I saw this comment posted by BV Shyla in the Saturday morning spontaneous post and it fits perfectly for the boxing ring...Comment is not enbaled in the post but deleted and posted here....
This is an emergency in house News for the purpose of settling the issue mentioned below...It is like an SDK court of law. na me be the Chief Judge oh...LMAO!!!
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BROUHAHA BETWEEN BV SHYLA AND UN-NAMED BV
''Good morning everyone! Please help me judge this issue of who is right or wrong since the both of us are Bvs.
I Shyla baby, did sales last week and made a little profit. I decided to shop for some of my personal needs. BV I, then called me while I was shopping that she wanted to see me and I told her where I was, she insisted that she was meeting me at the shopping mall, which I agreed.
I Shyla baby, did sales last week and made a little profit. I decided to shop for some of my personal needs. BV I, then called me while I was shopping that she wanted to see me and I told her where I was, she insisted that she was meeting me at the shopping mall, which I agreed.
When she came and met me, she was like you've money this period, I said no, it's profit from my sales. BV I, decided to pick an item which I thought she was going to pay for, only for her to add the item to my own shopping items, I now told her, no I wasn't going to pay for her item cos it was expensive.
I rather asked her to pick another cheaper item, besides she didn't even say it to me before picking the item. She now snapped at me that I was stingy and petty at the counter and walked out. After my shopping I called her and she didn't pick, I then sent her a text, that she's was entitled and rude. She replied back and said, she is not mean but a better soul than me.
Please Bvs, this incident happened yesterday, we both are Bvs, please who's right or wrong?''
Hmmmm if this is really what happened, please desist from this friendship further, i cant stand people who assume they can take from you because it looks like you have....Nasty behaviour...I will deliver my full Judgement if the BV can send in her side of the story, maybe you are also at fault...
Until then i reserve my verdict....
BVs are free to give their full Judgement on this....
I will like to hear from the other party since the both of you are Bv before I gave my verdict.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
DeleteYou picked an item for her thinking she will pay for it..
Do you tell her that you will pick the item for her so she can pay for it?
Let hear from the other side o...
I know who she is talking about too. Their personalities are worlds apart based on how they both comment on the blog.
ReplyDeleteShyla, you are too soft and the other BV is very uncouth and sarcastic. How did you become friends sef? You even came here to write chronicle.
You are 32, right? Please at this your age don't feel guilty in getting rid of parasitic and disrespectful friends who do not rate or value your friendship.
Always make sure your friend respects you else you are in for more disrespectful behaviours such as this.
She was the one who offended you and she was the one who had the guts to vex again but you still went ahead to call her and brought it here this morning. You have too much time on your hand for nonsense o Where is your self-esteem?
I hope you are not like this with potential dates too.
She must have known you got giveaway if you say she is a BV so she expects to eat out of your business money and that is why she is angry. She must have seen you bought a lot of things so she is thinking the small thing she picked you still had to tell her to return it despite every thing you bought. Forgetting it is your money and not hers. No wonder Stella is always complaining about the messages she received. These are the same entitled people that becomes rude to her when she turns them down
I hope you know, for bringing it here, someone like that will no longer be your friend.
The friend sees you as a fool.
This was my comment in the morning.
The Anon always trowing jab at me,
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Oya Oya you don catch me. I didn't move anywhere and there's no woman in my life. I never chop belleful let alone to date a woman. Who dash a jobless man like me money to move out and pay rent in another area or take care of someone's daughter?.
I hope I can now rest.
Ezege ! Na wetin you and your Boss Dante dey find for my dream?
DeleteLemme goan watch Wolves vs Spurs ..Spurs has scored already 😳
Hehehehe,
DeleteStop hoarding the gist biko. Tell us what happened in the dream joor. Wetin Dante tell you? I'm curious.
For you to bring the issue for deliberation here means you are ready to forgive her.
ReplyDeleteI want to belive your side of the story.
Move on from her please. She is entitled and so immature. If she had intention of purchasing it before, she should have asked nicely that her account can't pay the full price and you can decide to make up the balance.
She isn't your friend , she is an opportunist from what you wrote
DeleteMOVE ON!
I saw the comment before you removed it. BV Shyla I want you to believe your intuition at all times.
ReplyDeleteIt is obvious that the person is a leech and has poor attitude in mannerism and conduct. What is wrong is wrong. You don't need people to tell you that what she did was wrong
Let's hear from the other babe then since both of them are bvs..some people are just so entitled,it's not only money sef,some feel so entitled to your time and other things
DeleteWhen you are out with a friend.....especially if you were invited, the most honorable thing you can do is pick things that are not too expensive. Let the person be the one to tell you to pick the expensive ones.
ReplyDeleteStop acting like you gave the person money to keep for you.
Shyla, you acted well. If she feels you are not a good person cos you told her you weren’t boyant enough to afford the expensive thing she picked, then let her be. From experience, people like Bv I nor go do even the tiniest things for you.
Sluttychic.
I don't even know why you think your Rich friend must buy you something. You are not your friend's responsibility.
ReplyDeleteShyla Baby, Have you been buying her things in the past so she became relaxed around you? because when you are generous to people they become entitled over time.
Where did she gain the confidence to just throw her item in your cart without you giving her the go ahead? Or has she been buying things for you in the past so she saw no big deal in you reciprocating?
Please people, stop shooking your eye in your friends' money. That is how you keep a healthy friendship.
Funnily enough people like that will not use their own money to buy that same thing for themselves. They are always eager to spend other people's money on themselves.
ReplyDeleteBased on the story above, your actions are right and I will advise you do away with friends with that kind of mentality. Waiting to hear from the other party.
ReplyDeleteWith what I have gone through with being generous. I now have phobia making friends with people I feel do not have as much as me. If you dare asking me for anything as small as a pen I block you. My patient has run thin.
ReplyDeletePatience* jare
DeleteWho is BV I? 🤔
ReplyDeleteWatin concern you? Must you know the person?
DeleteNa wetin me sef wan know.
DeleteWhere una dey meet this kind yeye friends from?
ReplyDeleteIt can never be me. You can't be rude and entitled like that and still expect me to call you after such a nasty attitude you displayed.
Girl forgot that leech and move on.
Exactly cut the leech off
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ReplyDeleteBeautiful segment.
ReplyDeleteNice one Judge Stella 👋👋
Was wondering what happened to this comment on SMSP. Once again, Shyla, if what you wrote above is really what transpired, you did the BV no wrong. She had no right to pick anything at your expense without knowing if you can pay for it. If your worth to her is determined by how much you are willing to spend on her, then whatever you both have together is not pursuing.
ReplyDeletePlease let hear from the other party before we pass judgement.
ReplyDeleteBayesla election na money flow o
Pdp 7k apc 10k . Someplace 10k each person.
Since the other person is also a Bv, she should send her own side of the story to avoid people meddling in what they don't know how it started.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteIf this is how it happened, then you're not wrong Shyla.
ReplyDeleteShe ought to have asked you before picking anything. You didn't have her in your plan when you went out to shop, so her giving this attitude of ''you must pay, else, you're stungy" isn't right and fair. Maintaining this kind of friendship will be draining, hence, dey your dey abeg.
It will be good to hear from the other person too.
*stingy
DeleteShe is wrong for picking the item without informing you to know if it's convenient for you to pay for or not.
ReplyDeleteI will prefer if the person pick it and give me by herself than me to pick. Na wah o , u help am work.
ReplyDeleteIt's either some people are not properly trained or they thought being uncultured is a virtue. So because your friend told you about her win, you expect to get a dividend. You didn't only abhor the thoughts, you had to pick something more expensive and expect her to pay. Na so witchcraft dey start. Some people can't just share in people's happiness except they are getting something out of it.
ReplyDeleteShooter gyal come out let's fight our own now😁, na smack down and uppercut i go do you.
ReplyDeleteShebi is me you called a bush gyal? I know i said there won't be any problem if you call me that, but i want problem now.
Ehyaa
Delete🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteHow small is the world that BVs are clashing? While Stella is of the view that the other BV may have her own side of the story, I don't excuse any lack of courtesy. It is poor form to assume someone will pay for an item you selected yourself without recourse to that person. And when the person refuses to be taken advantage of, umbrage is taken.
ReplyDeleteSimply asking if BV Shyla would be willing to pay for the item first before selecting it would have been the proper way to go about it. Moreso, BV I wasn't planning on going shopping that day. If BV Shyla wasn't in the mall when she called, would BV I suddenly have wanted the particular item in question?
It shows deep disregard for a person to expect them to pay for something for you without you even asking them beforehand. It also shows poor upbringing to pick offense with their refusal to buy said item.
Make na sufri e fit be una friend wey una dey greet in love 😆
ReplyDeletehaaaa....
ReplyDeletethat friend is moved wronged ohhh
We want to here from both BV's
ReplyDeleteHear*
ReplyDeleteYou should have a conversation with her.Two wrongs can never make a right.you need to sort things out and let peace reign.
ReplyDeleteNo need
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ReplyDeleteShyla is right no matter what! Cut her off sweetie
ReplyDeleteLet us hear from the other bv.
ReplyDeleteBv I 🤔
ReplyDeleteShe is your friend as you said. I will prefer we hear from her.
ReplyDeleteHow often do you people go out for shopping or hang out together. Does she pay sometimes?. Is she always there for you when you need her before now. What she picked was it a necessity? Friendship is not all about money.and what you get NOW.
There is a way you will say 'good morning' ' and it will turn from greeting to insult. There is also a way you say 'Thank you' and it creases to be appreciation but insult. How did you respond when she asked you to help her pay for the item?. . Anyhow it goes, friends quarrel and make up. Life is not that difficult to cut off everyone in your life because of a single mistake.
If what you said is what happened,then you are right and she is wrong,u nor fit buy pass wetin you wan buy now,u even told her told her to pick a cheaper one and she walked away....This una friendship get as e be o........... Josaria
ReplyDeleteIf you have done the same to her in the past I.e. picked items without asking and she paid for them without asking you to pick cheaper items, then I understand why she is angry and it seems she has cut you off by not responding to your text and call. If you've never done same to her, then she was wrong.
ReplyDeleteBut why spend the profit from your business? Don't you reinvest profits into your business or save it in the account you use for the business?
How she chooses to use her profit is really nunya business
ReplyDeleteA wise person doesn't eat with their ten fingers
DeleteFrom where Shyla stated the she insisted in meeting her at the mall means that it was pre planned. I will do away with such friend.
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B