She said
“I am open to remarry. But I don’t want kids. I’m going to be 42 in November. I’ve never had the incline to have a child. I will be honest.
“I love children. Children love me. Children are actually attracted to me. I will go to a children party and they will start to sit around me. Children love me but I don’t have any feeling to have a child of my own. I can adopt. Maybe, adopt a whole orphanage and give them my last name. But I don’t want to.
My decision not to have kids wasn’t an issue with my ex-husband. He was indifferent. He will have kids. But with me, it wasn’t an issue.”
-Shade Ladipo in a recent interview with Daddy Freeze.
My decision not to have kids wasn’t an issue with my ex-husband. He was indifferent. He will have kids. But with me, it wasn’t an issue.”
-Shade Ladipo in a recent interview with Daddy Freeze.
Hmmmm everyone with what they desire
ReplyDeleteex husband ke?
ReplyDeletewas she married?shuo?
Thanks for being honest. Not all women wants children because not all women have maternal instincts.
ReplyDeleteAnd for the wellbeing of the children , and our society as a whole, we should not force women who don’t want children into having kids. Same with shaming women into marriage
DeleteEverything shocks Stella
ReplyDeleteWell i am not shocked
Gifty
Her choice
ReplyDeleteEverybody with their choice. I know a lady that doesn't want to get marry at all.
ReplyDeleteHer life her decisions
ReplyDeleteYes I felt that way until I had my child and now I cannot sleep without seeing her face, I am 40 and want 2 more kids. Everyone is truly different indeed.
ReplyDeleteIt’s very possible. I was scared of how difficult they say raising children is. But I think I still want a legacy , a child with my blood flowing through their veins that can pass on my bloodline.
DeleteDidn't know her marriage ended o. I love me some Sade Ladipo🥰. It's only in Africa that people have a big problem with someone (male or female) saying they don't want children. One male Nigerian artiste said it years back too and people started insinuating a lot. I prefer those who truly understand that parenthood is a full-time vocation and calling. It's not for everybody.
ReplyDeleteShe said the same thing a few years back and Nigerian women came for her but I like that she is standing her ground on the matter. The only thing wey dey pain me for this life be say sometimes, people like Sade wey no dey interested so, once man hug am kpeken, she go carry belle; if man wear raincoat, e go tear during the do and belle go enter; if she use contraceptive, e go fail her and she go carry belle.
Then you go see woman wey ready to born 20 children and the money to care for them go dey but mba, she no go even miss her period one day. She go still carry money do IVF, e go fail join; she go try surrogate las las, that one go still miscarry! Choi! This life no get scale abeg. How e wan take balance? How beautiful it would be for only those who are 100% interested and prepared to have children. God abeg reason your daughters who are waiting in line for their own babies abeg na🙏.
Life no balance true true.
DeleteYou're right about your second and last paragraph. God's ways are truly mysterious. May God grant everyone their heart desires.
DeleteShade, Do you. The world will adjust.
Amen
DeleteNo lies here sis, like it baffles me whenever i think of it.
DeleteThis life sha
Gifty
This life!
DeleteHmmm.. God's ways aren't our ways.
DeleteSade do you,it's your choice.
I am going to be 48 this year and I decided same! After I saw what my evil half siblings did to my mom because of her wealth. I have decided to not even marry! Except I find a good man l; with a good heart like my Dad! The way I screen men ehn; even Men should screen women as well.
DeleteWith the rubbish, all over the Internet after the divorce of the Alakijas'. Now I know, most Nigeria women have mental issues!!! We were not in that marriage; we don't even know, what went on inside the marriage; because she is a billionaire; you all assumed that she is ths good one. I don't take sides with anyone in marriage matter; because I was not there.
Her choice.😎
ReplyDeleteYour choice is valid
ReplyDeleteHer Choice and shld be respected.
ReplyDelete8 billion ppl on the planet we can’t all be the same.
ReplyDeleteI know some women are scared to have kids , because they don't want to die at birth or while pregnant. Women go through alot. I think society and men should respect women decisions, body pregnancy and so on . God bless all women!!
ReplyDeleteNot all women wants kids...
ReplyDeleteHer choice.
I'm not shocked at all. Good for her.
ReplyDeleteStella and Buhari must share the same electrician.... Any small thing, "I am shocked 😧😳".
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteI'm happy that people are opening up. Not everyone wants to be a mum it's better than brining a child into this world and punishing them
ReplyDeleteI'm glad more women are being vocal and standing their ground. Men are never judged for this mindset. It's women whose entire life is impacted that are under so much unfair pressure. I will never jeopardise my health or well-being for a child.
ReplyDeleteVery selfish thoughts, if someone doesn't do the same for you will you be here? Jumping on an Interview of an unstable person to think and make irrational assumptions.
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DeleteIt is her body, her right, her choice not to have children and prevent having children