Hailing this Terrific Tuesday.....
IN HOUSE MEMO
Good day my people.....How una dey?...
I dont know but I am seeing some kind of commets that are really hateful, real Blog visitorwould not postthese comments so i am guessing that we have influx from somewhere else and they dont care about the cursing and swearing at each other. like constipated alligators.
Make una take am easy please, like i have been preaching, things will get better..
This is officially welcoming all the visitors from Instagram...
Back to my Zeeone, the King of hearts, Siddart has gone to Bangkok to look for Roshni after she called him with a pay phone.....THEY BOTH PASSED EACH OTHER AT THE ROUNDABOUT the zeeone way...Very annoying something...Siddarts mum went to warn Roshnis mum to tell her daughter to leave siddart alone.....
Please when them go die and who go kee dem...
Jalal seemingly now hate Rukaya becos she asked for one of Jodas twins and her request was granted.....Jajal is alway sangry and i think he wants to bring out mahamanga from jail,i thought she wanted to die yesterday oh but it looks like she will peme today...Joda is cleaning out her room....
Will the secret way in her bedroom be found or not?
Abeg none Zeeone people please forigve me, I am enjoying this banter with the Bv that updates me....
Enjoy the rest of your day.....
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
My boys are older and way more vocal, the more vocal they get the more they argue. These boys argue a lot now, they have different opinions about everything and most times it becomes heated.
The last time, they argued so bad and started hitting each other. Their arguments are usually silly but it’s a big deal to them. They once argued about the difference in the shades of the red coloured spoons I gave them. After all the back and forth I had to come in and let them know that the spoons were the same shade of red.
Most times I let them battle it out because I have seen them switch within seconds of trying to beat each other to laughing whole heartedly together.
Now, I do not encourage them to hit each other and I show zero tolerance for that “ my mantra is our hands are for hugging and for helping and not for hitting ” . Yet they still hit each other, I am not bothered because I have memories of me and my younger brother fighting and beating each other.
I stopped raising my hands against him the day he punched me so hard in the tummy that I couldn’t talk for a long time, I was just rolling in pains. I still managed to beat him up and I won that fight but after that I learnt to use my mouth from a safe distance.
My sisters who are so close that you will think they are twins, still bicker over everything like they did when they were kids. I used to force them as kids to hug it out but now as the big sister I serve as “Judge Judy” to them.
I know the boys will be fine.
They will be fine and learn but you need to stop them from thinking its OK to use their hands to hit each other, it graduates from there....tell them there is punishment for any of them that lands the punch...
Dont be quiet, times have changed...I have a friend whos sons always fight like this and one day she brought out different canes, wore shorts and started fighting two of them and flogging them, they had an option to fight themselves or fight her, she had had enough....They began to fight each other and if they stopped she would start to fight and flog them......After all done, that was the last day any of them raised a hand against the other......they were teenagers then.........
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SOME WAYS TO BE A ROMANTIC WIFE
-. Remember that romance is not the husband's responsibility alone (Some no dey even try at all)
-. Compliment your husband when he is well-dressed and smells good (This takes two please)
-. Touch your husband's thigh when he is driving or seated next to you when you want to tell him something
-. Flirt with him over the phone (some go reach house call you ashawo)
-. Play with his fingers when you two are having pillow talks
-. Cuddle with him and place his head on your bosom when you two are in bed
-. Place your hand on his arm as a Queen who knows her position
-. Dress up for his visual stimulation, especially in the bedroom
-. Dance for him and tease him
-. Tell him all the passionate things you want to do to him
-. Praise his s#xual performance and the things he does that give you pleasure. Tell him how how he drives you crazy ( LMAO this must have been written by an alleged King parading the internet)
-. Take him out on dates, don't always wait for him to plan things
-. Kiss him, not just on the lips but also his cheeks, his forehead, his fingers (some are too dirty for their fingers to be kissed)
-. Offer to serve him with a smile and take care of him ( if you spoil am too much na you sabi(
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Just because you love your spouse doesn’t mean the marriage will be fun. You may love a person and really hate being married to the person.
ReplyDeleteLove is different from marriage.
Marriage needs you to be deliberate with efforts that will need to evolve as you both grow.
You may love a person but if the person is not fun to be with, eventually marriage will suffer.
It’s the same with communication and other areas. You have to be deliberate.
Walk together
Work out together
Eat together
Have movie time
Talk more
Play more
Go on dates
Take vacations together
Note: Many of the things stated above don’t cost money.
Thanks π
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DeleteThanks for sharing
DeleteHow foolish these people are, if they see me working they will be calling ID ?who is ID I don't know.
DeleteThey see me singing,they will be calling Divine chicken brain,who is he ?I don't know.
They hear me mention normal people, they will be calling 'Joshua' who is he? I don't know
I know I'm in the midst of wrong people. Their behavior makes me see them as sick minds , knowing many are mad few roaming.
Once I'm indoors, I feel new forgetting craze things I see around everyday. When they think you are living your life for someone. Warning isn't enough
IHN don show.
ReplyDeleteNot me going out to buy cough syrup and I branched at some place only for them to start saying that I look like their former staff. What a wow! So I have got a doppelganger that I wasn't aware of? It was sort of strange but I get them sha.
This cough and catarrh almost made me sick but with everything that I have taken sfsg, it should be gone soon.
It's like I even prefer catarrh to cough sef. The cough thingy has been dealing with me and not allowing for some sound sleep.
Stay healthy!!
Do take care of yourself. Swift recovery.
DeleteTreat malaria
DeleteCough and cattarrh are symptoms of malaria. If you don't treat it, they will not go
This reminds me the kind of drama abi show that goes on around here. They have group of doppelganger that represent them . you begin to wonder why the look alike when there is no 'blood link.'
DeletePele Milkshakes, and a belated happy birthday to you π. Wishing God's blessings all the way ππ»
DeleteTake care of yourself
DeleteQuick recovery
Good afternoon lovelies π
ReplyDeleteHeat!
Heat!!
Heat!!!
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Deleteπ₯°π₯°π₯°hey mama π
DeleteLmao π€£ππ€£ππ€£ my mother inlaw don vex ! Na to off skin remain oh ππ
DeleteThe heat is too much πππππ
DeleteGood day house..I did business with a friend since last week before the business we discussed how to share the profits..now the money have arrived my friend have been avoiding me since then..I am looking for a way to go about it to collect my own share of the money without fighting..
ReplyDeleteThis is why I don't like oral agreements some people are dubious and greedy.
DeleteThere's no limit to some people greed..better go collect your money, agreement na agreement abeg
DeleteWishing you success
DeleteThe best gift anyone can gift you rn is "Hand fan" π
ReplyDeleteHeat wan kee everybody π
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Hey hommie how are you doing? I hope you're doing okay and have a good day.
DeleteCheers.
πππ I need that hand fan, the heat is to much.
DeleteYeah right ππ
Delete@Fidel praying for a successful burial outing for your Mom..Sending you loads of strength at this time π€π€π€♥️ may your Mom soul RIP
@Shyla hope you're holding wella? Be strengthened π€π€♥️π€
Got one from the orange bank last week. I've been singing their praises since then. It's something really big right now. Small but mighty hand fan.
DeleteNo b lie o ππ
DeleteI need to get that rechargeable fan, the heat is just too much.
DeleteThe heat no get joy at all.
DeleteGood afternoon beautiful queens ππ πππ
DeleteHey Jeweluchi Choco, I'm doing great. It's good to have you back
Some people will just sit down and be complaining about the present situation of things , instead of looking for a way to make things better for themselves and family.
ReplyDeleteThere's this man living opposite my house, he's a bricklayer and for sometime now, he doesn't have work to do, he'll always sit with people outside to complain, but this man owns a bike, a nice bike for that matter, even I as a lady if I see someone borrow me bike ,I will run it quick to make money, women are driving bikes and keke now sef to make ends meet, and a man is there looking at a good way of making money for his family, even if it's just within this our street runs, from market at the junction back home, he'll make something instead of sitting down and complaining day and night, the wife is always going out to hustle but Mr man will sit at home, he'll wake up in the morning to wash that bike ,take his children to school,come back and start looking for who to gossip with, the wife is always looking tired because the stress is on her, I do really pity her. Even graduates are doing okada these days. May God help us all
Welcome to Nigeria where everyone knows the solution to other people's problem apart from their own. Apart from selling okrika, which other business are you running or you're just wasting data on SDK when you can use that data in your phone to also make money.
DeleteImagine! He can even register on Uber/Bolt package delivery
Deleteπ€£π€£π€£π€£ anon 14:55
DeleteAnon , atleast I have a source of income no matter how little and will gladly welcome any tips on how I can make money online.
DeleteAnd I won't mind if you can help me get another source of income. Thank you I'm advance
Wat a mature response@Game Mistress
DeleteGame mistress
DeleteBeautifully mature response from you
Thumbs up
Good afternoon house
ReplyDeleteHolla Babe π₯°
DeleteGood afternoon SDKville Fam
ReplyDeleteA rechargeable fan will be a thoughtful gift this season.π€£π
That last meme is so true. Chose your partner rightly.
ReplyDeleteThe meme carry weight ππ
DeleteHolla Sweetie π♥️
Good afternoon Stella and BVs ππ
ReplyDeleteAbuja heat is terrible...and we never even enter d period fully
In the spirit of Valentine's day, abeg someone should tell me a nice place to take my boo out but I'm on a tight budget. I never planned it before now. I just want to take him out. He's always been the one doing the bills.
ReplyDeleteGoogle fine restaurants in your area and go .. enjoy π₯³
DeleteYou did not tell us your location, how do we help you now?
DeleteLocation, please?
DeleteI taught. Y sons early never to raise their hands on any female, have you ever seen your father do it?
ReplyDelete1 of my daughters now took advantage of this and be insulting the elder ones.Ive been warning her for so long ut she won't hear.Thw day I changed it for her she will never forget in her life. Bcos she is on the big side she thinks she can bully them, to the extent 1 of my boy whhould be crying.
The Last time she did it, I told them to come and fight her,she thought I was joking, they beat her ehn,she began to beg that she won't be rude to anybody again, my husband just they laugh us
Parenting no be child's play
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DeleteJojo hmmmmmm
DeleteThe most complex B
You’ve just taught your sons that they can beat a woman because she runs her mouth. Congrats.
DeleteInstead of you to punish her for misbehaving, you gathered your sons to beat their own flesh and blood. Parents do everything to separate siblings when they fight but mother of the year unleashed her boys on her daughter with her husband laughing in the corner.
Toxic parenting is normalizing nonsense
DeleteThat sign out meme is π― correct. May God order our steps against wrong patterns. Amen.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon all.
Stella, your jara on the advise for women up there is funny... Nice one, poster.
ReplyDeleteGreetings Sis ♥️♥️ how's your day going?
DeletePeople that wear necklace,even in this friggin heat na wah ohπ«€π«€ it can never be me..I don't even wear necklace on a good day, talk less of nowππ
Any idea of fun things to do and places to visit on the mainland for Valentine's day?
ReplyDeleteI want to take my boo out but on a budget. He deserves the experience. We've both never celebrated Valentine's day. I know if he were boxed up he'd spend silly on me. Let me use the little I have to make it memorable for us. π
Mail Stella
DeleteGood afternoon Bvs
ReplyDeleteThe heat is too muchπ₯Ί
I just recovered from a sore throat that affected my voice. This morning, I was singing love songs so loudly that my husband asked what happened. Told him I was happy to finally be able to sing well after almost one week. He should sha get my Val gift ready for tomorrow. I no wan hear story.
ReplyDeleteWho has seen 'Cake?' Liked it at the beginning but quickly got tired towards the middle. Anyone who obsesses like the main character in the movie is not a husband material, abeg.
God has beauty for the ashes. He has joy for the mourning. He said He will pay you back double for the wrongs. While you’re waiting, stay in faith. That’s when it’s easy to get discouraged, “Why is this happening? When is it going to turn around? This is not fair.” Pass the test. Keep doing the right thing. Keep going to work with a good attitude. Keep praising when you could be complaining. Keep speaking victory in the face of defeat. God is still on the throne. He has you in the palm of His hand.
ReplyDeleteJoel Osteen
Amen ππΎ
DeleteAmen. Thank you.
DeleteThe sun did not come to play.
ReplyDeleteHolla darling π₯°
Delete@Sun πππ pls and pls sto patronizing me ! I saw your post late yesterday..you and your elemental friend @Heat are worst comboπ‘π‘ you better change your ways and be cool like your most breezy friend @Harmattan
Good afternoon SDK and BVs. Sunny Tuesday
ReplyDeleteStella , wetin be this π€£π€£π€£. "Kings" will not like your input in that advice above.
ReplyDeleteMehn! I know people can be annoying but then when you tell people to go to hell, remember to tell them to close the door. Because what's this heat nah??? I could feel sweats trickling down my body while I was having my bath this morning. Like!!! π€·♀️π
God abegπππ
Let me rephrase someone favorite line for my sign out. π€£π€£π€£
Y'all catch your breeze π. Ire ooo
Good afternoon
ReplyDeleteLay it all at the master's feet
This advice is for woman that have boyfriend,wat of us thats beed relatonship
ReplyDeleteYes! Choose your spouse rightly
ReplyDeleteSign out meme π―
So true @sign out meme.
ReplyDeleteGOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY.
ReplyDeleteThis heat is too much. Pls harmattan show your self.
Afternoon to everyone
ReplyDeleteTrust you are good
The weather is something ooo
Nagorom how far? π
DeleteGood afternoon
ReplyDeleteSo this woman in our area sold aso ebi for us for her son's wedding (bought Ankara 7k). The wedding is last Saturday of this month. This past weekend, I started hearing that she said pastor said the wedding should not hold.
Which wedding? After I have bought the cloth? Impossible, the wedding must hold!
π€£π€£π€£ the wedding must hold o. Same thing happened to me some yrs back. This woman sold asoebi to us, very expensive and the Ankara na rubber rubber o. On the eve of the wedding we heard that the wedding had been cancelled. Groom pregnanted another lady and the lady came to the pastor. Na so wedding no hold again o after I've prepared how to eat party rice.
Deleteπ€£π€£π€£π€£,they must go on with the wedding π or they refund π€ π
DeleteSee update π€£π€£. This reminds me of a lady that sold 60k aso ebi lied she wants to do wedding and used the money to japa
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteA study found the average man spends as much as 7 hours a year in the bathroom, for peace and quiet.
ReplyDeleteMe: Dear men, where else do you find peace and quiet apart from sidechick's arms, toilet, beer parlour?
They also find peace and quiet in the arms of their fellow men
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Please recommend a very good valentine gift for men.
ReplyDeleteMy budget is wankay.
Nice perfume,Wrist watch,Boxers and Singlet etc.
DeleteWhen you have marked someone as an your enemy or hater, know this that the person may not have good intentions for you, and bringing them close may leave you in pain.
ReplyDeleteStop enabling those hate comments. Like one mentioned here that many hate unprovoked or out of jealous.
Do like I do, guard my space and trash toxic.
Good evening everyone.
ReplyDeleteBefore I started learning tailoring, I did not believe that some girls actually walk around without wearing panties under their dresses and trousers.
ReplyDeleteIn my place of apprenticeship, we see different bare bumbum and puna almost every day when customers come to test their dresses. There is an enclosemt for testing but they would prefer to stay where other girls are and show us their nakedness.
@Fresh Petals so many ladies no dey wear pant na. Like my former babe; she said it makes them feel free.
DeleteThey don't wear panties?
DeleteAll the vagina discharge will be staining their clothes directly? Yuck!
Anon 11:45
DeletePls speak for yourself. Not every ladies have that dirty vigina discharge dropping from their private.
NK, that is my business line
ReplyDeleteIbadan heat be making 2 me sweay
ReplyDeleteme away u
Pls mind how you buy on credit now o
Someone mentioned 'fish brain' aka chicken brain. Can you imagine I will come online,read and drop a comment. Strangers I don't know how they will pick it up and start claiming is refering to me or them.
ReplyDeleteNo matter how many times you try to explain they keep saying, " I don't understand", not like I know them or talk to them.
Next is to start laying false accusations on you base on the comments you drop here that has nothing to do with you or them.
Mental illness is real.
Even you Anon, you don't sound okay. You always drop this comment here all the time, always lamenting about people telling you that you are referring to them whenever you drop a comment here or a comment is referring to you, how did they know you outside the blog since you are anonymous here?
DeleteYou must be that bv that dropped one incoherent novel-like chronicle that year, yapping total rubbish about people talking about you.
You need mental evaluation.
Go see a psychiatrist and get treated.
The heat is killing π o Lawd π
ReplyDeleteCouldn't sleep well last nyt . Now I'm having this one sided head ache π
don't even know again
Good afternoon blog famZ π
Pele
DeleteWell, we have no option than to adapt with this heat. Soon, u go waka..
ReplyDeleteThat sign out meme is so true I swear.
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteWhich of you BVs in the class went and renewed the subscription for this heat? Now, look at it! Everybody is feeling it.
ReplyDeleteAbeg una good afternoon o jare. The heat no be here again o! They promised us global warming. Now we are seeing global frying. Hmmmm! At least thank God I've finished borning all the kids allocated to me to born. Na my balls I just dey pity.
Stella, good afternoon ma ππ
ReplyDeleteSidharth and Roshni still has a very long way to go. Very very long way before they'd die in an accident. Alot of drama will unfold.
As for Jalal, he despises Maham anga, he doesn't want to see her but Jodha will convince him to see her. Jalal is the only one that knows Ruquaya inside out that's why he's not happy with her, he knows what she can do. She's very wicked and I see her as a witchππ€£π€£π€£, her drama sef never start. She wicked Wella.
Maham will die and Jodha will lose her twins through poison by zeenat who is Jalal's cousin's wife. But Zeenat and her husband will be killed.
THING IS; I DON TIRE FOR SIDDART AND ROSHNI FAKE ACTING;THE WAY SHE CRIES WITH THAT HER POMO MOUTH IS REALLY ANNOYING:
DeleteJALA DRAMA IS SWEET OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO SHERIFF HUDDEIN? HES TRYING TO KILL JALAL; HIM AND HIS PAPA WEY DEY WORK FOR MOSQUE
Hello beautiful people of God. Welcome IHN.
ReplyDeleteAbout the rain here in my area in PH, I'm so happy happy abeg. ..
ReplyDeleteThe heat is something else OMG
The sign out meme so true π
Are you going out on Valentine's day with your partner and don't know where to keep your kids?
ReplyDeleteBring your kids to me. Babysitting is my side hustle…
1hr is 10k,
5 hrs is 50k
Stella and bvs, na me first start this business ooo
Lol, see better business. Make I follow you open osogbo branch naπ I no kuku get val
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DeleteStella enjoy your zee one oπ€£ we no mind.
ReplyDeleteNice one on ihn today
Na me, myself and I tomorrow thank God it ash Wednesday self
ReplyDeleteThe heat here in Nasarawa is damn crazy.
ReplyDeleteIt's a day to Valentine.
ReplyDeleteThe streets are dry , unlike previous Valentine Eve where girls were shopping, making their hair, fixing eyelashes and nails, etc.
Let me be preparing for the Lenten fast that starts tomorrow jare.
The wrong partner..that quote hit me. So so true
ReplyDeleteI don't know lingua franca is hard for some to understand.
ReplyDeleteConfused humans around me that tag me in the group I'm not aware of will see me and be acting like we know each other.
I have used the simplest English to explain to them, this is me. I don't know this person,I don't talk to this person,I don't have any business with this person.
No matter how many times or how you try to explain. They are still coming close, mentioning my name in what doesn't concern me and what I'm not aware of ,next is to blame me for their own stupidity when in my mind I'm thinking something else.
Common sense is not common.