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Tuesday, March 21, 2023

Lady Shares Tear Evoking Story Of Her Marriage Before And After As She Celebrates Herself..

She Tweeted about her Marriage and why she decided to walk away with two toddlers and no plans of how she would survive....








52 comments:

  1. Wow!

    Thank God she and her babies are doing well, that's the most important part.

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    1. She is one of the strong ones...........

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    2. Let me perch here. 😊
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      A friend was complaining to me about her husband just this morning. This is not the first or last time she will complain about him. I advised her to speak with him about those areas she was complaining about, report him to his family, or speak with someone he holds in high regard. She said she'd tried everything, but nothing seems to work with this guy. I then advised her to seek professional assistance, such as couples therapy or individual counseling, to address the underlying issues in their relationship, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing her own well-being and happiness.

      Then I asked the question I knew she didn't want to hear: "Have you considered moving out?". She immediately went quite.

      I have come to realize that many women are scared of the thought of moving on and actually LIVING!

      Let me share my story: I started 2022 as a 'Mrs', and, midway through the year, I felt that if I could sacrifice more, pray more, be more patient, be more supportive, and endure more, the marriage would survive. It took my husband's moving out of the house for me to realize I had endured 11 years of marriage solely because I was 'afraid' of the next phase. I put up with unimaginable levels of abuse in order to stay married. I was unknowingly raising my kids in an unhealthy environment.

      The woman in this story grabbed the bull by the horns, accomplished what many of us couldn't, and is now proud to testify to God's goodness in her life. She is LIVING, she is WINNING, and she is ALIVE. Is she where she expects to be? Not yet, but she is well on her way.

      Women, please know when to LEAVE so you can LIVE!

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    3. Thanks for sharing Ron.

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    4. Is this Ron as in Ronalda?

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    5. So sorry for all you went through, Ron. Everything will get better by God's grace.

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    6. 16:49, you must be a fairly new bv for you not to know that we have Ron and Ronalda, different bvs.

      Ron, no wonder you went missing in the comment section. l had forgotten about you until now that I saw your name. Thank God for you.

      But would you have moved out if your horseband did not move out? You were reading this blog for years and seeing all our advice and stories, yet you refused to move out, you wanted to die as a Mrs.

      Where is Daraja/Marvel?

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    7. πŸ€—πŸ€— you're a strong woman RonπŸ’ž

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    8. This.....yet you refused to move out, you wanted to die as a Mrs.
      Anonymous 18.17 try empathy

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  2. Happy mother's day to you. Well done.

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  3. My God! Is it the same person in the pics?

    Thank God for her life o. Ladies if your marriage is not treating you right, biko walk away.

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  4. That's the definition of a strong woman.

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  5. Aww mama big hugs to you it’ll only get better with time. Wish I can reach out to her with my widows mite

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  6. Fear is the stealer of life. Congrats for pushing fear to the side and moving in courage to believe that life could get better for you. Your one small life is breaking generational cycles.

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    1. Like, you will be so afraid and doing so many mental calculations... "what if it gets worse" ," What of this and that... May God give us grave to be bold and take steps in diff areas of our lives

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  7. Sorry . Next time look before you leap.

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    1. Sometimes you can look and overlook and the devil can still see the tiniest of them crack and slither through. Our prayer should be, God should bless us with guidance, grace and strength to pull through and out.

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    2. People like you ehn Anonymous 13:44. You are one of the judginas she mentioned in her story.
      I hope you always look before you leap?
      Oniyeye, ale amuda 😏😏

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    3. I looooked I leaked I louuked but what did end up with ? lool

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  8. Thank God for deliverance from such bondage.

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  9. Good to see she walked away.

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  10. Anon 13:44, pray life don't humble you. Truth is, most people these days need to go for mental evaluation and healing before thinking of having a partner. I don't want to bash the other gender but you people need to be sure you are ok upstairs before marrying someone's child and making them go through so much torture all In the name of marriage. May the Lord send helpers her way and give more strength to her .

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  11. If I share my own before and After pictures eh! please leave when you still can. No marriage is worth your life. No one should suffer in a bad marriage for the sake of the children you will even end up damaging those children the more

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  12. Only God what she has been through, I hate any form of abuse

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  13. My God!!!
    Her before pictures look like person wey death dey price.
    What kind of monstrous union was that????

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  14. Some men will just feel they are your god for marrying you..I mean master/servant relationship. Wicked master/subservient slave

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    1. Na una dey entertain that kind rubbish.
      The God I serve doesnt treat me like a slave no be you wey be ordnairy human being go try that nonsense with me.

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  15. You are a strong woman, Keep winning.

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  16. I can see that the new transformation includes opening part of your boobsπŸ™„ You dressed decently in the old pics, in the new pics now you opened part of your boobs. I notice that once women leave their marriages, they start dressing like wookup girls.

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    1. Your comment is highly appreciated. Beat it!

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    2. How can you call that "how I go do" dressing, a decent look? Seeing people happy annoys you, and that's witchcraft, purebred witchcraft.

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    3. Please refrain from writing if you have nothing important to say,

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    4. Very Wrong Perception !!!

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    5. I think the two settings are even different.The first looks like a church

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    6. 14:43 you are right.

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    7. The ahewo in them start manifesting after they leave their abusive husbands

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    8. πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜„πŸ€£ @18:09 abeg her dressing is not that bad.

      Licious babe

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  17. Thank God for you
    Leave to live

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  18. Congratulations πŸŽ‰
    Leave To Live
    I equally admire your courage. Been there once and know how you feel. May God continue to strengthen you , protect you and your children.
    All the best Ma'am πŸ‘Œ

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  19. A family friend died last week due to delay in labour, her Mumy husband registered her in their church for anti natal and when she was due to deliver the idiot took her to the same church and left her there. This lady died with the baby and when neighbors came to inform him of her death they met him eating. Some men are not supposed to get married. Women pls know when to leave to live.

    Merryment is here

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    1. Not all adult males with a source of income are husband material

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    2. Didn't she have relatives?
      Why didn't she call her people so that they will make arrangements for her to be taken to a better clinic?

      Women pls be wise.

      I have a good relationship with my siblings and I can never trade them for a useless man, my husband is a good man btw. If I had been unfortunate to be with a useless man, I would not be this stupid.

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    3. Nawaoo, it's a pity. Can't she go to the hospital, what of her family.

      Licious babe

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  20. Lol STella advised you to leave and you blatantly ignored her advice, stayed and now you’re saying shege banza you’re talking.
    You are a stubborn woman and you haven’t learnt anything.

    You’re on this blog and for years we’ve been advising people about not being desperate and yet you didn’t listen . Smh

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    1. Is this the lady on this blog who went back to her husband?

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    2. They never ever listen.
      Let them enjoy their men.
      Ain't nobody struggling with y'all for trash over here

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    3. I hope she sees it and does the needful before it is too late.

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  21. Thank God, I left 7 months ago, I thank God for everything for grace and favour. It’s been 7 months of peace and happiness. I have never felt this kind of peace for the past 11 years

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    1. You people are the real MVPs.
      Because honestly I can't.
      My single life is peaceful and beautiful then Godforbid I marry a man that gives me grief????
      No naaaah.
      I can't.
      My level of tolerance no reach that side AT ALL.
      11 YEARS?????????????

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