Have you ever dated an Obsessive lover?someone who loved you more than they loved themself in a toxic and scary way? It was so bad that you broke up with this person because the love was too much to handle...or did you marry this person and currently in hot soup because of the choking love?
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It was a very terrible experience getting out of that relationship wasn't so easy because he kept stalking me .
ReplyDeleteI'm talking international stalking not an experience I'd love to recount.
It's definitely worse when they have the means and resources/network to track you, I can only imagine what it was like for you.
DeleteWow
DeleteThis is scary😱
That's scary.
DeleteI've never been in 1, thank God.
ReplyDeleteSame here
DeleteThank God
Intense love yeah but not sure it was obsessive. As intense as the love na so the break up intense too. The silence was loud until we both moved on. And then I started questioning if it was truly love. Too much of everything no good. Love moderately. Love with sense.
ReplyDeleteNever go back to an ex.
Yess oo. Dated one in the past. When I broke up with him, he called me more than 100 times in one night with different numbers cos I was blocking them. Mehn,I was scared he would kill me .
ReplyDeleteUni days, I dated someone that was obsessed with me. He called me his drug. 😒. Like during lectures, he'd call,I I'd say I'm in class and then he says he wants to hear the lecturer's voice. He called me like 4am in the morning, was ranting that I went clubbing and all. Me that was sleeping. I told him I was in bed, but then again, even if I went clubbing nko, it's none of his business. Omo, I couldn't cope abeg.
ReplyDeleteMehn!!! What an experience! 😰
DeleteIs me you❓
DeleteI dated one like that too that calls at intervals..once it's 8pm he won't call my mobile any more,he will be calling the land phone! We used to have Starcoms land phone then,he will call around 2am ! Very possessive guy❗ initially I was enjoying it when we started,but as time goes on became tired to the excessive calls..I remember when he traveled abroad,I was relieved but soon he was sending me pics of my movements through emails 😳😳 I didn't knew he was paying someone to monitor me..I had to tell my elder bros who arranged boys to threaten the guy that was snapping me upandan to stop if not, police will arrest him...i just ghosted the guy, deleted and block his number and emails.. later after calling me different numbers without me responding,he bounced..i thank God it wasn't the era of SM,it would have been worse
Omo B, hmmm, nasty stuff, I wouldn't even wanna say sef. Thank God I walked away.
DeleteParis if it was SM era,it would be sooo bad.
Scary experience
DeleteIt was when I was quite naive young girl that I experienced such. I wasn't thinking about boyfriend at that age. This guy was so obsessed that I thought he was mad then , till I got the knowledge of what being obsessed means.
ReplyDeleteHe was all the corner following me around. I was always afraid because I must pass his house to a place I went to****"" everyday.
The day I nearly cried was the day he suddenly came to that place and told me that he wasn't sleeping anymore that I was tormenting him, how.? That he won't let me go until I gave him attention as I always snubbed him.
That was the day I found another route . No GSM or mobile phone then.
Do you know what??? He found his way to that route.......to be continued.
Yes I have dated one guy like that, he was suspecting me all the time he always want us to be together all the time, Any time he calls my phone and it shows him busy na wahala be that , the one that scatter the whole thing was he suspecting me and my 80 something years old landlord because he called and I told him I was with my landlord discussing about my light that they disconnected..Omo I have to surrender and let him go abeg before I will die before my time
ReplyDeleteOne fulani lady "a princess"..... she was introduced to dr*gs while in school they tried to rehab her,
ReplyDeleteShe go stay for centre of main road dey call my name, saying she go kill herself if I dnt come outside from where I dey
hiding..
People advised I change location, I did....menhh I no fit forget all these
story long
Hahahaha 🤣🤣 sorry am laffing king Jerry. In the middle of the road...haa! That one don mental go o
DeleteI guess every girl has gone through this. Mine was a nightmare. At first it was fun but then i wanted out because i met someone richer and mature. This dude still insisted on staying at bf number 2. Big mistake because he blackmailed me if I didn’t pick up or saw him. That relationship scared me for life.
ReplyDeleteMe self, as I gentle reach, na so so toxic women I dey meet. I never know how I want take marry like this. Craze women na dem dey come my way.
ReplyDeleteOne gbensh finish sef begin fight me say I finish work wey I for do for one week in one day. She enter my kitchen, carry knife. I begin beg.
One tell me say the day she go see woman near me, she no go ask questions. She go buy acid take baff two of us.
Me sef don tire for women, but na konji naim senior me so I dey always like to respect and obey am.
Lol @ senior Konji 😂
DeleteChoi! My dear you are not alone.
DeleteMine wasn't just obsessed but Petty. While in school, he knows when i go to school and when lectures are over for the day, how? of course i always informed him for Peace sake. Failure to do so, hell will break loose😃 I actually didn't have a pee with it, but he made it his right and wasn't satisfied with what i tell him.Omoh it wasnt a funny experience then, I had to advice myself to stop giving out every details of my activities to him, he accused me of seeing another, well I got used to such accusations. It was like i was living my life for him that period😥
ReplyDeleteWhen i summoned the courage to walk away finally, oga asked me to return everything he bought for me🤣He even found a way and took my phone. I got a smaller one yet he kept calling and sending threat messages... My brother had to tell him he'd call the police if he kept sending those messages to me. Then he stopped
That period was traumatic for me. I don't wish an enemy to be with such a person.... Crying then was a part of me😃
My mum was like God delivered you from this guy, because if we had ended up together....hmmmmm
Of a truth these people ain't bad, but they allow their weakness outshine the good in them
They have mental issues
DeleteI had a similar experience, I literally had to run away from my house to get away from him, thank God I had a relative in the same town back then, he called all my family and friends and told them negative stuff about me, then kept threatening me till I returned all the money he spent on me. Once I sense any atom of over possessiveness in a man, I run with my heels touching the back of my head. NEVER AGAIN!!!
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ReplyDeleteMine was my current husband, he was so into me such that he feels jealous when I talk to my male relatives.
ReplyDeleteWhenever he calls and discovered that my line was busy, I go explain tired. He monitors my movement always with calls. The relationship was toxic sha for good 10yrs before we finally got married in 2017. But all that is gone now that we are married.
He said he is at peace now that we are married, bcx then I can easily dump for another man that was why he was always choking me to prevent any other man from coming to me.
Hmm
DeleteThank God it ended in praise abi how dey take talk am
Our neighbour while growing up. He had some mental illness that was seasonal. He graduated with almost a first class…very intelligent. Once the madness starts he will be shouting out my name…funny enough in his sane moments, we are just friends. We were all young adults. Sadly I heard that I used juju on him. Mschew. We eventually moved houses but the relationship between our parents, and we the children of both families , is still sour till date.
ReplyDeleteI have. It was terrible. He never laid a hand on me but once he sees any guy with me, he jumps out from God knows where and insert himself between us, then challenge the guy and ask him who he is. I told him time and time again that I was not interested.
ReplyDeleteI got my freedom when he relocated out of Nigeria. Phew
I dated one, we were together for 2 years. I had to break things off last year. He calls every hour or twice in 1 hour, doubts me whenever I tell him where I am, shows up unannounced even tho he is working in a different state, even had one of his friends track me to where I told him I was to confirm if I was really there, calls my colleague to confirm if I am at work after telling him I just got to work, calls my coach too to confirm, cut me off from my friends(some)e.t.c
ReplyDeleteThe effect all these had on me was I started lying to avoid suspicions, I lied just so he'll hear what he wanted to hear and leave me alone and I started having palpitations whenever I miss his call because I go explain tire.
It was tiring and frustrating, I had to end things last year. He cried and begged and pleaded but my mind was already made up.
We still talk, he still sends me money once in a while and he still gets me stuff when he is coming to my base.
I've told him there is no hope of reconciliation between us, if he is doing all he is doing for us to get back together, it won't work. He is saying he is sure I'll change my mind soon.
I am never going back.
Hmmm. dare not get wet if he touched me, he'll say I've satisfied myself outside, so what I normally do is to secretly hide lump of vaseline behind the bed with I'll secretly use as lubricant, and I must cum so I fake that too
DeleteYou better stop collecting things or money from him if you're re not interested to avoid more stories
DeleteStop him from coming to your house by moving
DeleteHe is a security risk as an unstable person
Start dating someone else and move from that house. Also stop collecting stuff from him, block his lines and stop talking to him
DeleteDon't want to talk about mine, he's late now.
ReplyDeleteThat guy showed me 🌶️, I must not have a eye contact with another guy talkless of greetings, I can't step out of my hostel without him , I can't fetch water when guys are at the well side, I can't talk to a male classmate, he wasn't a student in our school but he's always with me, lied he's done with school I couldn't doubt him because I believe he's from a family where education is cherished. Guy naked me outside one day because I was wearing one nice clothes unknown to me that he's coming back to town that day, I suffer ehn found out he passed recently. Because of him, once I smell possessiveness from a guy like this,I don tear race, me that didn't know the colour used in painting my department until we separated because I'm not allowed to look up so I won't mistakenly look at another guy. Omo I suffered in his hands, beating nko? He even barbed my hair one time, I was constantly afraid, there was a time he burned all my clothes, hmmmm
And you foolishly allowed a man, a boyfriend do all of that to you? Mtcheeeeew
DeleteBv Game Mistress, I'm just laughing at your comments 😁😃😃😃. I knew you were just catching fun😁.
DeleteLicious babe
@Dainty T you are right . That is what am experiencing right now in my place here in Badagry. The man is well connected , he always stalk me with his boys. I makes sure I protect my son who lives not too far from me. I can't wish what I went through in the hands of this man on my enemies. Have reported him to police but he will bribe them. Can you imagine that even the police dey tell me to marry the man that the man love me too much. Police is not our friend at all, Mr . Are it shall never be well with you.
ReplyDeleteSebi you are married to that your endtime horseband already, why is Mr Are asking you to marry him again?
Delete@Dainty T you are right . That is what am experiencing right now in my place here in Badagry. The man is well connected , he always stalking me with his boys. I makes sure I protect my son who lives not too far from me. I can't wish what I went through in the hands of this man on my enemies. Have reported him to police but he will bribe them. Can you imagine that even the police dey tell me to marry the man that the man love me too much. Police is not our friend at all, Mr . Are it shall never be well with you.
ReplyDeleteI never had that experience, but I have a a friend who had a boyfriend that was so obsessed with her chai that guy na real were😆
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