Farida tried to commit suicide days back because the man she allegedly used N100 million to marry dumped her and walked out of the Marriage..
This is his one sided story to explain why he dumped her......
Oh well there are two sides to every story and after reading this, dont Judge her.......
His defence goes thus...
“I am extremely wealthy, I live in a 22-bedroom mansion, if I count 20 of my friends inside the 20 Pheerda has slept with 18. When I got back to Nigeria from abroad in 2009 Pharreda came to Lagos at 2010 that same year I took her to china embassy with me so she can start travelling to buy and sell things from China me that she’s calling a gigolo.”
Farida Sobowale’s husband, Demola Odulaja accuses her of sleeping with 18 of his friends (Video)
Farida Sobowale and her now ex-husband, Demola Odulaja .
“In that same year I told her to stop following one of my friend she went behind my back continued to still sleep with him even after I warned her, She went and told my friend that I told her to stop following him and the same friend told me that my girl is an ashewo I told my friend to not disrespect phareeda”
“My brother is my neighbor and farida use to go and stay in my brothers house, also one Alhaji in my area also told me he is sleeping with farida”
“Farida said I’m a gigolo, but I live in a 22 bedroom Mansion and My brothers duplex is beside my house pharreda goes to my brothers house too, Pharreda will be in my brothers from morning till night I asked her what are you always doing there or do you want to still start sleeping with my brother too”
I am not a Gigolo and my father is extremely wealthy and I have been flying first calss since ask anybody in London. Now in 2015 she was in my house in fact it was from my house she got married to her first husband Tunde shobowale. That same 2015 I was doing politics runs with Dayo Amosun that I spent $2 million dollars contesting for house of reps. I had to step down due to the politics issues.
“When I first knew Farida back then she was a poor girl, there was a time I was sleeping with Farida an Alhaji came to knock on my door''
Farida Sobowale and her now ex-husband, Demola Odulaja .
“In that same year I told her to stop following one of my friend she went behind my back continued to still sleep with him even after I warned her, She went and told my friend that I told her to stop following him and the same friend told me that my girl is an ashewo I told my friend to not disrespect phareeda”
“My brother is my neighbor and farida use to go and stay in my brothers house, also one Alhaji in my area also told me he is sleeping with farida”
“Farida said I’m a gigolo, but I live in a 22 bedroom Mansion and My brothers duplex is beside my house pharreda goes to my brothers house too, Pharreda will be in my brothers from morning till night I asked her what are you always doing there or do you want to still start sleeping with my brother too”
I am not a Gigolo and my father is extremely wealthy and I have been flying first calss since ask anybody in London. Now in 2015 she was in my house in fact it was from my house she got married to her first husband Tunde shobowale. That same 2015 I was doing politics runs with Dayo Amosun that I spent $2 million dollars contesting for house of reps. I had to step down due to the politics issues.
“When I first knew Farida back then she was a poor girl, there was a time I was sleeping with Farida an Alhaji came to knock on my door''
What I noticed was that in the supposed long epistle where he was pouring out his mind, he never mentioned how she had slept with 18 of his friends. He only mentioned her fighting, abi, am I blind????
ReplyDeleteNa person wey never date Yoruba man go believe all these lies. The way they do 360 to slut shame a man they once professed love to is mind boggling. Little problem like this, ashewo.
DeleteHe knew all these yet he married her, only to disgrace her. Wickedness.
Phareeda, it's not easy but please move on. Forget about this man abeg. You've got children, channel all the love you have to them. You have money, if you're horny get a toy or pay as you go. All these mature Abuja and Lagos men are too rotten to be kept.
She slept with 18 of your friends and you still married her? Or you found out about all 18 within 2 months of the marriage? What kind of person are you that 18 out of 20 friends are snakes that can sleep with their friend’s woman?! Story for the gods!
DeleteIf a man decides to overlook a woman's waywardness and the woman refuses to change, then she will be dumped! That's how my brother's wife who was picked from the hood and sent abroad! Start to cap nonsense.
DeleteWhy is it so easy for all of you to believe Farida's version, and then so quick to throw out the man's response?
DeleteIs it that promiscuous women no longer exist anymore?
As usual, another tribal bigot has taken a sample size of less than ten and concluded on a population of over 30 million. These are the people who benefited from subsidized education and still refuse to apply it daily, since they don't know it's value. Say no to subsidy.
Delete22 rooms yet unable to afford renovations. Big boy but cannot pay his child support. Flying first class but no investment portfolio. Raked in millions of blood-stained dollars through fraud and still continued criminality, leading to a jail term of 3 years and immediate deportation. Has a house in the USA but cannot afford annual property taxes and can't liquidate the equity he has not built. No single property in the UK, leaving a council flat to fly private😅🤣😅🤣. The sorry life of yahoo boy. Wasted existence. Awon aburo Maurice Ibekwe, omo ise Ade Bendel. Sebi e don cast now? Home done become sweet home as away flog you enter house🤣. Omo ti o gba eko Ile... Better ask Satry Ramomon how to manage yourself as you are back to go.
DeleteDemola, you are telling me that the US government imprisoned you for fraud and did not liquidate all your assets to pay victims? Even the lawyer you hired would have sucked up the rest. You are broke laye lorun. Let's hear word. Old glory. Yesterday's man.
Big man that could not find one naira for his own wedding, relying on donations from friends for paying the live band.
Phareeda heard house in USA and fell for nursery school gbajue: old glory tales. Twenty years down the line it would be the same" let me just sell the house and give you hundred million" from someone that needs hundred thousand pass your gateman. Property is very different in the West. Ask rich Dad: it's easily a liability if you're not smart enough and earning from it. If you had run this by people who just arrived in the states even they would have opened the eyes taped shut by daydreams of a society wedding. With little patience, you would have just thrown a big 50 party instead of stressing the elders on both sides of their family who risked their lives and health to support and bless your union.
As you have married your twin way no get remote, she suddenly has slept with 18 friends. Why not 500?
13:14
DeleteMost Nigerian women believe that a Nigerian man can never accept back a wayward woman. Even from our grandfathers' days, wayward women were accepted back on proper sacrifice done or just allowed to stay on for peace sake, or a purpose.
13:17
Despite all we read here from the women own fingers
This is all shades of wrong. I don’t believe this because every time a relationship breaks up, the woman is always a prostitute.
ReplyDeleteDon't believe him either as he narrates way back to 2020 ALL these atrocities he said she committed, yet he open eyes kro kro and married her recently, someone he said has slept with 18 of his 20 friends plus Alhaji here and Alhaji there, plus his brother, and he is innocent .
DeleteThe man is lying big time. Plus he says he is very very wealthy but couldn't afford to pay for some, if not all of the 100 million naira wedding. Wealthy ko, wealthy ni. Gbe enu e soonu.
Of course I don't believe him also
DeleteBloody liar
Stupid bloody liar, I have not seen any man that will marry a woman that has slept with 95% of his friends, not in this Nigeria!!
DeleteHe even said she slept with his brother, but oga you still married her after that? Try dey reason well abeg.
This is so embarrassing. She left your house to get married, came back and you married her.
ReplyDeleteObviously, you had something to gain. Cos no right thinking human would take such a woman serious.
Madam, e dey your body.
I still think this suicide thing was staged by the way.
Sluttychic.
Balanced.
DeleteGhen ghen
ReplyDeleteTwo 🤡 s.
ReplyDeleteYou are aware that she has slept with almost all your friends, yet you still went ahead to marry her. The guy needs to have his head examined. You are very rich, yet she used her 100 million to marry you.
How can a woman use her own money to marry a man, this is more than desperation. He said he's very rich, so why did she still use her own money to marry him???
You see that 100 million for the wedding is just a case of peer pressure, this is becoming alarming among older women on social media, the thirst to have all the paparazzi weddings they see online, rock the latest bridal outfit, enjoy trending on social media for one of the best weddings.
DeleteThese and many more make them marry anyone and would go to any length to achieve their dream
Well, it generates followers for those into online business.
Felicity
Do you know whether she is a jazzy b!!! Or she has cooked efo riro and snail for the man! We have heard both sides, now she want spend 100m.
DeleteIf she was this promiscuous like you claim,why did you still marry her?Abeg shift jor🙄
ReplyDeleteAll these women that are saying " So she slept with 18 of your friends, and you still married her"...
DeleteShey its you people tomorrow that will tell us not to judge a woman by her past.
Now someone has decided to forgive and marry a promiscuous woman, you are still blaming him.
You people should judge yourself with your double standards.
13:21 that’s apples to oranges
DeleteAnon 13:21 abeg shift. This is not the kind of past we advise men to overlook here, no come dey lie on top our head like this demola.
DeleteNoneeee of us here will advise a chronicle poster who claims his girlfriend has slept with 18 out of 20 of his friends to still go ahead with marrying that girl/woman.
Abeg rest it.
Anon 13:21 so he overlooked her past that he was fully aware of and married her only to dump her after few months of the marriage? What kind of overlooking of one's past is that? Didn't he know about her philandaring ways before now?
Delete13:21
DeleteYou brutal o 😁
You completely blindsided em 🤣
Oga this your writeup no add up at all. You claimed she sleeps around with familiar people but you still married her? And then you wanna push the prostitute narrative. Then why did you marry her if not that you had a vindictive and ulterior motive?
ReplyDeleteBoth of you get am for body. Abeg gerrout! You said you never bodyshamed her then why did you refer to her body scent as a he-goat's. See how you are contradicting yourself.
Ladies please we need to do better, you roll with ghetto men, you get ghetto attitude.
Amos 3 v. 3
DeleteI no dey kukuma like put mouth for husband and wife matter,their business
ReplyDeleteAda ohafia
See wetin an uncouth man come online dey yab about his wife? fear men una nor go hear
ReplyDeleteJust look at! Chaiiiii🙆 all this embarrassment because of husband/wife matter?
ReplyDeleteNawaa for this kain explanation. She slept with 18 of your friends, you still went ahead to marry her. Odiegwu.
ReplyDeleteAshawo is the popular insult for women, she did all that yet you married her?
ReplyDeleteThe story is very very vindictive and incredibly petty
While broke shaming is the popular insult for Men.
DeleteI don't know what happened or who is saying the truth but I want y'all to know that yes a man can see a promiscuous woman and still marry her only to later regret. I have seen it before.
@12:22, normal things just the way women marry broke or struggling men and shame them if they fail to rise up as the women expected.
DeleteTotally unrelated as these are not self confessed Christians, but Hosea the prophet was told to marry a prostitute to teach Israel a lesson in the Bible.
DeleteGod is about redemption through Jesus not condemnation of repentant folks of both genders✌🏾. This story is deeper than “he said/she said”… it involves more than four people, some of who were allegedly besties but shared private stuff….it’s very deep as her alleged suicide tape apologized to her 2nd ex-husband who is allegedly an Alfa, her besties, another married woman…. The story involves international fraud and prison time and big money laundering.
What people say to the public when they quarrel is usually NOT the entire story. May God sort it out for them and heal them all in Jesus Name🙏🏾
Hmm it's only God that knows who is saying the truth after watching different videos on YouTube.
ReplyDeleteMy own is why is Farida still bearing ex husband name even after marrying 2 after him? So people will not know she isn't Yoruba but an Hausa descendant
ReplyDeleteSo she should be changing name up and down
DeleteHer surname is Abdulkadir. With marriage, most women do a change of name which is not conditional as the name becomes THEIRS. Even if she chooses to marry another hundred times, she has the right to retain her name.
DeleteA woman who can change men should not find changing names difficult
DeleteSo you made no 19....1 still left. Liar...she slept with 18 of 20...yet you married her in a lavish ceremony....bros enter house...
ReplyDeleteMarry someone that has sense o. Kaaaai
ReplyDeleteIrritants! 😏
ReplyDeleteMumu man. Try another line, that prostitute and fetish line that you people put out all the time is stale.
ReplyDeleteShe is all of that, yet you were sleeping with her and even married her. Ode.
May women like Farida continue to jam men like this Demola. Amen. No normal, respectable woman would touch him with a mile-long pole but Farida carried him wholesale after she was warned by her friends. She still cast her friends wey advise her give the man. Let her carry her cross.
ReplyDeleteCommit susaid my foot! Dat one resemble who wan kpai? She just wan blackmail am back but the guy wise pass am. You say na you dey spend your money, the man preek no dey stand, na gigolo, yet you carry 100m go marry am. Oshey! Dowry payer🙌.
Na "white powder" business all of dem dey do dey use other businesses cover face. Na how dem take know since way back be dat. Na she say she wan born biological child make the man go follow her do IVF. Baba gree based on conditions but when he see say you no want make he go dey meet him main chick wey dey give am joy again, he change am for her. You come dey act drama since last week. Abeeegiii!
If she no keep quiet maintain her lane, na she and the man dey go back to jail soon because this dude has absolutely nothing to lose. You cannot lose what you don't have but she on the other hand stands to lose so much more than an audio marriage and a hundred million. Me, ayam wucked o. No pity for women wey no get sense🥱. Pa Edochie say person wey go bring ant-infested firewood come house must to Judy....
Lol..
DeleteSomeone finally said it..
Amy you too correct 💯,.
The comment on this post dey irritate me.. I don't know if people are not exposed or they just play dumb when they want to support women..
I don't know them but they're probably involved in illegal dealings, it's written all over, this is how yahoo boy and hook-up girls live, you'll see a guy in a serious relationship with a girl other Yahoo boys have banged, you'll see this same girl getting snatched and married to another Yahoo boy..
Go to Malaysia, Turkey, Cyprus etc etc and see your "big boys" dating known hoeloshos..
So what's the whole rubbish talk scattered all over the post that the man is lying.. you follow them dey live? You Sabi them before?
Its obvious that they're both are cloth from the same cloth..
It's mostly people who are involved in illegal activities that throw this sort of expensive parties to pepper "broke people" when in actual sense they're only making a big fool of themselves.. how many legit workers would do 100 million naira wedding, better put, how many people with common sense would do that.. to impress who? Are you Dangote?
Same thing with that one that claims to be in hair business and was using 45 million to marry a single mother that has birth kids to different men..
I don't know if the illegal money comes with the loss of senses, or maybe it's about"falling in love" with the kind of girls you spend time with..
But it's good tho, make them dey marry themselves..
Hopefully, by next week I'll be back fully, then we go tidy that pending S!MP case wey you don dey keep down for me🙄 miss you too, small sha😌 💚
I just love your unbiased nature. You just said it as it is.
DeleteWhen a woman said something, everyone here go believe her without hearing from the other person. But if it's a man that says his own side of the story, na lie and body shaming, if not to slander the woman.
I fear who no fear some people here.😒
*cut from the same cloth
Delete@amebonawork,in all these comments,I was just waiting to see yours or @Xp because you always have legit gist and unbiased too.
DeleteAny wise person can read in between the lines on the stories of these two people and know that they're both into all sorts of illegalities.
Na wa!!
She was sleeping with your friends for that long and you went along and married her this year?🤷🏾♀️
ReplyDeleteThe real gist is yet to come out.
🙄🙄🙄🤨🤨
ReplyDeleteWhat has you being rich or your father being wealthy has to do with your promiscuous life style. Money can't buy integrity.
ReplyDeleteIt has to do with him being alleged to leeching on the woman.
DeleteWhat has you being rich or your father being wealthy has to do with your promiscuous life style. Money can't buy integrity.
ReplyDeleteWhat has you being rich or your father being wealthy has to do with your promiscuous life style. Money can't buy integrity.
ReplyDeleteWhat has you being rich or your father being wealthy has to do with your promiscuous life style. Money can't buy integrity.
ReplyDeleteHis father worked as a top staff at Nigeria's minting company decades ago. Most of that wealth is gone as the system wasn't as corrupt as it is now. The house he is boasting of is shared amongst siblings. The boy didn't take school serious and went full time into fraud. Of course, he squandered all the money he stole, served time and was looking for a soft landing.
DeleteI don't know how Phareeda thought she could keep a jobless entitled criminal entertained and occupied for long.
See your head. You met her then as a poor girl. The poor girl then is now a rich woman. Hope the woman has recovered from the shock?
ReplyDeleteI believe you sir, same way I believe her own side, too.😎
ReplyDeleteSee your head. You met her then as a poor girl. The poor girl then is now a rich woman. Hope the woman has recovered from the shock?
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmn.
ReplyDeleteThings are happening. I don’t know if he speaks truth or lies, but obviously something happened that caused him to walk away from a very young marriage. The only other option is that he planned to do it from the very start, marry her and dump her for revenge. Who knows🤷🏽♀️
ReplyDeleteThere is a lesson for everyone in their story. May we all be guided on our right paths.
See his mouth like funnel, she slept with 50 of your friends yet you still married her. Foolish man slut shaming a woman. Mcheeeww
ReplyDeleteHe said he's always traveling to UK every Friday,to do what? Carry powder right? Most of this IG slayers are all into this business, even Lara ,it's a known fact all over. he even said he's always sleeping at home because the father don work for an,werey omo ale
ReplyDeleteNa im good for the fareeda sef! See as ds man finish her! How do you stoop so low as to "bribe" a man to marry you with borrowed money? To "pepper" dem abi wetin?
ReplyDeleteWhich kain low self esteem be this?
Anyway, you attract your kind.
So Phareeda thought that her children were safe around this jobless, entitled lazy criminal?
ReplyDeleteAmebo and Dante, thanks for making commentary here interesting. U guys come with alternative perspectives loaded with objectivity. It's irritating when gender sentiment is resorted to on every man-woman issue. The woman is always right and the man always wrong. Boring. From all indications the two actors here, like some have said, are really cut from the same cloth. They shd sort themselves out.
ReplyDeleteSo of all people its dante that is objective?and the pick me Amebo?ayah
DeleteAbeg o who among us Bv don see the audited account of money spent on the marriage to epp us confam say na N100m as she claim
ReplyDeleteI never see any tribe that's insultive as yoruba tribe.... Relate with them with a long spoon...
ReplyDeleteWhy is it that these women will want to commit suicide if the man that walked out on them is wealthy. If that man is very poor and walk away, will Aunty still attempt suicide. Just asking aloud.
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