It is ignorance that makes people say "Love is not enough in marriage...." If you know what LOVE is, then you'd know it is more than enough to sustain ANY marriage. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails...." If this LOVE isn't enough for your marriage, nothing else will suffice. Una Gud Morning.....#ALiSpeaks
The disciples were first called Christians in Antioch.' Acts 11:26 NKJV
Did you know that the word 'disciple' occurs many more times in the New Testament than the word 'Christian'? The word 'Christian' was first introduced to describe who they were, disciples of Jesus Christ!
Philosopher and writer Dallas Willard uses the illustration of the car: 'The disciple of Jesus is not the deluxe or heavy-duty model of the Christian - especially padded, textured, streamlined and empowered for the fast lane on the straight and narrow way. He or she stands on the pages of the New Testament as the first level of basic transportation in the Kingdom of God.' Becoming a Christian is the work of a moment; it happens when you place your trust in Jesus. But becoming a disciple is the work of a lifetime; it calls for denying yourself and saying yes to the will of God every day of your life.
What does it mean to be a disciple of Jesus? Three things: (1) To listen to him and learn. That calls for reading, studying, memorising, verbalising and applying the truths taught in the Scriptures to your life each day. (2) To follow him wherever he leads. This may call for changing your plans, forfeiting some of your relationships and giving him access to things you would like to hold on to. (3) To be devoted to him. One day Jesus said to Peter, 'Do you love me more than the others do' (John 21:15 CEV)? Note the word 'more'. To be a disciple means to love Jesus with everything you have. And it's the most fulfilling and rewarding life you can live! Word For Today
"We possess the freedom to speak boldly in the presence of the Father, angels, and even demons, and express ourselves freely anywhere. This boldness extends beyond uttering mere words; it empowers us to speak things into existence."
"You have access to the spiritual and the material, to the wisdom of Almighty God. You have access to the unending, boundless, fathomless, incalculable and exhaustless riches of Christ."
Prayer!!
Dear Father, I thank you for I have boldness and access with confidence by the faith of Jesus Christ, in whom I’ve obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to His divine will. I live above circumstances, with access to your wisdom and the exhaustless riches of Christ, in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
Patience can help us achieve our goals, maintain a more positive outlook on life, and make us less reactive, which in turn will make us less prone to bad decisions. Stress, regret, and anger don't help anything.
Good morning Stella and blogfam. Hope we had a restful night? I pray we will have the patience to take a minute when we are faced with an uncertain future, a negative event, or something scary. I wish us a lovely day ahead. Stay safe.
Beautiful morning everyone Hope everyone slept well Just to let you know that the cost of dstv has increased, is dollar also affecting dstv prices? The last increment I have not accepted it but they still went ahead to add more price.
Well, I will need to dispose my decoder to avoid waste of money. They keep repeating movies and has nothing interesting to show case but price keep increasing.
Copied this from Facebook, maybe someone can learn one or two lessons because with or without you, life goes on
Yesterday, I checked the BP of a pregnant woman and is 80/44 she has low BP I notified the doctor and she was told to be admitted because we can’t let her go in that state, she refused and said her kids are alone and no one to take care of them
I asked of her husband she said he will be busy, busy doing what ma?
Call him and tell him the recent development because we can’t allow you step out of the hospital like this
She kept saying her kids this and her kids that
She later said she will come back later, I gave her letter of consent incase..
I still called 8:pm she picked when i introduced myself she said she will manage and come later that her husband is yet to be back
What's Lagos state government doing about this menace of agberos harassing people for money everywhere.. It's becoming a pandemic,. They do it like it's begging but it's just plain harassment because they're with weapons and I heard they rob too.. They'll follow and disturb you until you give them something.. That's how they rushed me few days ago, about 10 of the hailing me and hitting people to clear road for me to pass, I no first send them, but they kept following me shouting and hailing,. Asin imagine like 10 agbero following one person like 3 in the front pushing people away to let you pass and then 7 in your back raising their hands up shouting and hailing you, which kind wahala be this one, when no be say you be their chairman or you be sanwo olu, you'll be forced to give them something so they can stop the madness.. and I'm sure why they're using this method for me is cos they can't intimidate me to give them money, for the once they can intimidate they won't use this procedure, they'll just block you and ask you to give them money if not they won't let you pass.. Asin no be say you dey drive o.. I'm talking of them harassing people trekking on the road going to somewhere..
This is scattered everywhere now and I don't know why no one is talking, the ones that blocked me yesterday morning on ogba bridge looks fierce to scare people that don't have mind, one was using his hand to clean my shoes as I was walking, the other ones was following behind hailing that I should show them love, then no dey stop until you give them something, I noticed that they were intimidating some other people passing that those one must give them something unlike me that they were still begging..
The government should better do something before it gets worse.. no be until then begin holding people ransom or kidnap them go come dey talk..
Ladies, before you park out of your husband's house on flimsy excuses or fight your baby daddy, denying him access to his kids and all those other nonsense some of you do, you better think again..
You go carry pikin run dey shout I don't need his father but money sef you no get.. you go come dey disturb innocent guys after say you need a favour, say you broke and your pikin never chop, say you no fit even afford e school fees, make them help you with funds.. auntie na me be him papa nii? Why you won dey use pikin wey no be my own guilt trip me..
Shey because say you no won respect your baby daddy, you feel say you be fine babe and other guys plenty outside because say dem dey whine you.. you better think am again make you no go learn the hardest way..
I don talk my 2 cent finish sha..
Cos I dey see the rubbish wella, like say na me get pikin, when you come stop to send or the day wey you say e no dey, them go come dey misbehave as per you na wicked man wey want make their pikin no see food chop.. the more annoying one be say them go come dey tell you say dem dey see as you dey ball for your status say you get money but you no won help..
Love is Life. Genuine Love in Marriage is Life. Its Social Media that Rubbish Marriages, Yet there is Traffic from Wednesdays to Saturdays at Ikoyi Registry.
THE KIND OF LOVE YOU DESCRIBED ONLY EXISTS IN THE BIBLE....DONT TEMPT FATE TO PUT YOUR LOVE TO TEST OH............ THE ONLY KIND OF LOVE THAT NEARS THAT BIBLE DESCRIPTION IS THE TYPE BETWEEN A PARENT AND THEIR CHILD(REN) THE SAME LOVE YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT WILL VANISH THE MINUTE YOU ARE GIVEN AN OPTION BETWEEN YOUR SPOUSE AND YOUR CHILDREN COUPLES LIVE WITH THE UNDERSTANDING; LOVE EVEN BREAKS UP A MARRIAGE: I AM ONE OF THOSE WHO BELEIVE THAT IN MARRIAGE LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH; THERE ARE OTHER INGRDIENTS NEEDED TO GET BY....
THE REPEATING OF MOVIES IS A NORMAL THING:::HOW MUCH ARE YOU PAYING THAT YOU WANT THEM TO BE CHANING MOVIES ALL THE TIME; YOU KNOW THEY ALSO PAY FOR MOVIES....THEY HAVE TIME THEY INTRODUCE NEW MOVIES BUT GENERALLY THEY ALL KEEP REPEATING MOVIES; ITS THE SAME HERE TOO AND YOU CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT....NO MATTER THE ONE YOU CHANGE TO SAME THING HAPPENS......
FIRST GO AND FIND OUT WHY THERE IS WAIST PAIN AND PLEASE DONT GO AND MAAGE OH...MAY BE SOME KINDS GENETIC PROBLEM OR YOU ARE SICK FROM THE INSIDE....... IF YOU ARE A LADY AND IN MEOPAUSE AGE PLEASE TELL YOUR DOCTOR THAT WHEN YOU VISIT
Stella, any other ingredient you seek, is embedded in this. In Ephesians, it says, "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church. Wives, submit to your husbands....". Meanwhile, there's no perfect marriage anywhere. Challenges will always arise. And nobody pray make anybody witness wetin go pass am for marriage. Plus, to TRULY LOVE, is not easy. But we keep pushing, making mistakes, learning, and pressing on. May God bless every home with PEACE and LOVE. 🙏
Bv Omo Brizzle data is running like is licking out from phone, one month sub doesn't last up to one month again.
Bv Stella Marie baby I am so tired of watching anything on dstv. Nothing new to watch but you keep on increasing price.
SDK I pay for Yanga package, atlases I should get value for my money. Since they keep repeating with increment in their tariff on daily basis I will just hold my peace. I tot is only here that we experience repeated movies.
NOW YOU HAVE LEFT TO ANOTHER CHAPTER? YOU HAVE FURTHER BUTRESSED MY POINT THAT ONLY LOVE CANNOT MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK;IF YOU HAVE HEARD STORIES AND SEEN WHAT I HAVE SEEN IN THIS ABROAD YOU WILL AGREE WITH ME THAT EVEN THE RIGHT INGREDIENT WHEN APPLIED WRONGLY KILLS LOVE...LOVE DIES; IT IS ONLY GOD THAT HAS EVERLASTING LOVE FOR US HUMANS; WITHIN US; LOVE DIES!!!!
LOVE DIES AND THAT IS WHY WE ADD OTHER INGREDIENTS TO KEEP IT GOING.......... OF COS TRUE LOVE EXISTS BUT THAT TRUE LOVE YOU ONLY FIND IT WITH BLOOD TIES:::......YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE ARE NOT BLOOD TIES:::LOL DONT LET ME CONFUSE YOU...OF COS U LOVE EACH OTHER BUT THE THINGS THAT PUTS REAL LOVE TO TEST WILL BREAK THAT LOVE IF TRULY PUT TO TEST
Please be kind yourself. Train your inner voice to be compassionate one. It's amazing how much growth occurs when you treat yourself like a friend. 💯💯💯
Around 2006, I was already in my first year of study. I had just gotten admission at the time. After my registrations and medical, I will be leaving for Port Harcourt to prepare for resumption proper. Before then, there's this call centre in the area I had gotten accommodation. A pretty single mom you will never know.
I go there to make calls as recharge card then were expensive for a student to easily afford at all time. I began developing feelings towards her and she noticed it. One day I had gone to make calls and also to sit and chat with her, the mom came out from the house and told me she's inside but sick. The call centre was at the front off their house. You know this railway quarters settings. That's that environment.
The mom knew I was developing interest on her daughter, so she told me I can go inside and see her. I went inside and stayed with her for few minutes. After a while, I dashed out, came back with different fruits and gave to her. She was so excited even on sick bed.
She and the mom thanked me and prayed for my increase. They hy coming back? She said clothes and trousers.
I took her size and when coming back, I got her three beautiful top, two trousers and a pair of slippers. I also got two big stock fish for the mom and some few other things.
I think I am in love at the time and nothing anyone will say I will listen.
Let me say this. If a woman wants to love you genuinely and sincerely from the heart, you don't need to do too much for her. A little thing can sweep her off her feet and she'll love you effortlessly. That fruits I bought for her when she was sick meant so much to her. Even the mom was so excited and received me very well.
I entered Enugu late night around 8pm due to I left Port Harcourt at noon. I stopped by their house and dropped the things I bought for her and the mom and then rushed home to take my bath. Remember, we're staying in the same area.
I was still at the bathroom, she came knocking. I was staying in a self contain. With soapy body, I opened the door for her. After bathing, I cleaned my body and came out and met food she came with. I ate and thanked her.
We discussed for few minutes and in what seems like a flash, she held my head and kissed me heavily. That was the first and only time a woman had ever done that to me.
At the heat of the moment, she said ''F**k me''
I noticed she began vibrating. She asked if I have CD and I responded yes. She was the second woman I ever made love to in life.
It was a beautiful moment.
Our love blossom and we became so close. She will visit once she notice I'm back from school.
A year later she followed another man. Though I wasn't surprised, for she started giving me reasons to doubt her. I wasn't even bothered cos I knew I was still a student and won't marry her at the time. I felt it though but I have to man up. I couldn't continue staying there to be seeing her, so I packed out of the area.
They later got married.
There was something she did after I had left the area. She brought the guy to me at my new residence and introduced him to me. She explained everything to him aboutl us and I think the guy was an understanding and mature person. He thanked me for all I did for her and the mom. Before leaving, he said I shouldn't reason it. I told him nothing. We shook hands and they left after some drinks together.
Few days ago, I commented on a post of hers on Facebook and boom she DM.
How far?
How's madam and the kids?
I only responded fine. She said abi you never marry this one you didn't say ''they're fine''
I replied with a laughing emoji and wrote not yet. She felt so disappointed and asked why? That was where I ended the. H conversation. That question is one of a kind I don't like being asked.
No one should rush me. I will get married when it's time.
Oh, and Stella, if you say "THE KIND OF LOVE YOU DESCRIBED ONLY EXISTS IN THE BIBLE...", then you're saying everything else we believe and proclaim in the Bible, is not realistic in today's world then? As Christians, we Believe Jesus and His word, are the same, yesterday, today and forever. And the Bible is our guide or manual, on how to live in this evil world. And so, if He tells us something in His word, then best believe that if we apply it, then it will surely work for us. Where we have issues, is in partial applications or non compliance to what he He has asked us to do. But if we obey strictly, the tenets in the scriptures, then we will be better off. Again, is it easy to obey? No. We are humans. We will always falter and stumble. That's why I am always guided by this scripture verse, "let him who think he stand, take heed, lest he falls." May God help us. 🙏
Dante, you haven't seen anything yet. My husband told me about the one he witnesses every morning around Cooker area while going to work. He said these ones are young boys that are supposed to be in secondary school, but they'll wake up every morning and stand on the streets, harassing motorists fir money. The thing is really disturbing.
I have stopped my subscription since we moved to this no light vicinity.What I did was to get cartoon and comedy CDs,then we use my phone to watch recent skits, downloaded lots of cartoons from YouTube. I cannot come and kill myself.
2-3 for me. God abeg! In fact from that 2 up. Sickness o, stubbornness o, destruction o, over watchfulness o. I deep down, very deep down, just know that I love my son. If not on the surface, na only vex I dey vex.
Stellz, LoL, my big sis! If you go through those qualities listed above, you go see say everything dey there. Issues arise, when couples become conceited, selfish, arrogant, wicked etc, towards each other, which shouldn't be. Whether abroad or in Nigeria, the issues affecting marriage, is universal - absence of love! When GENUINE LOVE is present in a home, the couple will always find a way to navigate the storms of marriage. Again just to emphasize, there is no perfect marriage or home. But LOVE is the glue that binds a couple unshakeably! Good morning Big sis, and thanks for engaging. Your input is truly appreciated. ❤️
I feel like almost all mothers are guilty of this. Or let me just speak for myself. I am very guilty of this. Make God help me. The day I was scheduled to have my CS done for my daughter, Andre fell ill. Me I didn't go o. I was with my son. Not like my husband wasn't there but I always do not think anyone can watch my kids like I do. The next day that I went for the surgery, my husband had to bring Andre along to the hospital before I was "relaxed" enough for it. Na God go just help us for the motherhood because ehnn...
Sometimes too, our husbands are really busy. It doesn't make them bad husbands or fathers. It's just the way life is now. Probably the woman is a housewife and the only source of income is the man. So he will be busy and the only option is for her to look after the kids and if there's enough finance, get help. It's just unfortunate that this happened tho Life is too hard now.
Good morning beautiful people Today will be a good day for us all Not understanding this morning's traffic,by the time you get to your destination,you're already exhausted. It is well o,aluta continua Stay blessed fam,one love❤❤❤
Lagos wahala! Na so people dey fear make their cars no break down for road for night, because your own don finish. The agberos just too much for that town, and their entitlement is off the hook! I hope one day, Lagos will be rid of them somehow. Sorry about your experience. Abi maybe na Amoteks babes set you up? #OkBye 😂🏃
I watch educative cartons with my kids from YouTube, I just connect it to sound bar, can't remember the last time I subscribed, maybe the last big brother
Sorry for the typos. My charger is acting up when charging and typing at the same time. I noticed some words deleted and presence of letter I didn't type.
I've packed up my DStv decoder since. I used to subscribe to the yanga package but after it increased to 4kplus I gave up. I've port to G-stat and they show latest movies unlike DStv with their everyday repeatation. My problem with this one is their long advert,they can use 1hr to do advert,you go don forget the storyline of the movie you were watching. And their shameless adverts. In all,I'm saving money.
Dante you’re correct the thing is so scary the robbed a woman . It’s everywhere it’s worse on traffic lights even on the island they’re there They are everywhere and at night they rob the government needs to step up true true I don’t know why nobody is talking about it.
Good morning everyone 😘💞 It's a thankful Thursday, Dear Lord your girl is grateful for everything 🙌
The wedding I'd be attending on Saturday, today is the traditional marriage. They're igbos and the trad is taking place here in the city and some people are frowning against it. Abeg who cares,not with the high cost of transportations and the insecurities on the roads. As long as the bride's Father will settle umunna in the village,I don't see anything wrong in paying the brideprice and doing the traditional marriage rites here.
Anon 9:54. It takes 2 to make any marriage work. Bible said "can 2 work together unless they agree?....". Love will make a home better, when there is 'give and receive '. There is a big problem if only q person is doing all the loving. Eventually, the person go taya, and na divorce or separation go end the mata.
For me it's from age 5 o, kai when they start knowing themselves and knowing what they want.When you can't gently guide or make them so what you want.When they start having a mind of their own.God abeg o.
Beautiful write up but love is not enough...For me Trust is the fuel for marriage, love is the vehicle...Love alone cannot stand there has to be other factors added...
Phoenix: here's your answer. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, ALWAYS TRUSTS, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails...." Everything you seek, is embedded in LOVE! Take your time to go through that passage again. You will understand where I'm coming from.
Na wa! Always about you and women - trying to portray a good/nice/generous guy - to what end? To hoodwink female BVs here? Well, you female BVs, caveat emptor!
No matter how busy they are, they should make out time when necessary or make an arrangement for someone else to assist Incase they are not near by. This has to do with health.
Teejay, you no fit afford recharge cards and instead use a call centre. But you can buy fruits and clothes for a girl and other food items for her mum - a year one student. . What a contradiction and pack of fabus. You will just wake up and draw attention of female BVs to yourself. Any foolish one wey fall for your trap, go bring chronicles wey pass all the ones we don read here. Mtscheeeeeeeew many times. Go get busy
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It is ignorance that makes people say "Love is not enough in marriage...."
If you know what LOVE is, then you'd know it is more than enough to sustain ANY marriage.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails...."
If this LOVE isn't enough for your marriage, nothing else will suffice.
Una Gud Morning.....#ALiSpeaks
BE A DISCIPLE OF JESUS
The disciples were first called Christians in Antioch.' Acts 11:26 NKJV
Did you know that the word 'disciple' occurs many more times in the New Testament than the word 'Christian'? The word 'Christian' was first introduced to describe who they were, disciples of Jesus Christ!
Philosopher and writer Dallas Willard uses the illustration of the car: 'The disciple of Jesus is not the deluxe or heavy-duty model of the Christian - especially padded, textured, streamlined and empowered for the fast lane on the straight and narrow way. He or she stands on the pages of the New Testament as the first level of basic transportation in the Kingdom of God.' Becoming a Christian is the work of a moment; it happens when you place your trust in Jesus. But becoming a disciple is the work of a lifetime; it calls for denying yourself and saying yes to the will of God every day of your life.
What does it mean to be a disciple of Jesus? Three things:
(1) To listen to him and learn. That calls for reading, studying, memorising, verbalising and applying the truths taught in the Scriptures to your life each day.
(2) To follow him wherever he leads. This may call for changing your plans, forfeiting some of your relationships and giving him access to things you would like to hold on to.
(3) To be devoted to him. One day Jesus said to Peter, 'Do you love me more than the others do' (John 21:15 CEV)? Note the word 'more'. To be a disciple means to love Jesus with everything you have. And it's the most fulfilling and rewarding life you can live!
Word For Today
Boldness And Access!!
Ephesians 3:11-12.
"We possess the freedom to speak boldly in the presence of the Father, angels, and even demons, and express ourselves freely anywhere. This boldness extends beyond uttering mere words; it empowers us to speak things into existence."
"You have access to the spiritual and the material, to the wisdom of Almighty God. You have access to the unending, boundless, fathomless, incalculable and exhaustless riches of Christ."
Prayer!!
Dear Father, I thank you for I have boldness and access with confidence by the faith of Jesus Christ, in whom I’ve obtained an inheritance, being predestined according to His divine will. I live above circumstances, with access to your wisdom and the exhaustless riches of Christ, in Jesus’ Name. Amen.
Good morning everyone 🎉
Have a wonderful day ahead ❤️
Patience can help us achieve our goals, maintain a more positive outlook on life, and make us less reactive, which in turn will make us less prone to bad decisions. Stress, regret, and anger don't help anything.
Good morning Stella and blogfam. Hope we had a restful night? I pray we will have the patience to take a minute when we are faced with an uncertain future, a negative event, or something scary.
I wish us a lovely day ahead. Stay safe.
Good morning everyone.
Humility is a virtue!
Good morning everyone.. Give us this day our daily bread oh lord..may today's blessings never pass us by in Jesus name..Amen..
Beautiful morning everyone
Hope everyone slept well
Just to let you know that the cost of dstv has increased, is dollar also affecting dstv prices? The last increment I have not accepted it but they still went ahead to add more price.
Well, I will need to dispose my decoder to avoid waste of money. They keep repeating movies and has nothing interesting to show case but price keep increasing.
Don't mind my rant, have a beautiful day.
Good morning everyone
May there be mercy, grace and peace from God the Father in abundance upon you and all yours...
Blessed and exciting day, I wish you!!!
Good morning everyone 🌻.
Enjoy your day. ❣️
There'll be drama and surprises as the EPL wraps up. Liverpool pele hehehehe.
United , please keep trying abeg.
Happy birthday to me! It's amazing how time flies. I'm grateful to God for bringing me this far 🙏
Goodmorning Stella.
Goodmorning Beevees.
Day 116 of 366!!!
Faithful God!!!
Awesome God!!
Good morning all
Parents please what transition was the hardest. 0-1 kids , 1-2 kids, 2-3 etc.
Full Body Massage 50k ?
You think say if I get 50k my body go ever pain me?😂😂
Just because you don't share ot on Social Media,doesn't mean you're not up to big things.
Live it and stay low key.
Privacy is everything 🙌 ✨
Love never fails.
Amazing morning bro.
Louder 🎤 🎤 🎤
Copied this from Facebook, maybe someone can learn one or two lessons because with or without you, life goes on
Yesterday, I checked the BP of a pregnant woman and is 80/44 she has low BP I notified the doctor and she was told to be admitted because we can’t let her go in that state, she refused and said her kids are alone and no one to take care of them
I asked of her husband she said he will be busy, busy doing what ma?
Call him and tell him the recent development because we can’t allow you step out of the hospital like this
She kept saying her kids this and her kids that
She later said she will come back later, I gave her letter of consent incase..
I still called 8:pm she picked when i introduced myself she said she will manage and come later that her husband is yet to be back
I called past 10pm she didn’t pick
This morning I heard the worst news
She’s late..
She slept and didn’t wake up
Something that can be managed and she is aware
Money isn’t an issue because she’s an HMO patient
Her only problem are her kids
Those kids will survive without her
I feel so sad.
Copied from Facebook
Amen 🙏
Thanks for sharing, sis.
You too 💕
Have a lovely day.
Hmmm. Well said
Amen
Amen 🙏
Does waist pain has cure or medications one can take cos of waist pain please suggest.
Blessed morning Cynthi 💜
Not only dstv , even the telecom. Industry too are not helping , data and call rates not friendly at all, God will help us. Good morning dear
What's Lagos state government doing about this menace of agberos harassing people for money everywhere..
It's becoming a pandemic,. They do it like it's begging but it's just plain harassment because they're with weapons and I heard they rob too..
They'll follow and disturb you until you give them something..
That's how they rushed me few days ago, about 10 of the hailing me and hitting people to clear road for me to pass, I no first send them, but they kept following me shouting and hailing,. Asin imagine like 10 agbero following one person like 3 in the front pushing people away to let you pass and then 7 in your back raising their hands up shouting and hailing you, which kind wahala be this one, when no be say you be their chairman or you be sanwo olu, you'll be forced to give them something so they can stop the madness.. and I'm sure why they're using this method for me is cos they can't intimidate me to give them money, for the once they can intimidate they won't use this procedure, they'll just block you and ask you to give them money if not they won't let you pass.. Asin no be say you dey drive o.. I'm talking of them harassing people trekking on the road going to somewhere..
This is scattered everywhere now and I don't know why no one is talking, the ones that blocked me yesterday morning on ogba bridge looks fierce to scare people that don't have mind, one was using his hand to clean my shoes as I was walking, the other ones was following behind hailing that I should show them love, then no dey stop until you give them something, I noticed that they were intimidating some other people passing that those one must give them something unlike me that they were still begging..
The government should better do something before it gets worse.. no be until then begin holding people ransom or kidnap them go come dey talk..
Blessings
You are saying the facts 💯 %,they keep on repeating movies everyday...
Very tiring...
Happy birthday dear. Cheers to better years ahead 🎉
Beautiful Morning Everyone 💕💞💖
The weekend is coming.
0-1 for me.
Good morning blog family
Good blessed morning all
I wonder oo 🤣🤣🤣
Ladies, before you park out of your husband's house on flimsy excuses or fight your baby daddy, denying him access to his kids and all those other nonsense some of you do, you better think again..
You go carry pikin run dey shout I don't need his father but money sef you no get.. you go come dey disturb innocent guys after say you need a favour, say you broke and your pikin never chop, say you no fit even afford e school fees, make them help you with funds.. auntie na me be him papa nii? Why you won dey use pikin wey no be my own guilt trip me..
Shey because say you no won respect your baby daddy, you feel say you be fine babe and other guys plenty outside because say dem dey whine you.. you better think am again make you no go learn the hardest way..
I don talk my 2 cent finish sha..
Cos I dey see the rubbish wella, like say na me get pikin, when you come stop to send or the day wey you say e no dey, them go come dey misbehave as per you na wicked man wey want make their pikin no see food chop.. the more annoying one be say them go come dey tell you say dem dey see as you dey ball for your status say you get money but you no won help..
See wahala o..
Love is Life.
Genuine Love in Marriage is Life.
Its Social Media that Rubbish Marriages, Yet there is Traffic from Wednesdays to Saturdays at Ikoyi Registry.
Good morning SMB 💙
THE KIND OF LOVE YOU DESCRIBED ONLY EXISTS IN THE BIBLE....DONT TEMPT FATE TO PUT YOUR LOVE TO TEST OH............
THE ONLY KIND OF LOVE THAT NEARS THAT BIBLE DESCRIPTION IS THE TYPE BETWEEN A PARENT AND THEIR CHILD(REN)
THE SAME LOVE YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT WILL VANISH THE MINUTE YOU ARE GIVEN AN OPTION BETWEEN YOUR SPOUSE AND YOUR CHILDREN
COUPLES LIVE WITH THE UNDERSTANDING; LOVE EVEN BREAKS UP A MARRIAGE:
I AM ONE OF THOSE WHO BELEIVE THAT IN MARRIAGE LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH; THERE ARE OTHER INGRDIENTS NEEDED TO GET BY....
I rest my case!!!
Too bad. May her soul rest in peace.
THE REPEATING OF MOVIES IS A NORMAL THING:::HOW MUCH ARE YOU PAYING THAT YOU WANT THEM TO BE CHANING MOVIES ALL THE TIME; YOU KNOW THEY ALSO PAY FOR MOVIES....THEY HAVE TIME THEY INTRODUCE NEW MOVIES BUT GENERALLY THEY ALL KEEP REPEATING MOVIES; ITS THE SAME HERE TOO AND YOU CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT....NO MATTER THE ONE YOU CHANGE TO SAME THING HAPPENS......
FIRST GO AND FIND OUT WHY THERE IS WAIST PAIN AND PLEASE DONT GO AND MAAGE OH...MAY BE SOME KINDS GENETIC PROBLEM OR YOU ARE SICK FROM THE INSIDE.......
IF YOU ARE A LADY AND IN MEOPAUSE AGE PLEASE TELL YOUR DOCTOR THAT WHEN YOU VISIT
WHAT STATE ARE U REFERRING TO?
Stella, any other ingredient you seek, is embedded in this. In Ephesians, it says, "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church. Wives, submit to your husbands....".
Meanwhile, there's no perfect marriage anywhere. Challenges will always arise. And nobody pray make anybody witness wetin go pass am for marriage. Plus, to TRULY LOVE, is not easy. But we keep pushing, making mistakes, learning, and pressing on.
May God bless every home with PEACE and LOVE. 🙏
Happy Birthday..Wish u long life N prosperity....Cheers.
It's written there..
Lagos State.
Good morning Sunshine 😁💚
Bv Omo Brizzle data is running like is licking out from phone, one month sub doesn't last up to one month again.
Bv Stella Marie baby I am so tired of watching anything on dstv. Nothing new to watch but you keep on increasing price.
SDK I pay for Yanga package, atlases I should get value for my money. Since they keep repeating with increment in their tariff on daily basis I will just hold my peace. I tot is only here that we experience repeated movies.
NOW YOU HAVE LEFT TO ANOTHER CHAPTER? YOU HAVE FURTHER BUTRESSED MY POINT THAT ONLY LOVE CANNOT MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK;IF YOU HAVE HEARD STORIES AND SEEN WHAT I HAVE SEEN IN THIS ABROAD YOU WILL AGREE WITH ME THAT EVEN THE RIGHT INGREDIENT WHEN APPLIED WRONGLY KILLS LOVE...LOVE DIES; IT IS ONLY GOD THAT HAS EVERLASTING LOVE FOR US HUMANS; WITHIN US; LOVE DIES!!!!
LOVE DIES AND THAT IS WHY WE ADD OTHER INGREDIENTS TO KEEP IT GOING..........
OF COS TRUE LOVE EXISTS BUT THAT TRUE LOVE YOU ONLY FIND IT WITH BLOOD TIES:::......YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE ARE NOT BLOOD TIES:::LOL
DONT LET ME CONFUSE YOU...OF COS U LOVE EACH OTHER BUT THE THINGS THAT PUTS REAL LOVE TO TEST WILL BREAK THAT LOVE IF TRULY PUT TO TEST
Help me tell them
My new way of life
Good morning everyone
God bless our going out and coming in. Amen
Out to hustle
Amen 🙏
Thanks for sharing Nneoma ♥️🩷💜♥️
Happy birthday dear. God bless you.
She didn't have neighbours or relatives that she should have left the kids with or come to the hospital with them. May her soul rest in perfect peace.
Good morning everyone 🥰🥰🥰
Please be kind yourself. Train your inner voice to be compassionate one. It's amazing how much growth occurs when you treat yourself like a friend. 💯💯💯
Y'all have a great day ahead 😘😘😘
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Throw Back Thursday.
Around 2006, I was already in my first year of study. I had just gotten admission at the time. After my registrations and medical, I will be leaving for Port Harcourt to prepare for resumption proper. Before then, there's this call centre in the area I had gotten accommodation. A pretty single mom you will never know.
I go there to make calls as recharge card then were expensive for a student to easily afford at all time. I began developing feelings towards her and she noticed it. One day I had gone to make calls and also to sit and chat with her, the mom came out from the house and told me she's inside but sick. The call centre was at the front off their house. You know this railway quarters settings. That's that environment.
The mom knew I was developing interest on her daughter, so she told me I can go inside and see her. I went inside and stayed with her for few minutes. After a while, I dashed out, came back with different fruits and gave to her. She was so excited even on sick bed.
She and the mom thanked me and prayed for my increase. They hy coming back? She said clothes and trousers.
I took her size and when coming back, I got her three beautiful top, two trousers and a pair of slippers. I also got two big stock fish for the mom and some few other things.
I think I am in love at the time and nothing anyone will say I will listen.
Let me say this. If a woman wants to love you genuinely and sincerely from the heart, you don't need to do too much for her. A little thing can sweep her off her feet and she'll love you effortlessly. That fruits I bought for her when she was sick meant so much to her. Even the mom was so excited and received me very well.
I entered Enugu late night around 8pm due to I left Port Harcourt at noon. I stopped by their house and dropped the things I bought for her and the mom and then rushed home to take my bath. Remember, we're staying in the same area.
I was still at the bathroom, she came knocking. I was staying in a self contain. With soapy body, I opened the door for her. After bathing, I cleaned my body and came out and met food she came with. I ate and thanked her.
We discussed for few minutes and in what seems like a flash, she held my head and kissed me heavily. That was the first and only time a woman had ever done that to me.
At the heat of the moment, she said ''F**k me''
I noticed she began vibrating. She asked if I have CD and I responded yes. She was the second woman I ever made love to in life.
It was a beautiful moment.
Our love blossom and we became so close. She will visit once she notice I'm back from school.
A year later she followed another man. Though I wasn't surprised, for she started giving me reasons to doubt her. I wasn't even bothered cos I knew I was still a student and won't marry her at the time. I felt it though but I have to man up. I couldn't continue staying there to be seeing her, so I packed out of the area.
They later got married.
There was something she did after I had left the area. She brought the guy to me at my new residence and introduced him to me. She explained everything to him aboutl us and I think the guy was an understanding and mature person. He thanked me for all I did for her and the mom. Before leaving, he said I shouldn't reason it. I told him nothing. We shook hands and they left after some drinks together.
Few days ago, I commented on a post of hers on Facebook and boom she DM.
How far?
How's madam and the kids?
I only responded fine. She said abi you never marry this one you didn't say ''they're fine''
I replied with a laughing emoji and wrote not yet. She felt so disappointed and asked why? That was where I ended the. H conversation. That question is one of a kind I don't like being asked.
No one should rush me. I will get married when it's time.
Good Morning Guys.
© TEEJAY
Oh, and Stella, if you say "THE KIND OF LOVE YOU DESCRIBED ONLY EXISTS IN THE BIBLE...", then you're saying everything else we believe and proclaim in the Bible, is not realistic in today's world then? As Christians, we Believe Jesus and His word, are the same, yesterday, today and forever. And the Bible is our guide or manual, on how to live in this evil world. And so, if He tells us something in His word, then best believe that if we apply it, then it will surely work for us. Where we have issues, is in partial applications or non compliance to what he He has asked us to do. But if we obey strictly, the tenets in the scriptures, then we will be better off.
Again, is it easy to obey? No. We are humans. We will always falter and stumble. That's why I am always guided by this scripture verse, "let him who think he stand, take heed, lest he falls." May God help us. 🙏
Ekaaro Sis 🩷❤️🩷
The run-in is full of drama,see Liverpool losing again ! Let's see what City plays tonight against Brighton...as for Man UTD 🥱🥱
Good morning SMB 😍😍
Happy birthday darling 🥳🎉 may lines fall in pleasant places for you 🙌 have a blast 🥂 lots of love 💖
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Not funny but still funny.
I'm just picturing how they'll be tossing an Odogwu.
They go just use hand squeeze clothes way you don press finish.
Hailing you and those talks with drops of saliva touching you.
Make them sha no rub you hand collect something from you o.
Good morning boss Dante.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not funny but still funny.
I'm just picturing how they'll be tossing an Odogwu.
They go just use hand squeeze clothes way you don press finish.
Hailing you and those talks with drops of saliva touching you.
Make them sha no rub you hand collect something from you o.
Good morning boss Dante.
Rise and shine 🤸🤸
Good morning everyone 🥰🥰
Dante, you haven't seen anything yet. My husband told me about the one he witnesses every morning around Cooker area while going to work. He said these ones are young boys that are supposed to be in secondary school, but they'll wake up every morning and stand on the streets, harassing motorists fir money. The thing is really disturbing.
I have stopped my subscription since we moved to this no light vicinity.What I did was to get cartoon and comedy CDs,then we use my phone to watch recent skits, downloaded lots of cartoons from YouTube.
I cannot come and kill myself.
Happy birthday,God bless your new age.🎉
2-3 for me. God abeg! In fact from that 2 up. Sickness o, stubbornness o, destruction o, over watchfulness o.
I deep down, very deep down, just know that I love my son. If not on the surface, na only vex I dey vex.
May your new age be blessed. Happy new year....
© TEEJAY
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Stellz, LoL, my big sis! If you go through those qualities listed above, you go see say everything dey there. Issues arise, when couples become conceited, selfish, arrogant, wicked etc, towards each other, which shouldn't be.
Whether abroad or in Nigeria, the issues affecting marriage, is universal - absence of love! When GENUINE LOVE is present in a home, the couple will always find a way to navigate the storms of marriage.
Again just to emphasize, there is no perfect marriage or home. But LOVE is the glue that binds a couple unshakeably!
Good morning Big sis, and thanks for engaging. Your input is truly appreciated. ❤️
Please mother's find time to rest,I Know we love our kids but lets take care of ourselves too.
Sad story!
Beautiful morning to everyone.
Licious babe
Happy birthday 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Shebi I for put mouth for this talk.
But as a single pringle what can I say?
Both of you are very correct. Na so e be 🤗🤗🤗
My mother just called me on the phone now and said I should leave "horo pay, cele pay" (bend down select)
Oh my chest😭😂🤣... See finish!
Hahaha
Licious babe
Which kain wahala be this on top love this early mor mor😁
Gifty
Wishing you a wonderful birthday today Deheroine🎉🎊
Agba baller... How much is money....
Now you know, premium or nothing.
Some people na their hustle be that o. Ehen. Know that one too
I feel like almost all mothers are guilty of this. Or let me just speak for myself. I am very guilty of this. Make God help me.
The day I was scheduled to have my CS done for my daughter, Andre fell ill. Me I didn't go o. I was with my son. Not like my husband wasn't there but I always do not think anyone can watch my kids like I do. The next day that I went for the surgery, my husband had to bring Andre along to the hospital before I was "relaxed" enough for it.
Na God go just help us for the motherhood because ehnn...
Sometimes too, our husbands are really busy. It doesn't make them bad husbands or fathers. It's just the way life is now. Probably the woman is a housewife and the only source of income is the man. So he will be busy and the only option is for her to look after the kids and if there's enough finance, get help. It's just unfortunate that this happened tho
Life is too hard now.
🤣🤣🤣,It's for ambience and all the serenre
1-2 kids
Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
I have one tiny kid trying my patience on a daily
Gifty
Good morning beautiful people
Today will be a good day for us all
Not understanding this morning's traffic,by the time you get to your destination,you're already exhausted.
It is well o,aluta continua
Stay blessed fam,one love❤❤❤
Gifty: LoL. No wahala at all o. Me and Stella just dey try reach common ground. We are all here to learn from each other, and be better.
Ekaaro gbogbo ile
Happy Birthday ma'am. Here's wishing you many more amazingly fulfilling years on the planet....
You both have strong point👌🏻
Agape Love surpasses all other love.
Bonjour Blogfam ♥️
Lagos wahala! Na so people dey fear make their cars no break down for road for night, because your own don finish. The agberos just too much for that town, and their entitlement is off the hook! I hope one day, Lagos will be rid of them somehow.
Sorry about your experience. Abi maybe na Amoteks babes set you up? #OkBye 😂🏃
Thankful Thursday 🙏🏻 For all that you do ... We say Thank you Lord !
I remember Ladybug and her wahala 🤣
Wishing everyone a beautiful day ahead 💕💕
Happy Birthday ♥️
I watch educative cartons with my kids from YouTube, I just connect it to sound bar, can't remember the last time I subscribed, maybe the last big brother
For me o, love is not enough in marriage.
Compromise, sacrifice is the ultimate express of love
Thanks for sharing and remain blessed 💕💕
Sorry for the typos. My charger is acting up when charging and typing at the same time. I noticed some words deleted and presence of letter I didn't type.
© TEEJAY
I've packed up my DStv decoder since. I used to subscribe to the yanga package but after it increased to 4kplus I gave up. I've port to G-stat and they show latest movies unlike DStv with their everyday repeatation. My problem with this one is their long advert,they can use 1hr to do advert,you go don forget the storyline of the movie you were watching. And their shameless adverts. In all,I'm saving money.
Happy birthday to you 💕 live long and prosper in Jesus name.
😂😂 abeg help me ask them o.
That's right.
Good morning SMB 💕
Happy birthday to you
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Happy birthday dear 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Awesome God!
Liverpool no serious kankan
Ha Fidel. The popular ‘terrible twos’. Ha! We hear wheeen for Alex hand. Now she’s three and I can see positive difference
But then again, the two must be willing to compromise, what happens when one is willing and the other isn't? Church agba shiala!
Dante you’re correct the thing is so scary the robbed a woman . It’s everywhere it’s worse on traffic lights even on the island they’re there
They are everywhere and at night they rob the government needs to step up true true I don’t know why nobody is talking about it.
Im summary, God is love. Put God first and every other thing follows
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Good morning
Amen
Your body count na helele
Happy birthday 🎂, sweetie. May line fall in pleasant places for you. Enjoy your special day, Deheroine😘
Good morning everyone 😘💞
It's a thankful Thursday, Dear Lord your girl is grateful for everything 🙌
The wedding I'd be attending on Saturday, today is the traditional marriage. They're igbos and the trad is taking place here in the city and some people are frowning against it. Abeg who cares,not with the high cost of transportations and the insecurities on the roads. As long as the bride's Father will settle umunna in the village,I don't see anything wrong in paying the brideprice and doing the traditional marriage rites here.
Bvs have a great day ahead ❤️
E go surely be ✌️
Horo pay, sele pay
Looku looku go, Bayelsa come
Horo wa, horo wa, I say horo wa plenty
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I dey laugh scatter whenever I go oil
Then some of them will start shouting, ewo ewo ewwwe, come and hear different sound na
Gifty
Good morning beautiful people,God bless and protect us all from evils 🙏❤️🌹
Good morning everyone
Happy birthday
Anon 9:54. It takes 2 to make any marriage work. Bible said "can 2 work together unless they agree?....". Love will make a home better, when there is 'give and receive '. There is a big problem if only q person is doing all the loving. Eventually, the person go taya, and na divorce or separation go end the mata.
@Teejay, what nonsense is this, this early morning??? WTF!
Fidel you're like my neighbour.
As long as health is involved, no excuse. The kids will always be fine. At some point in life you'll have to let go of them.
Na who dey healthy dey take care of children. I'm looking for a getaway holiday by myself without hearing the mummy chorus x100
This DStv tin na hmmmmm,I don't even know wat is happening in dis country.the suffering na anoda level, anywhere u turn,na wahala.it is well.
Good morning beautiful people
Blessed day ahead 🥳
God bless your new age
Happy birthday to you. Your new age is blessed and highly favoured.
You're right Boss,it's a menace. It's not begging kankan,pure harassment. 🙄🙄🙄
Happy birthday ma'am
Happy glorious birthday to you, enjoy your day
Thank you Jesus
Lol
On point 👍
Good morning, Sir's/Ma's. Have a productive day.
Good morning SDK and BVs. Tremendous Thursday. Thank you Jesus,for always showing me mercy. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁
God bless you real good
Louder it 🤣🤣🤣
Happy birthday
I didn't even bother to get DSTV. I just download movies on my phone, and then connect my phone to my TV. Then there's Netflix too.
Good morning
Lol
For me it's from age 5 o, kai when they start knowing themselves and knowing what they want.When you can't gently guide or make them so what you want.When they start having a mind of their own.God abeg o.
Congratulations to the bride
Enjoy your self..
Nothing wrong as long as Umunna will be settled..
Paris sis please recommend any good interesting action Korean movies for me..thanks
Happy birthday to you..
Good morning 🌞🌞
Beautiful write up but love is not enough...For me Trust is the fuel for marriage, love is the vehicle...Love alone cannot stand there has to be other factors added...
Happy Birthday Deherione...I wish you long life and prosperity
Thank you ndi oma, your good wishes means a lot, God bless you all.
Long hiss
Wow! This is great, we keep learning everyday.
No controversial Jesus is Lord.
Licious babe
Happy birthday 🎊
Happy birthday baby girl. God grant you increase
Phoenix: here's your answer.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, ALWAYS TRUSTS, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails...."
Everything you seek, is embedded in LOVE! Take your time to go through that passage again. You will understand where I'm coming from.
Na wa! Always about you and women - trying to portray a good/nice/generous guy - to what end? To hoodwink female BVs here? Well, you female BVs, caveat emptor!
I follow add - mtscheeeeeeeew! Idleness no good
No matter how busy they are, they should make out time when necessary or make an arrangement for someone else to assist Incase they are not near by. This has to do with health.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 anonymous 10:06 you be case
Teejay, you no fit afford recharge cards and instead use a call centre. But you can buy fruits and clothes for a girl and other food items for her mum - a year one student. . What a contradiction and pack of fabus. You will just wake up and draw attention of female BVs to yourself. Any foolish one wey fall for your trap, go bring chronicles wey pass all the ones we don read here. Mtscheeeeeeeew many times. Go get busy
Thanks to God
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