Wedding Night Brouhaha...

WOW...

I didn't marry as a virgin, I had known men before I met my first husband, so I knew what good knacking means, when I met my first husband, he said it will be a "no segs" relationship because he is a believer, I accepted because age was not so much on my side.

We dated for 8 months, for one day I didn't see his odogwu stand, even at early mornings, sometimes I sleep over and yet nothing of such.

So one day as an experienced 29yr old woman I called him and sat him down, I asked him if everything is okay down there, he said "Ah all is well, the way you're asking me is making my mind go into this things and I don't like it, if you're so on heat for segs, maybe we should get married sooner ", he angrily got up and left.

A part of me wanted the marriage like yesterday but this man is the laziest man alive, I will practically foot all the marriage bills, so I kept dodging it, waiting to see if things would change but nothing changed, he was just giving me hopes and then the prayers, he prays so much like his entire life depends on it, so at some point, I couldn't continue waiting, I gave him some money to go home, bring his people to go meet my own people.

Fast forward to a night before the wedding, I forgot to mention that he moved in with me, he said since we were getting married and my apartment is bigger and more luxurious that we should stay together, I still accepted that too, shebi na me wan marry fine boy´? 

On the night before the wedding, I was so horny that I could grab a horse sef, we were lodged in the same hotel, the hotel i paid for, I went to his room for us to do the do after all we were already married traditionally, this guy started praise and prayer session with me ooo, he said he was about to call me that he had a bad dream that the enemies were trying to do bad thing on our wedding day, that I might slump and die on that day (why me and not him? Mtchewwww)

Na so we pray ooò fear fear me, who wan die? We prayed till 3am, I was so exhausted, we dozed off, woke up at 6am the next morning and got ready to go to the church:

 After everything we got back, dozed off again and when we finally woke up the next morning, I got up first and went straight to the bathroom, cleaned up and came back to meet him, immediately I touched him, he got up, we greeted and he head straight to the bathroom too, finished bathing, came back and told me that while he was in that bathroom that the Lord gave him a message about his new home and that he should fast for 90 days for that good thing to mature and instantly this man started praying and cabashing.

He told me that I should get segs off my mind and fight for what's more important, that segs go taya me as a married woman, so I quickly told him to pack his bags so we can return home as I won't continue paying for the hotel room...

As we got home, he moved his things to the other room and this so-called prayers continued for a whole 3months, thereafter I came again (how I became that patient still marvels me till date), Oga started forming being sick, he claimed it was as a result of the long fast but what he didn't know was that the woman that sells food in my street had called me one day to advise me to be cooking at home as a newly wedded, that it is wrong for my husband to be eating out every morning because of my busy schedules, I kept it to myself, so immediately he started another excuse, I invited his family over and mine too.

On Sunday they came, he was shocked to see them, I tabled my pain to them, after talking, his mom apologised on his behalf, then turned to him and said, "why didn't you tell your wife that all is not well with you down there?", na so my eyes turn, you say wetin??? The mom said yes, he used agbo to treat infection and now him body no de stand up again, we don spend on top taya but e no cure, na so I stand up ooo, told my parents that I was done, my dad immediately supported me, I even told them that i have been the breadwinner all this while, the mom screamed, she turned to him, I thought you said you found a job and the reason you don't send money to me is because your wife is a bad spender? She got up, carried her bag and left.

Na so I throway uncle for outside ooo, and the marriage ended immediately.

 I stayed for 4 whole years before God sent me the Angel that married me now, we didn't wed in church cos he doesn't believe in it, but he's so perfect, we share two kids already and he's everything I want in a man.... I am happily married now, as for my ex? I don't know where he is right now ooo but that man was a scammer