Hmmm......
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDED
Please if you and your partner have an issue where trust is broken and the person is willing to move on, is it advisable to stay or just leave the relationship? Especially when the person in question is very calculated and doesn’t take hurt lightly .
Hmmm, no need to stay or beg oh, just move on for your mental health cos this person will break you down into pieces and dump you just when you think things are OK:
I think I will need more details before I can drop any advice.
ReplyDeleteIf the person moves on, follow the person and move on, don't look back.
DeleteMao Akuh
Poster if you don’t take this Stella’s advice you will learn the hard way.
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
This is not marriage but relationship. JUST MOVE ON.
ReplyDeleteShe never said it was marriage she just said partner and it could be any kind of partnership. Business, intimate, marriage or just merely a romantic relationship. The people in such kind of relationships are called partners.
DeleteSince your partner is not ready to put in any effort again, then you should also do same.....Move On
ReplyDeleteI’m in this situation and will be reading comments
ReplyDeleteMove on move on don't the tired.... ..
ReplyDeleteRelationship is a mutual agreement; if one person is ready to opt- out then you can't say you want to stay in the relationship.....With who exactly are you in a relationship with.....
ReplyDeleteThe person has placed his cards on the table and he/she has decided to fold....So just learn your lessons from it, walk majestically out & keep your head up....
May the love that you seek find you...
All the best
Closed chapter is CLOSED. Better bid farewell to him/her.
ReplyDeleteFor a lot,when TRUST is broken,Sorry means nothing.
ReplyDeleteYou are only sorry because you were caught,if you weren't;would you have apologized?
So move on,else you would be used and discarded when you have fulfilled the reason you were kept after the betrayal.
When you are with your next lover,do what is right even when no one is watching,that's Integrity,Love and loyalty.
@MARTINS
The person does not take hurt lightly means, this person will always remind you of what you did.
ReplyDeleteAre u ready to stay in such relationship?
Wetin you do?
ReplyDeleteMiss Aboki, u r a very intelligent person. See as she carefully worded her chronicle and avoided to even give a hint at what she did, rather from her choice of words she painted the partner as an unforgiving person, refusing to let go of hurt. She cud have said she betrayed his trust and he told her from the beginning that breaking his trust is a deal breaker for him. But mba, the partner is bad, she is a saint.
DeleteWhy do we think or how did we know the Poster is a she?
DeleteStyle of writing?
Use of Partner?
Use of relationship?
Someone that doesn't let go, babe run, even if u stay you can't enjoy that relationship again
ReplyDeleteJust leave the relationship. He is willing to move on, no need to stay back yourself. Put it all behind you and move on too. Life goes on.
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing impossible with God. And there's also no harm in trying.
ReplyDeleteWisdom is also profitable to direct.
Just move on. You already stated the odds. The person is extremely unforgiving. I always pray not ever meet such people. When they start,to recount what you did over a decade ago,you will be confused,if it was just yesterday,it happened. 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteMy dear, it leaves a sour taste in the mouth. The danger in that is you start to walk on eggshells so that you don't do anything that will be brought to your remembrance. Its a tough road to follow. If you have the chance to take another turn, pls do.
DeleteBlogbrity because this writer painted the partner as unforgiving by saying he refuses to let go of hurt?? Hav u not noticed hw she tactically avoided using same kind of words for her own part of the relationship prblm? She just said if trust is broken. What if she betrayed him? What if she cheated on him and he no longer trusts her? What if from the onset he told her breaking his trust is a deal breaker for him and he wud move on if it happens? She avoided all those details.
DeleteSincerely apologize...
ReplyDeleteDon't try to fix it...
Move on !
If the person is willing to move on, biko do the same. Never beg anyone to stay with you
ReplyDeleteYeah that's right no need staying. it would be a waste of time
DeleteMe self go ask wetin you talk
ReplyDeleteThe body language you drop
You know some people are too extremely sensitive ooo
It is well oooo..
Hello iya Boys
Which kind chronicle be this?
ReplyDeleteNo head or tail.
I can't deal, abegg.🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️
You would only be wasting your time. Don't ever stay where you are not wanted. Always protect your self esteem and worth at all cost
ReplyDeleteIs better to move on poster because they don't actually forgive and forget, they always use it to torture you in future, use it against you and make you miserable. Please move on for your peace of mind.
ReplyDeleteTake Martins, Stella & some other BVs that gave you similar advice.
ReplyDeleteThe Most Complex
Trust once broken is the most difficult thing to rebuild in any relationship. I do not think anyone comes back to the 100% trust they once had, most that decide to remain just learn a way of coping and adjusting.
ReplyDeleteYou have to know what your personal limits are and how much you can handle. Also remember that we teach ppl how to treat us by what we choose to accept from them.
Bye bye to yeye partner 🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteNever have I seen someone so evasive yet desiring counsel. Well, Martin's advice should suffice.
ReplyDeleteWhy are we automatically assuming ithat 1) it's a woman 2) it's a romantic relationship. Or is assumed that all chronicles are sent in by women and every chronicle is man/woman relationship which we all know is far from the truth. Whatever the case the chronicle is enough to elicit a response. See BVs waiting for salacious gist. Poster has been well advised... move on. No one forgets. We all have our non-negotiables, The hurt party will seek to make you suffer and rub the wrongdoing in your face at every turn till you become an emotional wreck.
ReplyDeleteMy ex has broken my trust completely. He just recently started begging, but if I ever consider going back, the work he will put it to regain that trust ehn, I doubt if he can meet up
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