Hmmmmmm.....
PASTORS ADVICE
Guys i like this man and i want to date him but my pastor called out of the blues to say i shouldn't.
I get everything i want from this guy no s#x yet im kind of attached, when i say everything i mean things money can't buy and money too plus e fine die. He went over and beyond for my birthday.
I'm grateful for him and i don't quite understand this my pastor.though i know he may have seen something.
My people talk to me my mind just spoil, abeg no abuse me person wey get una no suppose loss. Una know say matters of dey heart sabi dey mumu person sometimes.
How did your pastor know about him?Oh, you are one of those who tells Pastor everything? let me tell you, your pastor is jealous because you are eating alone and has decided to spoil it for you, he didnt see anything abeg!
All those people that end up with abusive spouses or end up getting killed, their Pastors no dey see that one to warn them off?
You told your Pastor too much and my advice is that you should code the relationship and remove it from where the pastor will see or know and tell him that you have ended it...if he disturbs you further please, change your chruch!!!
To be forewarned is to be forearmed.. my sis you better advice yourself now and stop following everything your pastor told you..
ReplyDeleteIf you didn't tell your Pastor about the guy and he reached out on his own, also, if you have known his prophecies to come true, you had better forget the young man. Yes, God can use a true Pastor to warn you.
DeletePoster 7 days fast
DeleteMidnight prayer
You and your Creator
When some things are too good to be true hmmmmm try give it time!
DeleteTime reveals everything
Maybe your guy is gay and your pastor is your guy’s boyfriend. Remember, you guys haven’t had sex before. A lot is happening these days
DeleteThat's how pastor told one of my friends to marry one guy that is it God's will, marriage scatter after 6 months. No be you told pastor about your relationship?
ReplyDeleteA friend sister was convinced to marry one guy, she is six feet now because of him, and he is dragging her properties up and down. So continue
Why did your pastor tell you not to marry the man? Did he give you any reasons? If he did not give you any explanation that is in accordance with the Bible and convincing to you, then you should Not listen to Him. Pray about this on your own, go ahead and do what gives you peace. No pastor should tell you who to marry or not marry. They can only pray with you, and allow the Holy Spirit to guide you.
ReplyDeleteCommon sense needs to be listed as a rare gift. That's how some of you follow pastors till menopause catches up. 🙄 you no get sense? Can't you sift chaff from seeds by yourself without help? Gtfo!
ReplyDeleteIs he a married man?
ReplyDeletePastor Yul lol
ReplyDeleteThe most complex B
That is why it is good to have a personal relationship with God,yet again God has given us pastors, ministers to guide us,so it is not out of place for your pastor to counsel you,but everything should be left in the will of God.
ReplyDeleteAs for me,any man I will date or dating will meet my Pastor and we will both access the man together with the leading of the Holy spirit.
You see better thing and your pastor is the god you have to tell, sit down there
ReplyDeleteDo you believe in God or your pastor?
ReplyDeleteDear poster, i don't get it, is it that you can't honestly pray for yourself and ask God to show you?
ReplyDeleteThe guy is good as much as you can see, is it the Pastor that is in the relationship with the guy???
Shebi it was on this page i read where a pastor discouraged someone from marrying a guy and later his sister or daughter married the guy. Pls go and pray for yourself sincerely and God will answer you. Only God knows the future. Even the pastor doesn't know everything. Sometimes, yes God can show them things for those who are genuine. Pls if you want to marry pls hear God for yourself. You are the one entering it. I'm not saying don't listen to counsel. There is a place for counsel and a place for you to pray and hear for yourself.
Pls pray and ask God to show you. What are you even praying for?? That's what you should have done from the get go so you know what you are going into. But still pray and commit everything to God, tell him His will not yours. And be honest God knows already that you love the guy.
He is not an author of confusion.
Remember no one is perfect, not even you. All the best.
Proverbs 3:5-6.
Poster pray by yourself, ask God to reveal yo you what you need to know. You need to regain your peace after this pastor said this thing, that is why you need to pray about your man by yourself.
ReplyDeleteNo let anybody pour Sand for ur garri o..
Before taking the advice that says you should discredit your pastor's warning. I do like to ask you some questions.
ReplyDeleteHow credible is your pastor?
Is the man involved your church members too?
Do you have a reference of him saying something and it coming to pass or failing?
I do advise you ask others that have been counselled on marriage by him, why because by doing that you can be able to attest to his credibilities on the same issue you are having now.
What happened to your spiritual life as an individual? As a bonafide born again Christian (except you are not born again) God's mouth supposed to be at your ears anytime you pray.
Turn to God on your knees and He will either confirm or counter what your pastor said.
Shalom.
He said you shouldn't because?,all these personal Churches sef ,have you prayed on your own concerning your life and your partner, nobody should dictate who you should be with or not.
ReplyDeleteTell me the reason why somebody will advice you to leave who you love and give you Peace, don't throw away diamond and later pick nonsense
Many times, social media is not the place to know whether your pastor is right or wrong. Go on a retreat, take two days to inquire of the Lord and do his bidding. Anybody talking down your pastor to sound woke is just foolish . There are still men of God who are accurate with God. Go on a retreat
ReplyDeleteYou can help us go on a retreat for Nigeria to get constant Power supply.mugu
DeleteSomeone that has all the qualities money can't buy must be of a good character. Your pastor told you not to marry him and didn't give you reasons. Have you tried to talk to him or give him chance to know him more???
ReplyDeleteYour pastor hope he is a genuine man of God.?? I know why I'm asking.
Maybe you should pray yourself too, ask God to show you personally, if you pray fervently, you will surely get your answers, Meanwhile, do not chase the guy away, since there's no sex, keep it as it is, until you decide for your self.
ReplyDeleteI don't think any pastor will say this without telling your the reason for it except if he is interested in you or have somebody for you which in both cases is wrong;and why didn't you discussed with the guy also ,you may just be chasing shadow as he may not even interest in you but just a beautiful soul with helping heart
ReplyDeleteYour story is not detailed. No reasons was given for your pastor's verdict.
ReplyDeleteMy pastor say, my pastor say everytime.
ReplyDeleteSé you no get access to God by yourself, did your pastor give you any tangible reason not to marry this guy.
My friend seek God's face by yourself, go to Him in prayer.
Take it to God in prayers.Also spend time fasting and yield yourself to the holy spirit.he will reveal to you if that's the right spouse for you.
ReplyDeletePls pray dear, pray.
Draw your ears my sister, this happened to me after I had a child for him and for 10 years my enemy struggled but we are now back together and about to get married and have more kids
ReplyDeleteDon’t let your story be like mine exactly what I was told o marry that man asap but do 3,7,21 pick one of them number of days to fast and pray to hear from God by yourself before the marriage m
Shalom
These so called pastors have ruined many lives, and recked countless potential marriages. Why would you need a another human being to dictate to you, when you can relate with God directly? I strongly agree with madam Stella's advice on this very issue. She has said it all!
ReplyDeleteThese so called pastors have ruined many lives, and recked countless potential marriages. Why would you need a another human being to dictate to you, when you can relate with God directly? I strongly agree with madam Stella's advice on this very issue. She has said it all!
ReplyDeleteMy sister, pray to God yourself and ask him to reveal to you of he will make a good husband or not.
ReplyDeleteSimple
DeletePoster you need to also apply wisdom, is possible your pastor saw something or is possible he didn't see anything. If you have another pastor is tome yo double check with two more pastors to be sure you are making the right decision.
ReplyDeleteWhat have you been feeding your pastor with about this guy? You might have said so much to your pastor for him to be give you such advice. Pray very well and seek thr face of God on thr reason why your pastor said those words to you.
You better marry your man and forget all this pastor's talk. Remember that no marriage is full of bed and roses. Just take your time to pray to God to change any prospective abnormalities in the marriage to good.
ReplyDeleteSince both of you have not had sex, I believe if you pray to GOD concerning this, he would show you .you don't need your pastor. Next thing, your pastor would carry his own candidate and give the man.. follow your heart
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeleteI will suggest that you do not just wave off your pastors advice because we all believe that many pastors are evil, neither should you imbibe it because it appears fascinating. You should wisely ponder on the advice, find out his reasons for condescending the relationship and on your own, try and study the guy without involving your pastor . Remember, all that glitters is not gold. Many do those good things you described up there but still turned out to be a devil after some time. Sometimes they go any length of to please you just to achieve their aim. Don't be ignorant just because a person showers you with those things you described up there. I am not saying that he is a bad guy,all I am saying is; don fall for those things for now until you get full clarity of who he truly is. Learn from other people's mistakes, don't wait for it to happen to you before you can learn.
You know the popular Igbo saying "ebidosie ona ato"
Don't be quick to throw away advices because you believe that no good thing can ever come from the person, unless things that are so clearly false. You should not also quickly swallow every advice that comes from the people you respect unless things that are clearly true. Let's tread softly on both sides.
The mere fact that those things you described up there as love language worked for other people does not mean that such ended well with every other person.
Condemning not condescending please
DeleteAnd poster, I wanted to ask that you pray to receive personal revelation from God concerning the relationship but on a second thought, you may be among those who don't know how to pray.
DeletePastors are right sometimes is all I can say
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry cause the message is a tough one
Y'all are dwelling on what OP said.
ReplyDeleteThat you guys couldn't see her infantile reasoning for thinking the guy is the right one for her is funny to me. I'll cut her some slack though. She wants us to go easy on her.
OP, the guy is fine right? He went out of his way for you birthday right? He has money too. Plus you get everything you WANT and still no sex? Hmmm,, that's cool but there's a fool in the picture and I think I know who it is.
You need to define what you NEED OP. You are getting what YOU want. What are you giving in return? Certainly nothing of value to the man you are involved with right now. I've seen too much to believe otherwise.
You sure are blinded by the ephemeral. It doesn't matter how good intentioned the guy is to you at the moment. That's not what you need right now. And if you can't objectively see things yourself and make decisions based on that, I don't think you really well be an asset to the young man. And then he will change. And you will post another chronicle. And you will expect Stella to do magic and waybill common sense to you. Una dey stress that woman.
You are not ready yet. You don't need any pastor to tell you nothing. If you can't see what's right in front of you and make a decision yourself, I'll say that' young
You are here asking total strangers you never ready continue
ReplyDeletePastor daughter
ReplyDeleteAbi daughter pastor
A priest asked me to marry my ex I wish I didn't listened 🥹
ReplyDeleteLol!! I married the man my mummy’s pastor asked me not to marry. Today I have peace, living in the US and enjoying life to the fullest. On the other side, the one the pastor asked me to marry is begging for urgent 2k, unemployed, and no hope of where the next meal will come from. Yes, I know because he keep sending messages. Poster run as much as you can from all these good for nothing pastors.
ReplyDelete