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Thursday, February 09, 2023

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
A STORY TO LEARN FROM

''This is the story of Samson and Delilah

I used to be those kind of men who are never moved by what's outside, I hustled hard, I lived well with my wife and kids, even the kids I had from my previous marriage with my late wife were not left out of the joy we shared in our home.

 I was based in the west, life was good until i decided to help an old friend, Ireti (my ex girlfriend), years after my wife passed.

 I met Ireti, a very beautiful lovely girl, I loved everything about her but then I was still picking the pieces of my life, my late wife drained my pockets before she died, my business capital was not up to a 100k.
 I begged Ireti to give me sometime to hustle up and meet her needs but she refused, she wanted everything including us settling down but I couldn't afford it then.

She woke up one day, came to my shop, fought me, tore my shirt, did all manner of things to me and left, that was the last I heard from her::

Years later I met this beautiful woman from my tribe and we got married, heavenly doors was opened unto us, business turned around, favour from everywhere, we started living large, we built our own house, bought a full plaza, we were very happy until that cursed afternoon when I got a call from her (Ireti).

 I picked the call and when I inquired who was speaking, she introduced herself, I paused for a second but she continued, she said she was sorry, she explained how life has dealt with her, how she got married to a fraudster, how he dumped her with a child and now she's suffering, she said she was about to be thrown out of her apartment.

I felt nothing but pity for her, God had blessed me, I just wanted to help, I paid her rent, gave her some money to start up a business, she started, I was still supporting her in every little way I could, I made sure her son went back to school, I refused seeing her face to face, one day she called and was crying that why should I hate her this long, that I opened a business for her , that the least I could do was to come and see the progress of the business.

 I promised to but my tight schedule wouldn't let me, after so many months of complaints, I finally visited, one thing led to another and we had seggs (i guess it was the Okafor's law), more like a marathon, I couldn't get enough of her, we went on and on, that was all I could remember...

I became a total different person after that event, I would hit my wife at every slightest provocation, my kids suffered too, I spent most of my weekends with Ireti in her small apartment, leaving my mansion, my very cool jovial wife became a shadow of herself, always looking pale and bitter, I didn't care, I didn't stop.

 I continued, the only thing in my head was how Ireti takes care of me on bed, how she does it, her magical ways, my business was going down but I didn't care..

 Ireti started making a lot of demands, at first I gave in, but then my wife noticed the excessive withdrawals from our joint account and cried out, one day I drove out and didn't come back, I was with Ireti mi, I spent two months with her, she introduced me to this ecstasy pills and we were used it together...

 I lost everything, the money I had was all gone, I had partial stroke, and Ireti abandoned me in that house and ran away with her son to God knows where, I returned to my house and met total strangers, I asked who they were, and after some introductions, I found out that my wife sold the building to them, she sold our plaza too, somebody else is in my shop...

She disappeared with my kids, and I managed to go home to the village to find out from our families if anyone knew her whereabouts, her parents arrested me and said I should provide their child, thank God for top-ranked uncle who came through for me.

It's been 3yrs, I have not seen nor have I heard from my wife and kids, I am sick and almost dying, I moved to the East to start a new life, I have become a drunkard, I just miss my wife and kids, someone informed me last year December that they came to the village, before I got there, they had left the previous day:::


 Raising transport fare was hard for me..

They said she lives in Canada with the kids, I pray that one day she will forgive me and see me again, I miss my wife and I also miss my kids..... 

I wish I didn't pick that call.... I wish''.

This is a true story sent in by a BV on behalf of someone who wants people to learn from his mistake.
I pray he forgives himself for his costly mistake and i pray that someone towing this same line learns a lesson or two....
Hmm some women are pure evil and I am sure that she used something to capture his attention........Right?

88 comments:

  1. Good for you. You got what you deserved. I am happy your wife is in a better place and even enjoying a better D. You want to eat your cake and have it and it hooked your throat.

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    1. Side eyes at “I could not remember what happened”
      Sorry to you o
      But something I have come to realize is that people rarely change they just become older but they never change.
      Stop making excuses for greedy and selfish people, if something doesn’t seem right it usually isn’t right.

      I am so happy your wife was able to pick herself up and start a new wife for all your kids.
      I wish you well just the same way I wish her well
      Dear men, hear word


      Push up (original)

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    2. How is it possible to sell a man's house and plaza within two months that he left home. Also process visas for herself and kids, made all travelling arrangements within two months and relocated? She didn't report him to family? They didn't call him and tried make him come back home? Within two months this movie unfolded. Issokay!

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    3. Love your skepticism!!!

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    4. He left for two months but he was cheating since.he said his business was going down that would have taken a while

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    5. Thanks for sharing poster. When I talk about consequences, some people here are only concerned about upholding their gender. May God have mercy on us all.

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    6. Without Jesus, our lives are worthless.

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  2. It’s called JAZZ

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    1. Really, don't go back to your ex especially if sex is involved. Just run. He knows. He just wanted once and he got bitten.

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    2. Na lie, no jazz, he was just being an irresponsible man.

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    3. Real JAZZ.

      May God help the man. And I thank God the wife and children are in a better place.

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    4. Wasted, may God help him and give him another chance

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    5. Obviously he spent 2 months the first time and then he continued. Una no do summary and comprehension for school??

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  3. I pray men will learn. Someone will have a good wife and decide to turn into a demon because of another woman. You all will definitely learn the hard way.

    Fan Emmanuel

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    1. My God! I thought this is a Nollywood script (which a filmmaker will make a fortune though). Wow I wanted this to be some fictional story...Mehn Ireti used kurugbe on you....E no fit pass that one.....

      Kai learning lessons the hard way

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  4. Hmmmmm.
    We all need discerning spirit...
    Transparency with your spouse is also important. Unfortunately most men, lag behind.
    If he discussed this with his wife from the onset, shebi they would have visited Ireti together?
    Well, no one is perfect. May God help us all and deliver us from temptation.

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    1. Visited together ke? Dem go do threesome be that

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  5. May God have mercy on him and restore all he has lost.

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  6. Very sad story but there is a lesson here for all.

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  7. I just don't feel any kind of pity for you, sorry about your experience, only Jesus can save you.

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  8. Everyone must choose one of two pains; the pain of discipline or the pain of regret.

    I used to think that death is the greatest loss in life but I was wrong. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live. That man died the very minutes he began cheating on his wife. It has never ended well with those who engaged in adultery.

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    1. Thank you Ezege. I always say this. Times without number. It’s always sweet at the beginning. So much fun and excitement but it never ends well
      Men and women. Learn from this adultery never ends well.!!!!Periodt!!

      Zendaya

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    2. What of those that engage in fornication? Any repercussion for them?

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    3. You are still asking? Okay stop engaging in fornication and adultery. Capische?!

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  9. Long throat and greed wont let them have sense.

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  10. Damn! Your karma came prepared. And your wife is such a strong woman, she moved on.

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  11. Now you understand why the so called fraudster bf dumped her. She is evil. Oga, you have learnt your lesson but rather too late. I love that she moved on with the kids including the ones from your previous marriage. I’m going to be honest, men are self absorbed honestly. They do all these rubbish and expect women to be understanding and Condone all their excesses. Because the society deemed it so. Now that ireti has dumped him, he wants his ‘wife and kids’ back. I love that your wife was thinking on her feet if not, she for enter one chance.

    Alas, some people (especially men) will read this and say, it’s a fable, cook up story.

    They never learn.

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    1. You are yabbing as if married women don't cheat, even when they come to confess here everyday. He was just naive and foolish. Nothing on earth should make you abandon your family, take money from joint accounts without the express approval of your spouse. Except there is an emergency.

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    2. Lol @ naive and foolish…… men always making excuses for their fellow men. Na oshi p-valley carry am go there. E want chop and clean mouth but e hook am.

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  12. Stella if you did not say it's a frue life story, I have concluded it's a super story.
    There is nothing God cannot do. Now that you have realized yourself. Locate any praying church around you or you can enter any Catholic and ask for blessed sacrament. Visit the blessed sacrament daily and ask God for mercy. Seek the help of the holy spirit. Seek God as if your whole life depends on it. All will be well if you pray. This life sha.

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    1. Abeg he should suffer the consequences of his actions. So you want Blessed sacrament to drag the poor woman back to this man. Please don’t even go that route I take God beg you

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  13. I thank God your wife did not wait around drinking oyel & watching war room because if the money no finish, and your body still strong, you no go know road come back house.

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  14. There are certain people you should avoid in this life. Once you show me who you are the first time, that’s it.
    This lady already revealed the type of person she is, you had no business even helping her. Someone who couldn’t be patient with you neither was she supportive. First time she ran to you, you were there to help. You should never have. I treat people the way they treat me, I don’t care.
    You should have known that constant communication with her was a trap.
    Some of you need to shine your eyes and be smart.
    The chips are down now, where is Ireti? I hope your wife and kids find it in their hearts to forgive you.

    Sluttychic.

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    1. Men are different though. A lot of men get moved by the tears of women. Then hearing that she and the children could be on the streets likely put something in his heart. Men can be incredibly helpful and wanting to help out in a bad situation. For all their flaws, a man with a heart can hold you down in bad times. Honestly, there are some situations I prefer dealing with a man in because I find them far more lenient.

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    2. The thought of her Tohtoh did not let him resist her. All the while he was helping her, he was thinking of those old times that they had s*x romps together

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    3. Anon 16:23 "a lot of men get moved by the tears of women" but not their wives' tears? When he was beating her and cheating on her, did her tears not move him?

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  15. "Had I known" usually comes after the deed has been done. I really hope you've learnt from your mistakes.

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  16. Agadi na gwo Oveh9 February 2023 at 15:22

    Wetin prick and towtow go cause for this life na only God fit help. As someone who was obsessed with an ex for four years I understand your pain but the difference is that I knew when to put my foot down and say no to the demon cos apparently like in your own case the only thing they are good at is/was GOOD SEX.

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  17. Pleasure of 5mins has ruined the life of this man, I pray God gives him a second chance .


    Ms tee

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  18. If money no finish you for still dey with Ireti. I no dey pity you o. I'm just glad your wife and kids didn't go down with you.

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  19. For me, the total sum of this story is "You lay your bed the way you laid it"
    First thing we all should know is that everyone you see out there has some sort of power or charm they lean on.
    Also some people are weak and don't just know when to withdraw.
    So that "if you are not here, you must be there"
    Therefore hold tight to what you believe can save you.
    Poster I have no pity for you though.
    Infidelity destroys destinies.

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  20. If you must cheat, cheat with a fellow married women. They no dey carry person husband put for house

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    1. Jesu Christi 😳😳

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    2. See them. Tufiakwa!
      Na thunderbolt (magun) go kill that type of man las Las. Imagine cheating with a married woman.

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    3. Lol @anon 15:52, have you not heard of Judy?

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  21. Na wah! When people want to help other people of the opposite sex, kindly do it with your spouse’s knowledge. And also know how to respect boundaries in a marriage , how to say enough is enough.

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  22. Damn, they say the road to hell is paved with good intentions. Ireti was a succubus, a living sex demon. Sex you hard and suck the life out of you too. You descrated your divine glory and marriage for simple secks. I hope the young ones learn from your story. The wages of sin really is death, may not be physical death but definitely something will die. In your case, a beautiful marriage, success, favour, peace, joy, and even your looks, I am sure.

    First take your sorrows to the altar in confession with a truly contrite heart. May the outpouring of God's grace and mercy finds you. The energy that made you successful is still in you, ppl who truly know how to make money can go to zero and come right back up in the blink of an eye as if nothing happened, that is just something in their make up. You will be successful again. The greater loss will be the family. Your wife has every right never to want you back. Do not try to force her back into a relationship with you if you find her. Her forgiveness if she gives it should be enough. You beat the hell out of her and publicly humiliated her to the point she had to go live in a whole new country to escape the shame. Please let her be in peace. May God be with you all.

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    1. Painfully the truth. Wages of sin is death. Very painfully the TRUTH.

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  23. I think you settled for your wife and when the one you really wanted came back, you followed her

    Women and men be careful about marrying someone that’s in love with somebody else

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  24. This is a very good lesson..
    And this is the prayer,i always pray for any man who takes steps like this..

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    1. A very good prayer. Any man or woman who cheats , let their marriage scatter.

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  25. He was reckless and stupid. Knowing that your wife had access to your money and documents you shouldn't have abandoned her. Men learn from this, don't allow your wives have access to the documents of your properties. This isn't about cheating, it's simply about what women are capable of doing. You don't have to cheat for a woman to sell your properties. While I pity the wreck man, he is the architect of his misfortune. You abandoned your wife and children over what ? You deserve to have access to your children and you must do everything necessary to have access to them. This can't happen to me, not when my mother is alive.

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    1. Na this kain men them de talk about so, mommy's boy, so you spewed all this rubbish because your mother is alive, so the woman for siddon make the both of them sink together abi over his recklessness and then allow the children to suffer? Are you being serious right now? You need to comment with your real ID so that women can fear you, access to which children ? The same ones he abandoned to pursue the woman wey de knack am well abi? What does he have to offer those kids? Good morals? Instead of you to advice him to repent genuinely, you're here na ako nonsense

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    2. So in everything you read, his wife having access to all he owned is the real issue?
      Pray tell, if his wife dint have access, won’t he have sold everything for the love of ireti? What would have his children eaten?
      You are a horrible person if that’s the lesson you learnt from this story.

      The only reason you feel it cannot happen to you is simply because you see women as slaves that should jump at your every command because what is this rubbish.
      I don’t blame you, I blame women you settle for your kind
      Thank you admitted he was at fault.



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    3. Na -Dem 🀣🀣🀣 see mindset.

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    4. If he deserved access to his children, he should not have abandoned them. See you justifying irresponsible behavior. And na mummy’s boy. Why didn’t he mention his dad?

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  26. She did not use any charm on him but the greed of testing her again after a long time made him fall for her. If this man was still in money he will never remember his wife and children. You are looking for who to come, pack your shit and babysit you now that things ate tough.

    Madam if you are reading this please forgive him from far, never come back to this useless man at all. Let Ireti take care of him at this moment. You left poverty but never had the sense then you went back to poverty.

    i love that your wife for selling the house, plaza and everything and moved to Canada. Madam stay in that Canada with your children so that this evil man will not see you. He doesn't deserve you and the kids at all. A woman who brought luck to you is the same you abounded with your old lover who left you when things weren't okay with you.

    Suffer alone and leave that innocent woman to enjoy life. Does Madam hope you now have a lover in Canada? make sure you find love and pepper your enemies.

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  27. Jazz ke, How come He’s not missing Ireti and the sex?. How come is his wife and kids he’s missing now the chips are down.

    you are looking for who will now take care of you and your deteriorating health.
    Abandoned your family for a whole two months.wow
    Glad wifey was smart enough to make calculated moves. I pray that God completely heals her broken heart, because this betrayal runs very deep.
    You ve laid your bed, enjoy your sleep

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  28. This is super story

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  29. I am a man. Married with kids. Now i won't say i understand why men cheat but what i know for sure is only a foolish man allows a side chick break his home. My marriage may not have been the best of expectations but one thing i know for sure is that there is nothing out there that beats my home.

    Why do some men do this? You abandon your home for what? Do you think about your children at all? If you can't be the best husband, at least be the best father! Is that too much to do for your children? If you can't keep your home for your wife, at least keep it for your children!
    If this story is not entirely made up, exactly how do they sell your home and business and you are not aware? Which kind toto sweet like that? There's no advice to be given to a fool. The best thing is to allow him suffer the consequences.

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    1. They sold his home and plaza within two months. Akuko!

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    2. He was on drugs.

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    3. He didn’t care when he had access to their joint account with a lot more money. Make una reason nau.

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    4. you all keep forgetting that the poster confessed to being introduced to ecstasy. I must say, for anyone who has experienced it, it's a different feeling entirely, especially the kind of sex that happens btw a man a woman filled with ecstasy. The poor guy fell deeply...that's what happened, and he was also stupid at the same time, lol.

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  30. It is greed that caused your downfall.

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  31. Half way into this Chronicle all I was seeing was Yul Yul Yul . I don't know why Yul came to mind while I was reading the Chronicle

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  32. Stella she didn't use any Jazzy it was all about greedy.

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  33. I love the wife already. But come o, this story no pure. So within a space of two months that you left the house , not two years o, just two months, your wife had sold the house , sold the plaza and your shop? She also relocated within two months? So visas were ready within two months and all travelling arrangements done? She didn't report to family or anything ?
    Iffa hearπŸ™„

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    1. Have you imagined that this might've been going on for a while and this woman was making her plans, and yes two months (60 days ) is enough to make a distress sale, she had time to plan it and when he left the house, she struck, don't hurt a smart woman, they can ride you to hell in a minute, I am a man and I have been through worse, my wife sold everything we owe while poisoning my food at home, I was bedridden, she moved out while I was still in that house, if not for my elder sister who came to the house and found me, I for don kpai teytey,

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    2. I doubt she relocated immediately but probably moved to another state from where she relocated. But then, if you have money, visa processing isn’t a big hassle.

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  34. Your condition is so bad but there is still hope, forgive yourself and plead for God's mercy. Repent with all your heart and I pray that God will forgive you and restore you.

    The consequences of Cheating is very bad

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  35. Oh what a pity. You really did your wife bad. Do forgive yourself and ask God to forgive you. As for your wife and kids, I don't blame them for staying off. Continue to pray for them. They may or may not reconcile with you. Such a hard lesson to all

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  36. Apart from the fact that I think this is a super story , it irks me how we infantilize men and blame the woman always because Stella saying this is jazz absolves the man of his greed, indiscipline, selfishness and lack of self control!
    Nobody put a gun to his head and yet look at how he treated his wife? If he had told his wife from the get go about the demands of the ex girlfriend, it would have helped him a lot but no he had to be shady because he knew what he was doing wasn’t right.

    And would he have returned if the money hadn’t finished or the woman hadn’t left him ? Your answer is as good as mine..

    Dude deserves whatever he got and glad the wife didn’t stay praying for the husband to return but acted! Smart woman

    Lady MorgiannE

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  37. My understanding from the narrative (true or not) is not that everything took place within two months. He started spending weekends with the strange woman, mistreating his wife but at some point he moved out completely for two months. This implies the whole saga may have been obvious to the wife for longer. I don’t know if now but it didn’t take long for some to get visas to many countries years ago if you had the means which the wife clearly had. Maybe not now that everyone wants to japa.

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    1. Your head de there πŸ™ŒπŸ½. He cleverly skipped the part where she might have been reporting him to family and he didn’t care nor showed up. He ignored her calls and messages.

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  38. I will never pity a man like you. You deserved what you got from both women. A woman ran away from you first time and later returned and you let her in to your life to ruined you.
    I no fit pity you at all !

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  39. What about your kids from your first wife?

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  40. I feel so sorry that the children had to witness their father become something else. I'm sorry for his poor wife, her only crime was loving a weak man. Heck, I even feel sorry for the weak man too. It's agony not to see one's kids (though he can manage cos he didn't even bother when he was with Ireti).
    He can rise again if he so wishes. He has to first ask God for forgiveness and seek the face of God. Second, he needs emotional and financial support from his family members. After he's back on his feet, he needs to make contact with his wife and apologize to her and then reconnect with his kids. He should be ready for a divorce cos im

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  41. He should be ready for a divorce cos I'm sure his wife wouldn't want his cheating ass anymore (that's what he deserves)

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  42. Everything is not jazz, greed is number one cause of person getting scammed. Greed inform of
    Money
    Alcohol
    Food
    Sex
    Etc

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