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Saturday, October 28, 2023

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
A CHRONICLE THAT NEVER HAPPENED

One of my principles in life is to never date a married man. I've been so committed to that decision, doing anything otherwise will be strange to my person and everyone who knows me knows that I respect the marriage institution so much. 

So, a long time friend, older who has always liked me, and has always wanted something with me even tho he met me as a married man said to me, "baby girl you see this your decision, na people like you dey fall hard for married men eventually. When e happen remember say I tell you so."

Years after, the nature of my work took me to a very influential, wealthy and very good looking man in his 60s. He's not the first I've met who's that influential but after they failed to get me to date them they give up and say I'm difficult and different. Something about this new Uncle was different also. 

He's effortlessly caring, he's a giver and he genuinely wanted to just care for me at the time or so I thought lol. I felt really protected. This man came to my office with his full protocol team well guarded to look for me. I wanted to get his company to partner with us and he made me introduce my MD to him and praised me eh. My MD and co workers were like how's this man your friend cos he told them we were friends. How did you become friends with someone with so much influence. I felt important really.

His PA was surprised also and told me countlessly how lucky I was his Oga liked me and in his words "enjoy ooo na jackpot you hit so oga go spoil you well. Girls wey dey find this attention from him plenty." Truly, he can get any type of girl he desires. All them slay queens, flashy and sexy if he wants. He said none has ever said no to him but according to him, it's my decency and determination to work that attracted him to me. He was in love.

 The more I told him I don't date married men no matter what he gives me or promises me, the more he wanted to try. At the time my younger brother wanted a job, I got him a juicy one through Mr influential effortlessly.

Stay with me guys. I'm going somewhere with all this.

He goes back to his family in Abuja, wanted me to come over, wanted us to travel to dubai, tour Europe and some parts of Africa. I knew once I travel to meet him anywhere, definitely that would be an open acceptance to dating him and other things will follow but my principles won't just let me. 

To an extent I got attached, yea, who wouldn't. He offered me a soft life with zero worries. I was okay being just a friend to a man that influential but he wanted more and he really enjoys my company. I'm a good conversationalist and I have broad knowledge on a lot of things so most of these advanced men see me as smart and not just a pretty face. You will never get bored gisting with me. 
He said I should promise not to hurt him. He's fragile and all. 

Hmmmm.
One day, he had so much pressure from politics, family and work and just wanted to hang out with me. He called ooo.. He's coming down to my state. Ahh, I said okay, is it not to gist. He came down, with his plenty uniformed men. I went to see him, stayed around till about 9:00pm. Decided to leave. He was so sad. 

It happened so fast and we kissed. He didn't want me to go but after the long talk, I told him, even if I decide to do anything with him nothing will happen cos I was on my period. He really wanted me that night. I told him the kiss was a mistake, I regretted it and reminded him of my rules. 

He said I was selfish, he travelled back all for me. Called his PA to take me home. Oh, the first time I met him, the PA was the middle person. Apparently, he knew his oga would like me and he once promised his Oga to get him a decent girl for a relationship and I showed up with work. So, after that night, he said to me "You dey fall hand ooo. I don hype you finish for my Oga you just dey disappoint me".

 This people think all girls are like that. They're so used to changing them.
Anyways, after that night, he was really hurt, according to the PA, he reprimanded him so much he almost lost his job. Warned him never to bring someone who's that difficult to him again. 

He Suspended his PA and blocked me. I'm still blocked till today. Since 2019. I felt bad for hurting him so much, I tried to reach him, no way. PA was fighting to get back his job. I used different lines he just didn't want anything to do with me anymore. He blocked me on all.

 I really tried. I got so attached, then I didn't know how to let go. Not like I would have dated him, I just didn't want it to end on that bad note. Eventually, I accepted he's gone never to return. When his PA resumed after suspension, I tried again, but he said "Oga no one hear your name again. Just let it go".

I said all that because while I was with Mr influential, he said something to me. He said... I will be your sugar daddy, I'll take care of you, when your own husband comes we will vet him together to know if he's a good fit and if you love him then I'll even sponsor your wedding. I will teach you all you need to know about being a married woman. You can only learn these things from a married man's view. The mistakes and lessons. But once you get married, whatever we have will no longer be. He doesn't sleep with married women and he's committed to that.

After he blocked me, remember my first friend at the beginning of the story who said I'll fall for a married man someday. Yea, we're still friends and cool. I went to him and was so sad and he laughed so hard and said this life never say never. 

He said so, finally, you fell for a married man. Although nothing happened aside the kiss but you still fall "Kiss wey I don dey beg you since you carry am go give another married man". He said the man jazzed me, that it wasn't ordinary, I should thank my God he never had his way with me. He wanted something else from me. I remember once I sat close to Mr influential, he looked at me so deep and asked "who are you. Something is not right.". Was I jazzed? don't think so. But, ordinarily I won't let myself get so attached to a married man but I did with him.

So, I fell off with my boyfriend recently, and I went to my old time friend I mentioned at the beginning for counselling. He's a marriage counselor and relationship coach. I even call him brother mi to taunt him the more so he'll stop wishing we once dated lol. He said something again that reminded me of Mr influential. He said, you need a married man in your life, to teach you how to handle these young guys. When they see that they have competition they'll seat up. You're making it easy for them. Allow a married man show you the way, you will see how you go just marry fast fast. Good girl no dey pay in his words. 

From a relationship/marriage counsellor. Funny ikr! A lot of times I've laughed at those he counsels but he knows some good stuff too just don't be too judgemental with him and pick the good ones.

How on earth will me, dating a married man make a single guy serious or jealous. Brother mi, really wants to taste this fruit but again he brought back memories of what Mr influential said. "Only a married man will know who's good for you when he shows up". Brother mi, I respect him, knew me since I was a teenager, I let him dream on about dating me but I know deep down he genuinely cares for me. The same reason that made him say Mr influential jazzed me because he didn't understand what Influential did right that he never did. Lol

Why do Married men think that way? I'm not even considering their plenty talk but someone who's not strong willed listening to them will just reason it as true.

I just felt like sharing this piece. Long I know but I even omitted a lot to shorten it.
Thanks for reading.


Interesting read!... You are so strong willed.
dont regret losing that man please, he was never yoursand his reaction to your not sleeping with him is too extreme........Like he wanted to gbensh you and steal your destiny...LOL
Thanks for this piece....

88 comments:

  1. Run away from people who tell you to date married man so that they can teach you xyz. Reckless advice from a reckless individual. Marriage counsellor ko, relationship coach ni. Marriage counsellor that doesn't want to face his wife and is still wishing you dated him is the person you are always running to??

    Also when the influential man decided to block you and stop picking you calls, why were you still begging him and going to the secretary? Shouldn't you have been relieved and bidden him good riddance? I don't understand your viewpoint.

    Anyway well done for not compromising, but do not put yourself in that situation again. If you know you will not eat the food, don't smell it. I didn't see the need for friendship and gifts when you knew all along you didn't want anything more with this man.

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    1. "He said I should promise not to hurt him...I remember once I sat close to Mr influential, he looked at me so deep" sorry but I think you slept with this man but don't want to be judged. Anyone with GENUINELY strong morals will be disgusted at a married man hitting on her and persisting. It's just like a robber trying to convince you to rob, or a kidnapper trying to persuade you to join him, you will be so disgusted that you will block them/tell them off, not dancing around something you are disgusted by.

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    2. 15:09
      It was because of the benefits.
      That's why the man blocked her tightly and even punished his PA. He realized he was being used for free. She doesn't date married men. But was chopping the man's money.

      Abeg o make nobody yarn me about destiny stealing. Some men just like to gbensh hard to agree women, as some prefer married women. And it is usually for bragging rights or very private self glorification nothing more.

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    3. Exactly, he wanted to gbensh you and steal something. Thank God you are strong willed but you almost fell because of long throat. Hahaha. You dodged a bullet.

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    4. As much as I advise people to see therapists when needed, I need to strongly advise you to be cognizant of who you are seeing. For example, you should have similar basic values, and try to note their antecedents. Some can counsel you to hell. Some are also kuku upstairs. Just be careful in everything you do my people.

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    5. Exactly, imagine telling someone you need to follow a married man to learn how to treat your husband. That is the most stupid advice I have heard in my whole life.

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    6. Thank God you didn't sleep with. Your destiny for disappear.

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  2. Chika(Hello Iya Boys)28 October 2023 at 15:18

    Abi ooo iya boys
    See the way he got angry because you refuse him Sex
    Na waooo
    Some thing he has been doing ever sincere hisssss

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    1. Auntie, your name has come up amongst a circle of friends which your Mr Influential belongs to and there was a bet on your head that whoever gets you wins takes home the bet. Forget all that jibberish he has been spewing. Wanna know how I came to this conclusion? Because I have been in that space and wasn’t gotten but one of my colleagues fell for it and months down the line, she started experiencing spiritual attacks. Young lady of 25yrs was loosing her mind like there’s no tomorrow. She literally ran away from that company because after she got better, she resigned. Girl is now married with a child. I don’t want to go into details because colleagues read this blog.

      Oh and yes, they were friends of the owner of the company. They come around, scan the ladies and make a choice, if you prove difficult, sha start getting ready to loose your job. Do us a favor, ask your MD if he truly knows that man?

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    2. 17:18

      Those "men" are predatory animals , taking bets on
      items to use,exploits and throwaway

      Not women or human beings but items

      GOD for if

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  3. Long story short, you fell for him and he dumped. He can't be used forever without benefits not like he wants anything from you than S£×.
    If you are not into married men then stop entertaining them with all those conversations.

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    1. Thank you poster for the read I enjoyed every bit of it.

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    2. That your friend will still chop you. He knows now that you’re just like “them” and that you have a price

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  4. And where is the chronicle iΓ± this Chronicle?

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    1. Keep searching Abraham Lincoln

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    2. She wan tell us say she be hot πŸŽ‚πŸ˜. No blame, be like say chronicle bag don empty 😘😍

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    3. πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

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    4. chronicle | Intermediate English

      a record of events in the order in which they happened

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    5. Moral lesson, whatever you don't want to eat, don't bring it close to your nostrils, else e fit choke you.
      You don't want to date a married man? Do NOT collect gifts and privileges of a girlfriend from him and think you can form strong, e go over you human emotion is funny, don't gamble with yours.
      Poster you were steady chopping his money and goodwill will and thought he wouldn't want a relationship? Loollll, sha be grateful he's not the wicked or aggressive type that will want his pound of flesh.

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  5. Maintain your stance, you won't regret it. He's a married man for a reason, never yours, never will be.

    Yours will find you with the help of God, not with the touch light and low batteries of a "married man"

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    1. The lies of married men to manipulate and trap women

      Mtschew

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  6. What manner of tortoise and hare folklore is this? A relationship coach is telling you to date married men so they can vet husband for you? So no married men in your entire immediate and extended family? No father, uncle, elder brother?

    And then you are entertaining visits and gifts from a married politician when you very well know his intentions? Now you have been pursuing him for the past 4 years but he blocked you. That is, if he didn’t block you, you for don give am kuntus with extra on top so you can enjoy soft life.
    So this chronicle is for what exactly?

    Issokay! Well done!

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    1. 🀣🀣🀣🀣

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    2. 15:25
      Stella, your Bvs get mouth o
      Kuntus kwa

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Just had to laugh.......

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  7. Ste, same thing that was on my mind. Na God save you Poster ooo.... He was after your life ooo. Forget the whole stress he claimed he was under, I guess he needed to renew his ....(blame Nigeria flims πŸ˜…πŸ˜…)

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    1. Why were you receiving gifts from this man??

      To add I don't understand that your relationship counsellor friend. That's an advice from a hungry man.

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    2. Nne thΓ© babe la hot πŸ˜‚

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  8. One day bushmeat go catch hunter . Olojukokoro. You don’t want something yet you’re begging for it kwantinue

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  9. Where there is a will, there is a way. Poster, thumbs up for being strong-willed.

    In my much younger days, I also promised myself same thing. That I will never date a married man nor sleep with them.

    The tide of life has swept me through very rough circumstances from my university days till this moment but I've stayed true to my determination.

    Even when I lost every dime that I had worked so hard for in 2020 to wrong investments and had to start from the scratch all over again, I never looked in their direction. Even though I had a lot of them as customers and they kept flaunting their money in my face. Of course, alot of them would say "Good girl no dey pay again, use this your smartness well, let me turn your life around", I'd just laugh and say if God could bless me before without doing runs or dating you, He surely will bless me again someday. I have worked so hard and done alot of businesses. I just pray for restoration and I trust God to do it.

    So dear poster, you are not alone in this, keep being you. Never compromise your stance. Thank God that you are even very comfortable.

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  10. "Warned him never to bring someone who's that difficult to him again."

    The PA brought you for what exactly?
    What was the initial intention of the PA bringing you to him.

    I assume you are quite young.

    The PA is his pimp.

    These 'men's usually have a variety of girls in different cities, they use them yo step done and the pretty ones are good as arm candy.

    The ones that appear decent, they try to mahe them feel special and unique. Trust me they've recycled those lines a trillion times, they're practically engraved in their heads.

    Good that you didn't sleep with him. Once the knacks enter, the interest wares, as the real interest is in the pursuit.

    Please don't believe anything that comes out if a married Nigerian man's mouth, they're all full of shit. They single ones are even worse.

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  11. Why did he react that way cos you rejected him? Destiny things my dear. No regrets

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  12. For the man to block 🚫 you shows that,he needed you at that particular time for important thing which only him can explain.
    Blocking 🚫 you fir years shows,you spoilt something for him.

    Hmmmm!!!

    Only him can explain the reason for blocking and not picking your calls.

    You want to spoil his charm/jazz for him.

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    1. Especially politicians

      Ruthlessly desperately diabolical many of them

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  13. Hahaha Poster you are a strong lady.
    I'm reminded of my own story.
    In my case I like oyibo.
    But I have never dated any, I met one back in uni, and another during nysc, but for some reasons I didn't date them, nothing happened, maybe I didn't think they were serious.
    So back to 2021 my seat mate on a flight from lagos to abuja was an oyibo in his early 60 coming in from London.
    We chatted all through the flight, I didn't know who he really was, until we got to abuja and the entourage that came to pick him had me wowing, oyibo even follow me hold my hand luggage(I initially refused but he insisted)
    He's entourage kept referring to Me as madam see vip treatment, omo people for airport dey look me like so this lepa babe don catch oyibo.
    Na so I follow oyibo go transcorp cos he say make them drop am first before one of him driver go carry me go my house cos it was late like around 7:30pm.
    For transcorp we chop dinner, na so I begin my journey back home as he ask him driver make he take me go house.
    The journey to my house driver begin yarn me as oyibo be big man, say oyibo don help all him family member, say for oyibo to give me that attention say he like me and if I play my game well say oyibo go change my life for good.
    For my mind I jus dey laugh cos oyibo and me don yarn and I sabi say he be married man and he get children wey be like me sef.
    Na so sha me and oyibo come dey call and chat, I visit oyibo join am go one small meeting.
    One day oyibo come send me one message for whatsapp say make I come keep am company, say he no fit stop to dey think about me, say he sabi say he don tell me say he get pikin wey be my age, but say he can't just help himself.
    I smile, he later come say make I no mind am, say he was just being emotional, say make I forget.
    Na so I say problem no dey. Me sef be don dey tempted as oyibo dey very caring and just dey drop money for my account, dey give me vip treatment, give me money to start side hustle.
    But oyibo begin feel guilty, come dey avoid me,
    My target be make he give me better job for this abuja, but oyibo come dey avoid me until he return go London, he call me, come say he dey sorry say next time he come we go talk.
    Omo I just stay far o, cos I no fit be baby mama

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    1. Confused.com πŸ˜•

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    2. Yes your story is similar to that of poster's.

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    3. Lifted you were forking the oyibo for him to give you money for side hustle but unfortunately for you, you couldn’t get enough money from him and a good job. Any body that has dated oyibo knows they don’t continuously dispense money like our politicians if they don’t get nothing in return

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  14. " He said... I will be your sugar daddy, I'll take care of you, when your own husband comes we will vet him together to know if he's a good fit and if you love him then I'll even sponsor your wedding. I will teach you all you need to know about being a married woman."

    God forbids bad thing.

    He was must definitely going to choose you a S!MP husband.. only a dumb S!MP would allow your rich 'uncle' sponsor your wedding without being suspicious..

    Then that other one saying married men would make single guys sit upπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    Dey play..

    Only a dumb S!MP will be competing with a married man to win a ahewo heart.. yes, na ahewo she be..

    You sef, you weren't innocent of it all like you're acting..

    You don't accept gifts from men you know wants more than friendship from you. You even used him to get a job for your brother.
    You used him, time to return the favour, you come dey talk plenty.. na why Baba vex..

    Guy man was 'guyed'..

    You played a dangerous game, and some men would go any length to win, after you use them. This is what makes some men go extreme or even fetish on a girl, after she chop them come no drop kpekus..

    You were just lucky Baba didn't want to make you pay for using him.. thank your stars..

    Baba too has learnt his own lessons not to plan things on hope.. if she no free, free am.. move to the next.. no time to waste chasing air..

    You too, leave married men alone.. brother mi ko, brother mi ni.. you have started going close to him again and he Don dey phycologically program your subconscious.. your mind go dey soon

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    1. πŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎ

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    2. Dante, I don dey wait your comment since

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    3. Jaz..
      Lol..
      The babe na fraud, corporate yahoo girl.. I don't date married men, but I can enjoy the benefits that comes with dating them..

      She go marry and still complain when another single lady does the same thing she did,- using someone husband to live baby girl life and get her brother a job.

      The height of self deceit

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    4. The man is thrash

      Chasing air indeed

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  15. Don't use your teeth to share dog meat for children if you are not a dog eater. Thank God you stood your ground and maintain your principle.

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  16. Is Blessing CEO not a marriage counsellor?

    That Mr Influential is not a good person. Eventually you would have slept with him. Count it all joy.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  17. Another thing poster, don't sniff what you can't eat. Don't get too close to the point of falling. You are only human and you have blood flowing in your veins.

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  18. Nobody is difficult to deal with, just know the right button to press. Most times one is being careful not to be played or what the end result may be.
    So he is telling you dating a married man is how to get your own man??
    Na from clap dance take dey start.

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  19. Dating married man is bad but what do single gained from hopeless single men that break their earth or use them as sacrifice as reported of portharcourt guy that cut his girlfriend into pieces ?madam you missed a golden opportunity all that are saying don't date married men ask them what they suffered in the hands of their so call single guy is it not worse ?you would have had a good experience and the man would have vet useless guys for you now you are on your own I pray a good guy locate you if not you may live to regret this because many of these so call guy are not but animal devil in human skin, serving breakfast anyhow and that is why many girls may remain unmarried because many of these guy are not brought up well . period

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    1. Excuse me! Ain't you the one always taking about being a Christian/born again here?

      Is this comment of yours a joke or what? Be careful, for the LOVE of money is the root of all evil that destroys.

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    2. Mr judgina you chop frog today?

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    3. πŸ˜‚ I just can't believe this is our very own goke. Like adontbelieveit! He was hacked! 🀣

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  20. Las Las you fell for a married man. If he had unblocked you, you'd definitely off pant. I know your type.. na una dey use calls scatter person marriage. Na married man go still knack you scarra especially this your marriage counsellor....wanna bet?πŸ˜„

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    1. Poster ghost this counsellor

      He is a parasite not a friend

      Blackie the men expose their marriages to scattering

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    2. Poster ghost this counsellor

      He is a parasite not a friend

      Blackie the men expose their marriages to scattering

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    3. Haha… blackberry don’t mind the poster, na who no know she go tell this cock and bull story. Disturbing an old married man with calls sotey he blocked her. I hope she will not complain when outside girls disturb her husband the same way. She think say she get sense

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  21. That man was hurt by your rejection. Serves him good. He should know that every woman isn't cheap.

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    1. If he had unblocked her, him for knack her kundus. He decided not to try again.

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  22. Why accept gifts from a married man since you are so “morally upright”
    He blocked you in 2019, you are sending your chronicle in 2023...4 years later. It is obvious you regret your decision to not sleep with him.

    See how beautifully you painted this man, you are inlove with him.

    Sluttychic.

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    1. Imagine ooo, since 2019. Meaning she is hurt for the benefits are no longer there and is ready to off, once she's unblocked.
      "Had I known" should be the caption of this chronicle.

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  23. Have dated both the single and the married men, all na wash. When I married my single broke ex husband i thought we will both build our life together he used beatings to scatter my tooth . I shoulder all the responsibility until I had nothing to eat with my children he later threw me out with 3 kids. After 6 yrs I meet this older man with 20 yrs age gap between us, he lied that he is divorced we got married but this man can sleep with anything. ( he slept with my friends, my daughter friends, all the small small girls in my street are not safe with him) if I had known I would have married to my career inFact build myself up. Men are not Gods to women, now I see marriage as a bondage. If u are happily married I thank God on your behalf but for some women it was not easy.

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    1. Your husband is a literal pedophile and he's still your husband????

      Hooe you sha know your daughter is not safe with him...

      Ha. Na wa o. This desperation to be married amongst Nigerian women needs to be studied, because what the heck is this comment????

      *shudders*

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    2. You can write a book or do a podcast. Nobody deserves to experience the trauma that relationships brought you. I hope your soul will be healed one day. If you need therapy seek it. It is not too late to seek abundance and prosperity and having the security of good finances. All the best.

      Here I am still dreaming of a grand and epic love story in my life, after reading your story, maybe I am being protected from evil encounters and don’t know it. No matter the fires we see, the heart will still choose to walk on coals to experience something that it has never have before.

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    3. She may not have the financial means to leave. Baboni don't lose hope. With God and with life all things are possible. Just start by thinking on what you really want to do for yourself and your children.

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    4. Baboni pls this thing you re in it's not a marriage ,you mean he sleeps with underage he is a pedo naw, I remember you said he is also a gambler like marriage should not be the end of a woman's world , ingle life is better than some misery all in the name of marriage or even stay on your own with your kids
      Naija economy making some women to stay with evil haa,

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    5. "Naija economy making some women to stay with evil haa,"

      Dead this nonsense.

      It is you as Nigerian women who are so IQ challenged who believe that men are the beginning and end of your existence.
      You don't bother to build yourself up, fulfill your dreams or even have any aspirations.
      Everything man man man man man man man man.
      Untop of a completely empty head.
      These men are as severely IQ challenged as you lot if not far more, but they have been smart to set up society to favour themselves why y'all are forming damsel in distress with zero smarts.
      That's why the daftest, slowest, poorest, emptiest, dirtiest man in Nigeria believes he is deserving and even better than the best woman Nigeria if he can't get her (obviously), he will try to rape her, if that is not possible, he will run her down to his peers.
      That's the standard modus operandi.

      As for the poster, don't let greed and 'smartness' get you into what you can never recover from.

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  24. Alot are happening these days.Most of these influential men uses jazz.yes, to steal young female's glory, which after this, the female may find it difficult succeeding in life except she holds on to God.
    Poster,continue to be strong.

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  25. Na from clap we dey enter dance. You didn't want to date him, but you wanted the attention and probably money. You are lucky he didn't jazz you and use you. Don't perceive what you don't want to eat. Don't fall for the brother sweet talk, God will bless you with your own man soon. Just keep being yourself.

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  26. I think the person you though was your helper may have other ulterior motive, just thank God you didn't fall victim

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  27. Abeg lemme reserve my comment on this chronicle. Cos all of u in the chronicle think all of us are dumb. From the PA that was forming ‘suspended’ from his job cos of u, to the oga that was forming ‘sad’ because of u, and u forming like u are hard to get. All of u were playing games, none of it was real, i repeat none of it was real.

    Lemme tell u their first rule of thumb: make her feel like she is the most important thing in the world. That is exactly what d oga did to u, and i’m surprised u fell for it. U ain‘t any special and any different from all the other girls he chased. That was how he treated them, he was also ‘effortlessly caring’ to them, he also told them they were ‘decent and hardworking’.
    How did u think he perfected he skill in that art?? Experience baby!! Abeg mk i stop here, i don dey vex.

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    1. Take paracetamol ndoo

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    2. You be BABA for the Game!!!! Suck them in and turn them into a SUCKER PUNCH

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  28. Poster he stayed that long pursuing you because you were hard to get. Like a project he wanted to accomplish and feel fulfilled. Don't even think that You were too special to him. I must commend your self control level anyway. You tried.

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  29. I cannot deal with a married man, something about entering and disrupting a sacred union just doesn’t sit well with my spirit. A man brings a woman into a house of worship and makes a declaration for onlookers and God to witness, then binds himself to her, and expects that I should walk into that just because he is not happy with his home life or bored. I’ll stay broke and have cobwebs in my punany and be at peace. At least I can face God without shame. Even if he got married to jezebel and is desperate for love, I just can’t do it, sorry not sorry.

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  30. Thank God it never happened. Are you sure the man did not plan to steal your destiny? Don't ever regret leaving him, but always be thankful, and please distance yourself from anyone telling you to date a married man for whatever reason. Hold tight to your principle, I'm proud of you Smart lady.

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  31. Continue paying with your life. This's an annoying chronicle
    The most complex B

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  32. Caption of this chronicle and summary is "Had I known, it wouldn't last, I should have made use of the opportunity", especially as sapa dey now, regret is setting in. Move on with single or fall into trap of your therapist.

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    1. Lmao. Don’t mind her. Very naive girl. A married cheating man is who she’s writing glowing remarks about. She even typed all the PAs lies here. You really think his PA doesn’t know his type? Or that you were his only side chick?. Trust me, he had someone else minutes after you left. Lmao and his PA will also spin that one tales about being special. Grow some morals please

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    2. As in ehh πŸ˜‚,

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  33. You already use him to get what you want, right? By accepting some acts of kindness from him, you get involved already. He visited you and did same raising the man hope. It's bad. You should have said no from the very beginning and not accept or welcome his present or any act of kindness, for any reason. I don't like the man statements 'vetting your future husband and sponsoring your wedding.'

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  34. Destiny. Destiny. Destiny
    What destiny?
    The one with which she could not get a job for her brother on her own efforts?
    The one that still has space in her life for Me. Influential to fill with money and gifts.
    The one that still has space for Broda mi to fill with trash talk of how to make single men respect or value her?
    The one that single men cannot see and hold her tightly for?
    We think that destiny is stolen only through s3x?

    If her single men friends have not being seeing her bright destiny, then she has very poor skills concerning choice of men or no such destiny. Whenever a favoured woman enters a single man's life, there is a turnaround for him. Men don't let such women go.

    The story is clear. The man was attracted to her and became obsessed. Most men bound like that and who have the money, always want to conquer their desired object of obsession.

    She should leave married men alone and focus on her life or follow them with her full chest. Dodgy.

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  35. Anon 20:35 God bless you . I made a mistake I know , the reason why both of us are still together is because of our personal house In which we both build together in the north. I worked at Abuja where I met him, the jobs was a well paid I worked as a cook. I wanted my kids to have a home bcos am tired to payed house rent which is very expensive as at then. To cut the story short I was able to build the house for my kids and he contribute also to it. That is the reason why I can't threw him out of house but my daughter's is staying with my sister. ( this is the first time in my life I will discuss this issue) but I was later sack from the job bcos of change of government. I love you all

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  36. It a game of manipulation to take an advantage on leave later

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