This is a shocking read, so please prepare yourself to read to the end and decide it this is all made up or not.........There are two sides to every story and this part has messed up my mind.....
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Sunday, November 26, 2023
IsraelGATE - Estranged Wife Sheila Opens A Shocking Can Of Worms On Why Their Marriage Crashed
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Inukwa! Who has time & energy to read all these? Abeg make Una shift one side.
ReplyDeleteAll I see here Is a man who doesn't have respect or control in his work life trying hard to exact that control and stract that respect from his poor wife at home. Such a will man will want to be Lord and master over his wife and children in his home since he can't be that at work. If such a marriage is too last,the woman must give him the control and respect he so desires and must not be rebellious in any way. She may have to lose her identity in the process. I am happy Sheila is too self-aware and self-confident to be that woman. I am just sorry she had to waste her virginity on such a man as this. Absolutely not worth it. Better luck next time,Sheila
DeleteTo Davido, Israel na lamb, to his wife, na lion him be.
DeleteWho asked you to read it? Bitter soul
Delete@14:06 I’m glad you deciphered Israel’s situation correctly. CEO Empress made these realizations too yesterday.
DeleteIsrael is an emasculated man at work and publicly hence he bullies Sheila and would do so to any other woman in order to attempt to get back his masculinity.
Sheila, I hope you never look back. He thought you would be an easy nut to crack because you’re very young and he would be your first.
Shuo, forget him. Wipe your tears and move on. So much greatness ahead of you!
But where did u gather strength to type all this?
DeleteSheila, wake up everyday thanking God you didn't get pregnant for this man. Thank God he insulted your parents more than he did your father. Thank God his money is nit entangled in any business of yours. You've been blessed with a neat full cut from a troubled man. Make it count.
DeleteTrue@ 14:06
DeleteBeing completed emasculated, he us trying to assert his dominance over his wife, the way he cannot at work.
Imagine being considered and treated like a clown and a phool at work, only to get home and your wife still easily proves it. How did these 2 meet.
So completely, terribly mismatched.
He needs to find someone who considers answering the title 'Mrs' as the greatest accomplishment in life with an IQ that is -5 and below.
Blue Bubble. You understand it perfectly 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
DeleteMen think that women of now are days are the women of today. My dad exhibits some of this behavior of insulting his wife including us his kids in the public. My mom seems to be at peace with my dad. But we are children, she tells us DIRECTLY, if you follow your dad's behavior, no woman in the 21st century will stay with you. I keyed into that an started becoming self aware, removing and uprooting every bad behavior that I've learnt unconsciously and consciously from my pops. On the other hand my dad is a hard worker. But that bad character is the only stench in him.
ReplyDelete*Women of today are women of olden" 😂😂. My mistake 😬
Delete*her children* Omo so many errors in my statement 😬
DeleteIt’s okay we understand you 😁
DeleteMEN realise this: YOU CAN'T CONTROL ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. It is just impossible. The day I realized this ehn, I got peace of mind. You can't control another human being.
ReplyDeleteHow do you say don't, don't, don't. Even me self hates any boss that gives too much instructions. I am not a robot. Chaii Israel messed up.
Being the head of the family is by actions and not DOMINATION.
I see why she vowed never to go back. Even me won't dare.
Exactly. It is risky to marry men like this guy. Any man whose job is to serve his fellow man in a humiliating way...the way this guy does with Davido will take their frustration out on their wives at home. Any day David treats him like sh.. t, he will lock his wife out or abuse her.The more emasculating their role is professionally, the more dictatorial they are with their wives at home.It is even worse with a husband whose boss is a difficult woman...his wife will bear the brunt.
DeleteAnon 11.26...this is exactly what I was thinking 🤔
DeleteLocking your wife outside is bad if he truly did.
ReplyDeleteYou said he literally used the wedding to gather money for himself? Is that why you where asking for the money? I see through you but first tell us how much you contributed. Even your papa first cousin no even attend your wedding, yet you geh mind dey brag about politician.
I remember the wedding was so elaborate, I have never seen anybody that made more than he spent on an elaborate wedding. Abeg in Ebuka’s voice, good luck to all of you.
Fan Emmanuel
Fan,
DeleteI was waiting to read your comment.
"You see through her". Lol.
Ofcos, you own a crystal ball. Lol 🤣🤣🤣.
Why do most Nigerians commercialize their weddings?
DeleteFan you really lack emotional intelligence
DeleteFan, You must be living in LALALA AND DELULU LAND.
DeleteYou think everyone is like CHIOMA DAVIDO that swallows rubbish just because of Money. Sheila has STANDARD.
You read her Writeup and you still is in support of Isreal 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shit dey happen
ReplyDeleteUna marriage will nt b d first to crash and b d last to crash
Sheila girl, how i wish u didnt come to social media at all
It is nt easy to keep quiet when the other party is all over SM updating netizens what went wrong either true or false...
It is well.with both of u
So she shouldn't defend herself. If someone lies against you on social media, be the bigger person and not respond but let other people do as they deem fit.
DeleteChai and I spent almost 1,hr reading wetin no concern me😩
ReplyDeleteLol,I stopped reading at a point o
DeleteThis is a whole lot.No one is perfect but this Isreal has a lot of issues.
ReplyDeleteIf she saw the signs like she said,why go ahead with the wedding in the first place?It would have saved them all this unnecessary drama and public dirty linen washing.
Chaii 😞 I’m so weak reading this. I have heard similar experience, reason I didn’t end up with my very rich ex after five years, I was drained, emotionally and sometimes physically abused! I wish you well in your endeavor!
ReplyDeleteHappy Sunday everyone🌷🌷🌷
Anyin……
This must be the court of public opinion people talk so much about. But who is the judge? It can't and won't be me. No one cares about any of these childish people. The reason why their marriage failed is right here before everyone. He and she want to have the last say, to justify themselves and paint a narrative about the other.
ReplyDeleteThis is shameful.
I stand with you on this.
DeleteI care
DeleteIt’s not shameful
Let’s call a spade a spade
Dude is wrong in this
Na wa for this kind marriage sef.
ReplyDeleteVery drama filled.
People wey don marry de cry
People wey never marry de lament
She had no business marrying this guy
ReplyDeleteHer writing style and reasoning shows he is waaaay beneath her league
The guy has a huge poverty mentality. Imagine listing items you bought for your woman on social media.
Girl even the best of us make mistakes. Can you please ensure this is your last response to nwa boi David and crew?
Godbless
Simple. But she still put head inside. Jokingly 😊 That virginity would have been better kept for another man in her class.
DeleteExactly you peoples anger, he’s “nwa boi to Davido “ . Same nwa boi that puts food on his table. Same nwa boi that gave him fame. Same nwa boi that sponsored this wedding abeg shift!
DeleteHow’s Isreal beneath her? A graduate that’s doing well for himself? Your last line is you peoples problem and I’m happy Israel no send una papa
Fan Emmanuel
I believe her. Maybe he has undisclosed mental issues
DeleteThey have very different mentality and don't understand each other. Very incompatible. Thank God there are no kids. That's how his kind tie you down and destroy you. If you don't think like them, then you are a "bad woman "
DeleteTankio @Anon 10:45. Marrying beneath your class is not just/only about money or education. This Israel is beneath her in reasoning and common sense. A son who even insults his own father and disrespects his inlaws, shey na wife he nor go wash like bitterleaf? Hian. Boy byeeee! Sheila, move on and don't ever look back. Let him find a dumb girl that befits his status. Wabbish!
DeleteHis wife for that matter! He couldn't say one thing she had done wrong. That's when I knew he was trying to paint her badly.
DeleteWhy refer to him as nwa boy in a derogatory manner, even davido with all his money has been unable to make chioma a proud woman, the guy at least has the sense to Wed the girl properly but he seems to have attitude issues or maybe the girl is too young to handle marital issues.
DeleteSecondly, why would you think he is way below her because you claim she writes better. So many uneducated men have professionals as wives and still live happily, marriage needs more of character, tolerance, hardwork, love, forgiveness and every good ingredients you can think of not some degree in sociology or Medecine will automatically give you a good marriage.
Exactly what I was telling my sister yesterday evening after I read Isreals IG post and status. Common English no common o, I tell you
DeleteBut she wanted to be associated with Davido and also the guy was lavishing money on her and her family. So she married him cos she thought he had so much money in his bank account and also for fame which she eventually got so why show no go end?
@The Lifted, which money?
Delete'300k' and 'generator' is that what you call money???LMAOOOOOOOO
E say 'lavishing'🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The one that’s really embarrassing to me is where he asked her not to turn on the gen. What the hell???
ReplyDeleteSluttychic.
As in! Imagine the poverty mentality. And if the babe vex go buy personal gen wey she go dey fuel jeje, the anu mgbada go talk say she is not submissive. The girl and her family offended God by being entangled with that overgrown baby. They saw shege abeg🤱.
DeleteThis is shameful. If they cat resolve it let them go their separate ways instead of disgracing themselves and their families
ReplyDelete"A lot of people were not in support of the marriage, that was what I used to beg him not to prove everyone right".
ReplyDeleteIf only we know how many people are in bondage because of the reason stated above.
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DeleteMy dear I couldn't agree more. Btw, I've missed you Castle.
DeleteFor real
DeleteI believe her. Edo and Delta men you see pride and Control na their follow come same way an Igbo man has Ego, a yoruba man respect and a Rivers man stubborn as follow come.
ReplyDeleteOnly a few stands out. But it seems Israel is a full Edo esa man. So traditional and a control freak. Bottom line, they're not compatible.
EXACTLY what I was thinking. I didn't want to say it so I won't be torn apart. I have fully experienced it. Ego and control.
DeleteWow this yoruba man and respect would explain my husband's character of tagging slight things as disrespect
DeleteNot true,Anon 11:17. My husband is an Isoko man and he's as beautiful as they come(inside and outside). 10 years and a month, he hasn't changed since we met in Uni.The girl was just unlucky to meet the wrong man.
DeleteYou don go comot me for hibernation mode. Let me go back.
I can't believe that I read it all.
ReplyDeleteOmo, see marriage of how many months o!😲😳
I'm shocked.🤯
It would have been worse for her if she don born join. Wetin Snowwhitey eye see for FFK hand for be child's play compared to hers. Theirs was not a marriage but a demonic arrangement contracted to favour only one side. Thank God for her.
DeleteHmmmmm......... Without the write up even , the first day I heard this guy is getting married i made a sign of the cross for the both couple, people dey see shege for marriage o forget .
ReplyDeleteImagine traveling and giving her instructions like not to on the generator, not to do this and that as per without him she have never seen good life before. It's well, may God come through for all marriages going turbulent times Amen.
🤣🤣🤣🤣.
DeleteThe guy been don get personal slave come dey disguise say na marriage. He thinks virginity is stupidity. As the girl waka, leave am and him part-time generator e come dey pain am. He never start sef. He go rant tire. Werey!
This is becoming embarrassing 😶
ReplyDeleteIf this is true, then that Israel of a man is mentally deranged! Shocking how many Nigerians need a mental health evaluation! On the other blog, when I read comments I cringe! Because many of the comments I read sound like what a demented, mentally unstable human would say. Many are raving mad in that society- Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteThe individuals on the other blog have gone crazy 🤣🤣🤣. You see comments there and you wonder how Nigerians have a lot of mental health issues that are not addressed. It is well.
DeleteAs for Israel, Baba is acting like a DICTATOR. How will love grow in a dictatorship relationship. He needs to admit he has issues and see a psychiatrist urgently. He has a controlling behavior which is not good for marriage.
DeleteThe guy is definitely not okay, locking her out at every opportunity. I read through and the popcorn lost its taste in my mouth. She is really courageous. No need remaining in this kind of ish.
DeleteThe thing is a serious issue
DeleteFor every failed marriage you see, there are 6 that are doing well and 3 that will be on better stead with a little bit of effort and commitment(made up statistics. But you get my drift).
ReplyDeleteIt is not all doom and gloom in marriage. There are marriages that are working! There are marriages that have crossed their challenges and have become better! But you don't hear them talking much about it. Because they know it is not anyone's business! and maybe that's why their marriages still stands.
A lot of chronicles have been posted here. Few have come back to let the house know things went on. I mean, if you bring a matter up seeking for views and advice, it is only natural that some sort of feedback be expected. A lot of marital chronicles here were given sound advice by BVs. Advice that may have been productive to such marriages.
People can learn him your story. If your marriage crossed its challenges and is now better, people can find rich lessons from it. Talk and share how you overcame your battles. How you got to a better place in your marriage.
We can't only be hearing negative marital stories. There are more of the positive stories out there. We can share and learn from each other.
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DeleteI really like reading most of your comments. Just putting this out there✌️
DeleteThe guy is agbero. I believed his wife.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteHe will now rush to go and marry another mumu early next year to pepper her but as long as he doesn't change his preposterous mentality/actions, Sheila will still have the last laugh. Shebi na here we dey.
I don't even know what to say again. It's well with them
ReplyDelete🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteMe read all this project, I no well.
ReplyDeleteHnmmmm another lady go still choke head for this kind of man na wa o
ReplyDeleteI will still not put mouth in husband and wife matter 😀😀😀
ReplyDeleteNa wa o these two don't have business getting married. The Isreal guy is so chidish, imagine listing things he supposedly bought for his wife on social media. I bought her expensive hairs,phone bla bla bla.
ReplyDeleteNo mind the senior mumu man biko. Onye iberibe.
DeleteHowdy my darling?🥰. Happy Sunday.
The typical Nigerian woman judge a man's quality by what the man said he did. Even the women who claim faux standards still give more value to that aspect of a suitor. Just that men are not expected to count out when the relationship or marriage fails.
DeleteThis Lady is pretty, well spoken, sensible and had no business marrying this fellow. She thought she saw potential to build something unique but when there is no unity and understanding...
ReplyDeleteIsrael on the other hand needs to learn what it is to LOVE! I can't understand why controls and money mean everything to him. I see a man who feels emasculated at work so his wife bears the brunt of it.
It's very unfortunate they can both learn a lot.
So being well spoken means you have the qualities that is needed for a successful marriage. Slave mentality
DeleteShe is young yet she has inner strength. Thank God she left.
ReplyDeletePastor Sam, come and see your carbon copy narcissist .
Never you marry someone that doesn't know your worth. Both of them are in a totally different world. She is godly and he is not , so he can never relate with the good qualities she posses. Their lifestyle do not align in anyway. I was surprised how they ended up together when I first read that he met her where she went for an evangelism. See how he deceived them into believing that he has a good relationship with God by presenting all the church certificates to them and they fell for it. Then he came rushing to perform the marital rights, so that there will be limited courting period because prolong courting period would create opportunity for them to see the bad sides of him.
I think by now the family and the church have learnt their lessons from this experience. Being a true worshipper of the Father is not about gathering certificates from the church and being identified through the many church certificates that you posses. Many churches today would have less regard for you if you don't have their certificate and that's so materialistic in my opinion .
You understand it Perfectly
Delete👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I read to the end. The guy is a dictator. He needs a robot and not a wife
ReplyDeleteIsrael confirmed he married her because she's a virgin. My question is, why did she marry him? Because he presented church certificates? Because her father liked him? Because he threatened her into rushing the wedding? Because of money? Whatever the reason, she made her choice. If he talked her into rushing the wedding, she still had the right to stand her ground and say no. But, she made her choice. She wasn't forced into the marriage. I like the fact that she's not throwing a pity party. I wish they could go for sound marriage counselling and possibly therapy. Otherwise, they should both move on.
ReplyDeleteA clear case of marrying a narcissist.
ReplyDeleteMay God heal all troubled marriages
ReplyDeleteStella forget all these story Isreal and him ex wife Sheila dey yarn.
ReplyDeletetwo of them be 419.
Sheila marry Isreal because of fame(davido connection) and money, she later no come dey see the money.
Isreal marry Sheila bcos she be "virgin churchgirl" he think say na naive babe wey he go fit control, he no know say babe done tear eyes even if say na "virgin"
Dem don scam eachother be that. Dem do 1:1
All these things na story.
They both married for the wrong reasons, what makes you think you can change a grown man/woman and start dictating what they should do? Na same boy-boy money dey take spoil you and your family from day1, you no ask am wetin be the other business or job wey he dey do, na same boy boy money he take marry you, later you wan tell am make he get another day job?
You know whether he go fit do another ?
Atleast she don get fame, that one do am, na the highest bider she go dey look out for now.
We know.
Isreal with his local man mentality, better get a life and stop looking for who you will control.
If you check well sef, she be 'virgin' wey dey smooch.
DeleteSupernova she was still a virgin
DeleteThank you @The Lifted
DeleteYou saw through all the charade.
Money was at the bottom of the marriage for the two of them. And his refusal to account for the pre to post wedding donations rocked the marriage beyond repair.
Wise woman wey marry foolish man na wetin?
Christian evangelizer wey no know the answer to Amos' question: Can two walk together, unless they are agreed? - Amos 3 v.3
The man too should not have opened his mouth to say he was cursing her. Naim born her to dey curse am?
Supernova, do you have or have ever the self control she had, to maintain her virginity till marriage. Evil minded fellow
DeleteSupernova, if e EASY, RUN AM
DeleteWHY ARE YOU NOT A VIRGIN THAT SMOOCHES
Jealousy no go allow your Mind touch Ground
Husband and wife's matter, hmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteAs she don run commot another one go so soon run shook head put, after all, some females cannot resist the allure of iphone whatever, human hair wigs, designer outfits and a chance to see Davido.........
ReplyDelete🚶🏾♀️🚶🏾♀️🚶🏾♀️
I can relate with everything she said, I walked away with my daughter. I know I will get through this. The only difference was that he packaged his madness well till we got married. Thank God for the courage to walk away.
ReplyDeleteHow is this guy a public figure? You are an employee , not a boss, so who cares if you have a quiet wedding. Even true blue public figures are doing simple affair. This dude has a grandiose sense of himself.
ReplyDeleteWhat a waste of virginity. My dear, no one on this earth is perfect. This was not the man for you and we have said it a million times, if you have misgivings, even on the wedding day then walk away. Locking someone out of their home as punishment is the depths of evil. If a couple has such problems that they can work out, every effort should be given for peace and understanding to reign. Once you start locking someone out of the home, it’s over, that person can never feel the same about you ever again. Humiliating a spouse is not love. Thanks be to God this marriage is over!
He wasn't concerned about having a family. He was desperate to get her pregnant so she could lose her source of income, the freedom to go out and work and then be fully dependent on him and his rationed generator. This man has no idea what love means. He mistook the wedding for purchasing a remote controlled doll.
ReplyDeleteAnd this is why women should not rush to bring a child into a marriage. Imagine if a child was in the midst of this. Having a child for an unworthy man is like a loadstone around a woman’s neck, forever connected to that person and having to see them for the rest of your life.
DeleteThe young woman here was not stupid and she saved herself by putting a value on herself and knowing her worth.
Mehn this story is draining, I am tired
ReplyDeleteGeez! What lucky escape
ReplyDeleteThey were never friends before they got married. What overwhelmed him was her virginity, and obviously that's what the lady sold to him.
ReplyDelete