
Cheers... Leo inspired!!
Leo inspired had to come out for this one.........welcome ooo 😊
DeletePoster pretend as if nothing happened and face front.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteAny man you barely know who invites you to his home where you would be the only two ppl there is inviting you there for one reason only. Did you really think this man wanted to have 'lunch'. You are too naive. Did he even use a condom, or you? What if he left you with something that lasts forever? What if he recorded you?
ReplyDeletePlease do not ever do this again, your interactions with your students' parents should only be in a professional capacity. You are in a noble profession and developing a reputation as an easy woman to get could ruin you in more ways than one. Everybody will get horny but find better ways of addressing your physical needs that does not put you in potential harm or give you a bad reputation.