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Tuesday, February 14, 2023
OAP Nedu Says Money Defines Relationships These Days..
On Air Personality Nedu has come again Oh!
Do you agree with him?
Do you agree with him?
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When you meet a girl that thinks this way, avoid her for your peace but if you're really so interested in 'visiting the promise land", then go ahead and use your money for the journey..
ReplyDeleteRemember you're only a tourist and don't ever consider making the place your permanent residence..
Visit, enjoy and go..
They don't deserve your loyalty or commitment.. don't waste it being stupid ✌️
Goes both ways, men looking to live off women, and vice versa, who is fooling who, women these days also use me to scratch their itch and then dump, the whole world has gone raving mad!
DeleteYou think women are not also looking for guys to cool body and dump them? Just dey play...Rihanna is on her no 2 pregnancy when she is done with having her all babies watch and see her next step... women have really step up their games lol asking kourtney Kardashian
DeleteLol..
DeleteDey play..
We dey talk Naina babes you dey talk of babes wey get their own tfare and pay for dates..
Just dey play oh
13:39, are you Rihanna? how do you kjnow?
DeleteNa you dey always play for this blog na...only say you take girl go cheap places like tantalizer and co, body go they pepper you! You wish you can date girls bigger than your pocket but you can't that's why you always crying wolf... I pray God answer your prayers this year..now run along
DeleteLol..
DeleteBe projecting your boyfriends life on me.. where have I said I took any girl to tantalizer lol.. those that eatery still exist.. last time I went there is over 10 years ago..
When you guys don't have stuff to use as defence you begin to formulate lies..
If you like don't level up.. you think you're doing me..
Love does not exist. Men are trading money for attention which freezes away once money no dey.
ReplyDeleteSome of the men around these days have nothing to offer a woman but money anyway. Take away the money and most of them are just empty. Egoistic,arrogant,empty ,characterless personalities.
DeleteMany low IQ men outside now
DeleteAny woman professing love, starve her of money for at least 6 months. If she still hangs around, there is hope. Monetizing time and energy is not love. It is covert prostitution.
ReplyDeleteAt least you know some women who stayed with a man because of prospects(when the man eventually made it he showed his real colour and left them for his real spec. A topic for another day)
ReplyDeletebut can you ever find a man who would stay with a woman because of prospects?
These men that the first thing they ask when they meet you is, "what do you do"? They don't even care if the educational qualification you have will open doors for you in a few years. They want a ready-made woman.
My friend's sister as beautiful as she was then could not get a boyfriend. When these men meet her she complained the first thing they ask her is, what do you do? And she says when she tells them she is job-hunting they stop texting her. A girl from a good home oo and well brought up Meanwhile, the babe was a first-class student with both Bsc and Msc she was even a virgin because she carried books on her head and did not date. Despite these men knowing the value of all her degrees and she was sight for sore eyes too the guys when they see she has no job, they will run. They won't even bother to call her again after the first time.
She later got a job overseas and was sponsored by the company now the sister has been telling me those guys are texting her sister on WhatsApp and showing fake love because they see her status and can tell she is in a different location.
So these go both ways. They will claim they don't want a liability meanwhile they shamelessly look for who has already made it. They don't want to grow up with a woman or struggle with her.
There was even one I read about on that site filled with misogynistic boys. He is 26 but looking for a rich girl. He has been avoiding all the ladies he meets, even though they all have prospects. He wants a ready-made woman. He did not consider their prospects, character or personality. The only thing he was whining about was the monetary aspect of their lives.
DeleteIt was never gender-specific. We just like to pretend like only women do this.
People in general date for only money these days later we keep wondering why marriages are crumbling.
God bless you anon 10:42. They go after urgent 2k girls, oloshos, slay queens and runs gals and still be complaining. I am wondering what they honestly expect? 🤷🏽♀️ They themselves don't really have values and pursue appearances and get surprised when what they have seen (the outward look, including the perceived financial standing of the lady or girl) does not match with character. 🤦🏾♀️😂
DeleteYou have rushed to generalize. I married my wife because of prospects only. I was working and she wasn't at the time. My colleagues couldn't understand why i would make such a "mistake". She had her first degree and we were both pursuing our second degrees at the time. Today, she has a job and has been a blessing to my life. No be all men dey look for easy way out.
DeleteNikki...Then you are a unicorn among most men.
DeleteRead what you wrote again, "My colleagues couldn't understand why I would make such a "mistake". What does that tell you? Out of all the men in your office, you were the only one who got married to prospects and they probably mocked you for it . Which means I was right to generalise in the first place. Now, how many of your kind do we have around?
I will reiterate my comments and say MOST men instead of ALL men due to the consideration of fewer men like you.
Oh, yes! I believe she is a blessing to you because you did not focus on vain things but on her innate qualities.
How did he know that her next relationship won't be because of love, but for money?
ReplyDeleteLike sif, if she has series of crashed love relationship, she should not learn and keep going for love.. something guys don't even do. SMH
DeleteI pity Nigerian women though there must be a lot of male billionaires there in Nigeria. Everything I read on social media about Nigerians always seem to suggest that their women are only ever with a man for money. The poor must be very lonely over there.
ReplyDeleteDon't pity the poor men even those ones too are after money. Looking for rich men daughters or women that are already accomplished.
DeleteThe Irony in reality. How many guys have money??
DeleteYou see am 🙄🙄🙄
DeleteMy dear, men are also with women for money these days. Na materialism get them now.
Delete11:44 these days? No, it has always been like that but they turned it around and quickly made it look like it was a woman's thing.
DeleteBee Hill ask them ooo
DeleteHow many have money? Stingy , broke, hungry, arrogant, insecure creatures prowling round with dry testicles, shriveled over exposed penises and wack sex skills
Why should a lady keep dating after 5 years? Moreso, in another 5 years relationship. How many prospect will she date before she breaks? Let's always be realistic.
ReplyDeleteI will tell you something, I was discussing with a male colleague who married early, he married the only girl he ever dated in Uni, he wasn't ready but the lady refused to let go that she can't start all over with another person, he thought he could get away with the excuse that his father won't agree he marrying before his elder bro who was still "womanizing" (those were his words oo). But his father approved so he had no defense and got married, his brother was shocked and also married.
He said he didn't marry then, he isn't sure he will be married now..
Why did I tell this story? Men complain all the time about ladies but don't realize they are the problem. Must every lady give you ultimatum before you do the right thing? Funny enough, if it was me this guy was dating I would have let him go because I like freewill, I believe the man should come READY.
Now Nedu answer this how many of these "Prospect" guys are ready? Many will always Bolt after years of dating, so why blame ladies??
Who do you want dead??
No mind them. They don't really have the wellbeing of women at heart. They just use women to catch clout. Mtchew. He sees nothing wrong in stringing a woman along for 5 years. A woman that has a biological clock............
DeleteThank you, most 'prospectful' guys are still sampling the field and looking for a lady to hang around till whenever they are ready to decide if it will be her or someone else. That makes no sense and I'm happy that women in this generation go after what they want in relationships, be it marriage, sex, money, companionship etc.
DeleteAre we ready for this gold digging conversation? The non Nigerian anon saying relationships are always about money should please be guided, men run after wealthy women as well!!! Ask any lady that earns a reasonable salary, she will tell you how many gold diggers have come around her. I advocate for honesty in relationships, be straightforward about your expectations and let them match what you bring to the table, that way, nobody is being deceived.
Anon 12:13, you are right, men don't really care, this is the truth. Time also go against them, at the end they regret it, one of my uncle's keeps ranting he had his first child at 43. When he was playing fine boy, he didn't know, they claim they are waiting to be financially stable, he didn't even marry with the millions he envisaged.
DeleteOne thing is certain if a man marry right, he will go up. The lord will provide. This isn't my testimony, my colleague testified to it.
The truth is many guys want comfort too, they're lazy , they don't like work, how much more to feed a baby. They're generation of receiving men. SMH
True at Anon 12:35.
DeleteI will tell my story soon, I used to have a good paying job, the way guys work is very complimentary.
A pretty lady earning 80k will have several dates home and abroad and will most likely settle with one.
A lady earning let's say 250k and above will be attracting "prospects". I thought about it one day that my junior colleagues can't date the guys I date.
And since then I upgraded, not more dating struggle guys.
After upgrading yourself, do not settle for less
DeleteBee Hill: So N250k is a lot of money? I know a lady that makes N900k/month and she is still struggling. I don't care about income. Focus on what the income is supporting. The only hope in a family of 7 making N300k/month is worse off financially than an only hope in a family of 2 earning N100k
DeleteSymptoms of............
ReplyDeleteNot about Ladies anymore, is plenty with men this days. Please leave ladies alone men are doing worse
ReplyDeleteThe worst and most entitled nuisance korofo gold diggers are male
DeleteThe first thing that should come in the heart of a prospective partners is love and not money. When you build your mindset on money at the inception of a relationship, you lost it all. The focus becomes mundane.
ReplyDeleteMoney should come as a secondary aspect of it when love is genuine and real.
Do I really love this person? This should be the first question any sensible person should asked themselves. Why do I love this person? When a woman says '' he ticks the boxes for me'' check very well it could means the money they are talking about. Or have you ever seen a broke guy tick the boxes of any woman?
I'm not justifying brokenness but all I'm saying is that, money shouldn't define a relationship or people. You don't measure love by money rather by character and prospect of a given individual.
Men were told by GOD to love their wives not use them to level up
DeleteUsers everywhere
Skylar, nedu na vertically challenged man, and everything you heard about short men are mostly true. You no go see tall men for petty gossip and such talks.
ReplyDeleteThe times are too expensive that's why. Truthfully, if things continue along this path the entire concept of love and relationships will change. With the lgbtqia and the polygamy and polyamory push, things are going to look very different, as ppl try to survive and undertake love and family. Even the believers will be tested and open themselves up to strange situasionships for the sake of basic survival. Some will even end up with AI and robot lovers and spouses and building robot human hybrid families.
ReplyDeleteWell done. You have smashed the table.
DeleteIt bothers to one thing men won't marry as long as you girl are opening your legs for them for free thereby increasing sin ,you heard what that idiot Mr macaroni said that she is not in relationships for the past 8 yrs but he is having sex now who was he having sex with ,is it with a spirit of course with a girl who he is not in relationships with,that is the type of people who want to lead us in Nigeria ,SIN is a major strong hold of youth and it is leading them to Hell fire
ReplyDeleteIt bothers to one thing men won't marry as long as you girl are opening your legs for them for free thereby increasing sin ,you heard what that idiot Mr macaroni said that she is not in relationships for the past 8 yrs but he is having sex now who was he having sex with ,is it with a spirit of course with a girl who he is not in relationships with,that is the type of people who want to lead us in Nigeria ,SIN is a major strong hold of youth and it is leading them to Hell fire
ReplyDeleteThis matter na visvasa, most people don't look for love now not to even talk of prospect.
ReplyDelete