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Friday, June 28, 2024

FRIDAY In House News

 #TGIF hailings



IN HOUSE MEMO
Happy Friday to you all.... 
The Weather is too hot to handle and its unbelievable.... Inside is cool though but one cant hide indoors all day nah and here the higher you go the hotter, so the upper part of the Maisonette is hotter.
Those who rent flats at the top always pay cheaper but they wont understand until summer comes....Eggs go dey inside fry boil dey wait you...LOL
Someone advised that i should hurry up with the next giveaway and that it is depressing to come here and read giveaway comments...Na wah oh, so you wan teach me how to manage my traffic? If you think that the giveaway is not OK and you cant stand the comments, then stay away from any post that you know will contain giveaway comments OK?.............
I wanted to ask what 5k can do in these times but fear no let me.......
I just want to advice anyone depressed for any reason whatsoever, to please look for someone that they can talk to...Please dont come to me cos i get really sad knowing anyone is depressed and it dampens my mood...let me ask does all dperession come from being broke or being heartbroken? Cos i am still thinking how someone who has love and money will unalife themself......Are you depressed? tell us why under anon and tell us if you have sought help for it....
If your depression is because you need a pot of stew foe Sunday rice, then indicate.....I will some and God will bless.
Moving on quickly before that anon complains...
BV Simply Diving please come in here......
I am officially tired of zeeone.....I wont be watching it again as from Monday and will rever to my Amercian movie stations.....No no no no noo......
When watching zeeone, eyes will turn you cos the camera angle is not the same at all.. And the mumu behaviour has gotten to me.....I cant deal..
Bye bye to zeeone from Monday (side eyes)
XOXO

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GIST GIST GIST
I was in hopsital recently and while I was therel, this woman was rolled into the hospital, she was admitted into the female ward, obviously pregnant, one nurse came and checked her, said she was not dilating well, the woman looked so lean like say blood no dey her body, 
The doctor said she needs to be operated on immediately as she was at the hospital the previous week and she was booked for surgery as her babies (not one of) were breached, 
The husband said lailai, he said when they came last week, that the doctor said she won't be able to have any form of contractions but now she had dilated 2cm, that it was his Daddy prayers that made it possible, and this pregnant woman was dying slowly, them no gree remove her apron sef,  the husband held his own apron and kept shouting "oh God of my pastor, come and show yourself", the wife screamed at him and told him that if anything happens to her that her family will not forgive him, immediately he stormed out, my belle was already boiling, like i was pissed  
The woman requested for a phone to call her family, she never talk finish before I gave her mine, she called her brother (you needed to see how unkempt this woman looked) and he quickly came, looking so fresh and smells of plenty money, he came, signed the necessary papers and they moved her in for surgery.....
She was delivered of a beautiful boy and girl, cute looking kids, they rolled them out thereafter,  they were taking care of her and the so-called husband switched off his phone.
The next morning, Oga landed with his lemon apron, saw the kids and screamed that the God of his pastor is mighty, that he knew that he will do it, everybody kept quiet, immediately this man noticed the children's gender, he became upset, started screaming at the wife, asking if there was any other deliveries yesterday, that God through his pastor told him that the children were two boys not a boy and a girl, 
Stella at this point, everyone in that ward was bitterly angry, this was a man that abandoned his dying wife and has not noticed that she was operated on, na him de find ways to accuse people, he even said his wife has lost her mind by removing her apron, whether she wan make the God of her pastor depart from her and then she becomes prey to the enemies? 
He was still there talking, the woman's brothers walked in, come see treating of fuck up, them panelbeat am go outside, they beat him till he started vomiting , the hospital security threw him out, the woman's older brother drove to their house, packed her few things to his house, he instructed never to allow the man into the hospital again.
The woman was still there when I was discharged,  she looked too malnourished, lost a lot of blood but was recovering fine, I asked her if she would go back to her husband, she said "God forbid", she said her husband was not like that when they met but changed drastically when he became a member of that church, e come be like say them carry him battery for the church come make am  cray-cray....

They wear Apron in a church or what? Abi i no understand this gist?There is a church in Nigeria that they wear apron as a sign of ones faith?WOW!!!

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MISTAKES MEN MAKE IN MARRIAGE
Lots of Men are making mistakes in their Marriages, this is making life difficult for their wives and Children. We need to examine this and tutor all Men to behave better.

1) SLAVE-WIFE MENTALITY: 
It’s not funny to know that lots of Men see women as slave, servants or something close to that. They believe women are good for nothing but sex, baby making, house chores and cooking. They operate with that kind of mentality with their wives. Many believe a wife should only be seen not heard, it’s really funny the way some men treats their wives.

2) PUTTING FAMILY OVER WIVES:
Lots of African Men are fond of this, they put their extended family first, they even make their wives to slave for their extended family members. Some beat or even divorce their wives because of their siblings. This is totally wrong. It’s madness to allow your family Members who are in their own Marriage to destroy yours, it’s high level of foolishness to allow your siblings to take over your marriage.

3) SPERM DONOR MENTALITY: 
Lots of men are more-or-less sperm donors in their marriages, apart from getting tingling their wives pregnant they have no other roles in Child bearing and rearing. Whenever babies cries, It’s very common to hear men saying, come and carry your baby, don’t you hear your baby is crying?,most of the time only women attends Children parties in School,only mothers attend PTA meetings and many other events in School, Men thinks they are too busy to do that what a mistake?

4) CLASS TEACHER ATTITUDE: 
Lots of Men believes their wives have nothing to offer, they believe they are wiser, stronger and better than their wives. So they develop Class teacher mentality, whereby they are only ready to teach, lecture and tutor their wives. To them their wives should not advise them. This is very wrong, God planted your wife into your life to complete you. 
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SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN:

1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:
Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
food and after it was prepared you refused
to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.

2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:
 May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3. Issuing threats: 
beating, verbally abusing
your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
bragging about marrying another wife does
not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4. Reporting your wife to friends and family: 
When your wife offends you, correct
and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
By the way, are you a reporter answer my question ?

5. Keeping malice: 
is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

6. Not helping with house chores: 
I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home when she chooses to be a full time house wife.
However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some men cannot change a simple diaper 
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288 comments:

  1. Good afternoon everyone!

    Thank God it's Friday

    Thank you all for your prayers. We are home now.

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    1. I JUST USED CORNER EYES TO LOOK AT ZEEONE AND ROSHNI AND SIDDART ARE CRYING INSTEAD OF SAYING NO THAT HE CANNOT MARRY MISHA!!!
      SAY NO
      SAY NO
      SAY NO
      SAY NO
      SAY NO
      SAY NO
      SAY NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

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  3. BV Morayo, see as I they smile reading your comment this morning on SP, God Bless your Son, and a very big congratulations from me to your son, and to your family, I pray he continues to grow in wisdom and knowledge. Amen.

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  4. Good day fam ๐Ÿ’œ. I trust we're all having a nice day. I am here to express my heartfelt gratitude to you all for your congratulatory messages and well-wishes to my son and family on SP this morning. Honestly, you all made me shed tears of joy as I read through your comments. I'll ensure my son also reads them when he returns from school because those goodwill messages will really mean a lot to him. I am proud to be part of this wonderful family.

    Thank you all.
    Daalu nu.
    E'seun.
    Nagode.

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    1. You're welcome beautiful Morayo. ๐Ÿ˜

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    2. Ride on, proud momma ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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    3. Congratulations to your sonshine ❤️๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

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    4. I shared your Goodnews with my son and he said you will be very proud oooo,smiling and saying Jesus,asking me what I would do if he had such win...I told him which parents wouldn't be proud.....May God continue to preserve,grant them more wisdom, knowledge and understanding in Jesus name.

      I am honestly happy for you๐Ÿ’•

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    5. Congratulations to our super boy. May he go to high places in Jesus name.

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    6. ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’•

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    7. Congratulations to you and your son Morayo.

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    8. Congratulations to your sonshine๐ŸŽŠ. May he continue to make his parents proud

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    9. Bv Morayo, abeg borrow me your space.
      Congratulations to you and your family, he will forever be a source of joy to you in Jesus name.
      Good afternoon everyone. Hope our day is going smooth.

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    10. Congratulations dear more greater heights to your sons.

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    11. Congratulations to your Son Morayo.

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    12. Congratulations to your Star boy.
      May God guide and protect him for you.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’™

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    13. He will keep making you proud ๐Ÿ™.
      Congratulations

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  5. Congratulations ๐ŸŽ‰ SDK. Welcome back to reality.

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    1. Babes that Furiosa, omo I couldn't watch for 20mins o. Was not feeling it. Have you seen ordinary angels? True life story. Nice drama.

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    2. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜ƒ, that channel can make one start believing what's not real

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    3. Ohh sorry candy. Haven't seen ordinary angels but I'll search for it this weekend, thank you.

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    4. Furiosa : mad Max? Tooorrr

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    5. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ

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    6. LoL, na real reality.
      But I can tell you for a free that she hasn't been delivered totally from it, because as an addition, she go dey peep once once.๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  6. Lovely it is cold and mild here in kaduna good afternoon all

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  7. Good afternoon y'all
    Work has been hectic for a couple of days now.
    Grateful to God for life.

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  8. In House News is Here ๐Ÿ“ฐ๐Ÿ—ž๐Ÿšจ

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    1. Good afternoon beautiful,hope you're doing little exercises,with the pop?

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    2. Good Afternoon Blogbrity, I do walk around but it’s Strenuous and Tasking. Thanks for checking on me ๐Ÿ™

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    3. Hmmm, Some People are over Zealous when it comes to their Doctrine.

      Thank God for the Ladies Brother that came her Aid. God bless him…

      That Writeup for Men is Spot on.

      I like it

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    4. Please try and bear the pains,it's part of the healing process, so your muscles around the pop,won't be stiff.

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  9. Good afternoon house.. just for fun Riddles and jokes..
    How many months have 28days

    What has an eyes but can't see

    What has a key but can't open a locked door

    What kind of room has no doors or window

    What begins with T and finishes with T and has T in it.
    Your time starts now clock is ticking.......

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    1. ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿšถ

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    2. Mushroom




      Treatment
      Tightest
      Tattoo
      Twistest

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    3. Let me try;
      2. Coconut
      3.Key board
      4 mushroom

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    4. Ha, I no know except the first one. Biko someone should solve this ,I'm interested in knowing the answer ๐Ÿ˜€

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    5. If all my courses in school were riddles, I for nor fit graduate with pass sef๐Ÿคฆ
      God forbid riddles๐Ÿ˜ด

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    6. 1. All 12 months.
      2. Needle.
      3. Piano.
      4. Mushroom
      5. Teapot.


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    7. 1)1
      2)man made god LMAO needle
      3)keyboard,keyhole
      4)cold room abi
      5)Testament






      Hydrogen

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  10. Eh!!! Stella you are tired of Zeeone ke! Now this is funny o. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Krity baby, where art thou? That man in that gist is a fool. There is a difference in being religious, and being spiritual. Stella, no be apron per say. The Church is a well known Church.

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    1. I no com know am o, abi na "LC"? That's the only one I can think about but not sure

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    2. Stella dey whine๐Ÿฅฑ
      Wait till Monday na

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    3. Not only funny Candy but a miracle ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. Wasn't expecting it anytime soon.

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    4. Witness ? ๐Ÿ˜

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    5. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜น
      Why una dey laugh Stella like this?

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    6. Lora, yep.
      Fidel, na laff I still dey laff Stella because she go change mind.
      CC, ah! Don't call it a miracle yet o.
      Anon, nope.
      Mrs Sharon, you don forget say Stella talk say she couldn't eat because of Zeeone. ๐Ÿ˜‚

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  11. This Sharon Ooja wedding oozes class, the decor,the dressing is everything. Everything is top notch. When you spend money,you spend it smartly! Hypes and noise making do not make an event. Such a beauty to behold, very classy. The designs,very perfect!

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  12. WINNER, YES I AM!28 June 2024 at 14:09

    Thank God its Friday.

    Thank God Stella will stop watching zeeone.

    Thank God for the safe delivery of the woman and the person who gave her the phone is from this blog, may God bless you for saving her life.
    prayers
    I know the name of the church, It's God's*******where they wear apron.

    BV Atluage, I pray God grants your earnest desire. God shall hear your secret prayers. Continue to have faith and don't lose hope! Do your best physically and let God finish it for you

    Happy weekend guys....

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  13. WINNER, YES I AM!28 June 2024 at 14:09

    Thank God its Friday.

    Thank God Stella will stop watching zeeone.

    Thank God for the safe delivery of the woman and the person that gave her the phone is from this blog, may God bless you for saving her live.
    prayers
    I know the name of the church, It's God's*******where they wear apron.

    Atluage, I pray God grants your earnest desire. God shall hear your secret prayes. Continue to have faith and don't lose hope! Do your best physically and let God finish it for you

    Happy weekend guys....

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  14. Thank God it ended well for the pregnant woman. Please let's try and know God personally. Greetings everyone

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  15. That signs of men's immaturity post is on point.

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  16. Does traditional marriage in Nigeria offer any certificate?

    Or does it depend on the area where the traditional marriage takes place?

    I mean the same way as Registry and Marriage does?

    Please educate me as I really don't know.

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    1. Yes..some local government issue certificate for traditional wedding.

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    2. No certificate for traditional wedding.
      Both families are the certificate.

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    3. I don't know about other traditions o, but I have a trad marriage certificate.

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    4. Traditional marriage doesn't offer certificate but it's also recognised even in court.

      Recently,I saw an educational video that talks about that, that even if a man went ahead and do registry wedding for another woman after traditional wedding with the first, the registry wedding is null and void, the first is the only recognised wife except they divorced in customary court

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    5. Yes. It depends on the region.


      Some do offer, others don't





      Hydrogen

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  17. Congratulations sweet sis mo at the scholarship award of your son, may this remain permanent and may he continue to make you guys proud. Congratulations once again

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  18. Stella die that 5k giveaway idea abeg, it's too small to do anything tangible, except maybe to buy data.
    A congo of beans is 4700 here, before you buy other ingredients to cook it , you would spend 7000, for those of us with a large family that cook one Congo of beans at a time. One Congo is 10 cups or less in most cases.

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    1. People need money for various reasons you'd be surprised that a person's immediate need is 2k. I understand you but someone might just be in dire need of 5k.

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    2. Stella abeg i don't mind the 5k o..at all at all na im bad pass.

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    3. Might be small for you but not everyone biko. Do you know if that congo of beans is what someone needs right now. Abeg o

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    4. What do you mean? That 5k can cook soup that your family can eat only once as a large family. Buy one Titus fish of 1500 and scatter it in the soup, buy okro of 500, palmoil #200, crayfish #200, ugu vegetable #200, fresh pepper #500, onion #100. Use the rest to buy garri of one congo and make eba. Eat and drink water.

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    5. If it's too small for u then I may not be for some..
      Allow her abeg.. Money no be ur own.. See analysis

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    6. No one asked you to birth 'large families.'
      If the 5k cannot help you, it can help some ones pressing need.
      Some of you will be giving birth like rats with zero foresight.
      Obviously the economy will continue to dwindle, let the god of your pastors egging you senselessly on come down and feed your large family.
      Always those who have absolutely nothing to offer, have the loudest entitled voices on how other peoples money/generousity should be expended.
      Tufia!

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    7. Hmmmmmm,annon,don't be so sure,5k is still something to some families,I stay in my family house to and 5k is something.

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    8. Some people are looking for 1k sef,everyone's needs are different.

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    9. Seconded o. Anon.

      Do the giveaway.


      See your mouth. You can't give you won't allow people spend their money the way they want to.

      Mtcheww

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  19. Good afternoon everyone
    Sunny Friday ☀️๐Ÿ˜Ž TGIF
    Stella I am glad and happy you have dropped your zee one addiction. I used to be like you too not until I saw the games they were playing never completing a series, their plenty noise, always beating around the bush and making the villain always succeeding I just got tired of them one day and left since then I never looked back again.
    Move to American series they are thought provoking, advanced storyline, straight to the point
    You should start with Game of thrones walahi I promise you it is a million times better than all the series zee world has to offer.
    Go to Nkiri and download game of thrones once you start you will forget about zee world and all it has to offer ๐Ÿ˜Ž

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    1. Abi that nonsense sound they play when they think they are putting one in suspense. Yeye people

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    2. A GOT lover๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ
      Chichi!!!๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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  20. Thank you my people for your comments yesterday after I shared my ordeal with that procurement guy. It was really helpful. There's nothing the place of prayer cannot solve. ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ.

    Stella depression is deeper than just feeling sad. A lot of times it's from bottled up past losses, mistakes, betrayals, abuse and so much more that wasn't properly managed. When a person hits the lowest there's always a trigger that just brings everything that's happened to you in the past flashing at the same time and your head can't carry it. The pain is too much.

    The peace that surpasses all human understanding that comes from God alone can calm any depressive state and give you hope for a better tomorrow. Not money or fame.

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  21. GIST
    This lemon apron wearing church members are so funny.

    I watched a video weeks ago where members of this lemon apron wearing church, looking malnourished were clapping and singing in a German city that they have come to take over the city. It was funny and hilarious at same time. Take over as in convert "unbelievers" or to dominate the city?

    Good a thing the woman received sense to call her brother if not it would have been another avoidable death.

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    1. Those people are fanatics big time fanatics .

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    2. They are in Germany too? Lord have mercy!
      Tor, it is well

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  22. Please what's the fastest way to do change of name in Lagos or Abuja?

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    1. Contact a lawyer. Or go to any court environment, you'll surely find someone who would put you through.

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  23. @Gist poster, you need to see how i was boiling with anger in the beginning of your gist. Thank God nothing happened to that woman, may God deliver us from yeye horseband, religion has finished so many people in this country, Tufiakwa!!
    Good afternoon everyone.
    Stella i knew you will quit watching that mumu channel ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜‚
    Congratulations to you o

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  24. Good afternoon blogfam. Hope we are doing fine. No heat here but rain.That man fuck up really needed to be treated. Such irresponsibility. 5k go manage buy 21/2 derica of beans. May God help us in this economy that is enough to cause depression. Enjoy the rest of the day.

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  25. Make I go find something eat abeg this boy don suck me dry, una good afternoon.

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    1. Do you have a daughter? If no, wait till then and you will fully understand the meaning of "suck dry" ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  26. Good afternoon ooo
    Welcome IHN. Depression is real oo, my own depression is no money to attend to basic needs biko..

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  27. Good afternoon all .
    Depression is real.
    I know I'm new here and won't be considered now for the 5k. But will be grateful if God's grace and mercy locate me.

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  28. Good afternoon Stella.
    I am here, wetin dey make you vex and tired? Bring it on ๐Ÿ˜. So from Monday no more watching Sidharth and co?๐Ÿ˜ It's ok.

    There's a church in Nigeria that puts on apron all the time, I shake my head. Brainwashed humans, I really hope the woman doesn't go back to her husband because, what kind of behavior is that?

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  29. Honestly, we have to re- orientate the mentality of the masses of this country.
    We have to really focus on values like integrity and dignity of labour..

    That you're poor shouldn't rob you off your voice,. That your don't have money doesn't mean you can't talk sense or talk publicly..

    Money isn't what defines a man. How you made the money matters. Making money through illegal, dishonest and immortal means doesn't make you a man or make you better than the hardworking people making a honest living, they are actually better than you in every sense. Value, integrity, pride and honour defines a man (and woman)

    Cos wetin be all these nonsense on the internet, the way people worship those that have money ehn, even when they do stup!d shii is very worrisome..

    Let's face the fact, so that one that was calling on his friends to cancel someone that has ish with his babe,. You no get sense pass am? At least me I know say I no fit do such stup!d shii so I get sense pass am,. And also that other one that came out to be indirectly telling blogs to cancel someone,.. omo,. See the kind rich people wey dey the country,. The rich people that are worshipped, you think these ones would be happy to see you get better than them if they're feeding you? You won't be able to break free from them without a fight, cos they have this god-mindset, they want to be able to use people so they have to keep them beneath them.. rich people without common sense.. imagine say this ones come hold political office,. One go dey make S!mp laws, the other go dey rally around to cancel people,. God abeg o..

    But truly sha, Una plenty wey dey think like this for this country, cos even for this blog, I have seen comments telling the blog owner to stop approving my comments ๐Ÿ˜‚..

    Wetin I talk?- stop entitlement mentality, stop corruption in government, stop fraud, stop being biased, stop doing Hoelosho, don't be a hypocrite,. STOP INSULTING AND DEMONIZING MEN, stop PATERNITY FRAUD...

    Na my offence be that o..

    Them come say make them cancel me๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ, as per na for here I dey earn my daily bread bah?.. okay let's imagine say na here I dey earn my daily bread, na so I go either lose my voice or lose my job.. God abeg o Lol..

    Respect is Reciprocal.
    Reciprocal means "done in return"
    That is, respect when given should be given back.
    Respect is given and taken. It's a give and take ideology.
    The problem with many daft Nigerian elders is that they want to take without giving, some even go as far as disrespecting you but want to be rewarded with respect for their disrespect.. make this make sense.. whether a child or not, if you want respect, then respect yourself first by giving the other person his respect.

    Don't give out disrespect, then when you get back the disrespect, you start playing victim and crying about the youth disrespecting elders..

    Common sense please..

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  30. I am not depressed, my child would not even let me be depressed in peace.. I'm just sad that I ended up as a broke single mum who can hardly feed well. No good job for a school dropout like me without certificate to backup my intelligent... No money to establish the skill I learned. younger one and mum looking up to me. Child looking up to me.

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  31. GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY.
    Raining day. Loving the cold weather.
    Stella I'm sending you some rain๐ŸŒจ️๐ŸŒจ️

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    1. This your Halo just reminded me of one annoying Ghana advert, Halo herbal mixture ๐Ÿ˜‚

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  33. Good afternoon my good people of SDK blog. I love the fact that the woman's brother treated the husband's fuckup. What non-sense!

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  34. Greetings fam.
    Busy weekend already...
    Enjoy the rest of the day๐Ÿ’•

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  35. The rain this afternoon no come play at all. Heavy ๐ŸŒง️๐ŸŒง️๐ŸŒง️
    Stella,don't worry it will rain a little over there tomorrow make heat comot small ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

    I pray make traffic no go dey this evening when coming back from work ooo

    Cold afternoon. Need some hot coffee

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    1. Any mistake you have made that closed the door of favor in your life,by the mercy of Almighty God let that door be open now in Jesus name ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

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    2. If na lag you dey, forget it. Normally, there's always traffic on Friday. Rain com fall... aaahhh

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  36. Depression is not only from being broke or heart broken. There are several ways one can be depressed.

    Moving away from that. Stella, u shouldn't be bothered about anyone telling u or teaching you how to run ur tinz. Then dey even dictate for devil..so, keep ur originality and move on.ignore negative vibes.


    You be there mama. If anyone says I'm livking her ass yhen let it be. I go lick pass ass sef.

    Tiday na today ooooo... I must deal with my wife ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿคฆ

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  37. Good Afternoon Beautiful People ๐Ÿ˜
    Raining heavily can't even go out to pick my kids in school ๐Ÿ˜ฎ‍๐Ÿ’จ

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    1. Cloudy here but no rain. I pray it rains at night. I just want my plants to grow. I transferred the pepper and anara from the nursery this morning.

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  38. Gather here if you knew Stellz Zeeone obssession wasn't going to last๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿค—. Good afternoon y'all. God bless you you you and you. I was depressed over the weekend and most of last week it was scary I tried everything but couldn't get my spirits to lift... I'm in a good place now but like Stella said talk to someone but most importantly talk to God.

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  39. One of my best friends (my childhood) friend and her husband landed in Portugal yesterday. It was a whole lot of money, tension, mistakes, prayers to make sure they were able to cross over immigration on the short stay visa they got to start their hustle when they arrive.

    You need to see the way we were preparing questions and answers to make sure they have everything they can answer just incase immigration asks.

    They got there with so much tension only to not be asked even a single question (thank God cos their nervousness may have given them away).

    My Joy knows no bounds and I sincerely hope that the land favours them because the money they spent to migrate to that country is not small at all.

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    1. Amen..congrats to them.

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    2. Congratulations to your friend and her hubby. May the land favour them.

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    3. Congratulations to your friend@ Eka joy๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒAmen to your prayers and may God keep blessing you cos you always cheer and support others.

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    4. You will just bounce in like you've not been away since. Na so?๐Ÿ˜
      How have you been? And your visitors? Mother inlaw and brother inlaw, yes?

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    5. Congratulations to your friends. The land shall favour them in Jesus name amen.

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    6. Congratulations to them, may the land favor them o, just the kind of new i like to hear

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  40. LMAO๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ. Who knew the day would come? Stella tire for zeeone? ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚. When I told you that the camera angles were going to be a piss you didn't want to hear at the beginning. The angles kill everything. I think people actually lose braincells watching that thing. Not judging sha.

    Signout meme is on point.

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    1. Nah lie ooo she no fit tire cos she go still go back there. She should ask me o
      Me that I have been watching it since 2014 uptill now,even as dey dem vex me reach I still continue to dey watch
      Stella go still go back unless she no go talk am here again

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    2. Walahi, no be small braincells!

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  41. @Fidel how do you cope when rice mistakenly enter the hole? It's like someone hitting Nail with hammer into my teeth, that's the excruciating pain I suffer, I got to hospital Iam number 109, I just Waka Jeje, looking for a private dental hospital, I just bought mouthwash, feat dey catch me to eat since morning ☹️

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    1. Story of my life this morning ๐Ÿคฆ
      Like I said, I live on salt solution. If they mistakenly "band" salt, I don die be that ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

      I pray it goes well o. Don't be scared like me jare. At least it's just filling. I don't think it's painful๐Ÿ˜Ÿ

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  42. Your account balance is another person's tithe.

    True.

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  43. LMAO @" the mumu behaviour has gotten to me.... You never cheechumtin๐Ÿ˜Š.
    I don dey see "mumuness" in the Korean movies wey I dey take hold body since an anon said dem sef dey mumu(something I didn't care about/ notice cos I watch because of their mumu love ) Now, I don dey question myself. I roll my eyes most times.
    All of them na the same

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    1. I got tired of Korean series too their mumuness too much. Very dramatic gosh! and it's so annoying to me. When you want to watch their movies you go just comot your brain keep for one side dey watch am like small pikin.
      Since I switched to American series I don't have any reason to be angry ๐Ÿ˜ก when watching series. Better storyline, advanced technology any genre you want you can find me my favorites are medieval series, college series, FBI thriller series involving espionage and spy's working inside trying to sabotage the security of the nation

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    2. You nailed it chichi! I love Hollywood movies but as things are, I said I should be watching "mumu love" movies o but my brain don dey complain ๐Ÿ˜Ž

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  44. Good afternoon SDK and BVs. Its a rainy Friday. SDK,till after a week before,I can be sure,you're cured of zeeone addiction. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„. Zeeone is your past time.

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  45. African mothers will bรชat u mercilessly and later finds out that u are not the one that broke the the drinking glass, they will never ever apologise to you ๐Ÿ™ƒthey will be like come , don't tell me you are still shedding tears because of this small thing I bรชรกt u, abeg how una dey measure small and big bรจร ting๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝ‍๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…
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    Good afternoon everyone TGIF๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’Ÿ๐Ÿ’—❤๐Ÿ’ž๐Ÿ’“๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜

    People are going through a lot ooo,when you hear another person story you will thank God for your own. Me na money i need,once alert enter my mood go change automatically.

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  46. Good afternoon beautiful people, Stella please I need pot stew.

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  47. This is a great tip I heard and wanted to share…

    Put your car keys beside your bed at night. If you hear a noise outside your home or someone trying to get in your house, just press the panic button for your car. The alarm will be set off, and the horn will continue to sound until either you turn it off or the car battery dies.

    Next time you come home for the night and start to put your keys away, think of this: It's a security alarm system that you probably already have and requires no installation. Test it.

    It will go off from most everywhere inside your house and will keep honking until your battery runs down or until you reset it with the button on the key fob chain. It works if you park in your driveway or garage.

    If your car alarm goes off when someone is trying to break into your house, odds are the intruder won't stick around. After a few seconds, all the neighbors will be looking out their windows to see who is out there and sure enough the criminal won't want that.

    And remember to carry your keys while walking to your car in a parking lot. The alarm can work the same way there. This is something that should really be shared with everyone.

    P.S. Would also be useful for any emergency, such as a heart attack, where you can't reach a phone. My friends mom has suggested it to her Dad that he carry his car keys with him in case he falls outside and she doesn't hear him. He can activate the car alarm and then she'll know there's a problem.

    This may save a life!
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  48. Good afternoon everyone ๐Ÿฅฐ

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  49. Onichabor Christopher28 June 2024 at 14:47

    Good day bvs, howz the go dey, the sign out meme is on point, enjoy the rest of your day

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  50. Good afternoon my fellow Bvs and you too Stella, make I answer your question first, Yes ooo, there is a church that wears a lemon coloured (And the enemies submitted) apron all the time, anywhere and everywhere. They also have a slogan that says "Heaven at last". Thank God the wife of that man did not get brainwashed like her husband, that is how she would have lost her live and that of the babies.
    Also, I believe Depression can come in any form depending on the emotions of the individual involved. What Individual A is capable of withstanding might be depressing for individual B and not necessarily about having money and love.
    Lastly, I do not know if to say congratulations or not to Stella on the zeeone matter. In all, do what suits you. Enjoy the rest of the day my fellow BVs.

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  51. Good afternoon everyone

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  52. Stella that church has a very big headquarters in Ijesha Lagos. Their pastor wears Italian suits and shoes while the members always look wretched.

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  53. Good afternoon sdk family

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  54. Onichabor Christopher28 June 2024 at 14:58

    Pinky , take am easy my brother, this one who say you go deal with madam, easy rara
    Have peace and u na do

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  55. Stella, you don tire for zeeone? Hahahahahahaha ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ. Who can tell? If you need Kdrama recommendations, I'm here for you, okay??? ๐Ÿ˜‰



    Y'all enjoy the rest of the day ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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  56. Good afternoon Bvs☺️
    Congratulations to your son Bv Morayo, more celebration in your family๐Ÿ’ƒ
    I never understood depression or sometimes say I can't imagine taking my life until last year.
    My faith was tested, my hope was dashed, life held no meaning
    I am glad that I didn't take my life,I am still battling with it but with prayers, a better mindset and supportive people.
    If you didn't get support(speaking more of emotional, listening ear)from one person, move on to the next cos there are still good people.
    May God bless everyone that held me and still holding me.

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  57. Stella, the way you saying you won't watch zeeone again I no believe you. You go still watch am. When you will get tired, you won't even tell anyone sef๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

    Ehnh, the church that wears that lemon apron, it's a very popular church nah. Thank God the woman gave her self brain and called her brothers.

    The rain is not backing down at all o. I can't even go and pick my son๐Ÿ˜”

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  58. The bv that recommended the movie series "Just Us Girls", thanks a bunch! I enjoyed the series ๐Ÿค—. Sadly, they are what plays out in our everyday lives and relationships. Just God standard is the best ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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      I really enjoyed the movie

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  59. @gist.. Thank God for the woman's safe delivery oh.. Na Lords choosen member be the husband

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  60. It's pineapple season my people, Made cold pineapple and ginger drink this afternoon,so yummy ๐Ÿ˜‹ my madam really enjoyed it, please are all these zobo sweetners safe?

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    1. Fruits are preferable to the sweeteners. Put enough pineapple and you will enjoy it.

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  61. I don't know if it's depression or mental break down.When I was going through my divorce,the betrayal,lies,humiliation and embarrassment almost turned me into something else.
    I was tired of God because I was a daughter of God,I kept asking him why would he allow this happen to me,so my service to God and humanity was nothing.
    I lost weight,I had low blood pressure,severe acne and insomnia but the funny thing was that the more I hated my ex,swearing and cursing,this guy was doing well as at then and the more I hated myself.
    Deleted my phone contact,left social media was only using whatsapps,stopped praying and so many things.
    Until I was just checking people's status and I read,JOB,SERAH and some other names in the bible didn't offend God but he made pass through difficult times,that moment I cried my eyes out,that for 3days I had a bad head ache and dark eye patch till today.

    I asked God for forgiveness,asked him to help me forgive this guy because my life revolved around him and our child looks exactly like him,so,it's just God that can help me erase his memory.I started reading my Bible, listening to spiritual messages and I stumbled on sdk blog and since then I have been healed.Although once in while when he brings his Choco,I get really upset but I don't curse or swear,I just try and stay calm.

    My family and extended family did alot for me,they still help once in a while.

    I am not where I ought to be but I am grateful to God.

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    1. Awwwww...... May God always see you. You will be fine, hon. God is your strength.

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  62. I finally went for d family planning today....d nurse said I should start with d Depo injection of 3months....she said I might want to still give birth in future...

    I spent 1k total for all...I am hoping it will work well with my body system...
    Thanks all for ur suggestions ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™.

    Stella, 5k can buy a module of rice(#2300) and a mudu of beans(2700).

    Good afternoon lovelies ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿฅฐ

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  63. On depression
    Sometimes when things don't go the way you envisage it, can trigger mood swings and if care is not taken, depression can come in, when my goods came in and my bank that promised to clear it for me said they changed their policy that very week in 2022 it came in, for 3 months, they were in Apapa port. Anytime the warehouse sends me demurrage amount weekly, my heart seems to stop racing till it led to low blood pressure, I eventually landed in coma, but God being faithful, when I was discharged from the hospital, rent was starting at me, school fees was starring at me, demurrage was starring at me, but God sent a helper, a neighbour on the same street that cleared it for me, I started paying small small as I dey sell.
    It takes grace not be depressed when things are hanging.

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  64. Many haunted houses have been found to contain a high levels of carbon monoxide or other poisons which can cause hallucinations. The carbon monoxide theory explains why haunted houses are often older houses, as they are more likely to contain aging and defective appliances that can leak this dangerous gas.

    ©️ Weirdfacts.com



    Me: Haunted houses in Nigeria, na evil spirits dey cause am.

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  65. Good afternoon fam
    @Gist poster,that's why I think most people are just religious and not truly born again,some things are pure obsession.
    Depression is real o,I feel for my mum cos she is just getting leaner everyday,her own is that her children don't have good jobs and the ladies not getting married,coupled with the loss of her eldest son who was the bread winner of the family.I believe things will get better by God's grace.

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  66. Finally Stella is leaving zeeone๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ
    So many things can cause depression oo, but thank God for this blog and other platforms I have learnt a lot, whenever depression is trying to set in me, I quickly wave it out and tell myself that I am still young, my future is still bright and my dream can still come through Alhamdulillah ๐Ÿ™
    It's Friday guysss ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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  67. Morayo, hearty congratulations to your boy, mehn I can understand your feelings ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฅฐ. God bless you and yours. Enjoy my dear

    Simply Divine

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  68. Hello ihn ๐Ÿ˜˜
    The rain has started here o chai my clothes aren't dry yet but it's all good.

    Stella, yes o there's a church here that their members go about with apron. Green apron to be precise. Make I no call name, they know themselves ๐Ÿ˜

    Chai Stella you don finally tire for zeeone๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ when I saw your "zeeoneunadeycraze" hashtag few days ago,I never say e go soon happen๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

    Gist poster, I like the woman's brothers already. Christainity no be madness.

    Bvs I salute you all.
    E go surely be ✌️

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  69. I don't think I am depressed but I am sad, lonely and full of regrets. I am finally ending my marriage.

    I am presently looking for apartment and I will be moving out after my child's examination.

    I should have left a long time ago but I was hoping things will get better .

    I am tired of the emotional abuse and constant reminder that I have no family to run to.

    It has been miscarriages upon miscarriages after my first child but he is not concerned,I went through the phase alone and I am tired of trying.

    I am starting my life afresh and I pray for God's guidance and protection.

    Stella please don't post if I am not anonymous.

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  70. Still on the grind this yesterday. Stella I need a pot of tomatoes stew I don tire for pawpaw stew as I no get money buy tomatoes again. But having a pot of tomatoes stew this Sunday for the kids would be a delight. Abey help me beg the government to add business loan for some workers. Good day every one.

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  71. I know with zeeworld once you see finish naa to stop and move on to other things remain. Some of us here stop watching zeeworld at one point also.
    Naa only lack of money dey make me depress o that even right now if I see 5k my depression go disappear. Everything just cost!
    One church like that use the lemon apron. Even if they are going to work they put am but I never know it reach fanatic. Thank God for the pregnant woman that quickly borrowed herself brain, her life would have just been wasted for nothing.

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  72. Lol at their Mumu behaviour ๐Ÿคฃ ๐Ÿ˜‚.
    Zeeworld you do this one ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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  73. I have been very depressed for the past month cos I'm owing at my place of work.
    I tot I'll be able to pay and have been paying interest for the past 2 months and this is the third month yet I've not been able to raise money to clear the loan.
    I'm counting down to this last week in fear of being arrested, shamed, sacked and whatever punishment will be meeted to me.
    I just live in fear every day. At the close of work for the past two weeks, I just close my door and cry till late in the evening before I go home to meet my kids.
    I'm happy for 5 minutes and sad for 23 hours 55, minutes every day.
    God if I survive this, I will never borrow again

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  74. And the fact that I've not paid my children's school fees , graduation fee is so depressing.
    Everyday I return, my son will ask if I have bought his black trousers and white shirt and I just go in and cry .
    I used to always provide before but things aren't the same anymore.
    I feel like I failed them.

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  75. Good afternoon all. Miss Ess we thank God. Her healing is permanent in Jesus name .Amen
    That sign out meme is on point.

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  76. Good afternoon everyone
    The rain today nawa ooo
    I'm so cold ๐Ÿฅถ๐Ÿฅถ๐Ÿฅถ
    Stella 5k can go a long way
    I pray for people going through alots this period...may the lord come through for us all
    Not easy at all

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  77. That gist up there got me laughing at some point. How gullible can some people be ehhn? Men and brethren, make we dey try know God for ourselves ohh.

    Depression is real, at a point in my life i almost fell into it, but God said, No my child๐Ÿ˜Š.

    Sign out meme๐Ÿ‘Œ

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  78. I came late today. I just sat make I rejoice. Stella has finally been delivered. Hallelujah!

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