On Saturday February 18, 2023 ex Actress Tonto Dikeh and her ex husband Churchill Olakunle had their yearly fight over their sons Birthday and this time, it was so hot with both posting receipts back and forth and the Internet in laws cheering them on and taking sides.........
The drama started when Churchill wished her son a Happy Birthday and referred to him as a Prince and referred to his second son as a King.....Tonto replied dragging him with the tag of a useless don't and he responded back calling her names with receipts he posted....
Tonto posted videos receipts on Youtube where her fans have been trooping to, to watch. The receipts on both sides is a lot and i cannot post all...
Don't you think we should beg them both to move on and stop the drama? Tonto says she has moved on and Churchill also says the same....
Please lets us encourage them to stop the exchange of words for the sake of the children on both sides... Battles like this are not won with kids involved....As you advice them to move on, remember to also move on!
Ngwanu, Tontoh and Churchill, move on. Your kids won't be happy reading all these years to come.
ReplyDeleteEven on the 7th day God rested,this is the 7th year and it's seem as if you both broke up yesterday!! Na wa,please move on.
ReplyDeleteNothing is in this world,let go of the bitterness and co-parent in peace for the sake of King Andre.
Receipts opor!
ReplyDeleteWhy do I feel like Rosie is behind this🤔
Churchill is an idiot, he needs to grow up. Having the audacity to call Andre prince is an insult. He should have just wished him a happy bday and moved on.
ReplyDeleteIs there anyone here that would take lightly what Churchill did calling his first son “prince” who he first named king and then has now given same name to his second son? Anyone?
Sluttychic.
He was triggering her and got the much attention he needed.
DeleteI am not a fan of anyone of them but I truly will not take lightly the prince title. You don't create trouble for yourself by openly choosing a favourite amongst your kids. That's a disaster waiting to explode
Delete@ Sluttychic the guy is really an animal!!! I did not even know, that was what he posted! And I was insulting poor Tonto! Why can’t he leave the Prince and post his King! The guy knows how to gaslight Tonto sha! If is me, I will not respond, but he will be blocked forever to have access to my son!!! I am sorry to say say that his wife can kill! Tonto should keep her son far from them, before them go kill am’ I don’t blame her then for not giving the guy access, because he is on influence from that other woman 👩. Useless guy!!! Tonto take your son to Europe and other places! Let him chop the America passport! Stay clean and marry, move on with your life! When you marry change the boy’s name to your new husband! Forget Nigerian men, them nor favor you! Look for oyibo to marry!oyibo nor like trouble though, so you have to be calm. Shalom
DeleteShe is mentally ill, she needs to get herself checked.
ReplyDeleteHave you checked yourself?
DeleteTonto: you're broke
ReplyDeletesame Tonto: learn from davido. What does a broke man have to learn from davido?
You're asking him to stay away from the boy, same you are calling him a deadbeat father who doesn't care about his son. Bia, wetin you want?
Ennie baby oil dey your head. Thank you for saying it as it is.
DeleteYimu , this one that will kiss and support anything against her fellow woman even if it’s a glaring truth. Madame Ennie, welcome
Delete11:25
DeleteTo pay bills on a child she herself admits she makes him suffer to have access to.
Yet some women are supporting her in this modern life.
Men have a way of manipulating issues to favour them,trust me!
ReplyDeleteHaving said said,Tonto dearie,please move on and let God be the judge.
Allow Churchill to continue posting every year.We already know what'sup,just drink water and maintain beauty for now and ever💕
Tonto just dey hustle for YouTube views..
ReplyDeleteThat's why she kept writing that they should go and see everything on her YouTube channel..
Mama needs fundz.. Mama come dey form toxic ish and drama..
Make nobody go view that her YouTube.. let her rant for 600 years.. if she needs money, she can use that her begging scope she used the last time, ranting online about bank app and cash instead of destroying someone image and reputation for it
I will view her youtube page.
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
We have already viewed her YouTube several times. Who are you to tell us not to view it?
DeleteIt's the audacity for me!
Boy, disappear abeg!
Lol..
DeleteSee them..
Oya go and view oh..
Na kuku Una head go full with toxicity
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DeleteDante don buy market. You know that 80% of the blog don't like you, you con say make dem no view Tonto YouTube. 🤣🤣😁😁😁😁😁
Please don’t get emotional about this dear. They are both his sons and he can call them the name he wishes. You can’t tell a father what to do concerning his sons names biko
ReplyDeleteStellz na your own dey make me laff pass,which one be their yearly fight? Aswear you is naughty.May Almighty God heal both of them,may HE let them know/understand that life is fickle and we won't live forever,may HE let them understand the harm they are causing the child involved,May HE let them understand that there is more to life than whatever issues they have against each other. Almighty God would sort you guys.
ReplyDeleteHonestly both of them should rest for the sake of their son.this is damn too messy.
ReplyDeleteThis whole thing is getting so messy now and I feel so sad about it.
ReplyDeleteOne tricky aspect of life is that, when going into a marriage you don't know who is the right or wrong person until the damage is done.
We live, we learn, and sometimes, we find light in a dark place.
A divorcee once said; ''I did my forgiving many years ago when I made the decision to leave. Because I left all bitterness behind and moved on, I made room for an unbelievably blessed life. I will always recommend….''
Tonto,
If you'll ever read this. Please find a way to forgive Churchill whether he apologises or not, for your own sake, and move on…..with God in the lead!
It's important to learn to be done with certain situations without feeling mad or bothered. Instead be at peace with yourself and move on.
Haven said that, I will also say this;
People should be mindful of their act(s) in this life. There's always a recompense of one's actions in life. I know for certainty that, tables turn and people must have a taste of what they served.
Exactly Teejay. You nailed it.
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
Churchill take care emotionally and financially of your son. Stop looking for it to be on your terms, you selfish and foolish man, your son is the one who needs your care not your ego. Money isn't the only care you can provide , swallow your ego and be intentional about consistently walking in life with your son. Be there for him , not playing mind games and sabotaging him
ReplyDeleteTonto stop being a walking wounded , go and see a SHRINK or THERAPIST , you have a right to be angry but not for so long and at the selfish risk of denying your son his father. Heal and move on , or 20 years from now you will be a bitter , aged shrew repeating grievances over and over again and nobody wants to be around you . Let it go , gain momentum, do you are no longer triggered by him anymore, that is growth .Rise above where Churchill pressed pause on your life 7yrs ago. How can you allow an imperfect human have that power over you? Become a pleasure to be around by healing properly and co-parenting in peace
BOTH OF YOU ARE CHILDREN in behavior, zero maturity, common sense or decorum, selfish and egotistic
Your son is the focus going forward swallow your egos BOTH OF YOU AND BE THERE FOR HIM
Simple
DeleteI feel like a mediator should come in at this point. For the sake of the child.
ReplyDeleteThey need to see a mediator.
Both of them. They should put their child first.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
What if one of them needs the view traffic for money or visibility?
DeleteShe needs the views to care for her son. These days, you better monetise your pain.
DeleteSchool fees is not chere kam bia.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Xoxo, there are affordable good schools but these celebs like doing more than themselves. If is not British international School, it is greensprings or chrisland school. Always doing competition
DeleteYear 1989, my lecturer walked into class to teach company law. He veered: "when you start practicing, and a weeping woman comes for help to bail her husband from police stations repeatedly on different cases of stealing, know that the husband and wife are of same character." I can't remember what the man taught that day on company law. But I still remember his words, which I have put in the most polite form here.
ReplyDeleteA woman says her ex husband is a fraudster, her ex boyfriend after is an extortionist and blackmailer, the boyfriend after is crimester, the one, the next, and the next, all men ofallegedly bent character.
Please look well at the woman. Ask her if na only she dey look for men friend or whether na only she men dey look for as woman friend.
But some people will come and say "oh, she is a sweet soul, she is only unfortunate in the men she falls in love with, and they are the ones who make her fight bitterly after the break up".
I repeat, as written here yesterday, if a man or a woman was bad as a partner, once you escape from him/her, you will never go near that person in any form. The memory of the person is blanked out or you stay away by miles from the person. The man has echoed that in his response post too.
For women carrying children away. Na different results dey -
The child will not look for the other parent and you eat the fruits of your labor, good or bad as the child determines.
The child will seek the other parent and benefit/relate with both as the child determines.
The child may even abandon the care giver for the other parent on learning the full story. And the more receipts there are on the internet, the easier it is now for children to know the truth.
The child may abandon both parents if their wahala and bad vibes too much. Till date, I enjoy being asked "are you the child of ...?" Same way some children don't like being asked if they are related to ... because nothing good is ever said after they answer yes.
God can bless the man beyond expectations that the child taken away becomes just a number.
Life may also turn that the child becomes a factor of survival.
But who knows what the future holds today.
All said, whether upbeat or deadbeat, it is not easy for a man to pay school fees or bills for a child he does not have access to. Even in some homes, mothers have been known to package all the fathers are doing as the handiwork and efforts of the mothers only just to take the glory and/or alienate the children from their fathers because of selfish reasons or marital aggro.
Thanks for posting, Stella.
Your company law lecturer is not a wise man. Did he smoke before giving such example ?
DeleteThese shows the decaying standard of education in Nigeria.
There are other factors why she keeps bailing that man.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 XO Nnem, iri worski 😂 You the perfect response.
DeleteHe was giving life lesson outside of the course.
DeletePlease go read Amos 3 v. 3
A woman who date only thieves is a thief. And vice versa.
I no fit quarrel over another man and woman matter. But there are younger people who come here to learn just as there are older people who come to learn and be entertained. We have the duty not to elevate bad behaviour as good or celebrate bad character as new Norm.
Some women had or have issues with men. So, whenever they see a woman "beating" a man in public, they cheer. But physical or verbal violence can never solve relationship problems. If not it would have done so before our generation.
I no fit fight. I am not looking for one.
Thanks Stella for posting.
I feel so much for the son king Andre, in as much as I don't support any of them but why will a father name his two children the same name just to cause the woman pain ?
ReplyDeleteKeep wondering the motive behind such.
DeleteAlready drawn a competitive line for his next generation
At the end of the day it's the innocent boy that would wake up to teenage and adulthood and see all these embarrassing disgrace.
ReplyDeleteIf you claim to love your son with your asr drop of blood, sacrifice everything for him so he can have a saner tomorrow. Where is your commitment towards this? The Internet will remind you and him and shame you for life with it.
The deadbeat father wished his son a happy birthday, why should that trigger you when you rightly said you purposely don't want him to pay child support so he won't have access to the boy, you pleaded with your then fiance that if you die today he should do all in his power not to allow the father of your child see him, yet you are complaining that he is dead beat.
Tontoh, this boy won't be a child forever, he would grow to stand for himself and take decisions all by himself and to your face that man you stopped him from seeing and disgracing up and down he would tell you he wants to see him. He is 7, give him another 7years, he will ask you questions except you have made him toxic and hardened with much hate for his father. But when he gets to the Internet, he will rebel and revolt against you.
If you bring the heaven's down he will tell you this and I quote, ' whatever he might have done to you, he still remains ny father'.
DeletePlease don't go there at all. Don't. These are delicate issues. Thread carefully so people don't remind you of your own story. People in glass house should not throw stones.
12:40, be talking like you know Mis Ess story apart from what she shared here years ago. Is she a divorcee? No
DeleteIs she bitter? No
Is she troublesome? No
Does she have a deadbeat baby father? No
So what are story are you rambling about? Elenugboro
I now see why she doesn't like typing long comments. Yeye children everywhere on the internet.
So you sabi type more than 1 word???
DeleteWonderment!!!!
Anon 12:40pm you get time.
DeleteYeye children abi sick humans
I just read it and was wondering when my guardian angel became a bv cause even my mom don't know that much about me not to talk of an online faceless person.
I am a spontaneous person, I don't mix, i comment based on my emotions at that moment. I don't make friends easily neither do I socialize. Whatever you know about me is what I wrote down on the blog myself. So you want to use that against me! How does it relate with the glass house you are building.
So where is the the glass house illustration coming from?, besides I wasn't insulting her, I was only quoting her and telling her to let go of any pain and hurt she experienced in the marriage.
My sentiment exactly Miss Esse. That boy might grow up getting acquainted with his father and the way Tonto is going about this right now, it will be the death of her. She might not be able to survive it.
DeleteTonto your kind of bitterness and anger causes cancer,beware for your own good!!Churchill sure knows how to trigger you and he's not broke as you claim,if he was broke you would have moved on,you wouldn't even date him in the first place,you are just pained that he has cut you off FINANCIALLY and your son that deserves to be taken care of is not seeing a dime from his WEALTH,that is your PAIN,you are also pained cause you are BROKE,you need help Tonto but you must first help yourself by letting go and getting rid of all the venom inside of you
ReplyDeleteYou lie
DeleteShe is screaming it out. It is the ones that form classy to please the public while bitter and unforgiving inside, those ones are the people to be scared of.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
How long will she continue screaming. Its been 7 years. Isn't she tired. Shit happens in life. You have to get over it and find a way to move on in a positive way. Has she never anything to hurt anyone in life before.
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ReplyDelete"yearly fight" 🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteI just feel sorry for son,I pray they work things out for his sake,this bitterness is too much
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ReplyDeleteThe choice of who you marry will determine the bliss we enjoy or the blows we endure.
Let Churchill stop stop the online wish now
ReplyDeleteIf the mum doesn't want it, respect her decision
And as for Tonto, you can't change the boy's paternity, move on .
He shouldn't stop..
DeleteIt's his son too, which one is if his mom doesn't want it he should respect the decision,.
Let him post every year.. they boy will grow up to see that the father always wished him happy birthday every year then give him the benefits of doubts to hear his part.. all the nonsense she's filling in his brains wouldn't work by them..
Tonto is only just doing these nonsense so she can get YouTube view and use you people to make money..
A very evil, shameless and dumb way to hustle if you ask me.. but well, you didn't ask me
She cannot control what he posts. She needs to let it go. She is not the master of his universe.
DeleteStella which one come be yearly fight again 🤣🤣.
ReplyDeleteOnly four people get conscience for this blog . King xoxo, slutty chic and some anons. God bless you all. May God heal tonto. May she get to a place one day where she’ll let him see his son. If I were her I’ll date Churchill again, I’ll become Rosie karma.🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteEven with juju/jazz, Churchill cannot date her again. Once bitten, complete it
DeleteI am telling you.
DeleteI will form best friend with him. Let Rosie experience sleeplessness.
But Tonto is too straightforward. She cannot pretend.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
No need for her to be Rosie karma, she will get it.
DeleteIf she is truly a good wife, why will she allow her brother to still be hurting a woman that they both hurt deeply.
I read some people saying Tonto is toxic , her past friendships. What of Churchill and Rosie, how about their past friendships?
Only Churchill knows why he avoids his first wife cos anything that one says about him will speak volumes.
We always talk about a woman speaking up as toxic.
Na woman be woman palava and men will continue to take advantage of it , even most comments that she is toxic are from women, why won't another woman be looking for a home to scatter? When women will gather to condemn the wife of the man that she is toxic.
If the side piece is so peaceful, why she no see single guy marry?
Women learn to support your fellow women by reading in between lines and understanding a situation not being in a rush to respond.
If Rosie has not come in between, and Tonto found lies about Churchill or things didn't work out between them, their divorce won't be messy and the co- parenting will NOT be this toxic.
If Rosie can do what she did, she can't allow Churchill close to Andre in her absence and Tonto can't allow Andre to visit Churchill at his house in her absence( is best for her).
I know a real life story where the man wants to but the new wife is totally against it, the man has to paint the first wife an unforgiving woman.
Due to economy, the son went to him that it's has been difficult for his mum from rent to everything, the second wife raised storm that shocked people, the man confessed she has been threatening him not have anything to do with the boy after all she gave birth to 3 sons for him.
People now advise the first wife not to let her son near the father again for safety reasons.
My brother's new wife wants to bond with his daughter, but his ex refuses to allow the girl visit her dad even after a court order. She only allows him meet the girl on the road knowing fully well that icecream and goodies go dey. Not all single mum's are good, some are horrible, delighting in poisoning the poor child's mind.
DeleteNo one is asking her why she will not allow the boy see his dad.
Lastly, any aggrieved party is free to approach the court for contempt( seems both of them are avoiding contempt proceedings).
You called him prince when you know his mom has been calling him King from day one he was born, as if that’s not enough you went ahead to give the King title to your 2nd son who deep down it’s been known your ex and his mum are not in good terms? If this isn’t gaslighting I don’t know what this is!!
ReplyDeleteHe did this on purpose cuz he knows Tonto must react as custody battle has been going on for years! Evil man
Don’t mind the Dead beat father.
DeleteI hope Tonto ignores him from now on. Without her who knows him??? Clout chaser
The ladies bashing Tonto here can’t even tolerate half of what she is going through.
So names now determines how we love some one. Parents have different pet names for their kids which they call them. Apart from calling him King, I believe he also calls him other names dear to him.
Delete@ Aproko Queen! This Rosie can kill sef! I know of three cases when women killed their step children! The step mom pointed the traditionalist they will take the man’s daughter to when she was sick, they starved a full grown woman to death, 2nd case now accident spiritually, 3rd case my secondary school, her step mum made her go mad and even 4 sef . The 4th case accident as well! You see I am a Nigerian woman! But from what I have seen, What Nigerians do , both male and female; they are very dangerous people to marry, because they hardly marry for love! Except the real bonafide Christians! Tonto keep your son away, make them not use am go do money!!! Radarada Churchill. Happy Birthday King, would have stopped all this rubbish, you carry first son name go give your second son, because you hate his mother! That means you want to transfer Andre’s glory to Rosie son wey resemble Kim jong-un now. Churchill is a wizard! Glory hunter; I have met men like him, and thank God, I refused to have marry or have children; even with their begging! Anyone you marry, please wait a year before having kids! To avoid this kind of nonsense.
DeleteI read the so called receipts from Churchill and I laughed. If you believe this Liar, then you haven’t met manipulative and narcissistic Men!
ReplyDeleteTonto ignore him.
Even if he posts your child everyday, ignore. He’s irrelevant without you.
Very very terrible narcissistic man.
ReplyDeletePoster boy of the Nigerian man.
Took the first born's name and gave it to the 2nd born.
Of all the billions of names on planet earth, he had to choose that one????
And the reason is very obvious.
Terrible.