Hmmm....
CONFUSED
She said if goes for test or scan it will make her belly shoot out early and obvious for people to know she is pregnant.
I am sha doubting her with one side of my mind ni. Please house help and advise on what to do. Should i allow her or insist we go for the test or scan.
*What kind of excuse is she giving you? Ok if she does not want to go for scan, let her do home pregnancy test in front of you....This is one their scams to hook a guy, after engagment or intro, she will say she has lost the pregnancy...Dont agree until you see the double stripes in the Pregnancy tester...
Which kin kindergarten lie be this? Watch out! Paternity fraud is lurking around. Simple over-the-counter PT strips does it! All the best and Congratulations if you are the father ππ
ReplyDeleteCould be that it's another man's baby. The scan will reveal how old the pregnancy is, which may be a far cry from the last time both of you did it and you ejaculated inside her.
DeleteGod bless you Sugar Girl, that is exactly what i want to know, to know how old the pregnancy is from the last time she visited me.
DeleteAs in ehn, this lie no gel at all.
DeletePoster if she even happens to be telling the truth eventually and she gives birth, please run a paternity test on the baby oh.
This her talk is making me look at her with side eyes.
She could actually be pregnant but doesn’t want to come to terms with it, some people behave like this so they could act normal and if the pregnancy doesn’t stay they will claim ignorance
DeleteBut she’s not serious, be firm with her, tell her if she doesn’t go for one you’d not have anything to do with her, or did she pay some other people to carry the pregnancy for her?
Something is fishy
Push up (original)
Now that pregnancy is here, you gave turn Chief Investigative Officer. Detective Olushina Holmes, the Congo shiner. Maybe of you keep your peek in one place and wait till you commit to your lawfully...oops what am I even saying??? No be Nigerian man again?
DeleteTake Stella's advice or be patient. Pregnancy no dey hide.
ReplyDeleteSimple
DeleteJust wait it out
I think she’s scared people will find out if she goes to the doctor. Nigerians are too nosy and even professionals seem to feel free to share confidential information
Maybe he should get home test
But congratulations I think you’re about to become a dad
Anonymous 15:10.
DeleteI agree with you. What you just said is one the reasons she has refused to visit the clinic for pregnancy test or scan. But each time i bring the issue up, it always results to the both of us having little misunderstanding. I reside on the Island, while she stays on the mainland. Am just tired with her excuses and wants to move on.
Anon 15:10, do you know how many scans are carried out in these hospitals/scan centres per day? Who sabi anybody to dey look face?
DeleteYour thesis will only apply if this poster's girlfriend is a celeb, otherwise, nobody sabi her, lagos is too big for that.
16:07 lollllllll when you were digging left and right, you were not 'tired'.
DeleteNow pregnancy haf show up, you are 'tired' and want to move on to the next meat that you will eat. Buahahahahaha Better stand and face what you have procreated.
18:05 which Nigeria do you live in π€£. No be only celeb dey fear amebo oh
DeleteGet the kit for her, let her do it at home.
ReplyDeleteOga what does she mean by that? Naturally pregnancy will grow whether she scans or not. However, test does not affect the pregnancy it just verifies whether one is pregnant or not.
ReplyDeleteLet her do the test. Otherwise she is up to something.
Oga buy Pregnancy test strip,get neat plastic container, tell her to urinate inside the plastic in your presence.
ReplyDeleteThen you insert the strip and wait for result.
Ps: please don't be harsh else she will change it for you.
Thank you Arike. I will get the Pregnancy test strip as advised. I have never been harsh to her even when asking to go for the test rather than tell me verbally based on her own calculations.
DeleteTest strip won't tell him how old the pregnancy is. I think that is also important
DeleteWomen will always be women π
ReplyDeleteMen will always be men.π
DeleteIs his pe#nis allergic to CD? Nawa!
@15:32
DeleteThe issue here does not appear to be a denial of pregnancy or unwillingness to accept it. The issue is the "cryptic" nature of the pregnancy.
Why all the shadows over the pregnancy?
Don't just do home test o, go for scan too before them carry another person belle give you.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 15:09
DeleteThat's my thought ooo. Because i remember the dates she visited before she told me she's pregnant. I have sent her money for Pregnancy Test too and even gave her money for Ante-natal too, but i just want to confirm with the test or scan, which she has refused.
Poster from your comments, your girlfriend is shady AF.
DeleteSee Boju Boju oooπ and you believed. Shine your eyes bro .
ReplyDeleteAre u even responsible for the pregnancy. Just be wise. Girls are not smiling.
ReplyDeleteOga buy pregnancy text stripe and leg her take the test in your room
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahaha, you are on a one chance journey bro.
ReplyDeletewhen you are an expectant mum for the first time, e dey catch well well. You keep going for scans to be sure everything is okay with your baby.
Since you say she has pregnancy “symptoms” it’s possible she’s far along and if she goes for scan, she’ll be exposed.
Act now don’t be patient with it. If she refuses to go for scan, then stay away from her till she births the baby.
My former neighbor is fathering a child that is not his own, but who go tell am?
Sluttychic.
Some women are good at taking pregnancy symptoms.
DeleteYes that's what's on my mind ,maybe d belle don old ,maybe no be the guy get am she dey hide ,na wetin dem dey do all these mischievous babes. Any new belle d joy dey catch for her to be dodgy I no trust am
DeleteIf you tell a Nursery 1 pupil this kind of Lie, the child will look at you with one funny eye and then say: 'Aaa Aunty you can Lie ooh π€£π€£'
ReplyDeleteBros Please shine your eye
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DeleteThank you Stella for Sharing my post.
ReplyDeleteI am tired of her excuses and wants to end the relationship. But i don't want to be tagged a Bad person, or uncaring partner if it turns out to be true she is pregnant for me. Presently i have decided to pause in sending money for upkeep until she we go for Pregnancy test or Scan.
Nnahh oga na you dey on top this rship I dey vex for you sef, there is no girl that will not be happy to go blood test for pregnancy with her guy, which bad person they will tag you , is it when they pass it off to you if no be you get am, if she does not have any skeleton in her cupboard make una two go where dey no know know you ,where she can't even tell anybody anything be there o shines your eyes, na this one be simping o no dull o,
DeleteI'm sorry but you sound very naive, how on earth will you be asking if you should "allow her". Nwokem you better get serious and request for a positive pregnancy result. You can buy PT strip from the pharmacy for her, and don't forget to do DNA test when baby arrives because this her excuse get as e be.
ReplyDeleteThis lady is funny sha, last last pregnancy go show. She might be scamming you
ReplyDeleteYou guys know he can still do dna after right
DeleteShe’s just scared
Calm down
Emm, I think what she needs is a blood test. Not a scan. Nobody will scan you at early pregnancy unless you go to a lab yourself.
ReplyDeleteShe needs a blood test and based on the hcg levels in her blood, they will be able to tell roughly how far along (that is how many months or weeks) she is.
She can follow up with a scan to get the exact number of weeks.
Brother - take her with you to get a blood test. That way, her tummy will not shoot out early. It is either she is naive about this tummy shooting out or she is trying to fool you.
Why won't a hospital scan an early pregnancy? Atleast I am pregnant and I did scans at the early stage and it wasn't at a lab. Please educate me
DeleteWhy won't a hospital scan an early pregnancy? Atleast I am pregnant and I did scans at the early stage and it wasn't at a lab. Please educate me
DeleteScans aren't done until 6 weeks and they will prefer to do internal scan. You have the option to opt out and make the do only the external tummy/pelvic scan.
DeleteUntil them carry oba child give osun, your eye go clear
ReplyDeleteWon fe gbe omo oba f'osun.
DeletePoster be like dis ur babe wan extort money from you oooππππ. I have a male friend whose girlfriend said she was pregnant, say she missed her period and decided to check with pregnancy test strip at home and it came out positive. She now said she doesn’t want to keep the pregnancy ooo at all so he should send money for her so she’ll get rid of it. The guy agreed drove to her place days later saying she should accompany her to sumwhere and he drove her straight to the hospital and asked her to sit down that they are there for a pregnancy testπππ. After all the plenty story of how she’s disappointed the guy no trust her them finally did the PT oooo. π€£ππ€£ brethren the test came out negative the girl was just saying rubbish ah ah now shey she did it at home and it came out positive . So biko insist she does a PT ( either with pregnancy test strip or you take her to the hospital urself) That girl is up to sumtin fishy ooo
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteHome PT test kit never works for me except blood test
DeleteVivychoco You are right oo. I remeber then as a 19/ 20yrs old how we used to lied to any guy I and my gang member date that will miss our period just to extort money from them knowing fully well they will not want ours to keep the pregnancy
ReplyDeleteSo you'll let the guy believe you did an abortion? Na wa
DeleteAnother good reason to go to the lab for test is so she can start antenatal care. It’s important that she takes care of herself cause pregnancy is not a joke on women. She should start taking folic acid to prevent birth defects
ReplyDeleteWhich gossip ,go to another area the way some guys behave sef , a girl shld be happy that she wants to go to clinic for pregnancy confirmation since it's coming from you , is she the one running the rship no let Dante vex for you , which kain soft yeye hand be this,. Go for scan test in a Hospital do scan to agow pregnancy date , if you dey sleep with woman dey check date if you no too trust am, make they no put another man pikin for your head.
ReplyDeleteShe is not serious so when will she start taking folic acid and other vitamins for baby's health and see doctors for baby's wellbeing.
No let pant wear you before paternity fraud land on your head, that's how they will be putting ideas in someone's head by their sluggish attitude and superstitious beliefs
Do dna blood test in utero before baby shows much so you can wife her now
ReplyDeleteBros...
ReplyDeleteNo fall for that thing ooooooo....Go for the test and the scan.
You might not be responsible for the pregnancy..she might be carrying another man's child.
This is the same thing that happened to a friend I talked about here..Na scan leak the secret to us that she is 6months pregnant and she said it's just a month.
And na lady wey no kan get tommy
This one na serious one chance.. Lolz
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